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Kingston Ontario and I'll pass along her Kik... 1) who uses Kik 2) is anyone gonna have problems finding a bondage slave in southern ontario
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:47 PM
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You might not think it matters all that much, but they do. They're always conscious of it, when they get to 30. Hyperaware of being around younger and prettier girls. My longtime oneitis, now ex, is now 30, and the change is startling in the way she thinks. The Wall is real.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:24 PM
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Sometimes looks can be deceiving. Sure IDC Meet me @ bla bla Bar tonight at 7 I'm just playing hard to get. I haven't told you what I want
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:08 PM
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I feel like you got into a meaningless argument about red pill theory rather than demonstrating your boundaries ala red pill praxis. Hence, rock salt for the puss. You could've just said, to her initial "Then how should a date work, O great one" line, something like "I'll show you tonight at 7" or "Gents never kiss and tell" or "You think I can trust you with my greatest secrets?!" or "bring da movies" or any motherfucking thing on earth, instead of trying to prove a point. Remember, the more yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:00 PM
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Ahahaha. We don't fuck around with illusions here, boys.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:20 AM
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Some of this is heavily rooted in a certain philosophical notion of being, like owning useless things. To the Greeks, the functional is mundane, while the useless is spiritual, transcendent, independent. Hence gold and gay love. Yet most of it is quite beautiful, and a reminder that we need. Independence and a mind for great things - that's what we're after. Oh, and pussy. Plenty of pussy. But only if said pussy is not at an unreasonable price.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 02:16 AM
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Cracking good idea. Use formalism to address the interplay of ideas on the redpill. It's essentially marx/hegel. Break everything down to its economic or physical bases. One class has access to the resource but not control. The other has neither access nor control.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:59 PM
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I can drink half a beer, but everything above it makes me a socially incompetent retard.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:54 PM
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True. But you don't know what it's like to sleep on a cooling Tempurpedic until you've tried it. Cheap memory foam mattresses are exponentially better than pillow tops or old-style spring mattresses of any type. But the premo memory foam, shit is like pure heroin.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:52 PM
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I got my dream job. It took me a few months of searching and jumping through hoops, but I work for the most exclusive credit card in the world, make decent money, great benefits, and I work from my front room in lovely Buffalo, NY. I got rid of my goddamn ex. Now I must lift. Thank you, TRP. You made me realize that you must SUFFER to have anything nice, and do it with a cocky, self-possessed, dickhead, Roosh-looking smirk on your face.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 03:07 PM
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You bitched out. Two words: dread game. Pass some shit tests, work on your mission, make her cream her panties. If not, you can easily make others cream theirs.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:52 AM
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In general, I agree with you. However, The correlation between serotonin release and temporary status is well-documented. Taleb writes about it in context of stock traders. Guys who are on a roll have higher serotonin, walk taller, speak deeper, and expect to be listened to. Guys who are barely afloat walk small and put forward their ideas with trepidation. His point, in the book, is to show that many of these winning strategies are only winners because of the 'random' context of the current mar…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:20 AM
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Bro, so much of that describes your emotional illnesses - like NPD, Borderline, other cluster B - and so little of it describes 'innate traits'. You can't palm off your fears and difficulties on Meyers-Briggs. You CAN lead, and you CAN be an alpha, and whatever else. It's not difficult. Leaders and alphas don't have some mysterious magic. They have discipline, self-belief, self-value, and a little bit of insight. You telling me that genetics has barred you from achieving those traits? They might…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 11:47 PM
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Why destroy the system? It made us and made us strong. The people need illusions. Illusions sustain society. We are the flip side of the coin, but "The exception should take care of the rule, and beware of trying to make the rule after the exception." - Nietzsche
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 08:35 PM
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I admit when I'm wrong, affirm and amplify when I'm criticized, and make fun of her heavily whenever she goes off the rails. Seems to work.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 10:23 PM
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"An able craftsman or scholar cuts a fine figure when he takes pride in his art and looks on life content and satisfied. But nothing looks more wretched than when a shoemaker or schoolmaster gives us to understand with a suffering mien that he was really born for something better. There is nothing better than what is good-- and good is having some ability and using that to create." - Nietzsche, The Will to Power
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 11:07 AM
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His whole thing was about how nihilism was consuming us and how to fight it
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:54 PM
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Women are transparent. She wants to go on fucking OP but no relationship. She wants to relationship other dude. My guess is that other dude offers her resources and social legitimacy that OP cannot, but is lackluster in the bed, and probably nice, otherwise she wouldn't be banging OP, she would have fully branch swung. She probably married OP because of attraction, spent her whole life with dudes because of attraction, only to find herself unhappy. So now, she's decided "fuck men, I'm out for me…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:48 PM
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I would make fifty ghost accounts just to upvote this. People should treasure their learning curve. Those who don't are the ones who don't want to fucking try. Too painful. Too scary. What's the point in it, anyway? Funny OP mentioned Nietzsche, cuz it seems we spend way too much time here just fighting nihilism.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:27 PM
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There's still a tradeoff. You can be a handsome loser. I've seen it. They still have to have a modicum of masculinity and whatnot to be chad. An ugly dude can still get hella women with lifting and psychosocial dominance. We all are born with advantages and disadvantages. Your failures and limitations define you as a person as much as your successes and your gifts. I personally have never been able to accept being a loser. If xxx can do it, so the fuck can I. Whether it's athletics, or women, or…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:24 PM
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I nod my head and say "You poor thing" and "poor little cupcake." Advice is only for those who can handle it. Being taken seriously is only for those who deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:06 PM
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Too true. Good post. Codependent-fixers are just inverted narcissists. They use their own victimization scripts for supply, as well as virtue, "good deeds" for others, and gaslight, goalpost, etc. to maintain that. The only real way out is to become very comfortable with your own negative feelings. Don't let them rule you. That's what bravery is: facing uncomfortable and scary situations, instead of running or diverting from them. A lot of people here could learn a lot from this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:03 PM
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Looks like she's searching for beta bux. Other guy and his "religious compatibility." Probably at the wall. She wants to keep OP and his assfucking as the AF on the side. I think she's hitting that age where she's trying to jump OFF the carousel. Her own hamster version of discovering TRP truths.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:57 PM
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Been there kiddo. The chick wants to split both ends. Date the guy and fuck you on the side. Dunno why. Possibly cuz he's more of a BB than you are, and she's at that age where "religious compatibility" aka a nice guy who can marry and put credit cards in her pocket, matters more than getting dicked down. She still wants to get dicked down though, of course. She ghosted you cuz she's ashamed and shes trying to reinstate power. Fuck that. Read the bitch management guide on sidebar. She's demoted …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:53 PM
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Nice post. Love whatever you want to love. You can't stop feeling. Feelings are like kids. They just want to be listened to. Shove em down in the basement, lock em up, and they'll come out screaming and crazy, breaking shit. You don't have to FOLLOW your feelings. You do have to feel them. It's okay to feel. Acknowledge them. Then, do whatever the fuck you want. RSD Tyler talks about this. Having an inner child. One of the big reasons we don't let bitches walk on us or guys punk us out is becaus…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:28 PM
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You're right. I was just being shitty and angry. She doesn't get a relationship again, though, so there's that. I just wanted to fuck her and homeboy's life up, with my newfound powers, cuz I was (am?) childish.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:26 PM
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That's the hugest thing. Admitting your own flaws, copping to reality, IS what makes us Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:19 PM
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Blue pill itself is a reaction to red pill realities. Everyone everywhere, to whatever level, wittingly or no, has to deal with these realities.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:07 PM
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Lmao. Ecclesiastes and also the Song of Songs. Ecclesiastes is about the meaninglessness of life, when you have everything you could want, and what the correct response to that is. In a sense, very similar to Buddhism.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:04 PM
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The story goes that death and suffering were hidden from him during his youth. So when he saw an old man, a sick man, and a dead man, he realized that no amount of anything could conquer that basic biological fact, and he set about trying to confront it. Along the way, he experienced every form of asceticism, mysticism, and philosophy that that Golden Age had to offer, and realized that Hindu philosophy was full of shit; people believed in comfortable illusions to prop themselves, and the social…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:02 PM
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The Tibetans say he could manifest in different bodies and fuck 64 chicks at once
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:57 PM
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Number 1: learn about passing shit tests. Number 2: learn about teasing and mixed compliments. Number 3: learn about abundance mentality and when to cue your IDGAF.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:17 PM
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Yeah man. The comfort tests. That shit really threw me. My ex cheated on me with a perceived alpha guy a couple years ago, we split up. Turns out he's beta as fuck. So I made it my duty to fuck her right back and destroy their (un)happy relationship. Welp. Anger phase. Was not at all prepared for the jealousy and comfort tests. Every time my phone goes off, every time I go to the store or the gym, every time I don't respond to her texts, I am fucking some slut. Didn't discourage it much, cuz it …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:15 PM
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Whoa. I'm not the natural elite. Far from it. But it's not particularly hard to get in the top 20% of your social group, unless you hang out with George Clooney. Honestly, I have more problems with jealousy from my "friends' than I do with finding women. They don't want to be redpilled, either. They want you to justify their shitty egos and give them some excuse for why pussy seems so much more comfortable around you. Interacting with the beta is an important topic. You yourself don't have to be…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 06:10 PM
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Good stuff. I'd like to see more on fluidity.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 05:51 PM
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Your anger response is based on beliefs. Your beliefs can change.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 05:50 PM
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I had a similar situation recently. Only, ironically, the guy was hanging out with her too much where she works. Tough guy, good looking, Puerto Rican dude, but he's spending 4+ hours a day just hanging out aimlessly at her store. Silica gel for the pussy. Cling cling like glad wrap, hopeless mate guarding. She had turned me down before, well, put me on hold, to see where it went with the bf. Now she's texting me looking to hook up. No thanks. Maybe I'm not as red as I think.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:30 AM
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Daughters are rough. I got one of those too. She likes to moralize and get in other people's lives. Best response, imho, is amused mastery. "Dad, you're such a loser. Why are you always with different women?" "Aw, cupcake, are you jealous?" "Dad, stop letting my brother hit me. You never punish him. You're so irresponsible!" "We can't all be the Lord God of internet wisdom, sweetie." "Dad, stop ignoring me! Don't you care about me at all?" "I care about you learning to be a good woman. Now go ma…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:22 AM
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I like how "Fuck the oversensitive" was a bullet point under "Who needs acceptance"
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I would. But then the borderline signals are then even more troubling in context. I see where you were going with this. My advice is to keep your attention valued. I.e. don't feed into it or defend yourself when you hang out with other people. "I'm gonna hang out with xx. What are you scared Im gonna fuck him/her?" Use a little dread game, don't explain where you're going all the time. Stay calm when she flips shit. 101 stuff. Also, tease her a little. From the way you said it, I get the f…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:15 PM
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Same difference bro. But yes.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:22 PM
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http://sarah.thesharps.us/2015/10/05/closing-a-door/ Sarah Sharp's memorandum on quitting. One of the things I love about TRP is its brutal criticism. We are men; we don't suffer fools lightly. You can post whatever you want, and believe whatever you want, but we're damn sure going to test you to see if your belief holds up. We don't praise others lightly for the same reason we don't slop paints on a canvas and call it Michaelangelo. Sure, we cut slack to lost souls and fresh pillers. We suffer …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:17 PM
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Stop being a bitch man. If you can't gain, increase your calories. Stop eating sugar and spiking your insulin. Quit smoking and don't drink more than once a week. Check out a paleo type diet. Intermittent fasting is like God's own trick for gaining muscle, IF your calorie consumption is high enough. Go do the John Berardi calculator on T-Nation to find out how many cals you should be eating. Don't make excuses. If you have it harder than others, that just means you're blessed with greater trials…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:59 PM
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There's 911 upvotes. Conspiracy alert
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:59 PM
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I'd have started calling her "baby." "Oh you like that, little baby? I'm gonna fucking kill you."
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:40 PM
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You don't need two people to be aware of it. Women can't really be aware of it. When it comes down to thrills and chills, no female is going to look in the mirror and say, "Welp, that's that hypergamy making me do xx and yy again." She's going to rationalize the course of behavior that makes her feel good. If anything, TRP theory could become an excuse in the rationalization toolbox. Best possible outcome of an LTR is to have a male who is an alpha provider, and gives no fucks; pursuing his own …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:33 PM
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"I know she loves me" Famous last words bro. You know how you know she loves you? When she flips out cuz another girl is texting your phone, or when she cries herself to sleep cuz you're not responding and she doesn't know where you are. Does she snuggle up to you unbidden? Pick a smudge off your clothes in public? Wear slutty outfits when you ask her to? Cook dinner, clean, and show genuine concern for your time and the shit you've gotta do? How about anal? Now, if that's all a yes, then I'd ag…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:20 PM
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Which part? A lot of the stuff about speech functions is postmodernist, difficult, and filled with obscurity and fluff. Jakobson is a great resource for the functions of speech, Lacan (Zizek's essays on Lacan on Lacan.org in particular) is great for psychoanalysizing the way people think and talk, George Lakoff's More Than Cool Reason and Metaphors We Live By are more modern, scientific analyses of the way we think and speak. Wittgenstein's Philosophical Investigations is of course the granddadd…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:44 PM
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You know, I should just stop using examples from life, people always tell me I'm bragging or making shit up. I thought it made it more relatable. And dont hurt my feelings. I have a terrible mom, she never made me pancakes.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:16 PM
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I think you missed the point bro. It's not about being cool. It's about not letting your cool take you out. But I think you have a point, I'll take it under advisement. Much love
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:10 PM
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Bro, you don't get Young Thug. I might be worried about 6Lack, Blackbear, gnash, and Drake. But Thug is gangster. Way more gangster than the norm. That's exactly why he can wear a dress in such a lane. Prince wore such things too, and Prince was a legendary womanizer and general alpha. You see, if we see a man in a dress, we assume they're weak and broken. Rightly so. But if we see a strong man in a dress, we have the same assumption, and it creates a contradiction in our mind. Then, when the co…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:00 AM
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Dudes, I had the opposite experience. I no tapped for years, jacking off only once a month at most. I found myself desperate to get pussy, and breaking frame, getting emotional over my ex. After I started jacking off again, forcing myself or using porn when I didn't feel like it (I don't like masturbating, it makes me feel kinda icky and lame), I started behaving with no fucks. Sexuality was under my control. I fuck my ex when I feel like it, fuck a plate when I feel like it, ignore them and do …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:06 PM
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Islam sucks. I have a theory that hypergamy is best for producing real alpha characteristics, just like scarcity produces efficient machines. In places where social alpha codes have eclipsed natural alphaness, men are spoiled and weak, and honor kill as a last extremity to prevent females from having desire. I called spoiled Prince syndrome. When you grow up with expectations unattached to responsibilities, with your mother and sisters waiting on you, washing your hair, cooking you breakfast on …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:55 PM
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A girl tried to draw me into a convo about politics the other day. Then philosophy, sensing that's what I'm into. Give that bitch just enough fuel for her ego and then go back to teasing her. Girls aren't for proving something to. They're for pushing on the bed, tickling, smacking in the ass, and rolling your eyes at her secret slutty desires. I guess the further you go, the more the basics get lost in translation.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:37 PM
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Chad can LARP. Question is, why would he want to? You usually don't go out on a high branch until you've failed somehow on the lower branches. Same goes for philosophy and science. Would I have learned Heidegger had I not been a round peg? But let's not forget, there are different standards for a and b. A cooking dinner is a sexy guy doing something sweet, B cooking dinner is making a mess in her kitchen. Chad can LARP. Prince can wear a dress. Most Chads just have no fucking reason to.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:33 PM
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Hmm. I think that's a cool paradigm. I don't think people should take the advice willy-nilly, though. I know a very beta guy who likes to gag and assfuck his girl as a way to show dominance, because he is so prickly, egotistical, weak, and generally undominant otherwise. He sounds like... well, like a girl. Needless to say, they may enjoy it in the moment, but it doesn't increase their level of respect for him. If anything, it decreases it through contrast. Aka "he can't handle my emotions and s…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:28 PM
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That's bone. And the lettering is something called Silian Braille.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:11 PM
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Nice response. I like you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:35 AM
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I'm continually amazed at how much whiny, holier-than-thou, critical, ego-justification bullshit there is in these responses. I don't care how many chicks you've bagged or how much you make, you are here to learn and to improve. Humility is confidence. That other shit is nothing but a weak ego desperately fighting off judgement and shame.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:32 AM
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Serotonin increases when you do well. This leads to dominant manners of speaking, walking, and standing. It's a loop. You've just found out how to cut into the loop artificially.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:27 AM
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Why? You mad cuz I'm not staring at you?*tm
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:17 PM
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Art of War is good. Overrated, but good. You think the Tao te ching is useless poems too?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:39 PM
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Calcium supplementation is bad. Try K2.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:44 PM
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Sure. It means that when you've achieved your goals, girls wanting to cling onto you and get you into a relationship is a much bigger headache than girls trying to leave you and branch swing. This is because you have supply. Its a bigger pain in the ass to lose plates over them liking you too much than them not liking you, if you have other girls in the wings. After all, it takes a certain amount of cost in time/training and time/selection to get good plates.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:16 PM
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I shared TRP with a girl at my work. Shes a young, married lesbian and I felt bad for her. She turned around and started crushing on me hard. Wearing makeup, clothes and diet improving, drawing me little pictures, etc. Other females at my work have noticed. No game involved. Just a little advice. Gay is not a reality, at least for sexually eligible females.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 01:16 AM
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No. I mean, I agree, but you're visualizing the wrong thing. McGregs visualizes landing the drop left hook on Jose, not the belt ceremony. Visualization gives you an advantage because your brain thinks it's real. It's not psychic powers. It's training. And you train the process, not the result.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 01:48 AM
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Donovan Sharpe, a legend in his own time. That part where you discussed your mother on the podcast with O'Shay shall live in my mind forever in infamy. Def some insightful food for thought. Gotta admit, though, I was surprised that you are black.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:28 PM
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Know what hurts? Not having your girl attracted to you cuz you lack the secret powers of dread game.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:05 AM
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Lao Tzu didnt say that. It is avery Taoist thought, though, wouldnt siurprise me if it came from Chuang Tzu or Sun Tzu or whoever.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:47 AM
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It makes it hard cuz nexting her and moving on TRP style was a sure way of getting her to stress me and want my approval.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:59 PM
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Youre right. This applies to me. Im dating, doing my TRP plan, rolling hard with no regard. My ex has a new man. Yet, Im still fucking her. On occasion. Told myself I dont want a relationship. Yeah...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:57 PM
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I second that. This sub brought me to sales. Got a job for 13 an hour working leads. After 3 months, got another job selling mattresses. This place offered me multiple jobs, before finally offering to create a manager job and pay me almost double to stay. Dread game. All the women there want to fuck me, too... And this just boosted that SMV like wild. Ive got a married lesbian wearing eyeliner and escalating comments from "hes gonna sell beds to thots" to joking about wanting to touch me. Too ba…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:16 AM
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If you can fall in love/soulmate/oneitis multiple girls, if each new girl is 'the only one', youre loving with your need. Youre hanging your vulnerability and image of desire on anyone who is pretty and acknowledges you. Its cuz you like feeling special. But youre a lot more special than any pair of tits can show you... Mr poetic, you should know, nobody is ever gonna really get it or give a fuck unless you make them. You are the wondrous thing here, and its solely on you to find out and show ex…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 02:49 PM
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I'm not sure. It's a carefully balanced art that has to be constructed intuitively. Calm and Relaxed IS dominant. Aka the frustration theory of aggression. Watch Charisma on Command's video on Robert Downey Jr. A lot of it is learning how to create tension in others - deadpan jokes, not releasing tension when you tease, calmly sneaking in offhanded challenges to what someone is doing, etc. For example, someone is getting up in my space. Rather than get angry and in their face and demonstrate tha…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 06:00 PM
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I personally learned from a Real Estate agent who is a client of ours. Ive been lucky to receive coaching from some of the top sales coaches in the industry. Yes sets, agree and reiterate, a lot of sales stuff is the same as pickup. Pickup is really just selling yourself as a sex object.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:54 PM
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Awesome to see this covered here. Yet, the idea that the rules are dictated by the exceptions is mostly wrong, and certainly not Nietzschean. It is the weak, the slaves, who are enamored of rules. In the beginning of social order, rules are set in place to restrict the power of the strong and smart through agreement and the advantage of numeracy. The story of the evolution of society is a story of the progressive takeover of the weak.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:48 AM
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Depends on what kind of dance you do. After a life of dancelessness, I found that my martial arts experience, combined with observation - watching people, rap videos - was enough to start owning the local dance floor in a matter of days, once i gave myself permission.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 10:44 PM
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That is the definition of beta. Red pill is all, and only, about facing the scary truth.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:48 AM
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Seduction is harassment that the seducee appreciates. - Zizek. Why are rapists so disgusting to our political morality? They take what should be taken without 'getting it' and thus having no right to do so.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:45 AM
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Mixed. You are right and also off the mark. Alpha's not about your capacity for physical violence. Think Bonaparte couldve won an MMA match? He had moral courage. That is what those ghetto fearing pseudo-alphas lack. It's their inner fear, their lack, which bugs our BS detector, not whether they can fight or hunt. A tough guy who kills people (I have known personally a few) in the course of battle, whatever, can be controlled by similar crippling fears. A guy who got shot in the chest by a snipe…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:27 AM
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Everyone can benefit from being an asshole. I.e. not taking yourself too seriously, not taking others too seriously, playfully inserting comments that leave people wondering if you're joking or not, passing shit tests with violent yawns of pure indifference. What is this magical status you're supposed to have first? Asshole creates SMV. Status is not a function of your pocketbook and dress.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:58 AM
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You ever hear the saying, that if you think everyone is stupid, chances are it's you?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:54 AM
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Fuck man. Truth. Only thing I disagree with is the SMV law. Having a sexy GF, in my experience, invites as much attention from some women as it discourages it from others. And even the ones who are discouraged secretly want it. Nothing like unavailability to drive the price up.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:29 AM
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You like the intrinsic reward - research and dislike the extrinsic reward - getting published. It's boring and cheap because you just want to solve problems, not play political games to get those solutions into the world. I call this art student syndrome. Kids draw because they love it. They go to college and have all sorts of imposed rubrics and critique and they lose the passion that motivated them in the first place. Solution: learn to intrinsically value the process of jumping the hurdles in…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 02:50 AM
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It goes even deeper. If you get extrinsic reward for an activity, you cheapen that activity. For example, give kids a cookie for coloring, and they make no longer want to color when there are no cookies. Give kids markers, and they will color happily regardless of outcome. Intrinsic motivation is the bees knees, and it is how people make it to the 10,000 hours.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 02:43 AM
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Plenty of people work hard. Plenty of people do not succeed. Work is necessary but not sufficient. Quality over quantity.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 02:38 AM
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I feel you bro. Redefine your relationships. "Yourel a privileged male." "Yes, thank god I have the privilege to tell you to fuck off." "we want to be equals" "You can be an equal when you act like one, not a second before." "when did you become such a dick?" "when I stopped pretending that spoiled little girls deserved respect they didn't earn." They will freak out. They will shit test you with holy fury. Hold frame. They hold no cards and it will take a matter of days before they begin to addr…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:55 AM
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You can draw. I am the most unartistic person on earth. High verbal intelligence, barely above average in spatial ability. In the last year I started to dance. Then I started to sculpt and draw. We are all chameleons. Skill is developed, but simply not giving a fuck if you suck and look stupid will make your kindergarten works look like charming bits of gold. I promise you. The love that you have for it is all the indication I need to assure you that you have the potential to be a great artist
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:39 AM
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Everyone is searching for approval. They want to be cool. Remember mad men? "The purpose of advertising is to tell you that you are okay." I discovered that I did not need anyone to tell me. Fuck cool, I breathe cool. Fuck status, I create status. Fuck everything... Its all me. "In heaven and earth, I alone am the honored one." My goal is to teach people the truth. The kingdom of heaven is at hand. You are already what you are supposed to be. The world is your oyster.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:22 AM
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Some of the most shittiest shitlords I have on my social media are in Cali. We're never going to have an alpha paradise, except right here right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:00 AM
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Ive done MA for years. Wing chun. Boxing. Wrestling and jujitsu. Systema. I'm well rounded and I can walk into any random gym and hang with the best strikers and at least the purple belts in BJJ. My inspiration was having a best friend growing up who was 6'2 and 190. Im 6'1 and 160. Same body type, less muscle, less experience. For years he would beat me. One day I choked him out and a corner was turned. Now I hand him his ass easily with aplomb. He's lucky if he can even get me in closed guard …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:53 AM
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That last part is great. It reminds me pf Systema. There are two ways to do Martial Arts. Hammer on techniques until they become intuitive and you discard them, or encourage intuition and pressure test until people spontaneously create their own techniques.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:52 AM
1

I disagree with the 'under the old social contracts' bit. There is a saying. "When the nation flourishes, the old peasants weep. When the nation perishes, the old peasants laugh and sing." Those social codes are only a stopgap for alpha behavior that has already begun to erode. They are alpha scarecrows, if you like. There is no substitute for genuine alphaness - by which I mean intuitive game and easy self acceptance - and the substitute will, in fact, lead to the further erosion of natural alp…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:30 AM
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If there's an us vs you it's this: You: people who blame the environment Us: people who blame themselves. The first is sucker mentality. The second is winner mentality. Instead of saying "oh why is that hot girl with such a fucking thuggish jerk, doesn't she know a nice guy like me would treat her better," we say "Grats jerk guy. What can I do to learn from you, how can I become better?" This is the common ground between Trump and TRP. It's not the muslim immigrants fault, it's not the elites fa…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:25 AM
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People can fuck whoever they want bro. This is Murica. Shame homos if you want, I don't care. But there is no such thing as natural. There's only the demands of social intercourse, the demands of physics and biology, the demands of logic and language, and the demands of your emotional and egoic needs. Just cuz SJWs miss the demands part doesnt mean that nature said x is true and hallowed forever blah blah. "Nature" is a construct.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:19 AM
1

Thats been a feature of our foreign policy ever since. It is referred to in many pentagon and other documents
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:02 AM
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Canada is the natural resources bank for the US
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:00 AM
6

Fasting is ridiculously beneficial. So are cold showers. So is sleeping on a hard surface. I wouldn't even call that discomfort.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 06:36 PM
2

It's interesting that we are the same age, and in a similar position vis-a-vis the family. From your tone, I always assumed you were a boomer.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 06:35 PM
1

I no-fapped for years. It was hell on my stamina. Began jerking it again, once a day, every day I don't have sex, and it works well for me. Back to stamina central. Doesn't ruin my capacity to have multiple sessions in a night, or affects it very slightly.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:01 PM
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Rousey is not a typical woman. In fact, she herself dislikes that about women. AWALT, I know. Yet this is a story about toxic shame and external approval, to which even the most badass of men can be susceptible. Jose Aldo. McGregs. Anderson Silva. Hell, Roberto Duran... And Duran was the guy who fought Hearns and then Hagler at middleweight, past his prime, after losing to Leonard.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:54 PM
1

Easy. Wait one week, text them and ask them how theyre doing. I didnt forget about you, babe, Ive just been hella busy. Then delete them.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:22 PM
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Exact thing happened to my uncle. Married a cuban chick 20 years his junior. Five years later came the swing. Not that Unc cared. He still gets good looking younger chicks. But money wise, it's a pain. My grandma's pastor had a son who met a chick from some small Caribbean island. Skinny, nerdy white boy versus gorgeous black island beauty. He was smart. He moved to the damn island.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:17 PM
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Even Achilles cried. Then he singlehandedly fought his way through the Trojan army, killed their hero, and dragged his body around the city seven times while mocking them and his eternally restless spirit. Aka, there is no shame in having emotions. You were given emotions for a reason. The point is what you do with them.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 04:01 PM
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A lot of you fuckers seem to be unwilling to risk and/or lose. I haven't been in a fight in years. I view fighting as a sign of weakness rather than strength in many situations. The obverse is also true. If you're afraid or unwilling to fight and lose, there's a hole in your social dominance the size of a VW. It's not about violence, it's about moral hazard. It's about being willing to risk it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:57 PM
3

We got red control of the house and the senate.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:44 PM
2

The way you act. Being seen as having others desire you more thsn you desire others. Passing shit tests. Doing things that others cannot get away with. Being selective with your friendship, compliments, etc. instead of being polite and rapport-seeking to all and sundry.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:16 PM
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You're missing the point, then. What is it that you are missing? I know a lean, muscular, smart, paid (from the streets, as they say) black dude with a huge cock and an enormous social circle. Why is he perceived to be low value and gets no chicks - or worthless dregs - and can't manage the low SMV LTR chicks he does get, when my pasty, skinny, pink bandana wearing ass gets girls jockeying for my attention? Real simple. The way he acts. His own perceived value.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:13 PM
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Women were always like that. The social rituals and protocols that mirror alphaness are no substitute for actual alphaness, and in fact, societies heavy on social code alphaness (the East, for example) often have the most and weakest betas and the most behind-the-scenes female power.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:55 PM
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If youre in mutual company, you gotta cut across that with the classic shot fired across the bow. "Yeah, he's a catch. So is your friend Melissa here. Maybe we should hook 'em up. If I don't get to her first." Smile/eye contact/whatever at Melissa. AKA Fuck your SMV, don't forget how much my SMV confirms yours. You don't have to play it that hard, but as far as I'm concerned, she went nuclear with that comment. Goal: You should always be perceived as less jealous than your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:48 PM
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No, buddy. They only care about themselves. Self-care turns into other care. Just like with men. The difference is not in how men love vs how women love, so much as it is the difference between how men want to be loved vs. how women actually love.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:22 PM
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When I see bad poetry, I say that's pretty good, I like it. When I see poetry with potential I criticize it ruthlessly. I'm suspicious of praise. People don't really know.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:16 PM
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Theory sounds correct. She called to justify herself to BF. What are they going to arrest you for? No rape kit - assuming no physical marks - no proof of anything untoward. Assault? Unlawful holding? If the former waa the case, they would've asked her on the spot if she wanted to press charges. Obvi she didn't. I doubt a report was even filed. If it was, they would have interviewed you to get your statement. No crime was committed. She was seen by the bad patrons and uber driver leaving with you…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:43 PM
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That's Asians own damn fault for being too intelligent, isn't it? They recommend you try and seem "less Asian" and highlight extracurricular activities, especially sports and art, rather than your math SATs and music. It's f***ed up in an absolute sense, but it's still competitive. Just competing against your in-group and region rather than competing against everyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:16 PM
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True, but there is no such thing as a pure guilt based culture. It's a unicorn. There's only a sliding scale between shame based and really really shame based.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:08 PM
1

The key here is the line about paradoxicality. Since the culture is so restrained and conformist, it's insanely ripe ground for TRP methodology.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:05 PM
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You answered yourself bro. "Then so be it." Dont come back to me in a couple years crying about love-bucket choking on some asshole's dick, "I dont get what she saw in him! Doesnt she know no one could ever LOVE her like I do?"
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:44 AM
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Yeah... Until you get bored. Then its "you never loved me," "actions speak louder than words," and the narrative that justifies why you leave his ass for a better provider/cheat on him with a less "I love you" saying male.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:41 AM
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So fucking true. "Im with you cuz I want to be with you forever and I thought you felt the same way." Yeah, except you thought that about each and every man you got into an LTR, because thinking that is how you justified that you weren't a whore.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:36 AM
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That sounds like excuses to me, my brother. Everyone's got a reason why they can't. Looks are not the top of women's selection criteria. Not even close. Social awkwardness or failure to pass shit tests or humorless egotism are instant disqualifiers. Looks are not, unless you are actually deformed.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:35 AM
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I find this stoicism thing a bit disingenuous, honestly. What we really mean is simply 'manly Greek and Roman values'. Stoicism is not about maintaining equanimity - if anything, Epicureanism is more focused on that - but on having a reason for maintaining equanimity, i.e. behaving in accordance with Nature or the Right or what we would think of as God. Yet, most TRPers don't think those things are knowable, especially not in Capitalized form.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 11:38 PM
1

May I say - Chris Langan is a dumbass. "No combination of determinacy and randomness can explain intelligence. A higher language is required. That higher language would, by definition, be metaphysical." Do I even have to pick this apart? The guy is living on a ranch in a bumfuck town, not out of some Tolstoyan man-values, but because its a small pond and he gets to imagine he's some sort of transcendentally brilliant being. How can he not see that about himself, the smart kid syndrome of narciss…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:08 PM
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Tarot cards are awesome. Girls believe in them deeply and don't see the interpretive variation. They are a cool thing to learn - dismissing them does nothing, but embracing them gives you an awesome object lesson on coincidence, randomness, and making use of whatever cards are dealt to you. Most especially since a lot of chicks take it as seriously as you or I would take the informed commentary of someone we respect.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:48 PM
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Betas do bend reality. We all bend reality 100% of the time. The problem is, when you blame your environment, you are assigning your power to the environment. You blame your dad, you are assigning your power to your dad. To make use of your reality-bending power, you have to blame yourself - it's my fault my relationship is screwed up, my job is dead-end, etc. As for the evolution thing, there is consensus on classical darwinist mechanics. Not as wide as you'd think. Stephen Jay Gould, for examp…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:45 PM
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This. Someone was just posting, asking how they could get girls with a blue collar job and not much of a social circle. They didn't understand - grass being always greener - that money can be a severe negative. One of the most successful players I have ever known was a proverbial "dusty ass nigga" with no job, place to stay, or legit hustle. He dressed well as a sense of taste, but having zero funds, he was more often than not literally dusty, wearing the same clothes for a week. He got his ass …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:32 PM
1

Bro... When I first started i was pulling gainfully employed and good looking chicks while living with my mom and two kids, no job, skinny as fuck, with... Nontraditional fashion choices. You are focusing too much on metrics and not enough on subtext, who you are in your essence, abundance mentality, confidence, etc. All that other stuff is icing. Its about YOU and how YOU act. E.g. what do you mean you rarely get messaged? Its your job to provoke them. Girls never message first unless theyre ug…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 11:36 PM
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Problem is, we often do not know what 'natural' feels like. How many people think hyperkyphosis is their natural posture? JBY is good advice... It just takes time and uncomfortable truth to learn how to listen to your instinct. Big fan of your paragraph warning against 'acting'... Humans first and strongest sense is for inauthenticity
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 11:16 PM
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AWALT... She's just very obvious with her lack of ability to accept responsibility or blame, even if it harms her own kid forever
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 11:12 PM
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Step 1. Stop giving a f. Make no demands or expectations of her. Dont tell her you want to see the kid. Stop contacting her without a reason. Step 2. Go do fun and awesome shit, get chicks, count your blessings. Step 3 When she reinitiates contact, use eye contact, body language, and innuendo to hit her sex buttons, but no not seek physical contact & deny sex if she initiates. Step 4 once she's good and seeking, Say I feel bad for you, I was an asshole, I didnt understand all the complex blah bl…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 11:05 PM
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I agree, but I have to quibble. One girl/commitment is easy. It's not the actuality of other plates, it's the fact that you have other options open. It's the fact that you are at least as willing to walk away as she is. The threat works just as good as the reality, as long as its a realistic threat - borne out by your behavior, the behavior of others (i.e. she can see other attractive girls seeking your attention... This is an awesome spiral since having an attractive LTR and some swagger will i…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:24 PM
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Right. Stars are sexual because you can't avoid thinking of them sexually. Because you are sexual, your universe is sexual. You don't have access to this 'objective reality' where sexuality is just a biological pattern with no meaning.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 07:12 PM
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I recommend checking out Zizeks talk on Sexual Difference on youtube for a Leftist, social constructionist account about the universality of sexuality and the dumb shit that happens when you de-ontologize sexual polarity. He talks about why Lacan (his forebear, the famous psychiatrist), who did not see gender identity or almost anything else as biological, thought it was so important to take it back from its status as a footnote to life as a specific type of organism and put it back into the fab…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 07:07 PM
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AKA we don't use our toolkit to examine why we even care about tools. Handslap for waxing philosophical about why the first monkey made a club, and where club use is going to end up; we only focus on improving our club swing and getting better clubs, newbie.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:50 PM
1

It's amazing to me that we have a whole community developed around pragmatically breaking down people's feel-good-boxes and identifying and using their need for approval and validation... Yet it comes as a shock that people here are seeking validation themselves. No shit eh?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:20 PM
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Selfishness gets a bad rap. But it shouldn't. Thesis: everyone is 100% selfish. When we care for others, we invest ourselves into them. A complete altruist is still selfish, only sick. They prefer others to themselves. This is codependency. Loving oneself, aka being purely selfish, gives you the ability to love others without negating yourself, to love them for who they are and provide for them without sick interest being involved. Interest is always present, the only question is whether it's he…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:25 PM
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