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Hahah she is me and I am her 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:56 PM
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I totally understand ALL of this. I am a huge voyeur because I'm visual and, even then, my porn choices are pretty much all gay porn because I only like looking at dudes lol But, I totally feel you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:12 PM
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This is it right here. I'm on the other end where I am one of the few women I know that is extremely visual. I can orgasm from watching a hot guy have sex with me. Because of that, I am really into looking at attractive men. Most women aren't like me AT all. So, yeah, of course men are more easily susceptible to visual marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:33 PM
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I've seen many couples with children that fell me otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:32 PM
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I've actually found that penises look smaller on tall men because of proportions. This hasn't made an influence on who I've dated but, in general, I'm way more attracted to shorter men. The men in my family aren't tall so I didn't have that sort of expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah. I just wish he would've been honest. Ah, well. I'm better off without. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:01 AM
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No, but he knew I had no problems with different kinds of sexualities. I dated a bisexual before him and he knew that so it was super weird. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:51 AM
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And be bisexual Side note: I actually had an ex[M] cheat on me with men on Craigslist. 😅 Obviously I was mad about STD risk but also mad that he didn't want to explore this very fun aspect of himself with me. Ah well...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:45 AM
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I'm a woman who likes really rough sex but I would say that I'm the odd one out, even amongst my friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:19 PM
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Haha indeed! I tend to lurk in this sub nowadays. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:57 PM
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Exactly what u/siempreloco31 says. Another thing is to look at perspectives/cultures. Reddit is worldwide and my personal experiences might not reflect the personal and very real experiences of others. Such is life :P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:14 PM
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I don't know, shit's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:12 PM
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I seriously don't think that the few women that don't have serious hobbies didn't do so because they didn't need to in order to date men. I think they don't have serious hobbies just like men who don't have serious hobbies, they just aren't interested deeply in much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:12 PM
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I guess. I'd rather keep a FWB with a guy who was putting out than date him just for the sake of getting dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:05 AM
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Yup. This is exactly it. Had to tell my current S.O. that yes, sometimes you can mention sex and I'll jump all over it but everyone likes sexy seduction. Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:56 AM
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You're absolutely right in the context of 'pumping and dumping.' I just think its weird when people get in whole ass relationships with boring fucking people, regardless of gender. Like.... why??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:53 AM
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Both genders have people have people who can't choose. They are some unfortunately unattractive men and women who hardly get noticed by the people around them, have to put aside their own shallow attractions, and find happiness. However, a lot of them do! Attractive men know that they cab get away with being lazy and less interesting just as attractive women can. I've slept with plenty of attractive men that were 'bleh' besides how they looked but only because I wanted to have sex. That's all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:15 AM
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Women might want a well-rounded entertaining experience from dating but shouldn't men want that too? Whenever boyfriends of guy friends tell me that the women they've dated aren't funny, don't have any hobbies, etc., I'm always baffled. Like, why date someone like that? I think both genders should expect a well-rounded person to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:20 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:12 AM
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If he wasn't a hot friend, i.e. an unattractive friend. We would have gone out, had drinks, I wouldn't have flirted with him so he wouldn't be tactful by asking me that because I obviously wasn't reciprocating. It'd be the same as if I was dating someone, a hot friend asks me out for drinks, tries to flirt with me and then asks me to fuck. In fact, I'd be more creeped out by the hot dude trying to get with me while I'm dating someone than the ugly guy. Also, I still don't think I'd call the ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:53 PM
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What they're trying to say is that women do like direct honesty but you have to be tactful. In a woman's world, she may be trying to bang someone as much as he is trying to bang her but she has to worry about the added risk of violence. Randomly going up to a girl and saying, "Sex, now!" would scare her. Instead, using tact could be helpful. Here's an example from my own life: Hot friend of mind hits me up for drinks one night. I go and meet him at a bar. We're talking, laughing, joking, etc. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:02 PM
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I agree that it is fucked up and hypocritical. It is the same kind of hypocrisy of a boyfriend getting mad that his girlfriend would also want a threesome with two people of the opposite gender. Hypocrisy sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:11 PM
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Meh, that's still a bit of an overgeneralization. I would say that both men and women who fantasize benignly about threesomes would also like to do them. I would also say that both men and women who fantasize about hardcore BDSM may or may not want to do that. It takes way more skill, patience, trust, and a great partner to enact that fantasy. Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:44 PM
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Same! I wasn't surprised at all though. People are kinky and like thinking about things that they, more than likely, don't want to actually happen. I also wish they would've differentiated between 'rape' vs. 'ravage.'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:39 PM
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Laughing at people who don't know the difference between fantasies and reality. Plenty of women fantasize about being 'ravaged' but by extremely handsome guys in a taboo aspect. That doesn't mean they would actually do it. Some people would want nearly all of their fantasies to come true (I'm one) but don't assume that everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:36 PM
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Meh. I've only done it a few times but my partners are just outta the shower. I like doing ti because guys have prostates and, more than likely, I'm given the opportunity to pop a finger (or more) in there. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:55 PM
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strychnine Mmmm... death by poison. Going out, Geoffrey style!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:49 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense. I've been exploring on my own for quite sometime but, even with my attentive lover, I get too caught up in my head. :/ Something I absolutely need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:06 AM
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I can't wait to be you! :( (28F)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:49 AM
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Anyone who says they are a feminist but say "kill all men" are not a feminist. They're a crazy ass misandrist and they're out of their damn minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:52 PM
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If you had to hack off the 10%, which 10% would it be? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:56 PM
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Hell yeah ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:41 PM
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I can't pick just ONE guy but I can pick a good 10% of the guys I've slept with that were just OUTSTANDING. Then I can pick like a good 15% that were just awful. Everyone else is a solid mix of in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:35 PM
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Oh, abso-fucking-lutely. I just couldn't help myself when I saw that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:45 PM
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I'd beg to differ. My S.O. certainly wasn't thirsty when he met me and he is as much of a feminist as I am. His father is also very traditionally masculine (blue collar, bee hive worker, great father figure, etc). Same can be said for my brother, who often points to more feminist qualities than even I do. He's a higher up in the military and is anything but thirsty with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:15 PM
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Even beyond that, a lot more men are selective than we think. I don't . consider myself repulsive but I've been rejected plenty of times. Gotta stop this weird narrative that all men would stick their dicks in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:16 PM
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To add onto this, a man banging women willy nilly will probably have less of a physical consequence. Nevermind STDs and pregnancy on women's end, women could be physically hurt by random men. So, sometimes, a woman might look at a photo of an attractive man and think, 'Oh yes, I'd love to fuck him' but then the risk factor of safety ways in and she hesitates on that decision. I know I've done it during online dating. Dude was hot, cute, etc. but they were being weird and making me uncomfortable …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:28 PM
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Yep. When I was single and really wanted to focus on myself, I 'went my own way.' It was refreshing and I became a better person because of it. I wasn't 'bashing men' the entire time. I was just focusing on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:30 PM
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Sorry you're starving! Drinking water always helps! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:12 PM
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It sure does and that's why I encourage people to ignore it. Is peer pressure still loathsome, absolutely! However, surrounding yourself with peers who greatly identify with your well-being is key to being a responsible human being!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:08 AM
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Thanks for quoting me! :D Unfortunately, I didn't see anything in the quote that says I can't say no to food. Would you mind pointing that out again? Maybe we can even do re-write together! Ah, so peer pressure is only applicable to children? I didn't know that at all. Did you do a study on this to show that no adults are subjected to or have to deal with peer pressure? I would love to read it! I'm a grand ol' age of 28 years old. Currently typing with my cane on a giant keyboard as we speak!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:00 AM
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lol where TF did I say that I was unable to say no to food? I don't think you fully read my comment. That's ok though, it is there for you to re-read and enjoy to your hearts content! :D And, again, where did I say I went out and stuffed my face with my friends? I don't. Peer pressure just sucks and feeling envious over food choices is a normal response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:52 AM
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lol Everyone has desires, some people are slaves to them and some are not. Whoever said people should just be giving into these desires? I certainly don't. Also, eating out is a social thing. You don't have friends who enjoy eating out with you? I sure as hell do so I make sure to do it in moderation and I cook for myself like any grown ass adult should.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:44 AM
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Yup, that's exactly it. I ran track for 11 years growing up and did a lot of cross country. I tell any of my friends that low impact cardio is your best bet for calorie burning. Personally, I only do low weight high reps weight training about once a week. I should increase this because my arms are weak as shit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:43 AM
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Perfect, thanks for that! Went ahead and added that onto my amazon list :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:25 AM
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I've been thinking about weighing my food! What scale do you have and was it affordable? 😂 Kind of broke here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 12:12 AM
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I don't think most people understand that. For the health conscious women who believe in CICO, we do factor that in immediately. Unfortunately, burning fat for us is much harder than burning fat for men is. That's ok, it is just the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 12:10 AM
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Gahhhh! Yes! Absolutely infuriating. Also, weirdly embarrassing? Like, to keep having to explain to people "No, I don't want to try your stuff and not because I don't like you, it's because those few bites are detrimental to my entire diet." ​ I swear, we could make a killing off a chain of healthy restaurants that listed the calories and only made FILLING, low cal meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 11:26 PM
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That is awesome, good on you! I'm still having trouble because it sometimes baffles me that a salad can be 1000+ calories because of the 400 calorie dressing, Meanwhile, skinny fajitas are 400 calories each. Shit is wild, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 11:24 PM
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Yep. I lived in Austin for a long time and good GOD it is insane how many calories you consume if you're just 'hanging out with friends all day.' No shit, me and my buddies would go the Green Belt, drink a six pack each, go to Congress and eat some food and then go to a bar. I SWEAR that is a 3000+ calorie day.... WTF was I thinking?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:45 PM
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Howdyyyyy! :D Isn't it crazy how prevalent the drinking culture is in Texas? Like, it is so bad that when I switched to drinking vodka sodas versus my normal bourbon ,whiskey, IPAs, people were a little confused. But it really got weird when I just wouldn't drink at all. It sucks because I really enjoy drinking and spending time with friends but I'd practically not have to eat that day if I'd want to enjoy myself. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:36 PM
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Oh jeez!! That sounds awful! But.... hoorah?? lol Also, are you a fellow Texan?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:33 PM
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Yeah. This thread is wild AF. Like, I think a lot of these men are greatly overestimating their own abilities to just "be hungry" and be around people enjoying wonderful food that you can't. ​ Also, they keep saying shit like, "Don't eat the whole meal at a restaurant!1!1" Well, most restaurants don't have the calories listed with the entrees so eating half the meal could be 400 calories or 600 calories. Those 200 calories make a difference if you're trying to stick to 1200 calories a day. Shit'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:30 PM
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YMMV ​ People are different, that's the plain and simple fact of it. It works for them and that's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:18 PM
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lol are you trying to troll me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:28 PM
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I personally do not find him attractive but different strokes for different folks. Really sad to hear about the autistic guy. One of my friends is dating the guy I mentioned and they seem to be doing ok. I too am personally annoyed that people don't think things like this can happen to men. One of my main talking points when discussing why I'm a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 08:28 PM
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What the hell are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 08:26 PM
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She loves the hell out of that dude.They've been together for (off and on) almost a decade. Personally, I can't stand the guy because of personality clashes but I do empathize with his struggles. Additionally, she doesn't have an extremely high libido so she is very patient while they are working through this. Idk man. Being sexually assaulted are pretty deep fucking issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 08:23 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Sincerely. I do find it rather rude and presumptuous for you to think he is conventionally attractive just because of what has happened to him. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 04:39 AM
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That's wack, my dude. You don't know this person at all. I dont think anyone is any tier when they are sexually assaulted from a young age, develop horrible relationship with sex, and fumble their way through life with depression and sexual anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 04:17 AM
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Yup. A friend of mine is in a celibate relationship with a guy who had too many sexual experiences with older women when he was little. Right now, he just wants to feel wanted but not just for his body. It is really sad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 04:03 AM
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Yup, absolutely! :) Took me until I was 22 years old for that to happen. I'd already been clitorally orgasming for a while by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:18 PM
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Wow. I'm on the opposite end. My orgasm with male partners can be downright amazing but my orgasms with vibrators literally cause me to not breath, see stars and sometimes blackout. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:55 AM
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lol I'm sorry but I'm finding it hard to engage with people who use names like Chad as good and Tyrone as bad. It has some seriously racist undertones. ​ Regardless, there are always going to be people sleeping with attractive people who do lots of good things and attractive people who do lots of bad things. Attractive people have the pick of the litter. If 'good' men are only being good to be with women, they aren't inherently good to begin with and are probably bad guys just waiting to happen.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 09:39 PM
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Which is just so damn strange. It's like saying "Attractive people get rewarded easier lives (in some instances)." Like.... well, yeah. Probably. Who is going to argue that? No one. Attractive men are going to be having more sex than non-conventionally attractive men. Surprise, surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:53 PM
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lol WTF? Between those two options, I guess I'll choose C. No way in hell I'm sharing my partner and no way in hell I'm marrying someone I'm ABSOLUTELY unattracted to. Fuck. That.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:40 PM
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lol sure and those men are sharing me with other men. Why then aren't we discussing how men would rather share high quality SMV women then low quality 'meh' women? We aren't discussing it because that is not true just as much as the opposite. These men don't mind sharing me with other men because, again, they don't HAVE me and I don't HAVE them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:01 PM
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Yeah but I don't consider these people 'partners.' They are literally just there for sex. I would never share someone I'm in a relationship with which is what I would call a 'partner.'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:44 PM
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haha yeah, no problem at all! A lot of people just assume that women only want one type of guy. Absolutely NOT true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:43 PM
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THOSE women are willing to share and that is such a small minority. We already know who they are, they are gold diggers. Those women didn't go into those relationships with men for the actual men, moreso for those resources. However, there are women who married rich men because they loved them and the guy has mistresses. Those women are in shitty relationships and don't know how to get out. You don't have to be tied up with a rich person to NOT leave when you're being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:38 PM
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And what I'm saying is that no one I know will ever share their partners, high-earning or not. Even if they have a super sexy, hott, rich guy. They might put up with his shit for a little bit but would leave after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:13 PM
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haha right? Like, the only people that I don't see 'mildly' possessive over their partners are people in open/polygamous relationships. Everybody else (including women) would never ever want to share their partner. No matter how hott he was, they would be beyond pissed if he cheated on them. Most of them would leave the relationship entirely!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:12 PM
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I'm still kind of confused by this. Having multiple fuckbuddies is not the same as sharing the man. I'm not sharing anyone because they aren't mind and I have no intention of them ever being mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:10 PM
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Nah. lol To be completely honest, my current partner of 3+ years isn't all that 'exciting.' I'm probably the 'bad boy' in our relationship because of my crazy, party-filled history. However, he is such an amazing, sweet, hilarious guy and I can't see anyone else in my life. I literally was having a sex dream about almost hooking up with these two hot, bisexual male models and dream me panicked because I remembered my partner and couldn't do it. hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:09 PM
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haha well, a lot of people have had fuckbuddies. These aren't the dudes you form a relationship with though. Same for themselves, whenever I was a fuckbuddy to someone, I tried to keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 05:56 PM
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lol who the fuck are these women? I don't know any women who want to share their partners and, frankly, some of their partners are just how you describe. An artist who has never 'made it,' he isn't all that looks-wise but he provides (god knows what) something to my friends. ​ Also, those are a bit of extremes. Despite my love for Joe Cole (the actor), I'd never share him with women. I'd rather date someone in the middle with a wonderful personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 05:04 PM
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lol There's dozens of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 12:10 AM
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Yeah, that is totally understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:33 PM
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Yup, I was just about to say the same thing. When I was single, I loved hooking up with dudes who were honest about their intent (although it sometimes backfired when they realized I meant being as casual as much as they did). Of COURSE, you could get laid more if you lied and were dishonest because that's exactly what lies are for. You're being dishonest for your own personal gain. Whether that is in relationships, interviews, requesting loans, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:09 PM
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Exactly. Like, no, if we don't 'develop' into mature adults women will, more often than not, end up in shitty situations. Just like a guy. Guy doesn't want to grow up? That's fine, he can choose not to and, more than likely, bad things will also happen to him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:19 AM
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I understand what you're saying but there is a fine line. I do think that both partners should be respectful of their partners sexual desires. However, I don't think one should just simply engage in sex with their husbands when they haven't been in the mood for a month+. I think they should communicate what could be going wrong. Has he not been helping around the house and you're extra tired? Has he stopped putting effort into looking good? Has sex become stale and yall havent been on a date in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:51 PM
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Yes, it is way to overlooked! I've had about 30 partners and that's what really drives sex home, hooking up with a guy and cumming, although sex can be enjoyable without. I'm happy that I'm as visual as I am, otherwise I probably would have a much lover n-count due to consistently terrible sex lol hahaha I see your point! If I were you, i'd enjoy having that edge too :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 07:12 PM
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This is very true. Fortunately for me, I am a very visual woman so extremely attractive men I've had sex with in the past whose skills were lacking, I still came by simply watching them fuck me. Not many women are as fortunate, in that regard. If women were able to orgasm as easily as men, we would absolutely have more casual sex. Yes, absolutely. I'm into BDSM and as often as I fantasize about being hog tied, and gang banged by a group of men, that will never happen because of the risk of viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 05:03 PM
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Or stalking the crap out of women and possibly killing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 04:48 PM
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Yup. Exactly what I was thinking while reading this post. Like, dude, I'm so glad I'm with my guy now because trying to find a non-gross, fat, old, single man who aligns with my values was seriously a needle in the haystack situation. Additionally, I'm in my mid-late twenties and guys age just as much as women do and worse sometimes because they don't have the same kind of self-care that women do. I remember looking at dudes in their 30s and being like, "Damn.... shit is rough out here." lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:16 AM
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Awwww! I just love it when people react as irrationally as you, especially when you tried to insult me earlier by comparing me to the mentally disabled. You must be a woman as well if you're reacting so irrationally with your silly words! Hello, fellow woman, would you like to get together and plot against all of mankind??? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:04 AM
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Bro, I didn't mean the actual subreddit lol I'm talking about the fake 'mens rights' dudes who hangout in stupid subs like r/MTGOW in the same way that fake feminists women say and do dumb shit that does not support equality at all. I am fully in support of men going their own way, like please, leave us the fuck alone. I'm not ok with people just constantly bashing a gender because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:46 PM
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I agree and too many men seem to only want the privileges. I'm a feminsist and by no means insists that women OR men are special creatures who can do no wrong. We have more shitty/selfish people in the world than we can even imagine. It comes to not surprise that some outspoken selfish fucks want to pretend that they are feminist while also treating men unequally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:29 PM
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Whew lawd, yall really need to reevaluate what the fuck feminism is about. Feminism, through all of its waves, calls into questions the heteronormative patriarchal systems. Different waves focus on different things but they all call into question the ways in which WOMEN aren't treated equally as MEN. This means addressing the serious issues that women deal with because of men. I'm a feminist and I think this situation is abhorrant, I also think FGM is abhorrant and that is happening on far grand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:14 PM
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Word. Currently in a serious relationship now but before, I was Tindering, Bumbling, etc. Dude had a kid? Hard pass and I'm in my mid-late twenties. Do not want to deal with drama, don't personally have kids yet, don't want to deal with raising another person's kid. Then, if we don't workout, I'd have to sever my ties with a kid I helped raise and would probably grow to love for X amount of years. ​ Fuck all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:06 AM
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Don't dwell on what is being said here! I've got a number right around 30~, have been with the man of my dreams for practically 2 years now and we talk about marriage often. He has a similar number as me, btw. Don't lose hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:33 PM
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haha that's funny, kind of exactly how most women's rape fantasies are but the opposite. Someone so hot and dominant, I just give into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:21 PM
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I didn't say that women couldn't sleep with some attractive guys, I'm just saying that everyone eventually realizes that looks aren't everything for a successful relationship. Yes, SOME hott dudes lower their physical standards but you're grossly magnifying the issue. Trust me, I've been shot down by hott dudes plenty of times in favor for more attractive chicks and many women have experienced this. One of my ex-roommates was practically in love with the hottest guy we work with and he wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:09 PM
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Men are already 'allowed' to discuss these things and people are 'allowed' to me disgusted, appalled, or turned on by him. Hell, I'm a woman with 'rape' fantasies but I don't even tell my partners that, let alone strangers and I'm not even doing the 'raping' in the fantasies. Although, would like to point out that these fantasies don't constitute what 'real' rape would look like, versus ravishing my body from an extremely attractive partner. Probably, yes. Like I said, you'd have to be pretty da…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:02 PM
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Perfect, so you know ton of guys who are still virgins and I know tons of them that aren't lol This would just speak to our social circles and where we live. Obviously, it is much harder when you aren't attractive, no lie there but it isn't downright impossible. Your looks won't stop you, your attitude, lack of self-care, and lack of socialization will probably stop you. ​ I think it's true for both genders. Men and women realize, "Oh, I won't get my Michael B. Jordan/Scarlett Johanson, maybe I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:39 PM
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Yes of course. I wish happiness for everyone as well but, it just isn't likely :/ I do think that sex dolls would serve an even greater purpose for letting people live their sexual fantasies while also being in a relationship. Yeah, I can understand the outrage. Like, I'll never get to bang Chris Evans but having a sex doll/robot that was amazing for my needs would be great! Although it couldn't look exactly like him, that would weird me out. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:12 AM
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Exactly, let those men have what they want and, hopefully, there would be a dramatic decrease in sex crimes. Honestly? I can't wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:55 AM
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Meh, not necessarily. There's too many humans on the planet for "the good men are all fucking robots instead of us!" There will still be plenty of men wanting to fuck living women but I don't doubt with advanced technology they will become quite popular but I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:07 AM
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I agree with you here. I'm a feminist and I'm always running in the feminist circles and none of my friends give a shit about guys using sex dolls. In fact, we're hoping the more advanced they get, the less sexual harassment living women would have to deal with. Like, instead of a rapist raping a woman, maybe they could live out their fantasies on a doll, especially if it is technologically advanced enough for candid 'rape-like' reactions. ​ The only issues we have with is advanced AI but that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:05 AM
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I really think they are. Even my 'unattractive' guy friends were having frequent casual sex in college and pretty much up until our age now where everyone has been dating someone seriously for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 07:40 PM
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We just might be living in different circles. My guy friends were fucking as much as I was in college :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 07:39 PM
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We honestly must be living in different environments. I've been in major cities all my life and all my close guy friends, when we were younger, we having as much sex as I was in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 07:39 PM
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But why? There is no proof beyond what your assumption is. Hell, even very attractive couples have sexual issues later on. Whether its because of young kids, one of them putting on a bunch of weight, not helping around the house, etc. There are many situations where dead bedrooms CAN occur but your theory is just that, a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:59 PM
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Right, she already said he isn't the most fit, so that fits in with the TRP of SMV. Looks aren't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:45 PM
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The guy has to be attractive enough, not the most attractive guy. Attractiveness doesn't = great sex. That's just plain facts so being the highest SMV partner won't keep your sexual partner returning for me. There is always more to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:44 PM
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*sigh* you don't have to be in college to enjoy a string of NST sex when you're between the ages of 18-22. Casual sex is common when people are young is what I was getting at because most young people don't know what they want out of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:42 PM
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Yep, I think it comes down to the fact that TRP forgets that most PEOPLE ride the cock/pussy carousel in college because that's just what kids do. They are in the beginning of forming their lives with no idea what will happen after they graduate, probably even switching majors a few times. Young people enjoy novelty, enjoy extremely attractive sexual partners and typically aren't looking to 'settle down.' ​ WHEN they do, they often realize that attractiveness doesn't automatically equal a good l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:10 PM
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Was going to comment this. My brother is a high ranking officer in the Navy, great relationship with our father and he is as feminist as one can get. I think good or bad relationship with a man's father might not be a defining factor in whether they're a feminist or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 09:20 PM
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Thanks! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:01 PM
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lol Maybe in your social circle. I've lived in fairly liberal cities, moderate cities, and slightly conservative cities where men have avidly dated women with tattoos. I'm also a millennial and I've dated/slept with only millennials so that wouldn't be just "a few guys."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 08:31 PM
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hahaha yes, of course I think about what other things I spend money on but lets not pretend every adult spends their money "completely responsibly." Hell, people splurge on things that won't last them even HALF of their lifetime. I enjoy how I look, I love the artwork and everything. Well, of course I know that my tattoos will look different as I age because my whole body will age. I won't be downright gorgeous when I'm in my 80s so who cares? Also, everybody with a decent tattoo piece plans on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 11:11 PM
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Lol wut? Getting a tattoo shows impulsivity? All of my tattoos cost between $100-$500. I've had to save up, allocate time and money, select an artist who would draw them, and THEN get them done. I had to think very VERY hard about these permanent things on my body. I know very few people my age with impulsive tattoos because, well, I don't hang out with ultra impulsive people despite you drawing that conclusion based on my glorious body art.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:25 PM
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Woman here and blue A lot of my fantasies, if in a real world situation, would legitimately put my life at risk. Like yeah, sure, I'd like to have a gang bang with 5 super hot dudes but in reality? What if they had STDs? What if they didn't stop when I wanted them to? What if they drugged me? What if one of them takes off a condom? All of those things could happen so I would never do it. I think that factors into a lot of hardcore fantasies. Sure, they are get to get off to but factor in mankind…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:25 PM
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A sex game? What kind of world are you living in? lol Most people don't play these "sex games" against other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 07:58 PM
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How is he losing to his wife? She loves him, he loves her? And why does everyone need to be in competition with each other? If he is happy regardless of the other men around him and they barely even notice each other, what kind of game are they playing where this guy loses?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:23 PM
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haha ohhhh kay. Who is he losing to if that's what he considers winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 05:21 PM
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lol what even defines "losers" vs "winner?" Like, if that the guy with a cuckolding kink is in a loving relationship with trust, has a steady paying job, has a wonderful family (if he wanted one) and no particularly terrible ailments, that dude sounds like he is winning!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:24 AM
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But is it personally harming you? Probably not, right? lol uh oh, someone ticked off the grizzled, old man. I love being a millennial and, while it sucks for reasons out of my control, I'm most happy about being a part of a generation changing the ideas on gender, sexuality, and relationships. We aren't existing 2000 years ago, we are existing now and it is pretty damn awesome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:59 PM
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haha you're hilarious! That's a very out dated way of thinking but, that's ok, progress isn't for everyone. Such a shame you have to hate on someone else's kinks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:35 PM
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haha I guess we will have to agree to disagree on what we consider 'straight.' But sexuality is fluid like that, I suppose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:45 PM
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lol No straight man? Now you are just being silly because that is a seriously broad generalization. What about all the straight guys into cuckolding? They don't exist? There are people out there with kinks of all shapes and sizes, you do know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:32 PM
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That's not... true? I've had threesomes with straight guys that wanted nothing to do with the other man's genitals so unless I hallucinated those experiences, those men do exist. People are freaky :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 07:30 PM
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lol why are they all naked all the time? I'd prefer them to be clothed or comfortable however they want to be. Maybe they are all hanging out, listening to vinyls. Maybe one of them is taking a nap. Maybe one is cooking and keeping the place looking nice. Idk, in my mind it looks more like a nice house where they all live, if some of them are bisexual and having sex with each other, that would be cool too. I'd just want them to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 07:25 PM
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I was all aboard until you mentioned having a husband PLUS the harem. Unless my husband is completely on board with it, I'm not sure. Otherwise, if I was single and could have a harem of men of all colors? Abso-fucking-lutely. I am a very visual person and the idea of fucking hot dudes whenever I want however I want is just awesome. I'd like to make sure that they are actually attracted to me though. I would perfer a harem of dudes who were happy verus some weird sex-slave situation. I deffy don…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:43 PM
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Don't you think you're generalizing a bit? Some men seek casual sex a lot and some women seek casual sex a lot. Some men want attachment and some women want attachment. In fact, for college-aged students casual sex is all the rage because most of them are career-focused, don't know where they will end up after college and are young, dumb, and full of cum. Women, just as much as men, can be thinking about banging the hottest guy in the room 'just for fun' no matter how happy she is in her current…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:59 AM
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Idk. I think both can be said for both genders. When men and women are happy in their relationships AND they cheat, it is all a sexual thing. Women are programmed just as much as men to sleep around and find their best 'sperm donors.' Luckily, humans have a huge frontal cortex which allows for us to make better decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:44 PM
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Right?? After I left college, I ran into a few more gay sugar babies, never straight women/men or lesbians. I wonder why that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:34 PM
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Yeah, crazy right?? I mean, totally understandable though. I was waitressing and these chicks were making more money in one night than I was making damn near all week! So it is totally understandable though it is a tough job. They hated most of the men that came in and had to deal with creepy stuff ALL of the time. On top of that, spending lots of money on makeup, REALLY watching what they eat, and a catty atmosphere amongst their coworkers. I personally never considered it because of all of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:03 PM
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Look, I'm well aware that everyone lives in their own social bubble and I've read those articles before. However, as a previous journalist and current worker at a PR firm, articles like those make me a bit skeptical. I'd be more inclined to believe research not backed/funded by a biased company. All in all, TO ME, it was extremely uncommon and all of my fellow college students either worked in the service industry or their parents paid for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:45 AM
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Just graduated from a major university last year, it is EXTREMELY uncommon. I only knew one sugar baby and it was a gay guy in my theatre group. Edit: In fact, I knew more strippers than sugar babies and they took their job very seriously, i.e. picking up as many shifts as possibly, not doing drugs (besides alcohol), getting to school on time, etc. They were just trying to make a buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 12:31 AM
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Woman. God no, I wouldn't trade sex for money. If I'm not doing it now, there's no way in hell someone could change my mind by paying me enough for living just by pretending I like them. I enjoy sex with young attractive men enough to date dudes who've actually made LESS than me because I valued who they were as a person and sex was awesome. In some cases, I might have been shallow for fucking these hot dudes but that's because I am a visual person so the idea of banging an ugly, old man for mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 12:26 AM
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No, I don't think most women are moral because I don't believe most people are moral. Men and women can do some really shitty things to their partners. The good ones are far more rare but that might be me just being jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 12:01 AM
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Probably not, he looks weird. Especially if his personality is lame, seems like the sex would be bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:21 PM
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The same could be said for less attractive men getting normal looking women. To me, less attractive and normal are pretty much the same, just depends on your preferences. I think I am pretty damn average, some men find me very attractive and some probably find me very ugly. I'm absolutely not a 8/10. Anyways, I see a lot of average people with other average people. In fact, I see that more often than one partner being an 8/10 with a 5/10 of either gender. Unless you are gay or are very versed in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 05:27 PM
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Honestly, the same could be said for women who aren't as inherently attractive as other women. Despite what you might think, those women still aren't getting laid as much as the attractive women (unless they want to lower their standards exponentially) but they are still trying to optimize their chances. You can't say it won't work unless you try to optimize your chances. Besides, not all gay men are getting dick 24/7, only some of the top tier attractive dudes or the really promiscuous dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 04:15 AM
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haha if thats what you want to call them, then sure! Also, your username is hilarious to me, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:08 PM
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Yup. Same. As a teen, I actively HATED chest hair, beards, etc. I fell in LOVE with young Leo because he was "just sooo cute." I'm 27 now and I love chest hair, strong jawlines, etc. I'm guessing that my tastes will always continue to change as I age, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:06 PM
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From my stand point, men just don't have the same beauty standards as women. A man can be respected without being attractive but its hard vice versa. Due to this, straight guys tend to not have the same beauty routines, i.e. working out a lot, taking care of their skin, wearing fashionable clothes, etc. I, as a straight woman, used to find myself hitting on gay guys all the time when I was single for this exact reason. They tend to look a lot better than your average straight dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:04 PM
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Heh, speak for yourself. Me and my girlfriends often get quite the viscerally sexual attraction when seeing hot dudes. Just yesterday I was in a meeting with one of my clients and I had to actively stop myself from fantasizing about him fucking me to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:01 PM
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Still don't think I would care. I mean, shit happens that is out of his control and if he feels more confident with it, then it is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:48 PM
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I wouldn't care if my balding boyfriend got a hair transplant. I intend on getting a breast lift after I'm done having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:37 PM
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Psssssh. You act like I'm a newbie here! I've been browsing this sub for ages!
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 12:27 AM
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Hmmm... this is an interesting mindset you have. I'll have to do my best to not refute any claims here, despite how ridiculous they are. I'll stick to browsing then! :)
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 12:13 AM
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Darn! I've been had! There weren't any rules that said I couldn't so I figured why not? That means I'll probably get banned in 3...2..
/r/MGTOW29/05/18 11:55 PM
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That probably has more to do with the cosplay character design, right?
/r/MGTOW29/05/18 11:32 PM
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Instagram comicon modeling is a real thing and guys do it as well. You can get some of the best photos with a photographer instead of using a selfie stick or whatever. It only makes sense.
/r/MGTOW29/05/18 11:07 PM
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Female, mid-late 20s, 30+ partners I think it is somewhere around 31 or 33? Anyways, in my adult life I haven't lied. When guys start to ask, I tell them they might not like the truth so it shuts them up pretty quickly. Those who persisted anyways? Some got upset and others didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:42 PM
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Nope. I've never physically assaulted a boyfriend. I did wrestle with one though but that was consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 06:32 AM
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What I am suggesting is that if you've ever seen a row of supermodels, male or female, they all kind of look the same. They all kind of follow the euroccentric facial features, height, weight, etc. Yes, there could be slight variations but nowhere near as many as there are now. That's what I personally love about this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:23 AM
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That's the thing. What if only green eyes become beautiful and everything is now seemed abnormal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:05 AM
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When it comes to genetic diseases? Absolutely. I think it can be really sad. For looks? No. I like the fact that not everyone looks the same. It's awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:35 AM
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I'm a liberal and I have shot many guns, intend on owning a gun and know many liberals with guns. I don't know if we just live in different parts of the country but there are a lot of macho liberal dudes where I live. I don't know any liberal who is against civilization. I don't know any anarchist. I've heard a few Reagan speeches but not sure what that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:19 AM
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Hmmmmm. So what about women republicans?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:16 AM
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Really? I feel like a lot of people in my overwhelmingly liberal city workout. Huge workout culture here. In fact, you might even say its the opposite for conservatives in my city. Many seem to be overweight, eat really unhealthy and laugh about healthy lifestyles. I'm in the south U.S. btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:16 AM
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lol I like your flair. Basically, beauty standards are reinforced by the media and they tend to change over time. In the Western world (and a lot of other areas) beauty standards tend to be very euroccentric. If people begin to alter their children to look like these beauty standards instead of letting the dice roll, I think people's idea of beauty will become more solidified instead of changes over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:13 AM
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Parents still married. They met in middle school and been together since. I'd say my parents are pretty blue pill. I'm blue as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:36 PM
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But like, how did steroids turn you into a republican?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:53 AM
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Not far off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:52 AM
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Meh. From what you are describing, it doesn't seem detrimental to the relationship. If he was constantly fawning over his exs and comparing them to me then yeah, we would have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:16 AM
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If it becomes a huge thing then yes, absolutely. I also think it will solidify beauty standards, which is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:05 AM
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Dude, beauty standards have been so high for women for a long time that it truly isn't comparable. Sure, everyone can have their preferences but thats ok. No one says you have to like fat women and if they do, they are being ridiculous. You also don't have to like watching fat women hook up with muscular dudes. It isn't your life so it's fine. It's great that women like her a modeling because we can hope to get past these crazy beauty standards. I think we also have a plus sized model for men as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:23 AM
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Yup but it depends on the person. Some people are not monogamous. I honestly believe that just how they are and they should accept not forcing themselves in a monogamous relationship. Others are. I could easily go fuck another dude but I love my boyfriend so much, I would never do that. I don't even consider it suppressing an urge because the idea of cheating makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:26 AM
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Curiously speaking, maybe your view of them is biased because your friends with them? I have thought that about my friends before I realized that the way they interact with someone they're trying to pursue is awful. Some people can try and disagree with me but being social is huge for women getting laid by men they want as well. For instance, my best friend is socially awkward despite being attractive. Plenty of opportunity for her but she can't seem to seal the deal. I'm sure that women have wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:23 AM
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I was just telling another commenter that I've felt the feeling of "no one I want to fuck wants to fuck me" and that feels like no one wants to fuck me but I know rationally that it wouldn't be true. I just didn't want to bang the ugly dude at the bar. I think a lot of it comes down to that. There have been men I've really wanted but I wasnt their type and that made me feel sad. I honestly believe I can relate to the feelings because I know that no matter how ugly a person is, someone out there …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:04 AM
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Look, I've shared the feeling of "no person that I actually want to fuck wants to fuck me." I think thats what the feeling really is. Sure, a guy could fuck a chick who is grotesque in the same manner that I could fuck a hideous dude but we don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:02 AM
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I just have a hard time believing that literally no one would fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:35 AM
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lol you know what? This honestly isn't going anywhere. Good luck dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:34 AM
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There are plenty of people who enjoy different sexual activities. Some people even have kinks and fetishes. I know I do. However, I don't demand that my partner do all those things with me because sex doesn't rule my life. Most people past high school could probably say the same thing. I'm saying this because you can experience things sexually before your current partner and be happy with them that you don't need those things anymore. Sure, they're fun but it shouldn't impact the current relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:27 PM
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Sex with two men isn't cheating. If someone cheated in the past, then yes, I'd be wary. Youre saying that having sex with two people at once means that you are a cheater. That's why it is false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:03 PM
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lol dude, false equivalence. Crime =/= consensual sexual act Just because that chick had a threesome with two dudes does not mean she would cheat on a significant other. Like, thats a totally different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:54 PM
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lol you think men are the only violent ones? Humans in general can be quite violent. But people hold back for different reasons. Women aren't allowed to let their nature run rampant either. Women are still getting slut shamed, abortion is still an issue and beauty standards are hardly regressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:11 PM
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TBH, I'd think it was kind of sad. Only because I love my friends a lot and think that they are smart and funny dudes. They didn't have to waste that money to have sex. I wouldn't stop being friends with them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:59 PM
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We don't know his thoughts but can we not agree that when people do that kind of stuff, it isn't out of character? Even if they'd been hiding their true self it's not like it just comes out of nowhere You can be interested in someone else and not cheat. You keep projecting your ideas onto others. People are different. You are saying you can't accept the fact that some people may never cheat? I'm not claiming intellectual superiority. I'm just confused as to why you assume people to all be the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:52 PM
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hahaha I'm sure you've seen it done in porn, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:58 AM
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Ummm, you don't think that security guard had those thoughts before? The notion of "we only know what we want and do up to this day" seems silly. There are people who know they don't want to cheat. You're saying everyone's moral codes are only valid if they are tested? Plenty of faithful partners get tested and never cheat so, what then? I think you are putting your ideas onto others. You would probably cheat? Ok, well you're not everyone. I just think you overexaggerated to aid your claim. Hund…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:57 AM
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You're only examples of bad relationship material came from the hundreds of sorority girls you supposedly know. I'm just saying that even if that's true, your sample size is small. Why can't people enjoy sexual experiences and never want to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:35 PM
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I meant all women who have threesomes with two men. Not all of them are sorority girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:32 PM
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You've literally known hundreds of sorority girls who've had threesomes? Also, you're equating all women to women that are in sororities? That's just a sect of college social life. You do know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:24 PM
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This is dumb. I've had two threesomes with two dudes and I've never cheated. You're just assuming things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:16 PM
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Hmmm. Ok, my description is lacking. Imagine a man is lying down. I'm lying down on top of him and he is in my vagina. The other man is behind us and is in my ass. So flat like a literal sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:31 PM
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It was complicated because my ex at the time did things that we talked about WOULDN'T happen. Other than that? It was a great experience but I'll always prefer two guys instead of two girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:39 AM
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Nah. Not really. Imagine a woman sandwich with the guys as bread :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:38 AM
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No, it really wasn't hard to do. When the guy was fucking me, he was aware of the pace I suppose. No, I'll never put two dicks in one hole but I have had one in my vagina and one in my anus at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:46 AM
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Why wouldn't it be fun? Do you not like performing oral? What kind of DP are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:19 PM
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Well, with on MFM it was a decent amount of work because the guys were straight. In one MMF, they were bisexuals so the work was evenly distributed. I love the male for so even having two guys was extra mental stimulation. The brain is the biggest sex organ, right? Lol and then I enjoyed being tossed around. With one guy I can't literally suck a dick and get fucked at the same time. Also with one guy he might not be able to do things that am extra pair of hands would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:51 PM
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It felt really good and banging two guys was an amazing experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:07 PM
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Why not? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:25 PM
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Finally. Someone makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:09 PM
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Yuppp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:41 AM
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I've had one FFM and two MFMs. Loved the MFMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:46 AM
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hahaha fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:24 PM
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Single mother doesn't = impulsive/planning ahead Sometimes? Sure. But you don't have to be a single mother to have those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:49 PM
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Ben Wyatt from Parks and Recreation. Just seems like a genuinely sweet dude and the actor is super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:14 PM
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Lol I'm a black liberal feminist with a Mohawk. That relationship would be a god damned nuclear bomb. So.... no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:07 PM
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Not really. However, I find myself more attracted to short men than tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 02:01 PM
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Handsome and capable. The guy being a considered a genius might get annoying. I'm smart but I'm not 2%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 10:54 PM
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No. I might respect him more actually. The other dudes are literally just walking talking fuck toys. The guy I'm trying to possibly date? I want to make sure I'm into him and then we bang like rabbits. I have no particular wait time and I don't plan it out. It typically just happens like going on multiple dates before sleeping over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:01 PM
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Nope. I don't believe in it and there's no way a man like that would want to date me either. Move on, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:19 AM
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Youre trying to equate rape to people who have casual sex and how they treat their partners lol ok, I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:25 PM
1

Um.... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:41 PM
2

Where are we getting these facts? I know plenty of high N who've never cheated but are we going to discredit my experiences over yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 07:29 PM
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I mean, cheaters are gonna be cheaters of both genders. However, both a man and a woman can enjoy casual sex and not be cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:19 PM
1

But I mean, why? What proof do we have of this anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:18 PM
1

Your one experience doesn't dictate everyone's. A woman with a low or high number can jump onto someone they think is better, it's up to their mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 06:58 PM
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Because, like I said, sex can be fun but the most special kind of sex is with someone you love. I may be whatever number but I'm the girl who stole his heart and the same for him. That matters more than sexual partners to me. Now, if he had told me, I was like the 20th person he fell in love with, that would hurt :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:28 PM
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Not at all. I have a high N and I don't give a fuck if my boyfriend does. We love each other and that's what matters. We are both dedicated and monogamous. Sex can be special and it can also be for fun. That's just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:58 PM
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I would be equally scared if a bunch of women jumped out of a car and approached me in a fast paced manner. Groups of people can be scary. Machiavellian is such a strong word for people becoming socially intelligent. Not every woman needs to be machiavellian. Why would it hurt them not to be. They din't have far reaching thoughts? lol So they don't think ahead? Thats a broad assumption and a wrong one at the very least. There are plenty of women, and men, who have their life planned and are very…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:06 PM
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The people who dare to ask? I always tell the truth Except for my family members but they've never asked anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 09:54 PM
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No, because I'm a woman. Looks always matter When I was in 4th grade and my crush wanted the more feminine girl as a little girlfriend. Sucks being naturally tomboyish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:58 PM
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Lol I'm talking about if a group of guys (doesn't matter the age, style of dress, or class) jump out of the car and approach me fast, I'm going to be scared. That's just a reaction. If I was scared because a group of men was a certain ethnicity, that's racism true and true. That's what I meant. Also, yes, women may be more socially intelligent but that shouldn't make them machiavellian. You act like women are just these inhumane creatures with no thoughts about the future. I would whole heartedl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 08:01 PM
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I hope so because it's a truth. Love is out there and for some people, it can really be abundant. I know I love him and I know he loves me. It's a great feeling :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 04:58 PM
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There is a difference between trying to assess if someone is a threat based off of their mannerisms and gestures versus assuming someone is a threat based on their race. The second would be racism. Also, all women have machiavellian prowess?! When did that happen? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 04:55 PM
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It exists because people choose to generalize. That's all. Yes there can be cultural and biological differences but to generalize is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 08:21 PM
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Most PEOPLE will not be honest. I am a liberal and we've all had our biases and everyday I move towards continuing to change that. Unfortunately, it's like the right doesn't want to change their racism or sexism at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 07:55 PM
1

Yeah and that doesn't mean there aren't meninist who don't like meninist women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 04:10 PM
1

You know and I know that people will write complaints more than they will write about happy instances. Three articles versus scientific data won't dissuade me, especially when I see my feminists friends and I enjoying healthy relationships with our feminist men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 08:39 AM
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I'm saying that "becoming attractive" is a damn near impossible to someone who just doesn't want you. Attractive people, them being blue pill or red doesn't matter, have more sex than unattractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 01:32 AM
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You either are attractive to a person or persons or you aren't. Yes, personality can help but if a guy is attractive and is blue pill, the women that like him are going to want to fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 12:55 AM
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Yeah. Idk what the hell that person is talking about. I'm a feminist, my boyfriend is a feminist and I wouldn't date anyone that didn't at least empathize with equality issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 12:35 AM
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I am pro choice Right now the question is a bit difficult for me since I have a reproductive problem. More than likely I would keep it because it might be my one and only shot to have a kid. If my boyfriend didn't want it. I'd tell him I understand and would ask him to just stay out of our lives. I wouldn't want child support or anything. Not everyone is ready for a kid and I'm honestly not but I wouldn't let the opportunity slip by. The only change in my idea is that when I was younger and didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 08:43 PM
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Nah. I have plenty of "options" but stereotypically attractive dudes are decent to fuck but not to date. I want someone who matches my personality, can be my bestfriend. He is my bestfriend and my lover. I honestly hope we get married one day. I can finally be myself with him. I've never been more honest with any ex than I am with him. Sorry, I could go on and on about how much I love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 10:02 PM
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Sure. But he will never know. I find him incredibly sexy because of his personality and I jump his bones constantly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 10:00 PM
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Our sex is phenomenal. He loves trying new things. Btw, not all stereotypically attractive men are instantly great in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 10:00 PM
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No offense, but if my boyfriend wasn't caring, kind or in love with me, I probably wouldn't be with him. He's not that attractive to be honest but he is such a funny, sweet, amazing guy that I love him. He isn't violent or aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 08:49 PM
1

Wow. That's interesting. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 06:30 AM
1

I don't think most women need to see a big dick in a porno to enjoy it but maybe that's just me. I'd rather sub out the large dicks for actual attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 06:29 AM
1

Haha really? Do enjoy men going down on you in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 11:51 PM
1

Interesting. So when you aren't in a relationship, you can fantasize about other men or multiple men? I do even when I'm in a relationship but the fantasies become less serious and more fleeting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 11:50 PM
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Lol you aren't boring. You just aren't a horndog like some of us... aka me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 11:13 PM
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Really? That's fascinating. Do you only find you partners attractive during sexy times then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:56 PM
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Not so much what genres but maybe a heterosexual female view. Not all women think like me but when there is too much of the woman, I'm turned off. In fact, I almost strictly watch gay porn now because of it. Close of shots of sensual cunninlingus would be great Actual attractive dudes More camera focus on said attractive dudes Guys being louder and genuine about their arousal and pleasure Nice VR porn for women. A lot of it sucks right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 07:24 PM
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Exactly. Thats why I don't even try to explain it online anymore. Like, every example I give will be met with an, "but I tried that and I'm not creepy but the woman reported me to HR versus the Chad that did the same thing?! WTF?!" I'm like....."but did you really?" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 04:59 AM
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It doesn't matter how "sexy" you are. If your behavior creeps me out, you are a creep. Plain and simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:21 PM
1

What are hit pieces? We just want to talk to a real live person about these issues. Perspective is really important
/r/MensRights14/10/16 08:38 PM
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Sorry, as a newly blossoming magazine we have decided to use this username as a sacrifice lol We aren't trying to be a bemused anthropologist. Just people discussing issues face to face.
/r/MensRights14/10/16 04:58 AM
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Ha.... haha yeah they exist. A lot of them actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:42 PM
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Hmmm.... I've never really thought about this before. In speaking of thinking about a sexual interaction, I'll say that I feel indifference towards about 40% of men. Utter disgust with 10%. 40% could be enjoyable. 5% would like to have sex with 5% completely and utterly attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:09 AM
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I don't know.... like, scale him from 1-10? 10 being godly sexy? I'd put him at about a 2-3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 07:00 AM
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Many people don't live happy lives, that's just how it is. However, whether it's lack of sex or becoming a paraplegic after an accident, you can rise above that. Life doesn't revolve around one thing. Never has and never will
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:52 AM
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Oh, I dont mind talking to him and having a beer or two. He doesn't creep me out and is generally a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:51 AM
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Um..... they are because for them it is a life or death situation. If a man doesn't get laid he wont physically die
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:44 AM
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Both. In my eyes, he doesn't have a penis. When I even think about him having genitalia it makes me wanna gag a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:43 AM
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Prostitutes do it for money so yes, those kinds of women already have that kind of mindset. You asked women on reddit who typically aren't prostitutes. What you should really do is ask prostitutes if they would be willing to have charity events for incels. I'm not a prostitute so no, Im not going to have sex with an unattractive man if I have any say in it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:39 AM
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I'm not entirely sure but I can tell you why I dont find him attractive He is overweight, balding, out of my age range, bad teeth, unattractive face. I would never sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:38 AM
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Because I'm not attracted to men like that. I guarantee that if I know an incel in real life, I'm not attracted to him. Otherwise I would have tried to sleep with him (when I was single)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:37 AM
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Because a vagina is not an object! It is attached to a person with thoughts, feelings, desires, dreams. We can't just take them off and throw it at you to use for fun. Just go buy a fleshlight and be happy for a moment. Also charities are different. Those effects are meant to last. One time sex with a chick who REALLY doesn't want to sleep with you? I'm sure thats going to really have a lasting impact /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:26 AM
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A dick CAN hurt and cause abrasions if a woman isn't turned on and I guarantee you I'm not going to be turned on by some incel begging me for sex out of pity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:24 AM
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Superiority complex because she doesn't want to have sex with someone she isn't attracted to? That's dumb. By that logic, an incel man should just have sex with lonely homeless women because it will make those women feel good and he will no longer be incel. She doesn't have to be a femenist to not want to sleep with a man she isnt attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:19 AM
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haha fuuuck no Most incel are incel for a reason and its not even necessarily out of looks. One of my coworkers hasn't had sex in 7 years and I would never sleep with him. Cool dude but not my type and I'm not going to sacrifice my memories and time just to make this guy feel better through sex. I'd rather just buy him a beer and call it a day/night
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 06:18 AM
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You have really high and unnecessary expectations. How many relationships have you been in? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 08:23 PM
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Everything so yes, both. I'm applying your logic to all aspects. Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. A lot of aspects attribute to a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:31 PM
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So you do everything you've done in the past with all partners? Even if not all of those things had positive experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:02 AM
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Lack of sex could be considered some form of manipulation if they are holding if over your head of course. Being selfless and having compromises can allow people to manipulate and pressure you. Being selfless is great but people take advantage of that and sometimes women in manipulative relationships are presssured into doing things they might not necessarily want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:00 AM
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Show me emperical research about vaginal walls in relation to amount of sex. Don't be dumb, dude. I know you're smarter than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:49 PM
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Vaginas don't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:26 PM
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Hm. If women are only worthy enough of being a cum dumpster, then they shouldn't be worthy enough to have changed you forever right? Come on, man. Get it together. Recover for your own mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:50 PM
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Maybe its the area you live in or maybe those girls were being immature and unrealistic about things. Both genders can do that. Some men do the same thing to women's labias that are normal. I wouldn't worry about it. Most people in college are a bit immature since they JUST left highschool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:48 AM
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So you're a girl who went to college? Or are you just making these assumptions out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:42 AM
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The average is 5 inches, you can find the answer on google
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 01:39 AM
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Wrong wrong wrong. Penis size, while the extremes might effect the relationship, typically doesn't matter. It's about what you do with it that matters. I've had bigger guys who shittier in bed than the average guys who blew my mind away
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 10:59 PM
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That's just simply not true. The guys I've dated who weren't an 8/10 weren't necessarily a professional stand up comedian. I liked them for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 10:29 PM
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I'm just saying that someone might experience something they didn't like in the past and they don't want to do it again. Now, I agree that it is a bit shady if someone did a sexual thing reoccuringly in the past and doesn't want to do it with said partner but then again, there is always the issue of possible trauma they experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 09:05 PM
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I'm just curious, what's the longest relationship you've been in? Do you consider yourself a selfless boyfriend/girlfriend? People tend to comrpromise things in relationships and unfortunately manipulative peopel take advantage of that. It starts off ok, then the manipulation increases and then the abuse starts to happen making people feel trapped. You should read up on how abusive relationships happen. Have you ever known anyone in an abusive relayionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 08:49 PM
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So let me get this straight, all of the men I've slept with I only slept with because they were 8/10? Ha. You'd laugh if you saw them all lined up. Personality means a lot to me actually and many women feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:12 AM
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ha... haha... I doubt it. What makes you say that? Women aren't all the same, you know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:28 PM
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An example of mentally abused people that stay in relationships? Just head over to r/relationships or r/relationship_advice so many people get stuck in abusive relationships and its almost always because the abuser started out nice and normal and it got progressively worse. You think the victims in these feel like they really have an out? no, I'm not saying that but what I am trying to say is that people can feel horrible moral pressures that doesn't always involve a gun. Having sex to me isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:10 PM
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So you always look at the end result of circumstances and not the events that led to them? That just seems like faulty reasoning when it comes to dealing with humans, especially. Some people feel pressure, don't know how to say 'no,' experienced something they hated and never want to do again... there is always a host of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:01 PM
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Men are so fucking clueless about women. Don't lie to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 05:59 PM
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So how do you feel about abusive (mentally/emotionally) relationships? The victims deserve what they get because they just should leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:47 PM
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Because you are only looking at one thing as a cause versus perhaps a symptom. Symptoms can be present in multiple things but it doesn't always mean certain death
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:46 PM
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That's dumb. You're actually going to say that you've never been pressured into a situation that actually wasn't a gunpoint situation? Peer pressure, familiar pressure, etc? Also, in highly manipulative relationships, like the one you described, you think people just easily see a way out? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:06 AM
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That is relevant! It's like saying, "Man, a lot of people who drink Coke have some sort of diahrrea throughout their lives. Coke must be the problem!" Well, is it really? In some cases maybe but for the most part, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:05 AM
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I put quotations around "dirty" because it can be perceived as dirty. Miles of dick? What does that even mean? And no, its not almost gay. Vaginal walls clean themselves so your dick won't be touching anything a dick has 'touched.' The epithelel (sp?) cells shed often since they are a self cleansing organ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:04 AM
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Then don't be in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:12 AM
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That's dumb. You are consuming coke, like actually taking it into your body. Also, penises can be considered a "dirty body part" and shouldn't be in people's food or drink. The analogy is a bit extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 08:01 AM
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But there are so many factors associated with modern day divorce. Ya know? Linking STRICTLY sexual partner count just seems like we are trying to assume that it would be the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:45 AM
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But men don't? How and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:36 AM
1

So you recognize the double standard and yet justify it? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:13 AM
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You are only in relationships because they have sex with you? That just seems dumb and a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:51 AM
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Oh shit! I forgot that we were talking about furniture and not actual human bodies which are far more complex and don't degrade over time with usage besides old age! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:50 AM
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Do you believe two women at the same time for one dude is just as slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:50 AM
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Sure but a lot of people have long term relationships and get married. So whats up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:49 AM
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I agree that something is always up with that but there is always much more to a situation than meets the eye
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:48 AM
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Oh, so you only feel pressured at gunpoint? Got it....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 04:48 AM
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Those are strong assumptions. A person can do things because they either wanted to, felt pressured or felt like they had no say in the matter. It could have been any one of those things. Not like he was more attractive than you, he could have been a shitty person who manipulated her into that situation. Also, if you are saying that the only thing you are doing in a relationship is putting up with her shit for sex, then that is super one sided and relationships shouldn't be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:40 PM
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Let's be honest, the main reasons people fuck each other is attraction to one another for some reason or the other. There are plenty of women who fuck dudes just because and don't offer them anything. People enjoy casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:34 PM
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Some people did things in the past because they felt pressured. It could be one of those things and if you love her, why put her through something that could upset her just as much as the previous incidents? If that isn't the case and she simply doesn't want to do it with you, then I'm not so sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:28 PM
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Convenient for me? No. I am in a relationship and could care less about what other men think about me personally. I'm just astounded that some people have these views
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:27 PM
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Yeah which is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:09 PM
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rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:09 PM
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That's stupid. Men gain things from women as well besides sex in a relationship such as commitment, partnership, friendship, financially (this isn't the 1800s, a lot of women make money).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:08 PM
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So both genders must have a low partner count and barely any kinks for them to be suitable for LTRs? That's silly. If that were true, a lot of couples wouldn't be together
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:07 PM
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Haha apparently! Yeeesh, this sub is ridiculous sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 09:02 PM
1

That's ridiculous but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:37 PM
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Why are yall treating people's sexual activities like some sort of weird score? People have all sorts of recreational sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:06 PM
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That is also idiotic. Women don't exchange things for sex. Women enjoy sex just like men do. Yes, both men and women can use people by having sex with them but those are the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:03 PM
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Woman here. I've banged two dudes at once on two separate occasions and would do it again lol however I'm in a very happy monogamous relationship right now :) P.s. no I don't cheat or only think of alphas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:47 PM
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Really? A woman is a whore if she had a threesome? That's ridiculous. Even if it was with her ex husband/boyfriend? That's shitty logic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:26 PM
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Meh. If she purposefully hid it, then maybe but sometimes people do things in their past that they regret and won't want to repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:26 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:24 PM
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That's dumb. Threesomes may not be something you are into but they aren't nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:24 PM
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Ha Hahaha You're ridiculous if you think that would work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:09 AM
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Why would her having a threesome even be an issue if it was in her past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:09 AM
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Not necessarily. I can be extremely horny (almost to horny) for my boyfriend and extremely aroused thinking about certain men that I would fuck all day everyday if I could. I might be more selective than the average guy but I have a very high libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 07:06 PM
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You do know that reddit has more male users than female users in general, right? This could easily describe why the subscribers in those subreddits have vast differences in amount of users. Constantly is a strange way to say that. We may be more choosey, but we are just as horny. Just because we dont view all types of men as a buffet, doesn't mean that we don't equally want to fuck as much as the men that we are selectively attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 07:41 PM
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Have you never gone over to r/ladybonersGW? We are over there salivating over men, being horny as fuck lol Also, many chick's that have slept with multiple men have been horny enough to be considered "starving" and not all dudes are just put there banging whomever when they get the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:53 PM
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Same. I cum at least 5 times when my boyfriend and I have sex.... Damn it. Now I'm horny hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:51 PM
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My boyfriend is nothing like the "typical chad." He isn't muscular, he isn't tall and he isn't driving around some suped up fast car. He is a sweet, intelligent guy. We fuck each others brains out. I love sex, some would call me hypersexual and I've been the one to introduce the kinky things in our relationship. Why? Because sex is awesome! It feels good and I get enjoyment out of his pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:50 PM
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I think some people can be fulfilled doing either but to limit yourself to a 9-5 or being a housewife because you feel like it is necessary to be happy is the mistake, not what they what they choose or not. I think she should raise the daughter to think independently and decide what would make their souls happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 02:17 AM
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I like my current boyfriend than I liked my ex. I dated my ex for a year because initially things were cool but he got more and more jealous and possessive so I dumbed his selfish ass. I can tell you right now that I am having way more sex with my current than my ex. You like different people for different things but my current boyfriend really seems like the total package You don't know the people you are dating are terrible until they reveal their true colors
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 01:07 AM
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I obviously liked the dude when I dated him but broke up with him because he was selfish. I also have dated dudes that weren't muscular and broke up with them because they were horrible human beings so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 08:27 PM
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Try not to generalize when it comes to this sort of thing. For instance, I don't know ANYONE who finds the dad bod sexy in my group of female friends. Will they sometimes date dudes whose bodies arent perfect? Sure but not because of money. Because of how we actually like the dude. My ex was an ex-bodybuilder who was ripped. My boyfriend is thin but not muscular in anyway. Guess who I've had more sex with? Current boyfriend but that's because I actually like the dude. Things aren't so black and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 08:05 AM
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I just wanted to say that I am saving this. I've been trying to say what you've been saying for years but haven't been able to with such elegance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 01:08 AM
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Ah ok. Thanks for the tip! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:59 AM
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If the crisis is because he made an ass out of himself, I'm not so sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:58 AM
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Idk. Unless someone is a raging alcoholic, I'm not worried. I also live in a place where everyone gets drunk a lot haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:58 AM
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Sure but where does this 'support' end? He is being rude to waitstaff? I'm calling his ass out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 07:35 PM
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Exactly. It sounds really slave-ish. I mean, is there a male list in which he has to do the exact same things? Sick to my stomach that someone actually believes this is how all women should behave to their men ALL THE time. No critique? So he cheats on me and I should just smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 07:34 PM
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Thank you. Some parts of the list are fine and others are just fucking weird. Stay sober? So I can't have a few drinks here or there but he can? Fuck that. Also, I will support my man but I WON'T support him doing something terrible to people. I deserve to question his methods without being pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 05:55 PM
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