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RELATIONSHIPSfirebal222/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 10:25 AM
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I try and hold the memories of his not-okay behavior in the forefront of my mind. That helps to maintain my decision, even if he is being a good partner at a certain moment. I always had the hope that it would be better this time, that we were closer than ever and wouldn’t come down from our high. But he always managed to repeat his actions, hurting me. I was always too forgiving, willing to forget amything had happened. If he could act like nothing happened, maybe I was just acting childish for…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 02:13 PM
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He does all these things, yes. He is certain people always play games in every interaction. This makes it difficult to have a genuine open conversation. In arguments and when angry he has called me names. Has thrown things in his anger, leaving me to clean it up. Your partner probably does not fit in a specific mental disorder box. He may have tendencies of bipolar disorder, coupled with paranoia and sprinkled with narcism. Just because we know where the behavior comes from, what the terminology…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 01:51 PM
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I am ashamed because I let it get that far without having the strength to say that I was not okay with it. I let him get away with a lot of negative behaviors. The blame is not solely on him, I was an enabler in this relationship. I hope that ending this relationship will be healthy for both of us, allow us to grow strong as individuals.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 01:44 PM
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It’s very possible that he has bipolar aspects to his personality. He has indicated that he tought about seeing a psychologist, after I told him that I would be looking for one to deal with our break-up. I sincerely hope that he will go through with that. But I have been hurt too many times. I cannot go through another period of rollercoaster rides.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 01:38 PM
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He did! It was very accusing. Making me feel bad for asking, making me the villain and him the victim. In hindsight these things are clear. But in those moments I never knew what was happening.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 02:26 PM
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Same. I had to show texts from friends to convince him that I was not meeting up with another man if I went out. If I worked late he was always suspicious. Funny how it never worked the other way around. He could come and go as he pleased, not needing to explain to me why he came home in the middle of the night. Because I trust my partner. If this is the only flaw in your otherwise healthy relationship, and you are ok with this, then live with it. But it is almost never one issue. And he can tur…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:59 PM
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Probably both :) I’ll be fine! I have a great support network who have my best interests at heart.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:45 PM
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I think I was providing financially, domestically and emotionally. He never said thanks for anything. He also doesnt believe in saying sorry. He says those are just words and don’t carry any weight. Which is utter crap. It’s very important to be able to say you are sorry. Damn, I just realized that he is more socially damaged than I thought.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:37 PM
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Yes, I will take time to heal and focus on self-care. I plan to visit a therapist as well to talk about how this has affected me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:21 PM
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There has been one time in the past where I had enough and asked him to move out. He was very unemotional about it and just asked me if I was sure, as he would not come back. He proceded to call some family to make arrangements to move out. I backed out of my decision at that time. I was not ready yet to be on my own. I feared not having someone to talk to, or cuddle. I love cuddles! When I look back on that moment, he acted very unaffected. I believe that in his mind he must not show emotional …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 12:19 PM
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Thank you for that. My personality is very positive, always thinking the best of people. I tend to go out of my way to please people I am close with. I am now working on improving that aspect of myself. Realizing that my needs are important as well, and that any good partner should be willing to communicate about both our needs. I am both sad and happy at this moment. I am not okay right now, but I will be. I will heal from this and become a better version of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:55 AM
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