firelitother Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Thinking about relationships when approaching women		firelitother	/r/seduction	16/05/19 05:34 PM
3	Introvert's first night out in a new country.		firelitother	/r/seduction	14/06/19 02:31 PM
3	Should dates be preplanned?	Logistics	firelitother	/r/seduction	28/10/20 02:36 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and others Which is pretty interesting because it shows that gender is not the problem, idealogy is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 09:23 AM
1	To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life? Personally, I care more about sexual health than body count. It's unfortunate that the correlation of increased STI risk and high body count is there.	/r/seduction	11/06/23 09:53 AM
2	The worst advice dating advice I've ever received. Some dysfunctional people attract other dysfunctional people. Ask yourself, is this what you want?	/r/seduction	01/05/23 11:16 AM
1	AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships? Ever saw the movie "Her"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:48 AM
1	AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships? STDs is a potential hazard	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:42 AM
1	CMV: The absence of celibate life paths kind of sucks. I think the problem is not that people don't get relationships. A lot of people nowadays are happy single. I think the problem is that people don't get sex. Because it is still being demonized by society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 01:25 AM
11	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me You can also limit yourself to one or a few partners who are tested. But that's a choice for people to make	/r/seduction	30/07/22 07:19 AM
22	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Condoms don't prevent all STDs i.e. herpes	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:29 AM
1	I am almost 40 years old and a virgin. Virginity has defined my entire life outlook. Did I miss the boat to date attractive 20 and 30 year old women? Out of all the things that you listed, I think your addictions are the most destructive and keeping you from the life you want. I suggest starting with that.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 11:46 PM
1	Don't be afraid to show a woman what you want! Giant wall of text! Please format this!	/r/seduction	18/07/22 11:43 PM
4	How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls? Is there a guide to small talk? Most people recognize that it is an essential skill but I have yet to see any guides that is not vague or rhetorical	/r/seduction	18/07/22 11:42 PM
2	Not getting laid? Go travelling ! The most expensive sex you will ever have is the one you didn't pay for 😉	/r/seduction	05/07/22 03:35 PM
2	How do sober people get casual sexual encounters? Dude, where you when i was with a girl at night eating chicken nuggets?	/r/seduction	24/06/22 05:20 AM
1	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? It's not a conscious thing. It's a biological drive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 04:23 PM
1	Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attraction Sure, but that is not the hard part. The hard part is mutual attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 06:39 PM
3	Are men with high body counts more attractive? thats not the same as not having a romantic partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 10:44 AM
1	Most men nowadays are afraid of approach and ask women out because they fear that women will think men are stalking and sexually harassing them This healthy kind of selfishness is good. You cant control what people think so stop worrying about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:59 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. They are. But most hide it under the virtue signaling "it's whats inside that matters" response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:04 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Ironically, "self worth" is something you are given. If you grew up being told you are below average, you would think that way regardless of reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:01 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. There goes the argument that woman value personality over looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:00 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Women don’t have to have sex with strange men off the street, and men don’t have to enter into relationships. aka the lose-lose scenario	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 06:47 AM
1	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle Contraceptives don't exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 01:27 AM
1	Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partner Yeah but you have the ability to connect w people emotionally for all of those things. I have heard this argument before. You can certainly have great relationships with friends and family. But it's still not a substitute for a romantic relationship. Nothing is. Maybe in the end you are right. But there are some things that can be learned only by experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:36 PM
1	Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partner I don't need to. My female friend showed me her account and I agree that there are a LOT of guys messaging her. I understand that it's tiring. But it still a much better position than having NO option at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:33 PM
1	Clubs are a phenomenal place to pick up women and most people don't talk about it. Only applies to the younger crowd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:28 PM
3	Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partner How do you know those bananas are rotten? You have already prejudged people without even a single reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:21 PM
2	Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partner Relationships and interactions are a 2 way street its not privileged if someone doesn't vibe with you. In the rich poor thing everyone needs money to survive in our current economic climate. Without monetary value a poor person is likely to die or be unable to do their day or day tasks. Yeah because love, emotional support, intimacy and relationships have obviously less worth than money /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:14 PM
1	Bitter men and bitter women tend to have the exact same gripes with each other. This shows that the problem isn't actually the collective actions of either gender, but individuals having bad experiences and lashing out because they feel powerless. Angrey, sexless men are very easy to radicalize...which can lead to a lot of social problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 04:23 PM
1	Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasm couple dancing or solo dancing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 05:33 PM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here "Oh sorry, baby, I'm 33, I have no money but I'm a chad ..that's enough, right"? Not disagreeing with your main point, but yes, there are women who thinks that's enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 04:24 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here There is a world of difference. For introverts, it's a skill that they need to learn. If it was not actually necessary to function in society, some of them wouldn't even be doing it at all. For extroverts, socializing refills their energy. It's less of a skill and more of a lifeline that they have been doing since they were young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 04:12 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here For one, we live in an age where women don't need men to earn for them. For most of history, women have to pair up because it is an economic necessity. Two, there was no social media before. So women's choices are basically limited a lot less compared to the global pool of guys that they are exposed to today. Both of these factors changed the game for guys who are introverted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 04:09 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here Definitely not. Do you think average guys/girls pine for other average guys/girls? Everyone pines for the top guys/girls but learn to compromise after they don't get what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 04:01 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here There is a solution. And that is those women actually do the initiative of pursuing those nerdy stable guys. But probably won't happen because women are socially(also perhaps biologically?) conditioned to wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 03:48 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here i've honestly seen heterosexual dudes turn into bisexuals, they also denied it at first, but it can happen, especially due to internet porn influence, not saying it's a bad thing. It is also possible that they were in denial if a nerdy guy wants to have sex with a normie stacy, then isn't it his fault that his exceptions are too high? most girls aren't able to get chads or prettyboys if they have undesirable qualities. It's sad that we still live in a world with a caste/class mindset. "Only Ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 03:39 AM
1	(Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around here Some things are only understood after a fact. Such is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 03:26 AM
3	Female friends… In your other comment you said you hate generalizations. And yet here you are generalizing an entire gender.	/r/seduction	24/03/22 04:46 PM
2	Are Modern Women's dating standards too high? Why or why not? And like passive income, only those who have capital(attractiveness) can use it	/r/seduction	23/03/22 05:51 PM
0	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? unfettered access to sex. Ever heard of marital rape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 02:41 AM
1	[23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth? I thought you were around 30-40+ TBH. But good on you for gaining self-awareness.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 01:57 AM
1	Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your life You're lucky if you work in a tech company that values work-life balance.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 04:53 PM
0	Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your life > And no, playing video games, watching movies & jacking off doesn’t count (i can just hear your fat fingers downvoting already)… You forget long work hours, family obligations, depression, etc. But sure, go ahead and blame them. It's easy.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 02:54 PM
1	Lots of women are pushing back against the patriarchy and trying to hold men to higher standards, but what difference does it make if they don't have children? A culture that produces less and less children will eventually be replaced by a culture that produces more children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:42 PM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest You are too focused on the sex part. The transaction doesn't need to involve sex, as you have outlined above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:27 PM
3	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance Human beings are social animals. This is why rejection is painful. To pretend otherwise is to live in denial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:24 PM
7	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance I tried the "be friends first before trying to date" twice. Both did not end well. Now I am putting a clear line between women I date and women who I make friends with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:16 PM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I want someone who makes my life better than I ever imagined and I’ll do the same for them. But it’s not a tit for tat trade. If you can't see the blatant contradiction of your statements here, then there is nothing more to discuss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:37 PM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest "My promise of a relationship/sex in exchange for making my life better" is still a transaction	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 08:29 AM
1	Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months, I feel sorry for you if have sh*tty male friends. But let's not pretend that is even remotely true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:17 AM
1	Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months, Being in a relationship is irrelevant since one can still have sex without being in one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:02 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest The other comments in this thread are exactly the opposite of what you are saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:51 AM
0	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest It depends very much on culture. There are other cultures in the world where materialism is the norm. You don't even get considered if you don't hit the minimum threshold.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:50 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I disagree. I believe that the same number of people still want relationships/marriage. What changed is how hard it is to get a partner and/or how expensive it is to support a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:47 AM
3	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I am pretty sure that's not generally true. Otherwise, there wouldn't be a lot of older, bitter single women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:40 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Must be something in the olrder generation? My grandparents were still in love even in their old years but my parents' relationship was rocky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:30 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Looking at where we are going, it seems that romance will now again be a thing of the past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:27 AM
3	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest A lot of men nowadays that demand traditional relationships do not have what it takes to sustain one. Relationships are obviously not one sided but many of you fail to realize that what you put in is exactly what you get in return. But do women communicate this with their partners? Or this is one of those things where guys are expected to mind read?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:25 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I think the problem with this kind of attitude is that it is a very present centric approach to life. The problem is that when loneliness/libido suddenly hits you when you are older and finding out that you can't rewind time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 03:12 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Now it's not. Kids no longer have an economical value for parents, and instead act as money sinks. It's a luxury to have kids now, not an asset. No wonder kids are fucked up nowadays if parents think of their kids like that. What has the world gone to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:50 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Women would prioritize sex if men prioritized the female orgasm the way they do their own. Yes, but do women teach their men who to do it? Or is it one of those things that are expected that they "just know"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:47 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest If we are going to approach relationships as transactions, then better do away with marriage which lasts a lifetime. Replace it with short-term contracts like "I only promise to be in this relationship for 3 years".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:39 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest They aren't downloading Tinder and Bumble for the love and romance. Before that might be the case. But today(and especially during the pandemic), online dating is probably one of the few places they are able to partners. Let's face it. Online Dating Apps are mainstream now and are not just used for hookups. In a world where women can vote and go to college and take birth control... what use do they have for being sex objects or for being an accessory to the male experience/story/frame? You act a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:35 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I think the previous generation raised boys up to be less masculine and too accomodating. While we don't want to have toxic, "macho" guys, having doormats is also not the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:25 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest It's just the thought of looking at a really attractive woman and then imagining how amazing the sex would be with her when in reality most women don't really have that raw energy and playfulness. Not just women. Men and women should not lose their inner child. The raw energy and playfulness come from not succumbing to cynicism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:23 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest 2022 and we are still influenced by outdated sexual norms. I long for the day when people are not discriminated by just being honest about their sexual needs. There is so much invalidation of sexual needs from both sides. Like hello! Some people have high libidos!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:16 AM
1	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest It seems like only men are saddened by being "forever alone" and sexless. Women thrive when alone. Because men are also socially conditioned to think that if they can't have sex or are still a virgin, they are losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:12 AM
-1	Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive. I find that bizarre. Are you saying having a friendly debate will never lead to a good conversation? If the person on the other side just keep on agreeing with you to not rock the boat, are you really having a connection?	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:50 AM
0	Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive. I guess it all boils down to social manipulation then. Nevermind authenticity, who needs that, right?	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:19 AM
2	Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive. The key is to remember that the point of discussion is generally not to find the truth, but to hold a conversation that validates both parties and creates a momentary harmony. Nah I disagree. To borrow a quote from Don't Look Up Not everything needs to sound so clever, or charming, or likeable all the time. Sometimes we need to just be able to say things to one another. We need to hear things.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 12:10 AM
2	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : Most of the advice is great since guys can do something about them. But the low sound voice is stupid since people can't change their voice enough to matter. Rather focus on learning how to hold a conversation well.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 04:19 AM
3	Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom? I agree with you. But my point was something else. That is, maintaining a 12-16% BF ratio is not something everyone can do, especially whose genetics are not predisposed to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 11:08 PM
6	Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom? Just posting a comment from some random article According to the American Council on Exercise, the average for a guy is 18% to 24% body fat; 15% to 17% body fat puts you in the fitness category, while 6% to 13% body fat is athlete status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 02:48 PM
1	Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West? I would argue that stable nations with good opportunities are increasingly becoming destinations for migrants. It's very likely these countries will be unable (or, perhaps, unwilling) to stave off the tide of migrants. They'll eventually be swamped. Whether the outcome is good or bad depends on how successful they are at integrating the migrants into their culture. I would agree. Integration will be very important otherwise violence will be the result which is just not good in the long term. One…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 02:43 PM
18	Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom? I think it is used to be "healthy enough to live long and age nicely" Now it seems to be "gym bod or you are not fit".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 02:40 PM
1	Late-blooming men get talked about here a lot. What would your advice be for late-blooming women? In reality it matters because of social stigma and humans are social creatures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 12:38 PM
5	Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruel Girls in Tinder are still women. Don't fall for the no True Scotsman fallacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:11 AM
4	Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely know So small town guys are doomed?	/r/seduction	14/01/22 11:54 AM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid You "gurus" crack me up. Incel? Do you even know what my relationship status is right now? "To be good with women you have to be more social". Funny how some men who are not social by your definition still get partners. They cheated the system? I do agree with your "insanity" quip though. Change things up if nothing is working for you.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 04:55 AM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid In a smaller town, I would agree this is true.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 08:16 AM
2	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid AKA pretend to be another person just to get girls. Let's see how that works out.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 08:11 AM
2	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid I totally understand because I already did the "socials + hobbies" thing and it did fuck all. It feels living a fake life. That's what you don't get. A lot of people are inherently wired to be introverts or hobbies that are home-based or not attractive to girls. Does that mean they are doomed? What happened to "there is someone for everyone"?	/r/seduction	12/01/22 08:10 AM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid Great advice for those who live in countries that have already opened up.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 08:03 AM
2	If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women? This is depressing as fuck. Basically it's like you should settle because others don't even have it that good.	/r/seduction	24/12/21 11:04 AM
1	If you are inexperienced, or are trying to improve your skills with women, view dating simply as practice and a social experiment. Have fun, be observant, leave expectations at the door How would reconcile just having fun and being extremely observant? I don't think you can do one with the other.	/r/seduction	24/12/21 01:29 AM
0	Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laid Hating women runs counter to getting with them anyway.	/r/seduction	23/12/21 02:19 AM
1	How To Get What You Want Honestly, as a person who hates social manipulation, I have surrendered to the fact that people can and do want to be manipulated to feel good. Feels slimey but men must be prepared to do what needs to be done.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 09:29 AM
-1	Message for the guys that feel like giving up Looks deceptively like good advice. But more often than not just ends up yet another excuse not to approach girls.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 12:49 PM
4	Seduction is actually high level. If you don't have your life together, don't know how to hold a conversation with random people, don't know how to make friends. Trying to learn seduction might do more harm than good. And yet people who don’t have their life together can still get girls and get laid. YOLO. If you wait when you have everything together, you might find that it is too late by then.	/r/seduction	14/11/21 03:33 AM
1	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? There is a reason why "love is blind" quote exists. It's pretty much universal and not tied to a gender. I have known people whose friends and family have tried to convince them that his/her BF/GF is toxic and they should break up. But they still wouldn't listen. I guess the reason why women get more attention when they do is because society has put women on a pedestal and forgot that they too are flawed human beings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 01:01 AM
1	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? I don't know what's your agenda bringing TRP into this. I am basically just paraphrasing what Rene Descartes said. “To know what people really think, pay attention to what they do, rather than what they say.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 12:55 AM
13	Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating? Yes. Paying more attention to what people do and less attention to what they say is a very good advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 12:37 PM
1	The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident. The idea of not being able to make a woman cum at all, unless she has some sort of medical issue, honestly blows my mind. The female orgasm is not some mystical and elusive thing. Its not mind blowing at all. If men if today have less sex than before and most men don't get it, how do you think they would gain the experience to please a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 11:26 AM
37	No confidence/female attention I followed this advice and it went nowhere. Girls will just think you are friendly You absolutely must show intention that you are interested in her romantically.	/r/seduction	28/08/21 12:32 PM
1	What are some nice mixed gendered hobbies or activities? Of course you do both. Exactly because one is not a substitute for the other.	/r/seduction	27/07/21 12:27 AM
1	What are some nice mixed gendered hobbies or activities? If one wants to improve their social skills with women, no amount of male company will replace the experience of actually meeting with girls.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 05:36 PM
35	Sex won’t make you happy Doesn't matter from which mouth it came from. Truth is truth. Not even a fan of his music.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 02:25 PM
573	Sex won’t make you happy “Having money isn't everything, not having it is.” ― Kanye West Replace money with sex.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 09:58 AM
2	This girl unmatched me because I am a FOB Fresh of the Boat	/r/seduction	05/06/21 03:24 PM
1	Skincare for men is underrated Not really a skincare routine thing but what do you think about big moles?	/r/seduction	30/05/21 10:07 AM
1	How many are easily swayed by the "cynical" angle? > I think these guys just can't accept the truth, that women are attracted to confidence and masculinity. Well, based on your post, what I got was that women are attracted to excitement and novelty, not exactly confidence and masculinity.	/r/seduction	22/05/21 10:23 AM
1	Why you are not attractive, and how to be it. It certainly is difficult for some people. This is largely genetics. People cannot do anything with that.	/r/seduction	22/05/21 08:39 AM
2	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will never prosper. Nope. people can still exploit a genuine, nice person. Nobody likes a doormat.	/r/seduction	01/05/21 06:19 PM
6	Don't be a nice guy > There’s like 8 things every human wants. If this is true, then everyone would easily find a partner. But the truth is, everyone has his/her own criteria.	/r/seduction	24/01/21 03:06 PM
2	Why “nice guys finish last” I think also another problem for guys living in smaller places is that you can only fail so much until you have meet most of the girls in the area.	/r/seduction	22/12/20 04:02 PM
6	Bcool’s Tips for Dudes pt1: Before the Date Thanks dude. It's just what I need.	/r/seduction	27/10/20 02:48 AM
2	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! It's far from over until a vaccine is found.	/r/seduction	13/09/20 02:58 AM
1	7 Different Ways You Can Overcome Approach Anxiety Asking time in this day and age seem rather quaint. It almost always looks like an excuse to converse.	/r/seduction	15/08/20 05:19 PM
1	You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection. Quality men go after what they want and don't get butthurt by rejection. So introverted men are not quality? What a load of crap.	/r/seduction	15/08/20 03:05 PM
2	You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection. The point is that rejection shouldn't cause you pain. That's not solving the problem. That's just repressing your feelings which will cause more problems down the line.	/r/seduction	15/08/20 03:00 PM
1	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. You are probably preaching to the choir. The societies who need to hear this the most aren’t receptive to the message.	/r/seduction	11/08/20 01:08 AM
1	Why Self-Improvement Is More Important Than "Getting Women" The main takeaway at the end is improve yourself outside of attracting women. Female attraction becomes a by-product. Meaning get your money right so you can make your life easier and have fun... with a woman or not. This can go with any area of your life, not just money. I am pretty sure that there are lots of men who have done self-improvement but still don't get girls. If you want to focus on yourself, do self-improvement. If you want to get on with girls, then interact with them. No excuses.	/r/seduction	24/04/20 12:57 AM
1	Why Self-Improvement Is More Important Than "Getting Women" Self-improvement can also be used as an escape/excuse to actually approach women and risk rejection.	/r/seduction	24/04/20 12:54 AM
1	Why You Should Learn To Love F*king Up Anxiety really fcks things up in both inner game and social interactions.	/r/seduction	20/04/20 04:21 PM
5	5 Golden Rules To A Successful Tinder Profile (+STEAL MY PROFILE!) TL;DR Learn Photography and Storytelling	/r/seduction	22/03/20 08:55 AM
1	A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer"women Thanks for the free ebook. Will definitely check it out later. > Tell me, do you struggle to make jokes and tell compelling stories among trusted friends and family members? Among friends and family members, I don't even have to think about creating compelling stories. I find that I am comfortable conversing without having a "performance" mindset.	/r/seduction	21/03/20 02:28 PM
2	A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer"women Make her laugh... Tease her... Tell her cool stories... Errr, the reason why I am in this sub is because I am bad at these things due to social anxiety. That's what I want to learn. Not everyone is a natural.	/r/seduction	21/03/20 12:57 PM
1	I think I finally get now: If your only criteria for success is having sex with the girl then you’re gonna have a bad time... First things first. Will cross that bridge when we get there.	/r/seduction	16/02/20 05:40 PM
1	Success in the 30s Really depends on the location. Women in some places see older men as mature. In other cultures, it is looked down to pursue women much younger than you.	/r/seduction	12/02/20 09:37 AM
2	I'm not the most successful man, but the few successes I've had were straight forward. Its really not that hard Nah, this kind of thinking leads to making excuses for avoiding approaching and pursuing girls. Don't wait for the time that you are "ready". The time is now!	/r/seduction	09/02/20 03:13 PM
3	I'm not the most successful man, but the few successes I've had were straight forward. Its really not that hard Agreed. You can be the most successful man in the world and still be miserable. I think the important thing here is to really determine what you want and go with it. Get feedback from other people but trust your gut instinct. If being with a girl makes you happy then just pursue it!	/r/seduction	09/02/20 02:43 PM
3	I'm not the most successful man, but the few successes I've had were straight forward. Its really not that hard I have already invested so much in myself to that the point that there's never a boring weekend. The problem I have is twofold 1) My hobbies are not social 2) I am confident but I still don't know how to escalate. Guess each one has their own things to work on.	/r/seduction	09/02/20 02:41 PM
1	How do I know if I'm being kept as a beta male orbiter by a class mate? Damn. I messed up bad.	/r/seduction	08/02/20 09:02 AM
1	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? I have not made meeting women as a priority and it got me nowhere. As much as this sub advocate not meeting women as a priority, it can easily turn into a mental excuse to avoid rejection.	/r/seduction	06/02/20 08:53 AM
1	Dating as a Depressed Millenial I disagree. What if I just want to have fun and get laid? Just because you are chasing a woman doesn't mean you want a relationship that gives your life meaning.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 07:14 AM
1	Read this if you feel depressed > Does anyone have advice? God I’m sorry this was so cringe Don't apologize man. I am in the same boat as you. From the outside, I socialize every week, I do great and enjoy my work, I go out and do my hobbies. But inside I am just dying. I feel like a loser not being able to get into dates, let alone into a relationship.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 04:00 AM
3	Read this if you feel depressed 35 years old. Never had sex. Never in a relationship. Started self-improvement 5 years ago because I had enough. I am glad that I was able to improve tremendously. I got out of my country to work abroad, I was able to lose a lot of weight. I learned how to dress better. I had some new interesting hobbies like photography and bouldering to replace video games. But the truth is, I still feel empty. I feel that self-improvement was just another another excuse, another distraction to what I really w…	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:55 AM
2	Sex & Dating shouldn't be your solution to emptiness I agree with the premise that it shouldn't fill in the emptiness. But at the end of the day, even if I have done self-improvement and satisfied with self-progress, I still want companionship at the end of the day. It is especially hard for someone like me that was never in a relationship. Some things are just meant to be tried no matter what other people say.	/r/seduction	30/01/20 10:04 AM
2	How to meet women if you are shy Nah. Just a really good cope. At the end of the day if you're shy in the sense that you're fearful of talking to a girl then that means you lack core value and are coming from a place of weakness. If shyness is a weakness, then a lot of guys are screwed.	/r/seduction	27/01/20 05:06 PM
1	Rejection Isn’t Even that Bad I just tried to date a girl who brought a "friend" with her. Turned out to be her boyfriend. Fuck that. Next!	/r/seduction	09/11/19 03:26 PM
2	It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%. Dressing up, looking good, improving your style is all well and good. It's part of being a great guy. But there's a point when you can become too obsessed with it. It's like when you are naturally introverted and you try to pretend you are an extrovert. At first, it works but as time goes on it gets exhausting pretending all the time.	/r/seduction	08/11/19 03:59 AM
1	Short (5'5) virgin asian male, struggling to get dates and socialize in college Did he get laid?	/r/seduction	08/11/19 03:15 AM
2	It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%. How far will you go to change just to get a girl? I guess if you really want to, then you can do the above. But if you are looking for something else, can you swallow doing that for the rest of your life?	/r/seduction	08/11/19 03:13 AM
9	Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your Problems What about for those people who never got laid?	/r/seduction	04/11/19 01:18 AM
2	Most women increase their SMV when they really need an increase in RMV (men are in need of both) Nope. It increases the expectations and demands on a potential partner. Nobody is going to want to pair with a poor person in an expensive world. Here is also another problem. Men who have lots of money are the ones who usually have access to a lot of women. So women who wants an economic advantaged man to commit to them will have to compete with lots of women over a smaller pool of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/19 07:09 AM
2	Most women increase their SMV when they really need an increase in RMV (men are in need of both) I disagree. There are other factors at play too. Some things that I can think of from the top of my head. Increased cost of living and work expectations. MeToo movement that makes men think twice when interacting with women The promotion of easy and solitary entertainment	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/19 06:51 AM
2	Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself. And on the girl, relationships are hard work too. You can't just let go and be your sorry self, after a couple of years you need to do things to keep your long term relationship alive, like planning fun things to do and that includes realizing how female psychology works and that a guy that gives up and just wants to stay in the same place and not improve his life will become unattractive to a female really fast. And all the love you give and things youd do for her will make her love you very mu…	/r/seduction	17/10/19 03:19 PM
2	How the EGO Effects Your "Game" Love this post. But I would be interested on exercises that develops this mindset.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 04:01 AM
1	Where do you find girls? Randomly at a coffee shop? Work? Or club/bar? How do you do it? Isn't it creepy when some stranger suddenly just approach you out of nowhere?	/r/seduction	05/08/19 12:10 AM
4	Wish I could love fully i think "loving hard" might cross into being needy or clingy.	/r/seduction	05/08/19 12:06 AM
1	You don't have to be perfect or a high-achiever to date, and you need to stop being so hard on yourselves (xpost from /r/dating_advice) Therapy is probably the one that can help the most. Sadly, its also inaccessible in most parts of the world.	/r/seduction	27/07/19 10:45 AM
1	How to deal with girls in clubs? a girl glimpses at me, kind of walks around and then stops right infront of me, facing me with her back. It is a pretty clear sign to me that she is attracted to me (helps to be a model). Crap. So many times I misintepreted this signal.	/r/seduction	22/06/19 10:32 AM
3	The TOP 7 Biggest Turn Offs For Women Shit, I am guilty of at least 5 of this.	/r/seduction	21/06/19 04:35 PM
2	If you're Asian, you are not doomed Fucking A advice here!	/r/seduction	15/06/19 06:44 AM
1	Introvert's first night out in a new country. Singapore	/r/seduction	14/06/19 03:06 PM
2	8 Excuses Men Use Not To Approach Women (and why they're all BS) I have used every excuse in this list unfortunately. Now things can change when I am already aware of them.	/r/seduction	21/05/19 11:12 AM
2	Thinking about relationships when approaching women Thanks man. What you say makes a lot of sense.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 05:43 PM
2	8 Commandments For Modern Day Game Touché. Everything applies to my situation.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 05:14 PM
1	10 Simple Exercises To Build Rock-Solid Self-Belief & Charisma #2 and # is so true. I have no idea how to improve #7 without a reliable social circle.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 04:25 PM
1	At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial Era FORGIVE YOURSELF. Forgive yourself for being imperfect. Forgive yourself for making mistakes. Forgive yourself for being a learner in this world. I actually practice a guided forgiveness meditation I can link if your interested. PM me the link	/r/seduction	25/03/19 03:45 PM
1	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read) So paying attention to your body language > PUA techniques.	/r/seduction	17/02/19 07:33 AM
2	The best seduction books (you probably haven't read) I thought the "ink" part was a typo of "link"	/r/seduction	17/02/19 06:04 AM
2	A Useful Frame of Mind for Women you are Friends With Live in a way, so when I die, I have zero regrets. Life is too short, you wont regret on your deathbed that you did ask her out and she rejected you but you will regret never having asked her out. Yup, this is the most important thing. Live a life without regrets.	/r/seduction	09/09/18 05:04 PM
1	How do you develop an abundance mentality? Where does it stem from? You forgot the /s	/r/seduction	06/09/18 01:32 AM
3	Rant: Eastern Europe is not the Red Pill Paradise you think it is Strange. One would think that a mixed-race family would be more open to other races.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 06:29 AM