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Your boss's opinion in this situation is irrelevant, she has no business in your personal life. Everyone in line is also irrelevant, they're spectators. If you've ever done massive sets before you know they just melt into the background eclipsed by your awesome, or overwhelm you and you walk away looking like a creep. Go talk to her, do anything, just as long as you do something.
/r/seduction17/06/12 12:50 AM
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She wasn't even thinking about the ACT score, she was reacting to the way he was saying it. If you had been feeling like more of a bad ass, and making stronger moves, she would have been looking at you instead.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:41 AM
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Great to hear, that's the best way to train. You learn so much while sober and you don't have any distractions when out solo.
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:42 PM
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The way to attract a girl when talking about geeky stuff, is to be feeling a powerful emotion while doing it. The pitfall here is trying to talk in a logical manner with her. If she's a geek, she'll talk with you about it for a bit, but even she won't get turned on and if you're out she's going to ditch you to find someone who's going to arouse and bone her. For a girl to want to have sex with you, you have to make her feel strong emotions. Thus you could talk to the dumbest girl about relativit…
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:36 PM
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This is how I would go about it. If I liked the guy, I'd ask him if he'd be okay with it. There's no sense in losing a good friend for a girl. If I didn't care for him, I'd have sex with her either way.
/r/seduction15/05/12 07:30 PM
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Plateaus happen, they're unavoidable. Keep going out and when you get fed up with caring, or not going hard enough, or something clicks, you'll have a surge in results. Check out Mastery by George Leonard for more insight on this.
/r/seduction15/05/12 07:24 PM
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You're in dangerous waters man, I've been there. Don't allow yourself to get needy. Good luck with the relationship.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:40 AM
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It's not an issue until she brings it up. At the same time, don't front that you're an angel.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:35 AM
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Focus on the fact that you attracted a 10, not that you messed up. If you had gone up to her and she'd rejected you would you have been beating yourself up over it? Of course not, no one who is at your level would. Frame it as a success, remember to get the number next time, but focus more on the success. Also, what Tofu is saying, learn to NGAF.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:30 AM
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Approach all the time.
/r/seduction14/05/12 05:45 AM
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Really? Horizontally gifted women aren't any less intimidating? That's one of my best secrets, getting off the ground by saying hello to unattractive girls. One thing that works wonders for me is saying that my first approach, I'm not going to try to pull or anything. I'm not even going to talk to her any longer than I feel comfortable. I go up, say whatever is on my mind which is usually: Hello I'm <fires>. How is your night going? If nothing comes to mind after that, I politely excuse myself. …
/r/seduction14/05/12 05:23 AM
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Also understand that your ability in nightgame carries over to daygame and vice versa. Plus nightgame is the ultimate training ground. EDIT: Your dayskills aren't void in nightgame, you're just letting the environment get the best of you. Learn to speak MUCH LOUDER. Mess up by escalating very quickly a bunch of times before you learn to do it right. Ideally when you're in a good mood it should be extremely easy to pull a girl in against you off the open and have a conversation with her in an emb…
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:46 AM
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I think working on style is important, but it's definitely his approach that's the discerning factor. With solid 'game' everything matters much less in comparison.
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:45 AM
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"Daygame and nightgame are very different. Direct approaches work well during the day and indirect work better at night." No. "Make eye contact and approach." Yes. "Never approach from the back or even the front." Not necessarily, it's irrelevant, but you don't want to freak her out. "A lot of girls have their shields up at night." This is a limiting belief, not worth acknowledging. Sometimes true, but thinking that it's even an issue is limiting. "The key is to have fun like you don't even know…
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:38 AM
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The only way to be very aggressive and not come off creepy is to feel good and be doing it for your own amusement. There are two major factors that help with cockblocks. First one is that her friends should want to bone you and think you're awesome. The second is owning the interaction. An example: Last night I pulled this gorgeous brunette. I'm at an obnoxiously loud party and right off the open I pull this girl in and lovingly pin her against a wall. While we're talking(well it was pretty one …
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:26 AM
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I'm willing to bet it becomes weird because you start feeling bad and then you try to hide that from other people instead of voicing exactly where you are and being okay with that. Do things for your own amusement and that will put you in a better mood. Act on your whims.
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:01 AM
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Say whatever is on your mind, stop filtering yourself. If you aren't in a social mood it will be stupid at first, then you'll get progressively more interesting. In the end the point is entertaining yourself, not trying to impress other people. Some people will hate you when you do this, others will love you.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:57 AM
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Wait so you won't have sex with her casually but you're okay with cutting all contact with her? If she's interested in you romantically, kindly tell her you aren't and ask her to stop messing with your options. If she doesn't respect your wishes, embarrass her about it, she's being a bitch. If she's cool with a FWB relationship, start one up and she'll probably stop trying to stand in your way because you're satisfying her. There's no sense losing a friend over the situation.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:53 AM
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Dude you're in the seduction forum, and you're trying to wife a chick when you haven't even had sex with her and she's going away on vacation over the summer. Something doesn't jive here. Spend those three months chasing tail, learn to get good at this stuff and gain perspective about how many amazing girls are out there. You have tunnel vision. Plus, aren't you going off to college? The last thing I'd want to do is shack up when you're about to be in a place where beautiful intelligent girls ar…
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:26 AM
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This. She's freshly 18, and going to vacation IN FRANCE. Sexy, smooth, buff gentlemen speaking the language of love will be surrounding her. She's going to get railed by at least 5 guys; maybe at the same time. Girls go wild on vacation because there's no repercussions or record of the indiscretions. EDIT: She's going with a girlfriend of hers? They are literally on a mission for Frenchmen.
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:24 AM
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The only way to not be scared of rejection is to experience it. A lot. No, like every day. Every single day. It will hurt sometimes, it's a good hurt.
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:19 AM
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Dude, you're so money and you don't even know it. You see you have these claws... Haha anyway your game is a much bigger determinant of whether you'll get laid or not. Yeah looks matter a bit, but being self conscious about it gets you nowhere and when your charisma is halfway decent looks start to matter very little. Go out a lot, hit up girls hard for a year and work on your weight at the same time. The point is consistency man, keep at it. http://youtu.be/jk6g3XEtsoo?t=5m20s
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:14 AM
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I'm trying to say you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/seduction14/05/12 12:56 AM
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Hahahaha there are no steadfast rules, most of this is over thought, and some of it is plain wrong. "DO NOT LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN WALKING BY AS YOU TALK TO HER." Do whatever you want, jealousy is a powerful emotion.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:59 PM
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You need to approach more.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:56 PM
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"You have to give a girl a memorable approach to where she wants to see you again." No, that's selling yourself instead of assuming you're the buyer. Your problem is that you're coming in believing that you have to prove yourself and you aren't leading.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:52 PM
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This, there's no risk. It's win win because a rejection allows you to give fewer fucks and bone hotter women.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:50 PM
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No idea, if you still want to hang out with him though, shoot him a mildly flirty text once every week or two. Enough to show that you're available.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:43 PM
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The only thing I can tell you that won't put you in your head is to be genuine and approach as many girls as you can on a day to day basis before you ask her out. Just be totally genuine and it might work out, say EXACTLY what you're thinking when you're talking to her. You can be crazy nervous, but if she's your type and you're being genuine she'll be attracted. Even if "I want to stick my finger in your ass" comes to mind, say it then deal with the consequences later. Besides this girl though,…
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:30 PM
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Just ask her out. Objectively, you're needy so it probably won't work out. Obviously you want to simultaneously be able to acknowledge the objective reality, and be entirely certain that she's hurting to have sex with you immediately. That's something you'll learn to do with time. For now be completely genuine and ask her out. If she says no, you get | | much closer to getting laid with a great girl. That's what rejection does, it gives you the ability to give fewer fucks with the next girl. Jus…
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:08 PM
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This is a limiting belief.
/r/seduction13/05/12 09:01 PM
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This is the piece of advice that ends all "what do I open with?" problems. Well, this and having your own rhythm. Good show.
/r/seduction13/05/12 08:59 PM
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She was messing with you, the only way to fail there is to be negatively emotionally affected by her statement.
/r/seduction13/05/12 08:57 PM
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No it isn't flawed, it's simply designed without your well being in mind. You have to adapt. Clubs are great for approaching large volumes of girls, and getting rejections which allow you to be more chill over time. You can find quality girls there, but not often, they avoid those places mostly. Club sluts are everywhere though, to get them you have to practice self amusement and leading with strong physicality. Approaching on the dance-floor is about being completely on your own rhythm. If you'…
/r/seduction13/05/12 07:21 PM
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"No" **cheeky grin Any 'friend'(read: bitch) that does this should be backhanded. By the way, interruptions like this don't even have to trip you up. Don't allow yourself to be emotionally affected by it, and ignore whatever you don't want to entertain while paying attention to and doing what you want on a whim. This is called being unreactive.
/r/seduction13/05/12 06:53 PM
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