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firstlight777/r/askMRP11/05/19 04:41 PM
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Victim Pukefirstlight777/r/askMRP04/02/19 04:28 AM
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Appraiser here. You can get it appraised without her knowing. Leave it cluttered, less than marketable condition aka "lived in", and don't make any repairs prior. If it comes in lower than she thinks show her and buy her out. She may want her own appraisal though and opinions can vary. You can refi to buy her out and remove her name.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 04:26 PM
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You should get alomony, at least short term spousal support. If you were a woman it would be a no brainer! You are entitled to half of everything including equity in the house and her retirement account!
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 05:38 PM
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TN and yes
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/21 01:25 PM
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In my state, even if the wife is not on the deed she still gets half so don't feel too bad it's nothing you did.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 04:01 AM
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You can't negotiate desire. You need to read no more Mr nice guy, and the way of the superior man, which is free on YouTube. Start working out and doing better for yourself, turn down bad boring sex, like stop in the middle of it, and stop trying to initiate physical touch, see what happens.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 06:57 PM
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Go to r/marriedredpill and read posts from couple years ago, hell just search random phrases you think apply to you. Read the comments. Everyone has been where you are. At least your wife is not a raving lunatic or depressed case, and is trying to be a good mom. Up your game for yourself, not for her, and see how she acts then. Weights, new clothes, exercise, do stuff with friends, stop asking permission. Listen to or read No More Mr Nice Guy, and The Way of the superior man.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 04:01 AM
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It's not a bug it's a feature.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 04:00 PM
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Well you can't control someone else, only yourself. You let it happen, for example, by not seeing your friends because she'll pitch a bitch correct? Been there done that, still do it sometimes, but you have to stand your ground on things and do what you want or they have no respect for you and hate you. If she thinks you have no other options, she'll use you and treat you like shit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/21 03:42 PM
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All, most, women have a controlling nature, it's insecurity showing. This is the same story for almost every man. You let it hapoen. You need to take back your life and stop living it for her. Go to r/marriedredpill and start reading posts going back years. Get the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. You're the prize.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/21 03:20 PM
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Get the money. If not for you, use it for the kids how you want. Dont fall on your sword, lawyer up NOW, at least for mediation, not that much money, should be a simple formula for support and alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 03:52 PM
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60k is more than most people I know make. Little community college is all I have, plus my appraisal class and licenses. This is what I can't make her understand, we're doing ok, we just have debt holding is down. If she had an income we could get ahead of it. I used to make between $80 and $115k, but we had to move, 9 hours away, totally different area. I let her talk me into that. This was before I knew of RP. I have been bitter about it. I moved for her, convinced myself it would be a good cha…
/r/askMRP12/05/19 07:43 AM
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Fir now STFU, lift, internalize that it may just he over at this point and live like it is over.
/r/askMRP12/05/19 07:34 AM
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Nothing to downsize, buying the house is $400 cheaper a month from rent, cars are 14 years old paid off, but old and need repairs often, no cable, wife cuts boys hair, basic groceries. She's not a spend freak, no fancy purses, shoes. I get your point though, I plan on STFU, getting back to lifting, this has been going on so long, wish I knew about TRP mentality years ago, I think we're just poisoned to each other at this point. But I can't live in some depression hole for long, I've watched her …
/r/askMRP12/05/19 07:32 AM
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You can be if you want to be. Kids need their dad, she doesn't own them. I would see a lawyer and get it ALL IN WRITING, visitation rights etc...
/r/askTRP02/05/19 05:27 AM
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Yo, non-21 year old here (40 three kids, same wife 15 yrs) "Current wife is about to leave. Feels like there should be a spark that isn’t there." You are boring, she sees that you have oneitus for her and you believe you have no options. Been there done that. " If this sub’s enlightenment is true, then she is capable of understanding it. If I can apply those truths to better myself, and she believes that I can, then she would benefit from staying. In my mind, this means that her leaving is her b…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 06:39 AM
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This should be on r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 01:01 PM
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I beg to differ, this is exactly how my 15 year marriage gas gone. Perhaps when he talks about breaking down her ego, this in involves negging? We are taught from childhood, to always build a woman up. I really struggle with negging my wife, and not letting her feelings dictate mine. I think this is a great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 01:08 PM
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Good stuff, thanks.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 11:09 PM
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This thanks
/r/askMRP04/02/19 10:22 PM
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I think this was it. I did hold frame, and today she admitted it was all bullshit and she cares about me, is jealous if the girl, blah blah, sexcapade all day, started by her. She's bring feminine, head on chest after, first bj in months. I know it's not all fixed but I'd chalk this up as a win.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 10:19 PM
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Thanks, do you use the chest press machine at all, the kind you put plates on.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 01:44 PM
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Yes, thanks.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:54 AM
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What about watch what they do not what they say? This is not the first time I've heard this shit. I'm not some 26 yo kid. We've been through alot together. We were unmarried when first kid, she was 20 me 23, we've always struggled but made it work. She's a good woman, cooks, cleans, kids, homework, works out. I get why she's overwhelmed, but she has depression type shit that runs in her family it's hard to be around. I'm capt. Save a hoe. Idk, I need a place for the kids.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:07 AM
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Been going to the gym only about four months. Discovered this place and trp 8 months ago. Bench is my weak point, always hurts left shoulder. I'd rather do chest press. Noticeable improvement as I improved diet. Have muscles like when I was 22 and working hard at landscaping job.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:00 AM
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Of you haven't, read the Book of Pook.
/r/askMRP13/12/18 04:00 AM
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How do you even have the nerve to post this. You have obviously never read pook, nice guy, or this sub enough. God damn cringe blue pill shit. Rub her back? Barf. They hate that. Lift. Make her wonder what you're doing ie have a life outside of her frame. Find YOUR frame. Do what you want. Make yourself attractive to other women, she WILL notice and she WILL fuck. Fuck her like it's the last sex you'll ever have. The next day she WILL shit test you, smirk at her, make a sexual joke, and leave. Y…
/r/askMRP07/10/18 04:40 AM
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Are you listening OP? She could give two fucks about your heart. Now she knows she owns you. Don't feel bad I used to do this shit that's why I've almost been divorced three times seriously in 15 years due to me being a pussy bitch. Thank God I found RP and MRP. Now I've got her working to keep me, its the only way to be married. Keep reading sidebar, DGAF and lift lift lift. Start with NMMNG and Book of Pook.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 06:44 PM
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My now wife's friend was into my roommate. I was in a fairly popular local band and they would come to shows. They came over to the house, and the first time I saw her I knew I wanted her, and I got her. I was 21 she was 18. I was independent, hard working, you know, "alpha" and I guess she liked that. I liked that she had huge tits and huge brown eyes, was chill, and we hit it off on the front porch. We were together, and apart for a year. I truly was such a dick to her sometimes, seeing other …
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:28 AM
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What about this comment says I have no self respect?
/r/askMRP27/09/18 04:10 AM
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In in a bad place too. 40, wife is 37, married 15 years, three kids, two jobs a mountain of debt, and now a bitter hateful wife who is very hot still who I do love (oneitus). She wants divorce. THE ONLY TIME I FEEL GOOD IS WHILE AND AFTER LIFTING OR DOING S HARD WORKOUT. Don't hurt yourself, go make your body hurt with exercise. Read No More Mr Nice Guy and The Book of Pook immediately.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 04:37 PM
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Read no more Mr nice guy. Fairly easy to find free pdf on google or message me I'll email you a pdf. No kids, she's not even hot? Rrruuunnn and lift.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 04:27 PM
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Who gives a fuck what a man is doing as long as he is improving. Running, lifting, stfuing, ngafing. I do an exercise video, on off lift days, with hot chicks in it and I love it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:05 AM
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My wife wants a divorce but we have no money for lawyers so she won't pull the trigger, yet, but is it better to file first, or wait for her to file?
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/18 03:11 PM
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I know what A & A is but what is AM? I looked on the sidebar terms page neighther is there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 03:01 PM
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A tent site in a campground is way cheaper than a hotel, like $15 a night. Yes you have to go to Wal-Mart n buy a $25 tent and $10 air bed but worth it. Stay for a few weeks while you get a job.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 02:24 AM
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Common scenario for married dudes: Wife: paraphrasing 'So after we do all this shit all day, work etc, and get the kids in bed, let's have sex.' Dude: 'Sounds good.' This can be reversed as well, I bring it up, she agrees,... Then the time comes and its a no go, either she falls asleep or just tv or whatever. This specific time I was actually fine as we were hanging out (instead of ignoring each other due to some bs argument) talking, tv show, and that's cool, but I've been married for 15 years …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 01:57 AM
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My wife lives in the everything box permanently. Any advise on how to remove her from there? Like most of you who are in LTRs, with kids, etc, I've tried to complete everything in that box for her, but then I'm her bitch, and a beta provider. I'm done with that, obviously it doesn't work, especially not for respect or sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:22 PM
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