firstworldmeh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
295	I would like to thank you awesome ladies! I used to think that I wasn't worthy of having high standards but after reading through this sub, high standards have been normalized for me. It's also inspiring me to hold myself to higher standards if that's what I expect of people in my circle.	MINDSET SHIFT	firstworldmeh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 01:07 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	FDS, please share some examples of HVW you've met in your life I love stories like these!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 06:19 PM
5	I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman) I thought to myself wow I wish someone treated me this way. Then I thought, hey I can treat myself this way! Finally going to do that pile of laundry not as a chore but as an act of self service.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 11:51 PM
17	After being single for years, dating again is like testing out the boundaries I’ve developed in my single petri dish in the wild. I can finally be my authentic self instead of catering to men, but I’m also scared of falling into old patterns. Do you have other reminders? Love this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 09:24 PM
41	Be careful with men who watch anime. Pay attention to lifestyles. Ooohhh how about full metal alchemist brotherhood? Full of strong women and no over sexualizing. Manga was originally written by a woman too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 08:53 PM
13	What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month? I aspire to be like you one day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 10:54 PM
9	What love song do you dedicate to yourself? I don't have one but I love your idea! Looking forward to finding my own dedicated love song :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 09:22 PM
71	Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING? This comment has helped me, thank you for posting. Along the way I have picked up the idea that "Everyone deserves to be loved", and recently I have been fighting feelings of wanting to date and find someone who will love me... Because I feel like I deserve to be loved. Yes, I do deserve love. But the only love I can count on is my own love and I should work on loving myself more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 01:59 AM
18	I don't know whether to laugh or cringe And if you really want to get poetic, a traditional Japanese haiku invokes something in nature, sudden movement and change. For me, that's what makes it actual poetry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 01:39 PM
15	I cried myself to sleep when I found out that the guy I loved thought I was an idiot and a weak slut because I just didn't know how to think well and study well because I couldn't find a guide and I couldn't figure out how to be a proper woman to be treated properly because of where I came from. Alright, this was the aspiration I needed to get back to studying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 10:33 PM
25	I cried myself to sleep when I found out that the guy I loved thought I was an idiot and a weak slut because I just didn't know how to think well and study well because I couldn't find a guide and I couldn't figure out how to be a proper woman to be treated properly because of where I came from. I love how you put that into words - being successful on your own terms. Thank you for the inspiration!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 10:32 PM
39	LVM prey on young/ "barely legal" naive girls.. here are my catastrophically pathetic experiences I'm really sorry you had to go through something so awful! No one deserves to be treated like he treated you. I hope you take the lessons taught in this sub, take the time you need to heal and to make your life as awesome as you want it so even if he thinks of contacting you again you can laugh your ass off.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 03:15 AM
25	I agree with men women should not nag them. I would never be a nagging wife. If he cannot measure up to my standards, there will no be any nagging... I'd just kick him to the curb. TBH this is the wakeup call I needed. I live with my mom (we chose to move in together to save money) and she's been nagging me about my messy room/being late to work. I know the dynamics are different here, but still she chose to live with me and she probably wants are roommate/daughter that has their shit together.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 07:37 PM
9	If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sis Yup, this was on my Face by feed a while ago. I wonder what the algorithm thinks of us 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 05:00 AM
4	Celebrate with me! Congrats! Keep up the good work!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 03:51 AM
165	Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤 Oh my god. This man fails to see that she has beautiful skin BECAUSE she has so much product. Girl, RUN!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 08:05 PM
1	Sometimes being polite won’t help you Ugh same thing happened to me. The first text I got in 2021 was from an LVM ex. Not responding cause I have no interest in having him in my life again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 08:11 PM
8	I spat my drink This is the reason why I decided to stop being a FWB. Although it was fun time, at the end of the day I wasn't able to finish and I'm done making excuses for shitty sex partners.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 11:28 AM
2	The 🎇a u d a c i t y🎇 This! Is the level of confidence I am working towards.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 01:32 AM