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Yet you refuse to acknowledge that monitoring caloric intake is more difficult for some people, or cutting slows down metabolism for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 02:21 PM
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Gender roles! MRAs are sick of people bullying men because they're weak, and feminists are sick of seeing femininity being associated with weakness! The MRAs are asking why it's wrong for a man to be girly, and the feminists are asking why being girly is so wrong. The MRAs are asking why men are expected to be strong and powerful (i.e masculine), and feminists want to know why being masculine is so desirable in the first place. Men want the opportunity to be weak when they feel weak while still …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:31 PM
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Placebo effect, bro. While low T levels do correlate with lower sex drives in some men, people with abnormally high testosterone also have lower sex drive. The human body is a complicated machine and the same thing will affect different people differently. Similarly, the same component of this wonderous machine (i.e libido) has many, many factors. One hormone is just a small fraction of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:27 PM
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But that's because gay men aren't EXPECTED to have lower libidos. Societal expectations do have real effects on our behaviour. Just like how black people's performance on golf improves when it's painted as a sport but decreases when it's painted as an intellectual endeavour, or how women's test scores decrease once they're told that women have lower scores than men on the math section of the SAT (which isn't quite true: women simply skip more questions when wrong answers are penalized. Without t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:21 PM
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Calories in > Calories out = fat. There's no magic or mystery out there Wow, you're an idiot. There are so many other factors that could affect fat loss: gut bacteria, stress, sleep, activity level, sun, leptin/ghrelin imbalance, genetic predisposition, hypothyroidism, micronutrients, the presence and amount of tannins in the food you're eating, dietary fibre, hydration, caffeine intake, carotenoid consumption, biological sex, basal body temperature, drugs or medication, resting heart rate, meta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:17 PM
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However just because a person is ugly, it doesn't mean that they automatically got something special that'll warrant her to be that special someone. I didn't say that, and didn't mean to imply it either. WHAT I DID SAY is that a woman's value doesn't lie SOLELY (solely being the key word here) in her looks and a man's value doesn't lie solely in his power, unlike what the TRP philosophy seems to believe (which is in a nutshell "get money, fuck bitches")
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:06 PM
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You make a good point. Of course my personal experience doesn't matter since I'm a typical woman, lol. Because women, typically, are dumb. Woops, forget, silly me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:03 PM
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Isn't personal experience how all human beings form their belief systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:01 PM
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Correct, and I felt much happier because of it. Now I suggest that you do something similar because someone seems cranky
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 09:00 PM
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Please do, daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:56 PM
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tl;dr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:56 PM
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Sure, if you want to call a guy who's only valued for his dick an alpha. Also, fun fact: men who don't have any long-lasting committed relationships are much more likely to commit suicide. You can't get that kind of connection through manipulation. TRP sets you up for failure, especially if you succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:55 PM
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Hairy butthole detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:51 PM
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NotAllFat is the same. Different fat people are fat for different reasons. I used to be slightly overweight while being active and eating salad all day. Then I switched to cup noodles and studying at a desk and now I'm slightly underweight. The world is infinitely complex and humans have a habit of oversimplifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:50 PM
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How does it not answer your question? Is an ugly girl not capable of providing companionship? Is a poor man not capable of providing support?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 06:21 PM
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I'm sold, mate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 06:20 PM
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Sexual attraction =/= romantic attraction, knowamsayin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 06:20 PM
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I was socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 06:19 PM
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I don't know, but I'm not one of them. Why don't you as those feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 06:18 PM
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Older male virgins, maybe. But not if you're under 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 05:57 PM
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Many women, especially the younger ones now, are actually turned off by high partner count. I actually prefer virgins, they're fresh for corrupting :) (Also they're eager to please so they'll do pretty much anything. Plus no diseases.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 05:56 PM
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Everything else a man has to offer aside from money, and everything else a woman has to offer aside from beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:50 PM
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Sorry, mate. I didn't mean it that way. See, I have a close male friend who is a virgin, and he's been suffering from depression because of it. That made me think of all the other guys out there, and I wanted to see if there was anything I could do to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:48 PM
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The police activities in the wake of a female-on-male rape accusation, for example. Feminists don't like it because it means people think women are "weak" and "pure", and putting us on a pedestal takes away our humanity. We aren't weak or pure but humans like the rest, and as humans we are capable of evil. MRAs would like it because of obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:46 PM
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22
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:45 PM
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Do you need a friend, mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:44 PM
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No! Let's get Buddhism into this: to eliminate all pain you must eliminate all desire. Now I'm not saying don't want sex at all but don't let your virginity stop you from enjoying yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:43 PM
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men are attracted to a far broader range of women than vice versa Science says no lopsided attraction fuels basically everything from the male approach/female inactivity-dynamic So literally NO OTHER VARIABLES are at play here? Literally none? to prostitution NO OTHER VARIABLES? AT ALL? women initating most breakups Obv women break up because they lack sexual attraction. I mean what other reason could there be? NOPE CAN'T THINK OF ONE women being able to sleep around with no effort whatseover Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:42 PM
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Because trying hard and improving a facet life and getting what you want is ineffective! Take it from someone who has done exactly that. Because this person knows! FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:39 PM
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Bullshit. I asked him and he said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:36 PM
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But it clearly isn't too difficult for us to embrace values and beliefs that go beyond biology. Human beings are naturally scared of fire but look at all the industries that employ heat. We are naturally geared to "sow our oats" but monogamy has been embraced by almost all human civilizations. You can't help being attracted to a pretty girl, but you can educate yourself to respect an ugly girl and see value in her (as a human being if not a mate)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:36 PM
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OP: Being poor isn't so bad! I used to be poor and it was okay. Now I'm a billionaire and isn't much of an improvement. The rest of my problems are the same: I still have terminal cancer, my mom still doesn't love me, and I still can't find friends that I feel truly at home with. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:33 PM
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That's because we aren't rewarding a guy with sex because we like him. We just take what we want. From some hot asshole, we take the sex we want and boot his ass out next morning. From a "beta" we tease and toy so we can enjoy his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:29 PM
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By being autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:23 PM
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Men believe women aren't attracted to them like women believe men don't want commitment. Also, you offered literally zero logical reasons behind your conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:23 PM
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It's a demand for prostitution, not for dick. Crucial distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:21 PM
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Mysterious reasons? Pfffft. You're one of the same guys that hates on sluts. Don't you know? Women get judged for fucking far more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:18 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:16 PM
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Doesn't mean shit about sexual attraction. It just means that women are less committed than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:15 PM
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My virginal friend Matt is the hottest guy I've ever met and I'd fuck him in a heartbeat, js. Partially because he's not desperate to get rid of his virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:13 PM
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I agree with everything except If you want sex but aren't having it, that's a problem, and you should actively try and fix that. This shit is what's ruining the poor autists who don't know any better. The harder you try at getting laid, the more you fail. Take the pressure off and you'll be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:10 PM
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How precisely does it disqualify me? I'm not speaking about the social ramifications about being a male virgin. Of course there are social ramifications to being a male virgin, and all you can do about it is not judge yourself who's a virgin and who isn't. My point only was that you should find a way to enjoy life despite being a virgin because obsessing about sex is neither healthy nor productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:02 PM
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But there isn't any competition though. I don't compare every guy I sleep with with all the other guys that came before. During sex, all anyone thinks about is "this is sex and it is happening, which is excellent".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:01 PM
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But male and female levels of attraction are the same. There is more individual variation than variation between the sexes. For example, overexposure to testosterone (the male sex hormone) will lead to higher chance of asexuality in the male. More males, indeed, are asexual than females. Men are predominantly systematic thinkers and the extreme of this (the autism spectrum) is also associated with low sexuality. Injecting testosterone in men and women may or may not decrease their sexual interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:59 PM
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Well in that case shouldn't you be taking the higher moral ground? This isn't what the other side is doing. This is about understanding why what you're doing is problematic, and it's problematic because we live in a society and society functions via cooperation. If we all got together and ostracized a certain group, the health of that group will suffer. So there is a mutual trust that we will not be dickholes to each other for the sake of society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:54 PM
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yet one isn't obliged to partake in them. I'm not telling anyone to be a virgin forever or their feelings are not valid or reasonable. I'm simply encouraging male virgins to value themselves despite their virginity and not think too much about it, because that's how it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:48 PM
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But being troubled by it will do no good. Wanting sex more =/= getting sex more. Once you go further down that curve it turns into an inverse relationship: the more desperate you are, the less anyone wants to touch you. If you stop fretting about it, you will start enjoying life more. You will become happier (and in turn, become more attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:47 PM
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I concede that some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:45 PM
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OK, not arbitrary. What about outdated? Also I believe that the feminist movement has some validity, but it needs to calm down and regain it's focus. Why don't we stop worrying about whether staring at a girl is rape or not and instead focus on birth control issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:43 PM
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Higher. However, there isn't a higher demand for pussy. There are more women than men in this world. So wouldn't there be a higher demand for dick? (I honestly don't think there's higher demand for dick but whatever). Pussy only wields power for men who don't get any. Similarly, dick wields power for women who can't get any. It goes both ways mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:39 PM
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Should it really? I used to be an incel too. I've seen both sides of the moon. So shouldn't I be the most qualified person here? Hmmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:29 PM
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Nobody will know unless you tell them. :) Also people shouldn't judge a man for the amount of sex he gets. Least of all yourself. That's the point I was making: don't beat yourself up over it, lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:28 PM
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As a BP I only wait on sex if I'm truly interested in the guy himself and not his dick, because that leads to more meaningful (and satisfying) sex afterwards. The "chase" is a memorable part of the relationship. Otherwise I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:18 PM
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Only if I have his full consent :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:16 PM
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I agree with everything except stay sober. If I'm getting blackout drunk, that's my choice. He may judge me for it but if he truly respects me he can appreciate that there is something I want to forget desperately enough to warrant the next morning's hangover. I don't see how this is politically incorrect (unless you do it without reciprocation).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:15 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:09 PM
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Because that's just a supply/demand thing. Incel women don't seek out prostitutes as much as incel men. I know because I used to be a femincel, and that was really frustrating, despite (or maybe because) of my above-average looks. So when I see people saying how the pussy is the source of all power, it triggers me. It's not. I have one so I'd know. It's a weird feeling when you got random guys on your Insta commenting "10/10" on your selfies but your crush saying he only thinks of you as a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:08 PM
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True statements. I won't lie, you made a good point. However, what I was attempting to say is that being fat or slutty or a single parent does not make you a bad person, and you seem to agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:04 PM
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Partially. I mean, none of the groups are going to get anywhere unless they stop trying to establish who's the more oppressed gender. This is the problem that lies in their beliefs. We also need to stop demonizing the other party. Aside from that, it is indeed an issue of miscommunication. Instead of trying to get them to come on our side, we should persuade them that we're on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:00 PM
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Bullshit. I screw guys on the first date when I have no respect for them and don't give a shit whether they leave or stay, but am only with them because they're hot and I can show them off to my friends. I wait out with guys I actually like beyond physicality because then sex is so much more special. Also the guys I actually like tend to be the kind that wait anyways. Plus, putting out faster means I don't plan to stick around. However, playing cat and mouse means I'm building up the tension, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:52 PM
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I never give BJs unless he makes me come hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:49 PM
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And what about the man? No point waiting around unless he goes south.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:48 PM
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We should be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:33 PM
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All right mate. I, a blue feminist, personally apologize for ALL of the blues and feminists who have insulted and harassed you for not dating people you don't want to. After all, consent is important, and absolutely nobody should pressure you into loving anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:32 PM
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I completely agree. The movement has potential and it has good points but all this embitterment has hijacked it and given feminism a bad name to the point that feminists and anti-feminists are both ensuring that nothing gets done. I think most feminists are on the wrong track, but not everything feminists say is bullshit which is why I still identify with the movement. I believe it is in the best interest of feminists and MRAs to cooperate so we can create real, positive change. Why in the name …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:28 PM
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Only people who do this are bitter whales who pretend to be feminists. They've hijacked our movement and given it a bad name. Nobody is obligated to do or be anything they don't want to. That's the entire fucking point of feminism mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:22 PM
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I think you misunderstand. Nobody has to date anyone if they don't want to. If you don't want to date fat women, don't. If you don't want to date single moms, don't. If you don't want to date promiscuous people, don't. However, when you start demonizing them, that's where the problem starts. Fat people aren't lazy, single moms haven't made mistakes, and sluts aren't disgusting. Don't date them if you don't want to, but don't think they're monsters either when they simply have different lives tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:20 PM
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I understand single moms but what's wrong with being a slut? If you truly love the person why does their dating history matter? I don't see how liking sex makes you a bad person, especially since we're SUPPOSED to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:18 PM
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I think beta men sabotage themselves by being so bitter. I've known several wonderful men I'd myself consider dating only for them to turn angry and assholish when i don't give them attention. Being a nice guy doesn't mean shit if you're not actually nice. I enjoy men who embrace their femininity, listening to soft songs, playing the ukelele, learning French, saving themselves for marriage. I like guys who are quieter and need the girl to make the first move. But they need to be multidimensional…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:15 PM
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I believe you generalize. Some feminists are toxic creatures that are acting out rage from some past grievances while others are more rational and nuanced in their perception of current gender relations. The same applies to MRAs. Some are simply hurt and try to fight the shadows of their past, while others truly want to make a point. I believe it's time to stop the fighting between feminism and men's rights and realize we both share a common goal: dismantling the social conventions that currentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:03 PM
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I'm assuming you're a guy, because having a cunt doesn't give you very much power. Guys fall over girls just like girls fall over guys, and in both cases it's a pretty pathetic cycle. The sexual playing field is level. You need more than looks to attract (most) men and you need more than power or money to attract (most) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 01:58 PM
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As a feminist I believe patriarchy has benefits for both men and women and it also hurts men and women. The question here is not who is the biggest victim here - we all are. The question is whether we are going to allow arbitrary social norms to control who we can or cannot be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 01:55 PM
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Feminist blue-pill treehugger lovefag here. I do believe that painting men in a negative light does harm women, and I do believe feminism is partially - though not entirely - to blame for this. However, I blame the patriarchy (not men, but the social system both men and women are responsible for upholding) for the majority of the damage. Viewing men as sex-hungry, cheat-happy stupid and lazy rapists is unfair to both men and women. Similarly, putting women on a pedestal, saying that women can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 01:53 PM
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OP clearly has never been punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 01:58 PM
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I honestly don't see how that's circlejerky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:52 AM
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Yes, and yes. I remember meeting this guy. He didn't get laid all that much, broke, lower-class drug dealer etc. But when I got to know him, he was really caring and sweet, and smart with a good sense of humour. At first, I was a little uncomfortable, because I felt that I could do better (not to brag, but I'm around 9.5), but then I realized I couldn't, because I'd never met such an empathetic, respectful, and honest person in my life. At the time I was dating a typical alpha male. He was hot, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:40 PM
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You're making no sense. I made the argument that men should bear the responsibility of preventing pregnancy because it's safer for them, and presented facts to support my opinion. You called my post a circle-jerk and prompted that if I still have the same view after your light bitching, I don't belong on this sub. Oh, I see. This should've been labelled as a CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:21 PM
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In all honesty, I think a lot of women also don't want to be seen as "too easy". Plus, fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:18 PM
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You need to get his number in order to fuck. There's a reason it's called a booty call. How else?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:08 PM
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How is it irrelevant to your role? It is the only thing relevant to your role.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:05 PM
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Inner debate: I want to fuck this guy, but what if he's incredibly insecure and will be put off by my asking his number? Should I play it safe and let him ask, or do I take a chance to speed shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:59 PM
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What bullshit. I am a female, and it doesn't sit well with me that anyone I'm dating has more control over me than I have over them. If I'm not the person with the reins, I'm plotting how to seize them. Which is why, for a while, I keep my relationship open on one side: I am allowed to have other partners, but the guy isn't. Of course, I don't actually have other partners. I'm a monogamous person. But I need to test for this, because I can't stand being under or even equal to. I need to stand ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:47 PM
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No, I meant to ask if any of the facts were wrong or the logic was corrupted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:42 PM
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Whoever they want to. I want all attractive females to retain their free will :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:27 PM
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Would about exclusive LTR sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:22 PM
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And how would that responsibility be split?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:22 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:21 PM
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The same, of course, but now packing peanuts: The smartest, classiest frat boy in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:11 PM
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The first thought I have whenever I see a young, healthy male is whether I would have sex with him. The second though is yes, yes I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:33 PM
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Many men are complete asshats that inspire murderous rage and many are really nice and functional that inspire admiration. Depends on the man, especially how he acts in relation to woman. I hate men, really really hate men with a burning hatred, who reassert gender stereotypes, especially when using clumsy pop evolutionary psychology to justify their sexist views. I would punch their face in if it wouldn't get me arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:23 PM
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given my physical reaction, you can be confident that I am being completely honest when I say that bear mode = nausea. Ottermode is nice, but really, an average, healthy body type is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:10 PM
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Pic 1. Too chunky. Doesn't seem that intelligent either. Looks kind of short. Douchebag hair. Not attracted. 4/10 Pic 2. Chubby face. Unimpressive body. Looks kind of boring and dumb. Not attracted. 3/10 Pic 3. Nice body. Really nice. The beard is just gross though. I never had a thing for beards. Facial expression is also derpy. Would bang, but not much else. Body is 9/10, butterface Pic 4. Ew. No. He looks like a deflated Pillsbury Doughboy. Not attracted, at all. 1/10 Pic 5. The shirt and sun…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:58 PM
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Click the link, fucktart.
/r/seduction09/12/15 02:47 PM
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The job of the trailer is to introduce you to the movie and encapsulate it's best points. Therefore, my criticism of it is perfectly legitimate. And don't be so offended. It is, after all, a T.V show - a cultural work. And any warranted criticism of a cultural work is automatically legitimate because, simply by existing, it invites it.
/r/seduction09/12/15 02:46 PM
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My condemnation of the film does not discredit me, nor does it make me a neophobe. The movie is, after all, an intellectually lazy work that seems to be written by a frat boy during the 15 minutes it takes him to shit out yesterday's Thai takeout. It perpetuates an unhealthy view of women for a culture which already has an unhealthy enough view of women. And, I just noticed, it is this faux female psyche which the most demeaning PUA techniques are based on. Smartass.
/r/seduction08/12/15 11:25 PM
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No, I meant Kawasaki. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guy_Kawasaki
/r/seduction08/12/15 11:20 PM
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Ah. I see. Well then, I won't argue over metaphors here. I'm not getting paid for this shit. Feel free to print out my advice and wipe your ass with it. That's what I do. Also, Guy Kawasaki.
/r/seduction08/12/15 10:37 PM
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That's because: 1. Fish can't fucking talk 2. It's not in the best interest of the fish to tell you how to catch them Both of which are untrue in this case. Your metaphor breaks down. A more appropriate one is: do you ask megacorps how to improve your product, or do you ask the customers?
/r/seduction08/12/15 10:26 PM
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Just watched the trailer. I'm never going to watch that lump of shit, it's the most sexist thing I've seen all week
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:28 PM
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Then apologize. It's that simple. She clearly wants to be with you, you clearly want to be with her. What's holding you back?
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:22 PM
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I don't know what that is, I'm a Canadian.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:18 PM
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If you can't trust her, you're not ready to be in any sort of relationship. You have two options: 1. Break up with her. Go back to dating other girls, and she'll go back to dating other men. 2. Apologize to her. Chances are, she'll accept. Are you fucking serious? Quit being a bratty little shit. If you honestly can't get over one date she had when she was single, write down everything about every single girl you fooled around with during that period, in detail. What you did, how many times, for…
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:11 PM
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From someone who actually talks to girls, most shit tests are, in fact, not shit tests. With a "shit test", a girl runs the risk that the guy would stop talking to her. If she actually were interested, she wouldn't take that risk.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:06 PM
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That applies to everyone, dude. Rejection hurts. Doesn't matter what you're packing in your pants.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:55 PM
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The male brain structure reacts differently to testosterone than the female brain. Females are more sensitive to it. There is overlap between the male and female psyche. Gender is a spectrum. The period itself has no effect on female behaviour. That's a cultural myth. Ovulation causes bigger hormonal changes. Or undiagnosed bipolar disorder
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:44 PM
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What do you mean, "I am Chinese"? Race is irrelevant to attractiveness.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:39 PM
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Wow, NO. I meant text-based sexting. Otherwise, why would anyone do that? Taking a sexy picture is hard, and what does one get out of it? A dickpic? Most guys don't even know how to take a proper dickpic. (Maybe because nobody told them?)
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:36 PM
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You misunderstood my statement. I was saying, in order for a relationship to work, there must be psychological attraction as well as sexual attraction. As in, if sexual attraction was absent, you could have been friends with her. What can I say, it's just pragmatic. SUCK MY DICK THE MIND HAS NO GENDER WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:34 PM
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Depends. People on the autism spectrum lack oxytocin, which is responsible for empathy, and you need empathy to pick up people. Of course, orgasm releases oxytocin. Maybe rub one out before you text her? :) Though my recommendation to you would be to hang out with people more. Anybody works, but ideally charismatic people. As much as you can. Also, LOOK GOOD. Looks matter a lot more than you expect. Subscribe to a men's fashion magazine, look up tips online, whatever. But a good sense of fashion…
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:24 PM
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Actually, that book sucks. "The Charisma Myth" is better, in my experience. Maybe it varies from person to person?
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:20 PM
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If you don't make it official, it'll be easier for her to get some on the side because of the lack of a psychological barrier. Also, yeah stop waiting for affirmation, but don't stop pursuing it. It'll put you in peace, and stop a potential downward spiral from the anxiety buildup (anxiety doesn't just disappear. It accumulates.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:17 PM
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Nah, sexting's cool. As a girl, I personally enjoy it. Plus, long, heartful conversations are bae.
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:15 PM
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That idea the "boyfriend talk" should be the women's idea is a stupid idea. Go ahead and talk about that. It'll show that you have feelings, and bitches love feelings. Obviously, you're interested in being her boyfriend. Show her that by talking to her. Ask her about your day. Tell her about your day. Tell her about your friend's day. Stalk her friend and tell her about her day. Whatever floats your boat. It'll build intimacy, and most human beings are starved for that stuff. It's like cocaine, …
/r/seduction08/12/15 08:13 PM
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