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fishscado/r/seduction30/10/16 11:33 AM
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I’ve look through the comments and it surprised me that no one has mentioned “how to win friends & influence people.” By Dale Carnegie it’s a great book that’s help me in social and business situations I would definitely recommend it.
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:54 PM
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Quick question how long ago did you break up with your ex?
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:49 PM
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The rule of thumb for gym pick up is simple. Don’t be creepy or weird. 1.If the girl has her headphones on, a hat, and is looking down then don’t bother. 2. If she’s looking around and/or has make up then those are the ones that are game. Once you make eye contact and smile at each other finish your exercise and Wait til after she’s done with her set on a machine and simply ask her “how many sets do you have left?” Wait for the answer, if it’s above 3 or she just started. I usually like to ask i…
/r/seduction23/03/18 09:04 AM
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Of course I change. I don’t wear the same clothes..... seriously though it’s not “entirely unconscious” you grow as a person through trial and error.
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:39 AM
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The funny thing about this post is that you don’t even know the girl. “Small talk” isn’t enough for you to have “oneitis”. Just man up and talk to her. Get those bitch butterflies out of your system and take initiative to get to know her. You said there’s a party you both will attend. There’s your chance. Look at it this way. You have her on a this pedestal, while some guy out there is sick of her. You’re wasting time admiring her. GROW SOME BALLS AND TALK TO HER.
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:32 PM
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This Is the worst thing you can do. No offense.
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:24 PM
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Good luck soldier 😉👍🏼
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:12 AM
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Yeah I mean she’s texting back so it’s not that bad. Just hit her with a “yeah I did come off a little too strong there now that I think about it. It just felt natural to me.” Or something along those lines.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:11 AM
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You didn’t respect her physical boundaries at the end. That pretty much sums it up. Don’t know how that’s confusing. You most likely didn’t build up enough rapport during you interaction.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:00 AM
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Ask to hang out and then talk it out when you see her.
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:54 AM
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If you’re thinking about texting her then text her. If you’re pursuing a relationship with this girl you have to keep it going. Now at the same time don’t over do it in terms of texting her multiple times a day with out a response. Just let her know she’s on your mind and that you hope she’s doing alright.
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:46 AM
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She’s mourning her family member, if you only see her as someone to fuck around with, then you’re out of luck cause sounds like she could use someone to talk to instead of messing around. As far as talking goes just comfort her with a genuine “they’re in a better place now.” “They’ll always be with you in your heart” “at least they’re not suffering anymore.” “You got one more angel watching over you.” And what not. The point is if she’s into you keep that attraction there with support and comfor…
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:39 AM
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Best way to the friend zone is through gossip. Talk to them about a crush you have on a specific girl. Ask for advice to on how to approach said girl. Women love to give their two cents about anything and everything. You just got to listen and agree. Seduction will get you nowhere near the friend zone, it’ll only get you to the end zone.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:10 AM
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Yeah, online dating is something you shouldn’t take too serious. Or at least make it seem like you’re not taking it serious. Be playful and set up a meet-up ASAP. Otherwise you’ll just be “that online guy”.
/r/seduction24/02/18 02:01 AM
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There’s a HUGE difference in High school game and pick up in general.
/r/seduction21/02/18 10:09 PM
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I like to say: Girl: “I have a boyfriend” Me: “I have a goldfish.” Girl: “what?” Me: “my bad thought we were talking about shit that don’t matter.”
/r/seduction17/02/18 08:38 AM
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5-10 mins tops you want to be there long enough that you leave an impression on her.
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:56 AM
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As someone that has been in that position, I would advise you to be upfront with her. Don’t just “go for it” let her know straight up. “Hey this is what it is and this is how it’s going to be.” And find a mutual ground. Cause once you cross that line EVERYTHING in that friendship changes.
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:38 PM
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It’s a simple shit test. It’s the “go to” for all women. You probably rushed it. I have a feeling you asked for the number before you built any sort of rapport with them.
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:27 PM
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Just run your game how you normally would anyone else except knowing that the feeling is mutual you could go in a little more confident and kino early to make it known you’re interested
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:51 AM
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“Says the one that’s off beat.”
/r/seduction15/02/18 09:43 PM
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The best way to open that at the mall that’s worked for me was: “hey do you know where (name of store) is located?” And when inside a store pick up two items and turn to your target “don’t mean to bother you but I could use your opinion on this...” I have almost always gotten a response and worked from there. As far as AA goes just pump yourself up. I stretch out and do a little dance to get me into the mood.
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:10 AM
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Na it’s a gold mine. Just be prepared to answer questions like “what’s your major?” “Do you go here?” And my all time favorite “what are you doing here?”.
/r/seduction15/02/18 03:59 AM
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No pressure at all. If you failed, you failed. Take it as a learning experience, dust yourself off and go into the next set and so on and so on. That’s the whole point of what you’re doing isn’t it? To get out of your comfort zone and become more confident in who you are as a person. In terms of body language and what to say, check out “charisma on command” its a YouTube channel that helped me out. Also simple pick up, although they don’t upload any more. they still have videos that are helpful.…
/r/seduction15/02/18 03:50 AM
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College campuses are a great place to practice. You have that time constraint of them having to be in class on time, so it puts you in a position where you would have to create just enough comfort to get the number and continue on from there. Also malls and shopping centers are great to practice on kino and calibration.
/r/seduction15/02/18 02:51 AM
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*look at her in disgust and say “oh sweetie I just came here to dance.”
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:16 PM
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It’s tinder. So your sex Game has to be strong, that or leave a memorable impression in order to get them tinder hotties to come back for more. You’re still young dust yourself off and move on to the next one. That’s the whole point of a one night stand.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:30 AM
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Check out “the cube test” it’s pretty good to get a feel for in cold reading.
/r/seduction13/02/18 09:35 PM
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Doesn’t matter, my hands love me for me. ;)
/r/seduction13/02/18 09:32 PM
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Yup you can keep your options open. And better yet depending on how much rapport you two have built, you can pull off the good ol “jealously plot line”.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:30 PM
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“How about we go make some friends.” Arm around her hip and open up some more sets.
/r/seduction13/02/18 07:31 PM
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I think we just became best friends _^ haha
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:04 PM
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Yes, yes it is. Didn’t think anyone would catch it ;)
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:23 PM
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Pretty sure that was a “shit test” she threw at you.
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:06 AM
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“Bitch I’m adorable.” With a smug look on my face
/r/seduction12/02/18 05:42 PM
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Doesn’t matter. What matters is that you feel confident wearing it. You could be in a tailored suit but not pull anyone. And someone else can pull anyone, by wearing whatever was clean in their drawer. Sure clothing is a huge part in terms of how you present yourself but at the same time you wear the clothes. The clothes don’t wear you.
/r/seduction11/02/18 07:02 AM
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“I honestly hope so, cause if you trip I’m not sure I’d be able to pick you up.”
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:09 PM
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This is during a night at the bar usually within a 15-20min time frame depending how cool the target is to me and if we click.... -high fives -some arm touches during conversation to calibrate -hair touch(usually with “this can’t be real, looks too good to be true” or something along those lines, also for calibration) -thumb war(for the next round) -secret handshake -Christian side hug(usually saying “this is my new best friend” to the group) -actual hug -cheek caress -kiss close
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:57 AM
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Just talk to her through out the course and after you’re done with the class ask her out. She may have a “don’t date a student” policy she needs to go by.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:41 AM
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Believe it or not, One thing that helped me were viral videos I’ve watched. I would have little inside jokes from the videos I would watch and project that through out the day. A good example would be Ray William Johnson’s early =3 videos before he left.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:38 AM
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Comedians are more than just making people laugh. It takes a lot of “game” if you think about it. Making it easier to find quality girls. And On the other hand Rockstars/DJs/rappers/actors do have a shit ton of women thrown at them due to their status. Just thought I’d throw that in.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:24 AM
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I’m flexible but not that flexible ;)
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:10 AM
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A fiat... (note: I’m 6” 250lbs so thought of me in a small car would be self amusing.)
/r/seduction08/02/18 06:50 PM
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First off, Congrats on your weight loss and and your upgrades in life. Keep it up. With that being said. 1) you need to first appreciate all the hard work you put in to get to where you’re at today. It should have boosted your confidence sky high. 2) most women also get intimidated by handsome men. Just like most men get intimidated by beautiful women. Both genders aren’t immune to approach anxiety.
/r/seduction07/02/18 10:02 PM
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I’d look at her friend and say “I don’t think you’re ready for this jelly.” Hoping they would catch that Beyoncé reference.
/r/seduction07/02/18 09:47 PM
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DO NOT IGNORE HER. Just make yourself unavailable. Make plans ahead of time and STICK TO THEM. She’ll be more interested in you cause you value your time. Instead of all of these other chumps being too available. Your plans don’t even have to be that big. It could be as simple as watching a basketball game with a buddy. Or a gym routine. Or watching a tv show you enjoy that comes on that night. Or going shopping. The point is, add value to your time. Don’t just ignore her. Once a woman feels ign…
/r/seduction07/02/18 07:53 AM
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That too but I wouldn’t say it if there wasn’t any rapport built between us
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:56 AM
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So what if that’s what she thinks. That’s even better for me cause once I build up the sexual tension I can push pull by saying “too bad I’m gay, otherwise you’d be so mine!” Women love a challenge and excitement. None of that “alpha mentality” bs. You’ll be more memorable if she has fun with you.
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:54 AM
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“Too much effort”? How? It’s a playful challenge. Worst case scenario you bring the guy over into the conversation, once he leaves, you have something to joke about. Best case scenario you merge groups, shows just how social you are.
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:13 PM
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*looks at him *looks at her *looks back him *looks back at her *smile and say “bet I can get his number quicker than you can.”
/r/seduction06/02/18 06:48 PM
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The direct approach is strong. But women tend to lean into the indirect approach. Unless she’s a go getter then be lucky and don’t fuck it up. haha
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:34 AM
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Think of it as why you would approach the lesser attractive female of the group. You would hope she would introduce you to the rest of them so you can start to game your intended target.
/r/seduction04/02/18 05:02 AM
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We all have our different methods of getting to where we want to be. I completely agree with you, it's all about trial and error. But most guys get approach anxiety when starting. I'm simply just saying to hit up women you don't find attractive to make it easier for you to develop that sense of social calibration to where you can be able to approach "cutie mcbooty" without hesitation.
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:37 PM
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You're missing the point. Obviously you won't keep your standards low forever. Think of it as lifting weights, you start low then build up higher as you progress.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:47 PM
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Well we all know women have trouble figuring out what to wear most of the time they go out. So it'll play on to that. It's not what you say it's how you say it that builds and releases the tension of said compliment.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:39 PM
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I would have teased her a bit about her friend calling her to go back to the bar. She was obviously interested since she stayed out the whole time and kept the conversation going. I would throw a playful jab like "looks like your boyfriend wants to get you another drink.". That will leave the door open to either "he's not my boyfriend" or anything witty. Either way it's a win if you get her to laugh. As far as escalating. The standard "push pull" always works when flirting. Randomly compliment h…
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:42 AM
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Rejection is a MUST. Especially when starting off. So learn to deal with it and you'd be fine. With that being said. Lower your standards and talk to the girls you would normally find unattractive. It's best to start putting in some numbers to your lay count. As my guru(cousin) would say "it doesn't matter if she's fat, has braces, is a butterface, smells funny, has fucked up teeth or is busted in general. Pussy is pussy. And believe it or not pussy attracts more pussy." Also start working out. …
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:10 AM
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I disagree, I mean sure he could be hurting but to talk about a divorce on the first date? That has rebound written all over the place. Of course he'll get jealous/bothered because what man likes sharing the person they're hooking up with? I would say keep your options open. It's the thrill of the chase that keeps us interested. Think of it as if it was something you wanted that you would do everything and anything to get. If it was given to you without putting any effort you won't appreciate it…
/r/seduction12/09/17 05:57 AM
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Well one trick I found that works most of the time is if you have the same class together try to sit next to her. Tell her something like "I hope you're passing this class cause I'm going to cheat off you" in a playful manner. During class pass her a note the has a paper game(tic tac toe works for me) and write a little note " I'm(insert name) and I'm the reigning champ in this class." Or a simple "your move" And from there see how things go. Something like this won't go unnoticed.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:13 PM
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She could have been genuinely busy. Other than that you probably over did that whole "alpha" thing during your date and came off to her as arrogant or egotistical. Thus giving the reason as to why she "ghosted" you. Keep your options open.
/r/seduction05/07/17 07:25 AM
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If that's the case, what would weather girls talk about for "small talk"?
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:03 AM
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"If you hesitate, you masterbate." "Got to risk it to get to get the biscuit."
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:01 AM
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Well from a glance Car= financial stability so the newer model gives the better the odds It is true that materialistic things don't mean much when it comes to seduction. But it does help in terms of increasing your odds by showing status and stability. Thus attracting more women towards you.
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:54 AM
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Step 1: go early and sit next to the girl you're attracted to. Step 2: be playful and say something like " hey hope you don't mind but I'm going to cheat off you" Step 3: pass her a note with a challenge(tic-tac-toe, hang man, etc) and on said note talk toher. One thing I can say is be MEMORABLE. Don't ask for a pen or do any of the shy "under the radar" bs you're there to get shit done. So man up and take action don't waste your money to be in a dull and boring class. Make some fun out of it. S…
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:45 AM
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You got to make it sound interesting when you talk about it.
/r/seduction15/05/17 07:26 AM
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It's going to be very difficult to transition to FWB. Talking from experience move on from that. Keep your options open . Don't make the same mistake I made and put her as priority on the "hit list". The farthest you'll get is platonic. But yeah keep your options open she'll become more attracted to you once she sees you talking to different women.
/r/seduction19/04/17 05:37 PM
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Tip #1 don't take selfies
/r/seduction19/04/17 05:27 AM
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Think of the biggest, most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you... If you can get over that, rejection is just dust you brush off your shoulders.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:36 AM
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You approached her while she was working. 1) she was working so you can't expect her to give you any attention unless you're ordering something. 2) the prolonged eye contact doesn't really mean much it could mean she spaced out or she was just being polite(gets paid to be nice to customers. wouldn't want to get an earful from supervisor). Don't be discouraged. Just chat her up while you go for your morning coffee an opportunity will open, but in the mean time keep your options open.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:32 AM
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I would say hit the gym with him to help build his self esteem back up. Sounds like he's got all this bottled up "fuel" that he doesn't know what to do with.
/r/seduction17/04/17 01:11 AM
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Well if she isn't a friend then be bold and go straight for it. There's nothing really that can be salvaged. If you beat around the bush you'll always stay in the gray area. It's never "too late". Just be genuine and straight forward.
/r/seduction17/04/17 01:04 AM
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Be bold
/r/seduction12/04/17 06:06 AM
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Walk up and say hi
/r/seduction04/04/17 05:40 PM
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Oh gosh no, that is very creepy. I'd honestly take a "I'll think about it" over a "I'll let you know".
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:51 AM
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I personally wouldn't invite her with "wanna go out for drinks" but in this scenario lets do it. For her to say "I'll think about it" wouldn't really phase me hence the "well if you make up your mind we'll be at place". I don't like using "I'll be at.." Cause it sounds like you'll be there by yourself. I like to use "we'll" in the context of a group of us. Now sure I could just say that. But that's the beauty of sending mixed signals. She can think what she wants but at the end of the day "we'll…
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:36 AM
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Of course it implies that you're going anyway. That's the whole point. Needyness is pretty much relying on her to make your plans fall through. As opposed to if you already had made plans to go, she's just getting inviting. she can choose wether she wants to go or not. Either way it shouldn't affect your plans. And if it does then you're getting this all wrong.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:04 AM
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Well it's always more alluring to include a group when inviting someone to drink. 1) if you go 1on1 it sets up a red flag if you haven't built enough comfort and rapport. 2) you risk the chance of another another guy gaming her(AMOG) 3) have you ever been to a bar with a date? For some reason the potential that night will be off the roof. Now I'm assuming you're taking her to a bar cause you asked if she wanted to go grab some drinks.
/r/seduction03/04/17 10:44 PM
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The same questions get asked. I feel your pain. But at the same time it also feels good to put your two cents in. You can always learn something from a different perspective of the same concept. If that makes any sense. 😅
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:26 PM
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"Well if you make up your mind we'll be at (name of the place)" this shows that you aren't needy and also that you value your time cause you'd go regardless of what she said.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:23 PM
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Get out of your head and go with the flow. Laugh at things you find funny. Don't fall into the whole interview style questions. If you run out of things to say, push-pull with compliments.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:12 PM
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FWBs are anyone platonic that is down to fuck. So if you have any platonic lady friends, be bold and let your intentions known. Now if your looking for a OC(on call) fuck then you have to take your sex game to the next level. When you pick up and take a chick home to bang. The next morning would determine whether they'll bang you again or not.
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:08 AM
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I'm no expert but I have had some success at night game. As far as strategy goes you just have to have low standards if you're trying to fuck.... Night game is very easy cause 85% of guys that are in the bar/club don't approach. So if you approach and introduce yourself, you have a better chance at not going home alone. If you want an easy pick up, just go up to a girl that's in a group of guys. Simply ask if any of the guys is her bf. Most of the time they're not. It's an easy pick up cause a g…
/r/seduction19/03/17 06:08 AM
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Sounds like you checked yourself into the friend zone. The way I see it, you have a 2 month window to where a girl will decide if she'd sleep with you or not. In this case that window has closed since you didn't take action when she was dropping those hints.
/r/seduction19/03/17 05:38 AM
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Just out right say it. "do you have a boyfriend?" "The reason I'm asking is cause I find you attractive. you have this spontaneous(or whatever you feel) vibe to you that id really like to explore."
/r/seduction13/03/17 10:47 PM
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You're right, you wouldn't be able to keep up.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:06 AM
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Girl: "you're such a dick!" Me: "really?, I always saw myself as a pussy. cause you know, you are what you eat right?" 😉👍🏼
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:03 AM
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Sounds like you're going in with an expectation. Women pick up on that real quick.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:25 AM
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It may sound corny as fuck but. Be you. You should be good the way you are. Unless you're really trying hard to be funny. Which is a definite turn off. But if that's who you are then embrace it. It weeds out the people that you won't be compatible with.
/r/seduction15/02/17 08:30 PM
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Haha you're trolling aren't you. You can't honestly believe all of that will get you laid let alone have women "fall head over heels for you". It's too generic. If it's working for you I salute you. otherwise this is the guide to get you friend zoned. Haha
/r/seduction08/01/17 10:39 AM
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This post should be tittled "11 ways to get friend zoned" But I'll tell you one thing that's Forsure. All women want is a man that can provide, protect, and has a healthy ego.
/r/seduction08/01/17 09:28 AM
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Don't go in with expectations. Anything can happen from now to March. With that being said. Do some research and learn the language of the locals. that way you'll have more options. Tourists tend to stay in a group which means you'll have to be on point with your game to be able to isolate. As opposed to that local cutie that knows her way around. Your roommate should be last resort for you not first priority. I mean if you're planning on getting to a relationship with her then by all means do y…
/r/seduction08/01/17 09:14 AM
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I normally yell "hey" when she turns, we make eye contact long enough for me to picture our lives together. Then I'd go on about my day.
/r/seduction15/12/16 05:41 AM
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As long as the smile doesn't look forced. Not a tip just generally speaking. forced smiles=you're hiding something. Also if you smile a lot people accept that as a part of you. So whenever you're not smiling they know something is wrong. Hence why everyone wants to talk to you when you're upset. If that makes sense.
/r/seduction15/12/16 05:37 AM
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"That's what she said" jokes seem to work for me. Based on her reaction I can tell if I can go sexual or not. Most of the time it'll lead to a flirtatious banter. For example: Her:(talking about certain excercise) "it's not that bad, I just need to stretch before I start" Me:"that's what she said" Her:"Did she really?" Me: "well minus the stretching part" We both laugh Awkward pause Walk away Repeat haha But for real just make some sexual innuendos during the conversation. Everyone has a dirty m…
/r/seduction15/12/16 05:28 AM
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Well in that case when you meet a girl, be clear on your intentions to bang her. You do this by creating some sexual tension. Learn about "push/pull techniques" and "cat string theory".
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:08 AM
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"I can only befriend girls instead of making them my gf." There's your problem. Are you looking for a gf or are you looking to get laid?
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:45 PM
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If women see you get rejected by other women it decreases your chances of pulling. You'll end up "burning out" the spot since Multiple people saw you get rejected multiple times in the same night and place. That's only if you approach back to back. Now if you show up with a girl or two, that you know well then that'll increase your chances.
/r/seduction02/12/16 12:53 AM
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Bring a friend to hype up your dance moves. If a group closes you off bump one of them and do a dance move to "initiate" a dance battle. Once that happens the group will open up.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:52 AM
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Not really, it's best thing you can ask in that situation. you'll obviously ask if the conversation is going well and not randomly. It's thoughts and assumptions like your example the reason why guys hesitate to ask. Asking if she has a boyfriend indicates that your time is valuable to you in a sense that it determines whether or not you're going to invest time in her. And honestly 80% of girls say no, even if they do.
/r/seduction15/11/16 12:32 AM
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Stay in your lane. Don't tell her anything about her relationship, avoid talking about it in general. If you want her to catch interest in you, you first have to become interesting yourself.
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:47 PM
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First off congrats on the sobriety. it's common sense that if you don't feel happy move on from that. If you yourself aren't happy then chances are the relationship you're in, no matter who it's with, won't last. Finding yourself and learning about who you are is a HUGE part of the game, and the only way you win is to leave it when you're happy. As for books "rewire your brain for love" by Marsha Lucas is a pretty good read for your relationship question.
/r/seduction14/11/16 09:23 PM
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It's all about trial and error my friend. All this inner game comes from social conditioning. That's where the skill is. Social conditioning is pretty much being completely comfortable with yourself to the point where you do things for you.
/r/seduction11/11/16 04:31 PM
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Usually the "8-10s" are a different approach, they're more of a straight forward direct approach. If you mange to take them back to your room then it's most likely on. You have to think about it like this. They get hit on by guys that are "advanced " in the game cause the "average joe" is intimidated by their beauty. In other words they have options and if they choose to go back home with you. You did something right. That's more than enough of a signal to make the move.
/r/seduction09/11/16 05:55 AM
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I see, I do tend to give a little more attention to the people that are new to my social circle to get them be comfortable and loosen up. I can see how they can confuse that with flirting. Thanks.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:01 PM
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Right now I'm enjoying my youth. Not looking to settle down just yet. I haven't really thought about it like that though but it would make sense. She's cool but I'm not really into her. Thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:43 PM
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Alright if you're going to seduce a girl to the point where she's comfortable enough to make out with you or more. You got to have more in your arsenal than just asking questions. Now It sounds like that conversation went well for that night. But based off the info you've given, sounds like you didn't build enough attraction with her. So you caught her by surprise when you tried to kiss her.
/r/seduction29/10/16 06:14 AM
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Take her off that pedestal. She told you she's seeing other guys. You should be seeing other women as well. Don't waste your time waiting on a response from her. you'll end up being the rebound or worse, the safety net. Keep your options open.
/r/seduction29/10/16 05:49 AM
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Did you build any rapport before dancing with her?
/r/seduction29/10/16 05:37 AM
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You direct all that focus and attention onto their body language for clues and hints of what they're thinking of how they feel.
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:13 AM
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Would you only hang out around your "res" or have you two gone out before?
/r/seduction08/10/16 06:00 AM
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How long have you known eachother?
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:36 AM
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Hmmm What does she tell you when you bring up the thought of being a couple?
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:32 AM
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Body language is universal. Say the simple compliments right and language barrier won't be a problem.("you're pretty" "I like your outfit", "you have a bright smile " ect). As corny as it sounds if a woman sees that you're making an effort to try and talk to her in her native language chances are she'll try and speak to you in yours. Which gives you an opening to kino. Or you could simply find yourself a trusty wing To make you look good in their language.
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:22 AM
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She wants a no strings attached type of thing. In other words stop catching feelings and stay in your lane. You can do one of two things. 1) end the fwb relationship and purse an actual relationship or 2) keep the fwb relationship as a safety net while you go out and hit on other girls.
/r/seduction07/10/16 06:04 AM
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Get you're mind out of what I like to call "the friendzone frame." Accept the fact that you're not going to bang them. Unless that was your intention to begin with. If so then that's another story. Haha. Just tease them about their boyfriends. Female friends aren't there for pitty sex or to have as back up in the pocket. they're there for mainly two things. 1) wing women 2)to talk to about things your guy friends wouldn't understand.
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:25 AM
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You could wear an eye patch to peacock. But I would say have fun with it. Don't be so self conscious or insecure. That's what ruins it for you. If you're confident and comfortable in your own skin, women would dig you no matter what.
/r/seduction30/09/16 08:45 AM
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I say it comes in clutch when you're feeling a little off or trying to get warmed up.
/r/seduction30/09/16 08:25 AM
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That's good man. Trust me when you feel good. You look good. Haha. That's funny. I'm actually in the same process. 😅 except I've been looking for a style that fits me. As for hairstyles this link helped me find my middle ground as to what I can do with my hair. http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/how-to-choose-right-haircut-for-face-shape/
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:59 AM
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Well like i said make it work for you. There is no such thing as a common smile. If you feel like it looks flat, try to go for a half smile. Or keep the smirk for pictures and what not. What ever works for you is fine. Who knows you may think your smile is off while a girl may find it charming it all goes back to how you feel about yourself. If you still feel a little self conscious then work out your facial muscles. Yes it's a thing. Practice making different facial expressions while you brush …
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:56 AM
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How is it off? Does it put out that "serial killer" look? Or does it look robotic or forced? The best remedy I could think of, is to look at the mirror and adjust it til you find the sweet spot. learn to be comfortable with it. Make it your trademark. That's how girls will remember you by. Just remember to talk to them.
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:23 AM
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It's not cheap. I like to pay attention to her reaction when the bill comes. If I see her pull out her wallet and getting ready to pay for her share. I'll stop her and tell her "I got this one you get the next one". (Given the date went well enough for another.) with that being said. If she doesn't motion for her wallet and expects me to pay, then I'll split the bill. I'll throw in the famous "are you putting out?" line to which they would get mad and pay. Don't get me wrong I don't normally dis…
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:53 AM
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"That's what I love about these high school girls. I get older. they stay the same age. Yes they do." ;)
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:19 AM
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"Ghetto" girls normally have daddy issues. So just be confident and authoritative in everything you say and do. It wouldn't kill to throw some jokes here and there.
/r/seduction21/09/16 09:00 PM
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Are you getting numbers from girls that go to your school?
/r/seduction21/09/16 04:18 AM
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Take her bowling. It's a great place to build comfort.
/r/seduction21/09/16 04:17 AM
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Buyers remorse is correct. Not enough attraction was built. I'm guessing you're a good looking dude or got some good dance moves in your arsenal. To where the girl would "pick you up" so to say. I could be wrong. But based on the info you have given us, that's the conclusion I could come to.
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:57 PM
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In my experience I would get white knight into the conversation by asking how he and the girl met, how long they have known eachother, or what's the relationship like between them. This would normally take 5-10 minutes max. Then I would tell him that I like his friend(my target) and ask if it's ok to flirt in isolation. I do this cause for me it shows that you 1) respect the friendship and 2) are genuine with your intentions. I only say this cause I've been on both sides and it's worked out for …
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:06 PM
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Sounds like you were a rebound.
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:22 AM
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Use that to your advantage. Open with playful lines like "too bad I'm gay or you'd be so my type" or my favorite "if I wasn't gay you'd be so mine". Throw some negs, kino escalate, push-pulls. To build that sexual tension. Speaking from experience Ive noticed that i get mistaken for being gay cause i have Ignored all the indicators of interests and from there the girl would assume I'm gay and straight frien zoned as the "gay friend". Don't make the same mistake I made and "keep it safe". I learn…
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:39 PM
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Of course you would, we haven't built any rapport why give me your number to begin with? It may be corny but it works well with me.
/r/seduction05/09/16 07:00 PM
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When I get her number I immediately text something like "hey, who's that handsome guy you just gave your number to. I'd hit that. ;)" almost always there's a response. Also save her contact name as an insider you guys come up with. That way if you got tipsy you can always ask the next day who she is and why is she save under "ginger pubes".(btw in case your wondering. she was a redhead my opener was based on her hair matching my pubes to which she responded with "unless you have ginger pubes, I …
/r/seduction05/09/16 07:17 AM
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