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Please make this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:08 PM
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This was my NVM ex. I was the 5 year bitch he was using for her resources. He was cheating constantly and had a "new" gf immediately after I kicked his ass to the curb (turns out he'd already been seeing her for 5 months before I dumped him). Sadly, as a fat woman, this type of NVM is always circling around like moths to a flame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:49 PM
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Every "kinky" guy ive slept with was awful in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:09 AM
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Did you date my ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:12 PM
2

I wish my sister would do this for her lvm live in boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:01 PM
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Also, if a guy's family talks endlessly about how GOOD you are for a guy, run. It means he's not functional and/or an asshole and they can't understand why you are with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:58 PM
7

omg these are all so spot on. My toxic ex had COUNTLESS pairs of nikes/adidas/whatever shoes, but not a single suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:13 PM
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I know men who have raised children successfully and or started a successful business and they almost always have no time to scroll instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:09 PM
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Mine too!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:15 AM
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Kate Bush is a brilliant songwriter who has many many songs that aren't about relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:04 PM
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If you're attracted to men with a God complex go for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:11 AM
3

When I was 18 my boyfriend did this to my twice and I dumped his ass the second time. Young me took no shit so I'm glad I'm returning to my roots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:11 AM
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Haha, so true. I got guys in college blowing up my Tinder matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:26 PM
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Advanced users = slutty guys who've fucked a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 02:50 AM
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I'm plus size and my theory is that only advanced users are up for trying my body type. All my thin friends get limp and small dicks it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 10:16 PM
12

Tinder, irl, social media. All over. Trust me there's been bad experiences a plenty, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 08:22 PM
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I've been lucky to have had really great sex but the men still were not great people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:15 PM
26

He sounds married to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:04 AM
6

This is what galls me, too. I love being sweet and caring and I feel like I can't ever do that without someone taking it for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 05:26 PM
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I wish Nicole would adopt some FDS. She's such a libfem sometimes. If she toned down the sexuality I think she'd fare better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 03:47 PM
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Your responses and getting touchy about his slow ass replies gave away that you cared too much and as someone who feels smothered instantly, anyone who guilts me for my texting habits automatically is a no. You need to be the slow replier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 11:33 PM
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I matched with a guy on Tinder who didn't have a picture of himself. It was like a random photo of a burger. But he was really interesting and funny so I kept talking to him, then eventually met him for a drink. He was sweet and soft spoken and had a cute accent so I dug him. Then after the date he told me he had a micropenis and ghosted me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:38 PM
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Don't love them, is my advice. Sounds impossible but it isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:36 PM
7

Ugh triggered. I have been this role way too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:38 PM
3

yupppp exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 03:25 AM
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this eliminates like 98% of men, fyi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:11 PM
3

Grow your hair out to at least chin length, like Isabella Rosselini in the 90s, OR the megababe in the "Father Figure" video (by George Michael). Those are my style icons ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:50 PM
12

Nikocado is a living, breathing train wreck - a train wreck I can't look away from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:44 PM
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I don't want offspring, I want someone who can keep up with me... trips abroad, shopping, dining out, concerts, cultural events. I enjoy the finer things in life, what can I say, I am a Taurus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:16 PM
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I really go for fit and active because that means they can have stamina for sex. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:15 PM
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Because of testosterone, men have a much easier time maintaining their weight. All they have to do is literally not eat nonstop garbage and workout with some regularity and they can have decent bodies. Also, at 33 if he's already at this stage, IT IS ONLY GOING TO GET WORSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:13 PM
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I've actually watched that before, so I am familiar - ugh, so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:57 PM
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Anyone ever seen the movie "Guinevere"? It's about a very young, impressionable woman who is pursued by an aging, sadsack "artist" who basically squats in a shitty loft and has a higher-than-thou, god complex. When the young woman's mom finds out, she BRUTALLY takes down the old guy in a SAVAGE speech about how the only thing her young daughter has that women her age do not is... awe. Full dialogue: " So then, what is... a man of, uh, your age... doing with my 21-year-old daughter? It'd be easy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:43 PM
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I found this sub once someone mentioned it on r/datingoverthirty, of course, the mention was an inflammatory one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:40 PM
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Yeah, here's some advice: forget this fool. He seems creepy and like a baby. No shade, but I wouldn't think about a guy who sends unsolicited pics for more than even one second. Block, move on and forget him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:06 PM
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I will never live with a man again unless we are engaged, or married. I learned that lesson when I was 23... moved in with a guy, hell, moved to another country to be with him, and as soon as that happened he expected me to be his live-in maid, chef, and therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:45 PM
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I go by actions, not cheap words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:40 PM
8

Like this is the process done for buying livestock... how gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:37 PM
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I usually have a bio that is just one or two sentences that reveal something about my sense of humor and personality, but literally give no details. They can ask me. (Not currently on the apps so no bio currently)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:36 PM
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Anyone who demands a full shave down to pre-pubescent bald is gross in my book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:35 PM
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"A fine piece" = "a fine piece of meat" - literally did not see you as a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:33 PM
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These type of guys literally only want you once you're totally done with them. I have been in this situation - 18 months, even, and only after I had moved on and was happily dating someone else did he resurface and finally admit he was in love with me and blah blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:31 PM
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Oh yes! Gosh so important... I use Suntegrity 30 spf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 11:42 PM
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If she ever shows interest in personal growth, I'll be sure to share. But man, I've tried. But some people just don't want to listen! Her past boyfriends were drug addicts and actual criminals, so I think she was excited that a guy with a job wanted to be her "boyfriend"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:19 PM
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Sure! Cleansing: // Neutrogena oil cleanser // Simple foaming face wash // Tosoowong Enzyme Cleanser Toner: Son & Park Beauty Water // Moon Juice Acid Toner Essence: Missha Time Revolution First Essence // Neogen Fermented Essence Serum: Shark Sauce // Hyarulonic acid (Hado Labo) // Herbivore bakuchiol serum (more gentle version of retinol) // Drunk Elephant TLC Framboos night serum Moisturizer: First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:56 PM
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What's tragic is this father does not acknowledge that he has this kid at all - not to his family, friends. And he has at least one other kid by another woman, if not more by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:35 PM
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What's even more effed up is when she found out she was pregnant and shared her "me and my boyfriend are going to have a family!" fantasy, I actually tracked down the woman who said she'd been knocked up by her bf, and this woman spilled alllllll the tea. However, instead of my friend listening to me about this guy (who is a reproductive abuser, gets multiple women pregnant in order to have them dependent on them and then treats them like garbage... oh and even worse is a SHRINK), she turned it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:16 PM
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She's broke and has no time for therapy. She has literally no one to help her - her mother has alzheimers and her dad isn't interested. She is also a major martyr, and won't accept help. It's pretty bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:13 PM
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I follow a typical korean skincare routine, with a few more expensive serums from Herbivore and Drunk Elephant. It makes a huge difference. I am 39 and look more like I am 30, and am routinely mistaken for early 20's by older people who can't tell as easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:16 PM
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A man won't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:14 PM
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She's 37. I think part of her decision to keep the kid was thinking it was her last chance... but she is really struggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:05 PM
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It's pretty simple in my head - men suffer an enormous amount of narcissistic injury when their mommies turned out to be real people and not just devoted to them 24/7, so for the rest of their lives they simply hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:59 PM
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Can I share a story about a friend of mine being a pickmesha and getting fucked over? She started dating this guy over two years ago. First red flag, he never took her on an actual date - just had park dates, coffee, etc. Then, this guy talked her into monogamy - without ever taking her on a real date, AND when he said he could only see her 2 hours a week on Sunday mornings. However, my friend was ELATED to be ~PICKED~ so she agreed to it. Six months into their relationship she caught him being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:02 PM
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right? I have been through so many love bombers ughghghg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:57 PM
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Way more common than you'd think. In the past six months I have been going to the gym six days a week, and I've started to notice something... a lot of the built, ripped gym rat dudes have plain jane, overweight, frumpy girlfriends. More and more, low effort, insecure dudes are going after overweight, plain, or older women for these very reasons: they want to be literally worshipped. You wouldn't believe how many hot "chads" I have matched with on dating sites/apps in the past--and one even owne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 09:51 PM
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Yep, disgusting, indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:01 PM
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I will chime in here that it is possible to get men when you're fat, but they are often extremely low value cheapskates who are used to pickmesha's and will disappear when you try to set any kind of standard for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:11 PM
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Black usually scares off guys - unless they are goth. Ha! They really are drawn to super feminine, borderline infantile clothing choices. I love a severe, monochromatic art bitch look too, though, so I relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:44 PM
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Spot on. A friend of mine is married to a lazy dud who is way beneath her (she has low self esteem and SETTLED big time). She has a high powered job in advertising, and he's been "in school" for 15 years!! And, to make matters worse, about 10 years ago he got arrested for child abuse, because he let his side chick bring her kid over and he hit the damn kid. Soooo then he went to JAIL and my friend STILL STOOD BY HIS SIDE. This is a well educated, wealthy woman and her man still hasn't finished c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:28 PM
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In my experience what women should look out for is someone who is a very attractive male who is younger and specifically sites that he is looking for an older woman. 9 times out of 10, it's because he wants to leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:50 PM
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I've always meant to watch this movie, thanks for reminding me about it! Gonna watch this weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:23 PM
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Omg, I see this SO often. I have had a history with this type of guy. Usually they are hot guys who are broke, and basically use it to garner your pity and then gouge you for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:21 PM
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Sadly I have had these tendencies in the past. First off, it's what I saw playing out with my mom and dad. While my dad earns a great living, my mom essentially had to parent him - to the extent where I had to quiet my own needs so she could tend to his. He's now 72 and has never done dishes, washed clothes, or other basic adult things. I don't entirely blame him, as my mother has this tactic established in order to never be vulnerable, ever. Now I see it play out in my siblings' relationships, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:14 PM
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You're lucky, that's solely been my experience! (the latter)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 06:45 PM
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That's agnosticism, then, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 06:05 PM
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I am in the same boat as you, 100%. Same goals and everything. Good for you for leveling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:32 PM
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My friend's daughter is only 19 and I am amazed by her awareness of abusive and narcissistic behavior from men and admire her ruthless ability to drop them like a hot potato
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:30 PM
7

I agree with you. I am turned off my atheists because they basically are saying to me that they are egotistical enough to believe they have all the answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:27 PM
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Ahem, earlier this year I decided to go down the same path you are looking at, and I found finding high quality D almost impossible to come by. Then, I came across this much younger guy who was really ripped, a 9/10 "Chad" and low and behold, he blew my mind in bed and I decided he'd be my slam piece. THEN HE STARTED WHINING that no one thinks he's relationship material and that I just wanted to use him for sex! Seriously, cannot win with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:46 PM
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ugh I relate to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:33 PM
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If you can tell he's attracted to you, just let him make the move. Just be smiley and flirtatious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 07:36 PM
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"I have 2 kids, but it doesn't matter, because you'll never meet them" = you'll never meet them, because this guy is wasting your time "I like to pick up heavy things and put them down again" = I started working out last week Anything mentioning tacos, pizza, donuts = I literally have no interests, I will take you for a cheap meal, and expect you to have sex with me in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 03:46 PM
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I think the ultimate situation that put me off loser narc men was that I was engaged to one when I was 23, and he absolutely RUINED one Christmas with my family. We lived together and we'd already been experiencing a ton of tension there, so I had proposed I go home for Christmas alone (for an entire month, mind you... my family was in a different country), but he insisted on coming along. That month with him was a living hell. He insisted on stopping in NYC for his Birthday. In December. During…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:55 PM
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Then look for the following behavior as red flags that they are married: Only available during the day and/or week nights, disappears on the weekends, only calls you when they're in the car, kids stuff in the car, wants to use a messaging app like WhatsApp or Kik, can't spend the night, won't let you over to their place. I have outsted soooo many marrieds. I met an insanely hot French guy six months ago and I caught him when he sent me a selfie of himself in the car and there was a car seat in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:22 PM
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Ohhh yeah you gotta Google at a MINIMUM. I do a background check if they seem shady. So many married men on the apps. I found this guys mugshot like, immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:58 PM
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I once googled a guy I was supposed to go on a date with, not only was he married, but a sex offender who had raped a 14 year old. AND HE WAS A LAWYER?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:52 PM
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Hi, I am also fat, and weighing in (har). I am actually fatter than you, and older than you, and I have no issues getting dates. The problem is I still attract a ton of lame-os who think fat chicks are easy, so just a heads up there. Confidence is absolutely the key to success here. NOW... being a fat woman is not without its downsides. I don't want to sugarcoat it. I am actively trying to lose weight because I see being fat as being a barrier to having a high quality man in a lot of ways. Here …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:01 PM
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I am also fat, and ironically, fat dudes are NOT into me. They are way too insecure about their weight to date a fellow fatty ime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 05:53 PM
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oh he will be back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:12 PM
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did you hear that kik is closing down on October 19th?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:25 PM
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