A pickmeisha lesson: LVM are expensive.

Sage_Planter · 2020-11-22T23:45:38+00:00

I've definitely had a few thoughts of "yeah... I should have put that $50 into my 401K instead of buying my NVM ex a coffee machine for Christmas."

tellmesomething11 · 2020-11-22T23:56:09+00:00

We cannot afford lvm. Period.

Samvanderkamp123 · 2020-11-23T01:29:22+00:00

Let’s not talk about the dental implants I purchased for my ex-husband.

DallasOMalley · 2020-11-23T01:38:26+00:00

I just calculated that, in my last relationship, I provided at least $15,000 worth of free therapy.

First, I defined "free therapy" as time spent listening to him bitch and whine about issues he could control but had no intention of changing (and never did change). Then I figured a low end estimate of 1 hour per week x the # of weeks we were together x the approximate cost per one hour session a psychologist in my area would bill an insurance company.

Mind you, this asshole had excellent medical insurance (in the US). He could've seen a proper therapist with only a $10 copay per session, which he easily could've afforded.

Kitty015 · 2020-11-23T01:16:17+00:00

Where can I get therapy for only $20 per session????

PinkBlair99 · 2020-11-22T23:32:15+00:00

I like this idea of literally totaling up the costs.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-11-23T00:01:54+00:00

I’m glad you wrote this down and put it into perspective! Bc honestly that’s a Chanel bag right there 😩

thowawaywookie · 2020-11-23T04:02:15+00:00

Proves that LVM are the gold diggers. Glad you got out of that mess. BTW I love your handwriting!

TexiMcCrae · 2020-11-23T01:04:42+00:00

... I think I’m going to start doing this when I find someone. Just so I can look at it and remind myself what not to do

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-22T23:56:37+00:00

Side note your penmanship is amazing. I have chicken scratch handwriting lol

2020-11-23T00:59:16+00:00

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azureangel35 · 2020-11-23T00:12:11+00:00

Love this sis!! when you know better, you do better.

OpenCelebration3 · 2020-11-23T05:51:26+00:00

“Being good” to some dumb ass man OMG I felt that . My biggest regret to date lol but hey I learned ....Putting the focus on myself first from here on out

Ghost_namesake · 2020-11-23T04:55:56+00:00

Oh good lord. I don't want to event think about the money I've shredded on stupid men. Never again!

2020-11-23T05:54:03+00:00

One thing I can say for myself is I never spend money on em lol. If they start trying to be leeches I ghost them, straight up.

daisyinflux · 2020-11-23T02:19:38+00:00

Ooo I might do one of these. Great idea!!!!

DelicateDream · 2020-11-23T02:28:06+00:00

I’ve never bought a man anything. Not a cup of coffee. Nada. Only twice I split the bill because the men wanted to, and that was the last of those two men. My worst pickmeisha self did cook dinner for men and drive too far to see them.

But I’m shocked at what some women have done. I feel bad for them...

Even some LVM would have too much pride to accept this from a woman....

BashRunes · 2020-11-23T02:47:00+00:00

My ex was financially abusive and would demand every cent I earned... for three years. Let's just say I could have put myself through college instead. :/

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-11-23T09:04:40+00:00

This is so true and a great reminder for Xmas time! I laughed at her saying “on that stupid man” haha

mostly_ok_now · 2020-11-23T11:51:42+00:00

I definitely bought cleaning supplies to scrub a LVM's disgusting house. Literally had dirt on every surface. Never again.

Pahapan · 2020-11-23T06:27:45+00:00

God, this hurts. I spent both my tax refund and my stimulus check on my shitty NVM abusive ex.

evaporative · 2020-11-23T08:58:34+00:00

How is Hawai’i only $1600?! And $20 for a therapy session?! 😱I want your insurance!

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-11-23T18:31:21+00:00

The sharing in a man's grocery bills makes me especially angry because they eat SO much more than women. I remember my lvm ex commenting how he was all for sharing this pizza bill with this group of girls because he knew they would eat very little while he wolfed down most of the pizza but everyone paying an equal share of the bill 🥴. This is truly the thought process of a lvm - using women to subsidize his needs.

fireforestfairy · 2020-11-23T14:27:22+00:00

A lot of LVM are leeches. Ironically, they complain about women being gold diggers.

maraslove · 2020-11-23T16:12:31+00:00

Nothing worse than a hypergamous male.

fistfulloftosca · 2020-11-23T18:01:50+00:00

I wish my sister would do this for her lvm live in boyfriend

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-11-23T20:49:45+00:00

Put a 1 in front of that and that was about how much my 3 yr relationship with my ex cost.

Title	A pickmeisha lesson: LVM are expensive.
Author	sassenachpants
Upvotes	671
Comments	52
Date	November 22, 2020 11:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jz63v9/a_pickmeisha_lesson_lvm_are_expensive/
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