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Women LEAVING the male (and so called friends!) they’re with when they don’t want them to shine. I did not like how Anne’s Hathaway’s character in the Devil Wears Prada dropped what she loved for a whiny “man” and her nuisance friends. Being happy moving up in life and dropping everyone needs to be normalized for women. They were loving her perks yet started having issues with her putting her job first. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:04 PM
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That’s how they are. Smoke for other women, but respect for ALL guys. She clearly doesn’t need advice {deletes my advice}.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:26 PM
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I’m so jealous of you OP. For the simple fact you’ve never joined OLD. I was exposed to it at a young age because of some girl I wish I was never peers with. I should’ve known it was bad when she was underage meeting grown ass males on there. Nothing was the same for me. Luckily, around your age I was always disappearing off of OLD (would make a profile for a day and forget about it until years later). It was at 25 things got rough and I ran into the devil himself.... once again. Try out some ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:49 PM
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Some of the people on this board will cause many women who need good advice to steer away. If I’m not mistaken, there was a post of a woman wanting advice on what to wear for her first date with a guy I think she met through OLD. I was personally disgusted seeing people telling her that it doesn’t matter how she dresses, no makeup is fine, blah blahhh. It’s like, they wanted her to sabotage herself? That is how I took it. This is female DATING strategy not female single forever strategy. Not eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:19 AM
7

You’re more patient than me. I know the game now so I’ve unmatched or blocked very quickly because it was always the same thing. Having a great convo or talking a lot for two days and then radio silence. I see it as that false sense of closeness bullshit so I leave asap. They’re not busy, it’s just a loser ass game he’s playing. My opinion though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:20 PM
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This and “let’s do something this weekend” get you left on read. I’m not your male friend, I’m a woman. If you can’t court me respectively then I don’t need to waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:59 PM
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I wasn't with this person, but he became a fucking stalker. I screenshotted everything including messages and new accounts he kept making in order to contact me. I got an attorney on him and didn't even have to continue with the case because he disappeared off the face of the earth. Definitely bring the law into it. I would listen to those who said to get the police involved and tbh, I wouldn't take no for an answer. A lot of these officers are garbage and don't take women's cases seriously. For…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:26 PM
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I don’t give them and I’ve come to terms that I never will lmao. It’s been years of coercion from them and I’m actually proud that’s one thing I never gave into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:01 AM
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Typical smart and gross male. Married a younger girl that he’s certainly not attracted to so he can destroy her in all ways possible. Went through this already and I’m so fucking happy marriage wasn’t in it so I wasn’t tied up, but she is. I hope she finds the strength to just divorce or else she’ll be going insane trying to please that shit “husband” of hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:48 AM
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This is why those dating subs like Bumble and Tinder keep having never ending posts by women wanting to know why males keep unmatching them instantly. This is why. He never liked you. The little bitch was too lazy to take his time and is trying to rack in a bunch of women to neg them by unmatching or ignoring. That’s my take on this and luckily these women are also being told the truth as well. Dating apps aren’t what they used to be when they first came out. The pandemic made things way WAY wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:01 PM
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Excuse me while I cryyyyy 👉🏾🥺👈🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:25 PM
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6’1”-6’5” FTW 🤟🏾👅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:07 PM
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Stunning woman! This video can help lots of girls and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:02 PM
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I don’t want you means I don’t want you. They need to get their asses over it. I went short once and it was a piss poor experience. 5’4” to be exact 🤮. I’m back to my 6’1”+’s and can no longer be manipulated ever again to be with someone I don’t want. Short guys are extremely bitter and many hate women because majority of women don’t want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:09 PM
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Sometimes it takes being embarrassed in order for some of these girlies to understand.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:12 AM
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His ugly ass is like the baby version of Chris Watts. Trying to seem like some victim and the woman was wrong 🙄(the late wife wanting her husband to “want” her again was a needy b-tch and Gabby getting tired of being abused was her being an “irate” b-tch), acting charismatic with the fucking police, and having a shitty fucking family that didn’t give not one damn what he did to his wife like this trash with his fiancé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:02 PM
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That’s why I don’t stay. I stopped that shit 3 years ago. I won’t stay if you have no money or career, I won’t stay if you’re an abusive alcoholic, I won’t stay if you’re depressed. I won’t stay for shit. Women never have anyone to stay for them, so why should I stay for you? It’s disgusting what Anna went through and I can’t imagine how she feels. Olivia Munn is just stunning, that’s it. Other than that, she’s always been a calculating and disgusting person. The next woman always gets the best …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:28 PM
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... and now they've reversed it. They said so today on twitter. I'm so disgusted. Too many porn sick losers and weird fake empowered losers who don't want to find the beauty in a real career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:27 PM
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It just pisses me off that these males of 45 and older are only listing "someday" for children because they want to future fake women who are 35 and under with hopes of children. I know the game already. Fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:35 PM
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Excuse me while I cry. Another example of never settling for less. The ring is gorgeous. Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:42 PM
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Good. Go yell at your fucking family. She was probably scared for her damn life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:27 PM
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So so SO happy for you. The ring is gorg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:24 PM
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Lmfao. We dated the same person OP. He kept pressuring me to be in a bullshit relationship. I didn't know about FDS at the time, but I didn't listen to my intuition either. He was 5'4", broke, unmotivated, and a gross ass smoker. All the things I despise. Now he's a nurse (because my dumbass told him to get off his ass and found schools for him which lololol he claims I'm not the reason. Funny how that works? You'll never get a thank you from users) and cocky as shit. Even though I'll always be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:39 PM
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Good!!!!!!!! That disgusting subreddit is what taught my exes to be the abusive fucking trash they were. More platforms directing hate towards women need to be banned. Women go through too much crap as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:34 PM
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Me and you both girl. I’ve been single for a year and a half. During this time, I found myself blocking guys after a few hours. It’s just to the point where I don’t even have time to see your shitty/shittier side. I already assume it’s there and I’m gone before it starts. They can thank my shitty abusive ex for that. I’m just not excited anymore to meet new people which is actually very sad. Humans need companionship, but I’m just fucking tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:10 AM
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I definitely agree with that! Dodging bullets will always be one of the best feelings ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:58 PM
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You’re totally right. It’s all smoke and mirrors. It’s just super annoying when someone is your type physically and on paper, but of course, happens to be the same garbage all around 😭 At least I’m not dealing with that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:58 PM
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Call me bitter, but the other day I did the unthinkable snooping of a guy I had stopped talking to and I was super pissed at what I saw. He’s an MD now, but when we met again on “We Are The Prize” Bumble, he told me to come over after 2 days (we’ve spoken before somewhere else before Bumble)... I blocked BUT a year later he’s with a new girl who he met in person and is treating her with decency from what I see. He’s marrying her too. Fuck these mfers from these apps. I’m so tired of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:15 PM
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Wow!!!!! This is SO fucked up!!!! I’m glad you’re okay, but Jesus! I’m so over guys that are still in love with their damn exes. Just go be with her and leave innocent women out of your game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:53 PM
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It's shenanigans like this which is why I'm such a b-tch. I would've corrected that waitress and embarrassed him in front of everyone. I will never pay for a calculating ass male. Pay for your own shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:33 PM
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This.... is why I don't date financially incapable calculating ass losers. I did once BY MISTAKE and I learned my lesson. That hideous little swine started telling ME what I should spend MY MONEY on. He was also jealous of my mom's Lexus and my car. Gtfoh! This is nothing more than resentment because she wanted other guys and chose him last. Her being incredibly successful adds more lemon to the wound. That was my exact situation and I made sure it never happened a fucking gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:00 PM
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Funny how when some of us desperately want children, we're denied of it. Yet when a woman says fucking NO, there's this disgusting force for her to procreate. Call me petty, but I would divorce. She was in pain and I can't imagine how scared she was. Reminds me of that terrifying story of a woman posting on a subreddit saying her shitty bf at the time was trying to claw out her IUD with a fucking knife. He's trying to trap her with a child, he doesn't actually really want children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:23 PM
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Tall (6'1"+) Vibrant green eyes Great skin Brown hair Muscular asf Good hygiene ​ ... dassit lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:47 PM
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Her confidence and self love is oozing out of the screen. Love a beautiful woman who’s self esteem offends incel garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:01 PM
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A guy told me “you look sexy today” while I was concentrating on finding some f*cking Greek yogurt WHILST masked up. They’re getting desperate. Though.... not having some idiot harass me into smiling has been great. I’m allowed to be unhappy or sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:16 PM
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One got fake mad at me yesterday when I told him I don’t do that coffee date bullshit when I can make it at home. I wasn’t feeling him anyways so he went his own way. All of this is because he’s still angry I stopped talking to him half a damn year ago (now I see why I should’ve never caught up). Very entitled and very rude. I agree with one of the posters who said their asses think they can be cheap with us due to our backgrounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:55 PM
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I stopped having a guy friend a year ago. I had enough of someone new trying to be with me yet again. I’m tired of always being some type of agenda or finding myself in some bullshit abusive relationship because that “friend” fell “in love” with me. They’re garbage as friends and as partners. No more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:47 PM
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Lmao @ his dumbass thinking he really did something by “exposing” himself like that and LYING at the same time. Exactly why I haven’t given a guy my real number in a year. They want to collect your shit and disrespect you personally. A spam number feels so much better 😍.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:13 AM
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Wah wah WAH! I hate a cry baby ass mfer. He should just DL shit Bumble and call it a day. They don’t want to do crap anymore but complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:06 AM
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I’ve experienced more than threats. The person began stalking me and I got an attorney on them. Please get some legal aid so this piece of shit can be dealt with. This is my issue with OLD. These dudes are so fucking desperate and get too upset when their match doesn’t fucking want them. It’s never been that damn serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:33 PM
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THIS IS ASSAULT!!!!!!!!! Wish you had a gun to finish with his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:21 PM
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Woooo girl in my old neighborhood there was this white man who would walk around with a gun on his hip. Everyone assumed he was basking in illegal activities which is why he carried that so openly. He wasn’t an officer or an FBI. Shit like this needs to be called out so it can stop. My black ass always turned the other way when I saw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:25 PM
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Uh... idk. I’ve actually ran into some very creepy 100% gay males in my life. Many are also misogynistic as hell. Honestly.... I just don’t trust males period. Doesn’t matter the orientation. I don’t feel safe with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:23 AM
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Just mad she didn’t answer his desperate ugly ass. 🗣NEXT CALLER PLS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:02 PM
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Foreign black women.... are better than this..... Disgusted with this girl. Also, that “man” will leave you for someone with no ass btw....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:42 PM
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She’s so cute. Love her top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:03 AM
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This is how they are. They are evil fucking degenerates. I went through something traumatic as a kid and some ugly ass idiot told me it has nothing to do with him. My ex boyfriend was also a POS. He acted like he cared but replaced me with porn and kept complaining because I wouldn’t do anything with his miserable ugly ass. Women have empathy, males do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:00 AM
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And dance like Nicole Kidman once all that crap he gave you has been discarded because that’s exactly what I did. I was so free ☺️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:06 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. The benefits of meeting organically is that I’m seeing real life stuff that online guys would lie about or hide like height and oral health. You also see body language which is a plus AND I have been able to detect someone doesn’t like me that much even though he had the audacity to approach me (I.e. flirting, but giving me dirty looks at the same time.... gtfoh). HOWEVER, Jason who’s a pervert online is also a pervert in person.... it just might take him a couple of days…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:20 PM
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Facts! I can’t gold dig if you’re always in the negative. Also, this woman is gorgeous 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:20 PM
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They’re ugly as f*ck. But for some reason I see so many tall & attractive guys in person that make me swoon. I agree with a comment that says these guys look like trash on purpose on OLD and the other that says there’s a reason why they’re on OLD in the first place. However, notice there are so many beautiful profiles of REAL women? So it’s not 100% a “I can’t get a date IRL” issue... but for these dudes... uh... yea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:41 PM
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Bumble is the #1 dating app I hate the most for the reasons you stated. It also makes those losers feel like super stars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:20 AM
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I’m so so so happy for you ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:17 PM
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I am in love with this 😍😍😍and your dress is so beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:05 PM
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😍😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:10 PM
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This reminds me of when I bought my first real gold hoops last year for my birthday. I'm already excited to buy a new jewelry piece for my bday this year as well. Jewelry is a great investment. This piece is SO gorgeous. Congrats <33
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:02 PM
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Also staying away from white worshipping white males. They know they don’t see a future with you literally based on the color of your skin, but will waste your time away and make you feel lesser than because you’re not white. Some of them even hate you while being with you. Sick asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:55 PM
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You and me both sister. After my last relationship, I’m just done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:41 PM
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And she’s still going to stay with him just for the sake of saying she’s married... NEXT! So over these women and these nuisance posts about how smelly and disgusting the person they married is. It’s always the same ole thing with zero changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:42 AM
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Like I said.... that “50/50” bullshit is a straight up scam. They only want you to pay 50% on the bills because they don’t want to be actual men anymore and do 80/20. Other than that, you’ll be doing ALL of the housework, groceries, doctor appts for kiddos, and more while fucking working. Literally slavery, just divorce already. It’s okay to be without a “man”. Edit: I see SHE’s the one who set the 50/50 situation up. My point still stands.... it’s a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:40 AM
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This realization is the perfect way to start a new month in the new year. I'm happy you left though I'm sad you went through this. Do what you need to do to level up yourself. I gained a fuck ton years ago over a son of a bitch and I lost that 50+ pounds. We cannot continue letting these fucks destroy our health and happiness. I used to have a terrible fashion sense, but that changed around 18 to now. Research and figure out what kind of fashion sense is for you. No woman should feel like she sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:09 PM
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EWWHHHHH. Shit like this is exactly why even when I was his age I never gave these fucks my time of day. He's an immature piece of shit and this "date" was over right from the start. She sounds like a nice girl. I hope she learns from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:05 PM
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My ex is fucking garbage and will rot as garbage but at least that sociopath got me beautiful Vday roses, chocolate, a stuffed animal that was a puppy (threw it out a year ago though) and a card (thrown out too). If the worst guy ever can give a damn about Vday..... there is just NO EXCUSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:39 PM
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Yeah I peeped looonngggg ago the fatphobia that has taken place on here. It’s okay to recommend people getting themselves together but only IF they want to. Who the hell is anyone to tell others that they have to lose weight or else they won’t find someone? You’re putting a curse on that person which is disgusting. Also can we fucking talk about how many fat women or used to be fat women have/had massive depression????? When I was 50 pounds over no one gave a rats fucking ass to ask if I was doi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:01 PM
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You are worthy of love 💖. I understand completely what you’re saying. I lost 50 pounds, but I will never forget the entire hell I went through. Things still aren’t 100% great right now even. They’re “never” looking for a relationship when they come to you all of a sudden, but trust, the right man for you is coming. I don’t regret the people who rejected me in the past because most are unattractive and suffering now. I agree, don’t do shit for those POS’ unless strong commitment is established.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:47 PM
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Posts like these make my day!!!!! CONGRATS! Another woman doing big thangz 💫🔥🥂🎉🎊🥼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:17 AM
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I literally got emotional it’s not even funny lol 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:55 PM
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You did the right thing! I remember in October 2019 I made an appt for a phone call with some dumb guy and he didn’t answer. I texted him and automatically blocked him. He stalked me for a whole year..... these guys need to understand that not all of us are going to play these dumbass games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:40 PM
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Everyday!!! He was the ugliest inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:27 AM
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Strongly agree! I said months ago I do not believe an HVM exists and that’s because my life has been built around trauma from the male gender. I spent too long hoping to the point I came to a realization that unfortunately.... some women will marry bad and some will marry good. As long as I get a good quality/decent man... that’s all I can do. Sometimes you just have to accept certain things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:02 PM
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lololol I’m so F*CKING over this desperate scarcity ass mindset. I pray to our living God the girlfriend finds out and drops this SOB without even saying it’s over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:02 PM
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I have a knife in my drawer next to my bed and I always purposely sit on that side when with a guest. I also take it with me when I’m going out on a date (pre-covid) and I have dog mace on my keys. I want to go to the gun range someday soon and start legally carrying. I hope I will never have to stab someone or spray them tf up, but I’m 10000% ready if I have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:50 AM
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I had to go up to my room to find some, lol. Foreo Luna Mini 3 $159 (sephora store or online; this is great for when I want to thoroughly remove makeup! First I use a cleansing balm... right now I’m using Clinique which is $10 for the smallest size... and then after I wash that off I pair this with a facial cleanser. This system is also anti-bacterial so you never have to worry about weird stuff living rent-free inside of the bristles!). Estée Lauder advance night repair $75.00 (in store or onli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:54 PM
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If some dumb piece of shit were to even touch my skincare, I would finish him. It’s not a joke. I’ve spent hundreds on them and some are electronic and glass! I love to keep my skin flawless and honestly it just makes me happy. Of course the male gender would want to ruin that happiness. I’ll never forget an FDS user whose bonsai tree got destroyed as a “prank”. Isn’t tampering/throwing away/destroying your S.O.’s personal belongings abuse? Oh ok! Damned if a woman puts her attention on somethin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:48 PM
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Not only is all of this gross, but notice how entitled and riddled with low ass self esteem these short/ugly/dad bod guys are? A woman finally giving them their time of day pisses them off from what I see because for us who gave one of these guys a chance.... ended up in abusive relationships. Plus you’re always filled with resentment when with them because you know you can do better. King of Queens to me is a perfect example (even though she fought for him not to divorce her in the end which id…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:35 PM
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This is sad to see. She is such a stunner. My money is my fucking money and it will NEVER be yours. She knows what she needs to do.... she just hasn’t done it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:45 PM
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And it’s strangling. Choking is involuntary. They need to keep it real and state what is REALLY happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:17 PM
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And that’s on that ON THAT. Not dealing with this in 2021 and beyond ☝🏾✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:58 PM
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Thank you thank you thank you! I don’t play when it comes to children! There is NO fucking REASON for children to even be getting sexually abused in the fucking first place!!!!! We gotta take down these demonic pedos. I will never forget having to mention ( @ ) a news station and the NYPD to a pedos Twitter. This was around the time when you had to click to see all images and what I saw has me scarred till this day. I remember many other women like myself were reporting the shit out of that acco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:56 PM
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Lolololol bitch been happily blockedT for a year now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:21 PM
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I am looooving all these proposal posts! Congrats 🎊💕😍 that ring is gorg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:56 AM
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Yassss! Congratulations 🍾🎉💍💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:30 PM
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This is a mess. Gorgeous outfit though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:29 PM
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Money will never wake up and tell you “I don’t love you anymore“. Glad you chose your career first. Women are really doing it big these days! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:49 AM
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I went through that and that shit gets old. I just blocked him and moved on without even saying it’s over. You deserve better. You don’t have to put up with this for another year, month, nor second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:49 AM
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Agggghhhhh 💕💕😍😍😍💍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:30 AM
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Ugly asf. I’d be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:37 PM
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I’ve always felt this way. I sadly cut off all of my friends who were women years ago. I got tired of feeling alone in bad situations or them having the audacity to tell me I should settle. It sucks because women need women. I’ve had women do more for me than the male gender and I’ve done more for them as well. I hope that when this bullshit pandemic ends, I will be able to find like-minded ones who aren’t all about man man man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:22 PM
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And of course it’s a bitter ass black male. Sistas, y’all know they hate when we’re doing better than they ever will. She has everything but a “man” and it’s stressing his ugly ass out that she didn’t need one to get this far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:21 PM
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Anyone that asks me about medical school gets instantly blocked. I know when you’re curious and when you’re greedy for something I will never give because wtf do I look like. “What kind of guys do you like?” Is a trap and I never answer. “What do you like to do?” is a way for him to boast about his boring ass activities over mine or to label ME as boring because I don’t do dumb shit like drink and party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:55 PM
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So beautiful, but so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:44 PM
4

Such a fucking psychopathic loser that clearly was desperate for a response. I would file something against him. Don’t let him get away with this violent thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:24 PM
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And that’s on that on that! More women joining apps during this pandemic felt like a blessing for all these damn losers. Now I’ve been hearing these apps are losing a shit ton of users (women) and that makes me so happy. Just look at the reviews on App Store or Google Play..... women are fed tf up. Why wouldn’t they be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:43 PM
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The fact that his ugly ass thinks this is cute behavior 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:46 PM
7

Honestly, I don’t even believe there’s a high value man. I always say I hope that I get good quality or even fucking decent. Once the mask comes off with majority of these spawns, it’s over. Even worse, it starts all over again with someone new. What’s the point of even getting excited at your fake ass actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:19 AM
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Lmfao yeah that post should’ve stayed in the drafts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:16 AM
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Congrats 😍😍😍😍. Cat is adorable 🥰.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:14 AM
8

Literally NEVER want to f*cking get to know anyone for shit. I’m glad OLD is staying in 2020 for me. They only want dangerous sex or ego boosts from dumb things like “likes”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:40 PM
3

This ripped my heart apart because this disgusting ass behavior is typical. Male gets sick = Woman sticks around. Woman gets sick = Male leaves or adds more stress to something that wasn’t her fault. Fuck everything about him and delete him from your life. We are here for you. You will beat this thing! 💪🏾❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:14 PM
2

This made me so fucking happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:38 PM
2

Yeah uh... I’m going to guess this was meant for her private blog cause... lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:16 PM
6

Wow this collage takes the cake for favorite FDS post of 2020. This is literally me now half a year later. Crazy 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:44 AM
2

Good to know I have to waste my time now to reverse search birthdays and see if I gotta block a bitch ✍️. These misogynists need to start living in their truth 👨‍❤️‍👨.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:14 PM
2

Yaaassss 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:09 PM
4

She reminds me of what I went through once. I got tired and didn’t want to do shit with that boring person. She needs to just leave him next. She deserves someone that will give their damn sex life effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:30 PM
4

She’s needs to STFU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:29 PM
2

All facts! After I broke up with a narcissistic sociopath after Christmas last year, I joined Tinder the same night. I was a hot mess! I also found myself venting in anger to these random dudes who were also like “??????”. It’s okay to be sad, it’s okay to not be over it yet, but it’s not okay to force yourself into a new relationship that will most likely be worse because you haven’t at least healed 90% of the way. It’s easier to vet these days because I moved on, as it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:12 PM
100

Carrie always ruined her opportunities and lifestyle by making boys #1. From hot and going nowhere Sebastian to butthurt Weaver. It just reminds me of how even when she got older she never wanted to do better than Mr. Big 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:33 PM
6

Nothing worse than a hypergamous male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:12 PM
5

Queen energyyyyyyyy 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:08 PM
1

I want children more than being tied down to a possible son of a b*tch. However, I just want to do the marriage thing beforehand since my family would go bat shit if I did things my own way. I just know in my heart my kids would never leave me in the dust versus a shit “husband”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:48 PM
8

I knew Hinge was full of shit. It’s a baby copy of “We Are The Prize” Bumble when it comes to their users. Majority of guys have great careers, many are tall, only some are good looking, but they pushed that whole relationship-minded thing to the core when in reality.... it’s as garbage as the rest. Full of perverts, incels, and stalkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:09 PM
3

I wish we could add gifs on here! crying gif congrats!!!!!!! 🍾🎊🎈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:00 PM
24

When she’s beautiful and takes no shit 😻😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:28 PM
13

PSYCHOPATH!!!!!! Reminds me of when I had to get an attorney on one because he was harassing me and found out where I lived. I’m so so so happy you’re even alive and even happier you carry. Yes, don’t ever leave your gun at your house again. No means fucking no. Tired of these desperate degenerates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:07 PM
2

🥰🥰🥰🥰 yeeeessss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:56 AM
4

I completely forgot how lame as f*ck guys on dating apps are. He’s not funny at all like the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:43 AM
3

🔥😋🤤 I’m hungry. Happy Birthday!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:22 PM
50

Exactly why I dipped out of OLD. You don’t deserve a girl who worked her ass off to get to medical school while you’re not doing shit. You also don’t deserve someone taller than you (????), great skin while you can care less about yours, a conversationalist while you’re boring, and etc etc etc. These weird guys never come up to me in real life, that’s because OLD has given many people this delusional factor of shooting for the stars and thinking they can catch one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:30 PM
58

This is worth breaking up with someone over, idgaf. This is humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:19 PM
99

Facts! Stop going against innocent women and just take this as a red flag. I’ve known this since 21. Any guy who calls his ex crazy, it’s because your evil ass made her that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:13 PM
14

I’d rather not 💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:10 PM
25

Beautiful girl, sad story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:22 PM
58

Lmfao!!! I remember I tried to block this dude in April when I saw him typing but iPhone is such a nuisance phone where you have to keep going through hell just to block the person. His “Go stay single” text came though. He was just mad that I stopped responding after seeing how creepy he was 💁🏾‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:39 PM
3

😍😋🍫💓I swear, love from ourselves is always the best love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:06 PM
27

Like I always say: Money won’t wake up and tell you “I don’t love you anymore”. 🧚🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:59 PM
2

Congrats! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:52 PM
2

Michael Jordan gif: “Fuck them kids.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:47 PM
61

She’s never going to divorce him because she’d rather be disrespected than alone, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:15 PM
32

I mean, these guys are so fucked up that they will even tell you they love you and when shit hits the fan it’s “well we were never together 🤡” (This happened to me at 21 😂). I may be laughing now, but I damn sure never gave another POS the chance to play me like that again. Their hatred for women is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:08 AM
34

Hinge has the ugliest guys I’ve ever seen. At least it used to be an okay app, but now it’s no longer for long lasting relationships. The creators need to stop pushing it as that. Strange couples, incels, unmotivated guys looking for successful meal tickets. Ugh, a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:20 PM
10

I went through so much hell faking it with the last for 11 months because he was terrible and I got tired of complaining. Thank God I didn’t have sex with him. If you suck going down and or by using your fingers... I know your peewee will be straight trash too!!!!!! Ugh! 😝. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:16 PM
3

This post is giving me Cruel Intentions vibes. Kathryn was angry that every guy wanted Cecile as if it was her fault. Maybe there’s something about your friend that these guys like. Doesn’t matter about her past. If you see this is still bothering you, I would cut her loose because she deserves someone that doesn’t post like this about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:18 AM
61

Stop being available 24/7 and start being unavailable most of the time. Getting my own life and hobbies this year helped me to stop being clingy. My ex didn’t appreciate me being there, so now I’m no longer here for anyone. Stop telling people what to do. If you don’t bring up marriage and kids, I won’t. I’ll just leave abruptly. No small acts of appreciation like flowers? I’ll just leave abruptly. I’m not teaching someone how to treat me ever again. I never owed anyone my business. It’s okay to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:11 PM
28

Lmfao! F*cking facts. Stopped dating them since 2014. Never going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:40 PM
30

To me, this was true at some point... but not anymore. If anything, many successful men do not want you if you don’t have your own stuff. I realize the only time you can skip out on education is if you’re a big time and very rich model (example VS models). They’re always landing multi-millionaires and billionaires. Everyone else has to go to school and work in order to get those guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:58 PM
4

I would sign a pre-nup because women making too much money attracts hypergamous losers. I really want children mostly. That’s the only reason why I would, smh lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:02 PM
11

I’m starting to realize that they don’t actually want us to have hobbies, interests, and desires. When you’re a “stage 5 clinger” it’s a problem and he starts to distance himself from you, but when you have your own thing(s) it’s a huge problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:06 PM
9

This is disgusting and pathetic. That poor adorable baby is not getting the attention and love it needs. Many of these guys should NOT become fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:32 PM
8

I’ve dealt with the silent treatment by a whole ass sociopathic narcissist and I refuse to deal with it again. I’d take off my ring in public and have my divorce papers by the morning. This is unacceptable behavior. Let’s also de-normalize long hair and or dying hair blonde or blonder for the male gender. It’s okay to not like something, but if he really loved her he’d adjust. All of this was unnecessary and I’m tired of the typical “What do I do?” at the end. You know what to do, you just don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:40 PM
11

She keeps trying to be strong and then goes weak again. I’m not going to sit here and be a hypocrite because when you love someone it’s really hard to let go. But get this, is the constant humiliation and embarrassment worth it? She’s going to have to grow some self esteem like many of us did and leave permanently. I have a feeling she’ll leave someday, but will waste her life away right now. If this was the other way around, he would’ve divorced her the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:56 PM
8

Honestly, at first I thought this gesture was cute and didn't understand the comments but I feel like yours made it easier for me to fully understand. It is clear that financially she is not there. It happens, life sucks sometimes. However, when you have your own shit, you're not really impressed by things like this. I love being bought stuff, yes, but I love being able to afford stuff on my own more. I heavily agree with you. She's too excited and amping him up too fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:36 PM
29

It’s literally the most disrespectful thing when you’re apart of a culture and the person you’re with doesn’t give a damn about it. Like, don’t even care to even know a word from it or the history. This reminds me of my shit ex so bad. The only reason why he started “caring” was because I called him out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:49 PM
31

You did the absolute RIGHT thing. I am so proud of you. God forbid women give energy to something other than a guy. I feel like they destroy things we love on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:46 PM
8

Waaahhhh! This is adorable 👉🏾🥺👈🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:24 PM
3

Good looks, Career, Very romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:55 PM
11

All guys on OLD care about are ego boosts which is why women are leaving these apps across the board. When I was on Tinder and “We Are The Prize” Bumble, I always got maximum likes in under 30 mins. It never meant shit to me because I knew those 99+ and 50+ likes were all from guys that didn’t want a relationship or didn’t even want to talk to you because they were just desperate to collect matches. These losers want the feel of maximum likes and matches. They don’t give a rats ass about truly d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:00 PM
6

I can always tell when racist white males are talking shit about black women lolololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:11 PM
12

Me: [cat vomiting gif]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:14 AM
15

I can show sympathy because I know how you feel. Years ago, I was the secret while another girl was shown. After that, I told myself I wouldn’t give a rats ass who my next ex ends up with (and I don’t). It hurts when you didn’t get what the next girl got. It’s actually pretty fucked up. I’m not going to sit here like everybody else and ask why you’re worried about him or imply that you need to get over it. I would advise researching how to move on and if you’re financially stable I would seek th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:17 PM
47

She’s so pretty (and 10000% correct).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:28 PM
4

She’s a condescending bitch lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:40 PM
33

She’s such a fucking predator along with those degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:21 PM
70

Nothing but facts. I got dating out of my mind around 2 months ago. It’s just not the time and there’s too much going on to worry about finding someone who will most likely not be the one anyway. Being desperate with a sprinkle of the scarcity mindset never helped anyone. It’s okay to delay dating till next year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:12 PM
23

The negativity is so exhausting. Yeah, I wouldn’t type a paragraph like this as if he did something life-saving. However, he tried and tried and tried again to make something so little worthwhile for her. There are so many guys that are lazy trash that want you to do all the cooking and fake act like they can’t do shit. This may not mean anything to you, but it means a lot to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:31 PM
18

What’s funny is they almost always comes back with aggressive resentment. They want you to respond so they can “leave you” the way you left them. However, you can NEVER LEAVE HER the way she LEFT YOU. Leaving me on read =/= leaving me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:46 PM
6

I was 24, he was 32. I had to get an attorney.... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:47 PM
17

I think it’s also important to let women know two things: You can get him to “come correct” and he never will. There are guys that are perfectly fine never giving you what you deserve. They will argue with you on why coffee “dates” are better than what you want. When that happens (because it will), you should be ready to instantly block and move on. Two, maybe it’s my age and less tolerance, but at 27 I don’t have time nor the energy to get you to realize why I deserve a proper date. You already…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:39 PM
12

Completely left OLD. If I never been on it, I wouldn’t have met the demons that I did. Began having hobbies and opened an online business to stay busy. No longer stressing out about being married, especially to the wrong person. I’m 27, let’s chill tf out. No longer sends novel-like texts. I block immediately and erase the thread. I’m more happier and less angrier. I used to have extreme anger issues. I’ve fallen in love with myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:24 AM
72

Thank you Jammies for making this subreddit. You changed me forever ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:04 PM
6

I am bursting with happiness for you!!! 💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:15 PM
44

Crazy how I rarely used reddit for shit and found FDS whilst consistently battling with someone I literally left the day after Christmas last year.... in January & February 🤦🏾‍♀️. God bless the girl who posted the link to this subreddit on a forum months back. I’m so happy this place is growing and I’ve never been the same since 🎉🎈🎊.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:28 AM
5

Exactly why I left OLD long ago and keep wishing for more women to do so. He thinks he has options, so he doesn’t care to keep up with anything. Just wait till this pandemic is over, all these guys from OLD will realize they’re not even a catch in real life and will automatically be humbled. It’s good that you stood up for yourself, but next time just block and delete so you won’t receive shitty responses like this from someone else ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:19 PM
6

“Face Down” by Red Jumpsuit Apparatus talks about domestic violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:32 PM
10

I read this earlier and chuckled. Datingover------ is one of the most desperate and sad dating advice subs on reddit. You think they're joking or trolling, but nope.... dead ass serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:54 PM
2

First, accept. Accept that you made that decision and that you should no longer blame yourself for it. Second, block his social media and refrain from lurking through fake profiles as well because seeing a new girl weeks to months from now will mess with the moving on process. Third, from my experience, talking to new guys didn’t do anything for me because they were LVM like my ex and I was over it all. I recommend forgetting about guys right now despite you taking things slow and work on moving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:56 PM
14

Glad she stood her ground TOO and dipped. No 💸 and effort? None of my fucking time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:40 AM
17

Thank you!!! Got tired of seeing them. It makes you feel negative. Let’s all continue to move on.... The level up ones are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:37 AM
15

Anything to not spend nor court shit! Crazy how easy it has become to let a woman go rather than going after her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:47 PM
88

Yes yes YES! My mom, grandma, and all my aunts have all been mentally and emotionally destroyed by “men”. They all stayed with them. I’m the only one in the family that keeps leaving because I refuse to end up marrying trash like they did (and I am PRO-divorce!). It’s time to end generational curses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:37 PM
47

When you think you’re better than non-married women, you’ll fall hard asf on your face every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:05 PM
6

My ex did this all the time and I let him know he’s a misogynistic piece of shit. He kept invalidating me by interrupting me to the point I started screaming at him and said let me fucking finish. Now it’s a trigger when people interrupt me and I usually raise my voice at any male or woman that reminds me of him. I do want to try your approach though because it’s more classy and my approach can escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:56 PM
6

All this post told me was “I want you to move on”. Guys in law or medical school almost always go after another girl once they get their shit together. He’s basically telling you to let him go, so just do that. I don’t see anything worth holding on to here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:57 PM
26

Florida is fucking terrible! Thought I was the only one who felt this way. I’ve been telling my mom that I actually want to move to another state for dating around next year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:08 PM
46

And that’s why I left. You can keep fooling yourself and listening to these one in a millions that got married off of tinder, it ain’t gonna be you (that was the hard truth for me). Also, many just get into these b.s. 1 & 2 year relationships from there and it never lead(s) to marriage (this happened to me as well). Tinder and others are apps for free sex and no one can tell me otherwise. If online dating was so great, there wouldn’t be back to back threads on reddit and non-reddit sites of peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:05 PM
5

Beautifuulll. Doing this soon 🕺🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:51 PM
14

I love all your responses. This cheap ass, low effort bullshit needs to stop. Nobody is taking fucking walks as a “date”. Even they know it’s not a damn date therefore they don’t even call it that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:31 PM
16

Saving this post. These past few months have been hell that I’ve surprisingly never gone through on OLD. I also told myself the next guy I’m with will be via organically because the last from OLD was disgusting... and then this pandemic got in the way. Definitely going to go out again. I miss actual men talking to me in real life, with respect at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:22 PM
11

Needed this 😔🙌🏾. Thank you 👯‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:42 PM
1

There really should be no backtracking. When I backtracked, I ended up trapped for a year. If you aren’t feeling someone, then you aren’t feeling someone. You’ll find someone else. No need to hold on to a guy who’s low effort in literally every area due to fear of not getting another date in a month or so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:18 PM
2

One thing I have been doing for a year now is straight up hanging up the phone and blocking. Since I have severe anger issues I’m working on (thanks male gender!), instead of cursing people out or aggressively standing up for myself.... I just hang up the phone. Next time you’re uncomfortable, you should do that. Don’t tolerate disrespect. I also wouldn’t explain why you’re no longer interested. That creep doesn’t care. Just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:40 PM
65

Ding ding ding! 🔔. This comment right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:58 PM
59

Stuff like this no longer disgusts me anymore. I’m glad people like him can’t find dates nor love. If you want to keep proving how much you hate women, you do not deserve one in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:42 PM
80

Last sentence hit me like a ton of bricks. I was trying to force marriage at 26 because I hAve tO gET mARried b4 30. I knew I never really wanted him and it was because he was super unattractive in many ways. Physical was definitely first and incel vibes second. Just like how men know, women know too. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:41 PM
30

Desperate psycho. Also the whole bringing up women’s singleness is literally not an insult like it used to be 💀💀💀💀💀💀. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:51 PM
4

I read all the comments and face palmed consistently. Just looking for young women to use and abuse (we’ve always known this). No wonder the women in these age gap relationships are always crying in back to back threads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:58 PM
2

I agree x 1000!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:16 PM
11

Lmfao ewh! This sparked up a memory of when my super duper incredibly LVM ex scrunched up his face at me when I wanted the $20 shrimp parmigiana and I had to fucking go down to the $8 baked ziti. This happened on our garbage one year anniversary (and I left!). What makes your story worse was that this took place at dollar tree (love that store, but really?). If you don’t leave, this embarrassment will continue to occur. Trust, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:09 PM
14

Main two things now is strictly avoiding in progress/students as well and NEVER letting someone who’s only supposed to be a friend cross the line. Perverts cross boundaries in order to get access to you when you don’t want them romantically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:05 PM
3

Gorgeous! This makes me happy 👯‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:20 PM
21

Projection. Settled for what wanted her and is mad we didn’t do the same or didn’t stay for what she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:14 PM
10

I’ve realized that OLD makes women feel lonelier. I read an article that said it’s because the quality (specifically low ass quality) that keeps coming our way makes us feel even more alone. The online dating pool has gotten so much wider and it’s honestly NOT a good thing from what I’ve seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:08 PM
30

I just browsed that sub and instantly regretted it. Always heard of it, but never looked until now. They’re all fucking degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:04 PM
66

Another day of THEM thinking they’re the prize. Love your response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:02 PM
53

I went through this exact thing. Do what I didn’t do at the time and block without a word. And keep him blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:36 PM
32

Instead of posting this she needs to take back her gift asap! You don’t respect me, I don’t respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:35 PM
145

One thing I always loved about her is that she went against the rule. The rule of having to marry by 25-28 and getting pregnant asap. Males hate her because she has shown in interviews time and time again that having a man is her last priority. That feeling of serenity she has is what I’ve been desperately trying to get back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:22 PM
17

😍😍😍 yes 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:55 PM
35

My recent ex was white and a terrible boyfriend BUT even though I hate him.. I can’t sit here and act like he didn’t put in effort to save us and impress me daily. White men are more relationship minded than black males. I think you should give them a try, but don’t get too comfortable. A guy is a guy no matter the race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:15 PM
8

Same story, different song. We pick these bums and help them get to where they are now and they decide they could do better. I pressured my ex to become a nurse so he could stop complaining about being broke. In the end, he got accepted into a public school and started to act like he was the shit even though all he’ll be is a LPN. Made it seem like he could do better by his actions, so I was the one who left. He never thanked me either for making him get off his lazy ass. Take this as a lesson, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:19 PM
6

To me, here is always the right place to speak on success. Gets tiring hearing about the same thing and I love positive posts like this. Congratulations 🎊🍾🎈.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:02 PM
23

I’m honestly so tired of cheap ass guys and their desperation for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:44 PM
31

And he’s 100% serious too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:18 PM
15

Yup!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:51 PM
15

William's and Tyler's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:59 PM
8

Rather work than sulk over trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:12 PM
20

Done done done DONE with dating apps officially after reading this. Deleted the last one and will never download again. I’m going to take this as a sign from God. Literally 2 months passed by since she deleted her damn profile and he’s still upset? So upset to the point where he found out exactly where she worked by the distance. Good to see even saying “salon” is enough for these damn freaks to stalk you. Will continue to be private with my life even during real life dating because psychos exis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:13 PM
20

I personally dislike it because I have gotten pickier (which is good) and it’s not easy to find multiple guys that fit what I want. However, I have to deal with it because this strategy helps with not being attached to the wrong person. If I’m only talking to Ryan and all of a sudden he becomes distant (or rude, manipulative, gaslighting, etc), I’ll be stressing out about it. But if I’m talking to Ryan, Bobby, and Adam... I won’t even notice nor care about what Ryan is doing (and if I do notice,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:39 PM
28

This is probably against FDS, but I avoid these situations by asking the guy from OLD ahead of time (in a serious tone) if he’s going to pay the entire meal because if he won’t, I don’t need to go on the date. It saves me time therefore, I’ve never been in a garbage situation like this. Some will say this is “teaching” him what to do with the next girl, but I could care less. Why have my day/night ruined by this low effort crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:39 PM
3

Will forever be grateful I found this sub and the women on it when I needed it the most 💖🙏🏾💕.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:13 AM
43

There’s nothing to think about young man. I’m seeing more and more bitter ass profiles like these which lets me know that women are demanding more and not settling for less. This makes me happy and I hope it continues🤞🏾.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:55 AM
279

Honestly, what the FUCK just happened here???? If you know you can’t do shit for women stop downloading these got damn apps. This is why I make sure to only swipe to guys with their careers listed. Doesn’t mean they’re good guys, but they don’t come at me like this. My God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:45 PM
1

I love this :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:47 PM
149

MakeDivorceSomethingToDoAgain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:29 PM
5

Beautiiffuuullll 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:20 PM
51

I deem asking for photos creepy as fuck now. For so long I’ve sent around my photos, but not anymore. They show them to their loser ass friends and co-workers to judge you and I’m just not with it. You’re not worth me sending photos that aren’t posted on my page. I’m glad you put him in his place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:41 PM
2

BUT when we stay single they manipulate us into getting into a bullshit relationship. If that doesn’t work, then we’re misandrists 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:52 PM
14

We need to STOP saving and START leaving. Leave them not because you want him to see what he’s lost (he knows and could care less) but leave for our sanity. He is evil and not a husband. It’s time to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:47 PM
11

You did the right damn thing. It’s already bad enough infections are soaring like a mfer across the country. People SHOULD NOT be asking if they’re getting in without a mask. He knew the answer. Plus who even tries to get at someone with a mask on??? Desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:09 PM
2

Exactly why I finally deleted that crap. It makes THEM feel like too much of a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:35 PM
5

I was this way at some point after breaking up with my ex. Then afterwards I realized that I don’t want him to see my happy life without him either. Block him forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:58 PM
34

It’s sad how Hinge is yet another site that has been infiltrated rapidly by trash due to this pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:34 PM
6

This is fucking embarrassing she shouldn’t have even had the balls to post this on the interwebz. Still with him regardless of how dirty he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:54 PM
1

Idk why but this made me “lol!”. You’re probably looking better at him than I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:53 PM
7

Give a guy good looks, tallness, and a decent salary and he swears he’s the ish 🤦🏾‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:24 PM
80

I’ve taught myself to automatically unmatch anyone who brings up low effort “dates”. Also, when you start to feel those butterflies, it’s best to try to calm them down by talking to other people or keeping yourself busy (watch a movie or new show, paint, cook something new) because every time I felt something for someone on OLD, I learned why I shouldn’t have lol. I don’t think you were bitchy at all, just don’t give chances next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:30 PM
33

I was “the most beautiful girl in the world” to a loser ass porn addict. It’s just not worth it. You never feel like you’re enough for them and it’s not even worth crushing your self-esteem for. The best thing about leaving these emotional cheaters is that now you know you’re not dealing with that anymore. It’s not petty to leave them for this, trust. You have every right to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:10 PM
12

One less woman their son of a bitch asses can destroy. That's all it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:40 PM
16

Lmao and then the next girl he won’t let her lift a finger to pay shit. If you like to be used, you’re gonna get used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:21 PM
6

Same! Any guy that reminded me of my late father and my moms exes after him were/are out the fucking door. Good woman, but terrible back to back decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:25 PM
18

Did this. 10/10 don’t recommend. They get cocky once they get the good looking girl and treat her like shit. Also, ugly ass guys are super manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:03 PM
17

I couldn’t understand why I’ve chosen to stay single for 5 years due to running into Satan just to run into him again with a new face. I wanted this to come to an end, and low and behold, I found this subreddit at the right time. I just got so damn tired and knew I needed guidance and to repair myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:21 PM
58

Manipulation with a sprinkle of pervy-incelic psycho added to the mix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:59 PM
11

Black males still act like this? I stopped dating them years ago, but you’d at least think they’ll educate themselves to know many black women have naturally long hair, including me. The only race of males who hate their own race of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:39 PM
4

huge deep sigh I remember back then when OKC had some good quality. Every and I mean every damn OLD site is infiltrated as hell now and it’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:29 PM
2

Cutest post I’ve read in a while 😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:16 PM
1

why .is .this .so .accurate....... 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:43 AM
7

Being 6'1" is only a dream for him. Tall guys don't go off like that when you prefer them, even tall guys I've known who have short friends never went off on me like that. He's clearly offended and decided to bring her down which is typical for the males who are shit beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:56 PM
10

You’re not alone. They are heavily in demand because of their tax brackets, so they think they can treat every woman like garbage. Many have shit personalities or are married and just trying to cheat with anything younger. I don’t even get excited anymore when I see one... I just swipe left or ignore their messages now. It’s only getting worse. Wish I was old enough to use OLD when high quality was on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:19 PM
15

I realized they usually speak like this when a BW pays them dust or leaves their ass. My white ex had an issue with me because he hated how I wouldn’t take his shit and labeled us as having too much attitude. They can both die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:24 PM
12

I did by mistake. You will always resent them and they will prove to you in the end why you should’ve never given them a chance. Also, it’s hard to want sexual stuff with someone who’s incredibly unattractive imo. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:41 PM
5

Going to sleep peacefully every night without crying, no more unnecessary worries, shit arguments, and toxicity, being able to talk to new guys and not have to stick to one I hated anymore, finding my self esteem again & FDS and more. It’s just crazy how beautiful things turned around for me. Now is all about ME, what I want, and what I always deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:57 PM
7

Such a lame ass borderline psycho POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:06 PM
1

I understand probably feeling alone during this pandemic which is why you’re trying to date, but I do not recommend it. It’s dangerous. Just verbally talk to people. Also, I have a feeling that you know something is wrong and that he is an LVM which is why this post was made. Too many red flags to count. You’re young, take your time with finding someone amazing and has their shit together. You have no idea how months can turn into years with the wrong person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:04 PM
10

Mini story: Long ago, I told my recently garbage ex about a website that I was getting advice from time to time. This place also talks about trending topics and etc, but I was always on a specific section (the heartbreak/anonymous/relationship one). Every time when I read something that related to that shit relationship, he would ask me if I was reading "that website filled with angry women who hate men" again. He would also stalk that website and tell me what he's read from there.... which was.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:55 PM
15

Ha! I know that b.s. of boosting up random women, being confronted, hating being confronted, and then manipulates with that fake shit "sad" look. Leave now. Don't waste a year or years before you know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:22 PM
4

Nothing but the truth! Had a chip on my shoulder with my last super LVM ex. I did not want him, but found myself manipulated into being with him. Couldn’t deal with the height, bad outfits, and lack of basic hygiene anymore. Also, I realized when guys know they’re not attractive, they love to take all that anger out on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 10:27 AM
10

Went through this game in February with a garbage ex and left him alone in February. Toxic trash likes to come back to fake care but as you can see these messages show he actually doesn’t give a damn. I learned that when you break up with someone, they hold so much resentment that THEY want to be the one to “leave“ you this time lmao. They’ll text you and then later start coming at you wrong and then here comes “Have a nice/good life”. Super pathetic. She should’ve stopped responding and blocked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 10:21 AM
1

I felt nothing when I read this. Maybe because my sociopathic garbage ex sent me something like this in January but way longer and more bullshit-y. Don’t respond at all like I did at the time. Things will never change and this person doesn’t mean shit they say. Delete, block, and let it tarnish in the spam folder. Ex for a reason 🧸.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:20 PM
3

This is TOO true and I never realized this till now. Makes sense why my last relationship was so shit. Intuitions were speaking heavily to me, but was too busy paying attention to the physical times we had together. Never again, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:20 PM
5

My f*cking God! You are me, I am you. I LITERALLY just went through this EXACT shit and it lasted a garbage year! All of it! Exactly why I’m glad I found FDS two weeks ago! Wish I found it sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:25 PM
2

Another post I needed to read! Thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:15 PM
9

Wow just wow!!!! I found this place because it was recommended on a forum and I’ve been reading it everyday since the weekend but this right here!!! I needed this! Especially since I broke up with a toxic, narcissistic, misogynistic, selfish person the day after Christmas. I’m slowly doing better now that there’s zero contact and this post right here is what I needed to read! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:10 PM
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