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Who's more handsomer? me or you?
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:02 PM
1

Smile at her (not in a creepy way) see how she reacts and go from there.
/r/seduction10/02/15 09:44 PM
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preach brother
/r/seduction10/02/15 09:37 PM
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preach brother
/r/seduction10/02/15 09:36 PM
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"Oh, you're doing that thing from high-school where you ask if I like you're friend, that's so cute."
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:11 PM
106

If you limit your romantic interests to your immediate circle of friends,,, then you are doing just that, limiting your romantic interests. I've met all my closest previous gfs through cold approach and over time they became my closest friends. Cold approach is harder and scarier but it allows you access to unlimited girls, vs. limited girls. Do whatever makes you feel good.
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:28 PM
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The point of those books is to develop a strong frame and a strong reality. That means you are a man of conviction, if you have certain beliefs that you hold dear you stand for them, you are a man who goes after what he wants. Not a man who is afraid to have wants, or worse, afraid to pursue them. Those books don't tell you "what you should want", that's lunacy, it's also not in their scope. Haven't' read the third one but here's the summary of the first two in one sentence each. Mark Manson: Be…
/r/seduction17/01/15 09:53 PM
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there's nothing wrong with being rejected when you go in for a kiss. That comes with taking risks and making yourself vulnerable. Take a chance, if your advances get rebuffed, it doesn't phase you. besides, getting rejected and being unphased is a huge dhv, can always go in for another kiss in a few minutes. What i'm saying is You can channel playful innocence into any kiss, any day of the year.
/r/seduction30/12/14 05:20 AM
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You can do this any night of the year, nothing special about this night besides your confidence in it working, it's a placebo effect, Michael Jordan's Secret Stuff. channel that confidence into every other night, profit.
/r/seduction30/12/14 04:48 AM
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I don't use those terms. If you don't like them no-one is forcing you to use them.
/r/seduction15/12/14 11:10 PM
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Forget about her, go hit on other girls.
/r/seduction15/12/14 04:35 AM
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lol
/r/seduction15/12/14 04:26 AM
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Commenting in case I need to download these later, Good post!
/r/seduction15/12/14 04:20 AM
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thats good i like your style youve got balls, and thats rare, if you stick with it you can get really good at it. next time instead of asking to play dota, ask her for a date, ice-cream or something
/r/seduction14/12/14 01:34 AM
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Lol op calls himself beta in the title
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:03 AM
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Those will not get you laid!
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:59 PM
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Haha, then it's win-win ;)
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:58 PM
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A coward and a fool.
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:43 PM
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I enjoy taking girls away from guys like you. In the end I'm doing both of you a favor right? If I am able to do it, it wasn't meant to be anyway ;)
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:41 PM
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Don't ever bring up the boyfriend, ask her out for drinks. Pro-tip: if she complains about her bf to you, it's up to you to defend him exactly like this "aww come on, i'm sure he's a nice guy" Also remember: seddit is not the place for white knighting, please leave your value judgements about monogamy, and your personal baggage from cheating girlfriends at the door.
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:37 PM
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Have you tried Tinder? Decently attractive girls can get set 200 dates with men in like an hour of swiping.
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:34 PM
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Maybe... but the sad truth is that women don't really have very many actions they can take to improve their love life. Besides, look pretty, have your life together, basic things like fitness/haircare/skincare/makeup and clothing. In general girls aren't expected (or designed) to pursue men. They can try in cases that the man is unconfident and incapable of pursuing her, but she's not looking for that kind of guy anyway. If a girl comes on to me, I get suspicious and I just plain don't like it b…
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:33 PM
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Live and learn young man. Live and learn...
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:03 PM
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You asked for books on a PUA / Self Improvment sub so here you go: Models by Mark Manson The Manual by W. Anton The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle The Way of the Superior Man No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/seduction11/12/14 07:00 PM
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Can I ask why you would want to date a man who's afraid of you, who freezes up around you? I love this post because you just reminded me that there are very many awesome & hot girls out there, just waiting for a confident, charming, good-looking guy like me to sweep them off their feet. So thank you for that ;) Edited for the sensitive white knight down-voters of seddit
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:56 PM
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This is a pro-tip. I've never been to Thailand but I grew up in Israel and so many Israelis travel to Thailand each year for months at a time at the ripe young age of early twenties after just finishing serving in the IDF. They are looking for adventures, fun and new experiences. Israelis are some of the most beautiful people in the world. The girls have a mix of Blonde Tan Cali beach babe and exotic middle eastern look. All the girls are thin, into fitness, and they take care of themselves with…
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:30 PM
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Well idk what to say i'm the exact opposite. I rarely* want to have sex with the same girl more than once... You already fucked her once, it's gonna be the same the next time and it's gonna be the same every time after that, so what's the point? whenever I sleep with a girl my mind and my penis immediately go "on to the next!"
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:24 PM
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umm Thai girls are really unattractive. And everyone there is really poor, so if you're white it's assumed that you are super rich. anyone with any game or experience knows this opener is shit under normal conditions You want to impress me with your online game? let's see you score some hotties in Sweden or NYC. I wouldn't poke a Thai chick if you paid me to. Can we please downvote this post to hell before it hurts innocent guys
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:17 PM
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Varies with your price range, but whiskey is a man's gift.
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:28 PM
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Yea you're behaving like a pussy. My guess is you never had a strong male figure in your life to look up to, but don't worry it's never too late to change. She doesn't want you to control her, she wants you to lead her, take charge. Man up and make decisions and take action. She thinks you're too sensitive because you gush all of your feelings onto her like shes your emotional tampon. No, Just No. "She tells me to do things and I do them." ... "She gets upset easily"... Pathetic little permissio…
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:24 PM
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I would add: Models by Mark Manson and: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:10 PM
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Another word for manipulate is to influence. If your options are to drive the relationship in the direction of your choice or be a passive passenger, then it's better to influence the direction of the relationship. If you've never had nervousness issues then you have no idea how much worse they are than 'smoothness issues' which I don't really believe in. Being nervous is a huge turnoff for women. My current girlfriend knows that I slept with 15 girls from August to October of this year, before …
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:06 PM
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"Control the frame of the relationship" means: try and make the relationship into what YOU want it to be. How is that not agreeable? "Don't seem nervous": Why on earth would anybody be nervous when starting a new relationship (especially fuckbuddies)? It's no big deal, it's nothing to be nervous about, so take it ez and be cool. I am in no way advocating to 'act like someone else'. We all have versions of ourselves that are more calm and confident and versions of ourselves that are anxious and s…
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:31 AM
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Firstly, I appreciate the comment. "Control the frame of the relationship" means: try and make the relationship into what YOU want it to be. How is that not agreeable? "Don't seem nervous": Why on earth would anybody be nervous when starting a new relationship (especially fuckbuddies)? It's no big deal, it's nothing to be nervous about. I am in no way advocating to 'act like someone else'. We all have versions of ourselves that are more calm and confident and versions of ourselves that are anxio…
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:28 AM
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I should add it's best to be honest about your intentions with the girl in those situations. This doesn't mean you have to bring it up right away, but please don't lead her on if you don't seriously see the two of you being together. It's best to say "I'm not sure right now, the potential is there, but I don't want to force a relationship, I'm not ready." Also whatever you do, don't seem nervous or uncertain. I'm under the impression that both people are unsure of how to progress with it. Contro…
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:47 PM
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The truth that you won't often hear: One of the most important factors in converting lays into fuckbuddies is how good you were in bed. If you think about it, It's really quite obvious: If you want her to keep wanting you only for sex then the sex better be pretty damn good. Like really damn good. You have to stand out in the bedroom, make her satisfied, make it fun for her, use your tongue, make her feel comfortable and not slutty, make her feel beautiful and feminine, make her fall in love wit…
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:39 PM
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vulnerable=/=nice
/r/seduction08/12/14 08:23 PM
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But I got a little uncomfortable, and that uncomfort turned into insecurity which turned into jealousy. I know that I sound like a complete pussy. lol, if you're friend has a hot girl wrapped around his arm it's good for your game you beautiful fool, you!
/r/seduction29/11/14 05:47 PM
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I have slept with many norwegian and swedish girls that came to visit NY. Yes they are very shy and reserved, until you get to know them. From what I understand it's completely unheard of for strangers to talk to each other in public, but I also know that scandinavian women are extremely social in night clubs and very sexually forward. So it's kinda strange. Anyway, people like Julien from Real Social Dynamics go to Sweden and Norway all the time to pick up women, because, let's be real, you hav…
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:45 PM
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this is totally normal and fine, don't get carried away with 'not falling into provider roll'. As long as you are giving her because you can and want to, and it makes you happy it's ok, in fact it's genuinely kind and gentlemanly. What's not ok is going uncomfortably out of your way to provide her with gifts and having expectations of affection in return.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:32 PM
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The more you do it the more you will desensitize yourself to the anxiety/nervousness of doing it, and you'll get better results. Keep on keeping on.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:25 PM
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You get good at cold approach pickup the way you get good at everything else, ever. Practice.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:23 PM
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there are 'quazi rules' for relationships, wait 3-6 months or even more to buy her jewelry. Jewelry is kinda reserved for serious relationships. That said, I don't feel comfortable giving you hard advice given those charms are inexpensive for you. I do, however think they are a bit childish... While gifts can be a good way to show you care about her, at such an early stage of the relationship it's probably better to spend time with her, get to know her, get her to open up about what's bugging he…
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:13 PM
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you're being a white knight and you know nothing about pick-up
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:05 PM
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Someone mentioned that it's sad that a bullshit post like this get's so much attention, 52 comments, and high quality FRs get <10. I personally don't care about that, but I do have a theory as to why. Most people are inherently attracted to negativity and conflict; that frequency of thought is simply easier and more distracting. In order for someone to release their ego and look at the success of others admirably, and to try their best to learn from it and apply the knowledge of others to themse…
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:29 PM
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Love it! Seddit is filled with so many haters lately. If you can't look at someone who has successfully achieved their own goals, through handwork and discipline, with admiration then you will never find the change in your life that you seek.
/r/seduction26/10/14 03:37 AM
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I'm not overly concerned with down-votes haha. Just trying to help a brother out. That said, here is my best advice: I had one serious LTR in my life, with my college sweetheart. She was a super-hot feminine, barbie looking, bisexual woman's studies and mathematical computer science double major. She was very feminist and sex positive and completely opposed to monogamous relationships. She thought they were oppressive, antiquated, culturally constructed, etc... I wanted a monogamous relationship…
/r/seduction26/10/14 01:13 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships Most people who come here are PUA's, aspiring PUA's or massive chodes, either way, not the best gang to be asking that question to. If on the other hand, you wanted advice on how to keep an open relationship with a girl who wants exclusivity, I would know what to tell you to tell her, RSD Todd has an amazing monologue that works wonders.
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:15 AM
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stop texting her, she doesn't like you
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:23 PM
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This is not related to seduction. Edit: You are asking for relationship advice,,, "exclusive in a relationship with." This sub is for pick-up advice. Try http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:22 PM
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I don't do online dating. I prefer real women. I like to charm them with my personality and confidence in person. Online game also gives a false sense of reward, it's too easy to swipe on tinder all day and tell yourself, "I'm doing pickup!" 99% of single men are on tinder, because it's easy and because it's comfortable. If you want to do pickup then you need to get out of your comfort zone to do it. Be careful not to get complacent with online dating. No judgement to those who use online dating…
/r/seduction14/10/14 06:40 PM
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Also be willing to settle for lower quality than IRL
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:16 PM
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Complete guide for successful online dating: Be good looking Be white /s but not really
/r/seduction14/10/14 04:16 AM
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Also you were too reactive to all those situations. Your best bet would have been to ignore the guy who instigated you and ignore your drunk friend. Just pull the girls to a different location when either of those things happened.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:23 PM
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Given the opportunity to just dance all night, girls will gladly find a hot & fun guy to dance the night away with. If you wanted this interaction to go anywhere you needed to pull them away early. This would have avoided all the trouble. This is a big part of leading the interaction. Physically lead the two girls somewhere else, to a quieter part of the venue, to another bar in the area, etc. This is also helps solidify your togetherness. I'm saying don't be some girls' dancing monkey. Go after…
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:22 PM
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That's a bit douchey, it certainly isn't the best way to make a good impression
/r/seduction12/10/14 10:22 PM
1

It is very immature to ask friend B if friend A is into you. It shows a lack of confidence on your part. Don't ever ask a girl if she wants to be your girlfriend, that's a huge leap and it shows her you are ignorant of modern dating culture/procedures. Start off small, invite her to your dorm/home for a movie. Cuddle up under some covers on a couch, touch her and massage her arms, legs. This is the best advice you are gonna get: Kiss her on the cheek. You can do this immediately as you greet eac…
/r/seduction12/10/14 08:13 PM
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dude rejection is not failure. it's a success. You successfully put yourself on the line and went after what you wanted. (the risk is small, a bruised ego) But still most people do not do this. You cannot expect every girl to like you, that's out of your control, people have random preferences. What is in your control is to take actions towards achieving what you want!
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:04 PM
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This is expected, you will definitely get asked this question, especially if you start flirting with a girl and she get's interested in you. You have a few options: If it's early in the night (8-11): "My friends are running late/ they are on their way/ gonna meet me here later etc." or if it's later (~11:00-): "My friends were being losers and left early, I still wanna have fun!" This is just a little white lie to take the pressure off of you, it's really not a big deal. If you don't feel comfor…
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:57 PM
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only you can get yourself out of your own shell, and only you should care enough to try. Just force yourself to go out, it will be awkward at first but try and embrace the awkwardness. Awkwardness and anxiety are an illusion i promise.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:40 PM
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Nobody feels comfortable out alone, at first. I started to solo game after ~5 months doing pickup with wingmen. It was very very hard at first, but as with every uncomfortable exercise, the more you do it the more numb you will become to the discomfort, anxiety and nervousness. Eventually you will feel comfortable and confident walking into a bar/club alone, and this is a rare skill. Remember: all growth happens outside of your comfort zone. I am glad I did it.
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:49 AM
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go fuck more girls, and read mark manson if you don't know how to do that
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:37 AM
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No offense but lol, I'm a virgin the thought of having sex is just so distant and foreign that I don't even want to initiate I'm really into BDSM I feel like a creep having an intent to defile an innocent female Few things: Forget about BDSM (for now) until you are really experienced, that's only gonna be an option with a girl you've been with a few times, and both of you to feel comfortable and safe in those roles. If you want to have sex, then just focus on that for now. I couldn't bring mysel…
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:32 AM
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dude you're such a hater. it would benefit you to cultivate a more positive and forgiving attitude.
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:22 AM
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Do yourself a favor and read No More Mr. Nice Guy! The main argument in the book is that nice guys are usually seeking the approval of others and fail to invest enough in themselves, this is why they are afraid to "push boundaries" afraid to "make a move" and afraid to make mistakes or misread the situation (as in your case), in essence they are afraid to be themselves. A confident man is more concerned with his opinion of himself than the opinion others have of him. Here's the first few passage…
/r/seduction12/10/14 12:16 AM
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It's ok to turn a girl on via text, it's just not that productive. Understand that female sexuality is different than male sexuality. Whereas we get turned on like a light switch, they are more like volume knobs. She may get turned on by your texts, but unless you act on that sexual tension quickly enough it may dissipate or find another outlet. Just because you turned her on via text once will not guarantee she will sleep with you. A better way to make/keep her interested via text is to stimula…
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:45 PM
0

firstly you are wrong about everything you said, secondly shhh go somewhere else
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:21 PM
0

I do that all the time, it's a really confident action. Works well enough
/r/seduction15/09/14 09:16 PM
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you're probably doing a half assed open. You have to do a full ass open. 'tap tap' "Hi," with good eye contact. Here is a funny situational opener you can try: I have taken girls phones away from right out of their hands as an opener. It's funny as hell. swipe it out of their hand and then make a shit eating grin right into her eyes :P The face you are going for should sub-communicate "yea I just did that, what are you gonna do about it?" but while teasing and playful.
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:24 PM
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That's technically a warm approach :P, but good job!
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:03 AM
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This is the dumbest thing i ever read in my life.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:04 AM
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Women are attracted to men who challenge them
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:02 PM
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that's disgusting. she's probably a worthless bimbo.
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:24 PM
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Lions don't worry about the opinion of sheep. That's just a lame metaphorical way to say the following: Imagine if the love of your life, your golden ticket to happiness was siting across from you on the subway. Had you approached her, you could have made her fall in love with you had beautiful kids together, but you didn't. Why not? Because you were afraid of the 'weird looks' that random strangers (who don't honestly give a fuck) might give you. Those strangers just ruined your life. Is that r…
/r/seduction02/03/14 01:53 AM
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Sounds like way too much emotional investment if your are praying for girls to match. Do yourself a favor and swipe em all right and don't look. From reading what you wrote, you have no business in getting emotionally invested in girls you will never meet. In all truth, if you want to be a pua you have to learn to have little to no emotional investment in girls that you do meet, and sleep with. Not until you wife one of them
/r/seduction02/03/14 01:01 AM
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