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This is kinda where I am too. I’m not trying to have the girl I’m dating act like a little kid in bed and call me daddy. Would make me think I’m reliving some past trauma with her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:11 PM
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But I dont require everyone else to jump through hoops? If you give me genuine interest I’ll give it back to you, and if I can’t I’ll be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:54 PM
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Usually when I go to Walmart the couples are looksmatched or wildly mismatched in the woman’s favor. You can’t really tell what type of partner they are but I assume when you’re at that level of obesity you’re in a whole other market
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:51 PM
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This isn’t even what the accountability aspect is. It’s more like the monkey branching, the gaslighting, the manipulation of words just to say that they’re cheating. Not only that, claiming to be anti capitalist and then going out and dating men and reproducing with the ones that have the most capitalist mindsets. If all you care about is social clout/resources then just say that. Don’t expect men to be good boys though when you’re basically telling them they were born to be slaves to a system, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:48 PM
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People who claim to be feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:50 PM
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Ehh, kinda depends. If you’re a minority, and you actually are aware of what’s going on with the country, it’s verryy hard to become “friends” with someone who’s addicted to social media, is a “feminist”, someone who basically falls for media indoctrination, someone who thinks men should fulfill traditional roles while they behave like a “liberal”. I work at a job that’s majority female as a server, I could legit only talk to the girls 1 on 1. Once they got in a group together they’d be talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:50 PM
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Lesbians as far as I’ve seen in committed relationships operate from a red pilled mindset The new lesbians or the semi-bisexual liberal chicks that date their friends behind closed doors are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:00 PM
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Self improvement is subjective and it pisses men off because what you’re saying is “become a beneficiary of capitalism” not “become a better person for your community and the people around you”. Because we all know the former attracts more women than the latter. We’re sick of the gaslighting and the fact yall lie to yourself about what’s even being discussed. What’s improvement in one setting could make you an outcast in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:20 PM
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“When you’ve been at the top for so long” Bro what the actual fuck are you talking about. Men aged 18-25 are seeing women on social media talking about guys who work 9-5s are broke and worthless, their types are scammers and drug dealers, and that women want to be a “liberal independent” woman while still getting the traditional treatment. These women want their cake and want to eat it to and the MEN are delusional for telling women to either pick a lane or be okay with going 50/50, since, yknow…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:17 PM
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Because they think it makes them a superior human and organism. Like they literally feel like they are eugenicist keeping poor genes from moving on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:02 PM
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Because a million dudes have the experience of being someone who may be broke but will be a good partner, just to be overlooked for a dude who is legit a scammer/drug dealer/career criminal. Someone who literally provides zero benefits to society as a whole, and women have zero issue curling up with these dudes and having their children and then trying to circle the block to get someone to raise their bastard children. It’d be one thing if it was like a lil fwb situation. But no, these are the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:58 PM
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Lmao if I was getting access to her youth, beauty, and fertility I wouldn’t be sitting in a restaurant I’d be with her in bed. I still can’t believe women try to take these politician esque catchphrases and try to bring them into real discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:53 PM
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Bro this is common sense. This is literally sociology 101. Hypergamy is not something invented by redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:51 PM
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I mean… I understand this but doesn’t this kind of make it redundant? What’s the point of opening up about a personal problem if it’s all on you anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:11 PM
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I would tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:32 PM
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I was told this before but legit it just means treat them like they’re NPCs in a video game who you can get over on. People use this “human being” bullshit all the time and forget that most ethnicities weren’t considered human. There are people that treat random stray dogs and cats worse than humans. It really tells you zero information tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:38 PM
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Everyone already is bisexual You know how slavery has weird implications of dominance and sexuality and control? Especially when it comes to men and other men. That’s literally why we have the issue of over sexualizing black men and the BBC fetish in America. I firmly believe most white men have some sort of curiosity when it comes to black men’s penises You can’t tell me in a world where we have to slave away to fill another man’s pockets so you can get some crumbs for the possibility of raisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:53 PM
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This is a rebuttal but you’re missing the point, if I’m following your logic If the bare minimum depends on how she feels, and how she feels depends on the man’s attractiveness. Doesn’t this mean the bare minimum is different for every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:34 PM
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The obsession comes from when that shit happens back to back or everywhere you turn it looks like someone’s trying to take advantage of you. Mutual reciprocity if you’re both attracted to each other really isn’t a complicated thing. But then you got women out here talking about “I am the table” and this advice is how you end up with dudes who are legit beta providers. Quite literally an atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:30 PM
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“I don’t know any relationship where the woman is just… there… doing nothing” Where do you live because everywhere I fucking look as a 22 year old there are women and men alike saying women are the table and her “presence” is what she brings All over TikTok and shit with 200k-1M likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:19 PM
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I would think the corrupt justice system not only causes homelessness, but that both homelessness and corrupt justice systems create incels, or are at least entangled with the phenomenon that creates them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:53 PM
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Latin American men? They do seem to love their women. Some African men too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:41 AM
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I think you severely underestimate the amount of people who get intro the street life because of TV shows. Supernatural beings and dangerous adventures also being things people seek out day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:48 AM
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Shit tests are built into some women's behavior because she's subconsciously trying to get you to break character Unironically, in simple terms, this is literally women getting on your nerves to get you to a t out of character. To see how solid/stoic you are. And logically, a man who doesn't gaf about her shit tests is usually one who has other women on the side and doesn't gaf about her. Usually I lose interest if a woman shit tests me because I can see through it. But if I'm very attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:52 PM
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If you caught feelings and she's still shit testing you it's time to cheat on her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:48 PM
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Absolutely. Capitalism centralizes capital/power in the hands of the few. There are celebrities who are deadass only getting their dick wet because they're famous and have status and the money that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:58 PM
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My thing is, what if I don't enjoy any of the things society has put in front of me? I didn't ask to be here. I just want someone who understands me and is pleasant to be around. I don't even NEED sex to be happy, but it does increase my happiness a lot. Like to the point where I would think I was depressed before the sex looking back. Women did not "hang out" with the hunters and warriors. Women were supposed to stay at home, and a lot of them got raped and conquered by other villages men. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:22 PM
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Nah that's the nice thing to do. Not by the laws standard, but but the peoples standard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:12 PM
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That's what I'm saying. If being a psychopathic pos will legitimately attract more women to you then why even be good? "Cuz you're a good person" wtf does that even mean? It's wild to me people will say this, and then be shocked when guys do over the top violent shit. Why is that violent shit bad? Being nice didn't work and nobody gives a shit about those guys either, how are we even gonna villainize them if this is the message yall are sending out? Hell there are serious killers who have gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:11 PM
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You think MLK had a capacity for cruelty?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:07 PM
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This is just flat out wrong. Men are objectified too, but it's through means of status and wealth. Dating a man for his money or status isn't uncommon. You're basically saying that women want men 100% for who they are and men want women for 100% what they are. Not true at all in either case. I can even say as a black guy, I've been objectified by white women online, at work, and in public. It's a different kind of objectification but I can definitely feel it. White men do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:56 PM
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Women cannot play it cool at ALL. We see through that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:47 PM
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What does perfectly normal mean to you? If you're raised in a shitty environment "fuck you bitch" could be a normal response too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:39 PM
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This is such a dumb comment to me Where exactly is this stimuli from doing "good things" coming from with no external sources? This is such an entitled mindset to have. Expecting reciprocity makes you a not good person now? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:38 PM
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Being nice only matters when you are capable of being dangerous All men are capable of being dangerous. I still don't see how people will say this and get shocked when these mass shootings happen. If morality comes LAST then what are we even being good for?? Like actually. What is the purpose of being pleasant if it's not going to get us anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:35 PM
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Depends on when and were you are. If you're in HS some girls will actually try to bully you for being confident as an ugly guy. As an adult not so much, unless it's at the workplace. I've seen ugly guys be relaxed, lax, and loose, some even had girlfriends. And it didn't help with the girls at the job hating them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:31 PM
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Well I can tell you now, single mothers do not raise successful men, because what is attractive in a family man and was is attractive to young women are completely different things. Not to mention if you're raised by a single mother and have siblings, you were forced to grow up early and didn't get to properly mature and evolve with your peers My mother refuses to admit how she screwed up. But when I tell her I can only pull crazy women (she's crazy) and I didn't know why (it's because I've grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:28 PM
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This 100% I can converse with older women and actually get along with them. I seem to attract them even provided I'm taller than them. If I hang out with a girl 1 on 1 nowadays they legit just talk about themselves and I go into NPC "uh huh... yeah" mode until they're done. That's what friendships is to some women. I unironically have heard one of my college hookups tell me that her and her friend legit just talked "at" each other and did not have real genuine conversations. Like they did not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:23 PM
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Honestly, I believed these things when I was a teenager but as I've gotten older I can't say for sure. It seems like I get along with more liberal/left leaning women because that's where I am ideologically but that almost never turns them on. When I was a boxer and I was basically a bully and had more of a right leaning mindset women found that to be 100x more attractive. Women like men who are ready to address conflict or carry conflict within themselves. They don't really care about how danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:16 PM
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I'm kinda late but I disagree I believe there are archetypal masculine personalities that exist for women that they are attracted to. This basically just means, for every man there is something they could emulate that most women could vibe with sexually. An ugly guy COULD pull off being an asshole snd have it be sexually attractive. It's not so much about turning her on with your words, it's about her being able to see you as a sexual being. That plays into the archetypes I was talking about. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:30 PM
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You mean women like self righteous men? You're right, but justice is really decided by the victor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:26 PM
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You do know that sex is intimate for men too right? Like, having sex with a woman is very different than using an actual sex toy; that is, if you're not just star-fishing. Most men like active and vocal sex partners, I don't know any men that would enjoy a woman who legitimately laid there motionless like a sex doll. That being said, why should a man stay in a committed relationship if that's whats normal for his relationships and you as a woman cannot provide that. There's an entire sub dedicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:12 PM
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Ngl I would say you would have to have the juice if you're 20 vs 30. At 30 years old, if you take care of yourself and work out right, your fuck game could potentially be better than 20 year old you. I say that in terms of the strength and mass of your body. I'd def say that peaks in late/mid 20s but it all depends on how you take care of your body. People talk all day about the availability of women but the truth is if you don't have enough masculine energy within you, you're not even going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:48 PM
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There's still levels to this tbh I met a guy at a friends house a couple months ago who revealed he went to HS with us for 4 years and just "kept to himself." Dude had one of those top tier expensive ass gaming setups and whatnot, seemed like he was investing his money too somewhat. I had never even seen this guy in my life. Hadn't even heard of his name to be honest. Was in 0 extracurriculars and didn't have any gfs from what I saw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:39 PM
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Lmao and them women ignore this when you point it out. And the fact women only see men with authority as datable options kinda shows the real conflict that's going on. It's deadass you vs women and the men in power. Women already side with the men in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:24 AM
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At this point why would a man care if you don't wanna hear about his bitching? Ngl these questions yall are asking and the logical conclusions to them are like 3/4 steps away from why these self identifying incels shoot public places up. If you get treated like shit for being an unattractive male, by women and men, and NOBODY gives a shit about your problems then why should you give a shit about any of the problems you cause society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:13 AM
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Damn my body unironically looks like this but I'm just short.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:05 AM
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It's sad how bad the grifting has gotten. If you go far enough into the science shit, you can end up reading about the quantum mechanics and you get into mysticism. Once you get into mysticism and high strangeness you actually see a lot of these "spiritual intuitive" women have 0 idea what the fuck they're talking about. It's sad as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:04 AM
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Well I've been outright rejected by women I've never even met for typing "5'7" out on a keyboard. I don't know what exactly that has to do with my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:00 AM
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Figured this out a looooooong time ago When I was a teenager there were chat apps where u could text other teens A lot of teens would go there for sexting. Me being black, but kind of lighter skinned, I'd send pics and get girls talking about how they loved my physique, loved my tan (?), and loved how I looked. Just for me to get blocked when I showed my face or my dick. They'd actually expose my blackness, even though I didn't even really look white. I started asking these girls why someone wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:58 PM
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I've been platonic friends with women and I've become so disillusioned it doesn't make me any less resentful Like I have a level of empathy that I guess most women don't like, or maybe I extend it to the wrong people but idk. I work places and I'm the only black guy there, by default there are white girls who are interested and they act submissive around me. Even the ones with boyfriends. Even girls you're with "platonically" will still be counting your pockets and trying to measure you up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:15 PM
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Well dude just off the top of my head, I can for sure tell you we have a lot of homeless veterans. Where do you think addicts come from? What do you think drives people to addiction? All you're telling me is that men have harder lives. That doesn't say much about their function in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:05 PM
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Its a shame. I don't see how women don't realize this incentivizes men to be low value if they want easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:01 PM
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Ehh. Reality is kind of high school scaled up, at least in america
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:59 PM
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Did u not read what I said about romance? I'd be willing to have a fulfilled romantic relationship but yeah I still need physical intimacy like everyone else. If it's not romance, sex, then yeah its drugs. And when I say drugs I mean psychedelics. I like spiritual experiences, I don't like being barely conscious in smoky house parties. What else is there really to do though if not for those two things?? Work for some other man making his pockets fat? Create a business you don't give a shit about…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:33 PM
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Do I actually have to like explain this through bits and pieces? "Figure out for your own" is just seeing what works for people that look like you. Your father shares 50% of your genes and he laid a woman. Mens first example of love is their mother, therefore he will be attracted to women like his mother. This is a phycological phenomenon thats well known. If a man teaches his sons even the techniques he used, or the tools to be an attractive man it makes perfect sense because he'll literally be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:29 PM
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What does the law not being my moral compass have to do with a bad decision I made? Like ngl are you smart enough to realize what the law says and what is "morally" correct or "right" are 2 different things? Explain to me how I have a moral obligation to raise a broke jobless woman because I married her? Not a legal obligation, a moral obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:14 PM
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Wow bro so helpful I feel so much better now about my situation. I figured out years ago that the juice is not worth the squeeze dude And I don't owe it to anyone to be silent or polite about my own life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:08 PM
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That's not what I said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:07 PM
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What do you think degenerate behavior is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:07 PM
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My mom had no idea that she'd have to teach a man how to treat women?? What kind of comment is that. Not true by a long shot. Fuckboys are created by seeing what works for boys like them and from examples set my older men. Like his father. Rarely have I seen someones father tell them and go be the nice guy they wish they had procreated with like their mother did I've seen it time and time again. If you choose to procreate with men who make you a single mother then your son is right to blame both…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:05 PM
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One of the worst interpretations of my comment I've ever seen in my life It's hypocrisy involved in women trying to claim that progressive label when they quite literally sexually select and rank men based off their material things and wealth. You cannot be a socialist or even as progressive as women try to seem during election years and also have that be your main method of sexual selection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:00 PM
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Men like this are created because if single mothers, speaking from experience as one who's had a single mother and who knew other boys who had single mothers before. If you want to get rid of weak men, then you need to have a generation of men than are raised by strong men. Essentially, the nuclear family is better than a single mother household. I don't know what the stats are for single father households but I assume 2 parents are better than one. If we encouraged women somehow to select for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:25 AM
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No they would not because putting in bits and pieces of energy to a bunch of flaky women is not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:11 AM
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If I were you'd I'd just take all the drugs until my brain was fried out. I'm having the same issue right now where most girls interested in me barely turn me on and I need romance for them. Sad part is most girls are shit at romance cause they're always being hounded by some other guy trying to weigh their options so they dgaf about my feelings Girls who I could actually FUCK and rock their world don't look in my direction and I fear it'll be too late by the time I accumulate enough whatever to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:03 AM
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Y'all talk on here all day about how onlyfans isn't paying the bills and it's not as glamorous as men think it is, how is it backhanded for him to ask if someone bought her a car on an onlyfans salary? And then she calls him broke for what? Like she asks with a sense of entitlement like he can only ask that if he has enough money to buy that car? Do y'all even be realizing how y'all think and how that looks to men? Y'all deadass will try to rank someone or cut them down for not having money or x…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:54 AM
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Cause if someones gonna assault you a random stranger would be too risky. If it's premeditated that increases the success rate I'm guessing. I'd be curious on the statistics about men who come to the defense of women. I'd guess that if a man knows a woman he'd be more likely to defend her than some a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:48 AM
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By investing and taking risks Your money = Your wellbeing Therefore what you're doing with your money is what you're doing with your life. It's not a hard concept to understand. There's absolutely implied that men are supposed to take on the more dangerous role's because of their perceived toughness in comparison to women. And women still expect that, they do not want to take on the harder role. You could ask any woman, if technology failed and we were out in the wilderness, would they rather go…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:04 PM
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The Law is not my moral compass, so in this scenario what I'm "responsible" for is not what you think it is lol The law can say that you deserve the same standard of living as when you were married to me (why? Idk) but I don't agree with that. Marriage honestly means nothing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:01 PM
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Why would I PAY a woman for her to raise her kids and be an adequate parent? What's more is that women cannot do all the housework. They cannot do the landscaping and grit work that the outside of the house entails. If she somehow did that then yeah I'd pamper her, I'm just not about to pay you for doing what you're supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:00 PM
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Powered faces and white wigs that early english men fashioned themselves in were biologically desired by their women? Is that what you're telling me white women like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:55 PM
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Checked bro account to see if an update had been posted "She Dumped Me" posted 8 days ago. These hoes aint loyal
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 01:06 PM
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Any sort of comment that lets me know you're trying to size me up or compare me to other men. Questions about my income when money wasn't even brought up An inability to enjoy peace and quiet. Glorification of the party life which we know is ultimately soulless and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:31 AM
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Everyones talking about purely looks when real self improvement for a woman is not being a narcissist and being able to converse with a man intimately without being flirty. Older women can pull this off cause they had to develop other skills to captivate men but younger women who may have been ugly ducklings could also have this skill but they usually can't help but be flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 AM
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It's ass but decent. I can attract girls but it's common knowledge among gen Z that most girls have a billion dudes in their phone and they're probably doing you dirty. I've pulled a lot more on social media than I do irl, and part of it is because of my height. Even with maxed out confidence a lot of girls still would only show interest in me in private, most would demean me in person for some reason like it was cute. I'm also short, black, 20 yrs, with a somewhat softer face. Black girls find …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:38 AM
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Who your age would admit to finding middle aged men hot when its such a taboo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:31 AM
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This is like saying the only window to a black mans psyche is BET and Rap they play on the radio. It's not our fault you're ignorant 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:30 AM
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Cause women respond accordingly to men who behave that way. No men are just born that way, they end up that way because of outside treatment. There was a point where I was "that guy" temporarily and I've quite literally had girls send nudes or flirt or show attention off the assumption I was owed it because of my status and the edge I held against other men by being a boxer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:14 PM
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Right in your title, wrong with the text post A man will for some reason be more sexually/socially attractive to men and women alike if he's got a lot of female friends whom he's had sex with. However this usually comes from word of mouth from the women, not from the man. Lots of women don't like when men run their mouths even though they basically tell everyone your sensitive information. When I was younger I actually liked being friends with women/girls. What I found out though is that women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:53 PM
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No. I think situations where no one can be immediately held accountable brings out the worst in people. Which can maybe be said about the women on this site and some of the subs that are more manosphere focused but it's almost a trope that reddit mods are power hungry weirdos. The worst in people is brought out in situations where someone is a scapegoat and it's collectively agreed upon that you can shit on that person with 0 consequences. Scaled up that's what happened to Jews in Nazi Germany, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:57 PM
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Yes. Parental figures and stuff I saw as a baby. A little bit of genetic/spiritual memory as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:24 PM
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Basketball is much different than combat sports. Curry, Iverson, Kyrie and tbh a lot if elite PGs are all on the shorter side. All 3 are contenders for the best handles of all time. Being shorter is obviously an advantage there, but like OP said. It takes brains and body to make an advantage out if your short height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:22 PM
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It does unless looks are all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:09 PM
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Short guy is faster, taller guy has more range If taller guy is as fast as shorter guy, he's career will be shorter due to stress on the joints.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:07 PM
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The best of male genes is a bunch of dead beat fathers and cutthroat capitalists??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:59 PM
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Appear feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:58 PM
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I've fucked a girl who was 6'1 and I'm 5'7. Of course outliers exist but for the vast majority of women, most wouldn't date a non-famous/clouted short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:56 PM
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Depending on where that woman was raised the bare minimum looks a lot different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:55 PM
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Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:53 PM
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Well all you asked was "im a woman what do you bring to the table" and what is a woman? An adult with female sex characteristics. How would he know if he was a good match for you without knowing all those hopes, dreams, desires, ect that your comment failed to mention? What a stupid question tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:49 PM
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Social status and clout are the same thing If you're a model who's known as a heartbreaker, you can skate off that clout to get women and respect from men alike. Obviously career and status matter but why do you think there are tropes like bored rich housewives fucking the poolboy or some dumb shit like that? Do you honestly think the goal of a lot of guys is to wife up a woman? Esp if he's a player?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah dude if you're already hot and desired by other women. If you're new to the game you're legit just going to get used if you have "basic manners" and plan out cute dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/SfQDhqUbvLY The older video of hers got taken down. But she was talking about women 30+ in these cases I think. She mentioned her female clients rejecting pilots and ex NFL players because "he's too nice" or "he likes me too much"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:41 PM
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I wish this were true but I only see women talking about politics when it's something to do with abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:38 PM
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Wrong. I've been hit up on social media from mentions and have been curved for being shorter than I looked in the pic. Some women really are that fickle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:37 PM
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Cause it's about how "the bar" is nonexistent for some men and how that ties into shitty dating experiences. Essentially it's saying that the bar is made up virtue signaling and if you're an average guy not getting ass its not always your fault. It isn't a "just world" in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:36 PM
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This is extremely obvious to anyone who's not white. I'm black I usually don't say much because unless I act like stereotypical thug (like they expect me to) people will think I'm soft or a bitch made. I've had people come up to me and ask me if I had a kid or a baby mama and I had never mentioned those things before. It also affects how aggressive or passive the message you're putting across is. I'm black, but I'm short, I'm also pretty toned though, but I've got long hair and a somewhat soft f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:13 PM
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So what you're saying is, if you grift towards the public and claim to be a savior to their problems when you're acting scamming them, that makes you a winner? You're a loser for buying for it? When will yall drop this idea that taking advantage of people is something good?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:08 PM
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If dating for men is a supply and demand curve then things like motorcycles are quite literally there because they're dangerous and they "decrease" your supply in a way because there are more possibilities for you to die. I'd use the candle metaphor to explain this. Every person has a candle that represents their lifetime and everyone also has a flame. Women are attracted to the men with the most intensely burning flame, regardless of how that affects his life expectancy. You could also use the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:15 PM
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I would. A girl 6 years older than me at a place I used to work at had a personality like this. We actually went back to her place after a workplace bowling event. I ended up getting too drunk to do anything but she also curved me once she realized I was 3 years younger than she thought. She had actually been flirting hard since my 2nd week there too, so it was actually 4 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:13 PM
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Yeah and it's all fun and games until you you figure out most girls want to have "fun" and gdaf about shit besides whats's popular on tb/social media/tiktok/the latest outrage. Soooo many of these girls out here don't practice what they preach. Even when I was actually pulling, a lot of girls sexual persona is so much in contrast to their public personality it'd honestly be impossible to engage with her in a normal way and get a sexual relationship out of it, had I been a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:56 PM
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The men who consistently date attractive women are the ones who have the status to do so. I've seen it said that most women don't even really have a "real man" that exists in their head that they're attracted to. They are essentially putting together a bunch of standards and ideas of what "A man" is supposed to be. A man is supposed to be dominant. To be truly dominant is to not be submissive to anyone. You really have to be at the TOP of whatever hobby/job/social group you're in to be consisten…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:40 AM
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Women are complicated. Even when I was desirable to girls as a teen at my peak, I was boxing, I was an asshole, and I bullied people sometimes. That deadass was when I attracted the most girls. Girls would make it easy for me to try something, but it confused me because they had boyfriends that would treat them better than me, valued them more than I did, and actually loved them. Here they were though sending me nudes on Snapchat though when they had a boyfriend. I still don't understand it. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:56 PM
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Daddy government made it go away by giving women welfare for fucking men who are shitty fathers lol If the government didn't exist, neither child support nor welfare would exist. Women would legit have to select for GOOD FATHERS instead of deadbeats. Even then women would still probably fuck on the side and try to get someone else to raise the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:44 PM
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So what should we do? Should we tell them they're actually ugly bitches if they reject our compliments to set them back to neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:37 PM
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People not complimenting you isn't gonna stop things. It's more so because women view themselves as a commodity and give themselves out to the highest bidder. Yall are literally competing for various mens' attention at once. How are you supposed to know we're interested if we don't say it? That's deadass how you get used on a date and then told you're entitled because you expected sex from "being nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:36 PM
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"Its selfish to compliment me"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:34 PM
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He breathes. Unless you're living in a super liberal ultra-progressive area where that redpill shit actually doesn't hold up, most men have had some sort of "redpilling" life experience. Hell technically I consume redpill content but it's not even what shifted my views. What shifted my views was the retrospective view of my childhood combined with my mothers behavior to this day. I was raised by a single mother and I noticed that whenever I started getting more successful with girls on my own, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:26 PM
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It's really that people put forward the most glossed and doctored up version of their lives on social media. Hell my crazy ass ex's hinge profile doesn't do justice of how insane she is. I'd be willing to bet most men put their REAL life out their instead of dressing everything up. I honestly don't know why women do it. If i see you in all these foreign countries and skydiving you just look high maintenance as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:16 PM
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Are you male?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:10 PM
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Hormones DO rule our minds and actions. You trying to argue against it is quite literally denying reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:10 PM
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Cause it's basically saying that incels are right and soft-eugenics is built into the fabric of society by way of women's behaviors It's deadass saying that if you're an attractive successful man with status, the rules do not apply to you. Why? Cause the only person who care's about those rules (women) don't care when you do it. The only other people who will hold you accountable are other men, and if you have less status money or power, then not only will the women tell you to fuck off but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:06 PM
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Tupac was not convicted and sentenced for rape, and neither was K-Ci Someone in his entourage did something and she tried to blame it on him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:02 PM
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So you're basically saying that incels are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:01 PM
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Insane that man B is being picked fr. Really exposes how selfish some women are. If a man has 7 kid, 7 LITERAL LIVES HE'S BROUGHT ON EARTH that he cannot raise, how AT ALL does that make him a good partner??? Cause he managed to get a few pregnant? Insane to me honestly, y'all really don't understand the repercussions of y'all actions. So childish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:58 PM
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Speak for yourself. If there's a choice between a hot bitchy woman and a smart girl with a feminine personality who's ugly (which is kind of subjective, as long as she's not fat) I'd take the smart girl every day. You're unironically a moron if you think men want to date attractive bitches just cause. Those are the chicks that get you set up, call the cops on you for crazy shit, crazy women ARE NOT more valuable than a smart one just because they're hot. Your comment makes me think you fall in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:55 PM
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"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" Is what you're thinking of. I know guys who do this though, myself included sometimes. I stopped being able to fake interest at like 18, so I can't really hang with someone I'm not attracted to just cause they like me. There needs to be a closed circuit of me liking your attention vs just receiving your attention because it's convenient. I'd say that many more women than men do the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:50 PM
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Wrong. I've met girls who by all other measurements were 9s/10s physically but if I did pursue them then I'd be a fetish I've quite literally had encounters with white chicks who think I'm somehow more animalistic or primitive because I'm black. It seeps through their words when they try to talk dirty because they're closet racists. That shit is unattractive asf to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:48 PM
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Exactly, it's because there's something deeper going on with sex, there's an actual exchange of sexual energies between the souls going on. That's why hookups feel so empty and simultaneously awkward because your soul is "seeing" things that you're not familiar with, and usually sex is a release of a bunch of sexual tension. So unless you both were extremely attracted to each other or you both "played the role" of two people who actually have feelings for each other to facilitate better sex, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:51 AM
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It's not really "male projection" at all. This entire argument can be proved wrong by the fact that trauma bonds and abusive relationships exist. Also the fact we need interaction. I honestly think women only get along with each other because of men, they have a common enemy to conspire against. That being said, I've yet to actually meet a grown woman who's happy with being ALONE. Not single and being spent money on and taken on dates but truly ALONE. There's a reason the cat lady trope exists. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:43 AM
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Most guys understand this, it's just their conception is love is different than a womans. Men probably have some hypergamy built in but the reason men aren't listening to you when you talk about romantic love and a life partner is that there are HUNDREDS UPON HUNDREDS OF GUYS out there willing to do that and they're getting cheated on, cucked, lied to, used, and made to raise another mans children. Is that how women love? Like if this urge fir romantic love was equal and the same between the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:32 AM
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I mean, there are women every day on here who pass up guys for being the wrong race. I see women on here saying they pass up short guys, ironically because they'd like to wear heels. So yeah, there's a large portion of women who don't actually go out looking for a guy, but rather an idea of what a man should be and finds something closest to that. Plus, beyonce literally married Jay Z. Dude is one of the richest rappers of all time. If she could replace him with someone on his level I doubt she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:28 AM
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Yeah cause it is. The bar for being an "alpha male" is quite literally being the best in every single category without doubt. This includes being the man that has the monopoly on violence. When you actually think about the kind of competition that has to happen for a guy to become alpha, especially these days where social media kinda flipped things upside down, it's toxic. The juice definitely is not worth the squeeze. Not only this, you can't be "truly alpha" and simultaneously be the best at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:18 AM
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Bumble didn't work for me cause I'm under 6 foot and they allowed for you to freely filter by height so I was disqualified before I even got to start
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:21 AM
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I believe it. I've sent full body pictures of myself to women online before and they unironically thought I had to be tall because I was good looking??? They hear other females judging men by height and decide to put that in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:20 AM
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Since women found gangsters and mobsters attractive. Again, status is doing all the work there, not this guy's physical build. If you tried to beat up a gangster even if you did win the fight you lost the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:18 AM
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Status and what their friends think about them. I've been in this position before, the girls would tell me they didn't like ME, they liked my attention. Because they're competing with other women for the "top guy's" attention and end up using the guy as a trophy. Idk why people think women don't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:16 AM
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Kanye actually has talent though and some fashion sense. I've seen Pete Davidson man, and I swear to god this dude is the celebrity version of an industry plant. I've seen clips of him and I've never once laughed. I'm actually in awhe at how many people are saying this dude is funny and charismatic and has a charming personality. He's pretty mid in terms of raw energy and stage presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:13 AM
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This is one of the few theories that makes sense to me. Dude actually looks like the main character from that movie Warm Bodies This unironically was part of the sex scene in parasite too, which had a bourgeois couple roleplaying being their "poor" employees who smelled of the underclass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:03 AM
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Welllll, out of all the places I've applied to, all the places that hired me got back to me immediately all except my first job. Every job that's like "We'll get back to you" hasn't hired me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:58 AM
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Its called hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:55 AM
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Cap. I've "won over" girls with boyfriends. She can like 2 guys and try to hold back feelings for one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:52 AM
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Girls night out? What are you actually going out to the club for with the girl if you have a husband???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:49 AM
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Insecurity can literally take the form of being unsure. Are men just supposed to act like they know what they're talking about so they don't look less confident? No, you only have to do that around women because everyone has been a student. The fact women NEED men to be at that standard of 100% certainty is what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:46 AM
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Eh kinda You're not exactly being a good selector of a partner in general if a facade of confidence can make you attracted to a man that's by all means a horrible father and a stupid person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:43 AM
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Does it make a shitty friend though actually? I say it makes you a shitty friend if you expect the people interested in you to stand-by and watch you date and fuck other people knowing full well they want you. Cut that shit off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:36 AM
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Its not manipulative unless she was planning on taking that guy for all he was worth anyways and him leaving would change that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:35 AM
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Dumbass comment "Chad" will leave you a single mother. Raising a kid on your own and having to deal with those repercussions is much more serious than having to file a restraining order against a dude you can probably find someone to beat up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:32 AM
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Ahh so women with rape kinks just got that for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:49 PM
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Cause if we do recognize that, the actual logical conclusion is that anything a woman can do besides birthing a baby, a man can do better. And you end up with a kind of misogyny which is not acceptable mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:47 PM
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Thats 600-800 dollars. If you don't have that kind of money you shouldn't be doing something that could accidentally give you a kid anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:42 PM
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Unironically this I saw a study the other day that said when studying african american partnerships with drug dealers and women, the dealers deadass are in relationships with or have kids with 40-60% of the women in that area. Ngl if there was anything that would make me think that misogyny was valid it would be this phenomenon right here. They deadass choose to reproduce with the men that give the LEAST to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:41 PM
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20 I thought I did in my teens but I'm starting to feel like each "first" anything becomes our new standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:12 PM
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My mom actually did exactly this. Was quite literally mentally, emotionally, and physically abusive. She only hit me and my brother though she never put her hands on my sister. Women 100% do get so many more passes socially. If you're raised by a single mother (especially as a black man) you actually understand this immediately because you can't go out around girls and guys and act like a woman would. It's much too scattered, emotional, and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:08 PM
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Goofy statement. All "being social" is is caring about what others people think. By definition, if you're attractive and aren't a psychopath you already have social skills. Halo effect basically ensures that attractiveness people have more leeway. People keep forgetting the world is a meta. There's no "objective" measure of social skills, it's really "can you banter/talk like the guys that all the women are chasing right now" Thats literally why we call people "influencers" nowadays because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:06 PM
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Men love differently than women do. Love could be described as sacrificing for the one you love. "Sacrifice" could be a lot of things though. It could be spending years on a painting as a starving artist, or sacrificing your mental sanity going to the army to become the type of "man" you think society wants you to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:37 PM
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So the less she has to take care of me, meaning the more I take care of her, the more she sees me as a man/sex partner? More and more I see normal relationships described as a man being the "adult" and the woman being the child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:33 PM
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You die alone or you have kids with someone who's not fit to raise your children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:28 PM
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"Focus a lot of energy" means running up behind those men. When a guy is getting flaked on, ignored, or ghosted its cause a chick focused her energy somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:27 PM
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How do you know that most have a happy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:24 PM
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Not a fantasy. Women very much do act like this for rappers, drug dealers, pro-athletes, gangsters, entertainers, and generally men in risky but high positions of power. I experienced this myself as a teenager when I boxed. I was at the age where nobody had guns and people were still willing to throw hands, so I got to the "top" of my weight class you could say in a SMP sense. The amount of girls who would send nudes and send climax vids to me while having a boyfriend made me not want to get int…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:19 PM
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Ugly women should play to their strengths instead of trying to play to the meta of what they think "most guys" are looking for in a woman. Cause it seems like men actually have more varied taste but that could be me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:00 PM
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That's not the hypocrisy you think it is If you OWN a Bugatti it's yours, it's in your driveway A 200 dollar dinner is going to fill your stomachs for a couple hours, and has no concrete value after its spent. Not to mention no man just wants to drop money for no reason for "any woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:08 PM
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Depends on the quality of the girls. 5 new girls every week though is too much for most guys to handle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:05 PM
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Says who? I'm sure the only reason dudes hit it and quit it is so they don't get mixed up in a girl trying to put them in the friendzone I don't even care to just have sex for the sake of it, but I'll act as if sex SHOULD be on the table on the first date because I hate being boxed in. And yeah you could be lying, but I'm not about to walk that tightrope of trying to guess whether or not you're telling the truth because my lizard brain will stop giving af after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:04 PM
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That's just you. I've been beat by my own mom for missing a spot when wiping down the toilet for a BATH she was about to take because "I don't want to look at that"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:58 PM
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I'd say that the truth being that women don't really care about men or any individual man they get with. I'm starting to notice women have an "idea" or an "archetype" of what a man is supposed to be and usually pick men that are closest to that. I don't really know if women can love you for "you" or just stuff like your wealth and status. Its literally like those guys who go to japan looking for a chick that acts like an anime girl. Except for women they have a bunch of boxes to tick and they'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:54 PM
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I can tell you rn that not all parents love unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:48 PM
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Would he? Maybe. Could he? Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:47 PM
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Nothing about what you said proves that men are more emotional. Someone succumbing to social shame isn't an emotional decision. It's a rational one depending on the status of the person you are. Emotions stem from the messages we take away from memories. If you have a life that leads your emotions to make you feel a certain way, they're completely valid to you, but todays society has quite literally made having certain opinions and emotions something that deserves deplatforming rather than an ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:27 PM
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Well you're kind if ignoring the context if what sex means to humans and what the biological imperatives are of each sex. Women are supposed to be aiming for quality and men are supposed to be selecting for quality. It's not that since making rice is easy, it's bad. The correct analogy would be a Michelin Star winning restaurant choosing to serve microwaved easy-prep rice to it's customers. You go to those types of restaurants for the quality. Same with the story about beating people up on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:10 PM
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Ehh, I'd say it's more like how women are more down to hook up with certain guys when they're drunk. There's social/societal pressure against them being forward or hooking up with a guy their friends don't like, alcohol removes some of that. I have no doubts that different cultural expectations or women approaching men more would have the same effect. Its literally the different between a woman sitting back and waiting for a guy to "notice her open body language" and her just going to talk to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:45 PM
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If you want to compare dating to capitalism, you're going to have to start with how culture and how people are socialized affects supply and demand. For one, different people value different things. I think diamonds are a poor example, as they're artificially scarce and can be made in a lab. People who value "feeling above others" through classicism value that $4000 diamond. People who don't value lab made diamonds that at the molecular are the exact same. The only reason someone realistically p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:59 AM
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OPs not wrong here. I get what you're saying. He's saying that women are naturally attracted to guys who already behave a certain way, and if you mimic those guys' lifestyle then you'll have lost what "you" were before. Essentially you are throwing away present you to adopt the persona of someone who "gets girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:42 AM
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They still are reliant on men. Without the men you mentioned, would we have a society where women could even have these made up rights and privileges? If you really want to take that stance you're painting women as ungrateful asf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:48 PM
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Im sorry but women lose this "societal history" argument every time. If you view humans going back to hunter gatherer times, men are the ones going out in hunting and doing the physical labor, women are the ones staying at home and keeping the family together. As society progressed, these labels switched up, but overall women got the EASY role in the production of society. I've never built one myself, but it looks pretty fucking hard. You talking bout some "now men actually have to provide somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:46 PM
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We control mens autonomy all the time. What do you think "harassment" crimes are? If women perceive moves toward them differently based on a mans attractiveness, it's kind of obvious the push against "public harassment" from feminists is literally just so they don't have to deal with guys not already in top tiers of money/looks/status. Obviously women shouldn't be being forced to do sex acts for jobs and stuff like that, but we as society don't OWE it to women to stop unattractive guys from appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:29 PM
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Soo what you're saying is, progress only happens in society when people who aren't hypocrites speak up? Doesn't the fact that progress happens when most of us are supposed to be "hypocrites" kind of prove your own theory wrong? You don't know how many people truly aren't hypocrites and practice what they preach
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:13 PM
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While your claim may be true, I really don't see what the "dream" redpill is "selling" has to do with this? If the redpill is telling you to improve yourself for your own good and then women will naturally come but you still have to have game, then what is the issue? Like you're saying the "redpill" is selling a dream as if its a company or "it" is profiting from men trying to build themselves up?? That doesn't even make sense. And as far as simping goes, why is that a better strategy? How can y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:49 PM
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Tbh I'm not at all surprised at this. Supposed "progressive" women constantly discriminate on this site based off the label of male/man alone and start quoting statistics as if its not sexist I've had this argument multiple times and it goes like this. "If you quote statistics to discriminate against men then you are sexist. It's in in the same vein as quoting crime statistics to discriminate against black people." Followed by "It's not the same thing because we know there are socioeconomic reas…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 06:39 PM
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Patriarchal men, at least the ones I'm talking about, usually don't need an app to maneuver. Patriarchal men are almost always conservative, and online dating being the norm is something relatively recent. I'm more so talking about the aged 25-40 guys who have the mentality of men from the early 80s and late 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:53 PM
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Nah dude no offense but you're still being naive. I'd say it's like a Meta in a video game, where each woman (depending on her personality) has a tier list in her head for the men she'd get with. This tier list is AMORAL deep down. Being toxic and just looking out for yourself (win/lose) for quick/fast money is infinitely easier than doing things the RIGHT way and making sure everyone on your way gets something in return (win/win) It just happens living the selfish route is much quicker, and thu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:50 PM
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Probably because women (especially on this site) claim to be progressive liberal types and talk about fixing inequality and this and that, and then proceed to date capitalist men and the EXACT type of guys causing the equality they constantly claim to care about. Hypocrisy is unattractive as fuck and if you're a political grifter you look even worse I think the perspectives of the women in question is important, because you know what to expect. If a conservative woman wanted a man with money, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:38 PM
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"They refuse not to be betas anymore" Bro, not EVERY GUY can be the "top" or the "alpha". Do you know what happens to society when every guy is trying to dominate the room at the same time? Pretty sure this exact phenomenon is why people were misogynistic in the past. Not every guy can be the alpha and usually the alpha has NO incentive to be a good man cause he's already got the women and the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:09 PM
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I'd say a large part is the role women vs men play in politics. I'm going to be completely honest. If the 80% rule is true, then: The top 20% of men and 80% of women like capitalism or right wing policies because they're in tandem with each other and also are the ones in control. Top men in control = the patriarchy The bottom 80% of men and 20% of women support left wing policies. Because they're the "underclass" for their sex. This is why even though you see tons of "liberal" opinions come from…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:00 PM
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Not to white people it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:48 PM
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someone with racist beliefs isn't going to date certain races even if they are attracted to them. As a black guy I can straight up say this is false. There's a very large portion of white girls who legitimately think that black guys are only like what you see in Music Videos and on TV. There are chicks who see black guys ONLY as temporary fun for fucking around with before settling down with a white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:47 PM
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Life is not a meritocracy, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:42 PM
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Yeah cause having 0 insecurities and being confident about everything about yourself is just so easy. Insecurities are normal and if you don't have them I'm going to assume you're lying. This is kind of an inhuman expectation tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:41 PM
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Do you people not understand that women's standards scale with the male population? If every guy was in olympian shape, women would find something to be selective about instead if being happy about the new standard men have set for themselves. "Oh he doesn't have an 8 pack", "His V taper isn't as good as his" like y'all really be ignoring this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:39 PM
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Depends. Is he actively displaying toxic traits and are those traits attracting women? Or is he being another "version" of himself to attract women and is toxic deep down? If it's the latter it's possible to get rid of the toxicity but that's basically a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:34 PM
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Been saying this for 2 years now. The patriarchy is a very real thing. But women literally select for patriarchal men and quite literally populate the earth with their offspring. Thats one of the biggest incentives you can give a living thing on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:31 PM
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Do you just want a bunch of girls who have no standards for you but high standards for everyone else? *While I personally don't care when the sex happens, I've been in relationships that lasted for years without actual sex. But I will say as I've gotten older, if I'm going to be in a relationship, I expect intimacy of the emotional and sexual kind. And as far as body counts go, I'm not going to really care or ask. But if I'm at a bar or a social event and people keep coming up to me telling me y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:08 PM
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"Men" as a demographic don't really have any crazy advantage if you're a good person. If you're "live fast die young" type of guy with no morals, then it's extremely easy. If you put together a facade that's only supposed to last for 2-4 weeks max, you basically already won. Women, contrary to popular belief, DO NOT have built in sensors to detect if you have ulterior motives. You could lie, cheat, steal, get women pregnant, leave the kid, and just be a general piece of shit and there will ALWAY…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:51 PM
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Well, to be completely honest, seeing what the actual military does and what type of person you'd have to be to be stoic and calm in those situations kind of tells us exactly what type of men women are attracted to. Keep in mind humans are made to adapt, and men of that nature don't just fall out of the sky. So if a guy is built with that kind of stoicism there is a reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:36 PM
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Unironically? I was born in a single parent household and my mother literally beat and berated into me not to stare at girls too long, not to look at them, don't touch them because they will think you're "weird" and whatnot. She basically handicapped me when it came into relationships. Add on the fact that she's got 4 kids from 4 different men and you'll see why I've got such a poor example for relationships. I was never 100% a nice guy in any meaningful way. I was nice in middle school cause gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:58 PM
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a woman who takes care of herself health wise is in the above average category The bar is on the FLOOR. All this shit about men needing to keep up with their hygiene and then yall say shit like that. How bout you put in some policies to raise the general level of attractiveness of the entire country? If most of us were in shape a lot of these issues wouldn't be as bad. Stop promoting shit like fat acceptance, when it's clearly just for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:04 PM
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No, I think those opinions come from women who chase guys they can't have so it boosts their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:00 PM
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Hmmm, it could depend fr. If you have a full head of greasy ass stringy hair or your hair is like steel wool, being bald would be an upgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:56 PM
2

What country. Also whats your ethnicity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:55 PM
1

I mean I've personally given food to homeless people in downtown Cleveland. I was with my family and I'm struggling on my own, but if i have the abundance to help homeless people in a way that i know is long term, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:03 PM
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How bout incentivizing people to get into monogamous relationships? Pay people more? Leveler playing field when it comes to wealth? Women are hypergamous, therefore, give men the tools to work with that instead of letting wealth centralize in the top 1% and making it even more difficult for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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Ngl I feel like it's necessary. If you bring men into this world and basically tell them that the world is a jungle and contemporary society is an illusion there is no legitimate reason not to ignore the laws, morals, and customs of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:42 PM
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Tbh, I don't really think conversations about what anyone is "owed" are productive. If nobody was owed anything, literally you could logically justify men treating women any way they wanted just because they have power over them. Nobody owes anyone freedom, positive or negative. Especially when we have stuff for women like "body positivity". On a very basic level, if you create a society, there is no concrete law in existence that says women are OWED rights of any kind. This entitlement opinion …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:39 PM
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I've watched Patrice O'Neals stand up and it gives better advice than "Be confident assertive and charismatic"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:31 PM
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I've done this before and these were the results: White men get the most positive attention overall. Women's complaints about men harassing them are valid. But you can literally put a cashapp in your bio and get paid for it, they'll just ban you. Not to mention being harassed by men who want to fuck you isn't some wild thing only women experience. I guess you could say I have a twinkish appearance (short, toned/defined physique, boyish face) and it gets me lots of attention from gay/bi men onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:29 PM
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Yeah ngl, the pieces on the chess board are arranged to expose the real from the fake. Literally NOBODY cares about socially awkward ugly men. They get treated like what they become from the get-go. The reaction to this tbh is enough to radicalize someone tbh. Cause it makes it extremely clear that if you're down bad, the rest of society will join in in kicking you while you're down.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 01:21 AM
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Polarity. +- Men \ - Women (think of the act of sex itself) Dick and Motherfucker are the big ones for men. Dick's get in the way, are intrusive, they're hard and they don't listen to intelligent reason. They only care about their pleasure. Motherfuckers can only really be male unless it's a woman with a strap on. But the insult is literally the type of man that would fuck your mother and not feel bad about it. Also there are a lot of other male specific insults, but they have more so to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:06 PM
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You'd think, but it's not like what females think is sexy is always good for the species. I'm pretty sure sabre toothed tigers literally went extinct because of that exact phenomenon. Technology is what has helped humanity most out of any other metric, that is a fact. So logically, shouldn't women be selecting for the most intelligent men that will make life better for the entire planet? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:57 PM
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Hmm, so women of the past choose to procreate with men that didn't gaf about women at all?? Why is this? Unless you'd like to argue that all sex was just rape. Even then that doesn't make sense for EVERY ethnic group of humans. Women literally chose these men to populate the earth with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:47 PM
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Cause women are attracted to men with power, status, and money. You give all the women to a couple men with ALL THE POWER and THATS how society ends up fucked up. How is it a hard concept to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:44 PM
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Well, in your words, what value to women inherently provide to society? Capitalist society specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:40 PM
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If beauty standards change through culture, then so do the standards for relationships So this is kind of false tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:35 PM
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Those bodies are average for the time period. Not true through, I saw a discussion the other day about dad bods and I literally saw the consensus shift to "bodybuilder on a bulk" instead if like a legitimate dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:32 PM
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Bro thinks that the majority of men are like peter griffin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:26 PM
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Man Stoicism is so overrated. It's literally just indifference to pleasure and pain. Which is just emotional numbness, and hate to break it to you, but not everyone has the time or money for a healthy emotional outlet. It's also kind of fucked up that you as a man are supposed to be able to handle your shit and everyone else's shit but not be able to react to it like a human being until you're at XYZ specific place and time. I tried stoicism and it just made me depressed. What exactly is suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:33 AM
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Being an unshakable emotional rock is not the same thing as pushing down every emotion but anger. Ngl idk where this idea came from but it literally is contradictory to the theory men shouldn't be emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:27 AM
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I feel like women have always wanted the same "standard", which is a man who is successful relative to the rest of his generation/age group and by default better than her. To be frank just a top 20% man Add on how social media and dating apps teach us to commodify our dating options and depersonalize them. Mix this in with capitalism centralizing the wealth in the pockets of the top 1% and you have a situation where most guys who are truly doing their best can't do that much because the rich get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:22 AM
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It does seem like social justice and feminism is a shit test sometimes. And you can only get away with being "not good" or "bad" in society if you're white or you have enough money to basically break the law. All it takes is someone to pay a white woman to accuse you, the "bad boy minority", of rape, and it's all downhill from there. And honestly I'm so sick and tired of seeing the word charisma being said on here. It's lost all meaning and if you look up the word it i'll either say "compelling …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:23 AM
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Female version of former partner jealously is when she realizes she's not getting as many material things as his last girlfriend. Regardless of how many deny it, a lot of women look at themselves, look at how other women are being treated in their relationships, rate her looks, and then think that determines how she should be treated by men. I literally had a conversation today with a woman who rated herself as a 8/9/10 (she's probably a high 6 or a low 7) and told me that every guy she's with "…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:15 AM
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Lmao bro who says these women are "locking them down" and these guys aren't playing the field or spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:09 AM
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What do you think any of this website is even for? People debate here more openly than other places I've seen on reddit cause they're too moderated. This is the /r/CapitalismvSocialism of gender issues And, no, because most people here aren't hypocrites and hold double standards that barely even have any logical consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:08 AM
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I've never identified with any "pill" because I've valued different things in my life than those things described. There was a short period of time when I was a teenager where I felt like the blackpill was the only thing than rang true, and to an extent it is kind of true. People say looks get your foot in the door for a reason. Now my beliefs are basically red pill but I choose not to subscribe to it 100% because I don't really think grinding my life away to get a bunch of material shit is wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:56 AM
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No one owes anyone sex, but sex is fun so it's like why are you making it difficult, especially if I've already checked all these arbitrary ass boxes. I don't think anyone thinks they're "owed" sex. But if you wanna flip this on it's head, how many women out there are putting a price on their pussy, or are popping it for a bag or a vacation or an expensive dinner? Also it's because there has to be some give and take in the relationship, an active dynamic. There is literally no point in giving yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:34 PM
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This hasn't happened to me but I've only got 2 bodies. And one time I pulled my phone out before sex happened but it was to apologize to the girl i was in situationship with for my bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:26 PM
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Eh it depends. When I was a teenager a lot of the female attention I got was on snapchat. They would tell me the shit these guys would do, and it really seem like the bar was on the floor. I knew a girl who was dating the captain of the football team who would legitimately hit her and actually raped her. She ended up getting pregnant by him and told me she was keeping it. Cut her off instantly. At a certain point I'm starting to think if a girl has good intentions, just because of the law of pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:25 PM
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Doesn't really mean they want to DATE. Though, I've worked with women who legit just go on tinder for attention and validation. The same could be said for men, tinder is so low quality that I'm pretty sure most guys don't even have a date planned out for their matches. I know I don't you gotta PROVE to me that you're even worth spending money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:57 PM
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Bro I've got abs and the works, it doesn't save me from being 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:54 PM
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It definitely is a real thing. It's not menopause though, and every woman hits it differently. It depends what the standards if beauty are, but the wall is whenever a woman knows she can't have that body. I've seen youtube comments saying the "thin girl" aesthetic that is popular right now is "extremely hard to attain for women past puberty". I'm a college student right now and most girls I see are in worse shape than they were their junior/senior year of high school. And women know this too, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:22 PM
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And males that don't do that are considered girls right? How close minded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:14 PM
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Well I was sexualized as a child/teenager, but it came in a different form cause I was a black male in a majority white city. It's very obvious when an adult female is attracted to you, especially when they obviously have a preference for black men. Just like it's obvious when teachers have favorite students. I'd say the male equivalent of this is seeing the guys who do gross stuff like grope/objectively girls in school, bully people, disrupt class, and generally be a disrespectful asshole get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:10 PM
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I did this and got women and suddenly ended up with Opps who were waiting in groups of 8 to jump me at parties cause their girl was telling them about me. Women really don't know how to keep their mouth shut and just be causing problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:10 PM
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Definitely isn't a joke, people have different terms of what they say the "Alpha" is. "He's that Guy" "Top G" "Head Honcho" "The Man" And it's definitely not only in places where people don't have real problems. If you live in a poor urban area you basically have to learn how to put on the facade of "being the alpha" or people will bully you to the point where you might get jumped or killed. People don't just make up Alpha and Beta terms for no reason, I've been in that position myself when I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:31 PM
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Cause I've been in the position of the guy that the girls cheat with (even if it is just sexting and nudes) and it's infinitely more fun and satisfying than being the guy that sits there and listens to them complain about their problems 24/7 and claim to never be in the mood or always tired. I don't doubt there are some loyal girls out there but I was actually disgusted after my nut with the behavior of some of these "taken" women. Like if I was in your boyfriend's place, I'd actually feel physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:21 PM
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Ehhh idk about you, but I was literally raised to be the "man of the house" and put everyones needs, my younger siblings and mother's, ahead of my own. The women in my family literally think that that "provider" role a man is supposed to fulfill should start as early as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:17 PM
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Man I remember reading a thread about what was considered a "Dad Bod" and all these women were basically describing a bodybuilder on a bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:13 PM
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What I've taken it to mean is a couple things: Show your attraction to her in a confident way, which basically means that you are confident in the fact the sexual encounter will feel good for both parties, or at least will make an impression on her Be yourself unapologetically, meaning allow your positives and negatives to show in front of her and own them. Of course this had a limit, no woman is rejecting a tall guy who's insecure from years of being called a lanky walking stick bug. BELIEVE IN…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:48 AM
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Speak for yourself bra
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:02 PM
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So u think women can't set you up to get robbed by their gangbanger bfs? Or even call the cops on you and lie about what your doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:54 PM
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It means that those in power make the rules. Basically the top 20% of men and 80% of women set the rules for dating. The bottom 80% of men and 20% of women are the ones fighting for justice essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:48 PM
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I thought masculinity was being a provider, if you can provide for everyone, as a net good, I feel like that makes you more masculine than having to hurt an outgroup. Unless it's in defense then of course you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:43 PM
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Honestly I'm a more spiritual type of guy and I enjoy romance so you could say I'm blue pilled even though I've had my hoe phase and seen how women act. But if you have racial requirements, you are racist, especially if you're a woman. Let me give you a couple of anecdotes that allowed me to find this out. I used to go on apps where people would legit just sext and send nudes as a teen, I was an athlete and tbh it's big and thick, so I definitely send good nudes. One thing I would experience is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:41 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about and I'd call it Ego/Identity. Most people don't know the different between them (their actual awareness) and their Ego (their identity). So many men let their Ego get in the way when they talk to women because of how they were treated in the past. Women also operate from Ego with the guys they tend to select. It's like with Pete Davidson, dudes obviously a celeb so he's got status but looks wise? If we're being honest if bro wasn't rich people would proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:24 PM
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Honestly I'd argue the same thing would happen even without the redpill. Is women's behavior a negative affect on men's mental health cause they only screw around with the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:31 PM
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I could have actually done this, but I don't like leading people on and lying to them. I just burned the bridge cause I knew she was doing this dumbass shit instead of actually going with the flow. And as the saying goes, it's never as good as the first time, especially if he has other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:08 AM
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Unironically the truth. And I knew this back in HS when a girl who I knew liked me 100% and even other guys knew liked me, would fool around with other dudes and actively try to gaslight me or talk shit at every opportunity. Her attitude was quite literally "I'm angry at you cause you know I like you, yet you refuse to conform and do the things that make you seem like a 'popular' guy." And at the end of the day it all comes down to women defining themselves by the men they get with, in addition …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:04 AM
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Why would the juice be worth the squeeze at that point? Like logically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:54 PM
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We kind of are, but you're right about women being lazy. Women regularly talk about how disgusting and horrible men are but somehow want the men of the following generations to live up to the brutality and ability to provide/cause violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:44 PM
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Physically? Yes. Socially or within a society? She could just claim assault or rape or get her girlfriends to lie on you, spread rumors, call the cops (especially if you're a black man and she's white) and get you murdered. I wish people would stop saying this, wtf do you think happened to Emmet Till
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:42 PM
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I actually see what OP is trying to say and I think it operates off the assumption that "attraction" is all encompassing and any sort of "love/affection" is all the same thing just at varying degrees. Like if you're straight, some people think that means that you ONLY like and are attracted to women, and that any affection towards men that aren't in your family is betraying your straight label. Add onto the fact that men are "supposed" to always be in competition for each other for women, you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:40 PM
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My biggest con is that I'm petty and you play games with me, I will make sure there are no winners on either side. I also don't gaf about social media trends or what's popular on tiktok. I don't like posting my private life for everyone to see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:12 PM
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It's not a cop out it's moreso the fact that most guys know 2/3 guys who genuinely do shitty things and only care about themselves but still pull a reasonable amount of girls. Literally the guy I know with the highest body count has quite literally tried to get with everyone's girlfriend at least once or tried to cockblock. Dude is also a compulsive liar and would lie about being the captain of the football team and just so much other shit. He's stolen peoples cars and crashed them, legit doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:23 PM
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Unironically you probably jerk off too much or have low test. I used to be like this, and my base personality is pretty tranquil but it's definitely possible for me to get in that "Dominant instinct" mode. The real problem there is, with the way my actual personality is, if I get to that point I basically have morals turned off or at 1/10 of the level they normally are at. You probably don't know your own strength either. I was pretty timid but when I boxed and saw the damage I could inflict on …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:12 PM
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Women are never happy. Cats + Wine + Friend group = High School Gossip Squad They're probably sharing someones husband too or talking shit about some other woman's weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:24 AM
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Crazy. Women barely even know what they want. Women literally change how they want to be treated based off of the status/looks of the man in question. What step are men supposed to be making here? Women do not find the vast majority of men as suitable for relationships. They don't even really like the men they're with, they like the slot (rapper/businessman/drug dealer) he takes up in society and the perks she sometimes gets to enjoy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:57 AM
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Cockiness is relative. 2 men could dish out the same pick up line to a woman and the ugly one would be branded a creep or harasser and the hot dude would be branded cheeky or cocky. The difference is is that women will just choose to give the benefit of the doubt to the hot guy because his looks give off the illusion that he could be backing up his words. The ugly guy to them is talking out his ass. And it definitely isn't "socially inept" men. I can say this as a black guy, I've been completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:39 PM
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As a black guy, "racial preferences" are definitely inspired by racism, ESPECIALLY for women. How many women do you know are just "equally" attracted to men of every ethnicity? They usually have their preference (their own race) and then fetishize any men outside of that race. Have we forgotten what socialization and upbringing can do to sexual preferences? I'm speaking from experience too. I used to show off a lot online and send pics without my face, would get TONS of compliments on my fitness…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:59 PM
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I'm only 20 right now but it's becoming more apparent to me as a I get older. I have my moments where I'm the flashiest in the room and get compliments but I've also been invisible to girls while I was in high school. Only guys that acknowledge you are guys that are your coworkers, acquaintances, and LGBT guys that are attracted to the way you look. "Strangers" who are male only acknowledge you if they have some other motive, which should be a given unless you're expecting him to make a move on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:48 PM
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If men get used, abused, and cheated on by women who are KNOWN for that behavior, and are told by their male and female friends about how that person moves, yes it's 100% his fault I honestly cannot stand the strawmen in this sub. He literally explains that these guys are KNOWN for this behavior yet women not only complain about that behavior, but somehow ascribe it to the men they don't even get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:30 PM
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I honestly believe it. Capitalism centralizes power and wealth among the top repeatedly. Women follow where wealth and power go. It always did confuse me why "equality" was something associated with women when most men have been the ones trying to forward workers rights and wealth equality. Women complain about the patriarchy but they literally ensure it's existence through their sexual selection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:42 PM
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Honestly, if there's ever anything that would make me understand why society was misogynistic in the past, it would be this sort of shit. Women literally incentivize men to be assholes and pieces of shit and reward them with sex. The thing is if EVERY man was like this then the world would be chaotic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:23 PM
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Way to misunderstand the comment. It's literally the law of attraction. If you feel like you HAVE to impress someone in a situation where there should already be mutual attraction, then its going to cause an imbalance in the dynamic. If I'm with you that means I care about you, if I have to make a SHOW about how much I care about you and this and that, not only does it feel manipulative, but that should go without saying through my actions so it ultimately feels redundant. If it's not redundant,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:02 PM
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Why does "being treated as people" suddenly become the standard when no woman treats a man the way women want to be treated by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:54 PM
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I mean, I was an "Above Average Man" in my teens to an extent and I got a lot of female attention, especially online. At a certain point I noticed women just got LAZY AF. Even when it came to texting/sexting. You can have as much game as you want, and I even had it down to a strat, it doesn't mean anything if she just goes "Idk" over and over again. You could be having the most open ended flowy convo ever, some girls are legit lazy as fuck. The sexting was worse, women asking me for dick pics an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:46 PM
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Women advocate for violent behavior in men. Or rather their vaginas do. I've quite literally seen girls' eyes light up when I was a boxer and would say I could fuck up their boyfriend in a cocky way. Or when I would tell stories about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:52 AM
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Women would literally be in the same position of they didn't get constant validation from society. I don't really know why people keep trying to pretend some people are just "Okay" with receiving little to no attention. The only way men end up in that position is if they have side pieces and they know they don't need you for pussy. Some of us also have shit families that don't provide any support. It's literally just some of us against the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:41 PM
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No, we have spirits/souls. We have an Ego that is basically our stage-play role that has been assigned to us in this physical world but "You" is actually the consciousness and awareness you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:38 PM
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Apex Fallacy You cannot go wherever you want as a man. I'm a black guy, I can't just stroll through whatever neighborhood I want. Cops follow the fuck out of me and harass me. And any white woman could literally accuse me of assault or some sort of harassment and have the entire peanut gallery blowing down on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:35 PM
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The kind of "intelligence" that women are attracted to is the kind where someone buys a house and then rents it out to pay off their mortgage. Basically men who put themselves in advantageous situations despite the positions it puts the rest of society in. We live in a capitalist society, you must be a capitalist to be successful in it. Women like successful or what they call "financially stable" men, therefore they find men who are able to navigate our capitalist system attractive. I've seen it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:32 PM
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Obviously misogynistic assholes. But my thing is how are you consistently choosing misogynistic guys over and over again while "average kind guys" are just being looked over? And women are not stupid. Women with mental disabilities is one thing but if you're out here fucking with hard drug dealers, corrupt cops, gang members, or politicians then like I'm sorry but you're not blameless. That's your fault for finding toxic men sexy. One thing that pisses me off anout this argument is that we see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:43 PM
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Bro WHAT "I know he's racist against brown girls but he's so hot and he calls me slurs during sex" levels of mental gymnastics. If a man hates women, which something YOU are, and is using you for nothing else than basically a hole, why can you even talk to other men about their misogyny? You're borderline creating LIFE with a misogynist. Idk if you're a woman or what but if you're a man stop giving excuses to these hoes. That's actually a shame to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:33 PM
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Eh speak for yourself, after a while who a woman is as a person decides whether or not I can even be turned on by her. Women talk themselves out of dick all the time too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:36 PM
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That's capitalism for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:34 PM
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Speak for yourself. I can't ask for emotional support from a sister and a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:15 PM
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I can't speak for adult adult women (25+) but I did this as a dare when I was a teenager to another girl and legitimately got nudes from her. Called her a bitch and stuff and basically acted like a thug from a rap song, worked way better than being my true self ever did Did it to another girl and she STILL invited me over her dorm despite me, in her words, "Talking out my neck over text". And was finna fuck me first day we met, this was college but still. She was ducking me and shit and every ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:07 AM
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"Why wouldn't I choose a hot asshole over an ugly one?" Because being nice and decent is supposed to be the bare minimum right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:51 PM
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I mean that probably has happened somewhere. Women in poor urban areas fuck around with and date rival gang members all the time... I literally don't know why the women in this thread are talking bout how they're turned off by men who say "offensive" things when dudes like Chris Brown and XXXTentacion had/have harems of women after them. Chris brown almost killed a woman outchea and he's still famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:07 PM
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Smh these hoes tryna tell us they only date morally perfect men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:04 PM
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More like women sleep with 20% of men and then complain to 80% about the 20% behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:51 PM
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I've met 2 girls on tinder that wanted to fuck right away but I definitely know that shit happens. I can't sleep with a girl immediately unless I know I can trust her, and if you're cheating on someone I know I can't trust you so that's a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:36 PM
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So glad someone trans spoke up about this. These cis women are ignorant af when it comes to this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:32 PM
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Bruh we're literally born to reproduce and secure life for our future generations. Literally designed that way biologically. How hard is this to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:31 PM
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I'm pretty in shape, visible abs, decent chest, decent arms (I used to box), I'm overall a very athletic person. I'm 5'7 and I've been able to touch a basketball rim with a running start since I was 5'3. I honestly have pretty good stats overall but the height thing just kinda ruins it for a lot of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:51 PM
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I've loved women for who they were but it was a choice on my part. I can love people (see their value) for their intellect and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:14 PM
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Well if you have high standards purely because you're comparing how women you see on "your level" being treated then yes, it is wrong to have high standards. That's not you, and you need to stop attaching your worth as a woman based on the man that's giving you attention (not even the one you're dating or fucking). If women constantly pine after the guys at the top of the hierarchy ensuring the ones at the bottom get NO female attention. (Which has just gotten worse with social media and online …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:08 PM
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Idk man, I had a phase where I was a narcissist and having empathy just made women think I was soft or something. I've legit been told this face to face. They said they want someone like me in theory but are only into "macho" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:10 PM
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One thing that baffles me is how are you going to call men who pay for prostitutes or porn disgusting? If he's disgusting then that makes the sex worker disgusting. It's not like men don't get shamed for going to prostitutes or even buying onlyfans. Remember when "simp" just popped off for those few months? Every reddit thread was claiming it was misogyny to tell men not to buy some girls onlyfans. And it's not even just that, it's one thing to sell sex when you have 0 other options left, I've l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:30 AM
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Also what are any of you adding to an "above average" man's life? At that point in his life pussy is easy. So what exactly is it that women are bringing to the table here when they list off their requirements. Can you even match any of those? And what do you mean "then why do you want to be even with them"? Is that now how people are taught to view the sexes nowadays? A man always has to be better than you? I really just don't see how y'all don't see the hypocrisy. Y'all are thinking "male/femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:11 AM
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I wouldn't say promiscuity is the problem but just hypergamy in general. Only wanting men that you view to be "above" you + social media allowing you to compare yourself to other women and the men they're with = inflated sense of what she deserves as a woman There will never be a point where all men are being desired by by an equal amount of women across the board A female dating coach went over this. Her channel is called Life with the Popes. But the thing is if women only want the men at the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:46 AM
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Honestly I wonder this too. I'm not going to be blatantly disrespectful to someone who look like they need help though. It honestly feels like women do not prefer men who are altruistic in the sense where they give everyone bare minimum respect regardless of their "place" in society. There doesn't exist a "social ladder" in my mind unless we're talking professional athletes or top tier musicians/directors.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:11 PM
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It's easy to have emotional intelligence but I've straight up been told by girls that in theory it's attractive but it comes across as "sensitive" or "sissy". They'll literally tell me that they're attracted to "macho" guys who don't think too much and have little self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:19 PM
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I'd say the opposite is true. If someone say's they deserve love or access to a relationship then that's a positive freedom. Hierarchal views on other people is something that people who value negative freedom seem to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:08 PM
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Not exactly freeing tbh. All you're telling us is to participate in this screwed up society no matter how fucked up it is if we want to be loved or respected. How is that freeing or even supposed to motivate anyone? All this sounds like to me is a message to be a narcissist, which is why they seem to be so successful in our society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:06 PM
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"Wasting their youth being in relationships with average and below average men." You see this is where men and women differ (at least on here) in terms of how they think about their partners. Men past high school age largely do not care where their woman stands in the imagined hierarchy. Also how is it "wasting" your youth if you're not marrying these guys or having kids with them anyways? Is your idea of a successful youth as a woman just fucking what you think is "high value men"? Like is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:06 PM
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This is common sense but there is a soul. Consciousness is energy itself and we can't exactly explain why some organisms have more of it than others. Our brains are just tools to filter out information that's unnecessary for our survival. That being said there are definitely phenomena that happen that influence our behavior that are non tangible. Emotions and words aren't tangible but they transcend space and time. You can literally notice this with some women, a "shit test" is a woman trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:51 PM
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She can like my body and get turned on from it because it's from years of doing sports and martial arts. Also because it's the lifestyle I plan to keep up on stay consistent with so I'm not falling apart at 65 struggling to mow the lawn or shovel the driveway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah that criticism is honestly the biggest difference between FDS and TRP. I've seen threads on TRP basically saying you have 0 business complaining about your lack of women if you don't have a car, house, decent salary, a sense of style and fashion, and be in somewhat good shape. Meanwhile FDS thinks that they are simply owed a man with all of those traits without putting in a lick of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:38 PM
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"I want a guy who knows how to navigate my body and mind without me having to say a word and just read my mind." Followed by "A man that takes care of himself so I don't have to". Bro this thread is filled with women saying men don't bring anything to the table. Do women understand what they're even asking for here? What does the man get out of that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:14 PM
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The red pill very much used to be mainstream. A lot of what comedians joke about from 80s to roughly the 2000s is red pilled. Eddie Murphy, Chris Rock, Bernie Mac, Patrice O'Neal, even Seth McFarlane to an extent. Humor taps into the collective unconscious and it allows us to see laugh at things we've all "seen before but can't identify where it came from".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:59 PM
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