flicktastic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
44	Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens. Ryan and Blake are artfully cheeky and never insulting to each other. This is, at best, a weak misfire of emulation. At worst, it’s downright offensive and misogynistic. And I thought Guardians of the Galaxy was funny as a character, but that guy had gone to space as a child and had an excuse for being emotionally unaware and obtuse. This is gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 06:03 PM
135	Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you. Ok but I did think this was pretty funny, since I love to play chess and none of my friends or boyfriends have ever agreed to play with me 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:32 PM
233	Bachelor Party And Strip Clubs You’re also not in an immediate rush to think this over and decide how you want to handle it. I know that for me when i’m very ‘in my feelings’ it feels like it’s more important for me to take quick action than to worry about making the right decision. Think this through and know that you can trust yourself with the right decision. Give yourself as much time as you need to do what you want to do and don’t downplay or apologize for your feelings. You are important!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 09:28 PM
93	How to respond to Schrödinger’s Douchebag I like to say “Why do you say that?” in a very curious tone. Tone matters here, and they’ll either elaborate or they’ll change the subject. That’s when I say “What do you mean by that?” Because nobody can resist the student/teacher paradigm you create with those questions, especially a misogynist mansplainer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 05:20 AM
38	What with FDS women watching Fboy Island, it's time for a reminder from Lundy Bancroft about The Player: an abuser, not a sex addict One of them was in an active addiction cycle and lost that battle; another appeared to have succumbed to depression. The 3rd one was the host and she ended her life when she was notified that her domestic violence case would be going to trial (very sad mess of a situation that she was being accused of violence against her partner.) There was a great article written about the ethical responsibility of reality tv production featuring this show, and IIRC Real Housewives were also mentioned. Great r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 04:23 PM
3	Ain’t that the truth. Every time I caught my ex lying to me I got yelled at for not believing him. The second deflection was always ‘well I can’t even tell you these things because you get jealous! You need to stop being so insecure and you need to trust me.’ Every.time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 02:38 PM
24	She has his children and made her entire identity about him. Sad Part of our challenge in life is learning to assert our needs instead of going along to get along with men. So I agree that her husband should be proactively seeking ways to improve her daily quality of life, and I wonder if she feels secure enough to communicate with him like this situation requires. From what she’s saying, it sounds like she’s depressed and that would make beginning this conversation even scarier. I feel so blessed to have strong female friendships where we keep each other acc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 07:40 PM
27	Sexism in Medicine Doctors so often dismiss the female experience as it pertains to presenting or describing our symptoms. Doctors (both male and female) tend to ignore the fact that women have been conditioned since birth to downplay our own discomfort for the comfort of those around us, and therefore have conditioned ourselves to ‘grin & bear it’ despite excruciating pain/suffering. Not only do many of us suffer these medical symptoms that doctors will often dismiss/misdiagnose, it is political suicide in this c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 11:52 PM
7	Vintage queen shit. Girl u right	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 06:41 AM
22	Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not. It’s been so interesting to notice my perspective changing. From previously thinking that withholding sex until certain indicators and milestones are met is a box I refused to put myself into and thought it was rather backwards to change that behavior just to suit ‘the right kind of guy’, to nowadays seeing it sooo differently; it’s not about denying myself for the sake of being taken seriously, it’s about taking myself seriously enough that I’m withholding these freebies and making choices base…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 06:11 AM
56	Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not. I remember coming across a few posts whenever I first stumbled onto this and felt like some of the ideals and strategies were...intense. And some of them felt way overkill. But over time and with an evolving sense of esteem/standards, quite a bit now appears healthy and feels more natural in practice. I think it follows the same logic as personal boundaries. They feel awkward and scary at first but you get better at forming them, upholding them, and eventually you lose the feelings of guilt/sham…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 12:41 AM
16	In Memoriam The majority didn’t elect him the first time, and the majority won’t elect him this next time. Unfortunately by now a lot of us half expect him to steal the election again since we know he did it the first time but for some reason the Senate aborted the impeachment trial. I guess his followers only believe in one type of abortion in this country.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 06:36 AM
2	An apology two years later from the guy who secretly took photos of me in the shower WITHOUT my knowledge for an entire YEAR simply because I refused to send him nudes. Does his apology acknowledge that? Nope. Do we have the same ex?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 06:03 AM
23	Why can't men just like women for who they are? This realization has ruined a lot of friendships for me, which sucks because I'll normally be friends with a guy before I date him. Littterally going through this now. At least I have my dignity, grace, and self-respectful communication skills to be real at every step and if he can’t or won’t meet me on the ground level of standards, I guess I don’t need a fake friendship like that regardless of gender. Part of me honestly hopes I wake up tomorrow from this bad dream but we’ll find out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 05:44 AM
2	Look out girls.. I found a rare one! 🤔 My bad it’s been a while since I’ve been on Bumble 🤙🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 06:20 AM
2	Look out girls.. I found a rare one! 🤔 Hang on why is the yellow text the gentleman’s or am I misreading this?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 04:52 AM
22	Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to be Young lady, you did a brave thing today defending your friend! Be proud, stay mad, and always keep your cool like you did today. Your friend is blessed to have you, and I know it’s hard but continue to set the example that women 👏🏻shall👏🏻not👏🏻be👏🏻trifled👏🏻with👏🏻 anymore! 🖕🏻🖕🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/20 01:45 AM
15	So many times I blamed myself 😡 Truly the Empress of Darkness and I mean that with the utmost respect because I relate & appreciate ✌🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 05:08 AM
4	Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider you Great question, and that all came down to A) knowing that my needs were valid and B) recognizing that it wasn’t about blame, it was about compatibility. So I kept it high level and stuck to the overall narrative when he became agitated and snapped at me for expressing how I felt. For him to to try and make me feel like I was somehow wrong for having a negative reaction to his inconsiderate behavior all weekend was an obvious attempt at shutting down the conversation and frankly made it easier fo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/20 02:02 AM
29	Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider you I have been dating him for about 8 months and he is truly a nice, affectionate, loyal, smart, funny, very handsome guy. He treats me well but I’ve brought up a few times that I crave deep emotional & intellectual connection as much if not more than physical intimacy...we spent the past weekend together after a month apart with this quarantine, and things were pleasant but I had tried to open up some abstract conversations to reconnect on those levels, and it just wasn’t happening...cut to this m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/20 03:01 AM
16	Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider you Checking in, mine bit the dust today! Eggs were the straw that broke the camel’s back...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 11:58 PM
10	Logical > Emotional. Save Your Sanity. Not only this but be careful with this kind of manipulation, a 2nd degree acquaintance of mine was murdered by her ex boyfriend who (as it was discovered after this happened) had a history of domestic abuse in another state and hadn’t given any behavioral indication this girl needed to worry about her safety. He showed up at her retail job to speak to her saying he was going to kill himself if they were done, she said she’d come over and talk to him after her shift, and she was brutally murdered…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/19 10:38 PM