| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1346 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats! | DISCUSSION | flower-student | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:49 PM |
| 36 | good movie to watch during quarantine! forever girlfriend for 10 years dumped when she tries to force marriage vs reverting to her 17 y/o self | FDS MOVIES & TV | flower-student | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:59 AM |
| 27 | Straight from the horse’s mouth… 🐴 Do NOT lower yourselves! | LVM LOGIC | flower-student | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I want all the “FDS SHOULD STAY ON REDDIT” users to see exactly what they’re supporting. EXTREMELY NOT SAFE FOR LIFE.What have you done to my eyes I need bleach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/22 05:59 AM |
| 10 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfIt is definitely a sign that you’re doing something right! I would be wary of men that use simp in their vocabulary but wouldn’t avoid them. I have mixed feelings about this haha My bf would call his friend a simp, (I think jokingly???), but he himself is a relationship type of guy. When he met me, he kept calling himself a simp bc of how he still stuck around me while I was being cold to him and whatnot (he addressed this with me LOL) I’ve noticed with my guy friends that they would be enamored… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 10 | What if I am roster dating and a man asks me to be exclusive before I'm comfortable cutting off all my other options, but I also like him?Oh no, it’s fine! I just wanted to share, but I relate to your feelings of a guy seeing multiple girls, since guys are the ones courting you and not the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, let's stop texting guys paragraphs when we're upset/angry with themHmm, I’m the opposite. When I’m angry, I go on ghost mode. They’re the ones that send me paragraphs. The rare rare rareee occasion I need to type things out, I do it in my notes. And I never send it. I just read it to myself over and over, editing it if I need to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 25 | 10 Vetting Questions for Your First DateHaha if he likes cats, he’ll like me: aloof, likes to be pampered, and wants attention once in a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 37 | What if I am roster dating and a man asks me to be exclusive before I'm comfortable cutting off all my other options, but I also like him?My bf asked, “can we talk? About us? What are we? What are you looking for?” on date 3. This was two weeks after the first date. He brought it up again around week 4, about how he really liked me and how he hasn’t felt this way in a long time. Then I told him that I liked him and even though I didn’t have commitment issues, that I was scared to commit to the wrong person. He accepted that. A week or two later, he wasn’t available on a certain day that I was going to be out anyways with friends, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 24 | What if I am roster dating and a man asks me to be exclusive before I'm comfortable cutting off all my other options, but I also like him?My current boyfriend knew I was seeing multiple men before we became exclusive but he was only seeing me. I told him he could see other people since we were not exclusive, (and frankly I didn’t want to be exclusive. 😂) Finally committed to him after he proved that he was worth to stop seeing other men. Also, he kept asking me out so I wouldn’t have time to accept other dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.Woozi, Yoseob, and Jimin are not cute at all 😭 Short and kinda ugly face. Most K-Pop guys are tall, but you’re right that there are quite a few short ones, (who boost their height with insoles). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.I’ve seen this too. One of my neighbors is a nice, but plus-sized woman and she’s married to a gorgeous tall, fit policeman. I couldn’t tell the difference between when she was and wasn’t pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Men and skincareI think the demographics of the men in relation to skincare matters because some of the guys I’ve met do have good skincare routines. But of course, there’s an overwhelmingly good amount of guys that don’t care. Mid-twenties, unemployed with two pets, but had a small collection of expensive skincare including Drunk Elephant (which I heard is overrated?). Mid-twenties, engineer, with basic male skincare (like Bulldog age defense serum). Two types of cleanser to choose between: lemon or aloe vera.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingHmm, this makes me wonder if I should give out my real number and do the same thing to them. I give out a voice number so my messages are green instead of blue messages on their end, as well as no option for no read receipts being shown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.oh I see! 🙂 ty for your input! 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.money makes the world go round 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.what about study abroad?? esp if financial aid won’t cover that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 6 | PSA Their new tricks (to get us to chase them) + Discussion (time policy)say “a shopping spree at gucci” 🥺💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeReminds me of “Big Red.” :( I felt her frustration hearing her argue with MRA’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:11 AM |
| 5 | LVM with degree is upset than his girlfriend makes more than him as a Waitresshe can quit his job to become a waiter then? scratches head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:08 AM |
| 21 | Making yourself sexually accessible to scrotes who know they won’t have to anything and still they’ll get laid. Ahh sound advice from queen pickmeishasounds like satire ??? 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:54 AM |
| 6 | Men don’t like to be held accountable for their actions. And then when they are called out for it, they try and separate themselves as “men” and “boys”. It needs to stop.the crying would’ve been another reason to abort LOL. like yup, weak genes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:49 AM |
| 22 | Highlight is 20/20, but once you commit to FDS you have the tools, support, and information you need to learn better to do better. You walk away at the first hint of disrespect and/or entitlement now. But, you'll never forget the pain of learning firsthand how entitled men are. Remain observant...I mean Tom, it’s hard to cheat when no one wants you sooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:44 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!I just want money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:41 AM |
| 20 | Being called a gold diggermy ex worked while I was in school and he still asked to split bc even though I don’t work, he said I go to school for free. I tried to make it easy for him and tell him I wanted to get matching charms (that were right in front of us) and he just awkwardly backed away. in that moment I knew it would end so that night I got back I just downloaded dating apps, ghosted him and went on a date two days later lol then a week later he texts me a long essay about how his feelings were hurt and that he c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:43 AM |
| 22 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY raceI always saw it as being with a white woman gives you social status. They like what they gain from you, but not actually you as a person. And I agree with being assumed to be more sexually open. Never thought submissive is what they think though! 😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:31 AM |
| 19 | I just-I recommend You Suck At Cooking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 54 | Another trash Tinder profileYoga boys are annoying. NAMASTE. 🙏 open minded can be good though. buy me stuff! coach! gucci! fly me to france! japan! argentina! so many options! don’t be stingy, I thought you were open minded… live life, you can’t hoard your money forever >;( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 4 | What? Should I ask him if he can take me on his bike to a field he knows? The low effort I swear, this was his SECOND message to me!omg donorcycles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | A great way to advertise yourself online, talk about how you never wash your nasty towelsHE’S SO UGLY LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 29 | LolSoon to be ex, which I keep reading as Starbucks! ☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:59 PM |
| 8 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.A girl a few grades down from me got her nudes leaked by another girl she was “friends” with. I heard they both got charged with child pornography. Not sure if true, but imagine being charged for having your nudes leaked? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Cracks me up EVERY time.Yeah, it's refreshing to see "metrosexuals" lol. I think it would greatly benefit anybody to fill in their eyebrows. Instead, even skincare is perceived as feminine, when it's just basic self care. That is a turn off, when they don't even wear sunscreen in the winter. I might even say they are worse because of corrupt law, such as with the Burning Sun Club scandal. Police there beat up the victim even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Cracks me up EVERY time.I sure hope they're lying because I'm not sure if half of your hair turning white is supposed to be common in your early thirties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Cracks me up EVERY time.I chant "old", "ugly", "fat", and "balding", depending on which is the biggest reason for swiping left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Cracks me up EVERY time.omg you got to film with Kai??? Was there a casting for it? so lucky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"my thoughts exactly seems to be a boy she’s exclusive with so she wants to give second chances lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:02 AM |
| 17 | Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing.And the difference in intelligence was evident from the way each held conversation too 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:56 AM |
| 4 | About a month ago I posted about a first date where the guy insisted that I pay for myself. This weekend I went on one of the most extravagantly lovely dates I've ever had with another manhow do you find the rich ones? 😂👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:36 AM |
| 39 | Gross old guy feels entitled to using a variety of young women’s bodies for sex and reacts violently when ask why any woman would ever enjoy this.A man without his manhood! omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:30 AM |
| 181 | That feeling when indigenous cultures have more of a sense of gender equality than men in developed societies could ever comprehend....lol those few seconds of tugging still will never compare to the entire term of pregnancy kinda like those pregnancy stimulators men can try to experience contractions but they always cry out for them to stop, never having had the knob turned up all the way smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 209 | That feeling when indigenous cultures have more of a sense of gender equality than men in developed societies could ever comprehend....Oh god, reading this made me imagine going through 9 months of pregnancy, having to deal with contractions, worsening eyesight (could happen!), pain to walk (esp if carrying triplets), morning sickness, stretch marks, and the pain of giving birth itself, and recovery post-birth (even longer if via C-section), just to have the dad not help out or act like a father. That is so sad. Doing that to your body just to have a child with a deadbeat dad. What if the child turns out bad and gives you a har… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Straight from the horse’s mouth… 🐴 Do NOT lower yourselves!Oh, okay ty for letting me know! I didn’t realize 😮👍 There’s a lot, so sometimes I don’t see everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:35 AM |
| 30 | Today I exposed a disgusting man to his girlfriendFoot fetish guys come up with the most creative lies to get their hands on such pics. This guy told me to send him feet pics so he could do a reading for me. Told him I wanted a hand reading instead, but he said he didn’t do those anymore because he read one that was bad luck once. Said that good fortune was guaranteed in a foot reading. 😂 Don’t understand why they can’t just Google. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:20 PM |
| 25 | Please don’t stop posting screenshots of your messages for both good and bad experiences. They are so helpful and I learn a lot from them and the comments!!Yes, I agree! It’ll help with the thoughts of, “Maybe it’s just me…” or “Maybe I’m making a bigger deal of this than it is…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 36 | Three hours between these messages... that mask came off QUICKShows how much they check Tinder a day. And how their phone is dry. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 42 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡It’s the latter, he never gifted her anything. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 170 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡Scene: “I’m nOT gOoD At giFTs,” he says after you tell him your love language. However, later into the relationship, he’s still expecting something nice for his birthdays/holidays. Meanwhile, for your birthday, he gets you whatever the fuck this thing is and you pretend to be happy. 🤡😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 9 | When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime.Picasso was a misogynist and several of his artworks depicted rape. Such as his “Minotaur Kneeling Over a Sleeping Woman.” A much more obvious one is, “The Rape of the Sabine Women.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Man moves to another country but doesn't bother to study the language, because he thinks he can "find a girlfriend to teach him"omg I’m guessing it’s “This is an apple” I saw a chart with all the words that ended in pig, like porcupine, capybara… seems so doable! I get turned off too, with guys that ONLY speak english. Esp if they are of the same ethnic background as me. (More and more people are becoming trilingual there, and almost everyone is bilingual.) Like you never took the time to self study another language??? One guy even asked me where I learned the language, and I was like, “At home?? my parents?? TF??” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Which one of you Queens was this?how long did that “date” last? I would’ve been furious to this day over the entire time it took to get ready, arrive there, AND listen to him talk 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:48 AM |
| 26 | Turn down for what?Sis is THRIVING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:02 AM |
| 6 | If i could pass any knowledge for future generations is this. Lowering your standards is never worth it.it sucks that she got hate for saying this :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:39 AM |
| 30 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMLOL, it’s like all they do. I’ve heard from one guy that weed turns him into a plant, and all he does afterwards is just sit there for hours doing nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:43 AM |
| 24 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMIt’s a yellow/red flag because chances are, they might be someone that smokes daily and what he’s looking for is someone to smoke together with while lying in his dirty bed for hours and later order in cheap takeout after hooking up. That’s just speaking from the low effort I’ve personally seen. I don’t smoke, so 420 signs are something that make me go NOPE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:42 AM |
| 18 | Dont ever settle for guys that aren’t proud to show you off🤦🏽♀️Had exes ask if they were a secret because I never posted them. They didn’t post me, so obviously I wouldn’t either. The audacity. Back then I responded and comforted them by saying no, my parents knew. 🤡🤮 Should’ve just said “Yeah.” and be done with that. Was trying to avoid hurting their feelz 🤡💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 16 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn.nah, this lady participates in adultery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 5 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?fuck I hate that quote so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?only guy I know who was a philosophy major was a hot super tall prof I had can attest though to avoid he’s in mid thirties while still doing a phd… don’t seem successful when he’s still renting with roommates 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Pure GOLD StrategyI actually used to not get these jokes until started watching The Office… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Is this a red flag: A guy who shows a lot of interest.I can relate; I’ve had this fear too what if I get too attached bc of how nice he is and he ends up dumping you what if this nice behavior stops once he gets what he wants it’s not a red flag but nothing’s a definite sign here :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 7 | TedxTalk spreading Pickmeisha Finance “Theory”They let any willing person come and do a TedxTalk 😂 notice the extra “x”! Ted Talks are more professional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | My friend, killinnnnnn me over herethat poor kitty 🥺 but yeah I relate, my friend needs her old man bf until quarantine ends literally told me over ft that she rather be in a toxic relationship than be alone rn :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | My friend, killinnnnnn me over hereyou gotta let her humiliate herself to get her act straight unfortunately 😔 my friend’s a pick me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:20 AM |
| 9 | Anybody notice how men who fear "gold diggers" usually don't have any gold to dig?LOLOL like “I’m an entrepreneur” ? 👶🏻🧠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Anybody notice how men who fear "gold diggers" usually don't have any gold to dig?auto rejection they already know the outcome anyways so they might as well be hateful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:05 AM |
| 16 | What the actual...DelusionalLMAOAOAO couldn’t put thoughts into words until I saw this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:01 AM |
| 7 | What the actual...Delusionalwell, by the law of supply and demand… demand for this thing should be 0 here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:59 AM |
| 41 | Reminder to not do hookups because it just isn’t fucking worth itespecially when there’s a risk of meeting a guy who refuses to use condoms or won’t wash beforehand 🤢 or even LIED about his size/height 🤥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | good movie to watch during quarantine! forever girlfriend for 10 years dumped when she tries to force marriage vs reverting to her 17 y/o selfnp! glad you liked it! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | FDS TV MOVIES & BOOKS MEGATHREADSuddenly Seventeen is a good movie in my opinion that provides the insight of a forever girlfriend that seems to be living a good life, until 10 years later when she tries to push her high school sweetheart into proposing to her, resulting into a breakup instead. She ends up battling with who she used to be, a young teen who was more intolerant of bad behavior versus the mommy/plaything/housekeeper she became over the years. It's on YouTube! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:07 AM |
| 21 | good movie to watch during quarantine! forever girlfriend for 10 years dumped when she tries to force marriage vs reverting to her 17 y/o selfIt seems I may have should've posted in the megathread instead. Apologies if that's the case and I should remove post :c basically it’s very FDS: spoiler kinda - forever gf gave up her dream and future plans that she had in hs - younger version of herself is disappointed of who she became and how she ended up with this lame old guy (who’s 6 years older 🤣) according to her standards - CEO bf said their life felt boring and was a routine, even though she tried to be the perfect dream spouse; she w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:02 AM |
| 37 | #JustLVMThingsIs this common??? I’ve had a few casual encounters, and even then, those men always offered to feed me beforehand or after. 🤯 Men who won’t pay stay strictly f r i e n d s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 40 | UNO reverse: Make THEM the pickmeishasI used to reply to everyone back on OLD simply because I was bored. I like texting. But then the conversations became bland, and exams came up… I ended up ghosting many men. I now have enough dating experience to lack energy for LVM and be content with a dry phone. 😂🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:44 AM |
| 15 | I'm a massive Pickmeisha, so I broke up with my boyfriend today.Yeah, that’s the oof for me. He showed her who he was since the beginning. And by improving his image, she’s potentially attracting more women to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Does he only want me for sex?LOL I don’t even know if it’s on purpose; maybe ask him 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Does he only want me for sex?Reddit’s comment formatting ruins it, look at the picture and see the shape his texts make | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 06:21 AM |
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