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Ask Red Pillflowfall/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 04:48 AM
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Part 2 Women? Be calm and comfortable, don't think, be engaged in the present moment with them. What you say matters little compared to the feeling and vibe behind it. (You don't remember what you talk about when you remember great interactions, you remember how they made you feel/their attitude.) It doesn't take long for them to get comfortable with you, it can be seconds for some, minutes or a couple of hours for others, and it'll get easier. Once they are, start testing physical boundaries. M…
/r/seduction23/09/16 04:42 PM
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Part 1 Hey dude, you're fighting yourself way too much from what I can gather. Look closely at your day to day thoughts and how you relate to them and you'll probably find that you take them quite seriously, and when a thought or feeling that you feel is bad or you shouldn't have pops up you think more and more "bad"/"negative" things about it. These things compound and just make you feel worse and worse in this negative feedback loop. The issue is, these are all JUST thoughts. When you judge yo…
/r/seduction23/09/16 04:42 PM
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If she likes you she's down for most things that would involve spending time with you. Personally I hate crutches, and I don't adhere to the norm just because it's the norm. I'll enjoy drinking from time to time, and weed quite a bit, but I've started making it a point to get past the physical barrier before we get intoxicated, not while we are. If you already know through experience that you can get through everything sober, then feel free to do whatever you like. It also happens I'm way smooth…
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:52 PM
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Deep conversations are nowhere nearly as important as your vibe/mental state/energy. Your inspiring coworker has a playful/somewhat sexual feel about him which draws people because it's fun. Deep conversations tend to be more serious, AKA opposite of fun. You have to learn how to balance the 2. It doesn't matter if your coworker seems to be giving you IOIs or whatever, you're some quiet dude who doesn't make a move and seems to be trying to be her friend by getting to know her and not making you…
/r/seduction13/08/16 11:09 AM
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Word, as long as the proportions fit what you're into and the curves are right a women can be attractive at any height.
/r/seduction13/07/16 03:33 AM
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Models, I think every one knows about at this point. Rapid Escalation by Liam McRae Currently reading the second one, The ideas aren't new, I've heard The Sex God Method and 60 Days of Challenge cited as similar in approach. Heavy on touch/escalation and direct game. For me it's been a journey of learning to accept myself and be comfortable with myself on every level, even when I'm not feeling like hot shit, and not letting that get in the way of interacting honestly with people. The first book …
/r/seduction12/07/16 04:11 AM
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Tl;Dr: Cut the clutter out and get to the point, you don't want women, you don't want a relationship, you want the way they make you feel. These emotions arise in you, and from you, based on how you see things, change how you see and you change how you feel. While it's true that sleeping with a lot of women doesn't inherently make you happy, you can do your part to make it as enjoyable and as fulfilling as possible. Don't get drunk. Actually go for quality girls you enjoy your time with. If you …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:18 PM
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Listen to the black phillip show if you haven't already. And give it time. At some point you'll get tired of being sad, something will click and you'll find a way to make the best of what you understand of the world so far. Then you compromise between what you thought you wanted but might not be possible, and the freedom and possibilities in this new perspective. Shit doesn't always go the way you plan man. This is just a fact of life, you haven't actually lost anything, you've just come to the …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 02:56 PM
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TL;DR: Living in your head is what you do when you're endlessly judging, talking to yourself, planning, and reminiscing in your head, like you do naturally without control most of the time. Meditation involves none of that. Living in the moment is paying attention to what you're sensing/experiencing, without all that other stuff. You train your body, you learn things, but when do you really train your mind and how you use it? I'm gonna take a shot at offering a clearer explanation. Meditation is…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:02 PM
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Sometimes people are born to very flawed people. That can make it impossible to hold a healthy relationship when such people require that things always be their way. In this case it raises a red flag for the family, not the GF. You can have an appreciation for those that raised and provided for you, it would be a red flag if you didn't, but if they also happen to be as the OP describes, then it's understandable to be unable to get along with them. If she doesn't get along it's because she doesn'…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 03:49 PM
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For the time being tell her to get a bike/find another form of transportation so she's less dependent on them, she should already be finding productive things to occupy her time with. On the bright side august isn't too far away. As for you, you have to practice keeping your emotions/thoughts under control. I personally preach stoicism/meditation/mindfulness, since they benefit your life in general, and make things, like losing your head, less likely and eventually highly improbable. Ignoring it…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 03:36 PM
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Alright, why exactly is it that you have to love some people just because they have some blood relation to you? That's an antiquated, purely traditional, and sometimes even detrimental belief. Personally I believe family is a title that is earned, not given. A close friend of mine who accepts, understands, and is there for me is more family to me than a direct relative that refuses to accept, understand or be there for me. Why would you have lower standards for family than you do for friends? Co…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 02:43 PM
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Yikes. I feel for ya. Go take up something more worthwhile than worrying about them, Don't go on facebook/delete them/hide their posts, and chill out. Your anger doesn't help the situation, so focus your mental energies on something that will actually help you. And honestly, if you and your GF both feel the same away about these people then you should work together to figure out ways of avoiding/cutting at least the friend off. You're letting the family control how you guys feel. Ignore em, agre…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 01:18 PM
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Been there. Red flag if she was making excuses/never wanted to go anywhere private. On the other hand as a male you take on the dominant role in the interaction, you decide where/when, did you push for private meetings? You don't have to be in a private location to escalate physically, You can stop at light petting/kissing, pull her into secluded places and go farther. TL,DR; You make the opportunities. As far as I can see your problem was lack of escalation, everything else after that makes its…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 03:48 AM
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You haven't really provided info as to why you argue, and if anything's changed in the last 3 months. Do you feel you guys run out of things to say?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 01:16 AM
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To add on to this, did you escalate at all? My understanding is you only ever become an orbiter/time ho/get strung along if you let it happen by displaying you're okay with never getting sexual. If she's reluctant or not interested in anything more than a friendship it would have been made obvious after you clearly displayed your sexual interest with action. It makes sense for her to lose interest if you invest 2 months into her and don't get anywhere sexually like she might want you to. What di…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 12:29 AM
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People are far less likely to give a fuck about anything if you don't. Get your priorities straight, you always come first. That means school, work, sleep, the gym, food, friends, all the things that contribute and help YOU are more important. Once you learn to focus on yourself you'll notice you don't really have time to think about girls or negativity as much because there's no time or mental space for it. Start viewing girls as people first, females second. Develop a genuine interest for her …
/r/askTRP25/03/14 02:41 AM
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*ah, Now I understand. Excuse the jumped gun. * In that case treat her like you would any other girl, you made changes, saw results, if it ain't broke don't fix it. She's still practice though, they all are.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 09:03 PM
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LOL 3 women. You've decided she's the one, she's better than everyone after 3 WOMEN? If you were to switch around the situation, and you were seriously unattracted to her , while she was really attracted to you, always showed it despite you never reciprocating and won't stop. Wouldn't you be uncomfortable, or rather hurt that your friend is being weird. You care about them and don't want to see them go but you can't give them what they want. She's another human being, she made her decision a whi…
/r/askTRP30/01/14 12:35 PM
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I think you're mixing up life/having your shit together with game. That guy? Doesn't have his shit together, but he has game, results speak for themselves, You won't recognize what it is about him until you've experienced it first hand. It's simple really, game, and TRP comes down to a few points; 1a. Don't put women on a pedestal. This can never be emphasized enough, overvaluing women causes you to be a pushover, shows insecurity, and causes the lack of women one might have in their life. This …
/r/askTRP31/10/13 05:12 AM
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I'd be honest with a straight up no, and laugh about how silly a question that is. She takes it or she leaves it. Personally I like to be decisive+ assholishly blunt.
/r/askTRP10/10/13 11:30 AM
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No flow charts, that's too rigid. You have to learn how to have natural conversations which takes 2 things, confidence, and practice. This ends up influencing and improving your entire life. But if you want to simplify it, when it comes to new women, it can be as simple as; Eye Contact, if you have this before you approach even better, you can tell a girl is attracted to you by pre-approach eye contact, either way once you're in, maintain it. Smile, duh. Try to make it more of a smirk/grin/sexy …
/r/askTRP05/10/13 06:21 AM
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Sounds like you have more to worry about than women. If you''re unhappy with your job or life, change it. Stop using up your valuable free time on women and use it to figure out what you want to do, and after you've done that make a plan to do that. Become a man on a mission, and put everything else aside. Don't measure your progress in life by how well you compete with others, set your own standards. If you're truly cool with your job and staying at home, then go on doing just that. What window…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:30 AM
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It's you. Most women don't get sexually frustrated since they can easily get some and its not too hard to find a decent man. These guys aren't super alphas, they dont actually have world class athlete's bodies or godly facial features. Game trumps all, if the average man, being beta, can get laid in college, but you, approaching hundreds in a short period of time, cant even get a kiss? And you know about the manosphere/seduction community? You're doing it wrong. You're not going your own way for…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 11:29 PM
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I am making a move, I'm just simply not expecting much to happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 05:07 AM
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There is too much I have to say about this lol. I believe there's nothing that can really be "done" about it, either it's there or it's not. I'd take said girl out, have a great time, escalate slowly and see how it goes from there, this way you can gauge how attracted she is to you. I'm making it a point to never be in the friend zone again. If you want something more than a friendship with a girl, don't be friends with her, it's all or nothing for the sake of sanity. I'd stop being so invested …
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:36 PM
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Not necessarily my style but I can't upvote it enough for being one of the few others to actually suggest more kino. :)
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:58 PM
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In my very limited experience, once you're kissing it's all smooth sailing from there, you escalate kino, engaging her body in the kiss not just her lips, touching, and groping. Particularly caressing just above the knee, slowly gliding your fingertips upwards closer and closer to the vagina, until you're barely a centimeter away. The anticipation should get them incredibly aroused/wet. Pushing your hips together so she can feel the erection helps as well. Now mind you I've been an armchair PuA …
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:23 PM
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All humans, including their logic and perspective at any given time are fallible. Our views and perspectives are always narrow and limited compared to everything, we are incapable of grasping the entire picture. Given this, there is no truth, only theory, and theory by the most commonly used definition, is a widely agreed upon observation, based on the observations, i.e. experiences of many. Red Pill Theory is not invalid because it's yet to be widely and unanimously disproven. All theories are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/13 10:24 PM
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