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This makes me feel a bit more optimistic… I’ve been putting off someone who’s 5/6 years younger than me and serious because I feared the change of heart that might come later. I also look way younger than my advanced age of nearly 41. People guess 25-28, lol). He looks much older than 35. I actually thought he was my age initially, and he thought I was younger than him. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:13 AM
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I’m 40 but look 25-28. look young. I recently went to hospital and the Drs kept double checking my birth year and commenting that I did not look like I matched my DOB. Anyway, I have dated men 12 years younger, and one was keen on marriage but also wanted children and I’m too old for that. I’ve noticed it’s men a good decade younger who approach me in public. There’s someone in my life who is a good 6 years younger than me, who really wants to date me. I’m hesitant even though he’s great, just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:03 AM
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It’s down to attachment styles, not “women”. Women tend to lean anxious, men avoidant. You want a securely attached woman but by playing games you’re attracting anxiously attached women. Thats why they feel inauthentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:55 AM
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Really? That’s odd. In the UK it happens roughly like this: Women were contributors to the household, working in partnership with their husband. The husband would harvest the raw materials (wheat, wool etc). The wife would turn these into flour or bread, yarn or woven fabrics and clothes. These were things women could do as a collective while minding each others children. When the industrial era hit, these jobs were moved to factories, which didn’t allow women to work in them. So very quickly wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:04 AM
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https://youtu.be/yzFxWotvoQU?si=lHkevJj1pClfLlDq This was a good explanation of why the red pill is rubbish and bad for men. You’re only 18 and incredibly young. Move on from these people and find others who value you. I dated a red pilled man and it was the most miserable relationship I’ve ever had. I’m convinced he had a personality disorder and the red pill enabled him. Move on.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 08:59 AM
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Look up attachment theory. I don't want kids but I still like to connect with people.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:53 PM
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Seems just like an avoidant attachment style to me...
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 01:53 PM
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Well done for stepping outside of TRP. I've watched my ex implode socially because of TRP. He has a bad reputation and it's getting worse, and not just with women. Men see him treat women like dirt, eg, refusing to interact with them as equals because he is 'holding frame' along with the usual TRP seduction behaviour people observe. I've also seen women be drawn to him, because he is very attractive, and then back off. He's seen as a total d*ck these days. I see male friends actively warn other …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 06:55 AM
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This. Yes. They're bitchy, whiny and feminine. My ex would act like such a weak man. Eg, walk into my house and say, 'Its cold AF!!! Naw i ain't taking my coat off.' and he would sit there in his big coat while I fussed about putting the heating on and making a hot drink. All the time feeling slightly less attracted to him.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 06:54 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 08:03 AM
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I can't remember exactly because I only just noticed. It was to do with the Roe v Wade abortion stuff. He posted something from someone else that was wrong and I said why it wasn't correct.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 07:57 AM
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Because they see sex through men's eyes and then apply that to women. Women don't have the same need and drive for sex. We don't. So when the weird creepy man follows me home from the shop and starts asking if I want to fuck, it's just creepy and gross. But in these guys minds, if a woman followed them and shouted for sex, they'd go for it. It's the same logic that makes men expose themselves to unsuspecting women on the street or send dick pics. My red pilled ex believed women enjoyed being rap…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:20 PM
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Excellent points
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:14 PM
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My ex was Muslim and red pilled. His RP beliefs aligned perfectly.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 04:27 PM
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It's a small subsection. It would be like rationalising that abusive men are the majority of men. They're not.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:59 PM
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First - I'm sorry you went through all this. And I'm happy you came out the other side and got away from those men. I had my own experience with a RP man and it was, like you say, dating a child. Second - And so with that, I'd conclude TRP itself makes you weak. It makes men obsessive about women and unable to actually mature and be adults. I think men with an avoidant attachment style embrace TRP, so they already have a degree of avoidance when it comes to certain emotions that make them vulner…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:48 PM
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Even 30 year old men...
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 06:47 PM
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I think what you mean is "some narcissistic, manipulative women" not just "women". TRP generalises behaviour by some genuinely horribly women to all women. As a woman, I can assure you my life goal isn't to destroy by body and career with a baby in order to 'land a millionaire'.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 06:39 PM
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My ex was like this but tried so hard to be alpha without understanding what alpha actually is. He destroyed the relationship. I was hoping he would self reflect but he has warned the new person I'm seeing (who is the polar opposite of him and a great communicator), that I'm "crazy" :/
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 09:50 AM
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I agree with all your points. The parallels with extreme feminism are glaring and I think they both feed into each other in en endless cycle. And the last point is a contradiction that I see and ponder over as well. RP men are just simping about. They obsess over women and how to get them. They leave the character development stuff behind.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 03:19 PM
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I agree. Particularly to your last point. And I don't feel it's being taken seriously enough...
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 03:14 PM
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TLDR - but the last paragraph: Sorry dude, women owe you nothing. Being nice on a date doesn't mean a girl owes you anything. I notice that your reasons for rejection focus entirely on the woman, putting it completely out of your control. That's not a good idea. Perhaps you either need to work on your personality and assess whether you're interesting and what you actually bring to the table. Perhaps these women can sense you just want sex and feel uneasy? Or if you're looking for a relationship,…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 08:12 PM
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I've been hearing stories of my ex using his red pill tactics on other random women and it's not going down too well. Obviously I'm just laughing inside (while also feeling a little sad). He was a bit red pilled I think when we first started dating but became more extreme over the relationship. Since we broke up my ex has tried it on with a few people I know or friends of friends and is getting shouted at and rejected all over the place. It seems he approaches them and negs them until they call …
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:55 PM
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This.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:52 PM
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Well yes, people like Rollo have distorted it completely. It's not really red pill, it's just misogyny. It should be about having a growth mindset and bettering yourself. I just use 'red pill' a lot when talking about these misogynists because it's easier. But you're right, it's not really red pill.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:47 AM
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This. Exactly this. They speak from hate. The guy I dated, it was so draining. He was so insecure and miserable. Maybe a bit of a narcissist. I was like "Can you just see some love in the world...?" He just came from a place of hatred and disdain for everything. Draining. Imagine going through life like that.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:40 AM
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I've read parts of your book when you shared it. It's good!! I will get a copy and slip into my ex's back pack one day. I had to leave him cos he got sucked in. It just became abusive. The weird thing is, when I called him out on being red pilled he was like "😳😳😳😳 HoW dId YoU KNoW???!" Like it was some secret society and not plastered all over the internet and YouTube.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:36 AM
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But they also want an experienced virgin... A virgin wh*re 🥴
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:35 AM
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Perhaps a small subset of women may act in a way the red pill describes. The red pill creates a hypothesis and then looks for evidence to fit it. And that's what you're doing. If you dig into the theories they put forward about hypergamy and "party years" and bad boys, it's all incorrect. It seems they're describing women with a personality disorder or an insecure attachment style. I'm not going to change your mind. That's on you. Read non-biased material. The female brain and the male brain by …
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:23 AM
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Similarly, if you're an attractive girl and not bubbly and friendly to everyone, people brand you a bitch. I'm shy and introverted, and it's taken years to work on how I come across. I also don't agree with this idea that women overwhelmed by dating offers. I was going a year at a time with sex because I need a proper connection, as do most women. I'm also very shy and have specific interests. Online dating doesn't do it for me. I'm not up for casual sex, it feels meaningless and horrible. And t…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah, it's because the whole of TRP is based around a tiny portion of women. They then try and retro fit evolutionary theories, with laughable results and loop holes. If their theory was correct, it would be implying that societal changes over a couple of generations have impacted on women's evolutionary behaviour. Evolutionary changes take millennia to become baked into the human psyche. Whenever I read any red pill stuff, I just think it sounds like the dumb man's version of being smart.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 01:34 PM
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When red pill or black pilled men claim it isn't misogyny...
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 03:23 PM
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Thanks, yeah. He tried to implement a new rule: no use of my phone in his presence because it meant not giving him my full attention. Another time he took me somewhere when I should have been working. He told me to bring my laptop and I did. But when I got my laptop out to work, he threw a sulk and then feigned a headache (LOL). I was working for 15 mins on something urgent, that was all, in the whole afternoon. The whole afternoon where he negged me half the time until I got upset. There was a …
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 10:31 AM
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I think so. It's likely to show me how desirable he is. And also a bit of pay back. I was reluctant to end it because I predicted he would do things to hurt me after, rather than accepting it. We share a hobby so I see him every week. I told him before to publicly share his views on women and see how it resonates with our social group. But he doesn't, so deep down he knows. I remember noticing how nervous he would get sometimes when it was just the two of us. Like, he would have to put music on,…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 10:24 AM
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Oh well, he's both. He would sit there repeating, 'Nice guys come last!' Which I would challenge. Even sending him scientific research showing women like men who are assertive but kind. I think he got hurt when he was younger. From piecing things together, think he got dumped when he was doing his exams and had to re-sit his final year of school. Rather than focus on improving himself in terms of having boundaries and being able to compartmentalise so things like this don't have such a big impac…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 10:13 AM
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He is religious, yeah. Strict muslim and felt red pill aligned well with islamic ideas about women to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 09:21 PM
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So, he's flirting with anyone and anything in my presence. Like to an insane level. Flirting with girls he isn't attracted to, flirting with my friends, squirrels, whatever. We are in the same social group, so I see him a lot. After we ended it, he was nice. Invited me to go out one evening for a bit, so we could talk. But then turned on me part of the way through the night, demanding I apologise for showing disrespect (I blocked him when he stonewalled me, which led to us ending it) and making …
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 09:13 PM
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My ex was very attractive but super insecure. He felt he had to use red pill tactics to control me rather than being secure enough in himself to believe I would stay with him. When I did nice things, like cook a meal or give him a gift, he would think it was a manipulation tactic. I tried and tried, and then gave up. He started applying dread all the time and when I reacted, he did the silent treatment. So I blocked him and that was it. He turned up at mine eventually to talk but continued tryin…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 09:06 PM
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I had to get out of mine. We were together over a year and he started doing RP tactics - eg Dread on me for no fucking reason. Saying I couldn't wear certain outfits if he wasn't with me. Stonewalling me if I disagreed with him on something. I learned he was getting into the red pill. We broke up a few months ago and he's still trying to hurt me.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 03:03 PM
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I'm guessing Rollo Tomassi. The guy is a such a loser.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:46 PM
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Hahahhahahahhajajjajwjjwjajrjr7g9veog s ihs ha ky lyf lulu z gzihahhhahahahah "Even when not dressed well..."
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 10:06 PM
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Oh god. This. I remember saying "Each time you upset me, I become less attracted to you." It didn't sink in until I blocked him.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 10:04 PM
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Toxic. I gave up. He was literally trying out tactics he was reading about, I swear. Towards the end I cried nearly each time we hung out. He tried dread gaming me a lot, tried to control what I wore and who I spent time with. It didn't start out like this but it got like this over time. My friends just said he was an abusive asshole but I eventually got it out of him that he was deep into the red pill. The negatives began to outweigh the positives and I realised I was on edge around him. He see…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 09:56 PM
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What's peacocking???
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 10:53 PM
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I've been dealing with this. All the stuff you mention after binging on RP. Exactly the same. Apart from emailing a friend's pregnant girlfriend. I recently blocked him because he thought after a year and half together, now would be a good time to dread game me.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 08:06 AM
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Ok. This is something men need to understand: women are not programmed like men. We can't have sex at the drop of a hat. On the whole, we want a connection and someone we find attractive. It takes more to turn us on and get us in the mood - and that makes sense from an evolutionary pov. We bear the cost of sex way more than a guy so it makes sense we are wired to want sex with mates who have long term potential. Getting hit on and getting DMs that just say "Hi" and nothing else does not get us e…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:58 AM
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https://youtu.be/mxSPmoOVZNY
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:51 AM
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Oh, this sounds like my BF before and after RP *holds head in hands*
/r/ExRedPill01/03/22 02:57 PM
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The thing is with conspiracy theories (which is what the red pill is), is they're founded on a teeny bit of truth. But then that truth is inflated, misunderstood and poor "science" is used to support it. I studied psychology and evolutionary psychology, the stuff red pill gurus like Rollo whatever his name is trot out is utter utter bs, biased and distorted. I'd recommended reading books by actual experts, not people who misuse terms like Hypergamy (which applies to both sexes, not women and ove…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 09:37 AM
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All my Eastern European female friends who moved to the UK bitch about the men in their home countries and actively avoid dating anyone from Eastern Europe.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 08:56 AM
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Thanks for your balanced response. I told him this week that he was being controlling at the weekend and it stopped him dead. He seemed embarrassed. The other thing I haven't mentioned is he's muslim. I'm not. We spoke about how he can't put certain restrictions on me, that he sees placed on his female relatives or expect me to automatically understand. He doesn't actually have any female friends. He is also super insecure but masks it with bravado. I studied psychology and can see that he has a…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 05:29 PM
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