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fluidkarma/r/seduction26/02/12 07:33 PM
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fluidkarma/r/seduction26/02/12 10:54 PM
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Don't confront him. It's not his fault. Don't confront your girl, just tell her it's over, don't contact her again. The alpha thing to do is realize the fault always lies with yourself...
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:57 PM
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it's half water, half 3% hydrogen peroxide, it's a splash, one of those bottles lasts for like 6 months. I've been doing it everyday for years, I've never had a cavity, I've never had gum problems or canker sores, I haven't been to the dentist in a decade but I get compliments on my teeth all the time, never had a complaint with breathe or taste, and my girlfriends always ask how I manage...
/r/seduction09/11/12 10:08 PM
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Most people are self-conscious about bad breath because they don't know how to fix it, but it's really easy. You just have to kill the bacteria and change the pH... floss (once a day) scrap your tongue as far back as you can brush your teeth/gums slowly now to kill the bacteria mix a small amount of baking soda and salt (i use sea salt) into water, swish for 1-2 minutes, then gargle now to change the pH mix half 3% hydrogen peroxide and half water with a little salt (for an abrasive), swish for …
/r/seduction09/11/12 05:59 PM
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A real wing would help him by explaining why grand romantic gestures will never attract women. Take him out to the bars, hang on his arm, laugh at his jokes, flirt with him in front of other girls, open set with him, distract the target while he wins over the obstacles, and then distract the obstacles when he isolates the target...
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:46 PM
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Why do you care what other people think anyway?
/r/seduction01/08/12 03:54 PM
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Maybe he's not a douche, maybe he's got solid game...
/r/seduction17/07/12 07:10 PM
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The venusian arts are about connecting with anyone you want, including beautiful women...
/r/seduction23/06/12 03:01 PM
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Check out this post on understanding the fear of the approach... ...and then work on your inner game, know that you have super high social value, know that you are doing the girl a favor by allowing her to talk to you. Just remember, you are awesome, you're the prize, and if she rejects your approach, it's her loss.
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:52 PM
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should I be striving to be in a constant state of not-giving-a-fuck? Just remember, there is only the 'now.' When someone flakes on you, it's their loss...
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:51 PM
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Congradulations, but I could not give a fuck about a girl losing her credit card & I would not let it affect my mood in the slightest...
/r/seduction28/05/12 01:35 PM
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You're talking about the indirect approach. I like using opinion openers because they do not display interest but are interesting themselves. Check out Mystery, Neil Strauss, and Nick Savoy for lots of great opinion openers...
/r/seduction27/05/12 01:35 PM
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Just ask yourself positive questions and change you subconcious image of yourself for the better. I can't take credit for that idea though, it came from Noah St. John in his book The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness, if you are going to read 1 self-help book, this one will immediately improve your whole life.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:27 PM
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As you are walking by the set, turn your head (but not your body), as if you're about to leave, and get the whole set's attention, "Hey guys," then, once you have everyone's attention, use a false time constraint, "You all seem smart, maybe you can help me and my buddies clear up a discussion we were just having, but it's guy's night out, so I shouldn't even be talking to you guys right now, but real quick," then go into your opener: "Was there a fireman in the Village People?" "My buddy just mo…
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:10 PM
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I know "just approach" sounds easy Approaching isn't easy for anyone, and it's the hard things that are most rewarding... Is there any track, speech or anything you would recommend for me to listen while walking down the street? Yeah, you're own confident inner voice (or higher self). Instead of asking yourself negative questions like, "Why am I not confident enough to talk to people?" ask yourself the opposite positive question like, "Why am I comfortable approaching and having light conversati…
/r/seduction23/05/12 03:42 PM
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The girls aren't rejecting you, because they don't even know you... ...but they are rejecting your approach. Let's take a look at your opener: I'm honestly going with the confidence approach not knowing exactly what I'm going to say. Confidence is good, but you should know exactly what you are going to say. It's best to have a couple of canned openers that you've practiced a lot in front of the mirror and on other sets. I like the 'shady friend opener' because it transitions well into relationsh…
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:42 PM
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I always have this small doubt that if the right guy comes around, my girlfriend will do the same as these girls have done Why worry about something you can't control when you could be working on being the happiest, most attractive, confident guy that your girl knows. Part of being a man is understanding there are things that are out of your control and be fine with that. RedYeti nailed it too...
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:16 PM
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Alright, the problem with me is that I have a hard time luring guys in. If you think about the venusian arts like fishing, and you want to reel in a fish of high status, then you have to display behavior that indicates you are a fisher of high status. I mean, when expert fishers are out on the boat with a line in the water, are they thinking, "What if I'm not good enough for the fish out there?" Or, is the fisher not giving a fuck, drinking a beer, & having fun? I thought I'd ask you guys for ad…
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:13 PM
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Seduction is more about improving your inner game, being outcome independent, and creating value wherever you go... ...I wouldn't try to get into seduction so young. Just work on improving yourself and find out what makes you happy in life and you will naturally attract women.
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:24 PM
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TL:DR-Learn the language! Your body language is universal This is key, most communication is subconscious... Lastly, and most relevantly, people find foreign accents attractive. Use this to your advantage! In this situation, OP is the exotic one...
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:18 PM
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edit: could also not reply her the same day, and the next day text "was at <blahplace, it was awesome, you shouldve come", I think YaReally posted something like this at heartsie This is how I would handle it...
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:12 PM
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Kino is a natural part of communication, just calibrate before you escalate...
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:09 PM
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Why not just tell the first girl the truth? Like, she said no, then you asked another girl who accepted. It shows that you have other options and that you are the commodity to be chased after with a false time constraint. It shows pre-selection, honesty seems like the best policy in this situation...
/r/seduction13/05/12 03:48 AM
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No, women look at your face mostly...
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:43 PM
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Reddit is the best possible argument anyone can muster against direct democracy So, Sam Biddle starts out by lamenting free speech... a perfect cross section of the internet and all horrible people on it. Then he suggests all the people on the internet are 'horrible people' with his article on the internet. It's bloated with racism, depravity, more racism And all the horrible people who the internet are also racists? specialized categories that cater to everything from depression to Ubuntu, and,…
/r/seduction04/05/12 06:24 PM
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This is actually backwards, the wing distracts the target while the PUA wins over the dudes and cockblockin friends...
/r/seduction04/05/12 03:41 PM
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The PUA opens the group by himself and pre-introduces his wingman. The wing then joins the group and the PUA fills him in on where the conversation is. The wing then keeps the PUA's target occupied with stories & jokes, while the PUA is busy winning the target's friends over...
/r/seduction04/05/12 03:40 PM
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Use your AMOG destroyers on him, like when he comes up and he's being an ass, just ask the girl, "Is this guy with you? He's kinda creepy." Then position the girl and you so your back is to him and shut him out...
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:43 PM
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Start by reading the material in the sidebar, then read The Game, Rules of the Game, and Stylelife Challenge by Neil Strauss, then check out Silver Bullets and Routines Manuals...
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:41 PM
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I would read the side bar, read The Game, Rules of the Game, and the Stylelife Challenge by Strauss, and then read Silver Bullets and Routines Manual... ...but 90% of pickup is working on your internal game, bettering yourself, making yourself more attractive to girls, and makeing you more emotionally & socially competent, which you can use however you want for your life.
/r/seduction02/05/12 07:56 PM
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Then she's showing IOI's, which means she's attracted to you. But it sounds like maybe you didn't disqualify enough, and definitely didn't qualify her (so she knows you are into her for more than her looks), and then take it into the comfort zone... ...instead of straight up asking her to come to your house, seed some cool plans you have when you start working out, but don't invite her. Such as, I'm going hiking to this really awesome spot this weekend, it's so cool because [insert cool things h…
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:36 PM
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Yeah bro, if a girl can get you to be around her everyday, you are no longer a challenge and she will quickly lose interest. But work out with her like once or maybe twice a week and you're good...
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:41 PM
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OK I understand now. Look bro, you know you are a cool guy, and you would be a good catch for any girl, don't get hung up on one... ...and when that one girl you like so much sees you have other options and are dating other beautiful women, she will want you. It's human nature. Don't listen to the haters, we all have to start somewhere, just read the sidebar for starters. Read The Game, Rules of the Game, and the Stylelife Challenge by Neil Strauss. Then check out Silver Bullets and the Routines…
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:29 PM
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The Game, Rules of the Game, and Stylelife Challenge by Neil Strauss are a good start...
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:50 PM
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1 How can you like a girl you don't even know? 2 Why would you let this girl you don't even know have such control over you?
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:48 PM
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My frustration, insecurities, and uncertainty relating to my recent situation described above are mostly all gone. I realize what I need to do and that's deal with my confidence\appearance (weight, fashion), AA, and focus on talking to every girl in sight rather than drinking and partying so hard. Congradulations for taking the responsibility bro, you're awesome
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:46 PM
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The techniques that are here are NOT "tricks" to "manipulate" woman like so many people say. They are techniques to change YOURSELF. They are "tricks" to "manipulate" YOU because it's yourself you have to change. It's about giving YOU confidence. Well said
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:44 PM
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If you are hanging out with a girl (you aren't even banging) more than once or twice a week, you are fucking up. Even if you are dating, you should not being hanging out that much, now she realized you aren't a challenge, you will hang out with her whenever she wants, you are being a giant vagina, and that is unattractive to her. You should pull back and stop hanging out with her. Get you own life in order first. Guys that are not available because you are climbing mountains, camping, working on…
/r/seduction01/05/12 04:50 PM
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Just dance with them, stop giving a fuck, and have fun...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:21 PM
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That's called the cold approach and you need to calibrate to figure out the best type of opener to use, read the side bar for starters bro...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:21 PM
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Don't be a clown, be cool, calm, composed, in control, self-confident...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:19 PM
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Get up, dust yourself off, and do it again...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:17 PM
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No, you're awesome
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:16 PM
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Great article. Before I knew anything about pickup, I got girls mostly because I was passionate (and handsome).
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:13 PM
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Kino is a natural and large part of communication...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:06 PM
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Since attraction is subconcious, it's not a choice, and girls are not conciously aware of why they are attracted to certain people, so they are the worst people to get advice from, just read the sidebar for starters bro...
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:01 PM
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Your feedback was incredibly constructive and helpful. Thank you. No worries bro, just remember, you're awesome =) The workout part I of course can improve on. I said it like that because I don't think me physically is holding me back OK I understand now. Yeah, you're right, it's not holding you back, as long as you dress with well fitted clothes, also get nice shoes, girls always look at your shoes... Body language and over thinking is definitely holding me back as well as flirting techniques. …
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:39 PM
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You should have flirted with the girl, if for nothing else, the experience...
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:10 PM
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I can get numbers when I summon up the courage to ask. Don't ask, tell... I then follow up with a text several days afterwards asking Don't ask, tell. Don't text, call asking if they want to meet over coffee or something casual so I can get to know them a bit. Boring... go hiking, go to the park, do something fun, sitting around is fucking boring. We sit and chat for an hour or so, they say they have a great time, I drop them off at their place, smile and say I had a nice time too. Then I leave.…
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:09 PM
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Kinda sounds needy to me...
/r/seduction29/04/12 05:58 PM
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You lowered your status by not approaching immediately when you guys looked at eachother. At one point you waited till she was secluded which is creeper She didn't reject you, she doesn't know you. She did reject your approach, maybe because she couldn't hear you. If you're a noob, you better get used to rejection, it's going to happen alot You have to go through a 'pain period' with anything you are trying to get good at. You will never improve without this painful learning period, and only a s…
/r/seduction29/04/12 05:43 PM
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I stick to really banal things like restaurants and cafes (especially for first dates) This is boring for girls, you should try active dates, hiking, dancing, even just walking in the park is better than sitting and talking at eachother... and furthermore most of the time I ask the woman to pick the place. Yes, this is wrong for a couple of reasons. Women want alpha men, and one characteristic of an alpha is to know what he wants and to take charge of the situation. If you go along with what the…
/r/seduction29/04/12 05:34 PM
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Oh, I see, yeah that's cool when a girl comes to you as a guy with resources!
/r/seduction29/04/12 03:42 PM
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Next time don't buy anyone a drink (unless it's on your terms)...
/r/seduction29/04/12 03:34 PM
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In my experience, women enjoy it if you make it a light-hearted interaction and in this situation it doesn't matter what you think, it only matters what the girl thinks...
/r/seduction27/04/12 03:37 PM
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When it's too loud to effectively talk your game, you can use a notepade or your cell phone to have a converstation. It's unique and interesting...
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:51 PM
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"I would fuck me."
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:49 PM
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Shave it off, own it, pull a Strauss...
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:19 PM
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"Nah, I'm a natural..."
/r/seduction26/04/12 08:11 PM
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Ha, no but I am trying to learn because James Bond is one of my alpha influences =)
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:10 PM
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The feminist agenda has destroyed social norms because they try to tear down strong men. So, feminism & public school has created a society of weak jellyfish metrosexual feminized ladyboys. Now, the alpha is rare and mystic creature...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:32 PM
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Know yourself Know what you want Communicate you intentions ?????????????? Profit
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:30 PM
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That's not a problem, you're doing it right...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:26 PM
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You should not have texted to remind her and you shouldn't care if she doesn't show because you have plenty of other options...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:26 PM
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There is no right approach because every situation is different which is why callibration is so important...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:21 PM
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You can't help that your a man that is attracted to women, so don't apologize for it...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:15 PM
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Paragraphs motherfucker, do you use them?
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:14 PM
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"Ha, you should bring me lunch..."
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:13 PM
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Create value for other people without expecting anything in return and people will want to be around you...
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:07 PM
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When you are young, you don't need to be super successful, you just need to show the ability to succeed and have a plan for success...
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:40 PM
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How can you call them friends if they don't know who you really are? Know yourself and don't be afraid Stop giving a fuck, I mean, what are you really worried about?
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:38 PM
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Yeah, just connect with them like they are normal human beings... ...because they are.
/r/seduction24/04/12 05:05 PM
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Hey I floss in the shower too! You should also get a tongue scraper...
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:42 PM
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The same way you deal with every other girl...
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:15 PM
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You're Awesome
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:27 PM
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Make sangria together, cook something simple, board games, super smash bros, twister, dancing, karyoke... ...what do you do for fun by yourself at home?
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:20 PM
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Stop giving a fuck... Why do you even care? Keep doing that and your crush will want you, because you will be pre-selected and she will want what she can't have...
/r/seduction16/04/12 04:48 PM
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it's the girl's level of attraction towards you that matters... Women are attracted to strong, powerful, confident men. Keep up your strong persona while in a relationship (make definitive statements about where you want to eat, what you want to go do, what movie you want to watch) and you will keep the attraction level high. Women want a man to take control and tell her what's up, she doesn't want some push over. But to take control of the situation you need to know and respect yourself, and kn…
/r/seduction15/04/12 10:13 PM
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Ah, to give and recieve love is the only thing humans are made for, and the only thing humans stop ourselves from doing... ...it's not that you care, just don't become a pushover, keep your alpha personality going throughout the relationship, don't hang out more than once or twice a week, date other people, keep it real. Also, it's not what you do, think, or care, it's the girl's level of attraction towards you that matters...
/r/seduction15/04/12 04:01 PM
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Yours are all self-limiting beliefs, get rid of that, focus on positive emotions, take action, and gain experience...
/r/seduction15/04/12 03:58 PM
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1. Stop giving a fuck...
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:20 PM
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One-itis...
/r/seduction31/03/12 05:51 PM
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After, or during the opener, make a comment about anything like clothing, choice of drink, interesting jewelry... I usually go with the Rings Routine as a transitioner...
/r/seduction12/03/12 05:25 PM
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At first, before you have internalized the fundamentals but when you start having more successes, you will be filled with a primal energy.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:23 PM
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Do things that are more social & will get you out of your comfort zone such as: group dancing class or toastmasters
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:13 PM
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having memorized routines helps if you run out of things to say.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:12 PM
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As always, based on misconceptions...
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:03 PM
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I'm sure you could use it to make yourself an alpha female, because I'm really attracted to strong women...
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:00 PM
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With great power comes great responsibility.
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:58 PM
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Why would you care what two women you don't really know think about you? Just take it as a critique on you game, find out where you messed up, fix your sticking points, and never ever ever give up...
/r/seduction09/03/12 03:02 PM
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You probably come off as needy. You're already outgoing, just work on you inner game now.
/r/seduction09/03/12 03:00 PM
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Great idea! I make lists for my life and business, it makes sense to make lists for dating as well. Cheers!
/r/seduction09/03/12 02:59 PM
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Yeah, girls can learn a lot about socializing here. It's just, the average girl is like 20 years ahead of the average guy in social skills because when we were young, while guys were playing sports, girls were talking. Most of the techniques learned here can be used to pick up guys as well...
/r/seduction09/03/12 02:53 PM
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Above everything, know yourself & what you want, then manage their expectations by communicating...
/r/seduction09/03/12 02:33 PM
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Congradulations bro! Keep it up...
/r/seduction09/03/12 02:25 PM
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Yeah, I was pulling amazing women in high school and college when I was wearing exclusively second hand clothes, only because I'm fun, interesting, & attractive. But, now when I wear tailored pants, fitted shirts, and custom suits, I feel way more confident and it has helped me in all aspects of my life...
/r/seduction09/03/12 02:14 PM
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What have you done in the last month that makes you feel better about yourself? I got an expensive haircut, a couple fitted shirts, and two tailored suits. Feels good man.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:27 PM
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You have to be sincere about it, and emphasize the "just" part.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:20 PM
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I've always just said "Hands off the merchandise," but giving it a dollar amount and running a tab is from Mystery.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:13 PM
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"Hands off the merchandise, it's $10 for every touch and you are running a tab..." :)
/r/seduction06/03/12 05:49 PM
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Worst. Wing. Ever.
/r/seduction04/03/12 03:52 PM
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The way to succeed in life is to create a massive amount of value while not expecting anything in return...
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:50 PM
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I think when it was suggested above to try "sister", that's really a good idea. The Friend Zone Killer #2
/r/seduction27/02/12 01:20 AM
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Yes, exactly, this man knows...
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:48 PM
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Exactly...
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:13 PM
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Just take it as a critique on your approach and use it to improve your game...
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:27 PM
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I like the cut of you jib, but I would go with the old-west six shooter for myself...
/r/seduction09/02/12 10:25 PM
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Semantics... I was just answering this guy's question about what 'open carry' means. What kind of gun do you carry then?
/r/seduction09/02/12 05:58 PM
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Wearing a pistol on your hip in view of everyone...
/r/seduction09/02/12 03:56 PM
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Why would you care what a stranger thinks about you? You should take the girl's reactions only as a critique on your approach, because that's all they know about you...
/r/seduction07/02/12 09:30 PM
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