flynavy88 Archive

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4	Rolling Stone and UVA: The Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism Report: An anatomy of a journalistic failure The responsibilities that universities have in preventing campus sexual assault – and the standards of performance they should be held to – are important matters of public interest. Rolling Stone was right to take them on. The pattern of its failure draws a map of how to do better. What a bunch of fuckheads. "Yeah, we basically got blasted by the CJR for our fucked up journalism, BUT THE POINT REMAINS THAT THEY NEED TO CHANGE!" Uh, no, it doesn't, and your arrogance regarding how you don't need …	/r/MensRights	06/04/15 12:14 AM
23	Salon - "The right’s Lena Dunham nonsense just won’t stop: Imputing predatory notions and alleging 'abuse' is really an attempt to silence and victimize courageous women." The comments section is furi Looks like the media is out to save their prodigal child, who has been featured in articles since she was 12, and is very much a member of the elite of society. I guess objective measures of abuse and molestation aren't enough when you're a rich white woman	/r/PussyPass	05/11/14 12:23 AM
16	Duke porn-star in her own words: "Patriarchy fears female sexuality." She blames the patriarchy, despite the fact that it's those same guys paying for her shit? Yeah, okayyyyyyy...	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/14 04:28 AM
25	She was banging 3 of his friends at the same time, but God forbid you call her a whore. I made the mistake of reading threads on that sub... the amount of "oh it wasn't her fault they cheated, it was you" is fucking retarded. So much for "victim shaming" when the male is the victim..	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/14 07:32 PM
5	Asian women dating choices. I don't know for sure why this is and frankly I stopped caring a long time ago. Being rebellious is all the rage. Asian Americans tend to have the strongest cultural expectations of any group in America. Unsurprisingly, the best way to get someone to do something is to tell them they can't do it	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/14 09:03 PM
3	"The Ultimate 'How To' Guide to Cocky + Funny" People forget, when reading old school PUAs like Mystery and Style that Mystery was a tall dude (which attracts a lot of females no matter what) who was genuinely into being a magician and all that. Likewise, Style was a writer/author in the entertainment industry - major social proof in an industry that attracts a ton of women. I'd posit that tricks can have occasional success for the average dude in a bar/club scene - especially when alcohol is involved - but for anything more long term, or fo…	/r/seduction	07/01/14 12:07 AM
1	"The Ultimate 'How To' Guide to Cocky + Funny" Sorrow is an emotion. Kill her family! PUA 101 It's even better reading this as Kenny f'in Powers	/r/seduction	07/01/14 12:01 AM
2	How to exploit the advantages of being very physically attractive? Easy way to get over creepy eyes... smile more. It's been said that people actually smile with their eyes - and as you've said, once you smile, the girl will smile. After that, simply approaching and saying "Hi" is enough to get started Edit: forgot to add, yeah, showing neediness will kill it no matter how hot you are. It's why so many people wonder how "naturals" do it - they look aloof and uncaring but still get the girl.	/r/seduction	06/01/14 02:22 AM
20	How to exploit the advantages of being very physically attractive? Being physically attractive doesn't mean you can have zero inner game or outer game. It makes approaching easier (and it makes more women approach you) for sure. For instance, online dating - being physically attractive, especially if you're photogenic to boot, gives you a huge advantage in getting interest since looks are all people have before they actually interact. Of course, once you interact, you still need to be able to converse and escalate. One significant advantage for those physically…	/r/seduction	05/01/14 12:38 PM
2	No fat chicks. I have no interest in fat chicks because they do not share the same values as me. I workout all the time and put my health and looking & feeling good as one of my top priorities in life - I damn well expect the women I'm interested in to share those same values.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/14 05:13 AM
1	Good video on outcome independence I actually like the other takeaway from there a lot which is "you are who you attract" I know that part was directed mainly at women - the same women who go to the same clubs every weekend then wonder why the dudes they get are all the same. Of course, that works the other way too - men who claim none of the women they attract are women they'd ever consider a serious relationship with need to realize that they're it begins with them - they need to start shaping their lives and going out to place…	/r/seduction	04/01/14 11:28 AM
1	[FR] Fclose in the Caribbean Love busting guys claiming to have served. For those reading that have never served... please never try and pretend you did. It's so easy to find out because there is a ton of lingo and stuff that people experience in that you can't replicate outside. For instance, when I ask someone what their MOS/AFSC/Rate was and getting a shaky response - I already know the truth and it's oh so easy to let themselves make themselves look like a tool	/r/seduction	04/01/14 11:21 AM
1	Anyone using Tinder? It also brought up the fact that I had next to no recent good looking photos of me... almost all the photos I'd had in recent years involved me being sloppy drunk So it oddly helped make me much more conscious about that	/r/seduction	03/01/14 03:18 AM
6	Anyone using Tinder? A few things about Tinder: It's about as superficial as it gets. Put your best looking/most photogenic pics on there - ones with confident body language, clear face and body shots, and ones that make you look fun and engaging Also, hate to say it, but race does play a part. As in real life, people are going to have views on race - unlike in real life, however, the internet allows people to very quickly dismiss races. I'm a minority male as well, so I feel you (and it's a big reason I don't bothe…	/r/seduction	03/01/14 02:49 AM
1	Girls believe I'm a player, and once they start to like me, all move on Being too smooth can be an issue too - keep in mind a lot of girls have self esteem issues. If the guy seems way out of her league, she wonders if he's just a player and is going to be hesitant of commitment for fear of being burned down the line.	/r/seduction	02/01/14 10:59 PM
3	My Guide to Online Dating and Techniques. Good stuff, but two x-factors: First, location. You said you are in a college town - just how big is the college town and the surrounding area? It works well if you've got lots of targets. Not so well if the area is... lacking in talent. And now, my second x-factor, and the most important to this post: looks and pictures. You didn't really describe what are good pictures, nor how you look. Sure, you wrote: I'm not a lucky guy, I'm not beefy or bulk, in fact I'm thin, and I have a good 5-6 girls …	/r/seduction	02/01/14 10:28 PM
2	Chin Lu explains why it's wrong for you to have an Asian fetish. Are you serious? Instead of citing a celebrity vs. stereotypical overweight nerd, why not look at the facts & statistics showing that Asian men get far less of a response rate from other races? Or that the typical Asian man needs 3x the income on average to have the same dating success? All that despite having far more in common than a lot of other groups? Despite all the evidence showing that Asian men raised in the US are well above the height of the lands their parents came from (go go wester…	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/14 10:09 PM
2	The okcupid blog: Another take on datamining. It's good stuff My personal favorite, as a minority male, is the one on race: How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get Just goes to show you how superficial online dating is - you can be a perfect match on values, income etc., but have one of the worst response rates simply because your race happens to have major negative stereotypes in someone's mind, causing a quick rejection that may not have occurred had you met the person in-person. It's always a great reminder that there is no substitute…	/r/seduction	02/01/14 12:05 PM
1	X-post /r/AskMen, guy nails pickup in a nutshell The funny thing is, that post doesn't really go against the big picture of self improvement, and instead focuses on the incorrect applications For instance, getting out of the self-improvement cycle. Much of the advice from the experienced guys here would agree: stop relying on self help books and reading FR's and over-analyzing "what should I say situation x y z" and start going out and actually doing those things. No amount of reading can substitute for the real experience of interacting with …	/r/seduction	02/01/14 11:59 AM
0	Can't get laid -- schools of thought in pickup How can a woman detect such a thing -- seems like a load of BS. Ever been in a loud environment talking to a girl that's mutually interested in you? Having the environment so loud, you basically have to lean into her ear? Her face close to yours? Sense that feeling - the sexual tension that's literally in the air - I guarantee to you she's feeling the same thing. In fact, I know she's feeling the same thing, cause a lot of times our hands will be near one another and holding it will just come na…	/r/seduction	02/01/14 11:43 AM
2	Can't get laid -- schools of thought in pickup I think part of your problem is that you aren't building enough attraction. Getting a number from a girl is good, but it isn't a surefire sign of attraction - you really need to escalate with touch and go for the kiss and stop worrying about being blown out. After all, if you've already gotten that far to get a number, why not think about going a step further?	/r/seduction	02/01/14 11:38 AM
0	Chin Lu explains why it's wrong for you to have an Asian fetish. Emasculating the native man there? Again, you've missed the point differing culture from race: their concepts of being a man are universal in some areas (being in shape for instance) but also differ based on social aspects, some which differ significantly from the western one. Few people (outside corporate recruiters) in the west give a shit what college you went to - there, it can be a big big elevation of status. In fact, a lot of those aspects that we in the west deride as being beta traits -…	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/14 08:21 AM
7	Chin Lu explains why it's wrong for you to have an Asian fetish. Meh, being an Asian American male, this thread is why I get the hate for TRP despite following much of the theory. Simply put, many of the general concepts are right, but the examples people cite are fucking false. Stupid shit like this: It's a harsh pill to swallow but race matters and you can't help which race you're attracted or or not. Here's an article from O.K Cupid that goes into depth on the subject. And the data shows... Asian women seem to have a very strong "Fetish" or preference for …	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 12:40 PM
0	Something I realized recently ... Practical Advice Yep. A lot of those games and stuff can be good on the surface if you're looking for a quick short term fix, but longer term stuff is all about inner game and making you the most attractive you possible. It's the slowest to get good at, but the rewards last a lifetime	/r/seduction	31/12/13 05:22 AM
1	Facebook question/over-thinking Unless the girls you are interested are already friends of yours on Facebook... no, it won't do anything and can even convey the wrong message. And even if it does help, it's no substitute for how you interact with them in person	/r/seduction	31/12/13 12:06 AM
2	Is online dating a bad idea for a dude who is trying to get back into the game after a LTR Online dating is just one avenue you should use, but should never replace real-world meeting of people - online dating is very superficial and flakey for a reason. Your looks/pictures/race/whatever can all turn someone away offline that would otherwise go for you in person And as always, use things like meetup and so on to meet new people in your area with common interests - it will help you get your mind off your breakup, you'll meet new people, etc.	/r/seduction	31/12/13 12:05 AM
3	Follow-up from a previous FR. Don't automatically count a night as a failure Don't automatically discount a night as being a failure because you probably made a good impression whether you think so or not. This is part of outcome independence Too many guys assume that not getting a number/kiss-close/f-close/whatever makes a night a failure. You're really only (literally & figuratively) setting yourself up for failure with that mindset - the big picture is to go out there and genuinely enjoy yourself and escalate as much as you can - things will just tend to happen natura…	/r/seduction	30/12/13 11:09 PM
3	'There's no room for anything manly now': Feminist writer Camille Paglia speaks out AGAINST the loss of masculine virtues and its negative impact on society Read her WSJ article a few days ago... good stuff. Refreshing to see a un-PC look at western civilization Is anyone really surprised that sports, zombie movies, and stories of military heroism are increasingly popular in America? These are really the last bastions of male-empowerment (as some would derisively call 'gender roles') - some realistic, some fantasy - but all are increasingly popular as there are fewer avenues elsewhere for males to go	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 10:58 PM
7	Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all? Meanwhile, in America, we have TV shows educating people on how to be bigger and bigger morons... sigh	/r/seduction	30/12/13 10:49 PM
1	Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake It Yep. This is why people love zombie movies so much. Deep down, they want it to happen. They want (or at least think they want) the chains of civilization to come off so that they can experience true freedom. I think more than even true freedom... they want true freedom that shows that they are capable of great feats. It's probably only natural then that we are more enraptured with sporting events and military heroism than ever before	/r/seduction	30/12/13 05:17 AM
1	Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake It I haven't read into all the details within each of the phases mentioned, but I must say that the overall message is absolute spot on: become the badass you that you want to be. I, like many others, grew up going down the typical path - go to a good school, get a great degree, get a high paying job. Except, deep down, that wasn't what I wanted. It took way more years than it should have, but the feeling of leaving a high paying job to a lower paying job, but one where I was doing what I've always…	/r/seduction	30/12/13 02:03 AM
1	Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake It If you're living a absolutely amazing lifestyle with a social circle full of women you won't need to approach to get girls. Although it doesn't hurt to know how to. I think this point is lost on a lot of people Yes, if you are only meeting women at clubs/bars, then conquering AA is absolutely necessary But, the easiest women to approach are ones that are in the same group/organization you are in, have mutual friends that you meet at a house party, etc. - and most times, those connections are a l…	/r/seduction	30/12/13 01:37 AM
2	Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake It The last 50 years have been the first few generations of Western men that haven't grown up facing famine, disease, or warfare that would threaten large proportions of a male populace - I know society was different back then, but man, I am not at all surprised that people like my grandparents (the WW2 generation) were able to live such fulfilling and committed lives to one another - to them, all these things we worry about today are just trivial BS	/r/seduction	30/12/13 01:34 AM
4	On Gaming Virgins. Damn, hearing your experience sucks - it's why I'm a big proponent about the honesty part of self-improvement in seduction. Assholes are abound, unfortunately, and they pretty much ruin it for everyone That's generally why if they say they're a virgin, I'm going to be straightforward about my intentions and let them decide if our views align	/r/seduction	30/12/13 01:28 AM
1	Have you made friends at age 25+, without having an already set group of friends? Just curious what advice you could give? Get involved - groups that have common interests will provide common experiences to bond with friends Yes, it'll be harder than college or high school (where you basically have no choice but to meet people) but the bonds built after 25 can be quite quite good	/r/seduction	28/12/13 03:41 AM
3	Thank You Throwawaypua, My Success Story from advice that he gave me Three Years ago Congratulations I'm always amazed at how many guys come here because they were once friend zoned - I know I started looking when it happened way too often for my liking. After all, no one tells you these things (we're always taught "be nice to girls" when growing up) Most importantly though, I think beyond even getting out of the friend zone, is the fact that I've become my own man	/r/seduction	28/12/13 03:39 AM
47	How can I stay the nice guy? You're confusing "nice guy" with "good guy" - a nice guy believes being nice will get something back, namely sex and a relationship, whereas a good guy wants sex and relationships but isn't a douchebag to get it	/r/seduction	27/12/13 02:59 AM
2	Living with mother, problem? Well, you've already identified the problem: you stay alone, you go crazy & depressed. You hang out with these guys, they do weed and drugs, and you end up depressed that your life isn't going anywhere. Best way to stay alone and not be crazy & depressed: find something you are passionate about, learn about it, and start doing it. If you're near a city, meetup.com is a good way to get into groups and meet new people that share common interests. You said social issues is something you're interest…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 09:27 PM
7	Marriage Statistics The level of promiscuity in college recently is far above what is was even fifteen years ago. Forget 15 years ago The level it was at for people I know that came to the same college 4 years after I did is mindblowing	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 10:23 AM
1	Short guys are waking up at /r/short I never realized how fucked up this all was (and I'm not short, slightly above average at 5'11) until I returned to Los Angeles (the capital of superficiality for sure) and turned on Tinder to see what the talent around my hometown was like Sure enough, comments like "I'm 5' 6.5 (the .5 matters in heels!") and other shit reminded me why I was happy I didn't give people my time of the day The worst part of it is when men can't state the fact that they don't prefer promiscuous girls ("omg! slut sh…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 10:17 AM
4	Feminist believes rape is worse than murder The fact that this is even a question of debate fucking boggles my mind I'll put it simply: being raped, you're still alive with the option of being dead at another time. Being murdered, you're fucking dead, you have no other choices. Game over.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 10:12 AM
1	I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good response Be glad you get asked that upfront as a shit test As an Asian, you'd have to sift through that as a real question because of people who actually believe in that stereotype	/r/seduction	26/12/13 08:35 AM
1	Living with mother, problem? Not only happier, but far more confident and passionate about my life. And you know what? That translates well to women and men who find me infinitely more interesting Just need to put up with living with in a shitty environment and not be brought down by friends with no aspirations, while I figure stuff out it seems. It sounds like you have it down. The people you surround yourself with often influence the path you end up taking - get away from people with no aspirations and find those who do	/r/seduction	26/12/13 07:26 AM
1	Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else? I agree with you that many of them are just bragging. When someone posts in one paragraph how they F-Closed someone, I'm thinking that they're either lying, they built rapport outside of the frame of the story, or they're just assholes looking to brag. Agreed with this. FRs that are one or two paragraphs about how some girl told you over Tinder they want to bang you, and you banging her, isn't much more than a brag post in /r/seduction. I mean seriously, what advice can you give from your story,…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 06:56 AM
3	Living with mother, problem? My advice on college: take a frank look at the cost-benefit behind the school you are going to (yes, the name of the college does matter) and what degree you are trying to get. Certain jobs (such as engineering) pretty much requires a specific degree. Personally, my degree in engineering from a top school has opened a lot of doors for me in fields not even related to engineering - for instance, working in business (which is a lot closer to my passion) which is what I did after graduation. So the…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 06:41 AM
1	Living with mother, problem? I had graduated from college and gotten a pretty good job, but I wasn't emotionally detached from my mom yet. Physically, I had an apartment I lived at for work during the weekdays - but on the weekends, I'd spend way too much time going home - to the point where I'd get my laundry done there by her. The thing I didn't realize at the time was that it was all because of a lot of emotional manipulation - throughout my life, my mother kept talking about me supporting her when's she retired, me need…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 06:22 AM
6	Living with mother, problem? Never had to live with an elderly mother... but I did live with an emotionally manipulative one. I love my mother to death, but the best move I ever made was to get as far away from her and live an independent life. My whole personal mentality and approach to live made a complete 180 You don't have to take as drastic of a step, and if you can overcome it mentally, more power to you. But personally, since I'd still want to care for my elderly mom, I'd move out but live somewhere close enough that…	/r/seduction	26/12/13 01:40 AM
1	Homewrecking over this Christmas break They probably scared her away with her desperateness And as /u/HappyJerk wrote, your vibe of disinterestedness probably helped attract them	/r/seduction	26/12/13 01:37 AM
1	How to determine being courteous and being a push over. Being courteous and being a pushover are very different. Being courteous is quite simply being nice when you want to be nice. Being a pushover is when you do nice things for others that you normally wouldn't otherwise do, mainly because you expect something out of it. General rule I follow is, would I do it for a random male? Things like opening doors are no big deal - if I'm in front and get to the door first, I don't have a problem opening it for others (of any gender) - and seriously though, …	/r/seduction	25/12/13 09:58 PM
1	Game at work. Can it be done? This is a good advice, i you do choose to do it Be indirect at work, keep it very casual at work, and find outside group events (happy hours, drinks, etc.) where you can get closer. But always gauge the response - if she's not responsive, don't escalate it further - if there is a mutual attraction, chances are she knows that the workplace isn't an appropriate place but will know when to push further outside of work. And the easiest way to turn the yourself awkward or douchey at work is to keep p…	/r/seduction	25/12/13 09:34 PM
1	Have a dilemma about approaching a few girls at my job Work is going to be tricky I usually advocate going direct in most situations, but at work you definitely need to go indirect Do you guys have office outings/department outings? Or are they around the same age/rank? That makes it easier to get people together after work for happy hour or other social events where you can be more direct Also, do not go in with a typical mentality of hitting on a girl then nexting her. Best case, you come off as a player. Worst case, well... you creep em out enoug…	/r/seduction	25/12/13 09:28 PM
1	12 things that annoy me about this place Shit, you could get Kate Upton to talk to you if you ran up to her and yelled “oh my god, my father is having a heart attack in the other room, I need your help.” I just saw that post in this sub which was a copy/paste of a "FR f-close of Rihanna" from RSD... Aside from my BS meter being off the charts, reminds me exactly why the PUA movement has become a bit of a punch line - so much of it sounds like a 24/7 infomercial that preys on guys without confidence, which is what is very wrong with a l…	/r/seduction	24/12/13 11:27 PM
1	[FR] Lay Report - Rihanna These "stories" remind me of why the PUA community gets such a bad rep... it's like a 24/7 infomercial	/r/seduction	24/12/13 10:31 PM
1	Alcohol and game Don't rely on alcohol I love pounding drinks as much as anyone else, but it never improved my regular sober interactions with women and people in general - you know, what you do most of your life Have fun drinking, but make concrete improvements in your life so you won't need to use it as a crutch	/r/seduction	20/12/13 11:20 PM
0	Good inner game books? His biggest concept is definitely inner game I don't recall the exact split, but he spends a LOT more time talking about the concepts behind attraction and the mindset you need (which is more inner game talk) than actual outer game	/r/seduction	20/12/13 01:37 PM
10	Good inner game books? Models by Mark Manson	/r/seduction	20/12/13 06:31 AM
3	Response to "you're not even that attractive shit test"? and hit on a girl with a boyfriend. First of all, and I'm not sure if I'm reading this quote wrong, so this probably won't come off right: I'm not sure what you were expecting, but if the girl were really with boyfriend... why even do it? Now let's assume she I read that wrong and she didn't have her boyfriend with herand was just blowing smoke up your ass. My personal philosophy with this? It's not worth my time. Girl is telling the truth -> she has a boyfriend -> don't waste your time unless y…	/r/seduction	20/12/13 03:54 AM
1	The Game Bill of Rights I like it At the end of the day, what really matters in the grand scheme of things is that the whole PUA scene is, at the heart of it, about self-improvement. Improving men's confidence, outlook on their own life, and ultimately outlook on life in general It's unfortunate that some men take it and use it as a tool of manipulation on women. That's not right. Likewise, it is not right for women to "creep shame" guys who are great people trying to improve themselves with honest effort. Just as impo…	/r/seduction	20/12/13 03:43 AM
1	Questions About Meeting Women in Small Towns I guess I shouldn't have called it 'traditional game' since it's relatively new. I meant more of the modern PUA game by going around approaching girls and dating around a lot to get to know people. That method works great in big cities where there is an abundance of women, but in small towns where there are a lot fewer women but a lot easier to meet everyone just through meeting people, you'll want to approach girls differently	/r/seduction	19/12/13 08:42 PM
8	How do you respond to really lame excuses? I've always seen it this way Persistence is when you don't give up when there is still hope. For instance, escalating with a woman that is mutually attracted to you. She might not be up for anything more than making out with you the first time, but you are persistent by escalating the next time you meet, rather than saying "fuck it, I'm not wasting my time" Neediness is when you don't give up when there is no hope. For instance, escalating with a woman that isn't that into you. She's been flakey…	/r/seduction	19/12/13 03:41 PM
2	Questions About Meeting Women in Small Towns It's a small town so it may be tough to play a 'traditional game' But, with a small town, it's easy to get to know everyone and be known out there. Do good things, meet good people, and it won't be hard to meet all potential girls out there And definitely don't shit where you eat... nothing worse than being new to a town and being ostracized right from the get go	/r/seduction	19/12/13 02:10 PM
16	How do you respond to really lame excuses? Listen, these situations I always remember this: If she's interested, she'll contact you If she's not, she won't Yes, girls like to be pursued. But if they've blown you off already, unless she's really interested, things aren't likely to change	/r/seduction	19/12/13 02:02 PM
2	Creep shaming and approaching Those are great examples I tell a lot of guys who approach women during the day (at bars/clubs, women are out to have fun and are much more open to meeting people): The easiest way to startle/shut down/creep out a woman is to approach them in a situation they can't get out of. Like when you were wearing a brace or at work - this is true too when sitting next to a girl on an airplane or a train That doesn't mean avoid approaching, but it does mean understand the situation	/r/seduction	19/12/13 01:55 PM
3	Creep shaming and approaching Her friends told her	/r/seduction	19/12/13 01:52 PM
2	The Brutal Facts (podcast on an interview of a general who survived being a POW in Vietnam) "This is a very important lesson. You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be."" VADM Stockdale is a personal hero of mine, and that quote is brilliant and true for just about every aspect of life	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/13 08:02 AM
14	Anti-fat shaming crusaders take aim at Michelle Obama, call "The Biggest Loser" an "abusive show," and fat women's inability "to marry, or to marry a higher-earning spouse compared to their similarly qualified thinner peers" discrimination People ask why I don't like being around fat people... Because I sure as fuck do not share the same values as them I work hard every day to workout (or at least try to get one in), eat healthy, and make my health and well-being a top priority. It's been proven time and time again that people of opposite values rarely mingle well together. So why the hell do people think they're entitled to be hang out unconditionally with me?	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/13 07:56 AM
4	Creep shaming and approaching This is the part that seemed mean spirited. Mostly has to do with the way it was worded, I guess. First of all, I, and many other girls, do not really like being called pretty. It's a worthless (and sometimes oppressive) title that people assign way too much significance to. Of course I don't speak for all women, I'm just saying don't assume you're doing a really nice thing by telling her that. That's fine and dandy, but that's why he said it must come from a genuine place. If I call a girl cute…	/r/seduction	19/12/13 07:48 AM
2	Tricky situation, logistics prevented me from getting a girl's number - how to contact without creepiness? Just contact her. If she's legitimately interested in you, it probably won't matter - and she gave her number and email at one point on the contact sheet for the job anyways. Again, key word is legitimately interested..	/r/seduction	19/12/13 06:35 AM
2	Creep shaming and approaching Your stories at the bottom are good, and you can place them in a segment regarding personal experiences	/r/seduction	19/12/13 06:27 AM
6	Creep shaming and approaching There are other reasons she might be rude to you than "she hates herself/is narcissistic" So? She might be pissed off about something else unrelated. Still not an excuse Or, perhaps, she thinks that because you must only be approaching her based on her physical appearance, you only care about that and only view her sexually. Well, unless the guy already knows you (in which case, you probably aren't going to creep shame him), there isn't much going for a stranger other than your appearance. That'…	/r/seduction	19/12/13 06:22 AM
29	Creep shaming and approaching Hear hear. In the grand scheme of things, some hot girl giving you shit means nothing. A related story: a few months ago, my buddy came home from deployment from Afghanistan. We all got together for drinks and were socializing with people at the bar. Some girl brushed him off as some loser when he was admittedly drunk talking to random strangers. But you know who ended up feeling like the biggest loser at the bar? Her - her deflated body language said it all after she found out why we were there…	/r/seduction	18/12/13 10:38 PM
3	[FR] K-Close or why speaking foreign languages is a big asset This is why it's always fun meeting girls in other countries for me... it's easy to open about language and you can build rapport very quickly learning each other's language and teasing/flirting with one another about it	/r/seduction	18/12/13 02:21 PM
2	Need help with my mental state during sex Could be that you're just used to the F close and it isn't special for you anymore. Try mixing it up a bit so it isn't routine to where you are thinking "oh look, another girl I've gotten into bed." Same shit happens in relationships when things get routine Ironically enough, consider getting into a relationship with one (whether it is serious, casual, FWB, whatever) of your girls and see where that goes. It will provide a lot more interaction and stimulation to the emotional and mental side of …	/r/seduction	18/12/13 07:14 AM
5	I want to learn how to dance. :] Take a class! Salsa is always highly recommended As an added bonus, there are almost always tons of hot girls taking those classes too	/r/seduction	18/12/13 03:29 AM