| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA) | fnbob917 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/20 05:10 AM |
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| 1 | For some…In my instance the thing that's killing me is alienation from my daughters, worse is the silebt treatment from the ex. Wont say squat to me and now my daughters look at me with complete disdain, even my baby, my mini me. I've almost died like 4 times. Been in hospital, missed my oldest daughter's heart procedures and was informed that my ex would contact law enforcement if I showed up. How I haven't snapped yet is a mystery to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How many points do you score? High score wins…That was me! bread winner for 8 years, SAHM, wouldn't ever think of leaving california. Insisted on Joint accounts, rushed marriage and kids. I know nobody out here, thought prenups were only for the ultra rich. Now I'm homeless, she has everything, and I have CPTSD like a muhfuggah. Lesson to learn don't trust them. Despite my best intentions, I have been vilified and am basically being whitewashed out of their lives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Upcoming Father’s Day with looming divorce…Enjoy the time with your children everyone.. might get a zoom call here, if I'm in an area with Wi-Fi. Eventually this will become more tolerable right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 3 | What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)?Over a year and a half here. Only 3 fucking hours a week on Zoom, all monitored and recorded by the eyes Sauron. Worse of all, I was the one to say let’s take a break. She went for the goddamn jugular. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Did your ex claim divorce empowered her?How can you do that when they control the narrative and all her ammunition are the things she drove me to do through a decade of gaslighting, and a year where I was lot allowed to hold my kids? It’s maddening to think that she she can get away with fucking me over like this? All while taking no responsibility. The fuck? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Divorce I dont wantFeel lucky you don’t have a custody battle going on as well.. been a year since i last held my daughters. 3 hours a week on zoom. Stay strong. Don’t give her the satisfaction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I'm a recovering divorce lawyer - AMAWe are currently in custody hearings. She’s using my relapse of 15 years as her main ammo store against me. I will look to do so. I needs therapy and fast before I can even think of going back into the workforce would I be able to request that she open a spot on the couch or is that pushing it a bit too much? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/21 02:06 AM |
| 4 | I'm a recovering divorce lawyer - AMAIs there any recourse against bitter women who just wanted to screw me over? I’m broke and homeless and she couldn’t care less. Is there any type of recourse I can pursue? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Hi, I’m researching and writing a story on men who went through divorce with high maintenance spouses. I feel for them especially when they were put through a lot by their vindictive spouses. If you would like to share your story, please pm me. Thank you!Pm sent | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA)She said to go amicable. She is the one spinning wheels and forcing this crap. I’m just watching her sputter out and look like a bitch. As for paying it, I admit I panicked when I was served because the whole aforementioned “agreement” of amicable “I want to keep you as a friend” divorce. Especially when her first guy was an utter twat and a half asshole. But I’m forced to restart. I begged her to stop for months. Paying for it with my half of 401 K. Way to make an assumption, Jimbo. I have NO R… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some mistakes that should be avoided during a high conflict divorce?Thanks Elliot. I’m calling the mediator and rescinding everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA)It was for courage but I’ll bite... Let’s pare this list down: No Job -Blame rona. Worked for Hollywood payroll company. That dried up in May. No house- she booted me from the house because of Affair: after 2 years of barely anything from her, trust me I tried, I’m an empathetic person and I couldn’t feel anything from her. Drug problem: adult child of alcoholic, mother was a pill popper. I have avoided those religiously. Normally I would smoke weed. The hard stuff began initially in 2003-2004. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA)This is what I needed to hear. She already hates me. In for a Penny in for a pound. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA)Thanks. It’s been a bloody exhausting ordeal. Time to fight for my babies! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | To be the nice guy, or to fight for what’s mine. (CA)Excuse me? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Why working out is your most important toolAnd if any of you are in a similar predicament like myself: flat broke, no credit, taken to the cleaners by the Opposing Counsel, and waiting for everything in the QDRO? Body weight exercises. Hindu squats, push ups and Burpee’s | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | With the holidays approaching, do you still gift and if so any ideas?Don’t even want to think about those days. It’s gonna be brutal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Seeking helpTestiGoddamnFy!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Seeking helpYeah, I sure as shit am never going to get married again. I’m getting completely eviscerated by my stbxw, and yeah, this forced renaissance kind of fucking sucks. That being said, this, and any other things that people have a glowing white hot burning passion for (Vegan, CrossFit) I’m not going to carry an axe to grind for it. I’m gonna let people have their happiness. I’ll give him wink and Say you need to watch watch your shit, but I’m not going to be a bitter asshole about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/20 01:13 AM |
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