For some…

Grousers · 2022-09-05T01:51:06+00:00

I sure feels that way at times… My way through it was exercise and expanding my comfort zone in other areas. Clean my garage. Keep my truck detailed. Marathon train. Renew friendships. These all become habits with time. Do things that make you feel better

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-09-05T06:29:33+00:00

I was my most lonely during marriage.

There is nothing worse that lying next to the woman you love, who offers you zero affection (no sex, no cuddles, no kisses...nothing, like I'm just a roommate)...it's the loneliest feeling in the world.

Thank god I'm now divorced and free of that. I'd rather be single and somewhat lonely (I'm not at all, I'm very busy and have a great life now) than deal with the crushing feelings of being with someone right next to you and still all alone.

sleeze02 · 2022-09-05T03:19:21+00:00

Mine was at first and still is at times

GrayCalf · 2022-09-05T06:24:58+00:00

I was lonely before I got married.

I was lonely as my marriage was nearing the end.

I have never been lonely since the divorce more than 3 years ago.

With movies, TV, games, books, friends, family, work and travel -- loneliness has never been an issue for me since D-Day. The freedom was worth it.

LonelyNC123 · 2022-09-05T12:14:36+00:00

The loneliest place I have ever been in my life is this marriage.

upvotersfortruth · 2022-09-05T04:51:39+00:00

Alone but not lonely for others.

fnbob917 · 2022-09-06T19:45:25+00:00

In my instance the thing that's killing me is alienation from my daughters, worse is the silebt treatment from the ex. Wont say squat to me and now my daughters look at me with complete disdain, even my baby, my mini me.

I've almost died like 4 times. Been in hospital, missed my oldest daughter's heart procedures and was informed that my ex would contact law enforcement if I showed up. How I haven't snapped yet is a mystery to me.

Title	For some…
Author	ironwolf9
Upvotes	21
Comments	10
Date	September 5, 2022 1:02 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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