footnfootout Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Just signed Mediated Settlement Agreement		footnfootout	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 01:54 PM
1	Almost over!!!		footnfootout	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 11:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I need a pep talk re: post-divorce dating What the conversation? Are we asking if you should get on dating app or not? The answer is yes try it out.. not sure there is more paying for the buck elsewhere	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/26 01:44 AM
2	Final Trial Hearing in 3 Hours — Wish Me Luck Nice to hear a story where the husband comes out ahead!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 03:22 PM
8	Just sad and looking for anyone that can relate It is fucking tough. Hardest thing I have ever been through. Know this, emotions are not a constant state, they will undoubtedly change over time. It will get better especially if you adopt a growth mindset. Sure, go ahead and sulk, binge, whatever, but set a point in time in future where you will start taking care of yourself. If you have kids, focus on them! Here is you need someone! My D was final last month. What a fucking relief!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/26 04:20 PM
2	Pre-Mediation Talks If you are correct about the law, then I would ask the mediator to set her straight. It is likely better to come from them than from you, Unfortunately, the think that helped me/ us the most was time. It took 1.5/2 years for ideas and concepts to become reality in my brain. I wish we could have gotten there sooner, but you are both going to feel a bit screwed in the process. Also, there are many interpretations of family law so be open to that. Best of luck! It’s better on the other side. And kn…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 11:15 AM
1	Pre-Mediation Talks Don’t listen to this person. Think how to deescalate.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 11:10 AM
1	Just got divorced, finally Bullshit! Default is ex SPO. It also very judge specific.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/26 10:11 PM
1	Just signed Mediated Settlement Agreement I am in a community property state. Most assets were joint, and she challenged separate property. Yes, 3 kids 14 and under. We have pretty decent net worth and when the attorneys saw a vulnerable woman I think they tried to maximize their payday. I feel like the strategy of attorney is to determine a line each party won’t cross and then exploit it for their gain.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 11:20 AM
1	Just signed Mediated Settlement Agreement Unfortunately, it takes two to tango. I would have gladly done this myself, but she kept issuing discovery requests and taking me to temporary hearings. I have sold businesses and done multiple real estate deals without attorneys, but I was in control of those scenarios.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 11:13 AM
1	Almost over!!! Thanks!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 04:25 PM
1	Almost over!!! While I lost about half my assets, I am good financially. I used to be a financial advisor, when I worked. I still have 3 kids under age 15, so nearly half my time is spoken for.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 04:25 PM
1	Moving out Questions This! Don’t move out! I didn’t and it was a HUGE advantage.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 11:57 AM
2	Freaked out at custody exchange This. Delete!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/26 02:31 AM