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Being ugly is one of the worst fates you could ever have when you’re born, but it’s just the way it is. I think being ugly, while it can be real, is usually also in the eye of the beholder. I thought I was very ugly when I was a teen (I'm 38), but it just wasn't true. I was depressed, socially awkward, and fixated on "flaws" like nose size. Eventually I got over (most) of the mental problems and started to love myself a bit more. Loving myself more allowed me to realize that I wasn't ugly, I was…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 12:30 AM
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While I am in complete agreement with you that an antisexist society is more morally correct and also more interesting and creative, I think your general statement is wrong. The problem is that humanity is sexist, and unless you're willing to call all societies everywhere through all time shitholes (including renaissance periods in europe), you are exaggerating. Now, you are right that they were unequal and that depending on your gender / race, really awful places to be, but for white men that d…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 02:21 PM
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bullshit. consider your sources and your biases. and don't forget that there are morons everywhere, but that doesn't mean the morons speak for the group.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/20 01:26 AM
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I hope one day you are well enough to love yourself and those around you.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/20 12:28 AM
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He probably means the same general self-help advice which is used to lure people to any ideology: gaining self-confidence, working on your physical and mental health, etc. These kernels of positive messages are used over and over again by different hate groups because they are fantastic for getting people in before you start trickling the hateful messaging in with the normal, universal good stuff.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/20 04:36 PM
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aka the scam subreddit
/r/ExRedPill10/03/20 01:48 PM
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That's just the thing. Growing confidence through taking care of yourself and your career etc. are important for any self-improvement campaign. But that's not the red pill! Red pill is that extremely common chunk, but with a much larger manipulation / lumping together / hatred of women thrown on top. Then when pressed, they say no no no, it's all the good stuff in my first paragraph. The bad stuff in the second paragraph is just a few bad apples. Give me a break. Sometimes someone will say "yeah…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/19 06:16 PM
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You're just justifying your shitty opinions with this comment.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/19 07:31 PM
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Red Pill does state those things, but it goes far beyond, in a negative way. For instance, it suggests the PUA method of negging, and other woman-hating tactics. Related, it assumes all women are ultimately the same (AWALT). Finally, it treats women as conquests, not humans to have kinship with.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/19 06:38 PM
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Well, yeah. Pre-reqs many, many people miss.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 02:46 PM
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it's better to go MGTOW. Women are looking for a certain type of guy when their young and beautiful and a rich man to divorce when 30+. But, none of that is true. MGTOW people say that it is, because it feeds their self-worth. This kind of thinking festers in groups of guys who are all struggling with women, and it is easy for them to talk themselves into thinking it is true. But it doesn't align with reality. The (uncomfortable) truth is that MGTOW / Incel culture, and red-pill, is set up the w…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 07:22 PM
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That all sounds fine. I'm an adult man (37), so my expectations are different for another adult and for a college student. Succeeding at school and having a part time job are good for that age. The other stuff is still essential though--not being a slob, a creep, having some non-creep friends.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 07:13 PM
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Treating women like people. And, before that, having worked on yourself long enough that you are worthwhile (steady job, steady home, not a slob, not a creep, have a hobby or two, have some non-creep friends).
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 06:22 PM
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FYI other readers, "AWALT" apparently means "all women are like that."
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 06:46 PM
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Thanks philoerosophy, I appreciate it and I agree with all you've said.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/19 02:01 PM
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I second /u/palacesofparagraphs. Yes, we men in the extreme "compete" for women. But not really. I'm not attracted to most women. I assume you aren't, either. We might not even be in the same dating pool. And even if we were in the same general pool, it's not like it would be best if we just lined up by some weird measure (what, conventional "TV" attractiveness? intelligence? money? shoe size?) and then just paired up down the line. No, even within a pool of people generally attracted to the gen…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/19 01:49 AM
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http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Please, they have a hotline and text chat if you need someone to talk to now. I can't really much more than what the others have said. I can tell you a bit from my perspective as a 37 year old man. A lot of what you think you are seeing in other people and their relationships is fantasy. You're seeing a bit of what they're projecting, and then you are personally "filling in the details" to make the people and their relationships something they are not. I…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/19 01:34 AM
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Just keep reminding yourself it's you that's making these thoughts, not her, not anybody else. Also remember that trust builds. As you give her your trust, you'll feel a little better about it. Remind yourself that you are growing when you give trust. Hopefully, every time you give trust, it will become a little easier. It's not going to change overnight. Every partner is worth giving your trust. I'll be honest and state that this does not mean every partner is deserving of your trust. We wouldn…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/19 01:21 AM
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