| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Trying to stay strong, but wavering a bitThis helps me so much! Whenever I get the feeling of wanting to text him (which is happening less and less), I read what I wrote about him. The feeling stops instantly. | /r/askFDS | 17/12/20 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Can I preach right now?Yes. But they're stupid too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:53 AM |
| 28 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.Hope you're okay now ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 8 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."I think the whole thing is fake though. How could she have time to cook 4-5 meals a day and barely manage to find the time to eat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 11 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."I don't see it that way. In this situation, it's not that weird for her to be talking about the amount of food she eats. However, I don't think English is OP's first language, due to a few weird errors in her text. So maybe the comments you find annoying, are just her clumsily putting her story into words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:17 PM |
| 32 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."humblebrag about how tiny the OP is and how little she eats and how she just can't ever finish a meal. Op literally said the opposite though? I don't really get a humble brag vibe. If it's fake, it's a completely made up story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Highly recommend Mary (@maryscupoftea) on IG! She's all about women feeling good about themselves, whether it's in their body or in their life.I'm glad you like it! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 23 | Highly recommend Mary (@maryscupoftea) on IG! She's all about women feeling good about themselves, whether it's in their body or in their life.women do it to each other though. We don't. Not really. It's all to please the male gaze, as we've been taught our entire lives. We learn from a young age that our worth is directly linked to our beauty, so of course we don't like seeing other women being more beautiful, and thus 'more worthy'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 28 | Highly recommend Mary (@maryscupoftea) on IG! She's all about women feeling good about themselves, whether it's in their body or in their life.Right? It's all about women being 'competitive'. Like, sure, but WHY IS THAT🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 6 | The idea that someone is ever "asking for it" is disgusting. R*pe is about sick people, not their victims.This is very much true. Though, the time I was harrassed was when I was wearing a short red dress (I normally wear jeans). This is very circumstantial evidence, but I've been uneasy about wearing dresses late at night since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:48 AM |
| 80 | Lol @ these men pretending to be women 😂 they really think we can’t tell 😭"There is nothing I like more than putting a lot of effort in a woman's orgasm" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:14 PM |
| 2 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOThe grammar as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | I F(20) am extreamly insecure about my looks and it is holding me back in every aspect of life.until I pull myself down. In my experience, these moments happen less and less when you try again every day. This will be a very long and hard proces, but absolutely worth it in the end. | /r/askFDS | 03/12/20 12:50 PM |
| 4 | I F(20) am extreamly insecure about my looks and it is holding me back in every aspect of life.Fake it till you make it. It's not only a catchy sentence, it's really helpful in situations like this one. For two reasons: People are really bad in their judgements on who's pretty and who's not. When we see someone acting like their awesome and pretty, we'll be very much inclined to believe they're awesome and pretty. So, acting confident will have others believing you're beautiful. When you behave like you're confident and you believe in yourself, it will send signals to your brain that will… | /r/askFDS | 03/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 7 | “My boyfriend has already gotten me evicted due to his loud tantrums about video games, AITA if I maybe don’t let him get me evicted again?” 🙄This has been said to her about a 100 times in the original thread, but she still doesn't really see the problem. Also, as one redditor pointed out, if they only had a big fight after the eviction (and not during the countless times this man screamed at night), the fact they only had three fights tells us that she puts up with a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 23 | “My boyfriend has already gotten me evicted due to his loud tantrums about video games, AITA if I maybe don’t let him get me evicted again?” 🙄I had such high hopes for this girl leaving that absolute shitstain of a man, but then I read this comment: Despite his loudness, I really love him, lmao. It's also the first fight about something major we actually have, the only fights we usually have is about whatever or not water is a beverage or if God of War really deserved GOTY over RDR2, and I really don't wanna dump him over this. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 16 | X post from r/witchesvspatriarchyWe typically switch to Standard English when around other races out of necessity. I didn't know that, but it makes so much sense. You're right, not a chance this story is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Guess what most commenters said?I feel attacked 😅 How many times have I written a post and then deleted it a few days after because my ex managed to gaslight me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:59 AM |
| 134 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlRight?! "I couldn't attend to my daughter having probably the worst trauma she's ever experienced, because I had to mash potatoes". My god, poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 44 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlI love how your man was able to see through this <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:34 AM |
| 137 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭Mods, you girls rock 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:23 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, please helpAll of this. | /r/askFDS | 28/11/20 09:12 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, please helpSend a very short message containing 'this isn't working out' (just so he knows you're not dead and comes checking at your house), then block and delete. This guy is not worth your time. | /r/askFDS | 28/11/20 09:09 AM |
| 6 | I cancelled a ‘date’ last minute. It was the right thing to doI think the most important thing is that HE comes up with a new date. And of course, an apology is expected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:39 PM |
| 44 | I think my boyfriend gaslighted me i need adviceHey! I don't know if this is exactly gaslighting you, looks more like blackmail to me. "I'm going to keep on publicly disrespecting you until you get those pics down" I do know what you should do though. This doesn't sound like a HVM at all (LVM tendencies are not a thing. There's only HV or not HV), and it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship either. I'm sorry. | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeWhen you read my comment again, you'll hopefully see that I'm not assuming a thing. I get that a few women here did nitpick on your friend, but in their defence, you just showed us a guy who built a fairly well made door and expect us to deem him HV right away. That's not how this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeGet a grip girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:37 AM |
| 3 | "Women have the right to be brutal, to fight back"- Philosopher Slavoj Zizek on men who identify as feministsI already saw a few of his videos, he's indeed an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:20 PM |
| 0 | "Women have the right to be brutal, to fight back"- Philosopher Slavoj Zizek on men who identify as feministsGirl, check out ContraPoints instead and maybe even read Nietzsche and greek myth like Apollo and Dionysis direct so you can better understand why Jordan Peterson is a fucking tool. I could go on and on. I did read those. But you have to listen to Jordan Peterson to know what he's saying, to know he's a tool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:06 PM |
| 0 | "Women have the right to be brutal, to fight back"- Philosopher Slavoj Zizek on men who identify as feministsBecause knowledge is power, and this is someone most young men listen to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 21 | Focused and unimpressed 👋🏻🤡This queen is preaching, holy shit 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeJust saw the other comments. I don't know why OP is so willing to die on this hill (for another woman's man), while everyone here is just telling others to be cautious. It's not about this specific guy, it's about recognizing high value and low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 13 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeBecause he built a door, he could have any woman he wants? I hope we all know better than to deem someone HV because of one single act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Silicone breast implants - from the Museum of Broken Relationships (Zagreb)It is!! In Croatia :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Silicone breast implants - from the Museum of Broken Relationships (Zagreb)You're right, I meant the one in Croatia :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 6 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.He proposed after a week but she only met his parents after TWO YEARS? Wtf kind of backwards thinking is this? Congratulations, you're married to a lovebombing, narcissistic Indian guy and will be reduced to cleaning lady /babysitter in no time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | This would have saved me so much time.Does anyone know who's doing the talking here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:55 AM |
| 23 | I snitch on cheating men 😌He's the one that should feel ashamed, not you. You were loving a man despite him being unlovable, which says so many great things about you ❤ Learn from the experience and move on, don't ever think you have something to be ashamed of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:50 AM |
| 29 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThat sub is becoming more and more of a paradox | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.No, you don't. You really don't. If you need support, go to friends or family, but get the hell away from this lying bastard. He knows you need him and will never let you believe otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.I know that that hurts, but it doesn't matter what the women look like. What matters is that he is one of those pervs online, and even worse, he is lying through his teeth to the woman he supposedly loves. I wish you all the luck in the world <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:13 AM |
| 22 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.Um, what? Tell us more? :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:11 AM |
| 5 | HVM material 🤣Right? The comments are all about that while she is cooking his food in that very moment. But that is just what women really like to do, right? No need to be thankful for a woman cooking 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:35 AM |
| 13 | We got the top two trending threads on r/AgainstHateSubreddits this week! We did it ladies! 🥳🥳 Apparently no closeted gay man has ever been misogynist and also we’re the reason feminism isn’t working and not men!Another bi one here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?I dont know what the first girl said, but this sounds about right :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 26 | Women hit a wall..??!I'm so glad this 'trend' is getting called out in FDS. Like, who ever started this shit? Nobody likes a beer belly better than a fit, healthy body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?I'm so sorry for you two, and I wish you all the best <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?Oh he sounds awesome, I'm happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:13 AM |
| 28 | ShOcKiNg!!!You are so right :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 37 | ShOcKiNg!!!I really want to send this one to my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Guy who didn't like cats can't stop rescuing them nowI think that's because it's more socially acceptable to dislike cats than to dislike dogs, for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 13 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsShe linked her previous post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:16 AM |
| 16 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsAhhh you queen, that's awesome! I wish you a great journey, both literally and figuratively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:15 AM |
| 44 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.This really is a hard pill to swallow. I don't know if I'm ever going to be able to not care about my appearance. Of course, looks are essentially redundant, but they make up such a great part of our lives. I'd love to hear some tips on caring a little less :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:13 AM |
| 6 | Multiple green flags! Notice how he gets up to clean immediately, involves the kid in his happiness, puts off the playing till later when the kids are in bed. Etc. It’s the small things.Okay! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:02 AM |
| 15 | Multiple green flags! Notice how he gets up to clean immediately, involves the kid in his happiness, puts off the playing till later when the kids are in bed. Etc. It’s the small things.The woman in the beginning just stood there tho? She was acting a bit cutesie, but not childlike at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:56 AM |
| 27 | Multiple green flags! Notice how he gets up to clean immediately, involves the kid in his happiness, puts off the playing till later when the kids are in bed. Etc. It’s the small things.Because the guy is literally playing with his child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Don’t ever lower your value because of a broken wing not yet healed.Oh my god yes me too! I have been inhaling FDS these last couple of days, and am constantly reassured that this is the good path to take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 27 | Ending my relationship because of what I have learned from this subMy first ex used to say that to me too. "Nobody's ever going to love you like I do". I mean, up until now, he was right. But I am loving myself now and that means so much more than the half-assed efforts of some scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Ending my relationship because of what I have learned from this subGood luck! Please don't back out, you're on the right track here. This man is not able, or even willing to make you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 57 | Women having standards = bad. Posted on a sexist subredditRight? I instantly saved it, good list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:12 PM |
| 97 | Kick him out sisWhere in the hell do men get their audacity, it's like that shit never runs out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 5 | We should pray for her...I love how the fields have become an FDS meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | We should pray for her...You're asking for good hygiene? You're so high maintenance, ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | We should pray for her...This is about changing your underwear tho. Just change it every day, no need to think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:15 PM |
| 4 | We should pray for her...Right? Even if you just lie in bed for four days, you'd smell bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:13 PM |
| 26 | Still friends with a hurtlocker more than a year later. But I can’t escape the need to ask the question on why wasn I good enough to commit to?There are a few exeptions, but as a general rule, yeah | /r/askFDS | 10/11/20 12:45 PM |
| 54 | Poor woman, awful husbandThe more I'm on this sub, the more I'm losing hope in men. Why are they so vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 89 | Still friends with a hurtlocker more than a year later. But I can’t escape the need to ask the question on why wasn I good enough to commit to?You (hopefully) already know the answer to this question. Don't ask him why, that is none of your business, just get the hell out of there. He is not good for you, and neither are his doubleteaming friends. There is no answer that will ever be satisfying. Please do yourself a favour and get new friends. | /r/askFDS | 10/11/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Epiphany about my body since having a break from dating.Yes!! So much this! I came to this conclusion once, when I complimented some guys arms, and he says; "what do you mean? They're just my arms? I use them for rock climbing, which is cool". This totally changed my perspective on body parts. They don't have to be pretty, or scar-free, or tall or short or fat or thin. Your body is here to help you. Thanks for reminding me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Don’t ever lower your value because of a broken wing not yet healed.I'm so glad to hear that! Your post gave me some light as well :) It was a rough week (bf and I broke things off after 3 years), so I could use it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Don’t ever lower your value because of a broken wing not yet healed.I have a tattoo of a hummingbird and this gave it another meaning, thanks <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How we handle LVMOf course they can. But why do men always feel the need to share it? Not once have I looked at some hot guy and felt obligated to tell anyone, let alone my boyfriend. People can be attractive, no need to share it every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 16 | It’s probably been posted before butttt...Broke up with the guy a few days ago (didn't want to marry me after three years), and my skin looks healthier than ever! My God, I've slept like a baby, already lost a few pounds, it's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:35 AM |
| 15 | SCROTES MAD: a taste of their own medicine 😜 💉🩹I saved it somewhere, will be right back Edit: am back. It was another one than the one you mentioned. Still tho, fun. I made a picture, I think the post itself was deleted. http://imgur.com/a/rAUVaVG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 23 | This is not wholesome.Imagine getting so little compliments, it actually feels like torture when your boyfriend suddenly starts flattering you excessively. He must have made you so insecure for this to work. "Wholesome memes", sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:35 AM |
| 61 | Ultimate pickmeisha move - proposing to your boyfriend with a watchWe all know she's not going to have an engagement ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | A man crashed the car when I rejected his touchy advancesBut..but.. men were the logical thinkers and women were the emotional ones, right? :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 4 | What to do as the forever girlfriendYeah, well, he can search for his perfect pickmeisha a little earlier now. What an ass. | /r/askFDS | 05/11/20 11:46 AM |
| 8 | What to do as the forever girlfriendThe man literally said "you're crazy" when I broke up with him yesterday. He really thinks he's God's gift to the world. | /r/askFDS | 05/11/20 11:44 AM |
| 5 | What to do as the forever girlfriendThanks <3 I did, feel better already | /r/askFDS | 05/11/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | What to do as the forever girlfriendYou are so right, thanks! I broke it off a couple of hours ago, I feel so much better already. | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | What to do as the forever girlfriendOkay time for.an update. We talked about it again, this time he laid all his doubts on the table. They were all bullshut. The last one was that he wanted to be able to have sex with multiple people, he wasn't ready to commit to one person yet. I'm proud to say I dumped him right then and there. | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | What to do as the forever girlfriendThat's what I thought :( I'm so mad at myself for falling for it | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What to do as the forever girlfriendThank you so much! I already feel better, now that I've made this decision. Do you think I should be the perfect girlfriend this week, to show him what he'll be missing? Or should I just not give a damn? | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 6 | What to do as the forever girlfriendThanks for the advice :) Unfortanetely, I did already tell him last night. I said that I want to be proposed somewhere in the next six months, and that otherwise, I see no other option but to leave him. His response? "I'll think about it" So. I am going to take a week to reflect on this myself, but I am definitely breaking up with him next weekend (unless he'll propose to me by then, but he won't). If you still don't know whether you want to marry me, you're not worthy. Too bad tho, he was just … | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Your past is over, so don't let it define you. Forgive yourself and make your future better!I needed to read this today, thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???Oh that sounds cool, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 26 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???On a side note: can anyone recommend a good female led podcast? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:53 AM |
| 12 | Drinks = drunk enough for sex with a random girl, movie and cuddle = sex with a random girl, but dinner is too much of a risk in this “current climate” 😒🙄I love the way you responded! Friendly but resolute. Well done :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:42 PM |
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