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| 8 | If you have any thoughts of divorce, do it quickly. It is better to be wrong about ending a good relationship, than to be wrong about trying to save a bad one.Ooof this hit home, exactly. I wanted out for a long time and never could do it. When I finally did, she took a little while to finally come to the same realization, but once she did, she went full on "fuck you, it's over and I'll do what I want" mode. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Divorce is like FootballThat's fucked up man, sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Spousal Support GOES UP when one child's child support goes away?You can get an idea from the California Guideline Support calculator: https://childsupport.ca.gov/guideline-calculator/ I'm in CA and the difference was like less than $100/mo overall change when my oldest drops off CS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/22 06:23 PM |
| 3 | ReminiscingI am early in my divorce but I can truly say I can't think of good memories with ONLY my STBXW. I tried to rack my brain and I really couldn't. All my fond memories involve the kids or parties with other couples, etc. I can't even remember much about our honeymoon, at least nothing specific and happy. Any yet...I still have days where I, for some fucked up reason, imagine how it could have been if my ex was not a raging narcissist and terrible person. The cognitive dissonance messes with my head… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | On the fence.I feel you. I flirted with divorce so many times, I should have trusted my gut feel. But at least I'm finally getting away from her. Better late than never. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/22 04:03 AM |
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