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This sounds like she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. That means just one thing: R U N ! ! !
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:50 PM
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Learn to meditate. This will help you separate yourself from your mind and let go of your ego. It will be difficult at first but you just need to get through it. Try an app like Headspace, it will guide you through the process. Then find your mission. Girls aren't a mission, they are just nice to haves in your life, but what's most important is yourself. If you take care of yourself, your self-esteem will grow and you won't care about rejection.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:05 PM
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Don't forget to update how it goes... best of luck!
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:48 AM
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This clearly bothers you. I think LTR material wouldn't put you in such position. I would demote to a plate or ghost. I was in such situation in the past and in my case my then LTR eventually fucked this guy again. I learned about this some time after the break up from a common friend. This is the basis of my reasoning AWALT. edit: Another thought is that women are aware that such situation would have caused problem for a man she dates. It is completely normal to feel anxious about her spending …
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:43 AM
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It's like making a meal from scratch or throwing ready meal to the microwave. Depending on your cooking skill either one will taste better, but the outcome is the same - you are no longer hungry. Well, maybe a difference is how you think about yourself how you got that meal. But if meals are not the centre of your life, you'd rather dwell on your mission.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:51 AM
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This is interesting phenomenon that people value the same amount of money differently depending on where it comes from. You will value your $100, that you worked for hard, more than $100 won in a lottery. The same is being observed when it comes to investment in a relationship. Read a book "Misbehaving" by R. Thaler. It is pretty eye opening how people view such things.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 10:14 PM
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It is only a tool if you want to be around alcoholics. But if you remove alcohol and alcohol related stories from their conversations you learn that those people are boring and empty. You realise that such tool is pointless.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:25 PM
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I quit few years ago after almost killing myself. Best decision ever. Almost everything in my life improved since then and I look 10 years younger now. People think I am in mid 20s from my looks and I will be 40 in no time.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:23 PM
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Meditation helps with focusing, but you may consult your health advisor about that. Also think why you want to do it, what is your goal with this. Write down your goal and stick them where you would see them so when you wander off with mind your eye will catch it and put you back on track. But don't expect miracles, these just are those little things that alone don't do much (maybe except meditation) but together can give you a sense of mission. Also try to have a journal and write down every ev…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:06 PM
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You pay for pussy one way or another...
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:59 PM
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I suggest reading about various personality disorders (borderline, narcissist, bipolar) to spot any illness early on. I think this is more useful than TRP itself, as with that knowledge you may save yourself from a great trouble.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:36 PM
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That shouldn't mean she should talk to people about you and giving out private information. You never know who that person is and how they use that information.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:16 AM
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Why your girl talk to strangers about what you do and shit?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:17 PM
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False. If they want to fuck, they'll fuck you. Everyone once in a while craves some junk food.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:50 AM
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R U N ​ F O R ​ Y O U R ​ L I F E!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:48 PM
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It is not a failure if you learn from it and won't repeat it. It's okay to fail.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:46 PM
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I used to have a friend who didn't have any social media presence, only email. He was doing great in terms of pulling girls.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:59 AM
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What did you watch?
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:27 AM
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Thanks my man I am working on it. It's not easy to just jump out after 10 years.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 11:13 PM
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My LTR sabotages every effort I made at getting in better shape. She knows that if I get to look better it will be over. (Well it is going to be over anyway, because I am tired of her shit and I am waiting for a good moment to ghost. It will be difficult as we have been together 10 years now. When I learned about borderline and that she fits most of the symptoms I realised I was being manipulated the whole time).
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:42 PM
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Oh and when you put yourself out there, make sure you look good. Get into fashion, how to care about your skin, get a good haircut and so on. With good body you'll command respect, but if you body is in premium looking package you'll command even more.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:32 AM
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People will make you feel like a douche if you won't do what they ask you to do. It's better to ignore worrying about being a douche altogether. If you have some ethics, then you should be fine.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:31 PM
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This could be a problem. This seems to be like an addiction then? I don't know how to solve it. I'd look into getting more hobbies, maybe learning an instrument or stock exchange.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:29 AM
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You sound like you have no mission. What's your mission?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:09 AM
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What if you have to change to be something you are naturally and who you are now, is a product of blue pill conditioning?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:32 PM
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I always thought that being alpha is about having fun, not treating life seriously but making sure nobody takes advantage of you. Probably because people are used to being idle, going towards the right path needs a regime to a certain degree and this is where it may become unhealthy. It is easy to forget what it is all about.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:23 PM
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I think you should embrace it. This is not their fault they are what they are. Just play the game and enjoy the advantage you have. It's like being angry at the tigers that they kill other animals. edit: missed few words
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:13 PM
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Liberalism is these days a codeword for Marxism and has nothing to do with freedom.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:00 PM
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Why do you keep contact? It's good to remove all toxic people. Why do you care what some circle thinks about you?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:09 PM
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This is one of the biggest things you can do in your life is to admit you have been lied to. In typical person brain it just doesn't compute. This thing is life changing. I am now still in the anger phase and wondering if I had known about this 10 years ago would I not gotten myself into this shitty LTR? Would I lift? Would I read? 10 years ago I thought reading was for stupid people! That in the books, all you get is bullshit. Now I know why - because through school and friends the books I read…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:08 PM
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It is going to get worse, because voters only can choose from blue pilled white knights or bat shit crazy feminists. Anyone remotely different is getting crucified.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:05 PM
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Man, stay away from alcohol. It will drag you down, especially if you feel depressed. Person in such state is a perfect victim of alcoholism. Do you read? What do you read? Before taking the pills, have you considered CBT therapy?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:10 PM
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Do you read? You train your muscles, but what about your brain?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:05 PM
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If a woman wants to fuck and sees prospective alpha money doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:30 PM
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If they don't say anything interesting, why do you waste your time with them? If their talking brings something to your table, then shut up and listen. For people who don't give pauses for others to talk your are just a spectator, so if the show isn't interesting there is no point watching it and you wouldn't interrupt someone's show would you? But once you absorb their repertoire you can just drop them.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:30 PM
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I am in a LTR of 10 years now and we never got married. At 5 years I'd say we were okay given that I was a beta and a faggot all that time. But internally I knew marriage is something I never do. We had that conversation actually somewhere 5 year mark too as I remember. I just said no and if she needs marriage she would have to find someone else. Now if I got married I would have been properly fucked right now. I am so glad I didn't fall for that. I am looking to end this relationship at some po…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:30 AM
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But she wanted you to get married. Marriage in western society give disproportionate advantage to women over men. Did you ask why she would want you to do this?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:45 AM
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I experience it when I have overwhelming anxiety. To overcome anxiety you need to have options or know that you can make options easily. It is when you know that regardless of the outcome you will be fine. Maybe you are lacking something that subconsciously lets you know that you can't make options? Do you lift, read, do you have your mission?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:30 AM
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Why don't you start lifting and read books? ​ Why do you want to give up all your options to her? Why do you see yourself with her? When you see yourself with her, do you see a beta faggot servicing his princess? Is her vagina very special? ​ > how I could be moving on so fast she thought you had so low SMV that you wouldn't be able to date in months and surprise surprise her beta provider lost shackles and realised there are other vaginas out there... ​ why would you care what she thinks? ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:52 AM
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Tell them they are crabs in the bucket and you'll have none of it. Ask them if they want you to be a crab like they are or something more than this? Why would your dad put so much money in your education only to have a handyman and a tax aid at home? Isn't that just plain stupid? You don't need education for that. It is their duty to give their child education. If they feel sour about it, then why they had you in the first place? So you are their pet? Just move the fuck out and don't look back. …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:20 AM
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I think the key is to have infinite lives within finite time we are given and be looking from above with admiration. Clinging to that one life despite it not being meant for you is a nature's trap as we think we desire something we can't have more. But think what kind of shitty life you are going to have with all those red flags up your arse? Looking from above, would you admire that? I have ignored many red flags and looking back, this was my biggest mistake in this life.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:05 AM
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I think that came across as passive aggressive. I'd just let it pass through and said something like "okay great, and?". ​
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:32 PM
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I am sorry but your messages reminded me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OS5wFSzEdg Are you from Manitowoc?
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:26 PM
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I have never really lived and progression of my illness pushed me onto looking for a cure, then I stumbled upon TRP coincidentally when my doctor said I can lift. So her I am in 10 year old LTR with abusive partner. I am going to stay in for now, to work on my body, assertiveness and the game. People said discovering TRP whilst in LTR is like a golden ticket, where you have a way to practice and nothing to lose. ​
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:44 PM
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Thank you for your wise words. I'll internalize it.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:26 PM
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Thank you. It is not easy but I am pulling myself together to get through it. I have decided that I will not go until I find my mission and have a plan for what I am going to do on my own. Now I have found my mission and almost everything I need to go.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:25 PM
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This is very true and I will remember that.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:36 AM
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I responded to another comment.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:35 AM
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I made a huge mistake buying a house with her, so one of the reasons I have not left is that it could be really ugly and I am not sure I am ready. I left once a couple of years ago (without knowing about TRP) and ended up in hospital failing at suicide. I am no longer that person though, so kind of I actually succeeded. I also don't want to do things based on emotions. I don't interact with her much so life is "alright", but if it is going to be tougher I'll definitely leave. Of course I had que…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:34 AM
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Someone wrote here that being in LTR whilst absorbing all this knowledge is like a golden ticket.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:24 AM
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To be honest I consider myself being on the spectrum.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:22 AM
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I wish my LTR did that. You have a great opportunity ahead of you to work on yourself in peace. Never again live with a female.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:17 PM
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I meant that you need to pass _your_ genes. ​ I agree that the world is overpopulated though, but that's socialism to blame.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:54 PM
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Captain's untreated oneitis...
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:06 PM
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Why is it going to hurt you? Or is that your ego that will be inflicting the pain on you? Focus on yourself and your mission and drop the ego as well as this girl.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:05 PM
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You need to pass the genes.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:52 PM
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Broken record, fogging and then soft next if persists. If she is still a pain, then it is a hard next.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:50 PM
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Why not just sign to Freemasons?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:25 PM
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If a girl doesn't clean and then when you rent a housekeeper she moans that I waste money and insist you should clean?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:22 PM
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Why stress will be high? Do you plan on being stressed? You are just a human and not a machine. Learn from mistakes and just do your best. The worst can happen you'll lose your job. So fucking what. You'll find another one... If you did your best, then accept it and move on. Also the brand, career ladder don't mean shit, this stuff isn't really important. It is just someone else's world you'll be interacting with. What should be most important to you is yourself. If you are good, then there will…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:10 AM
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Change name, style and go lifting.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:02 AM
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It is in the interest of the elites to have men weak. First they took away weapons, then they will take away testosterone. This way no man will be a threat to the status quo.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:56 AM
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You sound like this dude who seems to be always outside the shop and asks for change. He likes to drink with his mates and talk about politics and how he would become the best prime minister. Truth is that you are nothing and nobody gives a shit about you so why should you give a shit about someone else? Just work on your mission.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:02 AM
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If it turns out to be a flop, you are minimising the chances of casually meeting her. If the ride is without much interchanges then you can use it to meditate or read books. It's good if you have problem with self-discipline. I think that distance is ideal. If it is going to be an obstacle, it is a good indication that the girls is not worth investing time in.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:30 PM
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Man, cut them off. If they are not taking drugs for medical reasons then there is no point having them in your life. If they have issues and they are not dealing with them, then you are in the bucket with the rest of the crabs. What are your hobbies, mission?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:13 PM
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I cut off everyone. At one point I realised they were all toxic with their dramas, willingness to take advantage and substance abuse. My life has become so much better, but I still need to work on a couple of things.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:03 PM
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You can also grow bad ass beard and your attitude will change. When you are negotiating something it will be easier for you to get better terms than if you were a beta shy boi.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:29 PM
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I am preparing myself for that basically. I had a talk with her today that I don't accept this behaviour any more. You see I realised I have not set boundaries. I have never said that when she talk abuse to me then it is over. If I left without that, that would a bit WTF. But once I have boundaries in place this will be much cleaner. I think she realised now that I am being serious and changed the tone a bit. I didn't say how the things she does make me feel, but how this looks like from outside…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:24 PM
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I have a feeling that going to the gym is not wise if you are not strong enough to use up all opportunities at home. For example if you cannot do one push up, what's the point going to the gym? If you can't lift your shopping bag, why would you block space in the gym? Buy some weights and lift at home until you can't feel anything when lifting home stuff. Money saved this way put into an index fund. edit: grammar
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:18 PM
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Do you have your own mission? Focus on that. There will be always people better than you. You should learn from them instead of resent them. The feeling is just a feeling. You can better control thinking about your feelings by practising meditation.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:01 PM
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We own the place together, so it would be messy. I have enough savings to rent something on my own and I have planned "the escape" in case this is necessary. I feel like this is it, but given responses to my previous post I have this feeling in the back of my head that I am not being reasonable, but I have not seen any change of her behaviour even after getting my diagnosis. She was only worried when I had biopsy taken last year and when I said that the further testing will show if I have the fo…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:42 PM
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I think I wrote not sure. Yes I am feeling as being used but I don't really know what's normal behaviour. We live together yes. We have split finances, but I tend to pay for most of the things. She is aware that I am ill but I don't think she read anything I sent her about my illness. She keeps telling me that I am just lazy and don't want to help. I was diagnosed not long ago by a known doctor in the field and it took me couple of years going to doctors and listening that this is all in my head…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:11 PM
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To avoid dealing with her threats. I know that was stupid, but I am chronically ill and when I have an episode of fatigue I just want things to go away.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:50 PM
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In my life I have only seen relationships that had one or another element of abuse. I always acted to avoid it even at a cost of agreeing to something I don't want. I understand that the TRP response would be to just hard next at the first occurence of violence. I just want to make sure I will not give up.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:18 AM
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I got into a habit of recording everything, so at least I would have that documented. I'll think about it.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:15 AM
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This I find weird. With so much spare time OP could just frequent local bins and I am sure he could score a number of computers. 5 year old crap would be more than enough to start a business. If bin diving is beneath him, then just ask local companies. Companies typically have a storage room with old hardware they didn't bother to recycle. OP would only have to buy used drives. He could walk from house to house asking for a hard drive. These days anyone (except OP) has a spare ready to bin drive…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:14 AM
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Yes I did.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:40 AM
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Her excuse is that it is too big and her jaw hurts, but she can chew gum for hours.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:22 AM
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I agree, but I think the LTR would be a good opportunity to practice TRP. I don't want to end it prematurely where I could have learned something if I have withstood the storm. I am just embarking on an uncharted territory for me.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:16 AM
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I think the substance of the matter is that I will have nothing in return and potentially I will expose myself to a financial loss. I am also not an instructor.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:12 AM
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She doesn't do that :-(
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:10 AM
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If you don't believe search for teaching driving in the askmrp and asktrp. I couldn't find a single post.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:09 AM
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After she threw such a fight and now she went silent I'll be beta if I agree. I think leadership is also advising her to get a professional, no? She was violent couple of times but not in the last few years. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:08 AM
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I spent couple of hours searching asktrp and askmrp and couldn't find an answer. Yes I just need a realiy check because I have a feeling that I am being unreasonable but stronger feeling is that I am being taken advantage of.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:03 AM
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