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fortehz/r/seduction10/06/15 11:14 PM
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I try to be more aware when I'm talking to girls. It helps to remember that some girls can't take the "dude" banter i.e. teasing, negging, or borderline insults that guys typically say when in conversation. I have a problem with this and tend to forget about it which bites me in the ass.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:46 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. What makes you you is what sets you apart from others. Focus on what is unique to you and use it to your advantage. Also if a girl rejects you because of your height then she might not be worth your time.
/r/seduction22/04/16 01:35 AM
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OP had that in his post. And im asking how. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:36 AM
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Hmm intradasting. I can definitely see over smiling as insincere kind of like a slick salesman kind of vibe. I would say how much i smile is dependent on how much I'm enjoying the conversation. And most of the time i can maintain an enjoyable and interesting convo so long as the girl is receptive. I'll have to be more attentive next time and notice when and how long I'm smiling for.
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:10 AM
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Awesome read dude you're a total boss. Question though. Too much smiling? I've never read that anywhere (i haven't read too much heh). I'm usually not smiling just in general but if I'm approaching I'll have a slight grin more often than not. And I joke quite a lot so we will both be smiling. I'm only not smiling when I'm being sarcastic or when we are discussing serious topics. I can't really think how smiling too much can hurt my chances of closing.
/r/seduction24/08/15 10:56 PM
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Pensacola
/r/seduction15/08/15 02:09 AM
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I don't know the specifics of your situation but generally you shouldn't buy gifts for girls that you've just met. If it was like food or a drink then whatever thats not a big deal. Just ask her out. Pick something that both of you enjoy simple stuff nothing crazy unless you are comfortable with crazy. If you are calm, comfortable, and having fun then most likely she is too. Move around. Do things. Grab her hand. Lead her around. Be playful. Tease and compliment. Make sure to kino. And talk slow…
/r/seduction11/08/15 04:44 PM
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im asian so facial hair is something i dont have to deal with. My chest length hair is a problem though.
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:08 AM
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I play video games a lot, I've played table top games a lot, i play airsoft regularly, i have a collection of sci fi novels and legos. Do i straight up tell a girl these things obviously not. But if she asks i don't hesitate to answer that I'm a huge nerd. Just avoid being a neckbeard and your golden.
/r/seduction11/08/15 12:34 AM
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Dude don't worry. Tinder will put a higher priority on attractive people (based of your Facebook info and pictures). So if you're less "attractive" according to tinder your swipes won't show up. I deleted mine like 3 weeks ago, and I'm gonna remake it soon with new pictures. Swiping less can also help.
/r/seduction10/07/15 10:47 PM
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Thanks for the link. I'll try making a new account in a few weeks and see where that gets me.
/r/seduction25/06/15 11:38 PM
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So I've just started using tinder like 3 weeks ago. I've swiped a lot and so far I've gotten zero matches, likes, swipes whatever it is. Am I just an ugly barnacle or something cause I thought I would be getting at least a few likes. Any advice?
/r/seduction25/06/15 10:46 PM
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That is weird. Um idk I just naturally look into the persons eyes. I don't really know how to explain it. But you can practice your eye contact by just looking at yourself in a mirror. Don't focus on any specific part of your face except for your eyes.
/r/seduction18/06/15 01:24 AM
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If you're talking to someone maintain eye contact. If you glance at an attractive girl and you both make eye contact don't forget to smile. Even if you just lock eyes with some random person just smile, or if you're walking past just say "hi". Try to avoid making faces or looking sad and just keep a neutral or happy face. Most people will appreciate it by reciprocating.
/r/seduction17/06/15 11:40 PM
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Yea I much prefer day game but I'm not in school currently and I work everyday so I don't have too many opportunities to day game. I'm hoping tinder will at least provide some entertainment until my fall semester starts again. And thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction11/06/15 01:25 AM
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Nah dude play airsoft like me I'm super 0p3rat0r. Seriously I just do what I like such as reading, redditing, videogames, cooking, and airsoft. I wouldn't commit to a hobby just to impress a girl unless it's pickup of course.
/r/seduction08/06/15 12:07 AM
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First of all spell check your words. Second calm the fuck down. Go out somewhere. Anywhere that will have females. Wait till you see a girl that you genuinely find attractive, take a deep breath, hold it in, exhale, put a smile on your face, and fucking go. Be casual. You don't have to use any fancy lines or whatever. Be direct. Tell her that you find her attractive. Tell her you want her number. Tell her you want to take her out. But convey with your body language and confidence that you also w…
/r/seduction28/05/15 02:30 AM
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I would just ask her for a date. Even if you can't tell if she is interested or not she is keeping up with the texting so more than likely she is interested. But whether or not she is interested enough to go out with you is a gamble. So just ask. Plus if you wait too long then she will lose interest guaranteed. Unless she managed to develop a crush on you or something idk.
/r/seduction23/04/15 12:59 AM
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Nice username lol. Try imagining going on a date with her based off of her personality you've seen so far. If you think you would enjoy it then bam go for it. But if she is so shy to the point where she won't go out with you or she is super quite when you're talking with her then maybe you should forget about her.
/r/seduction23/04/15 12:25 AM
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I would but I'm in the panhandle. Doesn't seem to be too many Sedditors here.
/r/seduction13/04/15 01:31 AM
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I think everyone in this sub will say direct is the best. However it's not easy to pull it off. I think pacing is very important when it comes to communicating what you want with a girl. Go too fast and she might think you're a creep, desperate, or a player. Go to slow and she will just lose interest. I think that's really what I need to improve on other than my approach anxiety.
/r/seduction31/03/15 02:18 AM
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I managed maybe 50+ approaches in like 3 months but that's just a guess. I've actually forgotten which I guess is a thing because I used to approach a lot. I mainly approached on campus, at my mall, and then random places. I've only had like 5 number closes and I never managed to get a date. But for a lot of those approaches I never asked for a number. I mainly focused on talking with the girl. I started from being a total loser when it comes to girls so I never had the balls to ask for a number…
/r/seduction30/03/15 11:53 PM
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Nice dude. That was my whole mentality for like the first semester of my freshman year and it was great. But the only advice I could offer is a warning. I got discouraged after getting nowhere with my approaches and slowly stopped approaching altogether and developed a slight crush on a classmate. Now my second semester is almost and over, and I haven't done a single approach. Once you get going don't stop or put too much attention on one girl (unless you really want to) because that can really …
/r/seduction30/03/15 11:06 PM
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You're probably never gonna be in this same situation ever again. Good luck.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:07 AM
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I assumed you've tried to reschedule. People can be busy, and maybe you just got bad luck three times. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt so I would try rescheduling. But if that isn't the case, then you either didn't initiate fast enough or you did it too fast. Or she just didn't want to meet up. But if they don't make an effort to even notify you that they're not coming that's just rude. Demand an answer from them. A 'no' is way better than no response as it saves you time, and it s…
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:56 AM
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Hey I do this quite often so.... But I mean I do things. Eventually.
/r/seduction14/03/15 04:00 AM
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Ill make sure to bring my magic deck to the bar next time. Bitches love blue green black control.
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:01 PM
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I'm a nerd so my first approaches happened to be made at pax prime last year. On like day two I approached like maybe 10 or so girls. I went from a total loser introvert fat nerd to a somewhat decently well kept overweight dude who could talk with random hot girls. I didn't even notice how attractive this one girl, a skullcandy booth worker was, and for your imagination just think of a typical booth babe so yeah. I enjoyed what I saw, but while we were talking that didn't make me nervous at all.…
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:51 PM
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Ehh any budget "gaming" motherboard is decent. Most people tend to over do the motherboard because of "future proofing" but really it's not a huge deal.
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:44 AM
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Good job commander (I assume your user is a mass effect reference).
/r/seduction31/12/14 06:04 PM
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Your welcome bro and hopefully you have better luck than me.
/r/seduction24/10/14 12:51 AM
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Don't worry too much on if it is 'ok' or not. Focus on whether or not you actually want to, and if she is interested. Just go for it, and don't let the outcome bother you.
/r/seduction24/10/14 12:32 AM
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Well when you don't let someone go somewhere especially in a situation you were in then yeah that's kind of creepy from the girl's perspective.
/r/seduction11/10/14 12:43 PM
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I'm obese, I don't have the best looking face, my hair can be very messy, and my clothing sense is decent. So with that being said I started gaming pretty soon after I started self-improvement. And I started doing things I never thought I could do. I talked to more girls in a 4 day period than I ever did in the entirety of high school. Now I try to average 3 girls a day (though as of late I've lost motivation. Still have a lot of work left in self-improvement ) I believe that seduction is one of…
/r/seduction26/09/14 01:54 AM
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Some sedditors only see a potential kiss or sexy times, and forget about the person. I'm don't disagree with their techniques, but I believe that sex should not be the main reason why one talks to girls. I love just talking to girls. No cgaming no seduction. It feels great just to learn about someone. To learn about their lives. And when it's a member of the opposite sex it's more fun and challenging. It's good to know that other sedditors understand this. And you put it in perfect words.
/r/seduction01/09/14 11:16 PM
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Well that quote just slapped me in the face.
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:06 PM
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