The swiping has begun

djdroid · 2015-06-11T01:13:12+00:00

Don't have too high of hopes.

Tinder represents a buyers market heavily slated towards females. You'll maybe get a match for every 25 swipes, maybe get one reply for every 3 messages sent. And MAYBE get one number for every 10 girls who reply.

Don't take it too seriously. Make jokes, make fun of yourself, make fun of other people. Play it cool & casual, keep messages short. No one wants tinder penpals. If she seems interested, go for it. Say you think she's cute and you wanna get to know her better. Go for coffee, a walk, something quick and simple where you can actually talk.

cmiovino · 2015-06-11T19:59:12+00:00

I did the opposite. Did some other online sites, then started getting back heavily into daygame (daily, 1 hour).

Results from daygame are 10x better and easier than online. In person, you're effectively skipped all the bullshit of messaging, getting her attention, getting a number, texting, and getting her out. Boom, you're there, you're already talking and have the best option to build attraction.

From there, I honestly believe it's much easier than online to get more solid numbers. Don't mean you won't get flakes or turn downs, but at least it filters out the garbage really quick. Either you don't vibe with them, they don't vibe with you, or they actually might have a boyfriend.

Online is ok to factor in, but don't end up heavily relying on it. It's a crap shoot. Tinder seems to be bais to hookups. Other sites have more damaged and screwed up individuals - not all, but some. They're all there for a reason. If they were awesome, most of the time they would have options on the real world.

Title	The swiping has begun
Author	fortehz
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	June 10, 2015 11:14 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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