forthelovelylemons Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Then WHY did you not leave him girl Thabk you for clarifying. The check mark emoji gave me the impression that you were joking about this situation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 06:38 AM
4	Thought i'd finally found someone just to be dumped without warning. I know that the majority responses posts like these recieve will be something along the lines of "well its YOUR fault for doing X and not doing Y" but, honestly, you probably would have recieved the same outcome if you would have done Y instead of X. You are not responsible for his behavior. FDS isn't a love potion that will make every man fall head over heals for you, it is a set of guidlines that are meant to help you filter out men who who intend on wasting your time. The goal isn't to change…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 09:17 PM
7	"selfless serving is masculinity, appreciation for the female energy increases testosterone" "fulfilling needs of others raises testosterone". John Gray I understand that we all want reasurance that we are not crazy for wanting a partner who treats us with respect but I do not believe that we should rely on junk science (that was written by a man) in order to do so. His explanation of how hormones work sounds misguided at best and like absolute crap at worst. Females naturally produce tetosterone as well, in fact our tetosterone levels are at their highest during our menstrual cycles, so do we suddenly become more manly during our cycle? If male…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 09:42 PM
40	I know this is likely satire, but.. If it wasnt for the choice of emojis I would assume that this was a tongue-in-cheek way of saying "my boyfriend has been cheating on me with my best friend"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 09:29 PM
2	I can’t believe her family said she was the AH. Thoughts? 😣 "The price of the ring shouldn't matter, its the thought behind it that counts" "Okay, I do not want my boyfriend to propose to me with a ring that he bought for his ex because he bought that ring with the THOUGHT of a future with her in mind." "...No not like that"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 05:13 AM
10	is this a red flag or just something to watch Unfortunately, "beating" cancer is rarely the end of it for survivors. Chemo and radiation therapy are very hard on the body and he will likely be dealing with the effects of it for the rest of his life. If he has had to have any major surgeries over the course of his treatment then he is likely going to be physically impaired from those as well. Also, if it has been less than 5 years since his last treatment then he is technically in "remission" rather than "cured". Given his circumstances I ca…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 06:19 AM
62	Queen shittyt I believe that she was pressured into the marriage by her family	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 08:13 PM
4	Dude. Started dating him as a teenager, got pregnant very early on the in the relationship, and has "traditional" parents that are encouraging her to stay with him. Lets have some empathy for this young girl rather than shaming her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 07:13 PM
3	“It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.” I think that "it is normal to feel attracted to other people while you're in a relationship" is true in the same way that "you can find someone of the same sex to be attractive without being gay/bi". Like, sure, most of us can recognize that Insert-Celebrity-Here is good looking regardless of whether or not we would actually be interested in dating them. We can all recognize an attractive person when we see one. Thinking that your friend looks good when they post a nice photo, dress up, or have …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 08:03 PM
2	He just has a few standards for women... He wants a girl that enjoys eating but will have a meltdown the moment she requests to go to a nicer restaurant than Applebees or asks him to buy shallots at the grocery store.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:41 PM
3	He just has a few standards for women... What sticks out to me most about the first list is the fact that the majority of the things on there aren't even actual qualities, they're just generic adjetives that most people would use to describe anyone that they find mildly pleasant to be around. I think that creating "lists" is a tacky thing to do in general but there are many appropriate ways to communicate qualities that you might want in a partner: "I'm an avid gym goer and I would like to have a partner who is also passionate about le…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:38 PM