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fortheloveofwhat/r/seduction03/10/11 02:02 AM
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I feel like I'm reading a Cosmo magazine.
/r/seduction05/11/11 03:47 AM
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Good on ya.
/r/seduction28/10/11 06:34 PM
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That comes off childish and very obvious though.
/r/seduction28/10/11 05:43 AM
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Basic Qualification: Tell me 3 interesting things about yourself. You're not asking her what she does for a living or if she's a dog person. You're asking her what makes her more interesting than the average girl, and giving her the chance to prove that to you. This is difficult to do on the spot, and it's very hard to decide what to say when you don't know what the asker (you) prefers. This is her chance to either impress you, or turn you off -- and that's nerve wracking.
/r/seduction27/10/11 05:49 PM
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I was saying value as in 'class' rather than value as in the girl has a chip on her shoulder and thinks she's better than everyone. I should've clarified, my bad.
/r/seduction27/10/11 05:37 PM
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I think more guys here are looking for hook-ups rather than anything long-term. Where a chase would prove a girl's value for a relationship, it's not ideal when you don't want anything serious.
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:32 AM
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Be a detective and not an interrogator. Find out what she’s all about. Awesome. Everything in this post is very well put.
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:30 AM
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Thanks for proving my point. You can't even back up your claims by answering a simple question, let alone ge99's sentiment. Edit: If you're going to edit your post saying: testmypatience: "I will answer with a question. What seperates a douche and alpha from each other?" Then add an "edit" to your post.
/r/seduction27/10/11 03:50 AM
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I have, I've seen him around. What exactly proves to you that he's a troll, rather than someone voicing his opinion and not agreeing with you?
/r/seduction27/10/11 03:35 AM
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You're increasingly arrogant the more I see your posts. Just because he doesn't agree with you, doesn't mean he's a troll. He's not being irrational and deserves a mature reply rather than "No".
/r/seduction27/10/11 03:21 AM
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The simple answer is yes, mostly because being polite and respectful is rare among both genders. Acts that are rare but subtle will be noticed for that reason. Don't do it looking for a reward, do it because that's just your style.
/r/seduction26/10/11 06:27 PM
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Anytime, I'm glad to help. I wrote a more revised guide combining both posts (you and them) if you'd like a link.
/r/seduction26/10/11 06:19 PM
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You can't look away first, and you should communicate to her (nonverbally) that you're interested. If you feel that she is, that's when you approach. If you don't approach her after catching each other's gaze, then basically that's when you've failed. My trick is this (from first meeting, until you've already approached): If I don't know what color their eyes are, then I haven't established enough eye contact.
/r/seduction26/10/11 06:18 PM
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Attraction is attraction, that's why PUA works. In an LTR, it's not just about attraction. That's the point I was getting at. Doesn't mean I'm not trying to be objective, just makes it a bit harder for me. Yeah, I'm a bit closed off myself for good reasons too. Just know that you lose the moment you give up. To put every girl into the same "cheating bitch" category isn't going to benefit you and is self-defeating. You're only setting your own limits. Just learn from past relationship mistakes an…
/r/seduction25/10/11 05:05 PM
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Have you had a bad LTR experience before? You seem a little closed off, like you're protecting yourself. LTRs aren't win or lose, it's compromise and working through things as well. Seduction still applies, but it's not as black and white. In the end, women are all the same. No. Attraction works well because it's a trait every person shares. That doesn't mean every girl is the same.
/r/seduction25/10/11 04:27 PM
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You're a good writer for starters. This is a solid example for what confidence should convey. Although, if I could make one suggestion: He scrutinized the boyfriend. What a fucking douche. What a tool. He looked at her. You shouldn't criticize the competition to feel better about yourself, that's the opposite of not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction23/10/11 09:56 PM
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It's painfully obvious if you're attempting to make her jealous.
/r/seduction22/10/11 10:51 PM
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Great question! I look into their left eye because it is dominated by their right-side of the brain. The right-side of the brain is led by feelings, and looking into their left eye will activate their right-side of the brain causing them to think more emotionally rather than logically. You want that to happen while you're speaking to them because that's what they'll associate you with the most -- emotional connection. That's what will make you more attractive.
/r/seduction22/10/11 07:16 PM
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I have to go with puaCurveBall here but I understand where you're coming from. Everyone is unpredictable because they have their own emotions, thoughts, and life experiences to deal with. That's why inner game works so well because instead of memorizing a routine and standing there space-less when it falls apart, you can react instantly. You'll know exactly what to say to diffuse or escalate a situation.
/r/seduction21/10/11 06:38 PM
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I know, funny thing is I'm a traditional 'bodybuilder' as well and transition back and forth.
/r/seduction21/10/11 05:55 PM
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Just to say though: She mentioned she was 16 days older than I am, and I teased her by saying I don't date older women. Very well done.
/r/seduction21/10/11 02:31 AM
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I was just going to say the same thing. A lot of guys aren't initiating because they're too afraid to approach without getting the green light first.
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:36 AM
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Crossfit is gold, really takes fitness to a new level. Great community as well.
/r/seduction19/10/11 11:47 PM
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So all or nothing sense? I like it.
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:52 PM
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I wish you the best, it looks to me that you're on the right track to improving. As far as the gym, I used to hate it too but it becomes addicting -- I promise!
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:43 PM
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I wrote a post not too long ago on a few behavioral tips, and was PMed to keep posting about them. Since then I've been writing up a few and will have 'chapters' posted within the next few weeks.
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:40 PM
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It depends on the context. If you make eye contact with her and that screams, "APPROACH! IoI!!" then just saying "Hey, my name is XYZ" is good enough to get something going. If you're approaching blindly, tie it to the surroundings/event/her specifically/ect. 2 Location Examples: [Bookstore] If she picks up a book you've read, and you don't approach her, I'll die and then roll over in my grave. It's a perfect set-up. You just walk up and say that you recommend it because of [this] and [this] rea…
/r/seduction19/10/11 03:55 AM
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Awesome, really awesome. I'm very interested in how things go, so keep us posted. Looks very promising of course. Edit: going to shoot you a PM about something so just a heads up
/r/seduction19/10/11 03:36 AM
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Haunted House idea is ace, who's idea was it? Need to remember that for the next 2 weeks. Looks like a successful lead into another date. I think a lot of guys would misread her signals as not wanting to get physical or not being interested romantically, when in reality she just hasn't learned the skills of how to properly show that. Exactly what I was thinking when you described her personality at the start of the FR. You might even find out that she could've been hurt really badly in past rela…
/r/seduction19/10/11 02:55 AM
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/r/fitness /r/malefashionadvice Haircuts For Men You got this.
/r/seduction19/10/11 01:20 AM
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It's not rejection that I'm afraid of, what really scares me is my out of control reaction to rejection. Thank you, this is a great perspective that I didn't think about before.
/r/seduction19/10/11 01:12 AM
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When my dog was young he used to run after every pigeon or squirrel in sight. After a few years, he realized he would not get his paws on any and just stopped. And once he stopped, as he calmed down, some squirrels came closer to him and he could have a swing at some. But he never tried again. Best analogy I've seen in a while, that's a very good point. According to this then, do AFCs benefit the most from improving their inner game/appearance? Since, using that analogy, going out and getting re…
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:52 PM
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I see, that makes a lot more sense. Do you benefit from memorizing openers, banter, and other responses, or do you forget those on the spot?
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:50 PM
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Very interesting, thank you.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:48 PM
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Thanks. Just trying to keep the /r/seduction alive.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:47 PM
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Right, I wrote a few sentences about the "fight vs flight" concept in my post from earlier. I'm trying to get the point across about how, through practice, AFCs can improve. Through this post, I'm curious about the other reasons they have. Great articles by the way.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:47 PM
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do it for yourself. Exactly.
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:46 PM
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Just click enter twice instead of only once.
/r/seduction18/10/11 02:20 PM
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I'm a Cancer, after all ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction18/10/11 02:16 AM
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You section.
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:42 PM
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You section. Wasn't very popular. Think I'm done with articles for a while.
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:42 PM
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"Hi, I'm [insert name here]."
/r/seduction17/10/11 07:29 PM
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I agree with that tremendously but push/pull is tricky. I believe that there are more effective ways to get her to invest rather than run the risk of it backfiring. If everything else isn't congruent, withholding eye contact every time she speaks will lessen the 'connection' she feels for him, and come off as disrespectful. I seem to side with David Wygant with this stance for that reason, although the way you described it here: I mean if you're in a situation where you're having a real heart-to…
/r/seduction17/10/11 07:00 PM
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I'm going to use this advice not just with seduction, but in everyday interactions as well. This has applicability in all aspects of social interaction. Yes! It's a truly rewarding skill to have and I'm more than happy to inform everyone. Thanks for reading.
/r/seduction17/10/11 02:04 PM
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That's better.
/r/seduction17/10/11 12:10 AM
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I think the seddit lairs should be shrunk, it takes up a lot of space when it could be much more concise and still get the point across. Needs to include some of seddits top helpful posts. At least post that link in there.
/r/seduction16/10/11 07:52 PM
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That's definitely ideal... I think that it naturally switches back and forth as interest increases in reality though. Each gender is attempting to balance investment, not too much and not too little. Enough to show that they want them but not enough to come across as being too forward. In the beginning, it's mostly the guy who's chasing. He's asking for her number, and she has all the power to shut him down. He's calling/texting her and she can ignore it if she wants to. He's setting up the date…
/r/seduction16/10/11 03:18 PM
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Read everything in the sidebar ------------->
/r/seduction16/10/11 06:54 AM
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Keep AskSeddit, I've already noticed a lot of improvements there within the past few days. Delete the rest of them, redirect here. Two subreddits, that's all we need.
/r/seduction15/10/11 11:53 PM
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[Compendium I] has a different subject so it's not about eye contact. But I'll have another post up soon, specifically on the 'you' part.
/r/seduction15/10/11 11:21 PM
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Not strange at all, there's a lot of subtle nonverbal communication that's conveyed through eyebrows. I left it out because I wasn't sure if seddit welcomed Body Language reading as much as I do. If sedditors would like, I can keep writing 'chapters' on specific types of Body Language.
/r/seduction14/10/11 08:46 PM
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Anytime, really. I'm a chronic 'write everything down' person to gather my thoughts, so this helps me a lot as well. I'll get a You section together shortly. It'll take more time... a lot more information.
/r/seduction14/10/11 07:23 PM
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I've noticed you a lot around here and am very happy to know you're a part of the Mod team now. Congrats!
/r/seduction14/10/11 04:26 PM
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Here's a quick write-up... sorry if it's all over the place. You talk to them. You give them a reason to want to know you. 1. Genuine Interest “I have discovered from personal experience that one can win the attention and time and cooperation of even the most sought-after people by becoming genuinely interested in them.” - How to Win Friends and Influence People To be interesting, be interested. If they are talking to you, you better be listening. Not many people do. Everyone is thinking about w…
/r/seduction14/10/11 06:50 AM
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I find that initiating a little roleplay works well. Make statements, banter a little, get her laughing, and then she'll pick up on the cues to get a little playful. If she doesn't, then it's mostly just not the right time or she's not interested in being playful at that moment.
/r/seduction14/10/11 01:47 AM
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I don't trust guys with mullets. Seriously though, every shot is either at a party or in a bar. Everyone expects the energetic aggressive guy when you're drinking. Who would want a reserved downer? Alcohol + girl + guy = horny, regardless of how he acts unless he's creeping her out.
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:15 PM
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It's about both. It's to make the individual an all around attractive person. That can be done superficially, and through existing characteristics. Attraction has various components: Intelligence Charm Sexuality Interest Health Status Humor Confidence Challenge I can guarantee the individual that works on acquiring all of these characteristics to the best of their ability will get laid a hell of a lot more often than the person that's memorizing pick-up lines and tactics. No one is attracted to …
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:06 PM
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Right. Hopefully if things are revamped, then AskSeddit's and Seduction's content and filtering will get back to what people expected from it.
/r/seduction13/10/11 06:24 PM
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I'm agreeing with you...
/r/seduction13/10/11 06:10 PM
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I personally don't believe sedditelite should exist, because those "good" questions should be on seddit in the first place, and the "good" advice is probably already in the sidebar. Very good point. Then lets leave Askseddit, clean it up a bit along with adding a sidebar and work on redirecting people... and then combine SedditElite and /r/Seduction, like it was before. It really needs to be done. Like you said with UniSeddit too, I'm in college right now and everything on the regular seddit sti…
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:56 PM
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He's just busy.
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:15 PM
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Exactly. I do believe we should join all the subreddits [deleting askseddit] and maybe even sedditelite, having everyone come here, and then using the downvote button when needed. It'll allow an influx of people to come here, and face it /r/seduction is too well-known to relocate it. People will just get confused on where to go, or think that it no longer exists completely. Then we lose more people, and that defeats the purpose. We just need to improve /r/seduction while we can, before it hits r…
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:12 PM
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It's okay, you'll get there. The most important aspect of seduction, in my opinion, is leave them better than you found them. There needs to be a balance of course, so you're a step in the right direction for noticing that. I think the "Be an asshole and win the girl" is over-done because everyone's constantly trying to get someone out of being walked all over. Advice to start being an asshole seemed to be the best way to counter-act that, but there's a lot more to it. It's about being confident…
/r/seduction13/10/11 04:57 PM
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To be blunt: You're over thinking her message because quite honestly, it means more to you than it does to her. You read the text and saw it as a deep cave, she saw it as just a sentence. It's common to read into things to that extent when you're really into someone though, so don't beat yourself up. Honestly, without too much knowledge into how you two react around each other and the like, I could say that if she's cutting off communication like that then she's cutting you off in a sense. For h…
/r/seduction13/10/11 12:24 AM
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That's where the Mods come in.
/r/seduction13/10/11 12:13 AM
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Here you go.
/r/seduction05/10/11 06:55 PM
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Phrasing?
/r/seduction05/10/11 04:17 AM
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Good on ya! Also take a look at: How to Win Friends and Influence People It sounds tacky but its actually a good book to read even if you're already a people-person. I think it's something everyone should read over. I could find a torrent if you'd like.
/r/seduction05/10/11 01:27 AM
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It's most definitely worth it. I talked with my teachers a lot throughout high school and learned some of the best advice and life lessons from one my senior year. Things that I still think about and value to this day. Even if it seems as though you don't get anything out of it, you really do. The more people you know, the better you can relate to everyone around you -- and that by itself, makes the world of a difference.
/r/seduction05/10/11 12:57 AM
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I'd get rid of the smiley because it reminds me of highschool. Just say something like, "Hey <girls name>, join me at <name of the bar> Thursday < around what time>. Hopefully then we'll find each other this time!"
/r/seduction04/10/11 10:47 PM
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Negress My god, that's hilarious.
/r/seduction04/10/11 10:14 PM
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I tried to compile a list that would also be able to work in person, rather than just texting, but that's definitely a good point. I could try to make a post that would have counter-banter in response to texts or comments like these if it's something Seddit would like to see.
/r/seduction04/10/11 10:11 PM
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This is a gender-friendly list! All of these work for girls as well as guys :)
/r/seduction04/10/11 05:43 PM
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That's fire crotch to you, buddy.
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:37 PM
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No worries, it's not a word used often. ban·ter/ˈbantər/ Noun: The playful and friendly exchange of teasing remarks. Verb: Talk or exchange remarks in a good-humored teasing way
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:32 PM
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It sets you apart from everything all the other guys and people in her life call her. Its exclusively between the two of you. It could have her reminiscence about a conversation or specific moment between the two of you. You want to give more reasons of you to be on her mind. To leave a strong impression. Nicknames are an effective way of doing that.
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:29 PM
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Added, thank you. I love nicknames, they're so effective.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:33 PM
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Wit for the Witless: a Compendium Added.
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:43 AM
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Link me and I'll get it up as long as it's okay with everyone else. I'll credit to whoever came up with it as well.
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:41 AM
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Nice one! I'll add it.
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:27 AM
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Very good points here, I've also focused on making most of them work for guys and girls.
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:26 AM
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A lot of those are a little tacky, which may come off as trying too hard to be funny or demanding attention. I do like the "Out of all the (first name) (last name)'s I know... I think you're my favorite" one though a lot. I'll make sure to add it. If others comment and support the others, I'll make sure to add them too!
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:25 AM
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I'll add them! They're good and not tacky... which is what I'm trying to avoid the most here.
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:24 AM
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Thanks, that's what my intention was with this. I feel as though a lot of them are lost and don't know where to start when asking for advice on what to say. I figure if there's a compiled list, then it'll help all the ones who don't know how to or don't know if they should ask.
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:23 AM
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This is an extremely good point. Half* of the questions are annoying and seem pointless because there's nothing we can do besides give GENERAL advice, which then doesn't challenge the Advanced sedditors here. No one wants to give the same advice over and over again and feel like it won't make a difference.
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:23 AM
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This is actually great... I'd also say that the student should've took his sunglasses off to create a stronger connection through eye-contact.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:39 PM
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Here are more from the same artist All generally based around linguistics, politics, and anthropology.
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:10 AM
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I've had an undeniable attraction to a guy who was 39, another in his mid 40's, and also felt the urge to jump a 37 year old last summer. And no, I don't have daddy issues. I'm very normal in every other aspect of my life... I just prefer older men when it comes to attraction. As far as guys I've been in relationships with, I typically end up with men 5-6 years older at most... but that's just how things turned out. It's how you come off to them. If you have the look and persona of what they're …
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:14 AM
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I'm 18 and older men have a much better chance with me. There's something about a guy that is more worldly, experienced, and mature that makes me incredibly attracted.
/r/seduction21/09/11 10:17 PM
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