| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | FR: K closed on first date | foxanon | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 01:29 PM |
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| 1 | Is this how you guys feel?Because I always run into people. I like to go out and not know people. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 04:07 PM |
| 0 | [PR] Hung out with the only girl I know in new city PART 2I'm gonna disagree with you on the friendzone I cuddle with. It's about escalating but you have to have a good feel for it and her mind. Well maybe that's with this girl. I've been seeing a girl who's very direct with me so I know where she stands. We've been fucking around and having fun. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Is this how you guys feel?I just go to brighten up others' days. I was at the movies the other day with friends and the cashier started chatting me up after the transaction. Yesterday I talked with a Verizon employee about a bunch of stuff after she helped me out. She told me that I made her day much better. Hell I was just having fun. I love talking to people and making new friends anywhere I go. The only problem I have with it now is that every time I go somewhere I run into someone I know. And now I want to move to a … | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | whats the largest age gap you're comfortable with?When I was 19 I dated a 25 year old. Now I'm 26 and have been seeing a 28 year old. I just like the independent ones. It's funny though as we've both acknowledged we'd never work out because she's the Robin to my Barney. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn a girl, who wants to date me, into a fwb after she told me she doesn't do hookups?I know what you're going through. The girl I've been hanging with has been very slow with everything. We've messed around but haven't had sex. She didn't trust me because of my reputation. She's also a relationship type of girl. I do want to date her. She told me she doesn't want a relationship right now. I'm like ok whatever. I took her with me to visit my parents this past weekend and after that she's been all about me and wants to fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Even when I act confident (body language, posture, walking with my head up) and dress well, I almost never catch girls on the street looking at me twice. Is that an indication that I'm not good looking enough for women? To be a ladies man?Shit happened to me yesterday when I got breakfast. I was watching TV at the bar and I noticed out of the corner of my eye a girl walking by. Went right back to what I was doing. She walked in and at an almost empty bar sat next to me. I wasn't interested in her at all as I've started seeing this girl recently. I sensed she was checking me out. Ended up talking to her for a bit. She was gorgeous. Never got her name as I didn't care. But her body language was showing IOIs. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | IOI's .. those looks when you're out that you don't know are IOI's or not.I found its eye contact. If she holds extended eye contact she likes you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Got to thank you guys.I'll take the pocahoptas | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Why does every girl always ends up coming back eventually after things end? How am I supposed to react?I'm just here for the scraps. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Just got cock-blocked so hardOne thing I've realized, girls come and go. I was dancing with a very attractive blonde on Friday night. We were having a great time. Then her sister and her left early into the night before I had the opportunity to get her number. Oh well. I know I'll see her again... If I don't it won't matter either. | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 01:49 PM |
| 12 | I have stumbled into hell...Well man I'd give you advice here but it won't do you any good. Don't dip your pen in the company ink. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Was I too eager?You should have gotten her number and texted her. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 11:03 PM |
| 0 | The next step, how do you guys keep her after you get the girl?Just keep talking to her and fucking her. You manage her expectations by framing the relationship from the start. | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How I love being nervousThat drives me to do stand up comedy, karaoke, and all other things that are outside of my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | First "date" with girl, what about pretending is not a date?Well I'm a fun kind of guy. I have plenty of places that I go to where I know the staff and they know me. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | First "date" with girl, what about pretending is not a date?Idk man. I asked a girl for drinks on Wednesday night and she responded with it's a date. So I'm sure she's looking for a relationship rather than fun. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Did I try to go too far on the first time hanging out with her?Just give her some time man. It seems like she likes you but her getting out of a relationship is valid. She may not be over the previous guy. What do you do when the girl you want is taken? Casually date other women. Learned that shit from American Dad. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Where did I fuck up with this girl?Don't worry about it. Go find someone new. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Defusing a shit test: we are just having a girls night out.Yep. Not everyone goes out looking to to meet someone. Just move onto the next one. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with girls getting insulted by my dry sense of humour?You need to work on reading your audience better. I have jokes about everything. It's all about context and types. Like I'm not gonna be telling dead baby jokes to a girl I've just met. But to my best friends of course cause they'll laugh but still tell my I'm horrible, which I spin off into saying I know, horribly funny. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 02:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you reject someone properly?Oh there's a girl I know like that. It's funny as shit when she goes out drinking with my friends. I mean I kino her, put my arm around her but from talking to her she can't carry a conversation. It's like talking to an airhead. So she'll drag us away so we're isolated and want me to kiss her but I won't because I'm not attracted to her. She never gets the hint. And she keeps trying and to me it comes off as desperate and I find that even more unattractive. This girl is a solid 9 but her behavio… | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How to MAINTAIN Confidence? Mine constantly fluctuatesMy confidence level usually shakes due to stress. Recently I've been stressed with moving into a new apartment. That's been weighing on my mind and has shaken mine. Does it stop me from going out? No I still do even when I don't want to. I still have great nights and enjoy my time with my friends. | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 08:52 PM |
| 11 | Girl invites me round to hers but says "no sex", how to proceed?Play within the boundaries. Push them a little and turn her on. Make sure you're fine with her saying no and show her that with your actions. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Just got out of relationship a few months ago, Working on myself in many ways. Wanna get back out there mostly for sex, what do I do? how?Read the side bar. Go out chat with women about anything. Kino kino kino. High fives, hand shakes, hugs. When you shake her hand make sure that she is the one to pull away first. Failure is the greatest teacher. | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 01:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get confident sexually?This is what I was thinking. It may just not be your cup of tea. There's nothing wrong with exploring the other side of the spectrum. I did, learned it wasn't for me. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Became really close to a co-worker under a couple of weeks. She has a boyfriend.Just respect her relationship but continue to escalate it up until a K close. If she cheats on you, she'll cheat with you. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Hot girls with no personality. Anyone else more attracted to average girls?I know a hot girl who's as dumb as a box of hammers. She's been trying to fuck me after my fuckbuddy told her about us fucking. She's used to attention from all males and doesn't understand why I'm not giving her the same treatment. So she's trying and trying and trying and it just seems desperate to me. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 10:15 PM |
| -1 | I don't know how to initiate kiss.I kissed some girl at the bar yesterday night. Completely out of the blue. I was out laughing with my entourage of ladies when a few hotties came outside for a smoke. One was asking if anyone had a lighter. I said I had an ecig and she got up and came over to me looking for a drag. I got my hand on her waist and she's got the ecig in her mouth and trying but it's not working. So I say here let me show you and I take a drag and go to shotgun it to her. Next thing we're making out. My girls are la… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Should you compete for a girl?Oh this bartender always has dudes making paper roses for her and putting them in her hair. I think it's funny shit. I've seen it happen like 4 or 5 times. I always make fun of the dude's telling them how they're not the first one. | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] F-Closed Bartender From My Favorite Bar on "Date" Two...I've become fuck buddies with one of the bartenders from my favorite bar. Now she's told her friends about me and another bartender has been pursuing me. She's been giving me shit tests but I don't care, and it's actually working. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 12:22 PM |
| -6 | Casual sex makes me feel "inferior", as if I'm not good enough/attractive enough to be in a relationship with the girl, why is this and how can I overcome it?I haven't had casual sex until just recently. It's pretty awesome I'll tell you hwat. I've got a fuck buddy and she's been telling her friends about how good I am in bed and how big my dick is and her friends are lining up to go for a ride on Mr. Bones. Fb gave me that nickname after I fucked her like 12 times in a night. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How to Have ThreesomesI suggested it to my fuck buddy. She is totally on board with it. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 03:05 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a girl withdrawing?If you move onto another you'll find that you have value. I had that expressed to me by a hottie at the bar the other day. I was out with my fwb and this other girl who works there came over and sat next to us. She seems too easy to fuck. Here are the reasons. She has been bumping into me for a while so I got her number. She asked me and my fwb if she could show a naked picture of herself. We both naturally said yes. I was showing her some hickies from the weekend romp and told her they were fro… | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you do or not do if there is an attractive coworker where you work?I don't shit where I eat. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Learning From My Mistake [For ANYONE getting friendzoned/Oneitis]I ruined a friendship by escalating the last time we hung out. It's whatever as she was a pill addict. Now I'm fucking around with another girl. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Dates have been great, now not speakingGive her time and casually date other women. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | women systematically break up with me after making outYeah man, you might just not be into dating just yet. I had broken up with a girl I was with for 2.5-3 years. Started hanging out with new girls, but I just didn't feel right making moves on them. I just didn't care enough. That was back in June. Now I don't have any problems anymore. It might take some time to get over the last girl and you may just feel blase and they can read that off your body language. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I come off as a sexual person who likes sex without being creepy?It was awesome. They won and I enjoyed myself thoroughly. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I come off as a sexual person who likes sex without being creepy?I was checking facebook at the bar the other day with a few friends(all girls). And I clicked on something about what women don't like about sex. And so I was the two girls and one part said rolling over after sex. This cutie hb 8-9 said she did that. So I'm smirking at her and say well it looks like I'm not gonna have sex with you. Next moment she's asking me if she can show me some naked pics of her. Then invited me and the other girl back to her place to watch the steelers game. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 07:31 PM |
| 6 | A trick that worked for me when I was "desperate" and didn't want to come off that way.Show me your genitals, your genitals | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome fear of losing virginity?You're not gonna like my answer but you're overthinking this. You already know what to do. Just start making moves. Then go for kissing. Hell I was awkward as fuck for a while. It took lots of failure to learn. Now I have this awesome girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I noticed today how powerful a good smell is.I use Denali by old spice and I have Calvin Klein eternity. That being said my cologne is discovered not announced. I put one spray on the pulse point of my wrist, rub my wrists together and then apply to the pulse points of my neck. It accentuates my natural body smell and from the compliments I receive I smell really good. | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you destroy attraction or un-seduce girls you don't want?Happened to me while I was on a date. I gave the girl I was with a kiss and told her good luck with her showing. Then I told the other girl that I had to go watch my friend compete. She said oh your girlfriend? I said no I don't like labels. They're for soup cans. After that she kept following me around until she got the hint that I was on a date. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I read a girl to tell if I should go for it or if she's just being overly friendly?Assume attraction and just go for it. Don't ask for permission. It's easier to bail from a failed K close than to not do it at all. She respect you if you try but won't if you don't. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Sedditors who have improved. What have you done or changed that has had the most positive impact on your game?I just went for it. I used to be nervous talking to girls. So I just started talking with only platonic goals. Boom now I'm comfortable. Then I started # closing. Then I'd have some dates and I'd fail to K close because of nerves. Then I found someone I really hit it off with. K closed her. Next date f closed. Now I've been seeing her exclusively for 3 weeks. I like her a lot but I know she's got more invested into it than I do. I won't develop oneitis again like I did with my previous ex. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I sexy up the title "computer programmer"I tell people I save the world. I work in cyber security. Just say you're an artist. Technically you are since you're a programmer. I believe that developing is the last true form of human creation. Once we program AI so well we will just have computers do it for us. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 11:32 AM |
| 1 | CONVERSATION, one of the main reasons I've always been afraid to go on an actual date is because the thought of conversation terrifies me!!! Any help or advice?Just do it man. You'll get more comfortable with it. Just start looking for friends. It's a lot easier to talk to women when you're not trying to fuck them. So start with simply platonic. Get comfortable with it. Then start talking to new girls and introduce some innuendo and see how they react. Also practice kino. The best piece of advice I learned with kino is touch everyone you talk to. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Everything You Know About the Friend Zone is WRONGI would. That being said I have been framing what we've been doing as transition to a relationship. I've cooked for her and whatnot. I haven't outright said it but my nonverbals have been saying that. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Everything You Know About the Friend Zone is WRONGI liked the read. I agree with the triangle of attraction as well. I started off as a lover with this girl I've been hanging out with and have been showing some provider traits as well. Last weekend we spent the night together twice and went to brunch twice as well. Had a great time all around. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 07:36 PM |
| 3 | when do you think you will settle down ??Well I found me a smart, beautiful, sexy girl who's awesome as shit. We'll see how this goes. | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Isolation at a partyI have an ecig. I have fruity flavors because everyone likes them. Lots of girls like them as well. Plus you can do fun tricks with them. I shotgunned a hit to this cutie I've been hanging out with. Turned it into a kiss. Boom | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 06:25 PM |
| 2 | [IG] - Using imagery and belief for self-confidenceFor me I just stopped thinking. I just act now. Example: went on a date with this cutie last Wednesday. K closed her and set up a date for Friday. I'm thinking in my head do I kiss her when I meet her? Started psyching myself out. So I stopped myself and said no just act. So when I saw her I gave her a hug and kissed her on the cheek. Had a good time and f closed her that night too. What I learned from Blink by Malcolm Gladwell is that mate selection is all subconscious. If you start thinking yo… | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you reengage a girl after she doesn't respond to a text for a meetup?I text but usually with lots of time in between. Also if I'm texting I'm sexting. So I'll get her interest and then move on to scheduling the date. If she hasn't responded to a meeting then I ignore it and move on. I'll send her a ping every few days and use it to see if she wants to meet up. If she doesn't it's back to the back burner. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with insults/criticismsI have an example that happened to me. I was out on a first date the other week and a bartender from another bar was drunk as shit and was giving me a hard time. I just ignored it and kept enjoying my time with her. I've seen her twice since then and from getting to know her, she's awesome. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Tutorials on Physical EscalationI had the same problem man. I read the Vin Di carlo escalation guide really helped. The best way is to just start touching everyone you talk. Just little jabs and shit. That's what I did and I finally got comfortable doing it. Now have no problem putting my arm around a girl I just met. Just start out slow. High fives are good. So are fist bumps. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls that want to text.One of my good friends(girl) loves to text me and ask me how I'm doing and just chat about nothing. If I have free time I usually shoot the shit with her and make plans to do whatever. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | FR: K closed on first dateThat and she got out of my car and then got back in cause she wanted some more. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 05:10 PM |
| 1 | FR: K closed on first dateWell there was lots of innuendo while we were hanging out and she liked all of it. So I made my intentions very clear. I enjoyed my time with her but I made it clear that I had to be up early and couldn't continue. I have job responsibilities that I don't compromise on. She did get out of the car and then got back in and kissed me some more and said see you Friday. Even if I don't I couldn't care less. She was actually the one who wanted to approach me. But when she saw I was surrounded by women… | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:34 PM |
| 2 | FR: K closed on first dateMade her come in closer and boom. I could have gone home with her but I had to be up early for work and let her know that. I won't compromise in my job. Didn't care though I had a lot of fun. And I'll be seeing her on Friday where it's gonna be even better. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:21 PM |
| 3 | FR: K closed on first dateThanks man. I know you mean well. This place is just for everyone. From beginners to experienced. For me getting back out there was what I needed after being in a long term relationship. First girl I've been with since breaking up 3 months ago. Shit was rough on me but I worked on myself and found this girl who old me would say is way out of my league. If you got advice or words of wisdom for people getting back in the game then share em with the people like me of the sub. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:03 PM |
| 3 | FR: K closed on first dateWell she's got her own so idk man. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 02:57 PM |
| 8 | FR: K closed on first dateHey man for someone that just got into the game I'd say it's successful. I get your probably ages above me in this but I'm happy with the results I got. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you show sexual interest?Got an update on the date too. We went out played pool and darts and had a few drinks. The date ended with a K-close. I stopped her and she kept coming back for more. I told her what I'd be doing this weekend and she told me she'd see me on Friday. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 10:19 AM |
| 1 | I think this subreddit needs more Inner Game posts.I broke up with my SO about 3 months ago. I took that hit and it was stressful but let me tell you it didn't lower my self worth. It didn't make me lose my awesome job or any of that. The last time I talked to my ex was on 9/11. She told me my life was sad and inadequate. All I could say was, if commas in my bank account, a large group of supportive friends, and an endless supply of women is inadequate then you are 100% right. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 06:49 PM |
| 0 | How do you show sexual interest?Kino and eye contact. Met this girl at the bar last friday and we connected on ecigs and I escalated it all the way to our faces touching because it was loud during karaoke. Walked away with her number. She texted me first on saturday and I told her what I was doing and she should meet me. She tried to get me to chase her as she went to another place. I wasn't having any of it. She saw me talking to other girls while I was out too. I sing karaoke and meet lots of women from the songs I sing. Tha… | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird if I go to a college party alone?I prefer going out alone. That way I get to do whatever I want. I just go and talk to everyone. Have fun, crack jokes, make people laugh, tell stories. Shit everyone I talk to says I'm a fun person and they want to be around me. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Why beer goggles are your best friendInstead of rating women as a 1 to 10 scale just rate them as 1 or 0. Yes I'll sleep with you or no I won't. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Is she being nice or is she interested? People in work-situations.I got invited into a ccougar's office at work. She was using heavy kino on me and locked the door behind us. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you do with your hands when you talk?Just leave them by your sides unless you're talking. I usually kino that shit. Example: Last night I was singing karaoke. I have a wide range of songs that I enjoy singing. I made eye contact with a few different girls while singing Deep Blue Something's Breakfast at Tiffany's. I saw a girl who was blowing clouds with her vape at the bar. I walked over when I was done and engaged in conversation. We talked about ecigs and all that jazz. I let her try mine out and I escalated it all the way to my… | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Went out last night, met a hottie and lost her. What should I do?Don't forget about her but also don't put too much value into her. Just keep living your life and maybe you'll see her again. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I keep rejecting myself....I am always smirking when I talk. It shows confidence. What I usually say will be "That's ok, I'm not the jealous type." With some kino. That's my favorite go to response. Sometimes I'll say, "Your parents must be so proud." | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I keep rejecting myself....Well every time I hear they have a boyfriend I don't let it stop me. It's a shit test. Ignore or agree and amplify. | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 01:21 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with being horny?I'd say find a hobby that will get your mind off it. Use the sexual energy to do something productive in your life. Another thing is to just ignore it. IPickupgrandmothers said it best with meditation. If you're having trouble with it try this out. Think of yourself as a mountain, mighty and still. Thoughts are clouds. When you find yourself chasing a thought just remember that it is a cloud and you are a mountain. And clouds cannot move mountains. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - dealing with my anxiety! SuccessI just gotta practice so I get more comfortable. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - dealing with my anxiety! SuccessGood job man. I've got no problem with approaching and talking to women. I get the anxiety on starting kino. Only way to get over that is to face my fears. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Alternate Places to Meet Women/ Work On My GameI was flirting with a girl at target. I saw her when I came in and she ended up going down the same aisle as me. We talked for about an hour and a half. I got her number as well. Well the shitty part was my phone got stolen before her number was synced so I lost it. Too bad as she was real cute. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 01:19 PM |
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