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i have read it too, it was my first read on this topic, i have also read, no more nice guy, models, and many more books on this topic, i found out that books dont help me at all. I believe that i need to find a coach he could help me i guess but in my country it wouldnt be possible to do so.
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:16 PM
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All my life im being myself and i dont want to be myself no more because i see that i have unattractive personality, and will not be able to get laid with it.
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:51 AM
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I read it, im ok with talking to people and can make friends pretty quickly but what i want is girlfriend, when i get dates i always get friend zoned, i know now why but i cant get a date to try out new technique.
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:50 AM
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I have incredibly low confidence, its like i know that i cant succed and i actually never do, im very indecisive i can change my mind 10 times before i take some kind of action. Everything shows that im low value person.
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:46 AM
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Thank you, very informative and useful info, all i need now is to get a date and try this out :)
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:02 PM
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Im fucking loser, didnt go do anything more than just talking, it was nice, we spent more than 3 hours together and she said that she owes me a date. Maybe next time it will be more sexual.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:52 PM
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I went to meet her, she brought computer but we spent most of the time talking about things. She kinda cute and not tipe that could take advantage i think.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:04 PM
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Oh well that means its best i can be atm :DD
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:45 AM
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Its lazy, sad and useless for most people advice. Lifting will help you feel better and healthier but will not improve other parts of your life unless you're fitness athlete that has photoshoots and does compete. Ive been lifting and doing sports all my life, but it never helped me to feel confident in social situations.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:30 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction05/04/18 05:54 PM
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Therapists cost too much, people earn not much money but everything costs same as in well developed countries. So i cant afford going to therapist.
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:26 PM
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I have read to a of self help books, they didnt do good for me, maybe i read bad ones. What could you recommend?
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:05 PM
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I feel too ashamed to talk about this with someone in real life. Im very closed person and talking about difficult subjects is incredibly hard for me, i m very bad at articulating my thoughts and feelings.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:43 PM
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how did it help you?
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:43 PM
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Absolutely i agree that i haven't even started living and i stoping my life already, nothing is working and i completely fail at everything that i do, o have no passion and no goals to pursue.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:32 PM
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When nothing ever works out in life i dont think its depression its more being failure and knowing that. There is no things in my life i can be happy about even the tho i try so hard.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:19 PM
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I stoped, she is very hot so i cant just say no to this :DD but really if tomorrow she delays meeting again i will quit this.
/r/seduction21/03/18 05:41 PM
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It feels like so awkward to me, im so not used to touching people, why some of you think that its easy to overcome something so scary?
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:15 PM
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How should i become comfortable touching people? i just dont know how to because i never been touchy person i never hugged anyone and i dont know how to touch when talking and so on. I see so many people being touchy when talking or just when goofing around but i dont know how but i really want to learn how to. Maybe can you give me some tips or book suggestion to learn this aspect of interaction.
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:51 AM
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Alabaster girl, there is everything you need to become beast in dating world.
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:29 PM
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The alabaster girl is great book.
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:10 PM
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Ive been doing all of these but cant get over approach anxiety still so i move nowhere.
/r/seduction08/03/18 12:50 PM
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Thanks mate, i gonna go on date with this girl tomorrow, and well see how it will go :D
/r/seduction06/03/18 01:40 PM
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Thank you , i know that its pointless and that trying to escape awkward situations really has led me into nowhere in life. I need to find a way to fight with my anxiety and start going forward.
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:59 PM
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Im scared of being awkward and showing her that im not confident in myself. Also im scared that she will reject me because i have not much money. Maybe also that i will waste her and mine time.
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:15 PM
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If after couple meetings girl says for 2 times, that well see, after i ask her when she is going to be free to go out with me, is it normal to ask her out again after 1 month of not talking?
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:21 PM
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How is it possible to check vitamin levels?
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:13 PM
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Thank you for information, you think that i should go to doctor and check my blood?
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:45 PM
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They will say buy vitamins or some other shit. I dont respect family doctors, they never do any help.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:06 PM
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Medicine is not my strongest subject, i get sore throat after spending too much time in cold weather, what is always in my country.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:05 PM
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You dont know me how can you say that? My immune system is weak af, cold shower, gg sore throat, next day sick boy.
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:57 PM
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Im kinda scared, people said that i will get used to cold weather but i never do, every autumn sick days start, i got sick maybe 8 times since September. Maybe i could try this but probably wont because its very bad for me to get sick, while sick i still have to work always so i cant risk.
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:56 PM
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Would be cool to get sick every week because of productivity improvement of cold shower 😂 . For some people it will help for others its not suitable.
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:18 PM
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But what do you guys do if the girl is from your social circle? I meet this one girl like once a week at work, we went on one date but after that she said she is busy and well see. I dunno if i should forget about trying with her or dont give up, because i didnt ask her out in real life when we spend time i asked her on facebook.
/r/seduction12/02/18 04:14 PM
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What are the right things and not wrong reasons? I find it that romantic relationship has to be in everyones life's or life is not fully lived. Are you monk? Priest?
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:47 PM
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Yeah i get it, i always think about that, i try to spend as much as possible time doing jobs for real man, gonna try get work in construction site for the summer. Real man needs to get hands dirty, my proffesion cant provide that.
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:00 PM
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Dude you cant give any advice, youre 30 year old virgin. But you can give advice on how do you find reason to live? What drives you to not give up?
/r/seduction11/02/18 01:17 PM
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thank you for suggestion, i will check out this book.
/r/seduction11/02/18 01:12 PM
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Thank you, in very informative way with no bs you explained roots of that and reasons to game. I appreciate you time and effort.
/r/seduction11/02/18 09:58 AM
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That makes sense.
/r/seduction11/02/18 09:45 AM
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Honest, simple and nice way of looking into all of this, thank you.
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:24 PM
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i know, but im talking about how stupid it is to go out with intention to pickup girls, i feel like it is more nice when it happens naturally not because you learned techniques and act as someone you actually not.
/r/seduction10/02/18 08:05 PM
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How not? arguments? You spend shit ton of time trying to pickup women. thats beta.
/r/seduction10/02/18 08:03 PM
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Mhm, i get that, feels like men are getting more and more behind and only thing we can do is try to act alpha even if in the end its the women that run the world and are true alphas.
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:38 PM
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Thats bad, i have useless father, that knows nothing about life and is complete loser, maybe thats the reason i suck at life, because i never was able to learn anything from father only get discouragements.
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:17 PM
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Yeah so why beautiful and natural thing evolved into something that is like a cult that spends all of theyr time to use learned techniques to pickup more and more women?
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:00 PM
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but im more interested in how naturally people used to pickup girls. Without reading bs and listening. how guys were acting when they only use gut feeling or friends advices.
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:52 PM
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Thats good idea, but what to do for those that cant find a way to provide value? I actually think that i can be valuable just as as a person because i get along with most people i talk to everyone and can hold conversations forever but i lack confidence, i dont have looks, money and passion for life.
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:39 PM
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Actually im the same, i chat her up about how she is doing and ask her out. But last time when she said next day she is busy i asked her when she is going to be available she said we'll see, so now i want something out of her i dont wanna show mu neediness and so on.
/r/seduction01/02/18 03:56 PM
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If i ask her to go ice skating with me, is it appropriate to have date doing that?
/r/seduction01/02/18 08:08 AM
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Thank you, you said what i had deep down in my mind but didn't want to believe in. Actually it absolutely makes sense and this os true. Enlightenment :D
/r/seduction31/01/18 10:08 PM
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What kind of woman would go out with you after message like that? Yeah you show that youre alpha, but in the end she is not going out with you. I believe this might be ok with tinder girls, but if you trying to have serious relationship with no bs girl, this won't work.
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:25 PM
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Ok thank you, i get it. But specifically answering my question, how should i respond to well see? Should i ask her out some time later? For drinks?
/r/seduction30/01/18 08:48 PM
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Restourant then movie, sounds like a cool way to spend evening, who knows whats next after movie.
/r/seduction30/01/18 07:46 PM
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Yeah mee too. Im always so impressed how much smart people that give insightful advice are sitting here
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:56 PM
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I had date with her, it was fun we just talked i didnt even try to go for the kiss, seriously how should i not get friendzoned by her now?
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:55 PM
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I know when she gonna work now, probably its best to ask her in person. I will see her reaction and everything. But she is kinda shy tipe girl, maybe its more comfy for these tipe of people to talk on fb at first, but she actually aproached me so i dunno who is more shy 😂
/r/seduction16/01/18 04:30 PM
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That sounds reasonable. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/01/18 08:22 AM
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I dunno, we had little chat thats all. Problem i have now i dunno how to start conversation again. Should i be direct and just ask her out or first ask how she is doing, what are her plans for the week?
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:50 AM
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I talked with her about the party the next day, then didnt reply to her statement, i think it might be right time now, after 2 days to chat her up again, what do you think?
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:05 AM
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Its high risk situation, because i occasionally work with her, its not serious work but anyways might get little awkward for her if she doesnt want to go out with me, i will be ok with that. But she is kinda shy type of girl so it might be even better to ask her out on fb?
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:04 AM
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I talked with her about the party day after, but then just quit, im working with her on thursday, maybe i will not see her i dunno, so is it good idea to ask her out now?
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:02 AM
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I got it bro, thank you.
/r/seduction15/01/18 06:06 AM
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I ll wait, wanna see if i gonna work wth her on Thursday and weekend, if not i will ask her out in fb. Now i gonna wait i think. I like you idea of not responding but i know that girls have many options so every day i dont talk to her means that sb else can take her.
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:31 AM
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I was thinking about asking her out. Because im kinda scared to talk now to her in person.
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:13 AM
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Why do you think its good idea to do it like that?
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:12 AM
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So hard much do you think i fucked up?
/r/seduction15/01/18 04:44 AM
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Hey, i had very good time yesterday, how are you felling today? Hi, me too, it was nice yesterday, today i was feeling bad in the morning but now good, how about you? Blah blah blah Going to be fun when we will see the photos taken during the party 😂 Probably it will not be so fun 😂😂 O havent replied to this one yet, i dunno how to continue, or ahould i just quit?
/r/seduction15/01/18 04:27 AM
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Im an idiot, i wrote her a message on fb. She replied but i have no idea now how to continue, because im scared to ask her out or to tell that i like her, probably i fucked up everything.
/r/seduction15/01/18 03:48 AM
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I can do that but she is my coworker so it will be awkward if she says no i guess.
/r/seduction14/01/18 07:03 PM
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I dunno how to casually do that.
/r/seduction14/01/18 07:02 PM
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I get it bro, thanks for advice, so you think its okay to send her message on fb now? Or should i wait till i work with her and talk then?
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:33 AM
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Idc if girls do, im a man and im not as attractive as girls, also i will lose this option if i go for this one i guess.
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:10 AM
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I dont know when i will see her so i dont know to make the most out of this situation.
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:03 AM
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How could i build my life so that i would be spending alot of time around beautiful girls?
/r/seduction10/01/18 04:56 AM
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I dunno, i just have it that she will be offended if i look at her when she looks beautiful and sexy, because she knows that i think about how sexy she is, i actually dont know how to describe reason behind my this thinking, it became part of me many years ago.
/r/seduction09/01/18 09:02 PM
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Why
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:24 PM
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Thank you, sir, wise words came my way, i need to make good use of them now in practice.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:21 PM
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Funny and smart at the same time advice. But probably your father was legend not because of things he was thinking but because he wasnt think that much and was natural.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:06 PM
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I always like think, oh damn she so pretty its so inappropriate to look her way, i dont deserve that.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:04 PM
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Thats good point to shift thinking this way, but i really have incredibly low self worth and confidence so i cant think that i m valuable enough for someone. Just i dont know i might need psychologist to fix this, because no matter what i do i never believe that im good enough. But i will try your advice, i really appreciate your response.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:03 PM
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Why would i? Only few of them are not complete losers in dating life. And those of who have gf have brought theyr girlfriends friends couple times but i was never able to show interest even tho i freaking liked one girl.
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:52 PM
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I will print out your response and make reading it as part of my morning routine. Thank you for your time to say some very useful stuff that is motivating and uplifting. I really appreciate your effort. But can it be that i cant improve? I spend lot of time around people, my work has always been related to talking to people and working in groups, but i sucked at social skills many years ago and i still suck hard and i get nervous all the time in out of box situations.
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:50 PM
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I did that, felt very uncomfortable and stopped going there after 2 months. Im too nervous for dancing while being sober and in the light. Also i couldnt make a connection with girls in there. I just felt very weird for going in there even tho i liked that, would love to come back some time later but only when i gonna have girl to go with.
/r/seduction05/01/18 10:19 PM
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Friends never do this with me. Probably people see how hopeless i am.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:56 PM
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this one is hardest. I cant find new friends. In 21 years only friends i have is friends from hs and friends from just neighbourhood and friends from college.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:55 PM
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Hm hm hm, maybe i will try these exercises tomorrow. Thank you for the advice.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:54 PM
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Im too behind.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:52 PM
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Because im always in my head, day game requires good social skills i think. not everyone can converse with a stranger, especially beautiful girl, and have a good time.
/r/seduction05/01/18 07:51 AM
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I would love going to those, but on my own i m to anxious to go. Its not possible to get my friends to go with me.
/r/seduction05/01/18 07:50 AM
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you players, have fucked up mind and think only about fucking more girls and most effective ways to find a pussy. I dont see it as normal to spend your all time finding new pussy to fuck. I like the idea of investing your time for one woman and not trying to game other girls at the same time.
/r/seduction22/12/17 10:31 AM
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Ahh why sexual harassment? Im not trying to game at work im talking about creating friendly relationships with female that might potentially, in the long run, could escalate into something more or nothing.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:45 AM
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We dont work in office, this job is for students mostly so its like college. Its more like hang out place than work. Many people even come to chill not on theyr working hours.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:45 AM
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This kind of job has no affect for my future and many guys in here hook up with girls we work with. But i m not as confident and outgoing as other guys and i really struggle in this stuff.
/r/seduction22/12/17 12:42 AM
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I want to build attraction slowly, first like light conversations later on maybe ask girl out. I can quit this job at any time, money is shit in here im staying just because of people and for opportunities to meet girls.
/r/seduction21/12/17 08:53 PM
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I dont know, most of the time i turn to alcohol.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:56 AM
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Well i could, but i know that its horribly hard for me. I would suffer physically and mentally.
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:47 AM
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Thank you for your effort, i will try this as soon as possible. I really appreciate your effort. I find it that I'm very scared of being not liked by others and to be alone. This pushes me to be scared to show people who really i am.
/r/seduction17/12/17 07:59 AM
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Im scared of acting like an idiot i guess, inner critic lets people double check on actions before they do them. Drunk people lose all of theyr inner critic and act stupid because of that. I will definitely try to lose it because it causes too much trouble to me.
/r/seduction17/12/17 03:31 AM
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Wow, thats some amazing knowledge you have. I will really try to use this in my every day life. But maybe its sometimes good to have some inner critic? It helps you to act stupid less, i just see people that have no inner critic as stupid. Maybe you have some advice on how to overcome fear? And stop giving a fuck about what other people say? Are you professional psychologist or just psychology fanatic?
/r/seduction17/12/17 12:31 AM
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Oh, i get what you mean, how does it help if i find that these are coming from critical side of me? I think my parents very fucking critical and still are and prefer tearing me down than building.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:49 PM
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Its me probably, are you separating those 2? I m thinking about that, i dont know where it is me or inner critic or is it the same.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:39 PM
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I dont feel like i deserve to be kind to myself, im very unsuccessful in every aspect of life and its very difficult for me not to judge myself.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:34 PM
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Might be true, how to fight this? I also have problem that i cant believe in myself almost every time if there is my opinion and sb states his i will ditch mine and agree with other person. I dont know why but i dont believe in myself.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:14 PM
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I guess, I don't really know 🙄 I'm very judgmental on myself, i think i would start thinking how miserable loser I'm and then my anxiety would skyrocket and it would be very complicated overcoming approach anxiety again. Again i would start bashing myself how of a failure I'm :D It feels very awkward and people don't like quiet people in the company, i try my best to always talk about something but most of the time, sooner or later conversation dies and I'm not able to start it again in a way th…
/r/seduction16/12/17 01:32 PM
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Im very scared of other peoples judgement, that everyone will look around me and think that, wtf is this weirdo doing, what a loser. Or the girl will ignore me or say something very rude, or i will freeze and will not be able to say anything.
/r/seduction16/12/17 12:38 PM
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I find it that im not funniest conversationalist until i get to know the person well, so its hard for me to have fun with stranger. But i get what you mean, having fun could be my primary goal when doing approach.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:39 AM
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I feel like i m strongly aware of my bad situation but anyways i cant overcome that barrier and approach that one girl. It feels love i have incredible amounts of motivation and drive to do it, but when time to act comes i just cant do what i have to.
/r/seduction16/12/17 11:38 AM
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Can i ask how did your first approach happened? :)
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:02 PM
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I aint using stap.
/r/seduction07/12/17 12:34 PM
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Stripper
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:05 AM
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Who gives a shit what they think weather you have social media or no? If you are real man you dont give a shit about distractions like that, you're hustling so you dont have time for bs like this. I just cant imagine real alpha, businessman working on his shit and spending time on biggest time consuming things in the world.
/r/seduction05/12/17 06:38 AM
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Thank you for your reply, i was talking about how cold approaching is weird, seduction i know what it is i get it, but i dont find it natural approaching girls in every day life. I was in salsa classes some time ago, it went pretty bad, im too nervous around girls so i need to become more comfortable before i attend places like that. There is no meet ups in my country and as i have read its pretty much place for older single people.
/r/seduction01/12/17 02:07 PM
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Yes you get what i mean. I think that its weird to go around and pickup chicks on the streets and every day life, i just cant figure out how to do it naturally, when i look videos on youtube or read posts, it makes me think that everywhere where im not being girls are stupid af to fall for shit like that.
/r/seduction01/12/17 01:07 PM
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No shit sherlock that people socialize, im talking about going around and picking up chicks on the streets, i just never seen this happen in real life.
/r/seduction01/12/17 01:04 PM
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Do you o guys 24-30 y/o approach 18 y/o girls? I dunno, im absolutely worthless in dating scene so i dunno where people meet and start dating.
/r/seduction01/12/17 11:34 AM
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They do in social circle, but they dont go around and try to pickup every single chick
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:57 AM
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But they have girls, and just find new ones pretty fast when single. And they dont need some bs like seduction, idk in my country i never seen anyone do this and everyone in here walks with eyes down and bitch face, its complicated in my country and very unnatural.
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:56 AM
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I actually love it, i always loved sports and im mostly in amazing shape.
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:19 PM
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Sorry mate, i had very bad day, but thank you for your advice. Im very negative person and i know it but live has been hard on me for the past years so i dont know how to live and have other type of mindset.
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:16 PM
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Thank you, for your advice. Im going to go for the second advice because i do t really like to depend on other people and i dont have anyone i could take with myself on this journey. I have friends but they are not on the same mindset as me.
/r/seduction22/11/17 08:57 AM
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Yes exactly, i think i have to approach now, because i have to.
/r/seduction22/11/17 08:54 AM
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Im already big and spend to much time in the gym. Whats the point of this if i cant get laid?
/r/seduction22/11/17 08:51 AM
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I dont feel confident, thats one of the issues, i never approached a girl in my life so im pretty scared cuz im not sure what kind of outcome im going to get.
/r/seduction21/11/17 06:17 PM
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How should i understand this? :DDD
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:49 PM
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Thank you, i had prepared even good pickup line, for her but still couldnt make it, i hope to see her tomorrow again
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:36 PM
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I will write you when i make an approach and tell how good it went :)
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:33 PM
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Thank you, some good wisdom. Really something to think about.
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:33 PM
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Yeah, cool idea to drink before going to the gym. Btw thx for amazing advice
/r/seduction21/11/17 05:19 PM
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I didnt approach her. I couldnt go over approach anxiety.
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:44 PM
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I feel worse than others and the only person i feel superiority over is myself. It does nothing good to me i just cant take these bad thoughts out of my head. When i fuck up even slightly, that grows into something big in my head until i cant sleep work or do anything without thinking about that one thing.
/r/seduction18/11/17 11:04 AM
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It never happens, but in my mind it does and its worse than it would only happen in reality.
/r/seduction18/11/17 09:53 AM
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Talking about me, i have same problem, and i am mostly scared of myself, im scared that if i approach a girl and she says something rude im going to be bashing myself for weeks about how big of a loser i am. I know that nothing bad is going to happen, but if everything doesn't go perfect then i cant forgive myself that i failed.
/r/seduction18/11/17 09:37 AM
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I meditate every day, and i dont think that these are my thoughts only, thats my reality and i live in it. My thought became like that after those bad experiences i went through in my long life.
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:11 PM
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How can it help me? :D
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:35 PM
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yeah i absolutely agree that its horrible idea for normal guy, but i dont consider myself normal and i just cant find a way how could i become good enough for having a woman.
/r/seduction09/11/17 07:03 PM
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Confidence, good looks and ofc money does miracles.
/r/seduction19/08/17 11:14 PM
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Thank you, sounds as the right thing to do.
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:35 PM
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How should i be fighting for it? She will think im straight loser if i gonna be asking for it again, she will think that i got nothing else to do in life.
/r/seduction01/06/17 02:39 PM
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She said that she is not giving her number so easily. Thats done, pretty sad
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:55 AM
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Yeah thats true, quite waste of time i see it, but i want to get couple dates from this :D
/r/seduction01/06/17 10:02 AM
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I asked her number and she is gone, when i asked if she want to meet she said - would be interesting, then i asked her number and she is not writing back anymore. She was probably best looking girl i matched with but w/e.
/r/seduction01/06/17 09:32 AM
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i sent her probably more, I asked if she would want to go out, she said it would be interesting. I dont know now if i want to go out with her. That reply looks so shitty to me.
/r/seduction01/06/17 08:50 AM
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I asked if she would want to to meet, she said, it would be interesting. Omg thats shitty case probably. Or is it still okay?
/r/seduction01/06/17 07:39 AM
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Best comment ever, makes you think, i did invite her out :)
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:39 AM
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Thanks bro, i will use your advice, gonna try finding someone to hang out with :)
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:51 AM
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Thats the point.
/r/seduction03/05/17 04:42 PM
1

Sounds like a good idea, after uni gonna go and do what i want to do :) thx
/r/seduction03/05/17 09:41 AM
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For people like me its important to have a strategy, plan and lots of thinking to make a move. I know its stupid and its better to go with the flow, but i dont have the flow and cant move without right strategy.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:48 AM
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How could i be using this theory in practice when i dont know what talk about with other students that go to same group as i do? We gonna have group party and i think if i should go because i find it that i have few friends in uni and with others i dont talk at all. I want to try connecting better with other people but i dont find what to talk about with them, especially in non formal enviroment.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:08 PM
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Just do it :D
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:08 PM
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There are consequences, i will still see her at the gym from time to time and it is going to be awkward af. But i will do it anyways if i see her again. I need some tips on picking up at the gym.
/r/seduction10/04/17 01:37 PM
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There are consequences, i will still see her at the gym from time to time and it is going to be awkward af. But i will do it anyways if i see her again.
/r/seduction10/04/17 01:20 PM
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I lack in confidence and i really think that when people smile or laugh around me, they are making fun of me. It might be paranoia or just consequences of past experience. Yes i feel like its no appropriate environment and makes girls very uncomfortable when guys start checking them out. Yeah i see it its stupid to think something like that because i know that when you find right person it does not matter where you are and what you do, you just click and things work out. i havent built up confid…
/r/seduction10/04/17 11:42 AM
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Yeah i know this aproach but how can i put it to work if im not that social guy that talks to everyone? These super sociable people are born this way its just theyr charisma, not awkwardness and stuff, not everyone can do that. Im introverted and very shy person, it takes a lot of time for me to start connecting with someone new, ofc i want to improve this part of me but i just dont see way in doing it.
/r/seduction06/04/17 07:26 PM
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Gotcha, gotta get those ioi's then.
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:09 AM
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I think it would be pretty creepy to wait for her outside the gym, why is not cool to make a move when she is resting, or when she just came to gym?
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:05 PM
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I find it that i m attracted to all girls that are fit and above average face. Atleast when im in my country i find 80+ % of girls very attractive. I meet a girl at the buss i think she is gorgeous and i would like to hang out with her, 10 mins later i forgot her, i saw another gorgeous girl :D. Saddest thing is that i never tryed to talk to these beautiful creatures.
/r/seduction25/02/17 11:09 AM
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