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Fundamentalsfranhd/r/seduction29/05/21 01:42 AM
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With women this advice is realistic, but with men, it's dangerous. The mentality of "don't worry, the right one will come along" just doesn't work in the real world. Men have to be the ones that approach. That's not to say women don't, but if you're lacking social skills necessary to even talk to women, even if "the right one comes along", how will you handle that having little to no skills.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:09 PM
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Where are you in Northern Florida?
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:22 AM
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That's pretty much what I expected. At the end of the day, you can't force your friend to change. The majority of the work to climb out of the hole he's in depends on how hard he wants to. That doesn't mean friends such as yourself can't help him along the way - you totally can. But advice is meaningless to those who don't want it. If he's as close as a friend as you say he is, you tell him what I said straight up. He can choose to get his life together, or be complacent with where he is.
/r/seduction08/06/21 01:45 PM
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I'm a guy so I can't speak to that lol. Unfortunately, learning how to be charming and have great conversations is one of those things that just get better with time. It's going to suck and feel awkward at first, but you will get comfortable with it over time.
/r/seduction08/06/21 01:40 PM
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It was exactly what I wrote. You text how you feel.
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:21 AM
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That's not bad if you're losing an estimated three pounds per week. Right now, your BMI for your weight and height is in the overweight range. You have another ten pounds to go till you're officially not overweight anymore. As long as you're working out and eating right at the same rate you are now, you should get there by next month. Though by all means, keep pushing till you shed a lot of body fat. As for how non-Indian women view Indian men, I can't really speak to that. What I can tell you i…
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:22 PM
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Lol dude. I'm reading this and thinking if she held up a neon sign saying "I like you", you'd still be here asking us "what did she mean by that". Is your friend aware of her being playful with you or even cuddling with you? I ask because if you all crashed at his house, it would be weird if he didn't notice.
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:09 PM
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To be honest, guys like him have to force themselves to step outside of their comfort zone, and there's only so much you can do for him as a friend. One of the biggest issues I noticed right away is his ridiculously high standards. He wants the hottest women, but what does he have to offer? There's nothing wrong with having high standards as long as you can hold yourself to those same standards. He isn't in school. Does he want to be? What are his goals in life? He needs to seriously address tha…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:59 PM
2

It depends where you're at with this girl. If you haven't met up with this girl at all, and you're in the initial phases of just texting back and forth where she goes lights out every time you suggest to meet up, don't even bother. If you have met up with this girl, whether on a date or two, hooked up or not, etc., and she's then half-assing her texts, not getting back to you as much, responds the next day, and so forth, you should know where you stand with each other. I'll give you an example w…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:49 PM
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Honestly it looks to me that this guy is just inexperienced. And yes, men can lose an erection because of nerves. Question is, are you trying to see this guy again? If so, just continue communicating with him and make more plans to hang out alone again.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:33 PM
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First of all, you're at a decent height for being an Indian dude. I've met tons of Indian guys that are way shorter. Second, it's great that you recognized you have a weight problem and you're doing something about it. How much are you losing weight per week? What I recommend for your dating profile is get to an optimal weight, get decent clothes that fit you, and groom yourself (haircut, facial hair, etc.). Get all of that sorted, then ask someone to help you take decent photos of yourself that…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:18 PM
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Ask her out. That's how.
/r/seduction04/06/21 05:54 PM
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Or better: go silent for a week and see if you're even interested in reopening her. Chances are you won't be.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:28 PM
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I never said text her as less as possible. I'm saying don't wait around for her texts.
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:51 PM
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That's awesome. I realize my post was skewed towards men, but my advice is still the same for women no matter what.
/r/seduction29/05/21 03:41 PM
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Much appreciated. Always have your own life outside of someone else's.
/r/seduction29/05/21 03:40 PM
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Did I say ignore her for two hours? When I said "put down the phone and go do something else", I didn't say "put your phone on silent and lock it somewhere inaccessible". I personally text people back when I reasonably can, whether that's within a minute or a few hours later if I'm being held up. But I'm not sitting staring at my screen constantly waiting for people to get back to me. That's the point of my post.
/r/seduction29/05/21 03:38 PM
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Everybody is on their phones all the time nowadays, especially women. Trust me, they see your texts. If they take too long to respond, I wouldn't get discouraged right away. It could have absolutely nothing to do with you. They may work long hours. They may have an exam coming up. Maybe they're not in the right state of mind because something happened recently. But I would say if a girl makes a particular habit out of taking too long to text you back, then you should reevaluate where you stand w…
/r/seduction29/05/21 03:35 PM
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What I wrote isn't advocating for rushing as fast as possible to text someone. I generally get back to someone via text when I reasonably can, whether that's within a minute or within an hour. My point is you shouldn't stress about how your text is going to be received by someone else. I see this particularly from younger guys who have little or no experience with women. "I want to ask her out, how should I say it?" "I want to see a movie with her, how do I ask when she's free?" "I want to send …
/r/seduction29/05/21 03:28 PM
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This has always been my texting guide. You don't need anything else. Step 1) Hit that send button and forget about it. Step 2) Put down your phone and go do something else. If she responds, she responds. If she doesn't, you can always reengage at a later point in time. Go do something else in the meanwhile. Relax.
/r/seduction27/05/21 02:39 PM
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The thing is, there is no consensus on what an "appropriate setting" is. And that's the OP's entire point. One might say an appropriate setting is a bar or a club, but another might say even that's not acceptable because they're just out with their friends. Let's flip the script. You said you go to the gym, and I'm assuming it's because you're dedicated to taking care of your physical health. A man who shares that lifestyle would arguably be a better fit for you rather than someone who doesn't. …
/r/seduction23/05/21 06:39 PM
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This is one of the more quality posts I see on this sub, much appreciated. ​ I've seen arguments against the day game so many times on Reddit. I believe it's horrible advice. “Don’t ask out x person here because x person is trying to work on themselves in y way or do z activity without interruptions.” I especially see this on other dating subs. Day game is nothing new. Previous generations did it, it just wasn't coined that way. Ask the elderly, and a handful of them will tell you they met their…
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:07 PM
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Having ideas and goals are attractive by their own virtue. Why do you think struggling musicians and entrepreneurs get women? The thing is, self improvement is awesome. You work out because you want to look and feel better. You go to school because you want to be financially set. You buy good clothing, fragrances, and skin care because you want to change your external appearance. You get into hobbies because you want to be productive and enjoy your time. All of that is great, but they're not goi…
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:33 AM
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That's the wrong mentality to have. I see people in their 40s and 50s killing it, whether it's going back to school or dating after divorce and kids. Believe me, they didn't have it together after these points of high stress in their lives until they do. What part of your life are you struggling with that causes you to feel like it's falling apart? Maybe we can help fix this area. I feel a major part of the problem here is you see the dating world as something unattainable or out of reach, and y…
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:57 PM
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It's obviously your choice, but the fact that you chose to post this on a seduction forum tells me you're not exactly content with your situation. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't be asking the rest of us to validate you. Why are you in this position to begin with?
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:41 PM
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Sir this is a Wendy's
/r/seduction10/05/21 03:29 AM
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This isn't an entirely accurate statement. There are plenty of women in this profession that give great advice, but the key word being profession. Men often give terrible advice too. How many times have you observed guys in parties having a conversation with girls one minute, and making out with them in the next minute, and when you go to ask them "how did you do that", they'll reply "idk bro, just do it". Most people, men and women, give terrible advice because they can't analyze the build up t…
/r/seduction06/05/21 04:29 PM
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I got out of a toxic marriage and OP is spot on when he says it takes time and experience to integrate this mindset into your life. For those of you replying "but I just want sex", you haven't understood the point of this post. Random sex isn't incompatible with his message. Your takeaway from this post is don't try so hard to involve yourself with someone else's life that you really don't want to be a part of.
/r/seduction25/03/21 02:06 PM
2

This is my take on it. It's natural to feel hurt when you're rejected especially after a date or two, but understand it's not because you're a shit human being. It's that in some way, shape, or form she felt like you two wouldn't have clicked. The way you deal with it is by realizing it is in fact a good thing. By rejecting you, she just saved you a lot of time you would have wasted on her otherwise for a lost cause. The time that you now would spend finding other dates that you will connect bet…
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:35 PM
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You don't have to assume it's you. I honestly don't believe she unmatched you and stood you up solely because you showed a bit more enthusiasm. Maybe an ex stepped back into her life and she wanted to give it another shot. Maybe she already has a boyfriend and felt guilty going behind his back. Maybe a relative died and she doesn't care about dating anymore. Point is a lot of this stuff is just out of your control and there's nothing you can do about it besides move on.
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:34 AM
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The good news is, if you're already sprawled out on the floor, you can't fall any lower. You need to find a drive to eat right and exercise. Don't work out because you want girls, work out because you don't want heart disease brought on by your weight. With that being said, look up the closest gyms in your area, get out of your house, and buy a membership first thing tomorrow. Then start dieting. Your body already burns roughly 2000 calories just to keep you alive, and your obesity is caused by …
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:27 AM
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This guy gets it.
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:19 PM
1

You're on point. I didn't explain confidence in its entirety because it's not something I wanted to delve into, but I explained enough from my perspective that's applicable to his situation. Simply put: OP won't be confident by going the easy way with escorts. It's the hard experience.
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:58 AM
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Absolutely fucking not. Allow me to explain why. Really ask yourself if you think having sex with a prostitute will somehow make you a confident man. You'll never get there. Why? Because not long afterwards, I highly guarantee that you'll regret ever doing it. That's going to drop your self esteem so hard because now the only thing that will ever be on your mind when it comes to sex is "I'm so unattractive that I had to pay for sex while no one else does." I used to have a friend (hence the word…
/r/seduction29/05/16 07:43 PM
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I have. I went last summer throughout western Europe. Best summer ever.
/r/seduction06/05/16 09:57 PM
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Those lines are absolutely retarded, and I'll tell you why. If a girl in a relationship is really willing to cheat, she's never going to tell you that she has a boyfriend. When a girl drops the boyfriend card, there's only two possibilities. Either she actually is committed to a relationship, or she's just not interested and tries to be polite about it with a white lie. I know the consensus sometimes is to keep persisting until she "finally" says yes, but let me ask you this. In what way does th…
/r/seduction09/04/16 04:38 AM
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The first step is to stop assigning "high value status" to people. It's superficial and doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction02/04/16 02:42 AM
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I don't see why it's bad if she plans it. On the other hand, if you're on a date and it's going absolutely nowhere, then yeah, you should lead it to go somewhere. But I'm personally okay with letting girls lead me sometimes so I'm not the one who carries that burden 100% of the time.
/r/seduction16/02/16 01:49 AM
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Move on. If she was really that into you, she would have made effort to meet you. Find another girl who will make that effort.
/r/seduction12/02/16 12:02 AM
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Look up James Marshall 21 Studios on youtube. They're an hour long each but his speeches had a major positive impact on how I interact with women.
/r/seduction11/02/16 05:02 AM
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Before I get a girl's number, I straight up ask them when they are free. They'll tell me what their days are like, contact them later, and go from there.
/r/seduction05/02/16 01:25 PM
3

I've been told that I look above average, but I can tell you that's never once been the sole cause of succeeding with girls. I grew up to be a very socially awkward teenager who used to think even talking to a girl was way out of my realm. A couple years after I graduated high school is when I finally put a stop to my self misery and started going out to tackle my fear of women. It's why I did so many indirect approaches at first, because I was really nervous and it seemed easier. Sure, if you'r…
/r/seduction03/10/15 02:30 AM
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I disagree. I myself haven't had too many sexual partners but the times I got laid are because I was direct about it. I used to do so many indirect cold approaches and what ended up happening most of the time was that the girls would get creeped out because they didn't understand my intent or they did but I acted differently. Now all I do is direct and never have I ever received a negative response because I was honest and open with my intentions. I feel a lot more nervous going direct, but hey,…
/r/seduction02/10/15 06:42 PM
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They do matter, but not in the way you think it does. Your physical genetic looks (like how long your nose is, how far apart your eyes are, your skin color, etc) won't bring you up or down. But if you take care of your body and health by staying in shape and improving your hygiene, it will make a difference.
/r/seduction16/09/15 12:59 AM
2

"It's okay, I like fat girls"
/r/seduction03/09/15 08:43 PM
1

On my 21st birthday, I pulled in the middle of the streets of Paris.
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:47 PM
2

I wholeheartedly agree. I recently came back from visiting 7 different countries in Europe in two weeks and the amount of stories I can tell won't end.
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:16 AM
2

Lemon. Lots and lots of lemon. Especially lemon with tea. It soothes the soreness of your throat and kills bacteria. You should also be resting, so if you work, call out sick. You're probably not going to be back to full health by Saturday, but you should feel better anyhow. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction29/07/15 09:48 PM
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The phrase "start thinking with your dick" set aside any confidence problems I had.
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:06 AM
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