frankbuffetjrjr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	How do you actually guage your level of attraction as a man? Male attractiveness = Checking account balance X penis length in inches	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/23 03:40 PM
5	I’m going through the worst emotional pain I’ve ever felt. Follow up cuz I just re-read your post: get the fuck off those apps. They’re mind poison. Had the same shit happen to me. Killed me. Put me in so much pain I glued myself to a toxic girl. Sounds like you’ve had the same. Just have fun, in the REAL world, and after a few months you’ll realize “oh shit I actually have good photos now.” Literally as an accidental side effect of living your life. The world exists for you to have fun. Go celebrate.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/21 01:14 AM
15	I’m going through the worst emotional pain I’ve ever felt. I was there a few months ago. A lot of the guys on here have been. It took me weeks to recover and it was slow and awful. Now I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Because the pain freed me. Some guidance I can offer: Don’t let the pain fool you. Her opinions, her friends opinions, they aren’t a thing. They’re not real the way you’re real. They don’t understand the way men understand. It would be nice if they did but the disappointing fact is they don’t. Period. They operate like a flower trying to g…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/21 01:08 AM
1	Becoming Emotionally Numb/Emotionally Distant Another comment on the TRP comments — a lot of the stuff on here is bullshit. Guys listen to Jordan Peterson talk about Campbell and Jung and the Bible instead of reading them themselves. Taste from the bucket, drink from the well. Bly, Nietzche, Whitman, Camus. Dig up the real thing instead of reading these message boards. Iron John is great — talks about how these male rituals of initiation are falling away and what they used to symbolize. Isolation from the boys and women, trials, loneliness,…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/21 01:22 AM
4	Becoming Emotionally Numb/Emotionally Distant Just read some of the other comments. Yes you can call this depression. The problem with that framing is that it focuses on there being something wrong with you. Disappointment in the harsh realities of the world is a rational healthy response. I’ve done rounds of therapy and Prozac myself. They help but not as much as spending time reframing things in your own mind in a way where you truly believe in the amazing news that it IS the world that’s fucked up, it IS women who are disappointing on a …	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/21 01:09 AM
16	Becoming Emotionally Numb/Emotionally Distant It’s a stage in becoming a man. Long trial in the desert. Dark night of doubt. It’s not the final stage. Boys please their mothers. Young men realize that other women are not capable of the same love their mothers are. That women won’t ever truly complete you. Then it gets dark. Feels meaningless because you’re realize you’re truly alone, always have been and always will be. The Light comes when you realize that that’s a blessing. That the world exists for your pleasure. You realize you’re the F…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/21 12:59 AM
1	Stop Falling Into Women's Frames Exactly. Offend back. Defending yourself dignifies her bullshit, and it never ends. If you do it right -- lighthearted, funny, proportionate -- it's flirty banter and she'll be more attracted to you for it. More importantly -- her BS doesn't get in your head.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/20 07:39 PM
1	Stop Falling Into Women's Frames Great point. Soon as I spent a few minutes correcting self image for myself, in my own head, I felt great. Don’t care about fixing things with her as much. Still will, but it’s not a stressor now.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/20 05:41 PM
47	Stop Falling Into Women's Frames Exactly right, especially the progression part. Every girl, every time. Lots of required reading about frame of course. What’s your advice on how to get frame BACK? Assuming the girls worth the investment etc	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/20 03:02 AM