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| 2 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManYou know, a giraffe is taller than a lion but it’s not the King of the jungle. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Mate Guarding - Is it always wrong?All this alpha posturing is such a joke. There’s nothin wrong with setting boundaries in your relationship and expecting her to follow suit. You’re her daddy who needs to keep his daughter in line. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | LTR and male friendship?It really is amusing how you guys justify this shit to yourself. LTR are not allowed to have guy friends without you being present. No gym sesh, no lunches, no dinners, no movies, no nothing. If she isn’t willing to give up having male company then she isn’t worth keeping. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.Still honeymooning. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Please, I need help. I beg of youI was just like you. From country to Atar. Completely lost and purposeless. I did all those things you’re doing now and they gradually improved my life bit by bit. I found God was a pretty good over arching purpose for life. Just keep doing what you’re doing. Things won’t stay the same. It gets better. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How heavily does your SO mateguard?She mateguards pretty heavily actually. Asking me everyday how my day was and if anything went on with anyone else. I think it’s a good sign and I find that the sex and affection is always higher when she perceives something went on. It’s all part of passive dread. | /r/askMRP | 17/04/18 06:03 AM |
| 30 | Wife is trying to make me jealous. Shit test or comfort test?She is being very disrespectful and testing you to see how you’ll react. Tell her “John sounds super amazing! He must be your one true love!!!” If she says something back tell her “ It’s perfect, I’ll bring Mary from work and we can all go on a double date.” Laugh and shake your head like she’s sayin something stupid, because she is. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Messy situation with LTR of 5 years - I've become extremely beta, she broke up and had a brief rebound, now that I'm improving in every way I can, she begs me to let her come back. I have mixed feelingsThe damage is done. You can’t take her seriously after all that. I wouldn’t even trust her over that 4 months abroad anyway. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:34 AM |
| 11 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossMate, are you alright or what? In what world is it ok for your mrs to go to dinner with her boss after hours? That is completely inappropriate and you should have said something the moment it came up. The possibility shouldn’t even be on the table. Daytime work hours are more than ample to further her career. The lack of respect for you is clear. She is selling you a lie and you are buying it. As a side note, she should want to be with you more than some kind of career woman. Put your foot down … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game: How to think about non-monogamyI’m about as inclined to share my woman as I am my food. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex boyfriend is alpha as fuckDoesn’t matter how great he seems. Still just a man. Flawed in more ways than you can count. If a superior alien race rocks up you’re allowed to worry. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Does breaking up still hurt after you take the red pill?Mate do you think she’d be telling this crap to Prime Pitt? Girls are selfish as hell and there’s no way she’d be letting you get away if she valued you. Fact is in your current state you were disposable to her. All her excuses are just distractions from the fact. We’ve all been there mate. Take the lessons and keep working on yourself. Become the guy that they don’t want to live without. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 10:37 AM |
| 11 | LTR wants to travel solo.LTR of 4 years and she has the audacity to tell you she’s going on a trip with or without you? Mate, this scenario should never have been a possibility. If your frame was solid and she respected you, she wouldn’t even be asking. By the sounds of it she has pushed the boundaries with you before and you’ve let her get away with it. If I were you I’d tell her it’s not ok for her to travel alone without you. Instead you’re interested in taking a holiday with her in the near future and experiencing i… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 10:28 AM |
| 3 | What is the best response to another man physically hitting on your girlfriend?I don’t know why so many guys in LTR insist on visiting the same places they did while single. Bars, nightclubs and crazy house parties are not suitable for couples. Stop making it easier for them to burn the house down. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Being controlling doesn't workYou don’t overtly control them. You make a frame you like with expectations and boundaries and just enforce that from the start. It’s harder to change the rules mid relationship, which is what a lot of guys try doing after taking the red pill. If you start on the right foot you just gotta maintain it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:08 AM |
| 47 | Married womanLet me get this straight, her husband’s frame allows her to go to bars with her slutty friends and their husbands. I’m sorry but this is so autistic there’s really no lesson to be learned. She was easy long before you came along. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 06:15 AM |
| 2 | LTR pressuring for marriageDamn, you really went through every detail thoroughly. This is serious. I appreciate the post mate, I'll be referring back to it for some time. I'll get into those statistics now. I'll be having a nice long chat with God too. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 10:44 AM |
| -3 | LTR pressuring for marriageI'm just gathering as much information as I can before the deadline. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 09:25 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageThanks, I'll do that now. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageLegit, it'll be on me. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageI agree and it's my mistake for not mentioning she is religious and I am too. Her family is hardcore catholic and we regularly attend church together. Most other couples our age are married or engaged already. Her role models are the pastors of the church, she wants a marriage like them. I think it's beneficial to our relationship overall. Also, nobody in her family has divorced. The whole idea is taboo to them. They believe marriage is two people becoming one flesh, you can't separate after tha… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 07:12 AM |
| 0 | LTR pressuring for marriageI'm convinced a big part is she doesn't want to move out on her own or with other people. She'd rather get married since she believes it inevitable anyway and start building our life together. Her attitude is "I'm sure about us, why wait?" | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 07:09 AM |
| -2 | LTR pressuring for marriageThat's a hopeless post. I'm not sure about living in fear of women and marriage. Everything good I've accomplished and gained in my life is by taking risks and not living in fear. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageNot living together atm. She's living with her parents and I am too. I say outlandish things sometimes to demonstrate I don't really care what she does. She's pressuring me which is fine, I know every relationship goes down that road. I am still immature in a lot of ways but I'm aware of it and workin on it. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageShe wants them, no doubt, she won't be getting them that easy. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 06:48 AM |
| 4 | LTR pressuring for marriageBloody hell its sounding pretty bleak. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | LTR pressuring for marriageSpot on man, gonna have a proper chat very soon. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/17 05:16 AM |
| 2 | How to handle "You don't value me enough" blow upsAhhh, I've been waiting for one worth my attention. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Been going to church with LTR, chastity is bornShe talks about marriage everytime i see her. I know she wants it. If she's just playing the christian game to lose me, she's trying too hard. I have told her on multiple occasions she's free to go whenever she likes. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 03:08 AM |
| -5 | Been going to church with LTR, chastity is bornBro, her cheating will have a lot of dire implications for her. Ironically, I have already gone through a similar scenario and know exactly how to handle something like this should it occur again. She is welcome to go and cheat anytime she likes, I've told her on multiple occasions. She's also aware of the immediate consequences and subsequent shaming and shunning that will go on. Covertly or openly cheating will do a lot of damage to her reputation and I know exactly how to expose it for maximu… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How to handle "You don't value me enough" blow upsIf she becomes really submissive like those bible chicks than maybe it can work. My tolerance for bullshit has been halved. Seriously, it's troubling how much investment has been lost with sex off the table. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How to handle "You don't value me enough" blow upsI expect her to do more for me now and a lot less shit testing. With no sex I can already feel my interest fading. I've told her i'm not interested in some weird friendship, I really don't know what comes next. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/17 02:49 AM |
| -3 | Been going to church with LTR, chastity is bornI doubt it will go down like that due to a combination of reasons but you never know. It doesn't matter either way, it's not like I've got anything to lose anymore. Sex has been taken off the table. If she cheats now, she isn't cheating on me, she's cheating on God. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 12:33 AM |
| 11 | Been going to church with LTR, chastity is bornHaha in a sense. It's scary how much you stop caring about a girl when sex is off the table. Almost like her only bargaining chip just got thrown out. It's both empowering and kinda tragic. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Diomedes' Triple Strength RP Guide To LTR Breakups and ExesShe doesn't fight off anything. You are the one who creates the environment where those things are secondary to your own agency. What it boils down to is a woman choosing to submit to a frame. The world's, her own or yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Diomedes' Triple Strength RP Guide To LTR Breakups and ExesThe emotional roller coasters don't have to be that extreme to sustain attraction. What you are desiring is someone's obsession, attained by manipulating negative feelings. Of course things will come crashing down when she realises you're not actually a god. You are still a man, the most powerful agent of change on the planet. Maintaining the love, desire and respect of one woman is not so difficult. Stop looking to the woman's natural inclinations and the world's toxic conditioning as the final… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | LTR told me her ex liked an old comment on FacebookI do have insecurities. At the same time I would see her responding in anyway as crossing a line, so I thought it better to paint a picture of his intention being suspicious rather than innocent. Ultimately, she can speak with him if she wants but it will be under the pretense of already having my disapproval. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 12:15 PM |
| 4 | LTR told me her ex liked an old comment on FacebookShe's generally pretty good. She doesn't hesitate to tell me about the guy who wolf whistled her on the way to work either. On the same token, she expects me to be just as open with her about these things. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | LTR told me her ex liked an old comment on FacebookYes, I'm insecure about things I don't fully understand. She may well believe i'm insecure about it but she also knows i'm no fool. She is aware of what would happen if she opened communication lines with him or any other dude. I frame it as a principle of respect. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Ltr becoming increasingly religious and distantyep, 25. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Ltr becoming increasingly religious and distantSeems I'll have to make a decision one way or another. Probably wanting me to commit to marriage. Knowing what i know from here though, I could end up a hell of a lot worse if i cave under pressure. Perhaps i'm dodging a bullet here by maintaining frame. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 10:59 PM |
| 2 | LTR is probably some kind of Alpha Widow. How do I fix this?It's not normal man. He's left a strong impression on her. Either drop her or create a stronger one. Next time she talks about him just look at her with a smile and say "Go on then, this could be your one and only chance for true love!" then laugh in her face and carry on. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 04:47 AM |
| 4 | LTR is probably some kind of Alpha Widow. How do I fix this?I know your situation exactly. I've been there twice. It's extremely difficult to find women without baggage these days. First girl I worried about it constantly, became insecure, went into a spiral and she ended it. Second girl I didn't give a fuck. Made it clear through action and attitude that if she crossed any boundaries, it's over. Instill dread. You have to keep improving your SMV and remain non reactive. This other Chad can't be seen as your equal, he is beneath you. Demonstrate higher v… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?It certainly is, especially if you've never met him. This isn't about insecurity and control, you don't whinge or forbid her of anything. You state your stance and say if the shoe was on the other foot, how would that look? It's the principle of the matter. You shouldn't encourage behaviour which doesn't benefit you. You're the leader. Boundaries are the mans job to make, what she chooses to do after they are established is up to her. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?Implied consequences are all that's needed. Openly making ultimatums is a bad idea. It breaks your frame. She is welcome to catchup with male friends in a group setting preferably during daylight hours or inviting you along. Any kind of 1 on 1 time with another guy involving alcohol, dinners, bars, clubs is not on. Any girl who respects you will ensure she doesn't risk fucking everything up by putting herself in such situations. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?No, but you can establish that you aren't a pushover. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?Well, she didn't argue or fight to go. She knows I have a low tolerance for bullshit. She apologised and said she understands then asked if it's ok if I were to come along. I'm glad I spoke up about it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?Agree 100% | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met?I knew i wasn't being unreasonable in my thinking. I'd have to be a real fucking dumbass to trust some random dude with my girl in that setting. She is either real naive, testing me or trying to cheat. I think she gets that it's disrespectful now. If she asks again in the future i'm going to go with your 3rd option. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | When you have the fluWas an issue of whether it shows weakness. Best way to navigate it. I may be a bit over the top though. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 09:42 PM |
| 4 | What do you think will happen?Brutal. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How to recover lost frame in LTR?I do get it, i'm not on my path living as a man. My fears and insecurities rule me. They have for some time. Truth is I've read the sidebar and know a lot in theory but haven't made any real changes to how I operate. I gotta stop coming on the internet for every little problem and focus on getting my shit together IRL. It's been more than 2 years since i found this place and i'm still exactly the same, just better at "acting Alpha" and masking my immaturity. I need to leave now and forget about … | /r/askMRP | 04/05/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to recover lost frame in LTR?You are all completely right. I'll remember this day. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble feeling like I'm "worth" a relationship or any female attention.You have a low self esteem. I know it all too well bro. We carry on as if other people and girls are superior to us. As though they are ascended beings. It is a lie. You are worth something. So much more. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 01:29 AM |
| 2 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?You are right, way too much time online. I will take her out sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 10:56 PM |
| 2 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?I was a bit delusional about how ltr work. I'm getting it now. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 10:55 PM |
| 1 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?Well, thank you for the heads up. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:12 AM |
| 1 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?Is this why plates eventually break? I mean i've never heard of a ltr where the couple never goes out. I think maintaining the "only hangout for sex" is impossible to maintain in a ltr. Hopefully i'm wrong though and can keep doing what i'm doing. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I am a cuckold and I need helpYour self esteem is non existent. The desperation for love and attention has turned you into a doormat. Guess what, your ex and current gf aren't worth shit. The guys who are fucking them ain't worth shit either. You have this inferiority complex which has elevated these people into ascended beings. Stop believing such nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Anybody else glad men in society are becoming more emasculated?This is how secret societies think, can you blame them for exploiting us? Anyway, in this sector, yes, we are privy to certain knowledge. I am also relieved there is not too much awareness. On the downside i'm almost certain that i won't be having kids and throwing them into a decaying world. Not because i don't want to but because it would be selfish and morally questionable. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else afraid of Chad the boogeyman?Well, it's about not being caught unaware. I have no desire to be cheated on or cucked by anyone. To me, it's a whole bunch of bullshit that i want to avoid. It is insulting to me. I'm interested in LTR but i'm not ignorant of the potential pitfalls. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else afraid of Chad the boogeyman?So to beat a monster you have to become a greater one. I suppose the next step is to develop keen awareness? Or perhaps set good traps? women are good at manipulation and keeping secrets but they aren't perfect. Not if you're actively on the lookout. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 06:24 AM |
| 2 | What caused you to swallow the pill?First gf broke up with me. I'm an extremist by nature so I had to understand every possible reason why. I'm also very pessimistic of human nature, when I read everything here about women I knew it was true. In short, thankyou katy, your twisted, selfish, hypergamous female nature led me here. Now I am able to exploit the rest of your kind. I would go through it all again gladly, I have the keys to your kingdom now, thankyou!! | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Feel as if I can't truly trust anyoneI know what you're feeling exactly. I look at it like this. The knowledge you gain here will give you a greater ability to achieve the kind of relationship you want. There's an element of probability in all of this. By preparing yourself for the worst case scenarios you stack the odds in your favour. It's depressing to read at times but will undoubtedly give you advantages in a LTR. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 12:40 PM |
| 5 | cant achieve erections at 20. what should i do?The amount of times this pops up on the sub is startling. I'm beginning to wonder how bad things will be in 50 years. Sunshine, lift and nofap. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 10:27 AM |
| 2 | plates want commitment after a couple of weeksUnless your SMV is that of a demi-god, they will eventually demand more. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 09:31 AM |
| 1 | she likes dominance but doesn't like to be dominatedThis vexes me, I am vexed. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 06:41 AM |
| 4 | "You're just the nicest guy I've ever met"Don't ever say or imply such a thing ever again! It's your job to make her want you and talking like that won't help. Hope isn't lost though, just go back to flirting and teasing, despite what you said. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 06:32 AM |
| 5 | Dumped and as blue as one can beRelish in suffering and embrace the pain. Once you have endured enough, all will change. Wake the lion that slumbers within. A powerful beast which they will seek to tame, yet you remember lives past, of all your pain. None will chain you or know your true name, only the worthy will have the honour of touching your mane. Remember, There are no pacts between lions and women. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 01:05 PM |
| 0 | RANT: Online dating has high standards for low quality offeringsSad days, ah well that's why we're pushed here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:17 PM |
| 3 | So, do the majority of people not use condoms?Only in a LTR will I go raw on a few conditions, because it does feel better. Ask to see their birth control packet, regularly. Check it has been consistently taken up to the day Have sex but pull out anyway just in case It gives you a lot more peace of mind checking for yourself. Although, she could hypothetically throw them away without your knowledge. In that case, it's over. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Penis size making me suicidal is there anything that I can do?Bro, just listen. Jelqing will work. The longer you do it the better your penis will get at pumping and holding the blood. Also get a hormonal blood panel done so you know if somethings out of balance. Go outside in the sun for at least half hour topless to boost your t levels. Personally, i struggle to stay hard with a condom on too. It's more common than you think. Also go on nofap. All of these things will help you. You aren't going to suffer forever. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Everything else is going well in my life but I can't have good sex because of my shrinking penis and edYour penis isn't actually shrinking, it's due to the blood not binding inside. I had a similar situation whilst taking propecia for hairloss. What fixed it was jelqing. It's like exercise for your penis. Your hormones may be out of whack but jelqing can counteract it. Also take your shirt off for half hour in sunlight, it'll boost your t levels a lot. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Sexual Anxiety in my LTRLike any perceived weaknesses, you want to hide them. At the moment she isn't too bothered about it because she knows it can change, which it can. Go nofap from now on, coupled with good sun exposure (30 min) and exercise. Increasing your T levels. In the future, do not have discussions about what problems you are having. Just say something like "I'm tired" whilst finding solutions in private. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Turning plate into LTR guidance neededI am being lazy. Good advice. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Turning plate into LTR guidance neededFair question, she's the only girl i'm seeing now. Has been for a few months. I'm content with her, hasn't given me many shit tests or grief. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Turning plate into LTR guidance neededI'm dating down, she's about a 6 at best but she aims to please me in every other way. I think the secrecy has worked in my favor thus far, although she did ask "are you ashamed of me?" in the past. I honestly don't know why exactly I'm holding out on going public, it might be a combination of a couple things, Slight embarrassment and family/friends involvement. I just know right now at this moment, I'm in control and don't want to jeopardize it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 05:29 AM |
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