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Field Reportfreew33zy/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 03:07 PM
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freew33zy/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:00 PM
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What is the problem or question here?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:51 PM
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I don’t one-itis much anymore. But when I was younger and did, they tended to be pretty normal chicks tbh. Obviously not unattractive, but 7s or so. Girls who were hot but didn’t turn heads. I just had no experience and thought that was the upper end of my “league” so I’d obsess over them. Nowadays I fuck hotter girls than any of them. The closest thing to a oneitis that I’ve had recently was also way hotter than those past girls. She wasn’t an attention whore and had no social media, but if she…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:54 PM
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Don’t give in. They’re both plates it’s not her choice. If she gets your commitment and still fucks other dudes she has no say who you fuck
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:07 PM
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Think about it. Huge Whore A is "plated" by 40 guys throughout her life. (ONSs removed, as that's different from plating imo) Kind of Whore B is "plated" by 10 guys throughout her life. Good Girl Sally is "plated" by 3 guys throughout her life. Let's say 1 out of 10 girls are A, one out of ten are Sally, and the rest are the "kind of whore" girls. Let's also pretend that I'm Chad and fuck all girls of these types. Even though the biggest whore is only one out of ten, that's still 40 "plates" com…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 02:32 AM
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By this logic, girls can never love anyone. I think for every single guy out there, there's another guy a girl would cheat on him for. Maybe it's Channing Tatum, Chris Brown, a drug dealer down the street--doesn't matter. And if she was with that guy, there's people she'd cheat on him with too. Girls are just not loyal like men are. I guess, by that thinking, girls can't love anyone.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:42 AM
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I'm aware. But if I'm with a girl who I deem "wife material" and she's, say, HB7 or HB8, and on the side I'm fucking loads of girls similar tier to her and a model-looking HB9 here and there, you really think she won't love me? If we flipped the scenario and I posted from the perspective of her next guy, people would probably say she's alpha widowed at the end. And you may say that, in this scenario, the girl wouldn't cheat if the guy is that high value. But women are irrational and prone to mis…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 07:32 PM
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I still do want a ‘wife’ (non-legally) and kids. The difference post-TRP is I understand I’ll have to vet pretty intensely, which to some degree I already knew. I also won’t legally marry as I see no benefit. I also don’t expect a women to ever be 100% faithful, so I have my own side projects at all times. If I fuck 100 girls and she fucks 1 guy, who cares?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:49 PM
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The first half of your reply is fine, the second half is bad. "You collapsed after we met? Pretty typical when ladies meet me" end text there. When she responds, then ask her out. A bit of banter then leading to the meet-up has worked for me.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:18 PM
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You didn't say who this girl is to you. Is it a plate? Don't need the drama. Just next her. Or if you really like her for whatever reason, engage it at your own risk. Just don't be surprised if one of these guys pays you a visit with some weapons.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:06 PM
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thats my girlfriend dawg. she shit tests like a bitch
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:24 PM
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i relate to way too many of these. these days most of my friends are just chicks lol. not that i'm friendzoned--i fuck the ones i'm attracted to. honestly just accept it i think. some of us are a little more feminine--you can still be alpha and get pussy while being like this, unless you have some other reason to want to change.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:15 PM
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Username checks out
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:12 PM
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I don't plan to marry. I explained to her very early on I saw no reason to it. "If we have kids and break up, you get child support anyways." It wouldn't make raising kids "more stable" inherently, it would only place legal responsibilities on me, etc. It also will teach my kids a valuable lesson, to make choices that are good for them rather than choices that society approves. And to hold their ground when needed. Like in this case. My LTR is completely on board with that as, again, she actuall…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:11 PM
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You too man. Good luck on your RP journey and with your Dad. Wish mine was even a hint of RP lol
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:56 AM
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Take it with a grain of salt. I dislike how TRP tends to say everything women say is bullshit. If a woman says she "just kissed" a guy, she actually may have. Haven't you ever only kissed a girl and nothing more? Exactly. On the other hand, good chance she did more with him too. You don't really know. The only thing you know is she at least kissed him. As for your response, anything that isn't jealous or bothered is good. I really don't think it matters if you counter with your own stories or te…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:01 AM
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Don't feel so much shame in allowing others to persuade you into what you previously thought. You know now. Also, some of the blame is his. Why's that? Because he had complete control of who he let be in his life and around his kids. He could have struck first and just isolated you from those bad influences. I'm in an LTR where I may have kids in the future (still years off as I'm young, but it wouldn't be crazy--we've been together three years now and it's still going well) and my LTR partner i…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:57 AM
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Think about building an abundance lol
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:36 PM
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I mean makes sense. I do fine myself, using college basically as an ecosystem. My social connections are pretty vast. The sex club stuff, seems interesting once I leave here. I have an LTR who I would not bring there, but she is fine with me spinning plates. Some of these plates are obviously hot. I'm solid looking, about a 7.5 as rated per accurate ratings subs, but I have far from the ideal male body--5'9", no abs, decently muscular though. Would you recommend me trying something like that out…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:46 PM
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No I know I'm well-aware. It is something, definitely a good mark. I just feel like at times TRP can devolve into a "I got 100 chicks" and then someone replies "woah man, I'm a real slayer, I got 300." But for all we know the guy who fucked 100 fucked 100 models and the other guy fucked 300 fatties. But yeah, I get your point, and having a # that high is still an accomplishment.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:34 PM
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I mean, yeah, that's what I was saying though. He had high SMV and lowered his standards. Yes, he still banged hot girls, but his n-count is misleading. Oftentimes I hear this "I fucked 200 girls" kind of deal, and it's really less of a brag than it seems to be at face-value. Anyone who can fuck 20 7s+ can fuck 200 5s and below. I mean it's probably just a personal preference kind of thing, but my n-count is about 20 and if I were to go back and fuck every 5 or lower who's ever wanted me I could…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:24 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I get about 10 per year, but with standards. Now, I have good SMV, but I'm nowhere near the top, so if someone doubled me up and with even hotter chicks, I'd believe it. But any time I hear about some dude who "crushes pussy like a madman" and would "put my numbers to shame" it's just because he's fucking the ugly girls I accidentally match with on Tinder and don't respond to when they message me. Now, famous guys or ones who literally look like embodiments of Chad, they probably …
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:18 PM
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The two comments here miss the mark. I'm like a 7.5 (6PSL) and I fucked a model off Tinder a couple weeks ago. I average about 1 lay per month on Tinder, usually a HB6, a couple that have been better, one smokeshow. You can do it--it's not as hard as people here make it seem
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:29 PM
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30-50 per year? These guys semi-famous? I know some pretty high value people myself and barring literal fame or model-level looks they top out at around 15 unless they're banging uglies.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:22 PM
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Yeah, why not hit her up? Can't go poorly. As for why she flaked later, who knows. She might have just actually been busy. I've hit this road block a decent amount lately and usually if you just persevere they'll eventually come. The thing is, I see this type of situation as a hierarchy of neediness kinda, and I'm not sure if girls pick up on that in me, but here's what I think anyways: Most needy - hit her up a bunch because she's your only option. This will dry the fuck out of her. Moderate po…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:56 PM
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MGTOW = the system is rigged, we don't want to play TRP = the system is rigged, let's use it to our advantage
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:47 PM
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You sound like a fucking idiot lol. You sure you're not the genetically inferior retard? You can hardly type a sentence.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:46 PM
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Yeah I agree here. I've been doing well lately but a stable life is appealing. I don't think it's unachievable but it takes quite a bit to achieve. Just keep spinning, and you'll find one who sticks some day. Or maybe not--learn to be comfortable with that possibility.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:45 PM
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She's interested. How do I know? She'll go to your place.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:30 PM
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In my recent experience girls are pretty nice and agreeable, I can tell them about whatever I want to and they won't argue it annoyingly, and I can do shit with them I just can't with guys like take two and go skinny dipping at night and flirt and fuck. Meanwhile guys kinda suck lately. I think because I've improved my SMV a lot and they feel the competition. My best friend aside, who is chill as fuck and as fun to hang out with as girls are, most guys just want to compete and try to AMOG me, ar…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:23 PM
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Get lucky and start fucking one. Then all future interactions are filtered through the lens of “even if this girl doesn’t like me, I can still fuck equally hot girl X.” Removes all anxiety.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:14 PM
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I don't think I would even qualify this as a shit-test. She was just fucking around with you, trying to spark some interaction. All you had to do was say something funny like, "Wow, didn't think you were capable of unplugging a laptop, but you're actually really good at it." And then either say "are you as good at plugging it back in too? Cuz that's where real keepers are made" or just plug it back in yourself.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:36 PM
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Yeah I've experienced similar lately. I used to resent having to talk to girls to acquire sex from them (how I thought about it) but lately my SMV increased and the quality of girls wanting me improved, so it's been pretty fun just getting to know girls. Sex is obviously fun too, but yeah. In my opinion it just means you're starting to interact with girls you actually like--a good sign. For all the hate they get on this sub, honestly women who are attractive and attracted to you as well make way…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:31 PM
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I know 200 pounds isn't a ton. It's enough where I clearly lift but that's about it. Disclaimer I do have a good face--if you know what PSL rating is, I'm a 6. A PSL 6 is equivalent to a normal scale 7.5 or so, if you're unfamiliar. If I looked average I am sure my results would be different. Anyways I made a recent TRP post if you look at my post history and want a full story. But here's a brief summary. Lately I've mostly been doing a combination of tinder, game in my classes, and gaming girls…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:36 PM
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Yeah I was kidding. Your situation seems pretty fucked with no real solution. It happens. The other person who said just ignore her but pretend like you're nice pretty much had it right. Not much else you can do.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 01:58 PM
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Have sex with her
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:45 AM
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Women were designed in a way so as to not compete with each other a ton for mates. As such, male attractiveness is not as universal as female attractiveness. Yes, some men appeal to MORE women than others--but no one man could satisfy every girl the way that if you took the few hottest women on Earth at least one would be "the hottest women on Earth" to every single guy viewing the sample, more or less (simplifying). So women differ. But only so much, and much less than mainstream media would ha…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:24 PM
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I don't think you would have any problem finding 10 1's who would fuck you. Unless you are literally deformed.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:57 PM
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I am 5'9", the guy you are talking to is biased because he's tall so he wants you to think it's more important than it is because it is important to him so that is how he feels it works universally. At 5'9" and benching a little over 200 max right now I have been getting top-tier girls the last couple months. But I am pretty smooth I would have to say.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:52 PM
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5'8" manlets are invisible to top-tier women? I guess that extra inch from being 5'9" is why I had a threesome with two HB8s last night and just plated a true HB9 model looking girl last week. Height is overrated. Game is overrated. Everything is overrated. All that matters is your overall vibe. If everything is on point but you're 5'4" you will still fuck. If you're perfect in every way but you have no game you will still fuck. Etc, etc. You can overcome any issues by being even more exemplary …
/r/askTRP20/04/19 11:51 PM
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Haha yeah. As a disclaimer, I think there are better responses to that shit test. I just listed some that I quickly recalled and are easier to use as fall-backs when you fail to be witty. My favorite fallback is probably a "maybe" accompanied by a shrug and looking away for a second. Kinda just says "yeah sure whatever cool"
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:56 PM
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That's why I wanted to post. It was such a crazy experience, and I am not that far removed from my days of just fucking failing. I haven't forgotten yet. And it really goes to show the man you are today does not need to be the man you are tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:49 PM
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Totally agree. Since this post was written I've transitioned one of the HB8s from a threesome ONS to a threesome plate. All three times she'll talk and talk about her other guy, how much she likes him, and will say she wants to recruit my main girl for a threesome with him. At the same time... she just will do whatever me/my main girl say, and my main girl just does what I say. Last night after we went home together my main girl said she wanted them both to sit in my bed doggy style next to each…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 10:48 PM
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Yeah I just re-read your reply and it's not incorrect. My bad haha. I've been doing a paper so I probably didn't thoroughly read it the first time around.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:13 PM
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I don't think so. I am pretty strict when I rate people aesthetically. I am pretty active on TrueRateMe, the objective rating subreddit, but I do adjust from PSL scale to "slightly harsh" normal scale. Because PSL scale 9s are pretty much people nobody here will ever bang because there's maybe ten of them in the world. That is not what I am trying to say--she is not one of the very few best-looking women on the planet. But you would have to be autistic to think she is a 5 lol.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:08 PM
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The point you missed here is that this honestly depends who you are. PERSONALLY, I have had a lot more success recently by upping the quality of girls I talk to. I am an attractive guy though with natural psychopathic tendencies and a fuck ton of confidence. To hot as fuck girls, I am different than other guys they are approached by. I'm one that they actually have to fear might pump and dump them, and you know, that excites them. It's rare, especially for someone who doesn't have a "status halo…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:48 PM
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I've been experiencing this lately as well. For a long time, I limited myself to average-ish chicks just because a lot rejected me when I was starting out so I figured this was my "max." At the same time, though, I had a pretty hot HB8 semi-LTR going who let me fuck others too so I realized there was some conflict somewhere in the world between those two things. Lately I've started gaming hotter girls and I get way more lays. My best asset is a psychopathic inability to feel pressure around hot …
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:40 PM
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My hottest plates have been down to do what I want. But I vet heavily for submissive girls who are really into me and never chase. The hottest girls also want to please men; in my experience, many feel deprived that not many men can make them feel like they ought to submit to them.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:36 PM
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I feel like this is an enormous myth here. I'm still early on with this girl, but I met a HB9 model type girl off Tinder the other day and fucked her on my first date, and I'm not a HB9 myself. She's pretty in my frame and seems to like me a lot. Women are not magical creatures that know their exact worth--if you can sell yourself as a catch, she will buy you as a catch. Whether or not you actually are one, and regardless of where she met you.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:35 PM
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Agree and disagree. I do have one friend who used to be skinny and really average looking as well as only 5'7". His max bench is now 350, and he's just fucking yolked. He's considered really attractive now, and his face no longer looks just average either. It CAN help, but yes, genetics are important. Barring extreme bodily improvements, genetics are more important.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:13 PM
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Maybe long-term, but at least short-term, I could not have had a better last couple months. In the last two weeks I've gained three new plates in addition to my main girl. Main girl is HB8, one plate is HB6 but nice, another plate is literally a model type HB9, and the other is bisexual and HB8. These are also really the only girls I've even gamed recently, and I got them all lol. Also have yet another HB7 coming over Monday night. Could I do better? I guess so. But honestly I am not really inte…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:50 PM
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Depending on age and your face, you can get away with benching less. I’m 5’9” and max out at about 210 bench one-rep, and I’ve never been doing better with chicks in my life. I am, however, 21 years old, so I guess the expectations for me are lower and by time I’m 22 I will be doing that.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:28 PM
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This could be because you display confidence to both but aren’t great otherwise. At first it may seem like being confident towards a 5 and 7 is the same. But lots of dudes are confident towards 5s. Many are less so compared to 7. So relatively, your confidence is a far bigger boost with hotter girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:24 PM
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You just keep doing it. Think of it like driving a car. The first time you drove a car and didn't know if you could do it, it was kind of scary, no? But then you did it and realized you could do it until slowly it was no big deal at all and you didn't even think about driving a car as a big deal anymore. Think of it like that. You get desensitized over time, and if anything, the thrill is just fun at a certain point.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:54 PM
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Just keep shooting your shot, and over time they'll start to drop. Make small adjustments as you go.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 09:52 PM
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Progressively lift more. Eat lots of calories and enough protein. I'm not sure what your question is.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 07:48 PM
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Fail. A lot. I've been rejected by girls you wouldn't even want to fuck. Plenty of them. I've also fucked plenty of girls most guys go googly-eyes over. I was a kissless virgin until I got to college and convinced I'd be an incel. But I just kept putting myself out there, making small changes here and there, started seeing some success, let it fuel my confidence, built upon said confidence with more success, and the process starts to make sense. And before you know it, you don't even really rela…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 06:16 PM
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My best recommendation is field experience. I can say I've been in the game for about three years now, actually trying, and this is the progression of things. Year 1: mostly failure, hundreds of approaches, didn't get shit except one lay (besides many, many makeouts and # closes that flaked). That one lay was a pretty cool girl who was chubby with a hot face that I then trained to become hot (lose weight) using my natural leaderly skills, despite not being that "Alpha" or anything. Year 2: gain …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 06:09 PM
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I think people with high IQs can obtain high EQs if they focus on it. I think of brains in terms of "total power" and some as having "more horsepower" than others, like some computers can do more than others. Personally, my social skills were absolute shit at one point in my life as in middle school I did not have a friend to speak of and in HS I could not get invited to a single party for the fuck of me. Fast forward to Junior year in college, and I spent a lot of time just learning social cues…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:26 PM
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Just convert your usage of intelligence. Are you not quick-thinking? I use my quick-thinking ability to destroy shit tests and spark attraction. Just yesterday I went on a date with some model-looking thot and by the end of the date, despite me being 5'9" and only semi-muscular (I'm no twig, but not jacked) and not particularly low bodyfat right now (decent face tho to be fair), by the end of the date we were fucking and she was telling me I was the funniest, most confident, quickest-witted guy …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:21 PM
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The past week I've fucked four girls but that's not my norm. I keep my main girl who I really like and fuck her a few times weekly. I like having a semi-consistent second girl who's hot. Beyond that I will switch a random third girl in now and then. Basically just ONSs or whatever I pick up and maybe fuck once or twice. Any more than three in a week is a bit much.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:29 PM
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Coming from a guy who is most likely more intelligent than you, you do sound kine of douchey about intelligence. I go to a top-ranked college and have a top 1% SAT score while coming from a family where the average IQ might be 80 and nobody went to college. (in other words, top 1% of the general population and top 0.1% of my socioeconomic bracket lol) It'd be really easy to get annoyed with the "stupidity" of people, but if you were actually smart, you'd know it's to your advantage to just talk …
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:11 PM
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Yeah, don't fall for the bait. Also, don't outright say "I will leave if it's not 80k." I'd suggest hinting at it, like "I do really like my other job, and 70k isn't that big of an upgrade. I'd have a longer work commute, hmmm... maybe I'll get back to you in a bit? I'm just not sure about that salary." I recently did this while searching for subleases over the summer for my internship. I contacted two different people and essentially bid them against each other lol. Negotiated down from 1000/mo…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:28 AM
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Speaking from inexperience in the job world but experience in human psychology: If they want you, they will pay the price. If the job is of any importance (at that price tag, I'd think it is) they will be willing to spend an extra 5k to get the guy they want. If they gave you a range, the middle # in that range is reasonable. I'd aim for that.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:42 AM
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My opinion is that this is armchair circle jerking. Being a dick won't kill your shots, but do everything else the same but be more positive and see what happens. Also, the chicks who stick to dicks--not that high of quality, probably. That is, if he's legitimately socially uncalibrated in his negativity rather than just someone who routinely stands up for themselves or whatever.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:39 AM
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This paragraph sounds more like abuse. The other things you've written give a different picture. I think telling a girl to fuck off because you want to fuck someone else is a lot more reasonable than throwing things at her and screaming. One is expressing what you want affirmatively while the other is using domination and intimidation of someone smaller than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 06:54 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 06:50 PM
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Then honestly your best bet may be to just go on a trip, or somewhere you can't be traced, and make sure you bang a girl as good as her. Seeing the living proof that she isn't THAT special will give you comfort to know she IS replaceable. I broke up kinda recently with a girl I thought of like you think of this girl, and when I started fucking girls as hot if not hotter than her, I really started to let go and find the value in myself rather than her.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:55 PM
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Keep working out, keep talking to girls, etc. Keep in mind that she's (probably) sucked another dick before yours and definitely will after it. It most likely won't last forever, and if you got this one like her, you can get another like her. And just live life and enjoy the moment.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:12 PM
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6 is cute but not hot, 5 is skinny and normal looking but not particularly cute. Basically girls a lot of people here call 7s
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:50 PM
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Relatable story but mine’s way worse. Not going into details and frankly you don’t need me to. The thing is, it’s all about how you deal with it. I always just let it motivate me. By SEVEN years old I bought a hat with a California college on it and told my parents “I am going here for college.” (Great school, neither of my parents went to college. I lived in the Northeast) Leading up to 18 I grinded, wrote for some national powerhouse online websites, won some notable academic competitions, sco…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:25 PM
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Be the best athlete
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:12 PM
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Shut up lol. You can bang chicks if you have high SMV no matter what you do. I was in a mid-tier frat that didn’t really help get the chicks I wanted (more frats than srats on campus, and we don’t all mix) and I still found a way to start as a kissless virgin and end junior year with an n-count of about 20 including 6 or so HB7+, a lot of HB5/6, and like 5 threesomes.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:07 PM
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Hardly need to be a master. If you have high SMV, tinder can get it pretty regularly. If you have high SMV, meet a slutty girl with your plate, and it's also pretty on. The way the girl I pick up girls with phrases it, "for any girl who wants to have a threesome, there's only so many chances for it with attractive people."
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:05 PM
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If the money is used correctly, a lot of public good can be done by reinvesting into the community. High-paid teachers attract more intelligent individuals to the profession and an overall bettered system, which then outputs better students into the world who can then themselves contribute more to the country's economic system in the future. Also, keeping cities under constant construction and clean impacts emotions very positively even if you don't notice (think about having a clean vs dirty ro…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:11 PM
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As someone who's been through this (not quite this) and torched one of the higher quality girls I've ever met in terms of hotness, submissiveness, etc... you can't try to have your cake and eat it too so to speak unless you completely have your shit together. By this, I mean that you should have set up the first threesome. I had five threesomes, and I set up the first one just with a girl who I knew was slutty and wanted to fuck me. That part of things worked well. I also set up the most recent …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:32 PM
1

They have shit SMV. I've had 5 3somes this year. No swinger environments, just tinder and meeting chicks out at night.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:25 PM
1

I mean, I did that. I still fucked her. I just don't get WHY she'd have those words to me to begin with. ASD, shit test, guilt, unaware we were gonna fuck? That's what I didn't get
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:49 PM
1

Nah I've read in the past. I didn't get "fucked over" in this story or anything, I took the right course--ignored what she said because she seemed into it underneath that. Ended up banging. I just didn't get why she'd be so adamant about her 'desiring' another man that she also fucks. Like if it was some kind of ASD, just rabid hamster, a shit test maybe, idk. Whatever it was I passed, but I'm just curious
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:45 PM
2

I've noticed this on social media, where another girl I once hooked up with would frequently post with her guy exclaiming love. But the in person thing with him not even there just felt like another level lol
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:29 PM
0

Why not have an "idgaf" LTR? Meaning, you just like bonding and having consistent sex and someone to do shit with that you wouldn't want to do with a male friend, so you "date" her. At the same time, you do your own thing, fuck other girls if you want, look for "real" LTR prospects when possible, and let her do the same. I pretty much do this. I broke up with my LTR back in November because she had too many dealbreakers for me. She was like a low tier plate for a bit but then we started hanging …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:50 PM
1

Firstly calm down with all your requirements. You're looking for a slut who's down to be a 3rd, not an angel to put a halo on. Secondly, just spend time with girls you like and her. Either in a bar or whatever. Let them "go to the bathroom" together as girls do. Let her then lay down the plan to the other girl, directly. This is how my semi-LTR/plate/FWB whatever the fuck she is has gotten me my last couple 3somes, with hot girls. I had to do some leading too to make it go well, but she laid it …
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:45 PM
1

Personally I just think of it as PIV. The other things matter, and if a girl gave out 50 blowjobs she's not the same as a girl who didn't, but n-count I only really think about PIV
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:38 PM
1

Are you sure your deadlift is only 175? Try to do more--significantly more. I don't have a ton of experience with noobs in the gym so what I'm saying might be terrible advice but when my bench was 175 I could deadlift like 400 as a one-rep max. I do have a pretty good base naturally but even my much weaker friends can put up like 250. The 175 deadlift just seems seriously off but maybe I'm missing something.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:12 PM
1

I doubt it's similar to my situation. I've never seen another girl transform from HB4 to HB8 in my life, which was very important to her interpretation of events. It was not that I was a lesser man than the beta who wouldn't LTR her--it was that she was an improved girl who could attract better men. This normally is not the case as women age. The guy she broke up with to rebound with a beta is the other alpha here. The beta is completely irrelevant. Which of you, of the "Alphas," she thinks is m…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:57 PM
1

Alpha is a relative term. In a vacuum, nobody is "Alpha." You're only Alpha because other people seem less Alpha. If she thinks you are Alpha, she no longer thinks the other guy is Alpha. If she thinks he is Alpha, you are no longer Alpha. Girls know guy's resource is commitment. So if she struggled to get commitment from a past guy, yet gets it from you, you seem less Alpha de-facto. Disclaimer: that can be avoided in a certain situation. One girl I LTR'd once was FWB with a huge beta male befo…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:42 PM
1

I do this all the time, but a word to the wise: I have done some low-level comedy and am a really sarcastic person. So I KNOW the girl is going to interpret it as a joke. You need to make sure the delivery is there or don't even try it.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:19 PM
1

If you asked this question and it's a real scenario, you're probably not better than him. If he left her, and you haven't left her yet, even if you are 'objectively' better, she probably will question it. If neither of those two things apply, yes she will like the more Alpha guy better regardless who was first.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:12 PM
1

Not me but a girl I helped train to get in shape: She was 165 pounds, 5'9" starting college. September 2016. Started working out a lot, didn't change diet much, I met her in February 2017 and she was 155 pounds. Convinced she "couldn't" lose weight. I showed her the ropes. Helped teach her how the mechanics of the body work basically. She cut calories to 1200 per day eating mostly things like chicken, fruits, and vegetables. Stopped drinking, which is a lowkey huge source of calories for a lot o…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:17 PM
1

The problem with suggesting that women prefer lower count men is in the definition of lower and higher count itself. Let's take for granted--which I'm sure you'll agree with, being that you're here--that women's currency is in sex-giving and men's currency is time-giving. Now, consider that in the modern day, most people have sex BEFORE declaring a relationship, a relationship. Whether or not this is true for people you anecdotally know does not matter because it is, in general, true. Then, real…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:18 AM
4

I've run LGD and MK together. They got me way bigger pretty fast. My roommate who had a stronger starting base saw less drastic improvements but still he's pretty pleased with it. Same LGD and MK
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:35 AM
2

Maybe not that night, but in general, no. You are way off. You very clearly have never talked to girls about their drug habits.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:16 PM
1

Didn't realize you were a chick. My bad. Wouldn't have given you a serious reply.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:00 PM
1

Lmao. She was my LTR at one point but in a one-way open relationship. We split after about a year like that and she was a plate/FWB for a year before that. Even though we split we remained good friends, and my SMV has recently shot up so I have a lot of other girls too. We just fuck and chill regularly, and though I don't think I'd date her again, she's super fun to have around. HB8, my ideal physical type, and vibes really well with me. Nice girl too. There is just no label I see fitting. We're…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:33 PM
6

Depends on girl. My main hoe (no idea what to call her at this point) has always been on BC and I can fuck her literally anytime and she even initiates a decent amount. Have experienced the opposite too tho
/r/askTRP27/02/19 01:21 PM
1

You're better off without this one
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:02 PM
5

Tell her that if she won't give you a blowjob she'll have to try anal then. ​ Honestly this all sounds pretty bad. My current-main-plate former-LTR would suck my cock for an hour if I asked. And no it does not feel good for her because she doesn't have some weird magical mouth clit. Sucking dick feels the same for all girls--it's about how much they want to do it for you. She also has fucked me many times when her pussy was in pain, either from having too much sex or whatever. She just lets it h…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:01 PM
1

I mean, I agree--I've done quite a bit of personal research and my best friend who's been guiding me through the process has done this in the past. Many of my friends see my results and immediately assume they can just buy what I have, dose it, and not worry about the rest. Not quite how it works. But if you do do it right, it can have many benefits. I am certainly glad I have done it.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:16 PM
2

I plan to do a PCT. Suppression is limited at the dose I'm taking, though. I dose every night around 8PM. Thus far there has been limited issues (some minor joint pains, mostly) but a lot of positives. Confidence, mental health, physical appearance, etc have all taken noticeable jumps in a relatively short time-frame. Being that this is my first cycle and I get most of my information from my biology major / semi-pro bodybuilder best friend I am probably not the best source for your information a…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:14 PM
2

SARMs. In a month I've added 20 pounds and all my friends say I look jacked. I haven't gone out a ton because I've been working out but my plate rotation has never been fuller. My ex-gf who I dumped due to her sagging interest at the end is now obsessed with me. I feel amazing too. My gym lifts have all skyrocketed as well. If you plan to do it though you will want to thoroughly research it as it's similar to steroids
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:24 PM
1

Too long for my tastes, seems pretty high interest. I would personally just send "thats fine, lmk if ur ever free" or something. I don't really send those texts expecting it to "work out" though. I just start on other bitches
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:39 PM
1

That's a fine move. She probably won't reach out, but it'll free you to focus on others
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:11 PM
6

Personally I've hit this problem a lot lately, mostly because I'm recently single and juggling a ton of bitches so I'm not putting a lot of comfort in before the meet up. If your problem is similar chat a little more and try once more. If you know them decently well they're just dicking you around and move on.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 01:17 AM
2

For what it's worth my sister's first BF for 4 years was 5'5". I thought he was good-looking, but my LTR (I asked her bc I was curious) said he's just an average guy. He was in solid shape, though. My sister, no incest, was like an 8. Best looking girl in her HS, could have had any guy if she wasn't so crazy. She now dates an obese man and hit the wall hard though she's only 26. So, yes, you can get attractive girls while not physically perfect.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 03:50 PM
1

Feel free to PM me specific questions. I'm not exactly sure what you want to know so don't just want to send you a book lol
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:05 PM
1

This can work but it's a big investment without a guaranteed payout. I did this with an ex-LTR, and it was largely successful. However, we got in a fight and I broke up with her and her new SMV meant that the first night she went out single she hooked up with a semi-famous male model because he showed interest in a previously invisible girl. It still may have been worth it for me because I met her in my beta days when I was a virgin attempting to swallow the pill and being with her gave me great…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:50 AM
2

Virgins pair bond very intensely.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:39 PM
4

I'm 100% sure you're not at "the top." Are all of these girls models? It just sounds like it might be time to raise your standards. I could have 7 chicks of any caliber to fuck me at a moment's notice, too, but I'd rather only fuck two girls at once and have both be pretty hot. Maybe all 7 of these girls are "hot" to you. Try to find hotter ones. Or, start screening on other criteria besides just looks. In any case, I really doubt you are achieving EVERYTHING. Only famous people get that.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:36 PM
15

Thanks. And yeah, I am more straight-forward with girls outside of class. You have to tailor your game to the environment. In class, you have all semester and the girls don't change, so you let things develop slowly. On Tinder or on a night out, if you don't fuck the girl ASAP, she is as good as gone. So that's where the difference lies.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:01 PM
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My take on this is a bit different from the people here. I'm not sure how much they fuck girls from college classes, but I've hooked up with about 5--usually one per semester. I usually have the chance with two or three, too, but only one will be attractive enough for my tastes. Anyways what I'm trying to say is that what I'm saying is coming from experience. Chatting with a girl in class, getting her number, inviting her out is unappealing to them. You're just "the guy who hit on them in class.…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:46 PM
9

Yeah almost the exact same happened to me. The difference being I broke up with her because she became annoying to deal with. But she immediately got with a model afterwards. This happened two months ago and I've been vigorously self-improving since. Similar case with the girl. I would say I am about a 7, and she was maybe a 5 when we met. After she dropped weight, she became an 8 or so. Yeah, wasn't going to last.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 12:09 AM
1

I'm young so unsure if I'll actually stick to this, but I always just figured if I go out, fuck girls, even have flings/longer-term girls I'm dating on the side of an LTR, I wouldn't mind AWALT. Yes, the "best" guys with their shit together get cheated on too. But really, those guys maybe get cheated on one drunk night at a work conference--not as the norm. Unless they vetted absolutely horrendously. So right now I am completely on the casual sex scene, no LTR in the picture, but I think that ma…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:34 PM
1

I mean yeah for plates/casual that's expected. I wouldn't care either. Not going to call you Beta for it, but it is interesting to me you'd not care if a more legit/official type of GF fucked someone else.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:25 PM
2

You don't mind if you have a GF and she has a ONS?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:20 PM
3

I'd say insecurity and not wanting to lose you. My most recent LTR, who is now my plate (demoted), was pretty hot but I am naturally good-looking so skinny me was more or less her equal looks-wise. I'd make jokes now and then that one day I was gonna start taking lifting really seriously and become way hotter, lol. She'd always tell me I was hot as I am and to not lift because she liked me how I was. Anyways recently she admitted she didn't want to lose me and that was her real motivation, becau…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:35 PM
3

The most risk averse strategy for those who want to build a family with their RP knowledge, like I do, is this: Be quick to next. Don't waste time on girls who aren't A B or C enough for you to "wife" them up. (I put it in quotes because I don't plan to marry, but I will obviously need a trusted Mom) Plate a lot of girls. Vet. Promote whoever it is you think has the most potential. Keep them as LTR for a while to see if they uphold that potential over the long-term. All relationships are good th…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:30 PM
2

No. Stop overthinking. If we make this question about something other than girls the flaw here becomes more evident. Nobody ever even tries to buy diamonds. When I walk by the diamond shop, if there's anyone in there, it's just maybe one very well dressed couple. If I go in there, they must be desperate for business! No one is ever in there! I will offer them $5 and they will take it because they have few offers. Autism logic^. The hottest girls are the most desired and have the best offers. The…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:05 AM
0

Having sex with a girl is considered rape
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:09 AM
2

Bad move
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:19 PM
10

You make way too many statements that try to say women are physically as capable as men. Boxing? Military? "Fending off enemies?" I personally don't think women are intellectually inferior (even if they often make worse decisions, which is a different skill-set) but you cannot deny physical differences. If there was a theoretical civil war in the USA between men and women, which side do you really think would win? And can you honestly even say it would be close? And then imagine the same civil w…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:04 AM
2

"Women typically marry billionaires" get off crack
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:59 PM
2

yeah it's a slut tell. My last ONS had a belly button piercing, ironically enough. Obviously you may know better about this girl but in general it's a negative indicator
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:41 AM
2

Actually despite her being my Oneitis I broke up with her, not the opposite. So she wasn't exactly unavailable the relationship just wasn't what I wanted it to be anymore. Though I do see your point from the angle that "ownership" or possessing the girl seems appealing to those with oneitis, which I think is the ideal state for those who have oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:32 PM
1

Honestly I'm not sure exactly where I went wrong. I think I was just too negative in a broad sense. And asked too much of her. I was a bit of a dick towards the end and had unrealistically high expectations for her behavior, I think. The thing is, on my end, I know I was doing it all more out of fear of loss than anything, even if it was kind of subconscious. But on her end, she never lost attraction or anything because we were fucking multiple times per day right up until the end. It was actual…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:28 PM
3

Never a woman hero? Not once? Could I get a cite or a link or something on that? If true that's incredibly interesting.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 05:09 PM
5

Idk you probably feel like you're unworthy of it. When I first got into TRP and changed from being ignored by women to them doing things for me, I always felt like a phony. I felt like they just did nice things because they saw me as an easy target to turn into a Beta lmfao and that it definitely could not be genuine. Obviously I don't still think those things but there was a time when I did
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:06 PM
1

I mean yeah in my experience it's not entirely looks-based either, oneitis that is. My LTR was about a HB8 or so, to me, so she was pretty hot--but I fucked other girls I considered equal, if not better. The issue for me tended to be that she was super fun to hang out with on top of it--we did so many things. She was very adventurous with a very nice and charming personality. She allowed me to bang others. Her n-count was also low on top of it all, and overall I just felt like her total package …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:28 PM
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Oneitis still happens when your abundance is of worse girls. You need equal abundance to be outcome free. Keep improving and get that. Source: 2-year one-way open LTR recently ended, probably due to oneitis. I literally fucked 20 girls while with her it did not matter--I thought she was better
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:06 AM
3

I'm not sure what kind of "depressed, suicidal" guy he is, but it's really not uncommon for girls to like these types of guys. Now, the girls who like these guys are pretty much not LTR material, but they get quite a lot from it. The guy feels dangerous (if you're willing to kill yourself, what else are you willing to do?), he gives an emotional rollercoaster, he doesn't care about society's expectations, and when he's "up" he's probably a good time. A lot of comedians are chronically depressed …
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:13 PM
2

Made this mistake myself. The difference being, she partied when she was my plate and I made it clear she couldn't continue doing so if I LTR'd her. She stopped for a while then slowly started to again with reasons like "I just want to have friends," etc. Once a party slut, always a party slut. So don't LTR them, or basically any girl from California. Every girl from California is toxic trash, I think
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:59 PM
1

We still have chemical reactions, yes
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:49 PM
6

Good parents, good friends, low n count, hot, fun to be around, good values, mentally stable Unfortunately that kind of girl is 1/100000000000000
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:48 PM
1

This seems less like a question and more like a statement ​ But I agree with the point.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 04:00 PM
1

By not being like that?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:28 PM
1

Yeah, I think personally I'm gonna play it by ear in the future. If a girl is some virgin unicorn seeming chick who never goes out etc, monogamy seems fair. If it's some normal chick I vibe with that's hot, I'd prob be most satisfied trying another one-way deal.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 05:24 PM
3

I'm not the biggest Chad ever but I've fucked multiple hot girls and had a pretty hot LTR while openly having had 0 SMV / been weird in HS, study sports to a nerd level, like some weird things, speak kind of analytically at times (tho I still know how to be fun), etc. honestly passion is never bad if you own it
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:40 AM
3

I am light-years better than my own Dad. Him: only ever dated a couple chicks, mostly fat ugly cows besides my mom. He's absolutely pussy whipped by her and loves it even though she plans to leave him and he doesn't know. He has no college education, no savings, and only makes about 50k doing physical labor. Me: have had a good amount of plates, only LTR was hella sexy and submissive and I dumped her when that lessened, go to a T20 college, have a job lined up making 80k post-grad. He has no soc…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:38 PM
1

The thing I'd say is most worthwhile is to not get discouraged and to constantly try new things until some click and work. And don't worry about rejection while improving--they're not rejecting you they're rejecting your inexperience
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:04 AM
1

I had a tinder but only used it sparingly. I was starting college so I talked to a ton of girls I was just meeting mostly from class, parties, my dorm, and activities. I pretty much struck out with everyone for a while, then started succeeding after a bit
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:46 AM
1

You're a fuckin idiot lol. Have fun being an incel and pitying yourself for "not looking good enough" you little faggot
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:01 PM
1

Look it's over now anyways. What do I give a fuck for? And she never drank, went out, hung out with guys, etc, so I don't think she did anything. But how the fuck would I know? I'm not breaking into her phone and computer to cross-check every single thing she ever told me. And I don't even date her anymore, so I don't give a fuck. I'm just saying I openly fucked other girls while with her, so it "not having been a one-way arrangement" would mean nothing. She was less likely to have cheated than …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:59 PM
2

Honestly I did not change a ton. The biggest difference is that I started putting myself out there. It took a bit to get going--I didn't fuck anyone the first few months of trying, trying, trying--but once the ball started rolling, it felt like it was rolling downhill. Because it just picked up speed and became much easier after the first few successes.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:42 PM
1

This is an irrelevant consideration. Guaranteeing your monogamy doesn't guarantee hers anyways. If she cheated, it's no different than any other relationship. From what I could tell, she never did and never showed any inclinations.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:41 PM
1

I am nowhere near yolked. My face is above average but my body has always been skinny fat. I've always been funny tho
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:19 AM
1

Ever consider that girls are sensing you suck as a person and not just that you "aren't good looking enough?" I look maybe a hair above average.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:14 AM
1

Nice username
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:18 AM
0

It's both. Yes many exaggerate, yes many succeed. Also, sometimes succees appears like more than it actually is. My n-count, in about 3 years of TRP, is near 20. The #20 looks massive. But let me re-frame that. 7 per year? Still doesn't seem too bad. Once every two months or so? Boom. Not that impressive anymore. I do try to stick with good quality though--I could fuck worse chicks far more often.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:44 PM
6

It was never negotiated for, only preserved. She was my plate originally and we started hanging out more, and I was clear I didn't plan to stop fucking others despite promoting her attention-wise. This just never changed, and she never really pleaded for it to change, either. It was tangentially related to our end. As in, it did not help the issues that arose, but it was not the cause either. By time issues had cropped up, there was no good way to cease having a one-way open relationship to make…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:42 PM
13

Not Chad by any means, but: High School: - Had a solid group of male friends who would get GFs and hook up now and then, but I was the one everyone knew never even spoke to girls - I was so nervous around girls that one time a girl mentioned she'd have gone to a dance with me if I'd asked her, and my adrenaline shot through the roof. - I was so socially clueless about girls that a girl once offered me to walk her to her car in HS, during a party, and I told her that she could get to her car just…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:18 PM
2

Admittedly I've crossed the line between being a hardo and potentially abusive at times--working on not doing this to better myself, but it happens. The reason my LTR stayed with me so long despite high SMV--and I broke up with her, so she'd still be with me if it was her choice--I think boils down to "Some Alphas are nice, good people. Some Alphas are bad, evil people." I wouldn't say I'm evil, but I have a lot of psychopathic tendencies, get in fights, sold/done drugs in the past (not for year…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:50 PM
1

Depends how you do so. I think letting them know you appreciate certain behaviors can encourage them to continue. Saying "I love how you always make my bed after we fuck, it's so cute, you're chill" is way different than "Wow you have stolen my heart"
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:58 AM
0

While yes you want a girl to bring up a relationship first, it's kinda silly to think you can't tell which plates are heading towards an LTR and which are dead ends.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:41 AM
2

If she's your LTR, or you plan to make her your LTR. LTRs require comfort and not just tingles
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:34 PM
6

I go on True Rate Me. It's not directly related to RP, but it deals with appearance mostly, a large component of SMV. There you can learn "looksmaxxing" which is helpful, though they preach lifting way less. Many couples also post to be dual rated and they're often pretty similar looking, which is another perspective on the dating market. It's related to--but not consumed by--the black pill
/r/askTRP25/12/18 11:40 PM
1

Definitely keep dread light unless you need it. I had a one-way open relationship where I pretty openly fucked other girls and would just say it casually in convo like it was nbd (it was nbd to me) and my god did the girl get fucked up by the end of it lol. If a girl is attracted to you, you do NOT need to dread her (much). She already likes you. On the flip side, the girl in question was way hotter than me and pretty much served me in our relationship to try to keep me. So while it won't make a…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:00 PM
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While I'm only 21 I've been on TRP for a bit and can say that there's a wider range of ages here than you may think. Definitely a handful of those 40-50+ and some below 16 too. While I know you said you preferred for older people to answer, I'll throw my two cents in. I was in a great LTR for a couple years and it crumbled. I kept the girl as a plate but as of thus far haven't reinitiated LTR at all with no plans to do so either. My take on it is that, had that LTR lasted forever, I would have h…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:56 PM
3

TRP is a toolset, not a plan of action. You can use TRP knowledge to try to find the most stable and successful LTR possible, but if you really swallowed the pill, you'd know it's an uphill battle. All the people saying it's impossible are retarded. There are definitely some long-term couples. It is difficult, though
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:27 PM
1

At least you recognize you have oneitis. Fair enough on your other points. Best of luck
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:35 AM
2

Some answers here say (and I expect future answers to agree) that just her wanting to fuck you means it's going great. Not always the case. I had an LTR who was head-over-heels for me and it ended up ending because she eventually got tired of always being nervous I'd leave her (it was a one-way open relationship) and she started seeking Betas. Alphas get left too. But yours seems fine from the little context you gave. Girls are just like that sometimes
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:02 AM
3

If you're good-looking do it. I don't sink much time into tinder and get laid like once a month off it just by starting short convos and inviting chicks over to smoke weed
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:59 AM
1

This is so accurate. My grandfather, who many say I am just like, was a quintessential Alpha male. Fooled around when young, found a hot wife, hot wife #1 got fat so he divorced her and immediately found hot wife #2. Made $50/hour in the '50s, owned multiple homes, absolute savage of a man. I grew up raised BP because my Dad is extremely BP. Will say he "lives to please his wife," "found his soul mate," "would do anything for his wife," etc. Also he has a sub-par job and pretty much no savings a…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:00 PM
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Idk I think an LTR is more helpful for improving with sex than your n-count. My n-count is like I said near 20 but I had a 2-year LTR I probably fucked 600 times and that's just way more sex than I've had with everyone else combined and way more sexual knowledge than I got with everyone else combined. Anyways my question is this... this girl has some definite red flags and such--if your count is in the 70s, why choose her of the 70?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:36 PM
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I mean those sort of comments... they're good and bad. On the good side, it means she respects you enough to want to please you and make you feel good. And not outright say "I've had better." Betas get that. On the other hand it's not a real opinion. My n-count is near 20 and I've heard this from a handful of the girls I hooked up with more than once. Honestly I am not that great at sex. Pretty average, if I'm lucky a little above average. I am 100% certain those same girls said that to other gu…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:18 AM
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Lol all girls do that pretty much--sex is a chemical release
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:24 AM
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Not equating sex and love is a strong red flag, yeah. Also typical in a high-N girl
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:17 AM
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"Sex increased to daily" was it not already whenever you wanted? In my experience girls will fuck a guy they really want whenever he wants because they crave it. But yeah I mean it's human nature. You can be Alpha as you want to and it won't change who she is deep down. It's really just an act. My Sister is like this--psycho motherfucking cunt. Absolutely insane. Weird as it is to say about my sister she was probably a HB8 or 9 at her peak so guys put up with her shit. Thing is, the guy could be…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:45 AM
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I'd advise to stay with her but watch her actions and expect these traits to come out more when she's more comfortable with you
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:31 AM
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I fucked my most recent ex-LTR 21 times in 3 days once. She was a pretty good LTR honestly and I wish things worked out better between us. I don't think the next guy should worry about that--it would seem weird to me if he did. Don't worry about this you want a GF who likes to fuck her BF. Y'know, one who equates love and sex.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:52 PM
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Yeah I'd agree--I think nearly every woman would cheat in the right circumstance tbh. That's why it's important to find one who won't put herself in the wrong circumstance, which is probably more important than how you think a girl would act in certain situations tbh.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 01:17 PM
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Even more than being bitter there's also the factor that ones who meet these lists end up in relationships and permanently taken. Every year a certain fraction of these girls leaves the market, so the older girls you look at the less will be good.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 08:53 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:56 AM
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Good thing I go to a T20 American college and make 6 figures on the side. Have fun being a wage slave your whole life, fucking idiot. Glad you cared enough to search my post history--could have spent that time making something of yourself.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:38 PM
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And you still look retarded. God, why the fuck do half the people here need to have IQs below 100. It's quality info on this site but I swear it attracts fucking morons and autists
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:05 PM
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Eating pussy to earn back BJs is beta. Eating pussy by itself is not beta.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:12 AM
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You're fucking retarded lol. Science is real. There's more than one Alpha male in existence. "Alpha" also is a relative term, meaning different people are different levels of Alpha at different times. No one person is a perma-"Alpha." The factors I list can play into all of that. Have fun with your High School education (if you even reached that far)
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:05 AM
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I agree being a frat guy mostly gets sluts. I was not a frat guy when I met my ex-LTR. She literally hated frats. She was in a co-op which idk if your school has them but here they're like living communities that are anti-frats, which is funny bc they just function like a frat themselves by trying to be the opposite. Anyways I wouldn't be fooled with a fake n-count. I also honestly don't care a ton about the # I would just rather a girl who hadn't done casual sex. Finding out if a girl did casua…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 04:16 PM
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I have no clue what I said to break up it was a long time coming. Yes she was devastated for a couple days, still stayed friends. As for if she wanted to break up, that's difficult to answer. She wanted to be with me a lot and wanted the relationship to work but she was not unaware it was toxic and needed to end. I initiated the break up. We are still friends because we text and fuck
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:09 PM
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Alpha: - she's DTF often - she will do things for you - if you cheated on her, she would probably accept it - she started as a plate (this one's debatable, also age matters) - treats you nicely, isn't demanding - doesn't seek out male attention Beta: - denies sex at times, or all the time - asks you to do things for her - would dump the fuck out of you if you cheated on her - sex came after commitment - expects you to treat her nicely, will demand things - other men catch her fancy
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:10 AM
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Lol weird you said Italian and German because in addition to being Greek I am Italian and she is German. ​ Anyways, no, it's not about maximizing genetic variation. That would be random and pointless. It's just about acquiring some genetic variation within acceptable parameters. Since we are dealing with mostly white people here, it's important to note that being white is both considered the subjective and objectively most desirable race (depending your political side) because "culture" or whate…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:04 AM
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A break up happens when you realize someone else would probably be better for you long-term. This is why I broke up with my pretty good LTR about a month ago. Thing is, I still think she's sexy as fuck and pretty cool. So I text her a good amount in all honesty. She's still the best sex I have on tap, so I hit her up every week to smash. We'll probably always stay friends--I think she's cool, and she thinks I'm cool too. We just are not a good couple, honestly, so that part needed to end.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:59 AM
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I've had success with this, but only limited success and only by screening heavily beforehand and never directly citing websites or using terminology. A lot of girls won't get it. A lot of girls don't want to get it. Many girls will be offended. I've talked about TRP things successfully with two girls, the only two girls I've tried to. One largely does not get it or implement it into her own life but can at least vaguely discuss it. The other I have a hard time understanding myself. She's very R…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:49 AM
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On here most people use it as PIV + oral + sometimes handjobs... usually PIV + oral at least. Personally it's not that idc about oral--I do--but I really emphasize PIV as being a lot more meaningful than other shit, so I mostly look at PIV and assume oral to be like + one third of whatever the PIV count is. So n-count definitions can vary but really it's up to you to decide what you want to make of it.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:36 AM
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Was there for two years. My theory is that it can't last like this permanently. It's a ton of stress for them if they're hearing about it and thinking about it--eventually, it gets to them. They'll branch swing to a Beta who's just easier to be with. My ex-LTR goes on dates and makes guys wait for sex and is looking for a "nice guy" while she still fucks me and says she doesn't see herself stopping fucking me any time soon. AKA this other bruh is getting cheated on for me because she's attracted…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:30 AM
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Actually it's just because our genes want to mix because the more genetic variability we can get the better chance we have to have successful off-spring. Mating with someone with too many similar traits to you is bad for your off-spring, which is why we aren't supposed to fuck our siblings or cousins. I'm no biologist so I don't exactly know why we need variation, but we do. Oh, also, can confirm this is a real thing: my most recent LTR was pale as fuck and granted I'm not exactly dark but I am …
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:22 AM
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I have no n=0 requirement for an LTR--it's more that for me to be monogamous it feels weird to do so if the girl does not require that. Like I'm pretending she's someone she isn't. Also, no, her n-count was what she said. I get shit for saying that all the time on TRP--Idgaf. She couldn't look me in the eyes, wanted lights off during sex at first, couldn't share what her kinks were, etc. Literally 0 sexual confidence, and she wasn't that hot so she didn't get much guy attention. (This changed as…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 02:39 AM
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She does do therapy now, and it's not just that I fucked others it's more complex but sharing every detail would be a bit much in this post. It's possible different girls have a higher threshold for it, but the general principle that it's basically seeing how long they can live under a state of anxiety is true. By definition and with principles endorsed here, a one-way open relationship where the guy is actually successful with other chicks more than just now and then has the main girl living un…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 12:35 AM
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I fully admit on here I coast a lot and could do better. I'm not in the best shape either. I just have other pursuits beyond girls I like better so I don't put a ton of time into girls and girl related things. I'm a very, very talented writer and rapper with a 3.7 GPA at a T20 US college lol, so I don't exactly only focus on girls at all. I could do way more. To get a one-way open LTR was pretty simple. I had a plate, I fucked her and treated her like a plate, I thought she was cool and worth LT…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 09:24 PM
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Less than you'd think. But that's also because for the last 2 years I'd been managing a one-way open LTR in addition to pursuing girls, so it cut down on my gaming time a bit. We just broke up so I'm going to see what I can actually do now. Before the break-up, I'd been averaging about 10 girls per year or one per month.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 08:01 PM
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I mean more than social proof, they're drunk and at my house to party. So it's not the hardest pull ever, lol.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 07:11 PM
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In real life I am in a high tier frat at one of the best schools to be in a high tier frat at. So I honestly just live life and try to show that I'm a decent time to girls I encounter and naturally acquire a decent sex life.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 04:47 PM
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I think my LTR definitely used it as a weapon too, more than she actually cared. And yeah I'd agree it's basically the highest level of relationship in TRP. Being that my LTR was super hot too it made me feel like there was almost nowhere higher than there. But it didn't last so yeah, nice while it did though. As for the future, do you think you would pursue that type of relationship again? I am split on it--on one hand, it's vastly superior to monogamy. On the other, I'm not sure it can last as…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 04:43 PM
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I'm decently above average but nowhere near a model by any means. Also only 5'9". I just have solid pics that make me look even better than I am and only one selfie on the profile. But yeah you can definitely see better results in real life.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 04:36 PM
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I try to say something clever and about something in one of their pics. Only their pics--not their bio. They don't even remember what their bio is so if you're commenting on it it comes across weird ime. My "text game" is pretty ok, as in I can say a couple funny things and understand how to go from Point A to Point B. In that regard I have "solid" text game, but really, it's my appearance carrying the convo. The girls already want to talk to me, meet me, etc, so it's easy sledding. The catch is…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 11:06 PM
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It's easy to get sucked in and just want to have a good time with a hot girl. It happens. But you do have to pull back and think "is this good for me long-term?" Also, the deal is that hot girls are less likely to have their shit together because they don't need to. They can be fucking awful if they want, and there'll still be guys lining up for them. Alphas to fuck, Betas to orbit and date. Fuck, even Alphas will date a crazy girl if they're hot enough--who are we trying to fool? Society just d…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:05 PM
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Similar experience here. Two-year one-way open LTR, ended about a month ago, went bad a few months before that. She actually never openly loved that I fucked others like yours seemed to--it always made her sad. But towards the end she just got really cunty towards me and would want to go take all these trips and shit all the time without me (because her family and friends didn't like me, which she ignored early on then started playing towards them more) so I just cut it. She hooked up with someo…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 10:27 PM
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If she leaves over it, you have your answer you say. Well, what if she endured it for several years, dozens of girls, and eventually hit a breaking point and did it herself? Her doing it herself would imply she sees the man as not the best, but also, her staying with him so long despite it means that she did think he was the best. Seems conflicting. Interested in your take.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 10:21 PM
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You seem like you would have good advice on a recent occurrence in my life. Could I PM you?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 10:11 PM
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The general point of the post is decent, but I will say: for a select niche of men, online dating is a great invention. By that I'm referring to myself and the other small % of men who are naturally good-looking but for whatever reason grew up as autists around girls so we lacked experience of success. I downloaded Tinder with an n-count of 1 and can somewhat regularly hook up off of it due to looks, which then increased my confidence and let me do better in real life too. Also, the low pressure…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:57 PM
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A girl who had 1 boyfriend for 10 years who she actually respected and wanted to suck off often would be way better at sucking dick than a girl who had 100 ONSs and only sucked off half of them. The only thing this really shows is she's probably not a virgin, which you already knew anyways
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:54 PM
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I LTR'd a similar girl and was with her for two years before it ended recently. Let me tell you: people who say that girls don't change but just hide it from you better are very accurate. She didn't hide anything she did from me, but she did do similar things as to what she did before reframed under a new light to make it seem like it was in line with her "new self." I wasn't stupid, so I broke up with her before she did anything I knew she'd do, and she hooked up with a guy the very next night.…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:50 PM
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Yeah, the hardest part has been "getting back out there." I fucked like 15 girls while with her and I only sparingly gamed. I've been gaming way more lately and beyond a couple make-outs kinda struck out even with girls I'd thought were sure things. Despite not taking the whole ordeal too personal, my game has just been off. I could also just be having a natural drought at an inopportune time--who knows. Going home for winter break in like a week and have a chick back home I'm pretty certain wan…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:02 AM
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Having had a "good" relationship, I'll say two things. Firstly, it's luck. Secondly, it doesn't last. I met an absolutely amazing girl in so many ways, stunning too (HB8 on a sorta strict scale), and I had a one-way open relationship for two years with almost no issues. She was originally a plate who'd had a low n-count and I felt comfortable promoting. The result? Two years in we started to fight a little. Her parents weren't big fans of mine and they organized for her to spend Thanksgiving wee…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:49 AM
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Many here say LTR a plate who seems worthy of you. The problem with that is, some women won't let themselves be plates. That's very few women though. Honestly, there's no good answer. Treating a girl like "LTR" material will probably make you a whore's BB. Not treating girls like "LTR material" will make you miss the ones who are. There's no winning it's a shit game.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:27 AM
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It's just risky and the common theme of TRP is being risk-averse
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:25 AM
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Psychedelics are cool and I've done them but wtf no they don't get you laid. You're probably on them right now lmao
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:25 AM
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I suggest NYC. That's where I want to be.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:25 PM
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In my past LTR I was pretty dominant in social situations. However I wasn't that dominant in bed. Not that she was either, but I let her do more of the active movements. She still really really liked me all through the 2 years, and I actually ended things with her. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:36 PM
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Height helps. However I'm 5'9" and I can tell you I'm no virgin. Some of my better bangs have been my height or taller. I had a one-way open LTR for 2 years with a sexy as fuck chick that was my height (she was 5'8") and it really was a non-issue. She did say if I were any shorter she may have to re-think things because it would make her feel big to be taller than me, but I could physically lift her up with ease and shit so being at least her height was enough. In heels she was decently taller t…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:32 AM
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You sound like you're doing well financially so just lie with pick-ups a bit and say you're staying at X hotel, then bring her there.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:29 AM
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From time to time. Seldom a hot girl, though. Much more common is them inviting me to approach, like others have said. Drunk girls are also much more forward than sober ones.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:16 AM
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Like the other said go get what you want. Set terms that you want, date who you want, etc.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:00 AM
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Yeah I just fuck other girls. It really sucks that the excitement of a new girl always dies. Nothing you can do though.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:59 AM
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To find a virgin, not parties. Also, if you're in college, you should do semi-cold semi-warm approaches. Like talking to girls in any classes and clubs you have. These aren't exactly cold approaches but function similarly.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:27 AM
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I bring good vibes. I rap pretty well, which can be fun at a party I'm really funny I'm never openly in a bad mood So people like having me around.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:06 AM
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To me, a girl is only an LTR if I see her as having wife potential. I would not see the girl you described as having wife potential, so I wouldn't LTR her--I'd just take what benefits I could casually get from her, which seem to be many. Different girls belong in different roles. My last LTR was a 20 y/o HB8 who did everything you described as well, though she wasn't bi (she did threesomes to please me). The difference? She still had a low n-count and wasn't showing everyone all the same sexual …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:07 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Some are though. Not many, but some. Find one and you'll be doing well.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:04 PM
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I was kidding. But if you're 18, many girls you'll meet are still virgins.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:02 PM
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I've never seen the logic behind wanting older more "serious" girls. The only difference is that the older girls already had their young fun. They're literally just used. If you've had your fill and are comfortable knowing that, fine. But generally I think the best move is finding a young girl who doesn't want to have "that experience" in her life.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:16 PM
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5'9" and I do fine. If I were 6'1", would I do better? Obviously yes. But it doesn't exactly limit me.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:17 PM
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You don't know details. Something posted online is not able to be analyzed.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:15 PM
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Almost no girl is a virgin past 19 or so. So, I guess the answer is to recruit from local high schools.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:14 PM
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I was in an LTR with a pretty sexy girl for a while. Posting photos of us together with her all over me definitely increased other girls' desire toward me. Just do posting right. Look Alpha and like she wants to fuck you, not Beta and like you're a gay best friend.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:12 PM
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It can be helpful in certain ways. My last LTR realized things like going out were a serious jeopardy to the guy in a relationship, so she didn't go out. She also realized female friends who are single can be bad influences, alcohol inhibits decision-making, and other things too. Also, it was one-way open, so she realized that a man could have sex with many and still love just her even if she knows it not to be true for females (also: there was no comments like "that's hypocritical." So, it can …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:11 PM
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Agreed. My LTR who I taught a lot of TRP to was hot as fuck--learning TRP things wasn't bad for her self-image in any way. Also, women definitely don't want men to learn TRP because it seems fake--they want real Alphas, not "impostors."
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:08 PM
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I think once you report a comment they'll take it from there. Thanks. And agreed. Girls HATE feeling like they operate predictably, but they really do. Something to keep in mind, if you ever want to "RP" a girl, is to just tell her what will happen in certain circumstances before it does. It makes TRP more undeniable. In my last LTR, I RP'd her a fair bit and it was mostly through that method.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:24 PM
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Don't waste your breath. Some girls are open to learning TRP and embrace it and see how elements are undebiably true, while others get mad at us for "ruining the game" because they only experience the world as females do and cannot relate to the male experience whatsoever. In experience, more desirable girls are more open to TRP because they see it more--my last LTR was very sexy and embraced all of TRP though I told her about it without the culty terms. On the other side more average girls clin…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:18 PM
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Yo, TopherHoolihan, can you do me a favor? My 'report' button keeps glitching. Trying to report cloudinterpreter to the mods for breaking sub rules so she's banned. She's a woman and is anti-TRP so it'd be like an instant ban.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:04 PM
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Any girl can get laid. It's not an accomplishment. Fat fucks can get laid. You're a girl, so you can get laid too. Doesn't mean the guy likes you. Also, Trump is smarter than you. He went to Penn and is fucking President. When are you going to accomplish that? Let me know. Anyways, I checked your post history. Looks like you get into reddit fights semi-frequently. You also love to correct people's grammar/spelling, which is what you tried doing to me too. You also funny enough love to proclaim y…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:00 PM
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Do you seriously think no guys here have sex? You're autistic as fuck. Many, many of the guys here are a lot more desirable than you--guaranteed. Again, you're probably just bitter. Are you hotter than 99% of girls? No? Then you're uglier than my last girlfriend, so deny TRP all you want, you're an undesirable bitch. No hot guy will want you for more than your pussy.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:56 PM
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Ohk this explains it. Yeah you have no business being on this sub lmao. I don't need your advice I probably fuck hotter girls than you lmao
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:56 AM
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And the success that you're having by being so enlightened is...
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:35 AM
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All means every women. Like means similar to, but not necessarily exactly. One could say, for example, green is "like" blue because green includes blue; however, green is not blue. This is why the word "like" indicates a spectrum, not an exact set of traits. Also, for your second point, what are you even talking about? "Analyzing" this took no effort for me whatsoever. I also have had a one-way open relationship with a HB8 20 y/o the last two years, which you can imagine means I don't starve out…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:18 AM
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I mean yeah I'm not denying them being out there. Average is prob like 10 for n-count at 21, with more sluts than good girls as outliers
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:15 AM
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I feel like male cheating is encouraged, not beta-shamed. I was in a one-way open relationship for a while and regularly received PMs asking how to do it. About female cheating, it's not so black and white. On one hand, being "beta" increases the risk and encourages it. On the other, different girls are loyal to differing degrees in different contexts. Ultimately, if you want to avoid cheating, vetting well and being sexually desirable are musts.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:08 AM
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5-and-unders are out there. My last LTR had a 3 for n-count, 21 y/o girl. While some say "oh she's just lying," you didn't see the amount of loyal she was throughout the LTR, how she immediately and gracefully curved every dude, or how she was incredibly awkward about sleeping together at first.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:04 AM
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I've been published in the USA Today. Fuck off lmao. Word-for-word, "all" women are "like" that means all--as in every single one--is similar to--denoted by the word "like"--the set list of characteristics. Is English not your first language?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:01 AM
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I mean this is simple economics. Does the most desired good have the highest price? Yes. I held an LTR for a couple years with a HB8 who was young and truly gorgeous, and only when we broke up did I really realize what I had been competing against for her attention all those years. She almost immediately had legit male models and other high value dudes dying to take her on dates, actual dates not just hookups, and it was incredible to see. We kept a decent relationship post-breakup and still fuc…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:28 PM
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I agree it is pretty cheating-focused. At the same time, cheating is very common. In marriage over 50% of women cheat, and I'd bet many more do so during less official relationships like BF/GF stuff.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:22 PM
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Yeah I mean I'm 21 and pretty much come to terms with the fact that a low n-count is around 5, not 0 and not 1 or 2. It's pretty grimy but what can ya do? Just get a higher notch count than them yourself and you'll feel better. Also, there are some girls who have lower notches so find them.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:17 PM
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I explicitly said I am not "so swole." I bench about 200, and I'm just saying most people can't do that. Most dudes are twigs--I'm not jacked I'm just bigger than they are.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:50 AM
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Lmao the majority of what dudes? Athletes? I'm on a college campus, and if the majority of dudes are lifting weights, 1. They must not go to the campus gym because it has nowhere near the 30,000 male students on our campus in it and 2. They must be experts at hiding their big strong arms under the noodles they walk around with. Like seriously I am not big at all--far from jacked--and my arms are bigger than 80% of dude's and I bench more than 90% of dudes. The other 10% being those who take lift…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:54 PM
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Well most of us do go to the gym, and the bar to be attractive isn't much higher than that and dressing well tbh
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:32 PM
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I mean some people are. Me personally, I fuck about 1 new chick every month. So it adds up over time but it feels far from "fucking a new chick all the time." I'm not the top of the hierarchy though so as I said yes some people do fuck a new chick every week or maybe even multiple or whatever.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:25 PM
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Depends what it seems like to you. If you think people are having sex with 3 new people every week, then no, we're not. If you think that we are having sex at least once a week, then yes many of us are. I have sex a few times every week though not always with new girls.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:50 PM
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This is an advice forum, so the people inclined to give advice are those who have succeeded. People without success aren't going to share. Me personally--I post a bit but not a ton because I feel like I'm good enough to help newbies but not exactly a guru. I've LTR'd girls that dudes get jealous of both because of their hotness and other traits, and I've plated some cute chicks too. My n-count is near 20, but I probably have like 5 lays only that are what other dudes want to hear about. Meaning,…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:39 PM
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if you didn't get it naturally, you had two options: get lucky enough someone told you or become a rapist. there was a LOT of rape in human history. the idea of "consensual" sex hardly existed, so naturally the biggest and strongest guys had the most sex.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:11 AM
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Same here. A couple close friends, got my roommates out of it too. I'd say I have 10 friends I could just chill with, play 2k, do whatever else. The rest I'll say hi to at parties, get hyped with, whatever--but they're just people who happen to be in my frat, not the closest homies.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:24 AM
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Thanks man, helpful advice. Wish you the best. I'm not totally condemning myself or anything, but I do take part of the blame as I should. I'm just going to try to be better next time. Very true there is no playbook--I just did TRP things, and she was unbelievably into me. Too into me. It was my first LTR, and I just couldn't handle everything thrown at me. Yeah, I'm not going to be too beta next time. I naturally fall at a level that would clinically declare me a psychopath--I completely lack e…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:55 AM
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Glad to see a lot of good answers here. I'm also LTR-oriented despite being RP'd and having a decent notch count. You have no problem. Some people invest in quantity while some in quality. As someone who recently fucked up their LTR with a beautiful girl who checked all the right green flags, I only have this advice: Keep yourself in check. In the beginning, I followed everything TRP to a T. She followed suit perfectly. It also was just me being natural, since I naturally act pretty RP after dum…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:44 PM
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I can vouch for Calvin Klein. I'm not that big (5'9", bench 200, weigh 165) and even for me Calvin fits super nicely and showcases what I have. Their v-necks showcase the shit out of what chest muscle I do have, same with biceps. 100% vouch for Calvin.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:01 PM
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This is what I do and get a lot of compliments on clothing. The theory: one man's trash is another man's treasure. What I do: go to salvation army, but only in rich areas. I live in a college town that's pretty rich, so that's mostly where I go. NYC, LA, SF, Boston, etc may also work. Where I live may literally be the best for it because we only have rich people and no poor ones, so people don't pick over the store to re-sell or anything. But it works super well. I have only bought salvation arm…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:58 PM
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A lot of comments here are on the mark. Most girls have some casual sex partners, but most girls don't define themselves by casual sex. Averages are lower than what TRP says. That said, some girls are as big of whores as TRP says, and even with less slutty average girls, you're better aiming to be their casual Alpha they luck into an LTR with than a beta they settle for. Also, if you are good enough, you can still fuck most girls. Be a 9/10 or rockstar and girls will whore. These guys are just a…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:43 PM
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Not as high as you'd think. Just be decent and you're top 20% To be top 10%, or better, you gotta be pretty in shape, make decent money, etc. Aim for 6 figures and a 6pack. If you're 6 feet tall too that's what we call the "666" combo, a girl's wet dream
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:19 AM
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Become rich or famous
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:30 PM
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if shes asking you for favors to begin with, she probably doesnt see you as attractive. girls dont want favors from their alphas they want dick.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:06 PM
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when i was in LA i saw a projected mid-40s jacked dude pull a hot young 20-something girl, a girl better than ive ever pulled tbh. the thing is most people quit with age, but if you dont, you can still be attractive in your 40s i think. the answers saying 50s may be a bit wide of the mark--its probably pretty tough to avoid aging and being anything more than beta bux at that point.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:04 PM
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male smv is more than what can be rated through visuals, so no, dont ask anyone. i routinely do above my looks rating (have been rated on true rate me sub, good sub--im about a 5.5 but can get female 6s) so theres more to it. just go for chicks, dont worry about leagues, and some will eventually like you. just go for the ones you want.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:02 PM
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ive improved a bit, it is weird for a while yeah. you never really get completely used to it--youll have lingering curiosities if youre still really just the "fat black kid." but thats all good--it means youve improved, like men do
/r/askTRP27/11/18 07:00 PM
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4 years ago, junior year of HS a girl drove 45 minutes to meet me at a party just "for a few minutes to say hi" and asked me to walk her to her car when she got there and I didn't get the hint, said "what? it's right outside" and off she went and I stayed a virgin for another year and a half. Chick was cute too
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:03 AM
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Lmao that story sounds hilarious. As bad as some of the shit I did before finding the manosphere lmao
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:02 PM
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The best advice I can give based on my so-far-so-good 2-year one-way open LTR with a HB8, as a guy who was beta as shit four years ago... Mix alpha and beta. Know what is the right spot, the right time, the right place for each. Her mom's in the hospital? Care a bit, show some beta. She failed a test and is worried about her grades? Care a bit, show some beta. She keeps going on and on about it and annoying you? Disengage, show some alpha. Constant push and pull. I let myself do it naturally wit…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:52 AM
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The top college athletes are probably doing that. Lesser athletes, absolutely not. Most college athletes are lesser athletes. One of my friends was a basketball star at a DII school--he told me he gets laid much more in my frat than he did there. He is an average guy in my frat, about 5 chicks per year. I've known drug dealers at my school. They get no more pussy than they would otherwise. The extra pussy they get isn't desirable. A female 5 can fuck a male 8, yes. Some would date a 5 though. Al…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:40 AM
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My n-count is a little below 20 and I started two years ago. If you're that curious here's some breakdowns: - 3 chicks my LTR picked up for me (she's a HB8--bitches want to fuck her) - My LTR (up to 4) - 6 or so Tinder ONSs (up to 10ish) - A few girls from social circles just by having a life (let's call it 14) - A few girls from parties (let's call it 18) I have no income. I am a college student. Unless you mean my summer jobs--I do have 15k in the bank. I don't spend it on bitches though, nor …
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:29 AM
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Plus, college dudes aren't getting laid as much as you think. I am in a pretty good fraternity at one of the best colleges in the country to be in a pretty good fraternity. Upper mid-tier, lower top-tier. The average brother in my frat fucks maybe 5 girls per year, most of them average. On the occasion they do fuck a hot ass bitch, she's usually LTR'd soon thereafter. Imagining that the top dudes at your school are just running through hot bitches constantly is all in your head. Actual hot girls…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:09 AM
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"Guys like you had so much success in college" my man what? I was straight up autistic before college. My first kiss was in college lmao. I'm also mildly above average in looks. If anything "guys like me" succeeding in college just shows anyone can. And if "guys like me" can succeed after college too, so can you. I think your mindset holds you back. When I was a virgin and kissless my only mindset was "I'm not getting what I deserve. I will try different things until I do." I studied a ton of PU…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:03 AM
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I was saying that you can be sexually successful for a long time after college, so yes, you do have time. Now, college is the easiest time, but it's not the only time. There's a difference.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:48 AM
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Spell out the acronym for me, please. All Women Are LIKE That. LIKE. It's not "All Women ARE That." It basically just means they fall on a spectrum in their various womanly traits and that all women are on the spectrum. Now, if you make it into a spectrum instead of an absolute, it's easier to see why some are less slutty than others. A chick with an n-count of 100 on the spectrum would be fully AWALT, while a chick who's generally conservative and lands at 3 lifetime partners is much less AWALT…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:46 AM
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You don't seem to be open to other ideas, but I'll contribute anyways. The thing about casual sex is that it's meaningless. You're not building anything. It doesn't fulfill the most base urge, to pass on your genes and prosper. If you do by chance happen to pass on your genes, you won't be happy about it and the kid will have a shitty upbringing (likely). So, yes, it can be fun. I'm in a relationship right now where my chick lets me fuck others too. Sometimes I do it when I feel the urge, but in…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:42 AM
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I doubt it. I am college aged but I can pull regularly off of tinder alone. If I got older I could still make a tinder. There's also bars and clubs. Yes, you will hit an age where you're no longer a sexually viable option to young 20-year-olds and all the 30-year-olds who aren't crazy will be settled down, but that's probably pretty old. You've got time, is the point.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:34 AM
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Yeah and if you want proof go act kind of awkward with fat chicks. You are as relatively hot to a fat chick (assuming you look normal) as a 'Chad' is to an attractive girl
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:16 AM
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When I think no game I think autism--and the answer there is no. If, however, you want to know if hot guys can be kind of awkward, not smooth, and still bang the girl--the answer is yes. Doubly so if she's drunk. Other flaws will be hamstered away
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:04 AM
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No I'm serious. Though I guess my reply lacks nuance. I'm average in some ways and not in other ways, but TRP definitely stresses appearance and in appearance I am maybe mildly above average. I bench about 200 at 5'9" which is solid and above my bodyweight but nowhere near jacked. My face is okay but nothing to write home about. My GF is the hottest girl in almost any venue and completely in my frame, though. The qualities that make up for it in me are mostly my sense of humor (cocky funny, to t…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:04 PM
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Chiming in late bc I feel like I can answer this as you mention "I see many TRPers with LTRs." Yeah, I'm one of them. Like someone else said, day game is your bet. I'm in college so I met her in a class chatting to a random girl I thought was hot. She used to go out but doesn't anymore and even when she had never slept with anyone she met while out. Very submissive LTR, caring, affectionate, loyal, etc--nearly all green flags and a HB8 or so. But yeah I met her in class, not while out--because i…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:35 AM
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A 7 is a chick who's pretty attractive but not uncommon. Think, top 10% of all chicks. An 8 is the hottest couple chicks in your grade if you had a graduating class with 100 girls (scale by the amount actually in your HS senior class). And a 9 is someone so hot they could be famous for it and you haven't met them. This is the scale I use.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:29 AM
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because the "its your turn" phrase is very exaggerated. there exist a ton of old couples. now it most likely is ur turn cuz most people date many people in their lives, but you dont know that
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:07 AM
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meet the right chick who has a thing for you and ticks off your other ltr boxes. thats all you need
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:02 AM
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i see this myth a lot. i'm kinda average and my gf is pretty hot--i sleep with other girls openly, too. shes loyal and a pretty good gf. the "average guy" you see with the girl is not necessarily a beta faggot
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:02 AM
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The reason is because you're not that great looking and trying to coast on looks tbh. You're not really big and don't have a great face so you will need game to fuck. You can develop it and the fact you're 6'1" and shit means that if you act it girls will allow it. We've talked before and I'm a TRM6 and in better shape than you but not magnificent shape myself and I'm not really at the point where I can coast on looks myself. My LTR is a TRM 6.5-7 who approached me first but she's also one of ve…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:01 PM
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I'm more slightly above average than bad-looking but still someone you'd be surprised to see with a true HB8. And for sure--wish you the best too.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:17 AM
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This is pretty true. The thing is I do have pretty high value. Despite not being the most jacked (in good shape though), the tallest (only 5'9"), or the best-looking facially, I have an internship for a top company next summer, I'm funny enough that I often get comments I should be a comedian, and I rap and rap well enough that I also get a lot of comments that I should be famous for that too. I also have a good way of leading other people without coming across as a "know-it-all," like I've done…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:06 AM
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The part about it signalling mysterious value to other people is definitely very true. The fact I'm not that great looking myself for sure compiles onto it. I get quite a few questions about it lol
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:49 AM
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I think it was luck to meet a girl with such raw potential who was also very willing to follow my lead and better herself. By that, I am referring to the fact that I did not find a snowflake. She was a HB5, maybe 6, but she knew how to please a man, had great social skills, and had a ton of genetic potential that was unrealized appearance-wise--her face was very pretty despite being a little chubby. While she was my plate and I saw how many green flags she had and how high her interest in me was…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:34 AM
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Agreed. It gets hate here, but my LTR has been amazing and I think it's no coincidence that she also happened to approach me. She wasn't a habitual approacher, either--she was just in my class at college, and I tend to be funny in class, and so she said she felt like she had to know me more. Honestly though I think indirect signs are just as good if your goal is truly to screen for interest. Some chicks just don't approach--not even because they feel entitled; but rather, intimidated. My LTR sai…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:03 AM
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Yes, yes, yes. Girls HATE missing Alphas. There's a HB5 chick at my college I pursued hard freshman year, got curved--I was super beta. Fast forward to Junior year and I have a HB8 LTR because I improved. I saw the HB5 while out with her last weekend. She was so jealous that when I went to the bathroom she approached my LTR and told her everything we did together (I may have been Beta, but I was never Beta enough to orbit a girl who didn't at least hook up with me a few times--never fucked her t…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:53 PM
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I didn't read the whole post for fair warning, but my LTR approached me first and is super hot, super submissive, lets me fuck other girls, etc. It did demonstrate high interest and put me in the driver's seat from day one. Also, I'll be the first to admit I got lucky. I still get approached a fair bit but usually HB6s at best. If you want to screen for high interest, the best method is to find girls who chick-approach you. A chick approach basically means she either stares, smiles, positions he…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:45 PM
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Was in a similar situation to you at your age and it worked out fine. I was 19 then (almost 21 now) and met a girl with n-count of 2, neither LTRs, full sex. She's a HB8 but was a HB5 at the time. Here's the thing: fuck her. Don't make another post at all until you fuck her. This girl is ready to fuck someone and it may or may not be you. If the gates are closed for you, she doesn't respect you. My LTR put out faster for me than either of the other two, got herself into incredible shape after st…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:37 PM
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Actually having BPD is such a bad trait it didn't even make the cut in my satirical list
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:39 PM
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Ok just gonna chime-in to fact check a bit--the US divorce rate is overall a little under 50%, not 80%. Additionally, that includes all marriages not all people who get married. So the people who divorce many times (and stats show those who divorce once are likely to divorce again) are very over-represented. So the real divorce rate among first-time marriage candidates is closer to 1/3. But that's all just because I don't want misinformation spread. I agree with the sentiment and don't advise ma…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:30 PM
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Must be willing to cuck you Must be the leader of your house while you work a 9-5 You must obey her Green or pink hair with tattoos preferred She must be fat or else you're imposing your body standards on her Must be feminist Must be unwilling to give you sex, that way you know she's a good girl Must have given many guys sex in the past, that way you know she knows how to fuck There's probably more but I'm just spitballing
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:59 PM
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I mostly warm approach but yes. Plates break so you gotta be prepared.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:52 PM
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I drink pretty frequently, smoke weed, and use nicotine products. Come at me RPers. But for real it won't hurt your health unless you overdo it. I'm in a good fraternity at one of the nation's biggest frat schools so it's a must and helps me get chicks. It's also fun. Just don't get addicted.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:51 PM
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Um just get her to accept that you want to fuck other chicks. That's what I do smh
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:49 PM
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I tell people who seem open to it and only them. I don't use terminology because it sounds very cult-like, nerdy, and is generally a turn-off. I've RP'd my LTR a fair bit by sharing info without labels, and I've RP'd a couple male friends. On the other hand, many people will get very defensive so I try to keep my opinions away from them.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:47 PM
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Just say "earlier today"
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:11 AM
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I mean I was being über conservative. Realistically it may actually be a one-in-a-few thousand girl. But there's even a few MORE issues surrounding that: A girl who is as desirable as to be "one-in-a-few-thousand" desirable is probably already in an LTR, since that kind of girl probably WANTS to be in an LTR. If we're being honest, why would she be in an LTR with YOU. Or me, for that matter. Or any of us. This girl can choose from thousands of men if she is this perfect. The likelihood that she …
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:47 PM
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Depends what you mean. They'll likely never realize they shouldn't have acted as they did in their 20s, but they will eventually grow bitter that they aren't in their 20s anymore.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:38 PM
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If anything it'll show you fuck and improve your SMV
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:36 PM
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Tinder in a college town >>>>> tinder random places. If girls see you go to their school they will come right over to your house, no date necessary.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:35 PM
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Yeah I mean I'm experiencing my first LTR right now after being pretty beta earlier in my life then more alpha later on. It's pretty fun, but I'd definitely advise to know when to cut it off.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:35 PM
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To just throw some bullshit numbers around: I think the more realistic standard that's talked about is HB7+, not 9+ as a requirement. If you have decent standards, a 7 is about 10% of women. So let's cross off 90% of women off the bat. Okay so we have 10% left. Now let's say we want 5-and-under n-count, to be a little generous again compared to your estimate. For girls in the 18-22 demographic (the only one I'm familiar with) I'd say 5-and-under is maybe 1-out-of-4 girls (disproportionately ugly…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:33 PM
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My LTR is a HB8 with an n-count of 2 that aren't me. But I'd be lying if I said it was for any reason other than the fact that she was fat when she met me.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:14 PM
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This is so fucking true. I'm on a college campus and this rang so true with two girls I met working my job at the golf course. One was a chubster with a clearly pretty face and the other was a girl who looked like a milf. I thought, "Wow, they both were probably really sexy back in college. Shame they're like 29 or so now." Well, it turns out they were both a year out of college and 23 each. I was like WHAT THE FUCK. One was still attractive but in such a milf way and not a young female way, and…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:06 PM
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"Just do it" - Nike Go for what you want. You cant get what you want if you dont go for it.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:17 PM
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fair enough. cheers
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:49 PM
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If your mom hit the wall and is letting herself decay while your dad is her plow horse, good for him for getting some on the side. I would too. Look at it through his lens. Besides, you don't know that your mom doesn't already know--women often look away when a high SMV male goes outside the relationship.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:03 PM
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Yeah I'd agree there's definitely some that want it. The thing is the highest of the SMVs that you see on a college campus or whatever, I think those girls tend to want frat stars and athletes. I'd say 90% of the girls I'd call HB7.5+ on my campus are either in a sorority or athletes (coming from a guy whose LTR is a HB8 that's neither). And athletes flock to other athletes since they're impressed by athletic accomplishment while sororities flock to frats because they're impressed with partying …
/r/askTRP13/11/18 04:20 PM
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The SMV curve is assuming you take care of yourself, thus instantly becoming irrelevant in reference to 90% of 40 year olds. Also, it's a bit mental masturbation so guys can always think they're improving when realistically they peak younger than they'd like to admit sexually and any improvements they see at later ages could have been doubly had if they were made at a younger age. The one point that's fair is that men have much more resources by time they are older. I don't understand how this i…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:21 PM
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I more freestyle bc i'm just in college so I can't afford good equipment yet. Gonna have my parents buy me a good mic tho for christmas this year so I can finally get recording shit. I could send some lyrics if youd like haha but thats all I have materialistically rn. Also, here's the thing: it's not acceptable. It's 2018 so anyone who finds out will flame you and all that shit. But the key is to not give a fuck what's acceptable and do your own thing. Your LTR won't think less of you for acting…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:07 PM
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Well she has two dude friends--a gay guy and a huge beta both from when she was a kid. It's little messed up if I forced her to give them up. Also, it doesn't scream insecurity. What good can possibly come from dude friends? They all just want to fuck her anyways. It's basically allowing orbiters. Plus, it's in how you phrase it to your LTR--I told her I don't respect girls who date one guy but want to have a bunch of male friends, and as a result she has no male friends. I never said "You can't…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:00 PM
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No. If there's dudes I'm invited or fuck her she can't go. There's absolutely zero reason to hang out with dudes if I can't go. See a "girl's night" is one thing but it's not a girl's night if there's dudes there, now is it? So no dudes. Chicks not dicks. Yeah music is dope. I rap. Idk write some emotional shit get it out lmao. Then write some non-emotional shit and distract yourself. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:31 PM
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Just keep a mental log and try to recognize patterns. I was born without this ability at all but starting towards the end of HS (I'm near the end of college now) I started becoming super observant to facial expressions and body language and voice tonality. I just watched what ones appeared and the result that followed (a more long-term result, like say for example I notice a girl standing really close to a guy for a while--then suddenly they're "dating." Therefore standing close is an IOI, since…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:18 PM
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Not allowing your girl to have male friends is fine. Why are you blaming yourself for a normal boundary? My LTR has no male friends. Anyways you sound like you one-itis'd her hard. Just either find something to do or find someone to screw. Then do those things and move on and forget about her. My only breakup ever I played a lot of basketball. Got pretty good in a short-ish time. Helped me forget.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:14 PM
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Yeah like others have said they're just shy and uncomfy making jokes back. They still have thoughts. They're not asexual. You can still bang them too just like other chicks if you lead them right.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:12 PM
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Yes, but this wasn't really in reference to the OP. More to that I constantly see anti-drugs things on TRP.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:28 PM
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Make a fake account as a girl and start swiping and then you'll see what I have against Tinder. Hint: every single girl gets hundreds if not over a thousand matches, many of whom are far above her league, and let's not sit here and pretend they don't meet at least a few of them.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:27 PM
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Someone else responded for me. In my post I meant the eyes of the LTR. While I don't believe in giving a fuck what the outside world thinks, it is going to damage an LTR if the girl can't even trust what you're telling her to be true.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:25 PM
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Sounds like you're LTRing a CC rider. But hey, if you deem her to be not as much of a CC rider as some of your other options, then what the hell. Go for it. But just know she's no unicorn (doesn't exist) and she's not exactly the tier below that (really good girl) either. Just seems like a normal girl from 2018.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:34 AM
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Yeah see I'm not sure how many other people are catching onto it but I'm pretty sure you're a troll lmao or just a person whose post history says they're 31 yet still hasn't grown up
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:29 AM
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what? you didnt know that a women must be very hot with an amazing personality if men want to have sex with her? sex is very difficult for them to obtain. they cant even go up to a guy and try to initiate sex with him because society places a constraint on them! so if a guy sees that one particular girl and thinks he must have HER then wow she must be one hell of a catch! lmfao. /s
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:26 AM
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Depends how she used the app. I know one girl who had only ever kissed one guy but made a tinder because she was having trouble meeting guys who showed interest in her, having gone to a small college and not going out at night much. She was like a HB6 too so not too ugly. She deleted the app decently quickly and was disgusted by how thirsty all the men there seemed. But you'll never know how she used the app so yeah GG
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:23 AM
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you seem hella autistic lmao and doing this doesnt make you cool
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:20 AM
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wife her up shes clearly valued by many men
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:18 AM
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Well in High School I had a lot of dude friends and was somewhat popular and girls did show interest in me, but I was autism/delusional level of BP and had extreme social anxiety specifically with girls, not guys. I'd be funny in class and girls would approach me afterwards, then I just couldn't say anything at all beyond basic pleasantries. And I could not figure out at all why no girls were approaching me and trying to date me, completely taking the lead themselves. I thought I must be undesir…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:51 AM
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Or, better move: try getting her to agree to let you fuck other girls, then pretend when you fucked this girl that was already the agreement. If not, don't even tell her. It does her no good to know.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:26 AM
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There's no right answer to this question. You just gotta power through and get over it yourself.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:14 AM
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Why are you going to withdraw? Just act normal. "Withdrawing" does not sound like acting normal. Also you don't want to go around acting weird and sending red flags, cuz then she might snoop. And if she snoops...
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:06 AM
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What? Who cares. My wrists are pretty small (same size as my LTR's lmao) and it literally does not matter at all. There are at least 10 physical characteristics girls look at before wrists. This is may 1/100th of your SMV
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:03 AM
1

Depends on your level of empathy. Personally I've fucked a bunch of girls while with my LTR and feel no guilt whatsoever about it. She does also know though. But I'm sure the mistake is swallow-able.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:49 AM
2

make something unique to their profile that invites a response. Make it friendly, potentially flirty. Don't neg in the opener--that's autistic as fuck but i've seen too many ppl trying to over-game and doing it. After she responds, try to get her # within 5 messages. If youre successful set up the date for one of the next few days. Source: i've fucked half a dozen girls off tinder and use it sparingly Edit: I should say though negs have a very distinct place in tinder usage. Two of the girls tha…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:44 AM
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From experience it's not hard to get a girl to agree to let you fuck other girls if you have high value so cheating is stupid and low value and you shouldn't do it. It also makes you look dishonest and you should want to look credible to your LTR. So do it no more and just swallow this one.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:39 AM
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Couple issues here. Firstly, there is no "perfect TRP man." It's a goal to strive towards, not reach. The mightiest of mighty TRP warrior alphas does beta things now and then. We're humans and have real emotions--it happens. To some more than others, but it happens to everyone. Secondly, it takes time. I found TRP as a HS senior and am now a college junior, so that's about three years ago. I didn't even have my first kiss until I started college. I didn't start having plates until the end of my …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:33 AM
1

Yeah you made the classic mistake of over-gaming. Should have done it Friday.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:33 AM
3

I don't get #s when I go out at night anymore. Chicks don't want to meet the dude from the bar last night ever again. You either fuck them then and there or not at all--in my experience. Now, if it's day game, or from social circle or something, different story. But you're asking a lot of them if you want to get their # and go on a date after meeting them out at night because they're busy and that wasn't their intention.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:32 AM
1

Be disciplined or don't. Don't be not disciplined then hate yourself for it. That's stupid. Be who you want to be (in this sense). Me personally? I will fully admit I could push myself way harder. I get good results in life, financially and sexually, but I completely coast on genetics (top 1% IQ, pretty good-looking naturally, solid social skills). I could probably push myself and become something great. But hey, I'd rather relax, lift a couple times a week, do a little bit of homework, and enjo…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:29 AM
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I'd break up with her because I met her on Tinder, not because her parents are cousins
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:25 AM
1

Relationship seems terrible and you seem like you're doing well. Clearly there's an imbalance there. It won't be easy, but you know what you need to do
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:13 AM
1

I'm not sure about the other places but LA competition seems unrealistically high. Good look getting anything unless you're an 8 or 9. The west coast in general has a shitty ratio so it's not good to game in.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:03 AM
1

Because sex is empty nowadays that birth control has separated it from creating a child. Just find girls who don't leave you feeling as empty and up your value to do so if need be.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:01 AM
2

You're not going to find a scientific study on a topic that goes against the liberal narrative. Liberals control academia and therefore research. Anyways, all that you've said may or may not be true. But it's useless to debate because what cannot be debated is that men want a low n-count from women, generally. So, if you want to appeal to more men, you keep a low n-count. If you don't care about your LTR prospects, it doesn't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 12:53 AM
2

Im 5'9" and most of my hotter fucks have been near my height. I did nothing different with them. You shouldnt either. Theyre girls
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:28 PM
2

I would agree with this
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:50 PM
1

Haha im in college too. If youre strapped airbnb is pretty cheap as an option too
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:29 PM
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Lmfao. Okay. Nice to see you're rattled
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:21 PM
2

Ugh, we need to quit the drug shaming shit here. In moderation drugs are super fun and don't do any long-term damage if you take the proper precautions. My LTR is amazing, a TRP goal (HB8, one-way open relationship, gets me other chicks, very low n-count, very pleasant personality), and she sometimes does drugs. Never without me since we met, but before we met, she'd do acid or shrooms now and then with female friends. Had done coke once and molly once, too. Not at parties, not with dudes, just …
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:07 PM
2

Friend of mine lifts a lot and vapes a lot. Hes fine, most jacked dude i know. Dont worry about it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:49 PM
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So im in college and we have frat formals and date parties instead of proms. But generally I tell guys bringing a fuck piece as your date communicates shes currently your best option and moves her mentally up to at least FWB, like someone else said. So you can do it, but you shouldnt do it out of lack of other options--only if you actually want this girl to get promoted a bit.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:48 PM
1

Look this whole "which one do you need" debate is pointless and dumb. A good-looking dude with no game gets no sex. A dude with game and no looks gets no sex. A dude with frame and none of the other two doesnt even make sense because no one would let that dude hold frame. You need to be at least average in all 3 to get pussy and to excel in one. Which one you excel in doesnt matter, but you cant ignore the others
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:47 PM
1

its not cheating if youre not together
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:44 PM
1

Myself and my LTR have birthdays a month apart so instead of celebrating separately we pool some money on her birthday (a month before mine) and take a nice trip. Last year we spent a weekend in Detroit--checked out the whole city, saw what was good with it, talked to some locals (got a dude to freestyle for us--was pretty sick he was great) and did some other shit. Bought a bottle of champagne and fucked a lot too to end the night. It was super fun overall, would recommend. We also fucked in th…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:43 PM
1

Hahahahahahahahahahaha this is hilarious. My LTR also has small boobs and I bust out lines like this on her all the time for good fun. Don't worry about it. Myself and my LTR roast each other a lot--keeps the spark alive.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:18 PM
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I don't need a chart to know that very hot college girls mostly fuck fraternity guys and college athletes. Source: I am in a pretty good frat at my school, and those girls fuck us. They do fuck some older guys too, but it's a stretch to say they fuck more older men. They definitely do not. Though, again, some do.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:36 PM
2

Well you said no drinks but wine wednesday at my place has gotten me hella pussy. Try taco tuesday or some shit i guess and cook some tacos. Bitches love catchy names
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:37 PM
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What? Get out of TRP fantasy land. At college (18-22 y/o girls) girls fuck way more dudes their own age or a year or two older than they do dudes who are mid-20s lmao.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:35 PM
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Pro-tip: don't refer to someone as your "girl friend" if you mean a girl who is a friend lmao. Many people will misread that. Anyways, I would say yes. I'm in a one-way open LTR and my LTR is pretty hot (HB8 or so). I obviously am with her in public a fair bit. She makes girls MAGNET to me. It's not rare at all if we're at a party, she goes to the bathroom, and I get approached by a group of girls. The irony being it makes my LTR think I'm super desirable because I constantly have girls approach…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:07 PM
1

Like has already been said, TrueRateMe is good. They actually use a lot of TRP lingo there (things like rating people "ChadLite," etc). Just keep in mind you should scale their ratings because they tend to underrate versus what people normally think. Generally, add 1.25 to your rating unless you get a 5 or 5.5. A 5 means you are average and a 5.5 means you're a 6. But 6 means 7, 6.5 means nearly an 8, 7 means you are Chad. Anything 6-and-up means you're good-looking and probably get laid a good …
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:54 PM
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6 isn't super high. Should vet over time, treading carefully (because it's kind of high). My personal bar used to be 2 and under when I was younger (18). Met a girl who was at 3 when I was 19, but she was good in other ways. Had to re-evaluate if I was being too strict. Ended up deciding I was being too strict, been dating for two years. Feel stupid for ever having negotiated that in my head because we have a one-way open relationship and I've fucked way more girls while with her than she has in…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:51 PM
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These posts all mostly call you beta, but for some reason, they emphasize that having a family means having a wife. Personally, I think that they're kind of backwards. If you think about it, TRP preaches evolution a ton. How do you get yourself into the genetic line? Reproduction. How do you reproduce? In a family setting for best results. Fucking chicks who you don't plan is fun and you should but also it's basically just hedonism. It makes sense that your ultimate goal in life wouldn't be that…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:42 PM
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No find a new group
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:47 AM
1

ur almost def doing something wrong. figure out what it is lol then correct it
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:41 PM
1

LTR-able girls are rare as fuck. Yes you're going to struggle if you only want to fuck that level of girl. Calm down and report back. Also, the whole "there's no attractive girls" bit I hope means you live in Idaho or some bumfuck place. Everywhere normal has girls that are fuckable.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:55 PM
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LMAO I know I've posted a lot in this thread but I just actually looked up the TRM thread to view. My mans, you are way better looking than other Asian kids I'm friends with who are in my frat. One brah has acne and not nearly the facial bone structure you have. He dated a girl who is about a PSL6 with huge tits for a few months. His n-count is about 15. Your problem is definitely not your appearance, lmao.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:10 PM
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I'm white but I wear glasses too. So an SMV subtractor. But whatever you do you--I'm just saying you are able to bat above your appearance league. It's pretty common I'm told my LTR is way hotter than me irl, and I'm not the only pairing I know like myself. Rare, yes, but doable. And you don't need to be a beta.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:04 PM
2

I actually did this when I was starting out--I'd game them but not close. It did make my close game a little weak, like has been suggested. It also made my sex game really weak. My current LTR I fucked for the first time when I was a virgin (n-count near 20 now) and she literally said to me "you don't act like a virgin at all, but you fuck like one." The irony being I only recently told her I was a virgin when we met--she thought I was a player who just didn't care at all about anything except n…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:03 PM
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Lol 6 is only mildly better than 5.5, and I'm 5'9" which ratings don't account for. If they did I may be only 5.5 as well
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:59 PM
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Wanna know how low SMVers get laid without making a change? Beta game. Lmfao. Have fun
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:52 PM
1

When a girl satisfies a guy's needs as best she can. There will always be a nagging need for variety, but beyond that, you feel satisfied by her.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:50 PM
2

The TRM/PSL scale is really skewed downwards. A 5.5-6 there is roughly a normal 7. A 7 there is a 9 or high 8.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:47 PM
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What? Stop being gay. I'm only 6 PSL and my LTR that lets me fuck other girls is a 6.5. You can't just bank on looks then complain if you don't have them.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:46 PM
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I post on TRM a fair bit myself if you want to PM me. A couple quick things though: TRM scores are lower than real scores. 5.5 is about a 6, 6-7 girls are 7-9s. Also TRM doesn't rate body much--girls do. ALSO, your SMV as a guy is much more than just appearance. You're not a chick
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:44 PM
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Probably made the right move. Seems sus
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:41 PM
1

Do you seriously think "beat him up" is a possible response? Lmao. This shit happens all the time. My move has usually just been to ignore it altogether like it didn't happen because that's what girls default to, given that it happens to them all the time too. They won't notice you ignoring it because they do too. Though I do like the response here that says "damn, I think he was checking me out." Funny story: I actually have been cat called while with my LTR lmfao
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:48 AM
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Yeah all the answers here are fine and dandy whatever. Here's how I see it. You date someone. Before you date them, you both fucked other people. After you date them, you both will fuck other people. You will probably not stay with them forever. Therefore, why the fuck be monogamous to one girl? What is that getting you? Temporarily taking yourself out of the game? Nice. I'm in an LTR with a girl with a similar count to yours (3, 4 if you count oral) and I just told her straight up, "I'm never g…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:44 AM
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I totally agree man it can hit hard. Sneak right up on you. I've had a similar experience except even more subtle because it was for a plate who I gave zero fucks about but thought was cool who then worked out and became super fucking hot because she was already my type but just too chubby for my tastes. Solid afffff hot LTR material now. We've been together 2 years now and we stay apart enough now to keep it fresh but for a while it was really hooking. Just based on personal experience, do your…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:30 AM
1

If you're 5'10" and worry about your height you're gay. I am 5'9", do fine with women, and don't even think about height. The hottest few girls I've fucked have even been around my height.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:39 PM
1

Read the post before it too. Basically I made a fake male model profile that gets endless matches. My LTR also has a tinder for chicks but there's only so many chicks on tinder so she runs out. She matches with nearly every single one before she runs out though.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:35 PM
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it does make you less social but depending on your environment can be a help. i don't wear them anymore but when i used to in college classes girls would actually approach me, not sure why. it happened multiple times tho, even resulted in some sex.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:45 PM
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Because nowadays girls can taste alpha cock but statistically most cant end up with an Alpha long-term. There aren't enough of them. And betas are to girls what fat chicks are to men. Would you be happy if you woke up every morning next to a fat chick? No.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:37 PM
1

Possible move not suggested here: pressure flip. "You're smart and cute and I had a great time, but I need a girl with a sense of humor :\"
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:57 PM
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older girls are just the old version of hot college sluts. and they're no more holy but theyre a lot better at hiding it
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:28 AM
1

In fairness I didn't click the video. I assumed it was something like RSD's videos where Julian or Tyler or someone goes up to a girl, spits a little bit of game, and gets a # to show it's easy. But yeah
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:31 PM
2

I know but her first kid was at 19 and even at 20 she looked less good than 18. In my experience 20 year olds usually look better than 18 year olds, if they don't drink a ton or otherwise destroy their bodies. So both aging and pregnancy clearly played a role, though they both combined haven't "destroyed" her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 02:32 PM
1

Ignoring that male and female brains are scientifically different (mostly because I don't have immediate access to a source and don't want to search) there's still the "filter" difference. Testosterone and estrogen are the male and female hormones. Both carry with them specific sets of typical behaviors and dispositions, etc. The most feminine men have much more testosterone and much less estrogen than the most masculine women. Thus, behavior and inclinations among brain activity would be filter…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 02:12 PM
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I would say mix and match between your two styles. I help my LTR (girl) shop and I help her pick good workout routines that will get her body looking good to men. When we met, she didn't wear clothes that fit properly and wasn't in shape that well. Her face is naturally beautiful, though, so since I've helped her in picking flattering clothing and developing a sexy body she gets a ton of male attention now that she previously didn't. My friends routinely tell me she's very hot. Her style is pret…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 02:04 PM
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Completely recovering to your younger years peak form is unrealistic, if we're being honest. However, you can still look great. My sister is 27 now and a mother of three. When she was 18 and a mother of 0, she was a beautiful girl. Best looking in her high school, easily. Natural 6 pack lines without working out, etc. If you put her back into that setting, she wouldn't trounce her competition the same way anymore. But for her age group, she's still among the top. Still fit and thin, though it (l…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 01:56 PM
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Currently taking a class centered on food in college. I go to a super liberal school, so it's not framed as a problem but much of our food contains estrogen and other hormone-altering substances. We haven't talked about the modern meat industry, but as recently as the year 2000, many red meats were farmed industrially using a hormone injection called DES. DES when given to humans (and moderate amounts are transmitted through the consumption of meat previously injected with DES) is responsible fo…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:48 PM
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It's real but with caveats. PUA field videos tend to only show the successes, not the 100 rejections preceding If all he got was a #, it's likely to flake Despite 1 and 2, the people teaching you are typically some of the best at it. So you will not see as much success if you try to imitate it
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:12 PM
0

If you're exclusive it's an LTR. I'm not even exclusice to my LTR yet and it's an LTR The effects are typically not as wild as they are in some outlier cases. My LTR is normally on birth control but sometimes goes off but has never denied having sex with me in either case. She's into me regardless, which your LTR would/should be too.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:43 PM
1

From personal experience, don't bother. I was a beta autist in HS and do well in college. On path to financial success, decently in-shape, smash hot girls and demonstrate pre-selection on social media. Still have a decently hard time with those girls from my HS--they aren't worth it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:39 PM
3

calm down
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:37 PM
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she's just a person. also if youre unconfident think about it like you have no shot at all to fuck her. so theres no pressure then, right? cuz sex is off the table. then when that ironically makes you confident sex might come back onto the table.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:37 PM
6

Being a self-admitted CC rider and knowing TRP, don't you ever worry that you won't be able to appreciate any man when you do eventually want to settle down?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:32 PM
3

Agree. Many former CC riders who want to wash it all away and impersonate unicorns to snag high value men to commit.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:31 PM
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What? I am a dude lmao. My LTR is the chick. Anyways, I would say it's just meeting random chicks and screening. Contrary to TRP views, I'm somewhat open about holding TRP mindsets. I don't use the terms (that's autistic) but I say things that show it. Some girls get pissed, call me misogynistic, whatever. Screened out. Some realize I make good points and let me take them under my wing and open their eyes (my LTR, a couple others). Funny enough: many tend to be feminists who are weak in their vi…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:14 PM
2

Lmao I was kidding. Though I'd agree--vein could be good as long as it wasn't gross.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:02 PM
1

Oh I get it. Makes sense when I re-read it. Good idea
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:01 PM
1

Yeah, I once made a fake male model profile to see what it's like. 1300 matches in 2 months. Many, many offers for straight up sex from actual attractive girls. I'm good-looking myself and my actual tinder is worlds more tame. Also her matches are just limited by how many people live here. She's attractive enough to match with every single chick, more or less. Because the only chicks hotter than her on tinder are rare enough that they seldom find someone else hotter. It was really telling to me …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:59 PM
1

If you click OP's post history you can see his penis. He's uncircumcised
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:32 PM
1

You're really destroying your body lol. I drink 3x per week as a college student and plan to quit after college, and even I think what I do is obsessive. And I'm not on gear
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:28 PM
3

What about veiny penises?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:24 PM
2

Generally, I operate like it's a friend of mine. That means if I say "wanna smoke weed at my place?" I'm not going to ask her to pay me or provide her own. That's a dick move. Same goes for drinking at my place. On the other hand, if we go out somewhere, I wouldn't pay for my friend to drink with me at a bar or to see a movie with me. So she pays her way there herself.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:23 PM
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I've never really asked my LTR about hypergamy because that would just make me look insecure. But we talk about other TRP concepts (without the labels) and she 110% agrees with Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks. She even says that if we ever break up she'd want a huge Beta Bucks to rebound because dating AF is stressful af lmfao. (I openly fuck other chicks)
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:20 PM
3

Idk what you're talking about with "no beautiful women." I travel a good bit and I have not been to NYC but LA stood out head and shoulders above every single other city I have been to. But I will say: the dudes there stood out as well. I was staying in AirBnBs and one of my hosts was the definition of a Chad. Got to know him a bit: self-earned a 6 figure salary, 25 years old, moved from Europe himself to pursue entertainment in LA, and most importantly he was as close to a 10 as I've seen from …
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:16 PM
1

Cool shit = shit that not everyone is doing but is cool. Like my frat paid for a personal Sheck Wes concert and so he was literally just with us. Obviously that's cool, having a celebrity on your story. We also will sometimes rent out decent sized clubs in big cities, and I'll usually put that up. Also, if I'm in a big city (I travel a decent amount) there are tons of things. A dude freestyled for me on the street and was super good in Detroit. In LA there's hella cool things and when I went the…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:11 PM
1

Snap is dead but before it died I'd post cool or funny shit. Pisses me off it died bc I added like 300 girls on snap off cold approach my freshman year and just posting cool shit and hot bitches had me a passive stream of 1-3 vaginas per year without effort. RIP
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:49 PM
2

To my friends, I call them a smash piece. A dick hole. A thot. Who cares. To them, I call them nothing. If they ask, I tell them to calm down and I don't like labels. We're people, and I say that if she's just looking to tick a box (like: "relationship accomplished") she should find someone else. I didn't even say to my current open (for me) LTR that I considered her my girlfriend for like 18 months. And at that it was more saying that she fit the criteria for the "gf" label than anything. I sti…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:47 PM
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This shit is hard to deal with. For me, my LTR was a plate for a while before being LTR'd. I actually took mental note of a couple habits she had that made me not want to LTR her. This was one. I told her and said that as long as she was remotely flirty with other dudes she was plate/FWB at best. But I also knew she wanted to LTR me. Anyways 2 years later we've been an LTR for like a year and she goes nowhere near dudes. The only time she even talks to dudes who aren't my friends is either at wo…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:43 PM
1

Honestly I think this is being looked into a little too deeply. The simple answer is that women are emotional by nature, so dumb women are susceptible to weird things like this that are about emotions and feelings and futures and mysteriousness and stuff. My Mom is pretty into it and she's just not the brightest bulb. Some girls from my HS were also into it (went to a shit HS) but nobody from my college gives this a second look (Great college). Smart girls don't really fall for this shit
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:10 PM
0

obviously you want to gather up your best mates and get yourselves the most expensive strippers money can buy. use it all.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:08 PM
1

If you want sales, door-to-door doing alarms or pests can kill it. I'm still in college but did it over summer and my boss makes like $200k per year working 6 months. He's also an absolute savage though and a top notch salesman
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:22 AM
2

you said "if no one is into you what then?" Do you not understand that SMV translates to Sexual Market Value? Emphasis on "Value." If I told you that there was a certain object nobody wanted, and then I asked you what its value was, would you not conclude that it had no value? This is what I was asked. I was not asked what I thought your SMV was. Calm down.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:37 PM
2

i believed you had an smv. i was just responding to your comments as they were made
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:20 PM
1

if you have low smv, that means someone wants to fuck you. just not who you want. then refer to earlier comment
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:06 PM
1

then you have no smv
/r/askTRP31/10/18 08:36 PM
1

Interesting. Keep doing you then. How many dudes has your LTR banged?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:19 PM
3

why do you WANT girls to be needy towards you? lol
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:46 PM
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your smv is a little higher than the girls who are consistently into you. approximately equal to the girls who you dont routinely slay, but can get now and then
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:45 PM
1

starting college
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:43 PM
1

yeah but how many of these chicks have you actually fucked? i'd wager few
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:41 PM
1

Ok but how many girls have you actually had sex with and told them about your gf? I would wager few
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:30 PM
0

like others have said, i vet for submissiveness. my ltr just wants me to cum and cum as much as possible. i've maybe eaten pussy 5 times in our 2 years. most commonly our sex will be her pleasing me then her masturbating to it bc it turned her on so much. a girl demanding things from you in sex is a no-no.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:46 AM
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definitely don't apologize. just say youre a man and men have needs for variety. tell her if she cant accept that then you guys cant keep dating. but tell her if she can accept that this might happen now and then shes free to stay around. source: told my ltr that upfront. girls respect that youre not a pussy about it and you own it. they also see you as high value for actually fucking these girls. youre more likely to have her say no by saying what i said, but its probably the only shot to keep …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:40 AM
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actually leading pua doctrine says the warm approach has a much higher success rate than the cold approach
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:35 AM
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i mean yeah it does decrease your ability to fall for one chick. but around here we call that "abundance mentality"
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:34 AM
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the most common reason to approach is because girls see you as high value and think youre unlikely to approach them. my ltr approached me in a class lecture where i just had headphones on and was chillin. obviously it being a lecture i wasnt the most enthusiastic to talk to chicks (sometimes i do though) so she knew/thought that and took the opportunity herself. we're in a two-year one-way open relationship now so as you can see if a girl approaches you you're pretty golden. another reason for a…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:32 AM
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i guess the best advice is honestly find a girl you think is as hot as her. i sometimes run into this because i'm in a one-way open relationship but tbh my ltr is hotter than most girls i can pull, bar one every now and then. so i don't go as hard as i might with other girls because of her. but she's gotten a tinder and has picked up girls as hot as her a few times for us to fuck, and those times, i can tell you i felt none of what we're talking about here. so however difficult it may be, you ma…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:29 AM
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it's possible if youre really tall or unusually jacked for your age and still unlikely. i have a friend who lost his virginity to a senior his freshman year, but the man is absolutely jacked since i met him so i can only imagine he was somewhat then too. the coolest guy in my hs also did this, but hes 6'5". so be jacked or tall lol otherwise gg
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:27 AM
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Also, a lot of the women I meet are through being in a near-top fraternity. It's a pretty closed social system. Sorority girls only want to fuck frat guys. Frat guys talk about which sorority girls put out. Outside of my frat connections, I mostly talk to my LTR's friends who are all very close. She shares the info they give her with me. She knows a lot about them. How you think I am being magically duped is beyond me, lmfao. The only one of all those who has any reason, and really any way (beca…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:53 PM
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No. If girls who are best friends always share this shit, and it is shared with me as well, then it's pretty accurate. Give or take a couple encounters. I am not talking about girls I am trying to fuck, more about what I did to get a sense of how common and how slutty girls were/are. I'm already in an LTR with a hot girl that had a low n-count that I'd frankly be shocked if it was faked. I don't give a fuck about n-count unless I'm planning to LTR. I have no plans to LTR any other girl, so yeah.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:48 PM
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Lmfao. Guys like you that are so non-judgmental and discreet get a number that's close to the real one, but when I say that I get numbers that are at least close to the real numbers, I'm lying? Because that's exactly the point I made to begin with, and then you just made it yourself. Funny guy. You're basically saying that you get real numbers and I don't. The fuck kinda high horse are you on? Lmfao. I've had girls tell me numbers plenty high in the past. But that's not even relevant because mor…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:43 PM
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I mean yeah people don't like bad cop. That's the point. But down the line they often appreciate it. I once told my friend the girl he was pursuing for LTR (beta move) was no good and clearly slutty. He got pissed at me and didn't talk to me for... two weeks. You know what happened the second week? She broke things off with him and he found out she was talking to another guy the whole time. He immediately came to me and apologized and said he appreciated what I tried to do for him. Bad cop is ba…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:30 PM
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I don't know about when it starts, but many are pretty terrible by their 30s from what I've seen.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:27 PM
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Most pro athletes are in or end up in LTRs. Do you think Tom Brady is beta? Alpha males end up in LTRs, but they don't remain completely alpha because nobody is permanently completely alpha. Alpha males just show their beta to hotter girls than betas. Also, they'll still approach an LTR from a good frame, not from a weak one. ALSO, LTR doesn't always mean monogamy, which many alphas aren't held to in their relationships.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:25 PM
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In a pretty good LTR the last two years. This is what I sought to find: - As low of an n-count as possible. No higher than 3. - Fun to be around. (You will spend a lot of time together over the years, many of which she won't be hot) - Hot. You want kids, no? You want to give them good genes and set them on the right path. - Young but LTR-minded. Many hot young girls have dick on the brain. You don't want them. You want one who will give you her youth but wants to date, since ones who are LTR-ori…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:23 PM
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I'd tell him, but I have no problem playing bad cop. My friends, after knowing each other for years now, appreciate this trait in me by now. But they didn't at first. You might be doing something good for him, but you're going to look like bad cop. At least if it's your best friend he should understand.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:18 PM
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honestly, last thing you want to hear, but just keep trying. all you can do. ​ i was a kissless virgin at 18 (found TRP when I was almost 18) and i felt like a faggot. i got laid a little before i turned 19 for the first time. ever since then, momentum has built. i'm almost 21 now and i've fucked almost 20 girls and have a one-way open ltr with a hb8. i just kept pushing until i get it, failing a lot in the process. it took a while.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:16 PM
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Single motherhood already has been exploding lol
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:13 PM
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Good job not getting back with her. Definitely do what you're doing and don't plate her like some have suggested.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 09:11 PM
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"not bc she doesn't want you to know the truth but bc she doesn't want to face her own truth" "the number you get is the number they think you can handle without judgment" so which is it? These are opposites. Also, you don't see what I'm saying. I'm saying that TRP is pretty extreme in its views of n-count because the average n-count isn't as high as is said here. The HIGHEST surveys have MEN saying FOURTEEN. The average between the two MUST be the same if men are accurately sampled. THEREFORE, …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 08:26 PM
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"Believe all the stats" so... you're saying men underreport too? Because the highest estimate I've ever seen for men's average lifetime partners is 14 and women's was 10 in that survey. So at the most, on average, women leave out a third of their encounters. That's extremely different than the "2x or 3x" rule. "Believe exactly what women tell you is the truth" when did I say this? I said they're generally true. Which is true. Nobody is going to convince me their n-count is 3 when it's 47. I've b…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:17 PM
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Okay I want you to go back to my first line. I explicitly say, "I never say this to girls I'm trying to fuck." The thing is, you can create tingles and also rule yourself out as a mate at the same time--which saying what I say does. But I don't give a fuck. Because these are not chicks I want to fuck. Also, there's no such thing as "Alpha enough that your chick doesn't want to see other guys." If you're in a real open relationship, you're a ticking time bomb until you're cucked. Girls know this …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:58 PM
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Mine is consensual. You can just be in a one-way open one if that's what you really want, consensually. I tell guys who are curious but girls don't need to know. If I was directly asked, "that's none of your business." Sometimes I'll just call my LTR a FWB to other girls too. I wouldn't tell a girl after I fucked her either. The thing is, I just assume them finding out is the end, so I don't tell them. They don't usually ask though. I don't plan anything long-term with any of these chicks and be…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:54 PM
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Yeah it's just hard because even beyond some people being looser with standards there's also different standards. Like I routinely call my LTR a HB8 on here but she's super niche. Her face is gorgeous but she looks "nice" or girl next door more than hot. She has a really nice ass but tiny tits, too. So I could see dudes who like stripper/porn look saying she's a 6 but guys who share my taste could literally say she's a 9 or 10. I split the difference and say 8, but yeah. Then there's dudes with …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:58 PM
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While I think it's okay to only want to fuck girls you really care about, I also think you shouldn't really care about girls until you fuck them. Or at least hook up in some capacity. Otherwise it's going to send strong BB vibes.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:51 PM
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Okay I realize re-reading what I wrote it frames my relationship entirely wrong. I've outright said I don't believe in marriage, I've outright said I plan to fuck other girls the whole time we are together, and we do threesomes. She doesn't fuck any other guys. We've increased things like threesomes as my attraction towards just her has faded. We also fuck more while high because being high makes sexual organs a lot more sensitive, which can replace some of the natural loss of "I want to fuck th…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:47 PM
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So when I've heard all the stories about them getting fucked by a random guy in a parking lot they met off tinder, fucked a random guy in the back of a bar, got eaten out on a first date after drinking a fair amount, sucked a dick in their friend's hot tub when they were gone on vacation, approacheda random guy at a party and said "Come into the closet with me so I can suck your fucking cock".... I'm supposed to believe they're holding back? Yeah, no. I have heard it all. I'm at one of the most …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:10 PM
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You want to be as Alpha as possible in some ways and not in others. You don't want to be Beta at all in some ways but others are fine. Being needy is beta--never be needy. On the other hand, compliments are beta--I use them to reward good behavior. Alpha-wise, being unemotional is alpha. You don't want to be completely unemotional, though. You need a human connection, at times. Just let her in a little. On the other hand, if you're crying because you lost your job, you're a little beta faggot. I…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:55 PM
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I don't know. I read this in a much darker light. She was drunk with her friends and made up a fight and then hamster'd why she was angry with you, and she probably didn't meet up with you because of this. This is probably a conversation happening after the fact that you shared with us, where she gives her "reasoning." Then, your reaction to it is to act more beta and be "careful with your words." I'm not outright saying she's cheating on you, but it's yellow flag behavior here--it seems like sh…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:48 PM
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My Mom was a bartender when she was in her 20s. ​ My Mom was a slut and my Dad is beta as fuck. Plate only.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:27 PM
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Possible Solutions: Have her suck your dick before you fuck. You'll be wet then, enter, she'll become wet. Alternate between fingering her clit and the whole. The clit will make her wet and the hole will be wet, and fingering her clit with a wet finger makes her wetter. Find another girl cuz this one sucks at sex
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:26 PM
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I've been in an LTR for two years, and I'll tell you that the feelings subside. I don't feel nearly as "wow, this girl" like as I did the first 6 months anymore. But you have to imagine if we're still in a solid relationship 2 years later with minimal drama that our first 6 months were super like that. It's going to go away and it transitions to something more calm. We still do fuck every time we see each other and at least 5 times every week (probably closer to 7 or so)--but we used to fuck 15 …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:25 PM
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Hard to put a # on it, but I will say: your SMV is high but not astronomical. You probably get laid but I'm not sure if you could pull solid 8s or 9s (lmk if I'm wrong and you do).
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:21 PM
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I mean it's not instantaneous but it's highly unusual she couldn't deliver within a week if I asked. From one of two places: Tinder. She has over 500 chick matches because we live in one of the biggest US college towns in America, if not the biggest. She's sexy as fuck so a lot of girls are down for her. Parties or bars or whatever doing cold approach. My LTR has unusually good game for a chick, which is ironic because she's not even bi. I'm pretty convinced she would be a Chad if she was a dude…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:01 PM
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Again, I post that I know girls' n-counts regularly and receive responses just like this all the time. I've only ever tried to figure out the n-count of one girl I'm actually involved with, and that's my LTR. She said 2 before me, and she acted like it was 2 before me. She had 0 sexual confidence whatsoever and knew like 0 positions and couldn't suck dick at all. If she was lying, she should probably get a job as a professional actress 'cuz she was a fuckin' mess in bed lmao. The rest are mostly…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:29 PM
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Anything but this. Girls get way too many messages you want to stand out Source: consistently get laid on tinder
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:57 AM
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Yeah I mean personally I don't believe in marriage because I see no material benefit to it as a man besides decreased taxes. And I'm still a little young to know how long I'll be with my current girl (20). But there's definitely examples of it working, and there are girls who are worth it to invest in long-term. They're just not the majority, so you have to find them.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:04 AM
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My LTR told me two and that one was a brief FWB and the other a blackout drunk ONS, and she was a nervous wreck when we first started hooking up. Totally sexually unconfident. And after fucking a handful of times, she got better--so I'd be pretty surprised if she was acting. Most n-counts I get from her from other girls. Her close friends. Sometimes I find out on my own, usually in cases I don't think there's any reason to lie to me or undersell.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:46 PM
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Lol every single time I post about body count someone responds and says "girls lie." My mans I've been on TRP for like three years I'm no rookie I get that. But girls tell each other when they fuck someone, and I talk and gossip with enough girls that they tell me too. N-counts aren't exact, at least for most of the ones I've heard, but they're a decent gauge still. And a lot of girls are closer to low single digits than they are to fucking dudes all the time.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:03 PM
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What? I don't really know what you're asking. But I do have a tinder and an LTR, yeah. She's even in one of my pics! (Good pre-selection because she's pretty hot)
/r/askTRP29/10/18 08:00 PM
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I'm not the best looking but I'm like a 7 or so and fit a somewhat eastern European niche where I can be an 8 for the right girl. I was super BP growing up due to conditioning but naturally Alpha so I was confused as fuck. Girls showed interest in me a lot but I was autistic as hell and couldn't close it. Some smokeshows, some average girls, like another commenter mentioned. Got to college, shotgun approached for a couple months, became socially competent decently quickly because it both came na…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:42 PM
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Once with a girl? Get yourself a threesome brah. ​ .... and then break up with her cuz she sus af
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:53 PM
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Girls ride the CC to different degrees. You're probably not going to find a virgin if you're older than 18, but you can find girls below 5 somewhat reliably and don't need to settle for those double digit thotties. So depends if you think 2-5 dicks is "used up" or not--because you can definitely find that.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:51 PM
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Yeah, I never really mixed with them or anything because they got kicked off either my freshman year or the year before (I forget) but heard they were absurd. And yeah didn't plan to date any of them in sororities here. The top tiers are insane and the mid-tiers aren't hot. Same here on LTR. My LTR is low n-count, doesn't party much, but lets me fuck other girls if I want. I don't really get shit for her not being in a sorority because she might be the hottest girl anyone in my frat is dating (t…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:50 PM
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If you mean permanently, probably not. And you won't know for a long time if it is permanent. But girls can definitely be worth more than just sex. My LTR is good company, picks up girls for me, is hella sexy, is pretty rich, and lets me pick up girls on my own when I want. What's there not to like? Maybe we won't be together forever, but she adds a lot of value to my life currently. A lot more value than any dude friend I know, lol.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:40 PM
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No, don't tell her you're in an open relationship. First of all, like someone else said, you're a cuck. That's low value. I am in a one-way open relationship (high value) and I still don't say it because girls know you can never commit to them. Unless you're some super Saiyan God, girls at least want the possibility you commit. Generally. You lower yourself tremendously by not being able to. Also, why are you in an open relationship? That's gay as hell. Any girl that'd agree to an open relations…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:36 PM
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Can confirm. I'm in a one-way open relationship, and when I tell girls this (which I never say to girls I'm trying to fuck) they always backtrack me and ask if she fucks other dudes. When I say no, I see eyes light up--and also commonly some sort of bitch comment designed to "make me feel bad" for doing what I want, but it's just a way for them to say I'm alpha in a cunt way.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:32 PM
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To be fair what I have said above is over a time-span. I'm a junior so I've been here a while. The orgies also aren't every house, but I've seen video of two different houses and heard rumors of a third (but as a rule I don't spread rumors so I was only referencing the ones I've seen). To be fair, one of the houses that did an orgy was kicked soonafter--for another reason, but greek life lore has it that the video was the real reason and the school just didn't want to acknowledge it. But yeah, h…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:19 PM
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Nah I go to a big ten school. Won't say which in an effort to not doxx myself, but we're ranked in football. And yeah, I'm in an almost-top tier frat. I know some is hazing and some isn't, but I think in either case the way they act as a group would make me wary of any of them. There's a reason I have way more access to sorority chicks but date a GDI who turned down her bid instead. And the "bad" behavior of sorority girls is very encouraged by each other. They all brag about fucking dudes, and …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:52 PM
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Funny somebody downvoted both of our comments saying our girls don't go out. We've got a cuck watching us who likes his girl going out getting drunk and coming home to kiss him with a dude's cum in her breath, lol.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:31 PM
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Read my reply to Dani above (or below--not sure, replying on mobile PMs)
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:29 PM
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Peer pressure, hazing that includes stripping naked for guys and sucking dick, filmed orgies that have circulated campus, being surrounded by high SMV men and all jostling for their attention (and ones that aren't "top-notch" among the top sororities have to resort to giving sex to get attention, since their appearance can't do it. Not talking theoretically--talking about the massive hamster job I know one girl to do, and this girl's n-count is 30+ and very normal for her sorority.) You just abs…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:29 PM
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I actually really like this. I have a unique perspective in that I'm in a near-top frat at a big university but my LTR is a (hot) co-op nerd with a wide range of female friends from many different backgrounds. I learn about what girls do from her behind-the-scenes perspective, and most girls really aren't turbo-sluts. They WILL fuck guys now and then, but maybe only a couple times every year. Of course, she also knows some turbo-sluts. These turbo sluts will have fucked a ton of dudes, many of w…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 05:25 PM
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The top sororities, at least at my school, incorporate being a slut into their hazing/new member education. They're literally taught to be sluts.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 01:38 PM
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masturbation
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:49 AM
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Yeah, getting good at a sport will help you immensely socially. Doesn't matter totally which one, but the more watched ones would be best. Makes sense though--our HS had a good golf team. Also, yeah, plating/fucking a hot girl will shoot you up the ranks. The issue is you likely need to be high in the ranks to do it. Unless you can finesse it like I mentioned above, because there is opportunity for that. I can verify that people knowing you fuck a hot girl will skyrocket your social standing--I …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:48 AM
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Yeah, my LTR has no guy friends either. I've fucked way too many girls that I'm friends with as well, ones that have or had boyfriends included. Well, no guy friends is a lie--she has one gay friend and one childhood uber beta friend. But those brahs hardly qualify as males. Also, it sounds like you're in her frame. My LTR was a plate originally, and she was the one who wanted my commitment. I was kind of indifferent towards her. She was a good plate, though, so I decided I'd give her a chance. …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:44 AM
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Oh, word, you're really young. I mean, if you get jacked and good at sports, you'll climb socially. Befriend the right people while doing that. Honestly though I don't know a ton about HS. I was a beta fag the entire time with no girls and few friends. I guess if I could go back the one thing I've realized is that nobody knew their value back in HS. If you confidently talk to the hottest chicks you'll have a shot with them. My LTR, like I said, is pretty hot. She's shown me some of the dudes she…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:31 AM
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Oh, weird. I'd assumed you were circumcised. Didn't realize this could happen if you weren't. I'm not sure then. The condom idea still might work just because foreskin or not it's still part of you that has the friction happening, and friction is what causes this. And condoms do put a layer between the skins, which prevents friction. But like I said, I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:24 AM
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You know how I got rid of my beta reputation? By graduating High School and moving 1,000 miles away for college where not a single person knew me and instituting everything I'd learned to go from kissless virgin to a one-way open relationship with a HB8 in about 4 months. And now these days when I return from college for various breaks half the time I bring said HB8 and half the time I don't. When I do, I introduce her to a bunch of people, and she's incredibly submissive to me and quite sociall…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:19 AM
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Yeah I mean I give my LTR space for shit, but I made it clear day one that I saw no need for her to go out and drink if I'm not there. She can do anything else, but to me, going out is a single girl's activity because it revolves around hooking up. I've hooked up with way too many "girls with boyfriends" at parties to let a girl who'd call me her boyfriend go to parties. I don't think it's needy or controlling to be how I am--I consider it common sense. But to each their own, and if you're fine …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:13 AM
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I've experienced this as well. It sounds funny, but one solution I've used is to wear a condom for a few days when it gets bad. The condom will have lube on it and prevent friction and let you heal. Yeah, wearing a condom sucks, but so does a fucked up dick.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:06 AM
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Yeah, agreed. I seldom meet a liberal that isn't scrawny armed and pussy whipped. I think certain liberal ideas, like high taxes and lower military spending, are good... but overall, it's no good.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:04 AM
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It's pretty difficult, honestly. Some things to try: - Is she close with a particular guy, even as a "just a friend"? - Does she post selfies on social media? - Does she post things that make you look like a BB fag on social media? (This one is lowkey one of the most damning. Almost every bish with a BF I've smashed does this.) - Does she make sure she has alone time to go out and shit without you? - Does she constantly want to fuck you? (if she does, she's probably not cheating) Obviously none …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:59 AM
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Yeah, reading here: definitely transfer. If you're at a T20 school, even if you got cut, you're probably good enough to play college (somewhere) if you work hard. If you're going to transfer though definitely work hard and don't make it a waste.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:44 AM
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I was pretty liberal in HS, but it was easy to be liberal when I was surrounded by conservatives. I then went to a liberal college and met real liberals and realized they're fucking nuts with all their social justice bullshit. I happened to encounter TRP around a similar time, but I think I found TRP more because I was becoming more conservative than the other way around.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:39 AM
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"My friend said I'm getting plated" "I like the sort of guys that post on here" Lmfaooooo. Dead. Pretty soon we're going to start getting field reports from the perspective of the plate.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:12 AM
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Yeah, anyone who names real people is lying and not that experienced. You gotta be famous or like a straight up 9, if you mean what does it take to hardly ever be rejected. I know one dude who's not famous, but he's 6'2" and jacked as fuck while also having a model looking face. Yeah, girls fucking flock. Never seen him rejected--have seen girls approach him plenty. But I also know a lot of normally good-looking guys and, yeah, they get laid, but they get rejected too.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:04 AM
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cuz they hoes brah ​ edit: but fr they just like attention. cuz they're hoes and hoes like attention
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:01 AM
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LOL. You a comedian brah? Trust me. The girls in the best sororities, from what I've heard and had confirmed from girls actually in those sororities, are basically required to be whores. They're also always surrounded by Chads. Their personalities are also very entitled and shitty. And the girls not in the top sororities usually aren't hot enough (for me) to LTR. So yeah, pretty shitty LTR choice.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:00 AM
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i'm in a fraternity and am in these group chats. i usually wait til i say something funny in the main chat that gets a lot of likes (assuming youre on groupme) then check which bishes liked it and possibly slide in if i like one. works sometimes, fails others, yolo
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:59 AM
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I'd definitely agree here. Staunch feminists are almost invariably masculine looking and acting. The ones who are more feminine are the more passive feminists, generally.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:08 PM
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Depends how you do it. If you post a bunch of pics with one girl, it just looks like you have an LTR. But if you consistently take pictures with hot girls and put them on your instagram you're displaying preselection. One dude I know always has new girls showing up on his social media, and I hardly know him but I could only imagine he fucks a ton. He's like a male model though.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:38 PM
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A lot of men also use social media. I guess I would say just general achievements? And that could be anything. Getting a bid to a top frat, becoming a successful athlete, having a very hot LTR or plate, being rich, etc. But where to display that, to like flaunt it, other than social media I don't know.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:21 PM
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Actually, I have a tale that goes against this. She started as a HB5 plate because she had a beautiful face but was chubby. She lost weight and got thin, now she's like a HB7.5. I LTR'd her around this point. Then, she bleached her hair (good move) and then hit the gym hard and sculpted a great ass. I'd say she's up around 8.5 now. She's really gone from quite normal to hot as fuck in the time that I've known her, and it's not just me having the GF halo--my friends have commented on it as well. …
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:18 PM
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Yeah, this doesn't sound ideal. Improve your SMV, maybe keep her around in the interim. Find someone else. My LTR's n-count is 3 and I dislike it. I couldn't imagine 40. That's a football team of dudes almost. That's like 20 feet of dick, assuming 6 inch average length. That's... a lot of other things. Sure, girls today sleep around. That's why looking for a virgin is autistic as fuck. But you don't need to accept this level of sluttery. There's some shit in her past you don't want to know about…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:14 PM
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Yeah, I don't know my bodycount tbh. But there's a reason for that--it's too high to know. I think girls should know theirs because it shouldn't be too high to know. I knew mine until it started getting into double digits because it was just easy to know. From the sounds of it, hers is too high to know (who could forget if it was like 4?) so just mark her off the list for LTR-ability.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:07 PM
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Despite the fact you're getting shit on, I think this is a valid question. From what I have noticed, it's not a 1:1 transaction, but many feminists are probably high T because they do want to be like men and fuck hella and shit. The problem is that like it or not they are still girls and not men. Of the couple biggest feminists I can think of, I would say they are definitely high T. But many non-high T girls are also feminists.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:05 PM
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A lot tend to be feminist or slutty. Also, a lot of gay dudes aren't entirely gay. I know a bisexual dude who acts super gay but then actually fucks a decent amount of his "friends." I'm sure that when these girls get into relationships he's just introduced as a gayboy, when really, he fucked the girl.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:03 PM
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Last night a cute chick I'd approached before came up to me while I was with my LTR. That girl was super into me and showed it. Drove my LTR mad. But after she got pissed she later realized it was irrational and took me out to lunch today to make up for it. So it can only be good.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:55 PM
2

Slutty girls can be really fun. You may want to look into trying something unconventional like a girl who's a slutty bisexual and will get you threesomes. Could be a good experience. Obviously don't wife her, but to just dick around for a bit would be fun.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:52 PM
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These are all extremes. From my experience there are slutty girls in these age groups, yes. These slutty girls fuck all the time, yes. They flock to the Chads who in turn fuck all the time, yes. Most girls who aren't super slutty do have a phase where they are, yes. And when they are they flock to Chads, yes. But most girls most of the time aren't turbo sluts--most girls I know who aren't sorority sluts only fuck a new dude maybe twice a year, and it's usually a dude who has invested time into t…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:41 PM
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Sounds to me that you just haven't met a girl you perceive as equal to your value yet. Everything else seems fine. I'm not sad when plates I don't give a fuck about break either.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:34 PM
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I often tell girls I'm a virgin lol. Ones that I've already fucked. It works and changes the topic. Or I'll tell them they're the only girl I've done anything with. But the way I say it, you can tell it's shit lmao. But it's funny.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:27 PM
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The way this is framed, I don't think there is a male equivalent. If you mean a "quick dopamine hit" that can turn into addiction, then it's video games.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:27 PM
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TRP let me feel confident pursuing things in an Alpha way and going for what I wanted, and saying fuck people's opinions. I was a naturalish Alpha raised by a super big beta and I learned to suppress myself, thinking it was "right." Now I don't. I'm also in a one-way open relationship, which I ironically started setting up two years ago ish a few months after finding this place and starting to digest it. I wouldn't have even known that a one-way open relationship was a thing before I found the m…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:58 PM
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Lmao, funny you say this--I've fucked multiple girls by inviting them over for "wine wednesday" on wednesday night. Pro-tip: use red whine because studies show it makes girls horny as fuck.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:22 PM
1

A sports jersey. A Hawaiian shirt and a leigh. A tight black v-neck and a chain with basketball shorts (rapper). A tucked-in polo with glasses and jeans (a nerd). Just your underwear and goggles (a swimmer).
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:38 PM
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Depends what context you're in. In the adult world at large it's a lot different than college or HS. HS = do you go to the parties? Do you throw parties? Who are your friends? Do you fuck? Do you play sports? Do you have a good reputation and do people like you? (Hive mentality takes over most in HS. Pre-conceived notions are most important here, and your physical worth has the least value it'll ever have). College = are you an athlete? Are you in a frat? Do you fuck? Do you look good or lift? A…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:33 PM
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Social status isn't only your looks, but looks are pretty key. If you're 6'2" and jacked you'd need to be pretty autistic to not be high in social status. You can be high social status with worse looks, too. So, the two aren't one in the same, but improving one should improve the other.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:05 PM
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So, what to do? Honestly just be patient and keep taking shots. If you keep aiming for it, it'll happen at least once eventually. Also, maybe chill on expectations. I, like you, have fucked a few 8s, a good amount of 7s, and way more 6s. No 9s. But compared to most people, that's killing it. So don't be so hard on yourself and take some time to be grateful for what you have accomplished. Yes, keep striving to improve--but realize you are already doing well.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:03 PM
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Lol, I looked both those girls up. Super interesting that I just don't find that Catia girl attractive. She looks kinda gross to me, way too big features. Not a great face. Like a 5. Maybe even 4. Other girl is sexy as hell tho, but with a little to be desired facially. Still hot though.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:59 PM
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First girl is pretty hot, difficult to say off the pic but prob 7 or 8. Second looks gross to me, like a 4. Third is pretty girl next door but plain, so a 6.5-7. If I had to rate them all. It does always amuse me how FRs have all these "HB8, HB6, etc" and nobody knows what each other means by this.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:56 PM
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Lmao. Having had multiple threesomes with 7s and 8s, this post gave me a funny little confidence boost. Granted it's just because my LTR is a HB8 and she sets up threesomes with similar looking girls when I want.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:54 PM
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Ehhhhh, I am in a frat and have heard this. It's the equivalent of being called douchey or whatever. To be honest I always take it as a compliment. A stereotype of frats is that they fuck, so she's saying you fuck (indirectly). The only girls I've had say this to me are ones who are very attracted to me and fuck me but wish I was softer/more available. More of a BB. The other guy she "clicked more with" I can't tell you about. But that means nothing. Girls say all sorts of shit, lol.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:51 PM
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The top 20% isn't hard to be in at all. I've actually collected data on this shit, and let me tell you--your competition is shit. So, yes, a short guy can be top 20%, but top 20% isn't a dude fucking hotties on the regular. For that, you likely need to be top 10%. And can a short guy be top 10%? Yes. Because SMV is kind of like a player in 2k, and the final 'score' is like your overall rating. A guy like Andre Drummond can't shoot free throws for shit, but he's good as fuck at other shit so he's…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:46 PM
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You can be Alpha and not natural. Honestly, for me at least, I score pretty high on dark triad traits and shit and always have. But before I found TRP I had a beta as fuck dad and society is always telling you to be a lil nice boy who respects women and shit. So I tried to act that part because I thought I was supposed to and it'd benefit me and I failed miserably at it. I literally couldn't be a BB because I lack empathy, so I don't even know how to be supplicating--I'm a fucking awful BB. Then…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:41 PM
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Yeah, a lot of the SMV vs. outcome stuff is honestly really far off. My SMV isn't astronomically high (though I'm above average certainly) and my LTR is the girl everyone wants, hot as fuck and a good girl with low n-count who's submissive. TRP would say that I couldn't land her given our respective SMVs, but not only have I done that, but we're in a one-way open relationship. People are individuals, first and foremost--and SMV is anything but universal.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:35 PM
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i felt good
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:03 PM
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shouldve fucked the blonde thot lol
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 06:49 PM
1

We have one of the best business schools in the country, which is why so many people get as much money. The average starting salary out of our business school is $85,000.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:41 PM
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And what stops people from just lying? I have never been asked to prove my GPA or had transcripts requested. Also, one of my friends has a 2.5 GPA yet makes $50,000 per year while in college and was offered a post-grad job paying $150,000. Many people in our business school do similar as well because almost everyone in our business school can get $80,000+ starting regardless of GPA. I'm not trying to say you can fail out, but if your GPA starts with a 3, you're fine. I'm lazy as fuck about schoo…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:00 PM
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Having successfully done multiple 3somes with my LTR, I can tell you that you played this wrong. After my most recent one, my LTR made comments like "It was like you were having sex with another girl and I was just there" blah blah type bullshit. I just told her that she was wrong and that she had a lot of fun, which I could visibly see that she had had a lot of fun at the time. Generally, any time an issue along this comes up, I just tell her she enjoyed it while she did it. It's funny because …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:23 PM
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I've never had a problem inviting girls directly over lol
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:11 PM
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I've had much easier times seeing girls again if I texted them soon after.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:11 PM
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Junior at a top college and many friends are graduating right now. I'd say only the top employers care what your GPA was, and even at that, things like internships are much more important. There are tons of 4.0s, nobody cares--employers want to see how you'll help their company.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:07 PM
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From first-hand experience in college, there are some who'll love it, some who mildly like it, and some who avoid it. You'll get offered sex now and then from ratchet girls just because of it, and some better girls will take interest in you and start talking casually. Overall it's a help with girls, but the risk isn't really worth it after a while. It's also not a huge helper, just a small bit.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:05 PM
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I was 18 and a freshman in college. I'd done a little bit with girls earlier in my first semester, like handjobs and getting naked and shit. I had a date party and needed to invite a girl. The night went well, we drank some wine, and I went back with her and she blew me with her roommate asleep in the bed next to us. She was pretty inexperienced too so I didn't get much out of it, ended up jerking off onto her to get off. A week later as part of hazing I do the Edward 40 Hands challenge. I win b…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:55 PM
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I've never even understood the big deal here. If it leaks, so what? And I understand employment opportunities may be affected, but what is the likelihood that your employer would ever find out, even if it did leak? Very low. And beyond that, why do employers even care? Honestly I don't give a fuck if people see a video of me fucking, that's more on them being a weirdo and wanting to see my dick than it is on me.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:37 PM
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Definitely a good move. Dudes who are always trying to compete and tear you down fuckin' suck. Being nice goes a long way. A funny example is that myself and my roommate play 2k semi-often, and I'm very good at 2k to the point that it's weird if I don't win by at least 20 on 3 minute quarters. When I win every single time by as much, instead of saying "wow you're good," he just goes "ugh 2k is so broken you're not even good. My shots just don't go in." And I'm like... umm... okay, if you think s…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:34 PM
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i'd have thought you wanted a plate as well but threw that out there. glad it helped i guess
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:06 PM
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Depending on your state there can be some really good options for the CC --> bachelor's route. If you're smart enough and in Cali, places like UCLA and Berkeley are pretty accepting of CC students from what I hear. Same goes for Michigan and U of M.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:09 PM
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Depends what you're trying to do here. But I'll give my two cents. For the best relationship, you need to give the vibe that you are an Alpha who likes this girl quite a lot and connects to her. Basically, be both the BB and AF, but not in the way that you provide actual BB (i.e. money and bitch tasks and shit) but in that you communicate a high level of desire for her and make her feel safe, like you will not take flight for the next hot bitch to come along. Source: been in a two-year LTR with …
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:07 PM
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This sounds kinda autistic, but I'll answer it nonetheless. Myself and my LTR have a mutually agreed rule that there's no such thing as no. If she's horny and I'm there, I fuck her--and likewise in reverse. Been dating two years, probably fucked at least 600 times, never been an issue. Has also led to some hot sex in some crazy places. Just establish with your LTR that you guys are dating so sex happens a lot. My LTR physically wants to fuck me a lot, so I don't quite recall because it was long …
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:31 PM
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I'm not sure. Depends how dedicated you are. I've been working out a little over a year now with varying degrees of dedication, and this is where I am. So I'd say if you fully committed, then yeah, that goal is probably doable. You'd have to work very hard, though.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:08 PM
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Ehhhh, no. You want to be able to bench more than 160, a lot more. I am your height, and I weigh 165 or so and bench 200 at my max, 170 for actual reps--basically, I'm slightly above your goal rn. And I am nowhere, NOWHERE near jacked. I'm not tiny but I'm still small. Still bulking. The goal at our height, imo, should be a cut 170 pounds, 12% bf. I'm currently at about 165 and 16% bf or so, so I am nowhere close. And you're behind me by a lot. I'm going to cut once I hit 175 pounds or so, proba…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:57 PM
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My LTR has actually gotten better since getting hotter, in the good girl ways if you want to call them that. She used to go out and shit when she was chubby and get drunk, and some other behaviors one wouldn't necessarily want in an LTR. But since becoming hot, she talks to 0 men besides one gay best friend who she sees very infrequently and one childhood bestfriend who is an enormous beta in a dead bedroom relationship with a HB5 despite being a 20 year old dude. As for attention increasing, th…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:16 PM
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It wasn't me that replied to you lol
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 11:40 PM
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Nah I meant dudes lol But fr no. You should fuck girls. You just don't want to bc feelings and blah blah. Beta. Ignore it. You just miss having an LTR prob but shes not coming back. Fuck other bishes n get over it
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:04 PM
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No you should be having sex with guys
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:54 PM
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I don't necessarily support marriage, but LTRs can be quite good. My LTR provides good vibes and daily sex with a hot girl. She also doesn't require I'm monogamous. She also provides occasional sex with other hot girls. How am I losing, exactly?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 08:52 PM
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Lmao the first thing you wrote, about the other not wanting her to use her car and shit reminds me of my own mom. At least how she used to be. She met my LTR and the first time she did she kept trying to make me act beta towards her. Like, she had a couple suitcases that weren't too big--perfectly manageable for my LTR--and my Mom kept bitching at me to carry them up stairs for her. Um, no. She's a big girl and can carry her own bags, like I carried mine. Now, the funny part is it evolved into a…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:14 PM
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The Last American Virgin. I was suggested it in a similar thread here a long time ago. Best movie ever for RPers but I don't want to spoil it so I won't say too much. It was made in the 80s and if you watch it you'll see why the movie would never be allowed to exist today.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:47 PM
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Idk that seems pretty straightforward to me. I wouldn't say "SMV" I'd say "overall attractiveness." I wouldn't say "alpha male" I'd say "attractive guy with game or who isn't a pussy." I wouldn't say "beta bucks" I'd say "nice guy pussy." Then proceed with RP as normal, just using terms that don't sound like they're from a cult. Lmao
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:39 PM
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Can relate. My SMV has always been semi-high due to being pretty funny, smart, and goodlooking naturally. But girls terrified me when I was younger, so I got nothing. Over time and through a concentrated effort approaching, I started doing well for myself. Just do what you can and focus on improving--if you were born with the tools, life will teach you to use them.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:36 PM
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I was beta as fuck a couple years ago and got a blind date with a HB9 who was a blackout fuck. My n-count was only 1, and I still avoided her because that shit's just toxic. And she wanted to fuck me--in retrospect, hitting it once and ghosting was probably the move. But glad I didn't get caught in that.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:32 PM
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I talk about TRP concepts with my LTR, but I remove the terminology. It works for the most part, and it's made her smarter about the social/sexual dynamics of the world and a better LTR.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:29 PM
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I do this--junior in college, 2-year LTR, HB7.5-8, low n-count, it's also a one-way open relationship and she doesn't drink or go out without me. We've also done threesomes. My n-count is a little under 20, so less than yours. Here's the thing: none of the hot chicks I've slayed here were relationship material. None. "But you're in a relationship," you say. Yeah, here's the thing: she was a chubster when I first met her, and she was just a plate. She realized I had high SMV, much higher than her…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:24 PM
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Okay, so just a trigger warning: this post could easily be responded with by "that's easy for you to say." So, you've been warned. Anyways, I'm a little different than you but also similar. I entered college an absolute fuck-up anxious piece of shit low value faggot fuck. Kissless virgin, the mere suggestion a girl liked me sent my heart in a flutter. A girl even saying hi to me made me wonder if we were destined to get married. Jesus fucking christ, disgusting. But that was me. Anyways, fast fo…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:00 AM
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It's beta, yes. You could text her and ask her out to lunch to catch up or something and explain it there, which is less beta. But the way you phrased it is super beta (which admittedly I think is a sham because it'd be nice to be able to tell people nice things sometimes. But yeah in this case being nice is beta)
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:52 AM
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My LTR's Mom used to be more subtle about things when she was younger and more falling in line with her Mom (a.k.a. she was chubby and shit). But as she got older and fell into a very submissive role in her relationship and got into good shape physically, her Mom has gotten more desperate to convince her to be like herself. So that's why she's less subtle now. Before, as you described, she used to just tell her about how she was a little whore when she was young. Things like that she fucked a ra…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:31 PM
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I agree here. I do side with thinking girls like this, but I'm okay with guys taking girls who want this appearance off the market for me. I'd rather live until I'm 80 and have time to do things like write stories and make music while keeping in reasonable good shape and fucking my classy 10 or so girls every year, rather than dedicating to just lifting and maybe fucking 50 girls in a year but ruining a lot of my life in the process.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 03:36 PM
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Lmao that's extremely mild compared to my situation. My LTR lost 30 pounds in 3-4 monthsish back in her freshman year. She said when she went home for Winter Break, all her female friends said they were hella impressed and her male friends she said were suddenly interested in her. Her parents, on the other hand, tried to tell her she had an eating disorder... I also was instrumental in getting my LTR to quit drinking. Guess who offers her alcohol every fucking time they see her, despite her bein…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:05 PM
1

I'm not sure entirely because I wasn't there (it was summer break) but let's just say they flipped enough shit about the whole ordeal and everything they saw--including sexts saying things like "I can't wait to look in your eyes while you cum in another girl"--that they threatened her to not pay for her college education anymore if she still talked to me. Her Mom's a fat whale fuck who was also pissed at her daughter for getting in shape (my LTR is super hot but was chubby in HS and took matters…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:16 AM
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I actually like long answers and find that most people are too brief to the point of being unclear. It's also weird to talk about being wordy over text because not being wordy talking about it sounds weird, but being wordy seems like trying too hard. LOL. Yeah, my most ingrained beta habit for sure
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:34 PM
1

Lol, my LTR's parents don't like me--they want her to break up. They're super super feminist and know that I'm the opposite and that we're in a one-way open relationship and shit (they went through her phone. Jokes on them tho cuz they saw some really degrading nudes of their own daughter LOL) and her parents are just psycho in a different way. Lucky for me I never see them anyways because they're in Cali and we are not. She keeps regular contact with them though. I don't even understand their b…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:28 PM
1

Fair enough. At least you know your value.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:09 PM
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I said what I said because this girl seems like a headache and a half, and I wouldn't want to deal with her just for vagina and you shouldn't either. And at that, it's dealing with her for the vagina you aren't even getting. Beyond that, these "problems" are retarded. All in all the girl just seems terrible (like I said) and you're not an exemplary example of a male for engaging with, and wanting to engage with, her. It's okay because not being the best male isn't a permanent sentence, you can i…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 06:00 PM
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We text a decent bit--I usually let her initiate. Sometimes I do just to share my day or whatever. Just do what you want to and don't blow up her phone all the time.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:58 PM
2

No sex, no nothing. this bish a friend
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:36 PM
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Being a windy texter and writer. Just look at my post history, so many are really long. It definitely comes across as Beta but I can't help it lmao and the irony is that I'm not nearly that way face-to-face.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:25 PM
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I'm not "no contact" with my family, but I don't hold them in high regards at all and I don't really care for them or like them. They just kind of suck--Mom is okay but very egotistical yet stupid, Dad is a supreme Beta whose wife definitely has cheated on him (my Mom is very attractive for her age and always has been--she locked down her BB easily at 30 after riding the CC), and my Sister is a fucking nutcase who dropped out in 9th grade and had 3 kids before turning 20. I go to a T20 American …
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:17 PM
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Lol correct response: "well you are stupid for sending them. all my bros have seen you naked now" *no response for hours* ​ I will say, though, what you did was probably not as bad as it seems here. I do often reward my LTR with beta for her doing things that please me. For example, she tried to color her hair to "change things up" for me and turn me on and I hated it (it looked bad) so I just made a comment that hinted at disliking it. The next time I saw her it was fixed, so I made a point to …
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:07 PM
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I mean living with roommates and not alone makes sense. I definitely want roommates after college because why the fuck do I want to be alone? And I am going to be a successful adult. Living with parents is a little different though and kind of weird--I would avoid those girls because their parents are probably too involved in their life at this age (bad sign for the future with that girl. fuck girls' parents)
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:01 PM
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Idk I've never understood the huge TRP aversion to this. I'm in a 2-year long one-way open relationship and have no problem talking about my emotions or whatever. I say whatever I think or feel. I guess the difference is I have no emotions I've been told so to me what seems like being weak I guess isn't to other people. But either way who cares as long as you don't wallow in it she probably didn't even notice and this is probably in your head
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:59 PM
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girl sounds terrible and you sound like a fag. /thread
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:57 PM
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You don't let girls find this. Ever. I am in a 2-year LTR and I've only ever alluded to TRP, not made it available even in the slightest. As soon as she did find it, you needed to own it. "Oh, you don't believe in TRP? Funny cuz it works on you, little girl." That shit melts girls. I wouldn't use talking about TRP as a normal course of action, but if a girl finds out, owning it can work wonders. I've converted my LTR from pretty liberal to hating the feminist agenda because she knows it's bullsh…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 01:08 PM
1

Not crazy at all?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:57 AM
1

No, i'm not sending you the video.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:56 AM
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A lot of these more minute problems that crop up on TRP... I've gotten to a point where shouldn't we just say respond however feels natural and how you want to? You know why TRP says LTRs are hard mode? Bc constantly putting on this alpha act is hard and tiring. Just internalize Alpha thinking and do whatever you want once you do--it's much easier and girls will vet themselves into and out of your life based on if they're naturally a fit for you. I do my best to do that, and granted I am natural…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:08 AM
0

I go to one of the best colleges in America with one of the best football teams in America, and most people here are at least loosely fans. I personally have written about the NFL for the USA Today and I'm only 20. Am I and everyone else I go to school with stupid? No. Your question is what's stupid.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:02 AM
0

I think mystery works but is misunderstood here. Good example of mystery: this guy's IG has him and millions of HB10s. What makes him so special? Bad example of mystery: his FaceBook only has one photo of the back of his head. Ommggg what is the rest of him like? The former is giving the girl some hamster material while not painting a full picture, and the latter just looks dull
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:59 AM
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I think your standards of what constitutes a 6 or 7 are way too loose if this is a serious question. I consider my LTR a 7.5-8 range girl and she's super hot. And there's no girl I'd call a 7 that I wouldn't plate barring mental issues or generally being shitty outside of appearance. So that makes it hard to answer this at all.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:56 AM
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You're bad at all things person vs person? Sounds like you have no competitive drive. I love winning. I'm not one to normally say just lift but it sounds like you need more testosterone, so lift. That'll cure you not being competitive lol
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:22 AM
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Hi. I am almost 21. I was kissless until I turned 18. I had my first sex not long before I turned 19. My body count is now almost 20 and my LTR is a HB8 that does semi-regular threesomes with me and lets me fuck other girls, which I take advantage of semi-regularly (once a month ish). The point being: you're young and life can still change. But you have to change it. What you have to do to change it I do not know. For me, I changed from being a little puss boy who never approached to shotgun app…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:35 AM
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Lol I was actually just fucking with you. Out of curiosity though is that like a promotional IG? It's very focused to be a social/general one.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 12:45 AM
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Oh yeah? I lift 17x per week
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 12:11 AM
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This is a pretty good list that goes beyond the regurgitated RP truths we hear every day. Also, glad to see someone finally mention that many women in relationships do not cheat. Yes, many do--but it's absurd how many people here think every single women cheats in every single relationship.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:52 PM
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There were a few different things. Hazing-wise, there's events that include sex with random guys. There's also events like going to freshman guys' dorms and stripping fully for them while singing a song about the sorority. Once in the sorority, it's total incest. This girl is one of the worse looking girls in her top srat so it may factor in (she couldn't secure a top frat guy's commitment) but she basically said she's fucked at least 20 guys in these frats and most of her friends are the same. …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:51 PM
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My LTR has done/does drugs. She's a pretty ideal LTR. Low n-count, doesn't party or drink or do drugs without me, never hangs out with any guys without me whatsoever, lets me fuck other girls, is a HB8, very submissive and wants to please me, on track to make a lot of money in her own career and inherit a lot from her parents as well as an only child of rich parents but is pretty humble and you'd never know. All these traits, and she does drugs. What an evil bitch! I would choose her over 99% of…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:46 PM
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I know a couple girls' n-counts--the rest are estimates. Obviously the ones I know "could" be wrong, but I would be surprised. I do know more generally if a handful of girls are slutty or not. I don't think I know every single sex act they've ever committed, but that's not what I am saying I know. It's pretty easy to tell which girls put out more easily for more guys if you just talk to them, and no, not every girl is a raging whore. You would be the idiot for taking RP ideology to such extremes…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:42 PM
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OBama has done coke and other drugs, and even if he hasn't, it doesn't matter. A ton of other successful people could stand in as the example because loads of them have done acid, molly, shrooms, etc.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:26 PM
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Use =/= abuse
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:25 PM
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i think the only solution now is to actually suck him off. it's 2018, girls will be okay with you being gay. they won't be okay with the perception that you wont admit to being gay because insecurity is very unattractive to them
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:06 PM
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women are not your equal partner, but they can be the scottie pippen to your michael jordan. beware, though, because even scottie pippen signed with the trail blazers late in his career
/r/askTRP21/10/18 09:04 PM
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I suppose where you're finding the people that use these drugs is a big variable. I'd say most people I know, given the school I go to and the offers I've seen seniors getting already, are going to be very successful financially. Many are also quite good with girls, and nearly all are socially-adept. Not many are in extremely good shape (some are) which is perhaps the only way they'd fall short of the idealized TRP man, as an aggregate. And almost everyone I know has at least tried drugs (talkin…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 08:11 PM
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Feel free
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:24 PM
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Depends which. A random sorority, maybe not. I know a couple virgins in the mid-tier sororities at my school--sororities are a nice way to make friends. A top-tier one? She's more used than a gay man's asshole. My LTR is in a professional frat and has recently met/befriended a girl in it to try and get a leadership position, and that girl is a top-tier social sorority girl (our #2 house). She's told my LTR about the traditions that the sorority has and how all the top-tier sororities, from what …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:06 PM
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Yeah I would agree. It's kind of like drinking to them. I come from a poor background but am in a high tier frat at a rich person really good college so it's safe to say most of my friends are rich. Coke is nothing to them. Same goes for a lot of the girls here, and I don't mean the slutty sorostitutes. It's just a cultural difference, like how for example a European women going to nude beaches frequently is completely normal but an American woman who went to beaches nude would be a little weird…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:32 PM
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I think drugs should be treated more like a red flag than a dealbreaker--they're pretty demonized here. As someone who has actually done extensive research on drug use and seen it from many perspectives, and done drugs myself, all while being much more successful than most other people (T20 US college, in line for 80k/year out of college) I will say drugs in and of themselves are not that bad. Likewise, many girls who use drugs are not that bad. A lot of the replies in here seem to equate "does …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:21 PM
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Do both. Have frame. Many girls will let you fuck others or simply look the other way.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:47 PM
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It will show you a few things. Firstly, the way these lower SMV chicks treat you is how you should have higher SMV chicks treat you when you get there. Secondly, you can improve your physical sex skills and be experimentative in a way you could not or wouldn't be comfortable if you felt there was something to lose. Third, abundance is abundance and you'll be less apt to put up with shit from others.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:39 PM
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Yes I know about all the things you've listed and which do and do not apply. Also, why 10? Because mathematically it's a lot more significant than 1 or 5 and a lot more representative of a behavioral pattern. You're 1/10th of her partners (10%) vs 1/2 (50%). Adding another notch is also no longer a big deal because after a few a dick is a dick. Who cares. Every dick starting from 0 very quickly erodes pair bonding, and past a certain point, there is no pair bonding to erode anymore. Also, I agre…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:38 PM
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Mmmmm, not to be "that" guy but I'd think my LTR has said the truth about her n-count. She's been a little too honest at times because she was raised in the Bay Area where it's all sex positive and it's very socially acceptable to be a slut. Also, I've learned a lot of what I know while on MDMA with her--if you've done the drug before, you'll know it's not a situation where lying is very possible. I have a lot of psychopathic and manipulative tendencies, and I still have a hard time lying on MDM…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:46 PM
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The best answer to why I think about it in the first place would be that I continuously vet the girls I am with, like one should. Ultimately, sexual history is part of that and emerges in my thoughts whether I want it to or not. It does also provide a bit of a lens to view other actions through. For example, say a girl drinks a lot--this in itself is a red flag, but it's a lot different if it's a one-off red flag or if she fucks hella dudes when she drinks and then it's like a combination red fl…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:00 PM
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This has always been difficult for me too. My LTR's n-count besides me is only 2 (3 with oral) and it still can bother me. Personally I get over it by the fact that she was fat then and is hot as fuck now, so they didn't get the sex with her that I get. But also, you gotta just realize they're people too and people fuck. Increase your own n-count so hers seems lesser in comparison or just find a virgin. I always wanted a virgin but never found one, so I'll take a girl with an n-count of 2 when m…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:45 PM
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I've never liked this reasoning. I also dislike a girl I like having fucked other guys. It has nothing to do with me being insecure about not measuring up. It has much more to do with just an internal disgust with the matter, and I think it's designed because your body wants to prevent you from committing to a girl who will not value your commitment. Cuck prevention.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:42 PM
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I actually study English, which has turned out to be quite a mistake. I decided to enter into the major because I love writing and wanted to hone my skills at a top college. It turns out that, despite what one may think, an English major is actually a lot more about learning how to be liberal than it is about learning how to write. It's kind of sad to say, but my HS English classes were much more educational than my college ones at this "top" school, but that may also be because I go to a very l…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:35 PM
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I actually don't have any party or side I lean towards because I find the whole system to be stupid, and I've never voted (though I might as well because my parents and sister will vote for whoever I support because I go to a T20 US college and come from a family where graduating HS was an accomplishment, so I'm seen as some weird Messiah of intellect. So even without voting I make my impact.) Generally, though, I just think about issues and form my own opinion on them if I care enough to regard…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:00 PM
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The modern military is quite a sham, in my opinion. We have nuclear weapons in abundance. What the fuck war is ever going to happen? Maybe we could have some teams to fight ISIS or some shit, but a full-blown military is a monumental waste of time and money for thousands upon thousands of people because we will never, ever, EVER have a full-scale war again in human history. That time period has come and gone. There's a reason the cold war lasted so long--nobody is going to fucking actually fight…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:27 PM
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I'm 20, turning 21 in a month. Junior in college. So makes sense we would have different standards because we're dating entirely different demographics. For my age group the more wholesome girls sexual history will look like: LTR when young, one ONS because they got drunk and were curious, and that one FWB guy they wanted to date but he just wanted sex. Then add one or two to a categorie or two and land at 4-5 or so total. If I were dating 25-year-olds, I'd expect a different "n-count story." Bu…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:15 PM
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I think AWALT properly understood is a pretty useful concept. I think you misuse it against your examples there. Also, I don't even know that they know they're being angry and arrogant to be Alpha. More, it reminds me of a soldier or ROTC man's devotion to our country. They want to protect it because they understand it as valuable, but they just lack the intellectual capacity to understand what it is that they are protecting. Forumulating the ideologies themselves is a very daunting task they kn…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:16 AM
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My n-count is 15-20ish, I don't know exactly without mentally recounting. A lot is recent. My max I'd accept now is prob 5. My max when I met my LTR was 2 but she was at 3 so I made an exception, so after having met her and her being a generally good LTR and me aging I decided 5 would be not that absolute worst. But that is really pushing it. 5 is me being the lenient of the lenient, and even my LTR's few are not ideal imo. Past n-count is just super fucking gross. I don't want anything I commit…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:12 AM
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Lol that is just so many dicks. I could never LTR a girl of any age with more than 5. Literal prostitutes from 200 years ago might not fuck 20 guys because there weren't 20 guys TO fuck in their small village (the right age, income, and desire). Repulsive. I consider my LTR's n-count kinda high lol I can't even imagine
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:54 PM
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You shouldn't have LTR'd her before sex virgin or not. Typecasts you into beta role. She's also a little old for you if this becomes serious. When you're 35 and she's 37 you'll wish she was 33 or even younger. I've already thought about this myself and my LTR is only a month older than me, not two years. Seems like oneitis. Escalate as much as you can as fast as you can. Girls don't appreciate you being kind and waiting for them--they want a man who takes what he wants. If she doesn't want you t…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:33 PM
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I use tinder, talk to girls in my classes, talk to girls at parties, and that's pretty much it. I also let them come talk to me a lot of the time or let it happen naturally without going out of my way too much except to physically get #s/close. Result is that I'm in a one-way open LTR and fuck like one new girl per month. I spin plates slow so I have a girl in the background a lot of the time but most of my sex is LTR sex. Have sex every day. It's a very relaxing way to live because I get all my…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:30 PM
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I wouldn't care. Have fun eating out my old cum lol
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:23 PM
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While I think you make a valid point, you have to realize many people on TRP are not as "enlightened" as they would like you to think. They're just followers of a more correct leader--still followers. Thinking introspectively about the tenets of TRP and not just wanting to lift and fuck chicks will fly over their heads. When I first started posting on TRP, I made a similar post once. I think mine questioned the saying about being in the top 20% because I'd collected data and could assertively st…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:21 PM
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become gay. lots of single gay dudes who are high value with no kids at 30
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:02 PM
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My LTR's count aside from me is two (three if you count oral) and she's pretty fun. She's pretty hot and fun and has friends who hover around similar n count #s and are also hot and fun. The common denominator is that I'm in college and these girls don't chase the 'main social circles' (athletes, frats, sororities) and instead they're fine just going to weird sidestream parties and being the token hot girls. My LTR's friends who did pursue the sorority life all have astronomical n-counts (30+) a…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:48 PM
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This is very explicitly not okay in my LTR. There's just no justification for it. Granted, I do have a few exceptions--one of her friends is a super scrawny beta male who's in a deadbedroom relationship at 20 years old, and another one is gay and looks massively flamboyant. These guys are irrelevant as sexual creatures, so I don't really care even if they were to make a move. She also has a history with them, so they're "important" to her. But any other guy absolutely fucking not. Reason being: …
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:53 PM
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I do things a bit differently than most people here. I have a main LTR and spin plates slowly in the background. Technically I have had a second plate for like 10 months of my 2 year LTR but we've only fucked maybe a half dozen times. I've also had a few others come and go, but I create no "regulars" besides my LTR. The most girls I've fucked in a week is four, if that's what we're trying to get at here. Three girls in a week is not that uncommon for me, either.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:41 PM
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It's either the girls you're picking or you. Girls want relationships generally, but not all girls do and all girls don't always. Are you jacked but poor? Prime ONS material. But there's a ton of reasons it could be.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:38 PM
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My LTR would never say something like that, but if she did, Idk that sounds like a comfort test more than shit test. I'd probably say a joke like "lol look who's being an emotional woman today" then assure her of her value to me, maybe with a note that she should be nice in the future and I didn't like XYZ which is what "may have" pushed me away a bit
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:31 PM
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This is a good post. I would add that, additionally, making girls work their way up through commitment has the added bonus that it then forces the relationship to be in your frame. You are the one giving, and she is looking to receive from you (commitment). She will receive what she wants from you only on your terms (in your frame). From here you may set the boundaries that you see as necessary and vet out and in the girls that are and are not compatible. Completely your frame and your world, an…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:35 PM
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Lol, LTRs being anything other than fun to be around and chill is annoying as fuck. No matter how hot they are attraction fades, so all that is left is how good the companionship is. Lately my LTR has been a little annoying with things like this and god it just makes me not want to be around her. Luckily, not wanting to be around her creates dread, which then corrects her actions. It's happened before--it's been a full two years now. Goes in cycles now and then, doesn't last long. My advice woul…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:19 PM
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The flaw here is that you don't need to be that jacked to fuck a lot of girls and almost any job will give you weekends off. TRP preaches lifting, but if you eat right to keep low body fat and take care of your skin to make it look an extra bit good while also making a lot of money and dressing well and having good frame/game/confidence you're gonna get laid. I lift but I'm really invested in my T20 US college and doing well/getting a good degree so I've never been that consistent, and after 1.5…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:19 AM
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It kinda depends why they look down on her. Is it because she fucks 1,000,000,0000,-0000323,0023 people, the entire "cool crowd" included? Then it might lower your status to "plate her." Maybe avoid or hit it once. Or is it just because she's seen as crazy or something? If so, fucking her will do nothing to your status. If anything, it may boost it because really everyone wants to fuck the hot-but-crazy chick and escape unscathed. I think you should just fuck her. If she's really this hot a bunc…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:04 AM
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I tend to agree. I don't think the above is the best response. In real life it could work because you'd be able to follow up quickly and show it was a joke, but here you might just get ghosted. You've probably responded fr by now though so I won't bother helping with an actual response.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:59 AM
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What about her makes you think she's better than you? My LTR is objectively hotter than me, a fair bit hotter, to the point that my friends have commented on it a handful of times. And you know what? We are in a one-way open relationship with my side being the open one. The thing is, value is completely subjective. I'm not even the most social person; actually, I'm kind of quiet. But I'm super funny, super clever, a great writer, very positively spirited, weirdly innately good at analysis and pa…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:57 AM
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I think your definition of an Alpha Widow is what's making it seem to you like every girl would be one. To be fair, the TRP definition of one isn't as clear and socially elegant in real life as it could be. You're thinking a ONS with a high value man is going to instantly create a widow. This isn't really the case. Most ONSs happen drunk and are hazy and quick and hard to remember, regardless of how "hot" or "high SMV" this bruh is. This means she can't really idolize him because, yes, girls lov…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:46 AM
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I wouldn't say "so many" not getting any, but a few. Also it has nothing to do with ratios and more to do with those guys just being a combibation of the worst looking / worst game in the frat, which we know due to hypergamy and immediate access to higher value dudes makes them seem pretty unappetizing
/r/askTRP14/10/18 11:53 AM
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There are guys in frats that go the whole year without getting laid. Not the majority, but some. In the top frats. I'd say most common is dudes making out with chicks basically every party and getting laid by a new chick like once a month. More during weeks that start semesters. Quality of girls ranges--some can be quite hot, but even in my pretty good frat (upper tier at fratty big state football school) most are just average looking. The hottest ones invariably get wife'd up (LTR'd). But your …
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:45 AM
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It's tough to say with any great degree of certainty, but I do think most normal, well-adapted girls "learn their lesson" and only get pumped and dumped a few times. This is why the whole trope of becoming wise and avoiding those "assholes" in favor of the nicer betas is so common. It's not because girls constantly pursue assholes. And the hotter girls don't quite get pumped and dumped. Their casual sex experiences are much more pleasant. Which is why I would say, on average, they have higher n-…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:18 PM
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I'm not saying it's only high SMV ones, but I am saying they're more apt to do it. Think of it like this: if you're a low SMV chick, your reward for putting out to a Chad is that maybe he'll wipe his cum off you before kicking you out. And the guys who will be 'nicer' to you about sex aren't going to have the highest SMV. It's just bad for self-esteem. Meanwhile, high SMV girls have more to gain through sex. Putting out can get them flown to Cancun. A new job. The actual attention of a Chad. Sex…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:15 PM
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This is really fuckin gay lol you basically wrote a list of a normal girl her age with a bunch of added "Like Abe Lincoln, she's never told a lie" She might be quality, but you need to check yourself. She's not going to live up to these expectations you're setting for her over time.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:44 PM
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It's because TRP is, in my opinion, about the type of girl you'd find in a sorority or modeling. They're high SMV and flaunt it, so guys want them. They don't have much value beyond their looks, so they frequently have sex to either get a job, lock down providers, have fun (it's an easy way to have fun, and they're internally empty), or whatever. Essentially, sex is their main bargaining chip. Now, unfortunately, I would say most hot girls are the sorority type. Maybe 75%. So, yes, there are oth…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:39 PM
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Yeah, that does tend to happen. What TRP won't tell you is that by raising your SMV you're actually encouraging AWALT and hypergamous girls because that's who most chases high SMV guys. Then it becomes a bad confirmation loop. Now, I don't think it's necessarily a good idea to content yourself with a lower SMV to find girls who settle with high beta types, but oftentimes the more quality women do avoid the hot af bruhs and choose high Betas. One theory I've been thinking about lately is if for t…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:00 PM
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Well, yeah, the people who many people want will be more likely to have met someone that they also wanted, yes. Simple logic. This just leaves you with two options. Find the ones who've slipped through the cracks (good for LTR or plate, depending on girl) or find ones who are with a BB so they'll fuck you anyways (plate only)
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:37 PM
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Personally I see no problem with dating a 6. My LTR is a little hotter than that, but I've said in the past I don't need a girl to be as hot as her to be with her. She just happens to be hot, on top of other good qualities. But the world does perceive you differently based on the girl's looks--this is just TRP of LTRs, lol. I could not tell you how many comments I get about how much I must be the man because "bro your girl is way hotter than you." Lmao. Though I would say it is a mistake to fals…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:31 PM
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I think you're misinterpreting what it means to be Alpha. It's okay--that's common here. You don't "act Alpha or Beta." You either ARE Alpha or Beta. Are you charming, have funny stories, suggest fun activities for the group, etc? Then you're Alpha. Are you a boring sack of shit or a follower to another person in the group? Then you're Beta. But let's say that your group of friends is all normally "Alphas." Not everyone can lead obviously. In that case, you're not Beta just because someone else …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:03 PM
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Yeah that sounds pretty reasonable for a social media post, assuming she's hot. I find an LTR's physical appearance is super important for other people's perceptions of you as a man because the implication, if she's not hot, will always be that you can't do any better.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:59 PM
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Had you asked about this before you told her it wasn't concurrent, I would have said to just be straight up about it. Hold frame and you're in the right here, so she'll get over it and forget about it. But now that you've started down the path of making it seem like it wasn't concurrent, you might as well stick to that. Unless there's a good chance she finds out from someone else. You always want to be the one to break the news.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:46 PM
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Beta tells: - Girl is skimpily clothed on social media. Or making "hot" or revealing body positions. - Girl's photos are her going out, her with friends doing something provocative, selfies - Captions are an invitation for guys or show that she's a "fun, adventurous, carefree" type of girl. - She's active on social media. Social media is a validation tool, so this means she's actively seeking social media. Alpha tells: - Her social media is her being "casually hot." Think: a girl who happens to …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:42 PM
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I learned that LTRs are great if you don't ever agree to not fuck other girls. If I want to be lazy and not pick up a girl for a month or two--or if I want to focus on other things and it's not necessarily laziness--then I don't have to, and I still get sex, which is helpful for your mental health and state of mind. It also makes it so that I am almost never shit tested but am comfort tested semi-regularly. For someone who used to be pretty beta, comfort tests are super easy to pass consistently…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:23 PM
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It's pretty smart in most regards, but if you look around, there's a definite religion-bias at play. Ever notice that TRP advocates, generally, that girls who go to church or are religious are a "green flag"? Or that atheism is a red flag? Or notice that what drives most people here is BP thinking proven wrong, and BP thinking is generally that one man and one woman are the perfect match for each other, which is what religion tries to do (match one man to one woman)? Myself, I used to be firmly …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:59 PM
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You came to the wrong place to diss religion. TRP is pretty conservative.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:58 PM
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For me, it was first date. LTR is going well too.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:14 PM
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You don't want your girl to let you fuck other girls? I see no disadvantage to that. Don't do it if you don't want to. I'm of the opinion most girls will let a guy they see as high value do this. (See: every single pro athlete, famous musician, etc. All married to high SMV women, nearly all not expected to be monogamous. Strict monogamy is beta.) In my opinion girls should be YOUR slut. Yes, to you, this girl is now A slut. But she doesn't want or care about you--her desire is in pleasing and ke…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:27 PM
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People in the thread have biased experience. I know a lot of sub-10 n-count girls, and any girl I know above 10 is broken and fucked beyond belief. My personal standard is no higher than 5, and preference for 3 or below. I'm not committing to someone's used condom. That's so fucking gross. My current LTR was at 3 when we met, and she's been a great LTR. Lets me openly have plates, fucks me any way I want to (and everything kinky we've done I've been the only to do with her), will do 3somes, and …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:56 AM
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You know the situation better than us. Let the action fit the crime.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:01 PM
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You know the situation better than us. Let the action fit the crime. ​
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:00 PM
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You know the situation better than us. Let the action fit the crime.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:59 PM
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You just sound like you're fucking girls you don't really like. I've had many-an-awkward pillow talk after fucking some chick who's either not hot enough for me or has a shit personality otherwise. Usually, though, those are my low-investment pulls (something like a message to just come over off of Tinder). So I don't have a lot of emotion tied up in them. I'd say to just find a girl or two you really like to fuck. I'm in a one-way open LTR, and a lot of times I just prefer fucking my LTR to oth…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:36 PM
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There's some reflection of this in my fraternity--at least at parties (and it does spill over elsewhere) The pussy slayer bruhs all roam parties solo and mack on chicks the whole time. Dance with chicks, not their brothers. The nerdier video game brahs sip beers together or play BP, generally. This is more due to what their priorities are than their SMV, and their SMV is reflected by their priorities as well because the pussy slayer brahs also tend to hit the gym and shit too. Makes sense, no? O…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:32 PM
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LTR came up and talked to me in a college lecture. I chatted with her a few different classes before # closing and invited her to a date party for my fraternity. F-closed that night. The plate I was just hanging out with my friend; he said a few female friends want to tag along. # close again, chill with her later in the week, f-close. Like I said, neither are saints--but they're both still pretty cool girls with actual interests and personalities. Would recommend.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:45 PM
6

Have you ever been to a fraternity?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:07 PM
1

Going at this from a different approach. My personal LTR philosophy has always been that I need to be her top choice, her alpha, whatever you want to call it. The right side of AF/BB. Now, yes I know I'm on TRP, but I'm not the biggest, most ripped, or most jacked. I'm 5'9" and in good shape but not exemplary. I know this. Therefore, I would be a fucking idiot to chase after any girl who DOES want that and think that I'd be their top option, ever. I just wouldn't be. My LTR has remained a one-wa…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:06 PM
2

Lots of dudes are beta/BP AS FUCK. I'm in a fraternity, and you'd think it'd stop there as a male resort... but no, these dudes are pretty beta too. The only difference is that they are also, for the most part, outgoing and good-looking so they still get laid. And they're also okay with casual sex, but otherwise pretty beta. That's 2018.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:58 PM
1

Yeah, but it's also pretty hard to do. Combined with the fact that we are all different ages, it gets near impossible. I think, to a 40 y/o, an average 20 y/o IS a "7." But obviously to a 20 y/o college student an average girl is a 5. So ultimately it is pretty relative anyways.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:51 PM
1

My say is to just do it. Not every girl you or anyone else fucks is a stunner. That's life. Now, if you get to a point where your N count is 20, and you've fucked 19 4s and a 5, you probably want to lay off. But just to get the nuts flowing and see how the process works, it's fine. Source: I've fucked close to 20 girls at this point, and I'd say maybe 6 or 7 were what I'd call hot. Another 6 or 7 were cute, and the other 6 or 7 were me going through motions. That said, I don't think I'd have the…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:14 AM
1

I think people just adjust their scale to what they can get. If you can only fuck fatties, a skinny chick is "a 7" to you. If you can fuck ok looking girls, a cute one is your "7 or 8." You get the point... So I always just tell people to improve and get the best girl you can. Numbers could mean anything.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:10 AM
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The tinder matches are all real--I've seen lesser attractive girls' tinders, and they still match with mostly everyone. Pretty rare for a non-match. Dudes are thirsty. As for "where are the girls without social media" well, I'm here to tell you they exist. They're also not these huge unicorns, but what they will be is a little bit different than your average girl (think about it logically: social media addiction is typical feminine behavior, so a girl that doesn't exhibit it is going to be a lit…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:03 AM
1

Generally a turn-off. It's a HUGE turn-off when females act "above themselves." There are two HB5s I know that talk about how they "are a tease" and "guys would be lucky to have them." In reality, they are mediocre, and cunts. Disgusting--huge turn-off. On the other hand, a girl I fucked in a threesome the other week made a funny comment afterwards (in context) about how I'd just fucked two hot girls. It could have been interpreted as cocky, but it worked situationally imo and showed social wit,…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:16 PM
5

I was indifferent-ish on this until I read this. Did you want sex and she declined? That is not a good sign. In two years together, my LTR initiates sex often and has, to this day, still never rejected an advance made by me. And I mean never--we started as a ONS. Then she was a plate. Then an LTR. Promoted because she showed high interest, was hot, and good to have around. Your girl not wanting to fuck you is a reflection of low value.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:51 PM
1

You can touch them very lightly, but anything more than that is socially awkward. Get her outside of class.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:44 PM
2

I've actually completely struck out with her friends, funny enough. I'm not sure why--I think my LTR is uncomfortable gaming them, as she's a completely straight girl and likes tinder's anonymity. The thing about tinder is you have a ton of competition, ESPECIALLY looking for 3somes because the supply of girls willing vs. demand looking is extremely unbalanced. The only solution is to be the best choice and to consistently be making girls able to pick you by making moves. If you are not one of t…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:12 PM
1

Of course. If you have any other questions, feel free to lmk.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:47 PM
7

Tinder is pretty easy. My LTR does this for me--she's a hot girl, so she gets a lot of matches. They're almost all DTF her, so then you just need to find out if they're bi and not gay. Some will say that they are in fact bi, so she then says the other girl should hang out with "me and my guy friend" aka me. She then comes over, we talk about mundane bullshit while my LTR physically escalates... at some point, she says something like "it's hot in this room (my room is hot) I want to undress a lit…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:27 PM
1

This was me when I started out. I get laid regularly now, so it's a good sign for you. I was pretty cringy for just a couple months, then I smoothed things out and everything picked up quickly--curently in a one-way open relationship with a HB8. The potential is golden--not everyone has the raw skills. Now you just need to refine it.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:15 PM
1

Just game and fuck whoever floats your boat. If you're attracted to a 6, I don't see the problem. But from the sounds of it, you may be better of passing on a "just the notch" experience if you're not into a particular girl.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:14 PM
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Tell her to stop bein' a lil bish and it's fine. I fuck my LTR loudly every single day and live in a college apartment with almost no sound proofing. You just gotta not give a fuk
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:09 PM
2

Most of the people I would call my friends are incredibly BP as well. I'm in a fraternity, and we merged with a better house though and I've been integrated into their groups more, which is good. Also though, I just don't think I get along with men that well despite that I've reached a point where I manage girls pretty well. It happens--not everyone out there is RP. Just try to find the friends you can and don't worry about the rest. Do your thing.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:08 PM
1

I would agree. Faking it is helpful as then people treat you like you're the real deal. Then, you have an easier field to climb through to actually become the real deal--because the path is paved for you. It increases social status if people think you're dope as fuck, which then allows you to be dope as fuck. Capitalizing on the false momentum is the tricky part, though--at some point, you do need to become the real deal. Fortunately for me, I did.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:21 PM
4

You don't want to be dark triad or a psychopath. Some people are and some people are not--you do not control whether or not you are. Personally, I am. It has definitely impacted me positively in ways as I have a pretty hot LTR who I am in a one-way open relationship with, and I do get laid pretty consistently even outside of my relationship. I also take on the role of leader in a group quite easily. On the other side, I do suffer a lot from feelings of social isolation and depression. My extreme…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:18 PM
10

I love you. /no homo But for real: I did not know anyone else did this. When I finished HS, I was a virgin. I moved away to college where nobody knew me, 1,000 miles away. I told everyone I was the fucking shit--how many girls I fucked, etc. I did it smoothly and believably. Then, a HB8, my current one-way open LTR, started fucking me because of it. Then, because of her, I started fucking hot girls in bulk. I fuck hot girls all the time now. All because I manipulated THE FUCK out of everyone I e…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:13 PM
2

stop PDAing your plates bruh. weak shit. it also sends the wrong message and you're going to get way more shit from girls because of it. stupid shit. if you want to PDA get a GF. If you want to have sex get plates. if you want both get a GF who'll let you fuck other chicks, and then who gives a fuck if the other chicks see you PDA your GF because they already know the deal anyways
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:06 PM
1

I'm only talking about attractive girls here--so you know. A lot of unattractive ones have either 0, 1, or 1000. Idc about them. I'd say: 18 - 3 22 - 8 Some will vary up and down a lot. But I am now 21, and the less slutty girls I know are typically around 4 or so. No hot girls are at 0. The more slutty ones are at like 20, so that's why the average is what it is. Also, more girls are lower than higher, but the higher ones are more vocal, more social, and more likely to be in your bed--just beca…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:07 PM
1

My soft rule used to be less than 3, but my current LTR was at 3 when we met so I bent it a little for an otherwise great LTR girl who does 3somes and doesn't stop me from fucking other girls. I would still say under 5 is ideal, regardless of age. You don't want an experienced girl--everything has been much better with my LTR because she was inexperienced. Her pair bonding was still super strong. A hard rule you should have though is that you should get anything she gave to other guys with equal…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:21 PM
6

I've done this for short time periods of about 3 months over college summers. It's pretty awful. I only stayed because I fucked other girls the whole time and wanted my LTR back afterwards because she's higher value than them. As far as I know she never cheated on me in this time, but if she did, well I still won. A true LDR seems like a terrible idea to me though because you're basically agreeing to constant fights and no sex.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:01 PM
1

It varies a lot. I know a girl who nexted a guy because he just hurt her during sex and so it was literally never enjoyable for her--he was too big. Likewise I've heard girls complain about being tiny. But more or less your dick will be as attractive to her as you are, unless it's absurdly on one end of the spectrum or the other.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:31 PM
0

Just fuck other girls while with her, then who cares who else has or will fuck(ed) her. I'm not saying be in an open relationship, but I used to hate that my current LTR even had an n-count of 3... well--I've fucked a double digit amount of girls while being with her now. Guess who doesn't give a single fuck she fucked a couple guys now? Lol.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:22 PM
1

Don't date someone older Okay, now that that's out of the way... I honestly see no problem with dating someone higher SMV than yourself. You gonna cap yourself like that? I'm imo a 6 or 7 and my LTR is hotter than me and so are most of the other girls I fuck these days. I guess you could argue that SMV is not only looks and mine must be higher, which is fair because I have good non-looks traits, but I really don't think so--I just think girls don't view SMV like you and I. If you're passable, yo…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:06 PM
2

To be fair my post was mostly a joke. But I am definitely the type of person to have a favorite beer and occasionally "spice it up" with a different one--funny enough, I do that with girls too. Luckily though I never commit to my beers... or my girls.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:01 PM
6

The reason for the phrase AWALT is that all women "could" cheat, not that they will. Yes, there are some women out there who will never cheat or even come close--the reason many here say those women don't exist is because it's not exactly like you can tell who those women are. But yes, some women will not cheat and will never come close--most will. So take your bet.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:59 PM
1

Yeah, but wouldn't you get tired of tasting so many different beers? At some point you just have to decide ABALT and settle on one beer. Maybe if you're really bold, though, you can sneak a side beer in here or there too.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:01 AM
1

I'm not entirely sure. Combination of the right girl and thinking what I want is completely natural and fine even if society doesn't, mixed with high perceived value. Also it's easiest to make this transition when the girl still has something to gain by it--a.k.a. she was my plate for a long time and I fucked other girls then too so this is still better than that.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:23 AM
3

I was too man-like/straightforward during meetups originally. I wouldn't do enough foreplay before going for bangs because I've always invited girls directly over without a date which in my mind meant "green light" as it logically SHOULD, but girls are not logical. The result of this was a couple blowjobs or makeouts that led to an interaction ending awkwardly rather than a bang. Once I fixed this I started to close every time lol
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:09 PM
12

Honestly I find this too and am in a 2-year LTR rn. I get around it by having side plates (openly) and doing 3somes. Her ability to get me other hot girls definitely makes me more attracted to her--perhaps it's some sign of high social value. Also maneuver it by changing things up a lot--have had sex anywhere, anyhow, anyway, and on every drug or drunk imaginable.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:07 PM
1

do alpha things and you'll stop caring you used to be beta. i was kinda cringy my freshman year too, but i'm now a junior dating a HB8 and fucking other hot girls on the side. so, what the fuck do i care that some HB5 i tried to pick up freshman year thinks i'm weird
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:58 PM
1

the catch is that they feel bad about themselves afterwards when they actually take a guy up on that offer. do you feel bad about yourself if you fuck a chick? no. so you can feasibly have more sex than a girl and have a better mental state than her, and life isn't all about sex--so i would definitely take the clear headspace.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:55 PM
1

i'd love to be somewhere that girls actually wanted LTRs lol
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:53 PM
1

I'm a bit of a risky fuck so take this opinion with a grain of salt. If you are set on LTR, go with girl three. To me, girl 1 isn't the best you can do, clearly, because the other two are much hotter--that's why she's loyal. Fuck that. It would probably be a good LTR, but you're young, so what's the fun in that? Girl 2 is just going to cuck you, make you a fool, and turn out terribly. Fuck that. Fuck her if you can because girl 3 can find out and then you have some great dread on her. You look m…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:50 PM
3

My best advice is that you need to make her want to see you again. That can mean hyping up the hookup beforehand and taking it slow, which is what I did with my current LTR (it began as a ONS--but it was a slow ONS over many hours and she vaguely knew me beforehand). Or, fuck them so good they have to return. Or make sure to build up some activity or event you guys can do together--for me, I smoke weed with girls a lot and propose we become 'smoking friends'--the reason being that weed is incred…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:46 PM
1

If you're that paranoid, just make sure you know her phone password and discretely check every few months.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:43 PM
1

Don't focus on one chick--terrible idea. Try to pick up many and you're more likely to get one/some. As for chicks out of your league, there are no leagues. I am 5'9" with a decently good-looking face and not jacked at all and not that low bodyfat (15ish). I'm probably like a 6, maybe 7. I've fucked a fair few 8s and many 7s and 6s. Your other traits can compensate--girls don't think like men.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:42 PM
4

If you're a good looking guy and have 5 hot girls surrounding you begging for your attention, do you think the rest of the girls in the club are getting tingles from you? There's your answer. Now, scale it down, and yes to varying degrees girls will have or not have tingles for you before they ever talk to you. You will eventually have to talk to them, though.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:40 PM
2

I mean, you should do what you can to mitigate the problem and beyond that just own it. Not much more you can do. Girls will like you owning it more than you not owning it regardless, and if you can't get rid of the problem, that's the best you can do.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:38 PM
1

I get approached mildly frequently, as in more than ten times every year for the last few years. If I want to close it, I usually can. My current one-way open LTR is a chick that approached me in a class. The ones who approach you have high interest, so I suggest going for them as they are the best time to be honest.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:36 PM
2

A female friend recently told me a story of a guy she fucked that sounds like it's in the direction of what you're trying to do here--not sure how this would work as a usual strategy. Anyways, he's an attractive lad (guy was my friend--girl was also my friend, just a coincidence as they did not know each other prior) and he spotted her at a party from a ways away. They make eye contact. He holds the eye contact and approaches. When he does, he says "Hey, I've noticed you all night. You're a real…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:15 PM
2

It was just one approach, keep making them. You can't learn very much from one approach it could be anything. Make 100 and look for patterns.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:09 PM
9

I am a weird one to evaluate here. I am decent looking and always have been, but childhood experiences got me hella fucked up about talking to chicks all throughout HS. As a result, I would get IOIs and chicks would have crushes on me but I'd never game them, never escalate, graduated a kissless virgin. That was three years ago. My last year of HS I started watching a lot of RSD videos but not implementing it because I intuitively understood I couldn't change people's low value opinions of me fr…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:05 PM
2

Depends what the girls think of smart guys. Some think it's attractive, and some think smart = nerd. Think about where you're meeting these girls as context matters. For example, in your university class "your smart" probably means "I would fuck you" but if you're shirtless in a club fist-pumping and you get a girl saying "you're smart" she's just saying you look like a goob.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:35 PM
1

I fuck girls from my classes all the time.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:30 PM
2

I think LTRs can ask reasonable requests of you. For example, maybe my LTR writes a paper and she knows I'm a great writer so she asks me to review it before she turns it in--shit example because she explicitly does not do that, but I don't think that's too crazy. I'd ask her to help with something she's better than me at, too. Similarly, if I'm standing next to a plate, and she wants a plate for her food, and she says "pass the plate" I'm not saying no lol. But unreasonable tasks, yes, you shou…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:29 PM
3

Kinoing in class is autistic. I have fucked 4 girls from class, usually 1 per semester--never kino'd in a class. But about going for girls "above" you, yes, do that. Leagues are retarded. I'm a 6, maybe a 7--last night I had a threesome with two HB8s. Fuck your leagues.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:24 PM
2

I would not LTR this girl. I don't think anyone should. But do what you want. Maybe that's what you want--it sounds like it.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:23 PM
2

Go to parties where this isn't possible because the ratio is better. Duh. Girls don't want to fuck the dudes at sausage parties anyways
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:20 PM
1

Honestly, to say the opposite of what everyone here says, I say both are actually solid choices (depending on their age). Assuming they aren't so young that the girl with 5 flings had them in a single year and that the girl in a 5-year LTR isn't a 21 y/o whose whole life was a relationship, they're good. (The 21 y/o might still be good, but it's less evident--if you catch my drift). My reason being you want a girl who lacks experience. The one man girl hasn't experienced many guys, thus you will…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:58 PM
2

You can definitely turn girls off. Texting too much or saying something stupid is a good way to do that. Also, saying "hi" or "hello" to start is a good way to have the conversation go nowhere. Otherwise, though, talk about useless shit for a few messages than invite over. It works.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:39 PM
150

You do not know how right you are. Quick story: I once stayed in for a Friday night instead of partying because I had a lot of homework to do. A plate hit me up, and I declined because I was busy. Long story short after some pleading on her part I agreed to let her come over if she didn't bother me while I finished working. Like I said, I had a lot of homework. She waited in the corner of my room, silent, for 3 hours while I finished... then we fucked. To be honest I'm grateful to that girl beca…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 12:46 AM
205

Just make sure your girl puts out for you ASAP. If she isn't a virgin, we already know she did it for Chad. If she didn't do it for you, you're not her Chad.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 08:42 PM
2

I agree with the answer that basically says this is a slut in the making. Very true. At 20 rn and all of yesterday's makeout whores are today's whores. The only difference is what's acceptable changes based on your age. Disagree with everyone saying she's lying, though--but some of the make-outs definitely include BJs or HJs. I've literally heard girls refer to me and say "we only kissed" as I know the full story.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:16 PM
2

I think the real life interaction behind the text is more important--or in online dating case, your profile is. I generally just text maybe a joke or two to avoid seeming like I'm gunning straight for a hangout, then I'll set up the hangout. I actually avoid ever texting sexually because in my experience it knocks down things I could close irl more than it ever sets things up. Chicks don't want to feel like they're being invited over for a fuck (unless you've previously fucked) even if you're hi…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:38 PM
3

I think this was it. Though she's pretty slutty outside of that (the guy wouldn't have known that), she did only accept money for sex one time and has a BF now. I actually know the BF and feel bad that there's no chance he knows his "sweet little angel" has sold her body for money. He's pretty BP, though, so he might be one to say "what's in the past is in the past." Yeah, okay.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:36 PM
5

I don't really have that mind-blowing of a story other than that I personally know 4 girls who have accepted money for any combination of going on dates, sending nudes, etc. One HB5 I know even took $2000 to fuck a guy. I was kind of bewildered that she was worth that much to a guy--the thirst is real. The irony being the same chick gives it up to a ton of guys for free. Oh well. Alpha fucks, beta BUCKS. But yeah, I imagine I don't know every single girl that does this sort of thing--there's a s…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:19 PM
1

Just lighten up. Or adopt a good persona to fit the blankness of expression. I am very expressionless and my LTR does acting, so she's the opposite. How do I deal? I play to my strengths and developed a deadpan sense of humor that people think should have me as a comedian. You can be fun/alpha without expression.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:03 AM
2

I have always really, really wanted kids to be honest. That's why the country's current state gets me down now and then because I know it's an uphill battle. And about kids: I always had a couple goals. I want them to do better than me (I do pretty well), and I was going to help that happen by securing them good DNA and a stable household--a.k.a. I want a hot, smart, sociable LTR who I feel comfortable enough with my long-term prospects with to allow to carry my genes to the next generation. Wha…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:55 PM
51

There are at least 1,000 reasons this could have happened. He's secretly alpha outside of looks? He's rich and her beta? He's one of those (more common than you think) guys who pays for hot girls to go on dates with him to look cool? She thinks he's hot even though no one else does? The point is it could be literally anything, but more than anything I hope it just shows you that the concept of "leagues" is bullshit and you should shoot your shot.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:45 PM
1

Locking down two+ girls at once without celebrity status would be quite an incredible feat, haha. I have tried this admittedly and securing girl #2 is super hard. Needless to say I've yet to succeed, though I am only twenty, so hey, got another decade to try.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:34 PM
3

Can attest--LTR has said she hates that it's true but she's into the idea of me fucking other people and has even wanted to watch. She often will say that she hates that she loves me because I'm "bad" but she can't help it. I also am almost never shittested. So, yeah, very true here.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:24 PM
1

You're right--plenty would break up. Some, however, would not--and it definitely creates tingles in all.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:19 PM
1

Probably closer to 8. Anyways to answer your last question, there is no point in having an LTR. She's just a chick I like to fuck, like to hang out with, and wouldn't want fucking another guy. I call it an LTR here because it's a way for people to generally know what I mean, and I sometimes call her my GF irl because, again, society expects that. To each other, I openly say I see the idea as pointless and stupid and we don't call each other that. Labels are stupid, but the world loves them. So t…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:26 PM
5

My LTR is hot as fuck--obviously she receives attention from other men. Hasn't mattered thus far. So the entire rest of your post is pretty flawed because there is no "starting to receive attention from other men" because in any setting she goes in she's approached constantly already. I will literally be at a party, walk away for a couple minutes, and she will tell me a guy tried to hit on her while I was gone and she had to dismiss him. She chooses what she wants. Maybe one day what she wants w…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:05 PM
3

Do you have sex with other men too?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 05:49 PM
1

In the past 6-10 months or so I've fucked 4 girls off tinder, all HB6s though if i'm going to not inflate it. not sure if you'd want my opinion.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:43 PM
12

everyone here saying "she will fuck someone else" is speaking from inexperience. don't even read their comments. there is no reason to believe that that is the case, and tons of people get cheated on with monogamy too so how is it any different that a risk remains? anyways, i do this. fucked like 10 girls the last two years while also keeping an ltr. ltr, to my knowledge, hasn't fucked anyone. i really doubt she has, either. the easiest way to fuck other girls while with one is tinder, obviously…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:36 PM
1

fuck them
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:19 PM
2

Yes and no. I do fuck other girls, but usually only once--it's hard enough as it is keeping one-way open relationships going, so having straight up side chicks would only complicate things further, which I do not need. I get laid every day either way.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:11 PM
6

Like others said, dump. Giving clear signs she's not LTR worthy. I'm not sure what about her even brought value to you in the first place?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:10 PM
1

Add value. Be fun. Make people want to be around you.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:16 PM
0

Similar stats to me--I fuck but not a ton, did what you're trying to do and succeeded. Now have completely submissive HB8 who'll do threesomes and let me fuck others in our LTR, all while maintaining her original fun personality. It's worth it--trust me. You get an inflated rating with the girl, and new attention won't steal her away unless you utterly don't deserve her (read: nerdy SMV4 can't, but if you're a 7 like I think I am you can definitely manage an 8)
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:50 PM
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I did exactly this--30 pounds of weight loss by a chick inspired by me. It took a while to get her to do, and she was just a plate until she did, but she's also kept it off ever since (two years and counting). Here's what you need to do 1) Identify the source of fat. Is she a heavy drinker? That's calories. Eat when she's bored? Have a shitty metabolism? 2) Tell her that X activity would probably help her to lose weight if she stopped; or, that she should build a more active life to avoid bored …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:46 PM
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Looked up that girl--she has a nice body but her abs are pretty intense. I'd want less abs than that, to be honest--though I'd prefer that body to 95% of normal girls. My ideal body is probably what you'd cool a "skinny girl with a perky butt." Visible ab lines, feminine curves, perky boobs, and a firm-but-big ass are my "ideal" so it's not quite what that girl is but she is close. Admittedly your body is likely better than my LTRs, if it's like that girl, but not by much. Also, I would disagree…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:27 PM
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I am not sure what you look like in real life, but reading through this thread, I am just imagining a girl that is muscular and non-feminine. Sounds like your husband and some of his friends are into that--most people are not, and it is not because we are "too low SMV." Pro athletes are probably the highest SMV people in the US at least, and very few are with buff chicks. Do you look like Dan Blizerian's GF or like a bodybuilder? Bodybuilder look is unattractive--Dan Blizerian's girl is hot. But…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:00 PM
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LTR is only child. Sister was the first--I was 6 years later. I look good, better than my parents, but my sister was stunning. Your theory holds up well among this very small sample size.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:37 PM
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Like others said, parent beauty =/= child beauty. My parents are both average (though they aged well) and my sister in her prime was probably a HB8.5 and I'm less great looking but still pretty attractive. My LTR has straight up ugly parents, yet is very good-looking too. That said, yes, better looking partners will give you better looking kids on average--so do put SOME weight in it. Also feed your kids good food and not shit food--that's really going to be where you make the difference. I thin…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:25 PM
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My LTR had an enormous social circle compared to me when we started dating. She slowly gave it up because she spent more time hanging out with me and my friends--that's what tends to happen, either she loses the big social circle or you merge into it and it doesn't matter. In general, a big social circle can display a few different things. Social skills and ability to be likeable--she definitely had that. Also a need for external stimulation/validation--she had that when she was just my plate to…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:22 PM
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Boyfriend is a part-time McDonalds worker? Yeah, next. If he was striving for something else, that's one thing--does not seem to be the case. This sounds like a shitty life--think about the long-term. You don't want this. While hypergamy is bad, this goes beyond hypergamy to just staying with someone that's a time-waster. Raise SMV, find a better man to commit to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:18 PM
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Look for a guy that'll push for something like a one-way open relationship. My GF knows a little bit of TRP and agrees a man who'd agree to monogamy is making himself less attractive, but I never wanted to give her that. I have, however, given her a lot of attention and affection throughout our 2-year relationship. It's a good balance that keeps us fucking every day, but doesn't leave her feeling worthless as a person either.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:09 PM
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This is somewhat true in that I think people naturally prefer those who look like themselves--there's a whole lot in psychology about it. I am actually Mediterranean looking (greek) and have success with the girls you speak about. I, however, do not do as well with the "sorority looking" girls who look less like me. Still can pull them fine, but I do better with others if you catch my drift.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:03 PM
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A "skinny fat average girl" is not a 7. You are almost definitely not a 10. 10s (1) don't exist (2) get paid for their appearance most of the time and are approached by modeling agencies, etc. You also seem too old to be a 10. You've dating 7 years? You're probably at least 25, and a 10 being "perfection," there are no "perfect looking" 25 year olds. There will always be someone 18-22 and hotter. So, all in all, most of this just shows you have a way overinflated ego and may want to get that in …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:57 PM
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Some girls can still be okay looking while chubby. Bang those ones. Don't bang HB3s. As a bonus, plating a chubster can pay dividends if they ever lose weight--girls fluctuate weight more than you'd think. My current HB8 LTR started off as a HB5 chubster plate and lost 30 pounds and chiseled herself an ass. Very glad I fucked that chubster, haha.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:46 PM
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Yeah this happens--it happens to me still somewhat, and I know it limits me though I still do well just with the "freebie" girls. Basically anyone who isn't socially autistic can close an easy deal, but it takes game to flip the switch on a girl. Also, not sure how much pipe you're laying, but it can sometimes feel ehhhh to game girls on the fence because the ones who show the highest initial interest really are the ones you want anyways--they'll treat you better long-term. Source: one-way open …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:44 PM
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She's 21 in like a month. Also, good luck finding someone who's never had sex outside of an LTR in today's day. My requirement is that a girl put out quicker for me than for any others (and that casual sex is not a habit) and in this case both of those things are true. Besides, she has only had sex a few times overall that were not me, so her pair bond has been virgin-like. She's also very fun and we have a one-way open relationship, so I have no need to enforce some silly "only LTRs" rule.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:01 PM
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At the time I would have said HB6 but looking back at old nudes I skew closer to HB5--I think there's probably a comparison bias at play. It's also up for debate if she's even a HB8, but I find it hard to say less than a 7.5 And yeah, she kinda knows she'd have a hard time with pair bonding from now on. I fed her a sort of red pill-lite (avoiding terms and keeping things general) and she agrees. The main reason being that she knows I'm a good deal responsible for her change and that few guys cou…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:24 AM
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Entered the thread expecting to give typical advice of "dread, maybe soft next." Read what she said. Instant hard next--she is not into you. That is almost textbook what slutty girls tell beta males to avoid fucking them. Move on, improve yourself, she'll feel stupid she let you go.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:55 PM
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Surprisingly, I think a lot of girls would do it. You just have to work into it. Being monogamous and never checking a girl out in front of your LTR and then saying "can we be a one-way open relationship" is pretty jarring and would cause issues obviously. On the other hand, starting by, for example, during sex mentioning you wanting her to see you fuck another girl... then in public maybe pointing a girl out and saying "wouldn't you love to see me rail a chick like that?" and then ACTUALLY prop…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:28 PM
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I think it's strong to say ALL LTRs are a failure to men. If a woman adds more than she takes, I do not see where the failure is. My LTR allows me to fuck other women, helps me to fuck other women, and is hot as fuck and down to do whatever I want whenever I want wherever I want sexually. When that becomes a failure, please let me know. Temporary? Quite possibly--but something ending does not mean it failed. It is not like her walking away would cost me any more than losing access to what she gi…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:20 PM
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I was in my freshman year of college, nowhere near being a pussy destroyer yet--honestly, I was kind of beta still and a bit socially awkward. I met a HB5 chunker who had a pretty face in a random class I didn't need, and she approached me first. Exhibited high interest and good social skills for a girl. Had a fraternity date party a month or so later, and being that I was shit with women at the time, my first two options curved me. Then I hit this girl up, and we went together--hit it off decen…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:10 PM
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This is retarded. You, quite literally, got what you asked for. Now next her and move on. ​ Oh, and next time, if you want to fuck other chicks while dating one... try a one-way open relationship! You should know that double standards are perfectly okay--you don't have to give her that option just because you want it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:55 PM
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Do you happen to go to a Big Ten University? If so, I think I heard this story already in real life--funny enough. If not, it's funny as fuck that I heard almost the exact same story with a chick with the same name the other day.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 04:38 PM
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I would like this as well. You sound like the man.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 04:29 PM
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My boundaries are, generally, that a chick cannot drink or do drugs without me in attendance (exceptions being like alone with her best female friend or with her parents at dinner or something). She cannot flirt with other men or take their phone #s or hang out with them, text or snap them--things like that. She also has to stay in shape, no getting chunky. Otherwise, I don't really give a fuck about anything--things I see talked about here like "disrespect in public" just don't happen to me bec…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:56 PM
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Everything is an exchange of value. Alpha men inherently have high value, so they trade very little else other than just being around them to receive women's value, sex. On the other hand, beta men have low inherent value so they must compensate for that, which is why they will have to give a level of commitment to secure that women. The more beta and less alpha you are, the more commitment you will have to provide in order to acquire sex. These days, however, commitment is not very valuable amo…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:41 PM
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/serious but fr this is the redpill i think i'd kind of be an embarrassment around here if it was only open for her lmao
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:46 PM
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obviously she's the one fucking dudes while i watch cuz i'm a faggot and i'd never touch another woman while in a relationship thats disrespectful
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:46 PM
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If she fucks another guy while she's your plate, she is only a plate. A girl needs to be exclusive to you while you are not to her at the start, to prove herself. If she's out fucking hella guys, she's not proving that she could be a good monogamous partner for you--in fact, she's proving the opposite, that she is inclined to have sex with more than one man at once.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:44 PM
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As another said, catch and release. I do that on tinder a lot--work a convo, schedule date, flirt, then flake. Real life catch and release is a little more difficult, but I often will dance or flirt with chicks and then not close intentionally. I am actually in a one-sided open relationship, but I still catch and release at times just because chicks below HB7 don't really get me hard anymore and at that point I would just rather fuck my LTR
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:36 PM
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Oh, I'd easily bang more than that. Probably 1 out of 3 or so I'd bang. But my standards to date or FWB are much higher--and that's the 1 out of 10 or so.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 09:12 PM
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Don't marry--it gets you nothing. Find a chick willing to stay with you despite not marrying because that's the chick who really loves you. An LTR is fine though. I am in one myself and I am 20. I'm in mine because the chick is hot as fuck, super fun, does 3somes and lets me fuck other chicks, and also has a low n-count. I have her in my life because she adds value and will continue to do so--can you say the same?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:14 PM
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A HB8 vaginal virgin? Lol you have another species on your hands. Worrying about her 2 'encounters' is insane. My LTR HB8 has an n-count of 3, and I consider her to be a pretty high quality women. I hardly know any chicks 6+ with n-counts below 3, and I am only 20 years old.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:01 PM
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This trope is very widely-believed, but I don't think it plays out in real life. Maybe Harvard deters good-looking girls, but the school I go to attracts wealthy students (because they're well-educated as were their parents) and also students looking to party (Big 10) which is a lot of hot girls. Compare this to the girls you will find in, say, Tennessee and I'd bet that my school is better. That said, I think somewhere like Arizona State is much better looks-wise than my school... but Arizona S…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:32 PM
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Plates, technically, are just for fucking. By that strict definition, I have only ever had a couple plates. I just tend to like doing a little more with them.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:01 PM
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Following this model, isn't the best theoretical deal that nice ass used car with low mileage? You don't have to pay top dollar for it like you would brand new, but you still get almost all of the same functionality out of it, and realistically, since no new car stays new anyways, it's going to become almost indistinguishable from the new car soon. Assuming, of course, it truly is as lightly used as it's advertised to be.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:56 PM
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To steal from buddhism, try for the Middle Way I don't actually remember what the Middle Way was, but here's what I did: Found a HB5 with potential (chunkiness held her down), fucked her night 1 because feminism and liberation. She starts to fall for me after more sex. Her n-count was reasonably low (3) because her chunkiness kept alphas away. Anyways, she trusts me because I'm alpha and she isn't. I'm also a very good "father figure" mentor type even to male friends, so I have experience being …
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:49 PM
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My policy has always been that I treat it a little bit differently. A ONS from a classmate? Fuck no. A longterm plate who may last as long as the class does? Why not. Make friends with a classmate, invite her out, and fuck her friend? Do it. You have options, just the whole "hit it and quit it" is probably a bad idea in this setting.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:14 PM
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A. By a plate really wanting to LTR me, and her accepting my terms in order to do so. Definitely helps a former LTR of hers cheated on her (open infidelity is definitely a step up) and that she was a little chubby when I first plated her but she got fit and hot af while she was my plate but had already grown attached to me and formed the opinion that my SMV is much higher than hers. B. If by "having her own fun" you mean cheating, then that's the problem in any LTR. I don't know that she's not. …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:01 PM
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Um, teach her yourself.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:38 PM
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I couldn't talk to a girl in HS without feeling a ton of anxiety. I didn't have my first kiss until after HS--fuck, I probably only hugged a girl like once. I had a few friends and spent most weekends alone. I didn't go to any Proms. I orbited a couple different chicks I liked for full years before determining they didn't like me and moving on (funny enough: the first chick turned out to be a lesbian.) Wanted a fresh start, got one in college. I spammed approaching chicks when I first got to col…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:36 PM
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TRP is a tool-set and not a belief system--there is a difference. Because it isn't a belief system, it can't tell you whether a life choice is correct or not. That said, a lot of TRP is based on evolutionary principles and the like, and your biological imperative is to reproduce (not to have sex--but to actually reproduce). And I think we all feel that drive to a degree, which is why I personally want to reproduce for sure.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:40 PM
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One plate is a GF
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:14 PM
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I'm in a one-way open relationship, and the rules are basically limited to "don't legitimately have a second LTR"
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:08 PM
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Checking in to agree with the guy you are debating as well. I have had an LTR for 2 years, and we lived together for 2 months over Summer. In that two months we probably fucked 90 times. Normally we don't live together though, and in an average week that we don't live together, we still probably fuck 10+ times, albeit 5 days of the week instead of 7.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 12:09 AM
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Same situation checking in. HB8 Main LTR, she comes out with me to my Frat parties sometimes so the regulars see me with her and know I fuck, other times I go out solo and profit. I also have pics of her eye fucking me on my Tinder and other dating apps. It's a nice life.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 11:56 PM
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Just go my route and only participate in one-way open relationships. You maintain full ability to branch swing yourself, and you fully get to fuck other chicks. If your chick happens to cheat on you? Well you've been doing it openly all along anyways so who cares. And if she doesn't? Well then enjoy living like a king.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:47 PM
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Hmm. This is actually interesting for me to think about. I, too, tend to do better with hotter chicks yet I also feel unnatural gaming chicks below a 7 because anything below a 7 can't put me in a sexual mood. Your explanation that they see you as uninterested makes sense, and in a way, they are not wrong (at least in terms of me)
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:42 PM
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I'm 5'9" and my HB8 LTR is 5'8". The two other hottest chicks I've fucked were like 5'6" and 5'11". Personally I prefer girls that are near my own height, and I don't think much about height in general. I think that, if you are unaffected by it, any height above a girl's is fine. I think the heights of girls I've been with is just a coincidence as it makes no sense; if anything, taller chicks would still want to feel small so they'd seek taller guys. Yours is probably just coincidence too--don't…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:40 PM
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Been in a two year LTR with a HB8, fuck her on demand twice a day, openly have side bitches, have done threesomes, have done all sorts of kinky sex from anal to... you get the point. Any time she acts out of line for what you want, cut back the attention. Be ruthless. Assuming you're monogamous unlike me, tell her stories of a girl flirting with you or if you're feeling really risky tell her a girl made a move on you but you rejected her--doesn't have to be real, but you have to sell it and also…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:36 PM
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I agree AskTRP is pretty next-happy. I will fully admit that if I posted all details of my two-year long LTR I could easily get people to say "next that bitch." At the same time, I could write a post and leave out all the AskTRP triggers and get a post calling me the ultimate alpha. Obviously, neither is true--I'm somewhere between the two. Life isn't black and white. And that's why you shouldn't always take this sub so literally. If I took this sub at face value, I would have nexted my HB8 LTR …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:27 PM
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Per request, gave it a google. Height: 6'2" Good facial aesthetics (difficult to upload a picture and say "this is it"--but I doubt you're hitting top 5% without genetics N count: 13 @ 20 years old, can't find good data for any older than that Income: $79,000/year at 25 years old Good social skills should also be required. Again, difficult to quantify. Things like max bench I think should also be relevant. There's obviously no data on that. Just by looking around, though, most people don't lift-…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 11:18 PM
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I go to a Big Ten University, and I come from a wealthy East Coast area. Most chicks are just not hot if you look at the total population.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:55 PM
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I just ran the #s out of curiosity. Not sure I trust this website. Apparently a chick who's had sex with 3 guys at 21 and a chick who's had sex with 3 guys at 35 are only 10 percentile points apart... a.k.a. this calculator is trying to say that four fifths of the girls who have 3 partners at 21 do not ever have another partner. Yeah, okay. Or maybe the dark AWALT meaning is that low partner count girls all partner up, and the available sluts are bad options. But I'm going to go with that the ca…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 06:19 PM
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I know. What I'm saying is that there are not 3 hot chicks; therefore, being top 20% is not enough because two dudes are still better than you, and they're the ones getting the actual hot chick.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 06:07 PM
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I agree that only counting appearance is flawed, but for me it has to be the #1 consideration. If I'm just fucking this chick, I want a chick who has me rock hard and full of lust--that's a hot bitch, not a "good" one. And if I'm dating a chick, I want a chick who's going to give my kids the best chance to succeed, a.k.a. superior DNA. That is also a hot bitch. You see, either way looks are the most important thing for a chick. That said, I wouldn't date a cunt just because she's hot--that's not…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:02 PM
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Yeah, that was a typo. Lol
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 04:56 PM
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Being completely honest, I am kind of bad at sex. I still have a lot of it. Here's the trick: turn it into a strength. I verbally dominate chicks because I'm witty and confident. Myself and my hot as fuck LTR had a running joke about me sexually, that I reminded her of if James Bond was having sex. Because Bond is unemotional and probably just does missionary, but he's also baller as fuck so you know he expects to fuck a lot of chicks, a lot of HOT chicks, and expects THEM to put in effort to pl…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:31 PM
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I actually bring plates around chicks I want to fuck intentionally for preselection purposes. Actually, I have one chick who for whatever reason won't put out for me, but she's a HB6-7 and hangs all over me every time she drinks at all, so for that reason, I still invite her out because she literally demonstrates such high attraction to me that chicks approach me all the time with her around. The irony being she won't even fuck me (she has a BF--definite BB but could be at fault here), but that …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:25 PM
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Someone with experience telling a gf you fucked other chicks checking in. You need to hold frame here. "I'm just a guy, and if (name drop some BB unattractive fag you know) had girls that wanted to fuck him, he'd do it too. It's our biology as men." And then explain that you still "love" her (you do I assume) and that the sex was just a natural urge, and basically meaningless. If you're lucky, like I was, holding this "sex doesn't matter to men, but commitment does" frame will lead you to the ma…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:23 PM
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I think if you ever enter an LTR that you're lying to yourself if you try to be "outcome independent" and non-mateguarding totally insecurity free 100%. The chick knows it's a front--she's your only source of pussy. You are still very likely to feel impulses to mate guard even if you deny them. I am in a one-way open relationship, which means my chick isn't my only pussy source, yet I still feel inclinations to mate guard. The key is to act on them appropriately. For me, that was setting boundar…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:10 PM
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I still maintain that top 20% is a low goal. Look around you: how hot truly is a top 20% female? Even in my college years rn when girls are supposedly peaking and have the most value relative to their same age male counterparts, I would not want my match to be one in five chicks. If a class of mine has 15 chicks, only one is going to actually be hot--if I'm only better than 80% of the males in that class, I have no shot to get the hot chick. Be better than top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:05 PM
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I'm in college, so 18-22 (and I prefer the lower end of that scale.) I don't plan to raise that number after college, though--I will just have fewer options or try to continue dating in the same age range.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:51 PM
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The easy solution here is to just approach when this happens, unless you're a pussy. Bonus points if you call the girl over to you instead.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:37 PM
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Difficult to gauge because she's not often around other HB8s. For what it's worth, a HB6 plate of mine recently was hanging all over me at a party and a HB8 later approached me. So I'd imagine that my much hotter LTR could warrant hot chicks as well.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 07:37 PM
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Personally I like an n-count under 5 excluding me (difficult to ascertain, but worth the investment imo) I like fun, hot, and good constant sex too Basically, I want a girl who makes me feel like I'm a G by being hot enough to draw admiration, submissive enough to show I'm not a pussy whipped bitch who doesn't deserve her, and wholesome/pure enough (low N) that I don't worry too much about the constant attention a chick like this is sure to receive. Also, she has to be fun--fuck bland and boring…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 07:03 PM
1

Last American Virgin
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:59 PM
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Mentally move on, say nothing but try to bang other chicks. It's only been six months--my 2-year LTR still has yet to decline sex, ever. This chick just is not into you, bro--and that's coming from a guy who doesn't click every post to type "next."
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:43 PM
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Personally I really love banging hot girls as opposed to girls I feel "eh" about. But otherwise, I think that sex generally gets better the more you have it with a certain chick and she learns what you like. At least for me. Seldom do I have a good ONS sex experience that goes anything beyond public sex--with longer term plates or LTRs, though, I've done many really kinky things, lol.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:39 PM
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I'm in a one-way open relationship with a HB8--not exactly a "model," but definitely a chick the average bloke would fawn over. I'm also in a decent fraternity at a big state university, and my LTR sometimes comes to parties with me and sometimes doesn't. When she's around, girls (who are almost invariably less hot than her) won't go anywhere near us. It's almost like they know that she's better than them, and I wouldn't even give them a shot while she's around because her SMV is much higher. Wh…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:32 PM
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Hot girls are just people (though heavily socialized people) so they're going to be a mixed bag without a uniform rule. Some are very nice and sweet like other girls. Some are enormous cunts. It's really hit or miss, though I would say one thing all have in common is the ability to bat away guys they are uninterested in (read: 99% of men) because they've likely been doing it their whole life, and many of these guys they reject are pretty alpha.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:37 PM
1

I'm in a one-way open relationship and agree with the other comment here. It's going to be really fuckin' hard to open up an exclusive relationship--I would not even try that. On the other hand, I am in a de-facto one-way open relationship because my LTR didn't fuck other guys but I made it clear I still wanted to fuck other girls and, over time, neither of us budged so we just ended up this way.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:37 PM
2

What you're saying seems like a roundabout way of saying that it does matter to SMV but viewing it weirdly. In your theory where game "applies" SMV (which I do agree with--tbh) you could frame it as "My SMV is 10, and my game allows me to apply 0% (no game) or 100% (good game)..." or you could say game multiplies or divides from existing SMV to create the "final" SMV--basically, SMV 10 x 0 game = 0 SMV, or SMV 10 x perfect game = SMV10. Realistically, I always viewed getting girls like selling a…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:34 PM
1

As far as I see it, why not? Don't bother a chick if she's uninterested and it could somehow hurt your rep, but otherwise, if you shoot enough half court shots some are bound to go in. But you'll hit more shots if you're shooting more closer to the hoop, if you catch my drift.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:52 PM
1

You mean, concurrently? If so, that has very interesting implications on her comment.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 02:14 PM
4

What you said is exactly my point. "If a guy wants me to do all this shit for him, be fancy enough that I'm impressed and want to." Well, why would I ever want to date you if I was anything besides that to you? I don't want to be your BB. Also, a dude may not find out certain elements of your past or he might--depends who you both know in common and how much you share with him, whether on accident or on purpose. And that's great your BF feels that way--good for him. Personally, I find it disresp…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 01:57 PM
1

Why not? I say do it--also, why settle at a BJ? You have more cash than that.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:22 PM
1

Yeah, in my experience the only thing that holds true across many (possibly all--I don't know) cases is that the chick doesn't move on. And by doesn't move on, I don't mean she doesn't get with or date other men--I mean that the door is still open for that Alpha even if she does. As in, if she has her steady BB, one text is likely to have her questioning how important her fidelity to that BB really is (it isn't to her)
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:19 PM
1

Assuming you mean after you cut contact with her, a lot of different things can happen. She might hook up with a bunch of guys, trying to equal the feeling of one great man with many lesser ones. She might be turned off of men for a bit, thinking the rest are unworthy. It's kind of unpredictable in my experience--basing this off of people that I know and not myself because it's a little egotistical to say "I alpha widow'd that chick."
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:08 PM
5

This year my class schedule had a 10AM every morning while my LTR's classes were all later. So, when she'd sleep over on weeknights, often times after I left my apartment and before she did she would make my bed very nicely and write a note on it for me to find later. It was really sweet, and I always really liked it. Also, when she'd hang out with her friends they'd often go thrift shopping. She knows that I love sports jerseys but they're pricey, so she'd often sift through for my size, go to …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 11:03 PM
1

Just keep chugging along and eventually you'll fuck a hot girl by accident. When you do, you'll set that as your new standard and then girls worse than her will be easy to talk to. The best way to do it, imo.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:53 PM
3

I meant that you don't need to constantly seek out sex partner after sex partner. It's okay to just chill with 2 or 3 plates spinning at a time. Some guys here have N-counts in the triple digits--I highly doubt I'll ever reach that because it's not my goal and seems like nothing more than ego stroking or pointless pursuit of temporary pleasure that brings nothing of value back to you.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:47 PM
11

Man here. I've been in a relationship for a while now, so it's been a while since I had to think about how soon I expect sex. Personally, I've always gone by the standard that the faster a girl puts out for me the more she must be into me because I am college aged and most girls put out quickly for SOMEONE--it should be me. 3 dates max. If I weren't college-aged, I'd maybe up that limit to 5. I just am not going to spend time on a girl who isn't willing to have sex with me, to be honest. The ver…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 01:31 PM
0

I would err towards not telling her. I am in a one-way open relationship, and early on, I told her about the other girls. Did not go well. Miraculously managed to do some damage control and maintain the same relationship dynamic, but it's now known that she does not want to know unless I intend on it being a threesome dynamic of some sort.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:14 PM
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Then screen and find a girl in the 10% who you do get along with. Contrary to popular belief here, you don't need to fuck a million chicks to be "alpha." I suffer this too to a large degree and off-set it by spinning fewer girls but spinning the ones I spin for longer because we vibe better. Also, part of what you describe is getting to know each other--you don't know what you have in common yet, so it's hard to have a deep conversation. My former LTR and I had an incredibly normal first few con…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:00 AM
2

No, don't admit this. I told a plate that I had been a virgin when we started a long time into her platehood, thinking I was safe because it no longer mattered and was more funny to me. She broke soon after. I don't think it was a coincidence.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:00 PM
9

Have done 3somes with my LTR, wasn't baited or switched on. As far as I know, she's been loyal the entire time. I'm not sure why people would screen out a straight chick who'd have fun with another chick with you--I saw it as her being submissive to what I wanted, and if I'm going to date a chick, I want one who is willing to give me the things that I desire.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:22 AM
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I'll say this one because it's often overlooked here: being a genuinely fun time to have around. This one is very rare for girls, but I once had an LTR who was a good time (other flags caused this relationship to sink) and man, it was amazing. I saw more of the world and experienced more things than I would have if I were single for that year and a half, and ever since then it's made me realize how much the fun factor should really be valued. No, don't try to make a hoe a housewife because a lot…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:40 AM
2

Haha, I dealt with the "you used to be bluepill shit tests" by not living where I lived when I was bluepill. Granted, I took my senior year of HS to monk mode and learn girls/pickup/lifting so that when I started college (always intended to go far away) I'd be ready to go... but I was very glad to be away from them all. You don't even understand how funny feeling it is to me when I had to spend a summer back where I came from after my freshman year of college (junior now.) I instantly went from …
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:00 PM
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To snapchat a guy who lives 4,000 miles away now but went to her HS, whose current LTR is a HB4, and who only banged my LTR because she was a HB4 too before she lost 30 pounds and became a HB8 between then and when I met her... I am SURE she went through that much trouble to keep contact. Stop being such an insecure faggot and giving this place a bad name.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:57 PM
1

Just read it--yeah, pretty similar to my situation. I was just straight up about it (and got a little shit because I do keep in contact with a girl or two that I've fucked, but it felt different so that was no valid excuse to me) and he was deleted soon thereafter and the event was never spoken of again. I'd imagine she'll ditch the guy if she cares about your relationship too. Communication is okay in an LTR as long as you go about it in a non-needy/beta way. (I.E. don't say "I am not one to to…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:08 AM
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My LTR used to snapchat an old FWB / the guy who took her virginity in a group, not even individually--hadn't spoken to him or seen him in a couple years. I told her that keeping contact with people she's had sex with is inappropriate in a relationship, and she left that group. For what it's worth, my LTR has gone pretty well. So at least in some cases just being direct and saying you're not about it is fine.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:31 PM
1

This sounds dope. I've only done one threesome, and it was because me and an LTR tag-team gamed a girl and then did it. It was a chick who'd offered sex to me in the past, so I knew she was into fucking me. So, at a party, I sent my LTR to talk to her and broach the topic of hooking up with "a random guy" together--she then obviously picked me, her "really cool and hot friend." And then the girl agreed, and I literally did nothing all night to make it happen except follow two girls into a room a…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 02:18 PM
2

I've actually thought about this a lot myself. I am in a one-way open relationship, and the chick is amazing--so I've thought about this from the standpoint that I could make a smoother relationship, reproduce with her eventually, and have a better long-term goal than continuously making waves by fucking other chicks. In my scenario, the two are pitted against each other just like in yours. So, what have I determined? I determined that the other sex is honestly pretty worthless. If you're ever h…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 01:44 PM
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RP and RPW are kind of exclusive communities--as in, the opinions here exclude and contradict the opinions of the majority of people out there. So, you want relationship success? And you're 20? Honestly, I doubt very many people at all would bat an eye if your N-count was 3 or less (blowjobs count.) People have sex today--that's reality. Meanwhile, if a guy wants to date you, he's going to want to fuck you too. Very few men who actually have SMV are content to date a girl for years and not have …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 01:20 PM
1

Depends. This question is kind of loaded as there's more pros and cons than you've listed here to each side. I would consider myself a "learned" Alpha (more realistically: high Beta), and I'm not sure that knowing is to my benefit. If anything, it makes me kind of cynical in a way that naturals rarely are. Then again, it may save me future trauma, so it may be worth it. It also might not be. So I don't think either is inherently better than the other, to be honest. A lot of learned Alphas revert…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 10:34 PM
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Those who are successful young also become successful old. Yes, the frat star turned 25 y/o dad bod exists, but that's far less common than the 18 y/o forever alone virgin being a 25 y/o forever alone virgin... or if he's lucky, having a shitty wife or girlfriend by then who uses him as BB.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 08:36 PM
1

I don't know about this thread. I'm only a generous 5'9" yet my LTR is 5'9"and my hottest non-LTR bang was 5'11". I'm not even jacked at all--165, 15% bodyfat--yet can pick either up effortlessly, and that's been enough to please both of them. Honestly, I prefer girls my own height. It's helpful too because I'm on the shorter side yet always have done well because of decent facial aesthetics, so having kids with a tall chick would hopefully create a 6'2" Chad. Short chicks feel like weird childr…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:59 PM
1

Circumcision is bad, but for those of us who cannot undo it, take some comfort in the fact that many men who are circumcised as adults say sex afterwards is relatively similar. The non-scientifically studied hypothesized reasoning is that, if you don't have a foreskin, you can't feel it anyways--but you can feel what you do have. And you may have less nerves in what you do have, but those nerves are concentrated in a smaller area, so they're stimulated to reach a similar level of pleasure. There…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:54 PM
2

The anti-marriage sentiment largely comes from the fact that men get nothing out of marriage. As in, you cannot name a single benefit that results from marriage that could not be had without it besides small tax breaks. And those tax breaks pale in comparison to what you stand to lose if you divorce. You do not get a virgin wife, you do not get promised fidelity, you are not guaranteed to be together forever, but you could lose half of the things that you worked for to her. Not a good deal. I ha…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:42 PM
1

I've run into this problem too, doubly so because I advocate against it based on it being a tempting scenario... yet I maintain my own ability to fuck other girls, so she can EASILY argue back that I'm being hypocritical allowing myself temptation but not her. My solution? I just accept being hypocritical. When she calls me on it, I say that, yes, I am a hypocrite--but I'm a hypocrite that she's attracted to and will obey ;). I normally try to turn any argument I don't want to engage in into som…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 12:14 AM
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My Mom often says she chose my Father because he was "nice." He's really just fully BP and worships her--not once in my life have I overheard them having sex or even being remotely sexual. I wonder why.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 12:05 AM
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This sounds good in theory, but as we all know sometimes theories don't hold up in practice. This theory, however, does. I am very Beta with my LTR yet very Alpha too, and I've managed a 2-year one-way open LTR by doing so. I actually plan to make a post on it soon.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 09:13 PM
1

Well, currently I am in a one-way open LTR. This dynamic causes some problems for the girl I am dating, but I want my cake and I want to eat it too, so I do it. That's what I was referring to.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:51 PM
1

Actually, the post won't post because I have little karma. Gotta go out now though, but expect it up tomorrow.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:45 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/94nux5/how_i_got_into_a_oneway_open_relationship/ Posted as its own thread.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:22 AM
1

My Mom is the definition of AWALT, and I honestly don't know a single woman who more clearly illustrates the desire to pursue AF/BB and settle post-wall than her. My Mom loved "muscular bad boys" in her teens and early 20s, and "dated" "at least a few of them." After years, she had the "realization" that she was not "compatible" with these men, but instead, needed a "nicer" man who would "treat her right." This nicer man was my father, and he was in her friendzone for months--almost a year--befo…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:51 PM
1

Haha, thanks. That would make sense as I definitely display traits of both Alpha and Beta, but my LTR is very good--probably better than many with less Beta. I think what I've basically done is, rather than imagining A/B like a balance where you have to be 50/50 or some other combo, I'm just very Alpha and very Beta at the same time. I think it's hard for a chick to see a man who can pull a 3some for her pretty quickly as a Beta, so when I act Beta despite being able to do things like that, it p…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:02 PM
2

I find women with bigger breasts to be more promiscuous. So naturally, a girl who wasn't born with them but sought out to have fake boobs would tend to be more promiscuous too.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:38 AM
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Not only is this cuck 101, it's also a testament to why LTRing a girl who drinks is bad news.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:13 PM
2

Lmao, this is kind of funny. I think most girls have fantasized about being Double Teamed or read or watched porn about it. I also think most girls have not and will not be double teamed in their lives. Don't judge your own LTR on sexual preferences or she won't want to share them with you because you'll make her feel dirty and not in the good way...
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:12 PM
7

It's best if they don't know one way or the other.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:07 PM
2

Like others said, let her break the silence first.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:07 PM
2

My eventual LTR ditched a concert because she really, really wanted to go on the first date that I invited her to and being that I was busy, when she asked if another time was convenient for me, I said no. I didn't learn this until later, but when I did, I was like "Wow. She really wanted me." She also put out very quickly (and I've verified that wasn't the norm for her--only happened one other time. Her n-count besides me is 2.) She also did not decline a single invitation to hang out for the f…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:05 PM
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I have no successful relationship examples, unfortunately. But I do have two unsuccessful ones! Unsuccessful #1: My parents My Mom is the boss, the dominant one in the household. She makes my Dad her bitch. My sister has commented on it, my sister's husband dislikes my parents because of it, and I have commented on it. It's quite funny because my Mom was 30 when she met my dad, who was in her friendzone for "months upon months" before she "gave him a chance" because "she didn't know he wanted to…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 10:55 PM
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It's pretty simple. Pair bonding is the term for how the body releases oxytocin when it is stimulated by the opposite sex (or giving birth.) It's released during all activities that stimulate you with the opposite sex, including hugging and kissing, but it is most intense during orgasm by quite a bit. Additionally, while oxytocin is not a limited chemical in your body, it does become more difficult to produce the more that has been produced. In other words, if a chick has 10 different guys give …
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:16 PM
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Your list seems solid. The one thing I might want to add that I've found beneficial in my LTR (monogamous only on her part) is to screen for high interest in you. You really want a chick who wants YOU. It makes everything else much easier.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:01 PM
1

You overcome it over time, not at once. Always make an effort to do better, be better, and over time it won't be effort anymore. It'll just be you.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:54 PM
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Well, personally I honestly can't game much at smaller parties where everybody knows me because I have a one-way open relationship, and it isn't a secret. So, mixers are difficult for me. Girls WILL fuck you fully knowingly that you have a GF, but it can't be thrown in their face. True story: my instagram clearly shows me having a GF, but nowhere does it say "I love you" or "this is my GF" type of things. So, I fucked a girl (virgin, actually--my first cherry pop) from a class of mine who actual…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:52 PM
1

Interesting. Well, he must be a huge Chad because I've personally never met anyone--let alone a 16 y/o--who wasn't an athlete in college or the pros or a fraternity brother and who fucked in abundance true 7+ girls. Hell, even a lot of college athletes I know sink down to 6s regularly. But yeah, if you know the guy and know this is all true, he is a mega-Chad.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:47 PM
1

PSL scale is a really harsh scale for appearance that tries to be objective--in my opinion it's useful to rate people against each other, but the # itself is always a point or 2 lower than it should be. But yeah, I'm in college--upcoming junior in a fraternity at a huge college. It's a nice set-up, I do recommend it.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:43 PM
1

Yeah, I think I could see this realistically happening. Cheers.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:40 PM
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I don't have any links because it happened naturally, and it was never a goal for me--so I didn't need a link because I was already doing it. In my case, she was a plate that I started spinning, and at the time, she was a HB5 and I was--let's say--a HB7 maybe. I tend to think of myself as a 7 these days, so let's go with that. Anyways, the reason she was only a 5 is that she was chunky--I pointed this out one time, that she would be super hot if thin--and being that she's a quality girl who appr…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:58 PM
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Yeah, I mean, this doesn't mean a ton to me because I scale primarily based on face. For reference, these are some chicks I'd call 7s, maybe 8s: (removed links for privacy purposes) Your friend fucks a lot of these girls? He must be a fucking savage. I actually hooked up with one of the girls I linked (not saying which, not trying to dox myself), and the girls I linked represent some of the hottest girls I've met in real life outside of the two 9s I know... I would say very, very few guys are re…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:48 AM
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Haha, I never had anxiety with men--just with girls, also with adults for a while. I'd try to help you get over it, but I don't know--I think I just got over it over time. Just try to gain experience, and it'll fade away.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:37 AM
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Actually, yes. Though honestly, I don't know that my SMV was ever actually low because I started scoring pretty quickly after I started trying, but in high school, I had terrible anxiety around girls so I never talked to them. But when I first started, and succeeded, I'd often be confident in the moment and then think later "What the fuck happened? She went for me? Funny, I must have tricked her with my game--I'm a faggot." But as it kept happening, it became less of this crazy phenomenon and mo…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:12 AM
1

Biggest tip: don't oversaturate the amount of time you spend together. Keep your own lives as much as possible. Familiarity kills attraction.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:21 PM
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Obviously, yes. You may often be disqualified if the age gap is big, or you may take a hit to your SMV--but not always. Some like it, some don't mind. Also, your friend didn't fuck "loads of 9s." I have met two 9s in my life. Your scale needs to be adjusted.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:19 PM
1

The SMV of the most attractive group of girls who would date you is your SMV. You can fuck girls a little less attractive than them with relative ease, and you can date girls in that group now and then. Otherwise, it's hard to say.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:15 PM
1

Personally, I couldn't do this. It's against my biology--I want to be the only one getting inside my girl. Simultaneously, I want to get inside other girls because I'm a man. I've told my LTR this, and she's fine with it--she does give me shit sometimes for it, though. She's exclusive to me. We have a unique situation though. She was a chubby HB5 with a nice face when we met and I plated her, and I got her in the gym and trained her, got her a nice ass, and got her pretty face to shine through, …
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:12 PM
1

Thinking girls are out of your league is kind of autistic thinking, to be honest--and I really hate saying that because it's a dickish thing and all the dickish AskTRP commenters grind the shit out of my gears. The amount of HB7 and HB8 chicks I know who have hooked up with or LTR'd a guy who clearly has less SMV is pretty high. The girl didn't think his SMV was less. SMV is very fluid and subjective, not stagnant and objective--girls don't judge you the way that you judge you. For reference, I …
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:51 PM
1

I know TRP hates on girls who go out, but the age of the girls you're referring to matter too honestly. During college, I don't think there's many girls who don't go out that you'd want to be around for extended periods of time--they're those shy as fuck, quiet, holier-than-thou, prissy types. I have a feeling people on TRP like those girls, but I hate them personally. And at college age, a lot of girls go out a lot and keep their N count fairly low as in 5 and below. But if a chick is 25 and st…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:46 PM
2

The meaning of life is something you have to create for yourself, and once you do, keep it. Me personally, I like to learn about everything, see everything, and understand everything. I like knowing what people do and why they do it, which is what drew me to TRP originally. But that's me--so you have to find your own mission.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:42 PM
2

Everyone here is focusing on the fact that you used the word "loyalty" and not that your diction clearly shows you don't expect true loyalty by the inclusion of "some semblance of." Don't worry, that's not lost on me. Anyways, since everyone else is shitting on you: I will help you out. Yes and no. You will have higher SMV than the girl, and her options won't be what they were when she was younger. But she may think of you as Beta because you're coming along to commit to her, too. I think that t…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:38 PM
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This man sounds like he knows what he's talking about. Listen to him. I can tell you are not a keyboard warrior, which, as you rightly pointed out, is what a large majority of those on AskTRP are. Also wanted to point out, too--what is a HB8 35 year old? Haha. Not being a dick, maybe our preferences are different--I just almost never see a woman above 30 and think "hot damn," unless you mean she's a HB8 compared to other 35 year olds. For reference though, I am 20.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:35 PM
2

Stfu and stop e-statting lol. I probably pull more than you do in real life. Everyone on here tries so hard to seem cool online, jfc. I asked a simple question--your other suggestions are unwelcome
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:18 AM
0

Gee, wow, would have never thought! Thank you for this wisdom.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:23 PM
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Stupid response, downvoted. I used to have like 200 matches every few months--I didn't suddenly get ugly lol tinder stopped showing me to people.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:22 PM
2

I see. I like this answer. Upvoted.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:54 AM
1

I see and definitely take actions over words in this situations. So if actions are more important than words, suppose she doesn't go because of this BF and not wanting to lose him even though she gave him a lot of shit about going? Then what would you think? I only ask because to me this seems to be the likely end to this scenario, whereas you assume that she will go.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:23 AM
1

No, I meant that I wanted to make an unbiased post lol. Because some people here are also against being controlling and may see that as such. Just curious though, how would you differentiate between being in control and being controlling? Is being in control having pre-established boundaries and maintaining them, and is being controlling something like finding out an LTR wants to go to a party and nixing the idea? But if it's said ahead of time, it's not controlling?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:08 AM
1

Even though she did try to drop it? To me the fact she tried to drop it, but her parents insisted and coordinated with her friends' parents to book it changes things... though it makes me wonder what the fuck her parents are doing so involved in her social life.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:00 AM
1

Well, her friends are long-distance, and she's cancelled on them before because of the same BF. Similar situations. They see each other a couple of times per year, and this would be one of them. So cancelling it isn't like cancelling a trip with your neighbor--it'd mean two really close people who hardly see each other would see each other even much less. Also, she tried to drop the trip, but her parents still booked it. He showed me texts she showed him because I said something similar.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:57 PM
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I think he did have a boundary against it, but she's asked he let her because she does not want to lose her friends--or so she says. Also, I don't think she's going to go regardless. I think she would not go if he really made her--there's a precedent for that in their relationship. She is kind of whipped. But I was more asking if he should go back on his boundary and let her go? And about the tampon, I was just trying to include all perspectives. The outside world would say it's controlling to n…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:51 PM
0

Hate to break it to you, but she will most likely fuck other people. Drunk girls at parties are sluts, and she "technically" has no reason to not fuck anyone else, so you better believe she will do it. She also seems kind of slutty based off of what you describe, which reminds me of a chick I know who had a hookup over last summer and "loved him," but fucked 5 dudes first semester away from him. "To get over being apart from him." What the fuck? If you really don't want her to fuck somebody else…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:47 PM
0

If you ever decide to do plates, bring up a one-way open relationship first. It can only go well at that point. If you decide you want to keep her at all costs, don't sneak around behind her back. Suppress the urges. You're not going to be glad that you did it, and you might sink time into her and then lose her because of it. My best recommendation is to slowly show her that love =/= sex for men and then use that realization to justify to her that you would like to spread your seed because you a…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 11:41 PM
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gone
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 10:48 PM
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Yeah, I don't agree with either of these measures. The hottest guy would mean someone way hotter than most girls, and the worst guy is probably worse than her. The middle guy is no better of an estimate. Moral of the story: guys are horny and will bang you. Your SMV is irrelevant for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 08:42 PM
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If you, as a female, want to know your SMV I would say to head to a sub like truerateme and post your pictures. Then scale it as follows: 4 = 4 5 = 5 5.5 = 6 6 = 7 6.5 = 8 7 = 9 They are way too harsh in my opinion because their 8s and 9s literally do not exist in real life and thus are pretty irrelevant for all of us that live in the real world and not on an online rating sub. But they do rate accurately if you adjust. They can also give tips on how to "looksmax," which for a girl is basically …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 08:39 PM
1

50%, but I don't go out much because I have an LTR. I didn't meet her online though so technically I get most of my sex offline, if you get what I'm saying.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:15 PM
1

I don't.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:37 PM
2

I fuck like 1 girl every month off of tinder by just keeping it simple... good pics, clever bio, college town, get a # within 10 messages, arrange girl to come directly over, escalate after she gets here.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:57 PM
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Chiming in here: (and I know you're not supposed to point out your gender on these subs but hopefully it fits in this context so I'm not neg'd, lol) Though she's not a wife, my current LTR began as a plate. Two year LTR. The reason it worked for her? I was high value and she was not high value, a.k.a. I would not have been interested in her if she tried for commitment first; however, I was only recently high value (beta in HS, lifted, developed game) so I had a soft spot for her because her face…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 11:48 PM
2

Even if she's not (pretty certain she is), what am I losing? If I called her my "main plate" instead of LTR and did the exact same things, I'd be encouraged to not care about her fucking other people. This is definitely a step above that for the relationship between me and her while keeping myself available for others too. You have no point here, lol.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:35 PM
2

She was a plate for a while. I spent a lot of time with her, genuinely had a lot of fun together even outside of sex, explained that I saw a future with her but right now I'm only a 20-year-old male who needed to spread his seed and not ready for real commitment. Also broke a rule here which is "don't talk about TRP" (no, I didn't use our terms you fucking autists) and explained things like how men naturally are more polygamous so it's kind of silly to pretend otherwise... and she was into it. I…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:33 PM
6

Yes, and she's exclusive.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:01 PM
0

From the time you're born, every year IOI's from girls decrease. Girls are most interested in babies.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:14 PM
6

Being that I have an LTR and plates, I don't expect plates to be exclusive to me--but it also does ruin my image of them when I know they are not. So, if I never find anything out with plates, I don't care; however, if I do, being that I already have regular sex from my LTR and whatever other plates I'm currently spinning, I do just lose appeal and unofficially next them. Except in the case where she's taken when I get with her. But I only tend to smash those girls a couple times anyways.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:11 PM
2

I'm not sure why everyone thinks kissing a hand is so strange. Drink people have weird ideas; I could definitely see it happening. Anyways, don't let your girl get drunk without you--that's a recipe for disaster.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:22 PM
2

In a way, this is what game is. Your SMV is like a product, and game is the marketing campaign. The best marketing campaign can sell a shitty product, but it's probably better to be selling a better product.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:55 PM
1

Yes it's too quick. I think 4 months is the minimum to have a decent enough understanding of a girl.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:50 PM
1

Oh, yeah, he's working for Google in a pretty high position. He's not the norm though. Pretty exceptional even here. He had a ton of national recognition for his field before graduating. Another girl I know here was offered $8,000,000 to drop out and research for some medical company too--they're the outliers, but it's still crazy to see it. Also, no, I know the passcode. She knows mine too, but not as a formal "exchange of information"--just because we often play music on each other's phones so…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:40 AM
1

You said alcohol fries brain cells because she drank in college, but I drink too lol. Not much anymore, but I did--it's very normal to do. No, it was in conversation and light-hearted, didn't throw a ton of pressure on her to answer that's retarded. But I have no clue what was actually said. The times I've done it have been made easy for me because we'll be either at a party or out in public and she doesn't have pockets so I hold her phone. Just gotta be opportunistic to avoid suspicion haha.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:39 AM
4

I do this. As others said, it's very hard. Extremely worth it though. You feel complete the way you do when you're in a good LTR, and you also have the wild fun variety experiences. Ideal.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:34 AM
1

Well my fried brain cells are pretty damn strong anyways. I go to a top 20 university in the US with a rigorous major. Very routine to leave college with 6 figure salaries. Friend of mine makes $450,000/year out of college when he graduated this year. I don't remember what I said to her. This was literally two years ago. You weren't there. She doesn't know I check. I've never found anything, so there's no reason I'd tell her.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:37 AM
1

She actually doesn't drink lol. And hasn't since like 3 months after I met her when she was a plate. This was right when I met her. Show me a college freshman that's never blacked out and I'll show you someone who's full of shit. Girls are real people too. Ask her what upfront? Her n-count? Never did that. She told me because she was drunk, and I asked her straight-up sober later to see if she'd say the same #. If I recall correctly, I think I just asked if she remembered what she said--I told h…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:55 PM
3

No, I think the whole "multiply by x" is a little bit autistic way of thinking honestly. Do you know a single time that's been proven true? In my experience, some girls misreport and some don't--if you know them for a period of time, it's not impossible to figure out. And when a girl lies, there's no mathematical basis to it. Besides, most of my numbers aren't directly from girls themselves, so it'd be difficult for a girl to lie to me--without even talking to me. Unless you're referencing that …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:37 PM
1

I don't really know where I meet people; I'm just in college lol. I talk to people and if it's a chick maybe I jot a # down and contact them later. I guess in particular class stands out as somewhere I meet a lot of people. Anyways, verifying count is easiest when you know a chick. You can never be certain, but if you know a girl for a long period of time, you either will have or won't have heard stories about her riding dick. And friends of girls will spill girls' own info all the time. A lot o…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:12 PM
1

I mean, technically, it's not "wrong." My personal rule is that I will only go for an ex if she's hotter than I can normally lay, and I won't promote beyond plate. I think it is vaguely morally wrong, but quite frankly, I'm willing to cut my morals a bit for a hot chick. Also struggle with empathy. A lot. I have to think about it in terms of my own exes to come up with an answer--my impulse with other people's exes is "why the fuck not?" But everyone keeps some feelings for their exes, so yeah, …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:33 PM
2

RP or not, there's a lot of feelings in an LTR. It's hard to see that person with someone else, let alone your friend. Is it technically BP of him? Yeah, I'd say so--but I think 99% of men would feel bad seeing that, if they actually liked the chick.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:45 PM
6

I'd disagree. I don't think cultural norms have changed that much the last 5 years. The difference you're seeing is that younger girls have more time until they settle down, so they're still more willing to be vocally slutty. For that reason, I think younger girls are great targets because older girls are more difficult to distinguish from one another (all hide their red flags, looking for a BB) while younger girls will curve you if you don't seem alpha to them. Then you can get a sense for how …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:42 PM
1

Yeah, this girl has no respect for him. The soccer player bruh fasho still pipes that. I really don't think the other guy really even did much wrong; the tiny asian dude just had no frame whatsoever and a shitty handle on his girl.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:31 PM
11

I think you gotta find them young. N-counts grow every year, so for every year above 18 she is, expect at least one more notch. At least. My current LTR is a HB8 with n-count 4, three who were not me. She was 19 when we met though. At the time, her two best friends had n-counts of 1 each, HB7s... they're 21 now, and they both have n-counts of 4. Both girls are very relationship oriented and only dabble in "night life." They're solid catches--and still, they're at n = 4. I really don't know any H…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:12 PM
1

Chiming in: I've been doing this for a year and a half. Word of advice: be prepared for a ton of shit. This is very hard to manage while also keeping other expectations on the girl. Mine has never asked for other men--though I can see in your post a ton of posters assume she'll want that. People who find out about the arrangement irl also are quick to assume she wants other dick too; I am not sure why. Girls don't work that way. If they have who they want already, other dick is less appealing. S…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:03 PM
2

Yeah, I 100% agree on there being fake posturing here a lot. There's no way every dude on reddit pulls so hard, and a lot of the things people say here put people I know irl who pull hard to shame. Yeah, no. There's a lot of merit to TRP, but also a lot of shitposters who tear down every thread and repeat verbatim either "next," "lift," or "oneitis." It comes across more like a cult than an idea at times, which is unfortunate because there's a lot of high quality content here. Anyways, as for yo…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:37 PM
1

While not cheating, I actually hear the opposite most frequently. I'm in a one-way open relationship with a HB8, and she often says she hopes every girl I hook up with is ugly because other hot girls are a lot of pressure. Luckily for her, I struggle to pull above a HB7. With more time in the gym, that should be changing though. Then again, maybe not--there are very few HB8s even out there.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:27 PM
2

If it's true she's a virgin other than you, she was a former model, and you're 35, you're kind of crazy to let her walk and pursue other girls. You're never finding a virgin again, just so you know. And her bond to you must be very powerful if she's at least reasonably close to your age and has only had you inside her. I say hold off on the hedonism and make it work with her. Not very RP--but I feel like people fake posture on here all the time when in reality with a girl who on paper looks this…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:22 PM
1

Personally, I've kept attraction high by just openly fucking other girls. Granted, I had a high hand to begin with--began as a plate I slowly upgraded over many months. To get me to upgrade her, she had to compromise a little. But she's a great LTR. I break other rules of TRP to accomplish what I do. I see her more often than twice a week--usually like 5 times. She's good company, so it works. I also text her a lot more than would be recommended here--but still, it's not a task, it's fun. So, be…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:07 PM
7

He can't be a role model. A role model is someone you want to emulate. How the fuck do you plan to emulate inheriting millions of dollars? And that's all he is. He uses 'roids and has had 3 heart attacks before 40. The man is living fast and short. I'd rather elongate my limited time here on Earth. In my opinion, he's nothing. Sure, he pulls more girls than anyone here, but why does that matter? He doesn't pull them because he's just so awesome; he does it because he was handed everything withou…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:32 PM
5

Being a pessimist. I think some people here ignore that 50% of marriages do not divorce in favor of looking at the 50% who do. Understandable considering what is at stake for a man who also has little to gain through way of marriage, but not exactly accurate--and anticipating a counterargument, no, not every single marriage that remains falls into a dead bedroom. If even 10% of marriages succeed, I think that should represent an achievable goal for a RP man because how the fuck are you focused o…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:25 PM
1

Assuming you mean notches for yourself, um no. There are tons of people who never reach 10 notches, yet almost every male reaches 1.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:17 PM
1

I don't think my desire to raise a family means I have little experience with women. Also, I never said I'd necessarily do monogamy, at least on my side. I've done one-way open relationships in the past.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:50 PM
0

I meant like open relationships, not plates. The kind where you offer financial security and she offers a vagina dripping with other guys' cum. And call me a satanist, but I'm leaving college soon (entering senior) and will probably need to find an LTR in the next few years--not now, but not too long. Reason being I want a family, and my dad was an old man when he had me. I've always thought a younger father would be better--more able to play around with the kid and rough him up, teach him to be…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:30 AM
1

have you ever found this? or are you just against LTRs?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:57 PM
1

I mean, yeah, I was referring to HS--but just to show it does exist in at least some fashion. So, then, are you into open relationships too? Those ideas tend to go together.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:55 PM
0

I wouldn't say equally. I've seen some uber beta dudes with girls that stand by them because they were their first. Can't guarantee they were faithful, but if they weren't, none ever got caught. But I agree with the sentiment that looking for a low partner count girl isn't the solution to a weak frame and poor game. Likewise though, I think you're going to have an easier time with a lower N girl than with high N, so why make "redpill on hard mode" (LTR) even harder?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:44 PM
1

This is possible and does happen, but I think, in this particular context, that's likely something that happens once, or it happens to someone who is a high notch count person already so it really doesn't matter. I could picture this: girl with N count 2 gets blackout and does anal with random stranger, feels embarrassed and tells no one--doesn't happen again. Real n count is one N higher than she says from then on I could not picture this: girl with real n count of 7 has rationalized away 5 of …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:39 PM
1

Funny enough many of the biggest sluts on my campus are from Cali... it's really bad (or good) out there, huh? Lmao
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:21 PM
-2

They lie to secure commitment from BBs who they want to make believe they are sweet and innocent. I am not a BB, they do not expect me to become a BB, and I have not been a BB for any of these girls. This is like saying that when chicks get together and discuss their n-counts they're going to cross off ONSs in a foreign country. I just don't think so--I've heard all the Spring Break and etc stories. They're honest with each other, and I'm in numerous group chats with girls where these things are…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:03 PM
1

Personally, I vet girls by three things for LTR: (1) Looks (2) Personality (3) Character, in that order. I don't sacrifice on any of them though. Looks is just be a HB7 at least, personality is that she has to be fun to be around and travel with (I like to travel), and character has to do with n-count and the risk of infidelity--the safety of betting on her first and second traits. So, I agree that there are more relevant things--I don't agree this isn't relevant. It's very relevant.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:30 PM
1

The N-count numbers aren't from plates. They're from friends, and girls talking about their friends. They're fairly reliable as I'm known to get with many girls and not care what girls do, so girls really have no reason to lie to me. Secondly, lol what. Calm down. Sometimes this Sub is so needlessly hostile I swear y'all inject some roid rage then hop right on the internet. This isn't about upgrading them: why are you commenting on that? I don't need your help.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:24 PM
1

I can't answer your the question about whether you would be happier in an LTR or spinning plates for you, but I can tell you that this doesn't seem like the LTR for you.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:38 PM
2

There are no 10s. On topic, you have to lay your foot down if this is a boundary for you. Let the cards fall where they may.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:32 PM
1

This guy looks like a generic beta male. He'd need a lot of game to have sex with hot girls.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:29 PM
2

Chiming in as someone not raised by a single mom: I just want to point out it may not be that much better to grow up with an uber-beta father. My father is one of the biggest beta males I know. He was an orbiter for my mom for a very long time before she gave him any shot at all despite the fact that I'm pretty sure she had a promiscuous youth given her preference for "muscular bad boys" and the way she treats my dad--like he's an enormous beta male. And when he finally got her, she was pregnant…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:51 AM
1

I don't think the 3 minutes total he's spent responding here have hurt his quest to become alpha lol
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:25 PM
2

Admittedly the thought has crossed my mind, but that's not the point of this post as I don't ever expect or really desire it to happen. She has value as a friend anyways. But unless your standard is N=0, she's a fine choice for someone else imo. Have been close enough to know, and her n-count is sub-5, which for a soon-to-be 21 y/o HB8 is pretty low. Especially considering it's verified and not a "my girlfriend says I was her second" type thing.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:29 PM
2

I mean, yeah, not a unicorn--those don't exist--but honestly I would be willing to, at least right now, put her into the "quality woman" category. Which is rare these days.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:00 PM
3

Not a unicorn. She's too easy. Your interpretation of her may not be entirely off--she might very well be better than a lot of girls because if, say, she has an n-count of 5 and that's what she's referring to when she says things about "others" then, well, quite frankly she's way better than most girls still. Bad move to not fuck her that night. Always fuck as soon as possible. Girls admire the men who got their quickest and made them throw away all their inhibitions. My advice? Plate her if she…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:33 PM
3

Exactly. And if you don't want to masturbate with me, go find your own thread
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:08 PM
2

Haha, it's not me to be treading--she's just a friend. But yeah the 9,000 pound mother is pretty intimidating but it's largely due to a terrible lifestyle, which the girl is kind of disgusted by and wants no part of. So, I guess the mom situation could be viewed two ways--either as a red flag for shitty genetics or a green flag that the girl is self-aware of her mom and takes measure to avoid that. I guess it's a "buyer beware" situation
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:38 PM
3

As far as she says, it's more that she just didn't realize she should be in-shape, etc. Have seen her mom--can 100% vouch for the fact that that woman would not encourage anyone to be in shape (enormous woman, easily easily obese and RAGING feminist who hates men--daughter used to be somewhat feminist but is now against most of it). And as soon as she moved out for college, she almost immediately began fixing her weight. Again, equating to the Red Pill, it was a very BP upbringing where things l…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:21 PM
6

I mean yeah, it's not a HUGE thing--but it just really struck me as being the parallel to what we do here, but as a female.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:19 PM
2

I got your point; you didn't get my joke. Ever heard of the Dunning-Kruger effect? (yeah, more nerd shit)
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:53 AM
1

lol i think this is a joke, but part of what i used it for as well was to measure my progress from beta to pretty high-ranking (by seeing where girls i've plated or ltr'd would fall in the grand scheme) according to admittedly my own measurements of attractiveness, but then again, i suppose only my own measures matter and for that it was pretty helpful, so even if everyone here isn't interested because they're looking at things smaller scale than i am, i don't really care--it was helpful to me.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:47 AM
1

Alcohol is bad for gains
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:11 AM
1

I did say this: "And that's not accounting for that, of the chicks ranked HB7 and above, several had BB BFs who I would not list as top 10% males. So basically, you either have to steal what you shouldn't get naturally by being a BB to the right girl or..." Reading skills before commenting pls
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:07 AM
1

lmao, i admit this is incredibly nerdy--that's why i did it to pass time in an airport. was curious.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:41 PM
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