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Royal CUCK
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 03:15 AM
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I’d bet my left nut you said something TRP related which is normal to you but Becky got drunk on their zoom happy hour last night and shared with the rest of the Girl Scouts that you were an asshole for making a comment about a woman or you said something “anti-feminist”. The gf went nagging onto your buddy, like, can he even believe you’d say something like that?! What’s wrong with him? You should talk to him. And here we are. This is all bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:30 PM
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Ding ding ding! Alex is the honey pot with the rental properties and I’m sure there’s decent disability support, not to mention we don’t know what Alex does for work. He could be a WFH software engineer, trade stocks, work as an attorney or consultant so some sort.
/r/MGTOW10/04/20 09:14 PM
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Followed by “but I already knew I had feelings for him” innocent is laughable.
/r/MGTOW10/04/20 09:12 PM
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ZERO LOYALTY
/r/MGTOW10/04/20 05:26 PM
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full story here What a cunt
/r/MGTOW10/04/20 04:51 PM
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Strippers, sugar babies and escorts aren’t part of the economic stimulus package... cet me a River you whore
/r/MGTOW05/04/20 07:34 AM
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full thread here
/r/MGTOW215/03/20 03:32 PM
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Slutty Greta
/r/MGTOW15/03/20 03:03 PM
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We don’t need any woman, ever. Narcissistic cunt. I don’t need her calling the cops during the next BDSM routine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 02:56 PM
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Loathe this film. She’s an abuser
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 01:14 AM
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Lol are you mate guarding a plate? Move on, she already has
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:37 AM
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source
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 07:00 PM
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“Make sure he proves his value” when she has none. Cuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/19 06:55 PM
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My SO coming home to a clean and tidy home. Seriously I hate cleaning but I take pride in a clean home. Also the dog sheds... a lot.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/19 03:49 AM
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Vroom vroom She should have taken it in the ass
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 10:40 PM
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Apparently successfully opening her legs. Like that takes skill lol
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 10:39 PM
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And then the females of the family shame him too... sister... mother.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 10:38 PM
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Wah-men will do anything to play the victim so they band together to excuse each other’s disgusting behavior. We have no idea what his mother was like.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 10:38 PM
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Part of dating is the entertainment value. I’d ask every question direct and indirect just to watch her squirm until she finally brought it up. I call it dinner & a show - be sure you put in on separate checks.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 09:33 PM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 05:04 PM
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She’s 33?! Hhhahahhaha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/19 10:37 PM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:23 PM
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No they don’t respect mega thots who pretend to be virtuous women. A true alpha respects his wife as a stay at home mother because she is the mother of his children. The reality is that women are hypergamous and often threaten the foundation of that relationship - manipulate it and suck the life out of it - making the man lack respect for the relationship she has poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:27 PM
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Women who don’t want that still are the majority? LOL you must not be in the States
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:21 PM
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Men should t haven’t to pay for their wife’s debt. But that’s not the issue here. The problem with higher education is the subsequent feminist indoctrination that occurs during college as all universities spew “free the female form” and “you do you” while encouraging female promiscuity. But more importantly - RP wives are not career women. They do not champion a career, their life and work is in the home. Most women with higher educations are incapable of recognizing the importance of the career…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 02:05 PM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 02:21 PM
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Yes. Why is this even a question? If a sexually attractive guy can sexually harass then why can’t a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 07:38 PM
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No. Raising kids traditionally would require both a mother and a father. That’s as nicely as I can put a response to this.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/19 06:50 PM
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RBF and over perceived SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:42 PM
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RBF and over perceived SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:42 PM
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Surprise STD alert
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 08:48 PM
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NOT a size zero lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 08:20 PM
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What was his last name?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:45 PM
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Gold. Everyone should read this. This is for every wife/LTR. Every single one. Each woman experiences anxiety/depression/craziness, even if just occasionally. Even for the one off situations, this a great guide so they can be handled within your frame and with the best possible outcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 04:12 PM
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Also, ironically https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c06qfe/depressive_and_anxious_wives_transformation_and/
/r/askMRP13/06/19 04:06 PM
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There is a way to add comfort while passing a compliance/shit test... "hmm i don't think so" with smile & kiss on forehead Simultaneously putting you above her physically (to kiss her forward) and putting her in a submissive "not tonight beautiful" "nahhh *silence* you look great in that dress tonight" "I love you!", smile, walk away "maybe tomorrow", smack ass, walk away silence, no response - make her walk over to you - then kiss her, smack her butt, kiss her neck and cop a feel Make about mor…
/r/askMRP13/06/19 04:03 PM
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This is exactly why the state needs to keep their hands out of inter-personal relationships. That power should go back to the hands of the father, then the husband. Only way to restore the patriarchy and get our shit society out of this.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:50 PM
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This is it right here. And then the question is amended. You don't filter out those girls, you find the one that makes you a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:47 PM
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He doesn't want to get accused of sexual misconduct/assault etc. Smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:45 PM
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NO. She is setting you up for either: a.) swinging/poly - which is now justified cause you slept with someone other than her b.) will use this, hold it over you because she didn't realize how it would make her feelz (empty) c.) she cheated & now wants to allow you to cheat to make her feelz better d.) she wants to cuckhold you & this is step one
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:43 PM
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"I'm a good country girl" AHAHAHAHAHAHHA
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/19 03:39 PM
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In an LTR & don't even single folks. I do wish them luck! It can be brutal out there. I also say this while having ample 'me' time in my LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:22 PM
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Not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:20 PM
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See above please. History is linked in the thread! It's not an idea, its fact. The NAWL literally championed the notion of no-fault divorce in the USA, finally winning over California in 1969.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:44 PM
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I linked a history of no-fault divorce, which states facts. ​ The title of your Law Review article it states "A Perspective". I'm not looking for an opinion on the matter, the facts speak for themselves. They're linked above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:41 PM
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California became the first state to pass no-fault divorce laws in 1969. Prior to this: By 1960, only 27.4% of American women 20–24 years old were single. The divorce rate had slowed, reaching a low point of 8.9 per 1,000 women 15 years of age and older, or 368,000 divorces, in 1958. The fertility rate was 122.9 per 1,000 women compared with only 79.9 per 1,000 in 1940. ​ Then, in the 1950s, the National Association of Women Lawyers began campaigning for no fault divorce by pursuing a "woman's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:30 PM
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Ha ok keep believing that...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:19 PM
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You’re right. Conservative women divorce rape too but it wasn’t their initiative. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:44 PM
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She's a lonely feminist thot with cats. I expected nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:42 PM
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It is women’s fault because women fought for and create no-fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:31 PM
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What makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:29 PM
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You will once you hit the wall going mach 30 and no man once anything to do with you. Hope it's negative btw! Have a great one!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:09 PM
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I’ve thought the same to your “common sense” from the get-go but I hoped I could save you from your self. As I said, enjoy your cats & singledom!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:06 PM
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Be aware - could be rape cry coming your way.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:42 PM
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Men treat women horribly and slut shame them after they're done fucking them because they just engaged in non-virtuous behavior... she's likely not worth remembering. Whoring herself out and when a man states a fact that she is indeed a slut, that's treating her horribly? LOL It's not abuse. It's just not interesting anymore. But you cry abuse cause that's the only way you can continue getting attention... what a shame that this is how far women have fallen. How about maintaining a little virtue…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:22 PM
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Rape Allegations. Hard no.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:17 PM
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It's just sad how hard you want to believe in what has become the socially normative reteric rather than statistics and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:34 PM
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As a woman, can you not get easy sex? I'm a bit confused. There's little to no work in getting a man to sleep with you these days, even if you're horrid to look at, by the end of the night single guys are so drunk it doesn't necessarily matter. Then you just lay there with your legs open. It's easier for women to get sex than it is for any man. We're the ones being paid for it, whether directly or via dinner & drinks, etc. I don't condone infidelity, extra-marital affairs, polygamy or prostituti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:11 PM
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I know you're a woman so you likely surround yourself with a ton of women to validate both your actions and your feelz... but do you have any guy friends? ​ Men TALK a lot... a lot less than women. "Look at the tits on her", "that ass", "I'd do that" is just all that... talk. It's not evidence of action. I can't imagine the things you and your grlz sit around discussed at nauseam. If I assumed to took the action behind everything you said... hmm ​ Taking care of the children. I won't even begin …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:58 PM
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Oh “common sense”? Right lol It’s very difficult for women to believe they do anything wrong and women adhere to social norms... leading to you believing that it’s ‘common sense’ that men cheat more. Not only that but women look to each other to construct said social norms, making it ok when one cheats as the others validate her actions because “he was too busy” or “he didn’t bend over backwards enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:37 PM
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Stats say other wise. It’s just what you want to believe and what’s more popular in movies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:27 PM
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Translation: I’ve hit the wall so my SMV is falling out of the sky, help!, I have no personality
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 04:07 PM
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He better treat her like a KWEEN! Must be >6’0” and make six figures
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 04:06 PM
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And other thots who will reassure you that everything is ok, that will stick around as they crucify men, find lowly betas who will deal with their CCing and the certain divorce rape that these vampires will then celebrate... you know in the spirit of “building each other up”. Gag.
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 03:00 PM
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Thots deserve nothing better.
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 02:57 PM
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“Too bad, we’re dating” Um is this rape dating?! Where’s my consent?! WTF
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 05:50 PM
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Don’t come crying when she screams rape because she’s looking at jail time for sexual misconduct with a minor
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:28 AM
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MONKEY BAR DETECTED
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 10:10 PM
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Define bad cardio?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:16 PM
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You sweat to keep your body at a controlled temperature. It’s likely that with an increase in basal metabolic rate from the increase in muscle mass, your core temperature is hire, leaving your sweat glands to do more work to keep you cool. Powder based deodorant at night, before bed, could help. If it’s truly out of control, consider miradry.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:14 PM
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Male overreach? Delusional, yes you are. Betty Friedan follower I take it? She penned a novel out of boredom, painting the homemaker as miserable, much like the elicit cliterature that is 50 Shades. Most homemakers were not, in fact, miserable as most women today don’t yearn for the mysoginistic millionaire dom.... but it sure was popular and it did stir the pot. I’m not going to try to reason with unreasonable. Enjoy your cats & your singledom!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:56 PM
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Just to be clear since MSM loves a bold headline... There are 700 maternal deaths annually. 700. Since women have a the choice they want nowadays, many, 40% to be exact, of women don't return for a recommended 12-week heart health visit. Since black women are disproportionately represented in this demographic group, one only needs one google search the prevalence of substance abuse (that’s reported!) to know that nearly double the number of black women abuse illicit drugs during pregnancy, compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:51 PM
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Women did create the problem. Women systematically fought and voted to destroy the family unit through sexual liberation, no fault divorce and the war on men. Let me guess, you think it’s ok for a woman to choose to keep her child but then hold the unwanted father financially responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:41 PM
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Did you grow naturally or cycle? L
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:35 PM
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Doing ‘psycho’ right
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:31 PM
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We paid for that Audi
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 06:39 PM
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These aren’t women anymore they’re ANIMALS
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 06:21 PM
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Nothing like mother Russia
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 04:31 PM
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The entire system is now setup to break down the family structure. They don’t care that the kids aren’t getting it. They want to insure that the role of the patriarch, the male, is no longer necessary to the financial outcome of the mother and child.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 06:20 AM
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Proposing a bill to end child support. All men say I?
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 09:16 PM
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Old reactionary farts have this country it’s independence
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 07:38 PM
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Lol let’s not. Let’s remember history.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 04:22 PM
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You’re a fag for not wanting children. That’s why we are here.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:00 PM
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Boom
/r/askTRP16/05/19 04:26 PM
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24 and already ruined her life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 07:01 PM
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Love don’t pay the bills and neither does she
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 07:01 PM
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Says the used up thot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 07:01 PM
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Last I checked we all had one sun...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 06:59 PM
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How sad that women have given this much power without ever earning it.
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 06:51 PM
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Women are afraid of men who are confident because they cannot be manipulated into super cucks. Confident men, with self-license, can walk away at the first sign of disrespect. They cannot be walked all over. Also women are uncomfortable by men who look better than them. It makes them feel less powerful.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:56 PM
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Only he can make an orbiter of himself
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:39 PM
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Realistically - this was a dodger bullet. Let’s say you would have manned up, stayed with her, been the best father you could be. But the reasons why she never became an LTR will be further cemented. Over time she will get nasty, she will cheat, she will use the child against you, she will divorce you and take you for everything that you have worked for. I understand your guilt surrounding aborting your offspring - children are why we are here. But you dodged a major bullet! With time I think th…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:06 PM
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They’re not unicorns - they’re displaying AWALT behavior as you describe in your post. Mommy issues OP? You lack abundance mentality in your post
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:18 PM
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Mrs.... that poor cuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/19 04:03 AM
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AWALT
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:38 AM
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Not entirely true - http://www.ncsl.org/research/human-services/common-law-marriage.aspx
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 04:43 PM
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on the money with this
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:29 PM
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“And ACCIDENTALLY have sex” What did you slip on a banana peel and land on a dick?
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 04:42 AM
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It’s in our biology! Just like it’s in a man’s to notice a beautiful woman, who’s young and exudes fertility. The important thing is that you you recognized it and didn’t act on it.
/r/RedPillWives14/03/19 08:19 PM
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You’re not defining “good man” correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 08:14 PM
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If he follows her rules, she’ll leave him
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 03:22 PM
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Booty is a big one here too!! I don’t compete so I’ll look into straps, never tried them, hated gloves and it threw off my grip. I’ve considered competing in bodybuilding, had a conversation with Captain about it, he had mixed feelings so we kind of dropped it. I didn’t want to showboating and being basically naked on a stage in front of a ton of people anyway - i think it was more about achieving the goal for nez Otherwise, we actually lift together and he is a big supporter of my routine/PL be…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 04:47 PM
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I can’t lift in gloves! I’ve tried, it just doesn’t work for me. Thank you for the suggestion though!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 04:41 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean... you’re worried about him feeling pressured to have sex? How frequent is it currently?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 04:40 PM
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Compatibility is key when it comes to sex drive. Otherwise both parties end up miserable.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 08:30 PM
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It’s a struggle right?! I was just thinking about this deadlifting yesterday, like man my hands are taking a toll again. I’ll have to see about liquid chalk and maybe just keeping it off the barbell and plates, no one would even notice. So I’m more of a power lifter that is now - for aesthetic purposes if I’m honest - focusing more on power building (power lifting x body building hybrid). I totally hear you on the love for the sport va the aesthetic component. Delicate balance. Obviously do what…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 08:26 PM
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Oh that's interesting, I've never thought of it that way. So in LTR/marriage, you see past the makeup even when she's wearing it? The makeup is a mask for everyone else but you get to see her true self.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:32 PM
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What's your second-guessing on competing? Big time commitment? I love rogue bars, I think if I had a home gym - that would really be the best. My current gym doesn't allow chalk either so that doesn't help. I need to build strength in my mixed grip too. I'll have to look into the callus shaver, I didn't even know that was a thing - do you aquaphor after a lifting day, so next day is a rest day? I need to work this into a routine or my feminine hands are gonna go out the window.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 06:30 PM
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I believe the "low or no makeup" preference isn't about being high or low maintenance. It seems to have more to do with staying true to who you are. We've all seen those YouTube videos where girls transform themselves into something camera-glam, but underneath either look completely different or cover up a lot. It's deceit in another form. By misleading men, women are doing themselves a great disservice. Also, biologically speaking, genetics play a major role in a man wanting to procreate and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:32 PM
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holy shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/19 04:51 PM
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A fellow RP lady who lifts?! Great job on that PR! Still have no good way to keep my hands from callousing/tearing Puppy is adorable - Australian Shepard?
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 04:49 PM
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“And third wave feminists are quite fond of wanting to have their cake and eat it too” Nailed it. Appreciate you sharing this piece - it speaks to how opportunistic and double-standardized this group truly is. Horrible to tear down men and then expect them to want to cater to women. It’s cherry picking and it’s completely demeaning to men. It’s also a single POV, not a statistical analysis of the group, which can be an inaccurate representation of the group mindset as a whole. Interesting read t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:02 PM
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This is such a great point! Could be part of his strategy
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 02:46 PM
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I want a pic too! Especially because I'm completely incapable of doing my right hand (I'm a rightie) - has anyone tried the spray on stuff?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 02:42 PM
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You sound like a major beta with low SMV which is why you are trapped in this cycle of chasing women, being yourself and then being friend-zoned because she found someone better. Your thought process alone screams this. Have you read TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:39 PM
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I'm still not certain what you want... you want a girl to appreciate your fine pianist skills - I would. I slaved over the piano for many years, but the music created is incredible, however, that's something I would appreciate in a LTR because frankly a girl who you've exchanged two photos with on tinder a said "wanna bang?", doesn't care if you play the piano. You say you want that super casual sex in abundance, well women gravitate to what they perceive as high SMV, and while the piano may cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:35 PM
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Don't see how that is necessarily true. My wife is a career woman - worked for the man, now runs her own businesses with me - and she's a great mother of four. I think third wave feminism has a lot to do with this as well. In the current dating world, feminists SCOFF at the idea that a man DARE pay for dinner because she can afford it herself. I've heard the same thing for opening doors, walking home, etc. By offering or assuming this role, the man is trampling their empowerment. I don't think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:23 PM
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I wonder if this behavior started when their issues started though, and thus is a reaction. It seems like it’s the last thing on the list, but really it’s the root of the problem. OP, could you provide a bit more detail? I hate assuming!
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 11:05 PM
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Happy I could help! Seafood pasta is always a challenge for me to stay true to authenticity, rather than the Italian-American versions that we are immersed in state-side. That’s obviously a great option, especially since it sounds like you know his palette well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 09:52 PM
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Ok so my cast iron tip is this: I soak overnight, brush brush brush and when I pull it out of sink, I heat it on low heat to dry off the water. Once dry, I dump a little olive oil in there, let that heat up just a bit and use a paper towel to “reseason lite edition” it. I smudge it all around and it picks up any residue. The paper towel is dark once I’m done but boom. It’s ready to go or stand there and it won’t rust. Every few months I’ll reseason for real because we use it daily, but honestly …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 09:17 PM
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You need to raise your SMV. Right now it's not on the level of the Emperor of China. You sound unsure of yourself and unsure of what you realistically want. This isn't about compromise, it's about what you want. If you want to have sex, you'll need to put the effort into it (as much/as little as YOU want) to get it - but women are the gatekeepers of sex. If you want something more, LTR/family, then you are the gatekeeper because it is men who offer stability. You don't have to be a nice guy to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:50 PM
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I used to only wash by hand because of the residue - but Cascade Complete pods does a great job assuming a rinse over is done. Not sure how old you dishwasher is either, but that can be the culprit as well. ​ Depending on the material of your pan, I would soak overnight on those occasions, perhaps with the added appropriate soap (we mainly use cast iron so just a soak and a brush for us, no soap).
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 07:13 PM
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It would be a hard no for me then. This isn't an acceptable way to handle a difficult situation and frankly his lack of remorse is extremely off-putting. The cat lived in his home for over a year and was part of his daily life, to be able to discard her like that without any attempt at addressing/fixing the issue is a bit terrifying.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 06:52 PM
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What has he ordered when you to have been out? How old is he? I wouldn't want your dinner to be perceived as you going overboard because he's a college student used to pizza and wings - in which case a pasta dish would be perfect! Seafood preferences can be very specific (he likes lobster but not clams/shrimps which are prevalent in pasta dishes). Most people do like pasta, so if you're unaware of his specific dietary likes/dislikes this may be the safe way to go. In the past, I have gone with a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 06:50 PM
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What is your current goal - to date or just to have sex? It seems therein lies your answer. Similarly, I don't put effort into conversations I'm not enjoying in the hope of getting somewhere. Good, you shouldn't!! If a guy just makes it clear point blank he's not going to try and earn his way with you, how do you feel about that How are you making this clear? I really don't think you need to be offering anything upfront - if you don't want to take a girl for drinks, then don't. If you're not int…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:40 PM
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For me, I do a thorough clean once a week (not always on the same day) and a 15min pick up when I have time to keep things extra polished. It sounds like you’re on top of that though, what are some of your biggest hurdles when it comes to cleaning?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 06:27 PM
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First off - what does he like? I wouldn’t go huge with something that takes hours to prepare (like osso bucco) right off the bat, but would make it delicious, memorable and well plated. It shows thoughtfulness, efforts and allows your abilities to shine!
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 06:22 PM
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Is this a previously living outdoor cat? How long has the cat been indoors? I’m just wondering how this all went down. We feed a homeless cat that we brought inside last winter because it was so cold and it sat on the porch waiting to be brought inside (and insisting upon it loudly lol!) but the minute it was comfortable enough weather-wise, he went back out. We feed him now but he doesn’t want to come in, we even leave the door open etc. Cats are very self-sufficient but forcing a cat out (pict…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 06:20 PM
3

Perhaps there’s more context than the above excerpt but it seems it really is talking about the genetic basis of offspring, that you’d want to procreate with the best genetics available because once you have children - your brain rewires: Brains aren’t static, neurons constantly rewire themselves through life. Additional neurons can also spontaneously form, a process called neurogenesis. In several studies, neuro genesis takes place in the days following the birth of offspring. New brain cells a…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:44 PM
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He cannot be a protector or provider to you if he cannot stand on his own two feet. You’ve given this enough time to see if he could stabilize and it seems the answer is no. Time to move forward OP towards your own goals.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 03:55 PM
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Your look is very unique. Replacing it with a sundress would be a bit misleading, as it really doesn’t reflect who you are. That being said, IMO feminine wear is definitely more attractive to men. Perhaps try some more feminine ways of dressing that still reflect your personal style - dress, stockings, heeled Docs, belt, leather jacket - something like this. That way you’re staying true to you while also incorporating those feminine styles.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 01:53 PM
3

Statistically speaking, while it is more common that a man will cheat in his lifetime, it depends on the age range. Women cheat too. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Was he your only partner?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 08:08 PM
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In my opinion, ultimatums are never the way to go. I think they could potentially ruin a great thing and in my experience, no high value man will respond well to them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 02:40 AM
3

This was an excellent link! OP review this!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 12:12 AM
3

A clean home and wonderful meal - possibly one of his favorites! Your effort will signify that you missed him and the importance to you that he is finally home! Also be understanding... if he's tired and just wants to read, shower & go to bed, etc. leave him to it and don't be upset or take it personally that he doesn't want to be with you/talk/have sex/etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 09:35 PM
1

My answer is different for my SO, which implies LTR, than it is for someone I would ask out on a date, implying you are not in an LTR. ​ Attraction is assumed if you continue giving a man your attention, it isn't necessarily a confession of feeling. Asking a man out is not my MO, ever. I have also never been the first to share intimate feelings, I always allowed a man to guide that, only sharing when they felt comfortable to share. While vulnerability is important, in an especially vulnerable mo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 09:31 PM
1

I always recommend focusing on self-care during these times. Pick up a new hobby that you can dive to, read a series of books that really capture your attention, take a class (this IMO is the best because you're also able to be social, surround yourself with like-minded individuals and be less 'alone').
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 09:27 PM
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I feel like I have a skewed outlook on relationships. Why? I'm having a hard time overlooking this comment. What do you want in a Captain - what qualities? The Russian gave you the opportunity of certainty, to dive right in. You seem to know more about him than you're willing to let on, such as he wants a family and postulated having one with you. He offered to give things a try knowing full well that you would not be having sex right away. While I don't like that there is a timeline on when you…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 06:21 PM
1

Hobbies! Learn something new that you’re very interested in, perhaps something with a social element like a class. That way you’ll be improving yourself and combatting that lonely feeling simultaneously.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 01:05 PM
2

This is awesome. What's the magic knot roller? A quick Google search didn't amount to anything. I'd love a link!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 09:10 PM
2

In this sub, it’s meant to refer to the male significant other in a relationship - as he guides & steers the ship of the relationship, as is his traditional role. That being said, outside this thread, it can simply be used as a term of endearment, like a pet name. Without context, I’m not certain the way in which “Captain” is being used by the girl who is referring to you this way.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 09:15 PM
2

I like true crime garage - makes me run faster! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 11:01 PM
5

What are your favorites?! I’ve been on the hunt for a new one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 09:47 PM
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Third this. I could barely get through it. First and foremost you need to break up, nun-mode and focus on yourself. Why did you cheat? That’s one of the worst ways you can betray your Captain. You need to stop and repair whatever is going on with you. Otherwise this vicious cycle will continue, if not with him then worth the next man.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 08:58 PM
1

“Tatted BBW Rides the Carousel” a home video
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 07:32 PM
3

This is great!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:05 PM
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As she would say “thank u, next”. Move on and don’t give her another single thought.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:59 AM
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She’s taking it in every hole in each of these trips. Get out.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:27 PM
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Move on to the next plate - they’re in abundance.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:21 PM
1

Get out. You clearly care about her more than she cares about you - which is your first mistake. Pump & dump & focus on yourself. These are major red flags and she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:15 PM
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TOUCHÉ!!!!!!! Can’t upvote this enough.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 02:59 PM
4

Skincare routine! Take up something in fitness you enjoy. Take time for yourself. Learn to say no (to people other than your Captain)
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 02:55 PM
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Lol seriously dude. Act normal.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:23 PM
1

Have you tried thinking through your next words/actions before taking the next stop? Sometimes I want to say something but pause, think and realize that’s not what i mean or it’s just hurtful or has no purpose etc. Perhaps before picking the fight you can stop yourself? I also thinking addressing your underlying issues will be a huge help in changing your behavior. Remember, you are responsible for your words and actions. He is your team mate in this battle, rarely is he the enemy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 11:36 PM
1

I too have the same question
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 05:04 PM
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Gym Vitamins Skincare regimen & products (this is essential for me!) this includes facials Not sure what you mean by taking out a loan? But I regularly spend money on the above for me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 09:51 PM
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Just came to say that this post is great! Thank you for your vulnerability, as I know I struggle sometimes with what you describe as well. The responses it garnered are equally as important! Thanks again and keep us posted!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 09:47 PM
1

Love this. I often remind myself that we are on the same team and to “put the sword down”.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 09:45 PM
1

How long have you two been together?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 09:44 PM
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Why doesn’t she like you? Some mothers can be explained, some cannot. But your comments about the gift giving/lack of acknowledgment are unexpected... is there more to the story?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 06:38 PM
1

110% yes. Feminism --> sexual revolution --> women are devalued --> lower marriage rates --> below replenishment birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:22 AM
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RED FLAGS ALL OVER - GET OUT!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 07:12 PM
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I agree, we need more information.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 03:42 PM
2

I think if she's wearing makeup 9/10 when he is not by her side - it can be interpreted as wearing it to attract another man. Makeup is a well discussed RP topic amongst men, especially in how it's used to conceal reality and attract men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 07:00 AM
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You're looking at this the wrong way. You are NOT a thot on IG, some Hollywood star or some stranger he looks on the street. You are HIS! You are not in the same group as those women so stop comparing yourself to them. He likely has no respect for them and isn't interested in an LTR with them - he is with YOU. ​ On a different note, was he attending your sister's party with you? I think it's poignant that you typically don't wear makeup but did so to this party where (if I'm reading this correct…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 06:43 AM
2

Well said! Love the way you mention grace, something I overlook but it really is a skill, one that is often tough for very strong independent women like many of us in this sub. Upvote!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 07:49 PM
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Men are the savior, the protector, the rock. On your bad months, he feels that on an entirely different and primal level as he is then responsible for your survival. Don’t change on purpose but if you want to see this a bit more, leave your wallet at home on a coffee run. Tell him you’d love to go out to dinner at a certain place or do another activity and don’t offer to pay. It’s not exactly what he will feel on the off months, but it’s a start and it’s not manipulative. It also won’t fundament…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 07:47 PM
3

Depends on the ((male))... and with women “identifying” as “men”, you’d be sooner locked up for unpaid child support AND discriminion
/r/MGTOW07/02/19 09:31 PM
1

Her vote
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:29 PM
2

Then they’ll sue for child support
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:26 PM
1

Always the victims. Vile.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:24 PM
2

The terms are known. She can take you for everything you’ve got for no reason at all.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:21 PM
1

I don't thinker's trashy in the least, but certainly heavily depends on your & SO's tastes
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 02:39 AM
1

Who gave women the right to vote though?
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 12:52 AM
1

Without men, women wouldn't be here.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 12:23 AM
1

Because they have to put someone else's needs first or equal to their own. Feminist rhetoric squeals about a woman being "boss", so inherently cooking/cleaning can't make her happy. Little do they realize is that fighting that natural role is what's making them truly unhappy and unfulfilled.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 12:23 AM
1

I thought the exact same thing!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 11:14 PM
1

What are his long and short term goals and aspirations? And what can you do to accommodate them?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 11:02 PM
1

One of my favorites but not sure OP would find something "less risqué" there...
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 10:52 PM
1

Came here to say this! Love their variety!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 10:52 PM
2

I take my mark from my SO. Whatever he likes, that's what I would prefer as there's nothing sexier than knowing he wants me wearing this. Personally, I really like Journelle & Agent Provocateur for their variety, quality and range of prices. Both have nice packaging too which I love.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 10:51 PM
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I feel like no one cares how much I support, love and honor my SO ​ This should only be between you and him. Personally, I get the respect, love, admiration and protection from my SO, in return for the respect, love, admiration and devotion I show him. I'm not sure what Valentine's Day will bring, but he shares his appreciation for the larger and smaller things I do daily, that's really important to our relationship. Even a meal has not commenced without a "thank you, that was great!". I think t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 10:49 PM
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What does he enjoy? If he shows you he cares through romantic gestures, it's important to return the favor in a way that will be meaningful to him. He needs to know you care too.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 04:17 AM
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