| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 129 | Went on my first date and got groped. | TRIGGER WARNING | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:38 AM |
| 88 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date. | TRIGGER WARNING | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 16 | Frightened by my stalker | SEEKING ADVICE | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Looking for advise | SEEKING ADVICE | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Update to my previous post | DISCUSSION | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date. | DISCUSSION | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal? | DISCUSSION | frightene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 12:47 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date.Okay, thank you. I will call them and ask them the necessary steps that I need to take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date.Can I speak with the DA’s office only after I make a police complaint? I don’t know the laws in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 9 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date.I have few online friends who are being supportive. I told another friend whom I staying with and she asked me why I went out with him in the first place and so I brought this upon myself. She was shouting and speaking to me. I didn’t discuss this with her or how I am feeling after that conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 22 | Update to my previous post- about me getting groped on the first date.He unmatched me on the app. We have been communicating on whatsapp. I have his chat on this Reddit profile since I didn’t know how to add a pic on Reddit. Yes, I am in the US. I will google about the DA victim service unit. My friend’s husband said that after I file the complaint, then they will question him and then take him and me to the court. If I go to the court, I thought I should hire an attorney. I don’t have to money to hire an attorney. That is what I meant by I don’t have financial su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Went on my first date and got groped.Thank you for your reply. I contacted him yesterday and have the screenshots as proof. I am planning to file a complaint. He had the audacity to tell me that since we met on a dating app this is what I should be expecting. I have the screenshot uploaded on my profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Went on my first date and got groped.I am really sorry for all that you went through. Sorry that I didn’t reply earlier. It was bringing up the trauma for me when I read through your post. I hope you found peace and wish you love and support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Went on my first date and got groped.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Went on my first date and got groped.He struggled very hard to get the residency and it will potentially ruin his career. I am hesitant to complain. I am sure he is a terrible person but I am afraid to cause so much pain and suffering on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Went on my first date and got groped.Thank you so much. I will watch it. Thanks a lot for searching for me and sending the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Went on my first date and got groped.I don’t have it as a chat - it was a phone conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yes, he definitely took advantage of me. He convinced me saying that he is just asking me to get dinner and not to get laid. Maybe he planned this even before he wanted to meet me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yes, I am definitely feeling guilty and feel disgusted that he groped me like that. I hope I get over this trauma soon. Thanks for recommending the book. I will remember to buy it after I start earning. Thanks for your msg and support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Went on my first date and got groped.I was really trying to be this nice girl and since I have been conditioned not to speak up to men - I got myself in this place. This will definitely be a learning experience for me. I will never put up with something like this in future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yes, I will never ever meet him again. I will rather die than meet him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yes, I was trying to behave like a nice girl and be courteous.I think it is mostly because of how I have been conditioned to never speak up to a man. I definitely need to be more assertive and stop behaving like this. Yes, I will never be in contact with him. Thank you for your msg and support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Went on my first date and got groped.Both these guys were not my friends. The guy I went out on a date with - I was in contact with him only for professional reasons. This other guy spoke to me from a matrimony website and he wanted to meet me and when I explained the reason to him this was his reply. I am currently not enrolled so I cannot call the sexual violence centre. I completed my undergrad in India and came to US to do rotations and apply this season. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yes, I will keep the evidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Went on my first date and got groped.Thank you I will try practising all of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 10 | Went on my first date and got groped.He is so misogynistic too. I really didn’t want to meet him but met him because he convinced me it will help me professionally. I am really trying to save away from Indian men. I was speaking to another loser- I told him what happened and I told him I never want to be near another guy again and he told what if I can change your mood in an instant. And that he will kiss me and make me ‘Normal’. I told him I am feeling traumatised and I don’t want another trauma and he kept convincing me. I realis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 9 | Went on my first date and got groped.Yeah, when we spoke months earlier he had told me about his addiction to porn and I gradually stopped speaking with him regularly but was in touch with him for professional reasons. I will never recommend any of my female friends to be treated by him. He really is a disgusting human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Went on my first date and got groped.I really wish I had never gone out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Went on my first date and got groped.I thought he can recommend me for an interview. And he also told me that some one is doing an observership at his program and if only I went and met with other residents- I will be able to make contacts and get rotations. He knows that it’s been very difficult for me to get rotations because of COVID. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 32 | Went on my first date and got groped.I had been conditioned to never raise my voice against a man and I feel so weak and docile. I definitely need to learn to be more assertive. Yes, I will block him. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 72 | Went on my first date and got groped.Thanks for the reply. I just feel disgusted that I was used like an object. It’s 4 36 am and I am still not able to sleep. I think I might be having an acute stress disorder. I honestly wouldn’t have met him if he didn’t mention that it would help me professionally. I will block him. Thanks for your support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 5 | This was just so ridiculous I had to post it😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 12 | Focus on YOU 👸🏽I wish I had received the same advice few years back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:09 PM |
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