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fromtheashes_me/r/askTRP18/03/16 01:15 AM
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fromtheashes_me/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:55 AM
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You really don't have any boundaries at work to express when you're an apprentice. When you're hired on in a position that's not "apprentice" or "intern" or "summer guy" then you can set boundaries per your job description, but usually in a way that doesn't make you look like a whiny bitch. i.e. say to your manager, "It doesn't seem like anyone is assigned to Task X. Currently I'm working on Task Y. Is Task X something that I should be concerned about, and how would you like to prioritize it com…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 08:03 PM
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This. I erroneously assumed that "love hotel" wasn't an actual thing and just a function of having crappy English.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 07:39 PM
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It's not less about me. I get pleasure when I give pleasure. Some people are like that, some people aren't. I find it extremely erotic when my girl totally loses control and ends up a twitching, sweaty, incoherent mess. Do what works for you, but I find that when girls get mind-blowing sex, they tend to shit test less, comfort test less, and generally all-around be that much more fun. Win/win
/r/askTRP19/03/16 05:20 PM
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Don't tell her. Just say "Let's get out of here." and then take her where you want to take her. Or provide some more information if you want to get better answers from the community.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:24 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=pomodoro
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:09 PM
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You can still be RP and be in a committed LTR. I don't believe in cheating either. There are different levels of everything. It's RP to be willing to walk away when a relationship isn't providing the things you need. It's totally different to commit to a relationship and then be an ass. RP is about self-actualization and improvement. For some that means being a man of your word. If your morality espouses that you should hold yourself to a certain standard, so be it. What works for one doesn't wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:55 PM
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You have to make some time for social interaction and approach in addition to your gym/studying. Go somewhere else to study. Think library, the park, or a coffee shop, or somewhere that you can approach and meet people. You haven't truly broken up with your ex, and you're investing more into the relationship than she is... additionally, you're unhappy with the returns. You admit that you still love her. That's great, but it also isn't letting you cultivate an abundance mentality. Your biggest st…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:06 PM
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TRP is about self-improvement, gaining an understanding of interpersonal communication; basically making yourself into the person who is high value... not just acting like you're high value. And it doesn't mean that you are just a big douche-bag. It's not all about you. Selfish is not a good trait. When your woman does something you approve of, you reward her with the gift of your time and presence. Selfish and self centered while not providing anything of value just means that you're an asshole…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:55 PM
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Hmm... maybe I'm more of an anomaly here. I really get the most pleasure with a woman by being dominant and teasing her and making her cum 'till she's incoherent. My favorite girl discovered she's a squirter. It's hot as hell, and at 31 (I'm 48) she'd never done it before, and now it's pretty regular. It was like finding a switch that she didn't know she had. Here's the thing. When she's totally into sex, and I'm totally into her, it's pretty memorable for the both of us... which leads to her wa…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:34 AM
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The interesting take away for me was "the last girl I dumped ended up like her and I have some residual guilt." I know it's a small sample set, but don't start thinking that girls you dump are all going to go insane. Might be that they were crazy from the get-go. Correlation does not imply causation
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:08 PM
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You asked for help. You got the same answer from 3 different people. I'd be hard pressed to believe that anyone else will tell you anything different. Take the advice or don't. It's good advice. The only real play is a hard next, unless... you're a masochist you don't believe in abundance
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:43 PM
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8 for looks, -6 for crazy (could be more) She's a 2 at best.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:38 PM
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You answered the question yourself. Mentally insane girl, who is scared of all the people, laughing maniacally, not over her ex FWB, drinking alone and missing classes? Damn. Where can I find one for myself? Are you really trying to hook up with this girl again? Hard. fucking. next. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:36 PM
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"I want to be making over $20/hour. I just don’t know what line of work I can get into with a B.A. in Psychology." Sales, Marketing, Market Research, Public Relations, Media Relations... the list is pretty much endless. The issue is finding one of the fields that challenges you intellectually and is something for which you have a passion. It's less about the $20/hr (social work isn't something you get into for the money) and more about being able to go to work each day and enjoy what you do/netw…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:24 PM
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That was fucking beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:09 PM
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She's not a unicorn. You know that. Don't focus on the positives, or what could have been. I think part of the issue is exactly what you said "Just thinking about it fills me with regret." That's pretty standard fare. You're not longing for the girl, per se, you're feeling like you missed out on an experience. You know that she's not perfect, and you know that a relationship with her, if you go by statistics, is pretty much doomed to fail. All you missed out on was your turn. Yeah, it sucks, but…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 02:42 AM
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I haven't been here long, but it seems like the a lot of the posts are about sexual strategy, and for me, the biggest take-away has been about self improvement, finding your purpose, being in control of your emotions, and cultivating stoicism. It's easier to stay in frame when your frame truly reflects your beliefs about yourself and your value. If that's not the case, then you can read all of the field reports and sexual strategy posts for weeks on end and all you'll do is pick up some "game" t…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:40 PM
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it means that they want to touch you. How about some context? What was the conversation about? Who is "someone?" If it's your dad, you probably fucked something up. If it's a girl, you either fucked something up or did something right.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:23 PM
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I just came out of a divorce that was pretty shitty emotionally and financially, and identified a lot of things that I needed to improve. The thing that worked for me, which you already did, was identify the things that you want to improve. The next step is to adopt the "No Zero Days" philosophy. It doesn't matter how small of a step you take, just do something, anything, to get closer to your goals each day. You need to gain momentum. Fat? Go for a walk, a bike ride... pass up that second helpi…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:20 PM
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Thanks for the reply, and I'll certainly check out Bradley Martin. The other plus for PF is that it is truly 5 minutes away. A more expensive gym membership that I don't have time to use at the moment wouldn't do me much good. I've been to PF every other day for the last 3 weeks... haven't missed.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:58 PM
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Thanks! The savings for now are a big issue. I'm in recovery mode after divorce and lawyer bills. Never. Get. Married... Ever.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:38 AM
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Thanks. I know PF is lame, but for now that's what I have to work with... and they do have smith cages... so, not optimal, but it's a start.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:36 AM
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