Summary: Recently unplugged, and nexted the girl I was orbiting. Need advice on how deal with continued attraction to her.

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Background: I found TRP a few months ago. It resonated strongly with me and I swallowed the pill with enthusiasm. Started lifting, made many other significant lifestyle changes, probably worthy of a field report. It's really been great, and I'm happier now than I've ever been before. As part of this self-overhaul and upgrade process, I told the girl I was orbiting I wasn't going to waste any more time on her. I told her I deserved better than to share her friend-zone with two other guys, and that if she really wanted to do them a kindness, she would stop stringing them along too, and pick one to actually be involved with. That rocked her boat quite a bit.

Problem Statement: Trouble is, I'm still stuck on this girl, deep in the back of my brain. She grew up sheltered, so zero partner count, and she's attractive both physically and mentally. When I first came to the group where we met, I was able to turn her on by being the bad guy outsider (this was before I unplugged, so I didn't know the power of the position I was in). During that phase, she was crazy about me. If I had known about frame and game, I would've popped her cherry, piece of cake. I see that now. But instead, I went full BP about two months in. Oneitis, pedestal, you name it, I had it. I was a moron. I literally had her dry-humping me in the back seat of her car one night, and I was the one who pulled the plug on that episode. I was so White Knight it still hurts. Any wonder she friend-zoned me? Just thinking about it fills me with regret.

So now it's time to move on. I need this girl out of my head. I'm open to advice. Lose myself in my lifting and schoolwork? Try to land a one-nighter or two in-between my classes to help control the hormones? Spend more time hanging with the bros? Read something, watch something, listen to something? What's the fastest way to expunge her from my subconscious? Or is it just going to have to be a matter of time?

Also, a big thank you to the RP community for opening my eyes. It's been painful, but I'm a better, happier man today than I've ever been before. Rock on, guys.