frostrust Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
118	Couldn’t we just vote instead? Same cringe as those "destroy my pussy, not the planet" posters. We (as in young women) got groomed by media etc into being proud of objectifying and sexualizing ourselves. This is not empowerment, this is brainwashed-by-patriarchy shit. Edited:planet not "plant"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/19 01:43 AM
6	Trapped It seems to me he either has deep issues he does not want to work on (e.g. depression) or is too coward/afraid to break up with you. You are worthy of love. I hope you love yourself! He seems to neither be able to love himself, nor someone else. Please do not try to fix him, you are not a therapist and it is more likely you will get more and more hurt if you try to fix the relationship (while he does not care).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:10 PM
6	Trapped Hey, first of all you've come far and overcame many obstacles and hardships already, which certainly required a lot of strength. In your situation, I would try to seek out women you can maybe flatshare with, and female friends and allies in general. I would try to fight against the isolation and seek female solidarity (which you are already beginning to do, posting here!). I would drop my unsupportive and uninvested partners ass, as soon as I have a female support net. I whish you the best.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:05 PM
81	When your male friend treats women like shit. When your male friend treats other women like shit, drop him and shame him. Female solidarity over "friendships" like those.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/19 05:52 PM
2	Men telling you about their trauma? I had a guy tell me he was beaten up by other guys for defending a girl. We were talking about pornography prior, and I said any man who watches porn is part of the problem, he then said how he personally "only watches porn by sexworkers he knows and he pays for porn". But I told him idgaf, especially bc his sexworker friend he told me about, has trouble finding any other job to pay her bills. But telling me about he did stand up for women in the years in past definently gained him some sympathy…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/19 04:16 PM
211	A guy who I briefly talked to a few years ago shared this. Funny thing is, he kissed me at a party and then went downstairs and started making out with another girl and I caught him. Now all he does is complain on social media...mostly about women. The best is when a woman drops an LVM right after his first fuck up. No need to drag on with guys like that, they are time-wasters and it will only hurt you emotionally the longer you invest your time in them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/19 02:45 PM
50	I'm a pick me.. I feel horrible Hi, maybe it would help you to cancel out all men from your life? Then you have to focus on yourself, please get your self esteem up, by doing what you enjoy or trying new hobbies(?). Do you have irl women friends you can talk to, that can support you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 07:56 PM
18	Should I give up before even starting? Please do not engage with him further, female solidarity is more important here (even if you do not know her) and he cheated on his ex, he will cheat on you too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 08:15 PM
54	Don't fall for the "You're cute" compliment Only guys that called me cute so far had some weird "Daddy + Little Girl" fantasies. No thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 07:56 PM
24	I feel like I messed up and dumb . Do not bother with him, he is not worth your time and it is clear that he does not value you at all. If he ever approaches/writes you just ignore, he had his chances.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/19 07:55 PM