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Leave? Brother, I BUILT this fucking house as a HOMEMAKER. Did they have kids or something? What other godfarsaken reason must you have to make yourself SO vulnerable otherwise? Edit: I'm sad I can't find the context now. I'm aching to see how this ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:10 AM
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Don't just do a factory reset when you suspect a virus. It's not worth the extra hassle and a pain if it skips personal files. Use Malwarebytes or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:32 AM
7

What's a jawbone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:26 AM
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My thoughts exactly. This is not a situation of "He's so die hard, cringe!", but rather one of "Will he be there when I need him, and before I've had to ask?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:01 AM
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Silent upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 09:11 AM
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Too bad the article itself is pseudoscience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 10:39 AM
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It's a silly question for an 'Ask' forum, because of upvotes/downvotes. Edit: I do find it disgusting to know someone's had a LOT of unprotected sex. (people are big fat liars about condom usage)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 08:39 AM
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I agree. That's funny, I just said a similar thing to someone else on here. You're right about society not being ready. My inner ideologist will still hate it :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:16 AM
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Golden analysis. You're spot-on when it comes to 'give the robot a new line of code'. That's exactly what's happening here. My heart breaks knowing that these types of relationships crash and burn. The worst part of this is that they'll come to you and say: "Oh, I've never had these types of problems with anyone before." and then they'll date someone else and it's all the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 10:40 AM
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Dealing with a 'logical thinker' is a pain in the ass. I'd shy away from becoming too angry, but you be careful how much energy you invest into explaining why you're upset. The handbook is quite clear on the attitude you should be having, but whether it will directly help you in your situation remains a question. It's up to you to decide that balance. Ask yourself what has changed and try to think of why, but don't let it get to you. It could very well be he's become a bit too comfortable in you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 10:36 AM
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'Stop making nudes' I hate this sentiment, because it implies that it's normal for the recipient to be an absolute fucking ass who might be breaking laws (in certain regions).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 10:20 AM
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Does he look down on you? Your entire life is entwined with this man. That doesn't seem healthy. I've gone through a similar situation, and it ended with that he saw me as less for my job search and titles and simultaneously looked up to me for my wisdom and way with words. I have a different lifestyle and my friends are not exactly High Value at all times. He didn't like that. Something similar may be happening to you. Ask yourself what you SHOULD do to make things better, even if that might me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 08:56 AM
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I've never had any hint towards the penis size of a man other than how much space his genitals took up in his jeans. My favourite experience so far was with a guy who looked like he packed a good average dick. He acted like what you are calling 'small dick energy', but boy was I wrong. It was beautiful and had a girth to DROOL over once it popped out of hiding. It's haunted my standards ever since. Girls: all you can find out is whether he's too small for your taste, and you can find out by sitt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:42 AM
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Imagine having this as a front to seduce a woman. You've got to be a really big loser to mention your ex like you're trying to make some inclusive small talk after he... Wanted to visit you AT WORK and pussied out? Hell nah sis. I would like to say he treated you like a casual friend, but he didn't even do that. He's below the bar for the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:59 AM
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I always tell people that they should only give what they're willing to lose. It sounds mildly unethical, but reciprocation is not something you should lose sleep over. I think the amount of people who feel like they've been used is much bigger than the amount of people who actually have been taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:26 PM
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Following models is a red flag. It's something entirely different if a 'couple of hot women' happen to be their friends, but chasing them to masturbate to them is definitely a big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 02:19 PM
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u/makeawomancum living up to her name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:42 AM
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They asked me for the details and remarked 'hot'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:20 PM
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Did you ever have to go through people fanficcing your trauma or was it just me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:55 AM
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Weirdly enough I get it, because I've been there. I've been terrible (nearing emotional abuse) to a clingy ex before and deeply regret who I was, no matter how right it seemed at the time. I could no longer respect him because he tolerated what I did. It's very fucked up for a person to think like that, but sadly it's true that it's a gauge for how much you're willing to put up with. Shit tests are an unhealthy part of too many relationships. I no longer operate this way. Always be prepared. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:50 AM
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There... Is SO much context missing! 10 points if this ends up as emotional cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:29 PM
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"I feel like a kink-shamer" 😂 "AITA for not going on hormones so my bed partner can drink from my tits like the toddler he is?" /s Am I... kinkshaming?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:15 AM
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I've got this image of the wallstreetbets snoo in my head that's preaching 'sigma male grindset1!111' and kind of want to vomit upon reading about that abusive fuckhead of a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:09 AM
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From personal experience: it's really easy to overdo biting. I once left a blue mark on a guy's tit while playfighting back in the day. Accidental fight or flight response. It was pretty bad. BUT HERE COMES THE TWISTER: I was immature as fuck back then and now know better than to playfight with someone, let alone a guy. Guys can pin you down really easily and accidents happen due to that. But that's not what happened here. The bloke was too rough with his girlfriend. What concerns me is the whol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:39 AM
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I have the complete opposite, lol. I DREAD meeting another man only to find out wayyy too late he doesn't wash his ass. I. Have. Poopstreak. Nightmares. I wish this were a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:21 AM
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bUt WoMen are sexy and mEn ArE nOt! Hello, the gay community would like to have a word with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:54 PM
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This is my favourite comment of the week already. People do NOT acknowledge the pressure women are still under after all those years of feminism. It's a travesty to celebrate sexual liberation that has mainly benefitted men. After all this time we're still pretending we're okay with the whole 'fuckhole' rhetoric that pornography perpetuates. It only adds to the whole cycle of pleasing men for very little in return other than money. Porn is why there are RedPill pages on the internet promising yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:15 PM
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For the lurkers who are in 'man heaven' right now: "I get treated well because I give blowjobs, clean and cook, and you don't." Ma'am, that's not a recipe for being treated well. That's blaming the victims of bad relationships for not giving enough blowjobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:31 AM
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Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:19 AM
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I really want to find his podcast now just for the lulz. Wish there were a way to not give him views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:22 PM
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Bruuuuuuhhhh... thanks for digging that up. CESS. POOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:19 PM
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Fake. Why ask a newbie to advocate for the entirety of FDS? Plus, people want cookie cutter answers most of the time. They want take FDS as a group of people who are all the same and want to believe their own narrative about what makes an individual a subscriber. Even if you somehow manage to give them all the right answers, they're likely twist it and then blame YOU for twisting the story. Ya can't have a good argument with anyone who hasn't been a victim of the shit we deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:14 PM
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Lol I just read the first 30 pages. The book tries to gift wrap emotions and common decency into 'something men can digest'. It's unfortunate at best that the author has to tone-police his work for it to be taken seriously. However, the author makes a few good points about a healthy view on life. I honestly have trouble reading further due to his digging for anecdotes from the past. It feels highly unnecessary to me to mention stories from the 1950s and earlier. Might read later if I'm feeling m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:08 AM
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Man am I glad my mediocre ass barely attracts annoying strangers at bars. Only at the train station, really. They tend to be elder men in their 70s, sometimes a little socially deprived. I've been called slightly intimidating before, but that feels irrelevant and like victim blaming. Could I have been lucky because of that, though? These men definitely could've had bad intentions with horrible consequences. I'm glad I wasn't completely alone. I'm curious to hear stories of how you deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:23 AM
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30+!? That's insane. I didn't know the obesity issue was THIS large. Phew. My own country: 18.1%, 19%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:25 AM
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PickMe: Exhibit A
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:30 PM
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I wonder what their threshold for obesity is. Any race!? 25-40!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:07 PM
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A lot of feminist subreddits are a joke. You can literally parrot a VERY LARGE part of our rhetoric without ever being banned, but the moment you're associated those magic 3 letters, you're out. Part of me gets it. We're not always right, and there are shitty people in here as well as those who I don't agree with, but come on... Oh well. I'm not feeling like missing out on having a conversation with Ms. DinosaurPussyFemmeDeluxe and her performative feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:52 PM
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Him: all men could abuse you Also him: let me be a man! Ya'll have been trying to replace me! How can you ALMOST get it and then still fuck it up? The worst part of this is that he says the misogynistic thing first, and then somehow tries to redeem himself with something totally off-topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:52 PM
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Quality post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:49 PM
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Good. That indicates he's neutral on the subject. He likely USED to like the idea. It could be he no longer likes it, it could be he's telling you the truth: anal is MEH to him now. Being aware of potentially hurting someone seems more important to me here. Ask yourself whether he would. What's the point in being worried about him missing it? You have sex together, and I hope you make love more, honestly: if he's good for you, he won't go around making demands. Anal would hurt you, and you'll fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:14 AM
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"I think he can do better." girl he cannot. He's probably a narc. All the sweetness was only for himself. This is what poly people are like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:23 AM
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Good news everyone! The post got more attention and almost all of the top comments are denouncing the coworker's actions. Spread the word ya'll: intoxicated consent is NOT consent :)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:15 AM
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Virgo or virgin... even if this guy gets laid or has a summer zodiac I'd want nothing to do with him. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:08 AM
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Being pampered and protected by your partner should be the standard. It's lovely. My partner loves what I do for him, so it's not exactly wrong for women across the globe to ask for the same kindness in return: an awesome husband. In a what we call 'scrotes', this standard seems to vanish. It's what I like to call 'the Eternal Suffering'. These people are asking us to choose between protection and independence. We surely can't have it all! In their eyes we're getting more than they've ever had, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:53 AM
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Please don't advocate for detoxing. Drinking water is good enough for you as it is without a whole market designed to scam gullible women out of their money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:24 AM
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Thanks, lol. I thought I was getting a stroke reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:09 PM
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Oh yeah, same. I want to believe. :( I'm curious as to what you do say and can say without sacrificing yourself directly. Someone give me the remote control so I can just speed up this rollercoaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:37 AM
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Oh man, I'm not even a mother (yet) and I'm already seething inside by reading this. I'm filled with motherly instincts I didn't know I had, lol. She is SUCH a strong person for remaining so calm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:32 AM
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God's work... Nah sis. It's horrible this happens, even though it likely HAS to happen before anything changes. I'd rather not see LVM/NVM locked down at all. It teaches them that SOMEONE out of all these people is okay with their shitty behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:19 AM
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Wtf is that word salad in the second comment? Bla bla bla bla dating badly and sex for me... Women 2% in military. Okay. Out of nowhere, but not exactly. Fucking retards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:09 AM
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Bypass LMR... *looks up* *vomit* According to girlschase: 'last-minute resistance', so basically a woman can't say no and mean it lololol. YOu HaVE to Do iT ThE RigHt WaY frOm BaCK to FRont1!111, that way you're met with less resistance (!) AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:24 PM
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I find it really difficult to avoid smalltalk. How do you manage it? I'm all for deep conversation, but how does it work like that with a stranger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:08 AM
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It's projection. A lot of people (male mostly) love teaching someone else their hobby. They tend to think you can get into that same mindset of rambling joyfully about your hobbies so it 'creates a feeling of common ground'. It seems like a nice gesture at first, but usually the interest in you is feigned and you end up with work that gives you nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:44 AM
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Never, never... Two so far for me! As a former kinkmeisha this gives me hope. Needless to say, it weirded me out at first to have vanilla lovers, but that was before FDS. I too find it sad that it seems like they're a minority, however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:04 PM
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I agree on your stance on porn, but wonder whether I'd rather let a man fuck things up or not before introducing them to the possibility of me switching them for someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:09 PM
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…What are you on about ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:52 AM
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Men don't know half of the shit other worse men do, and it might be their friend too. It's an uphill battle, that's what it is with these types of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:53 PM
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"I give him guy time." omg the eyeroll, lol. Yeah good luck with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:49 PM
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Good to know I've made a natural habit of vetting then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:00 PM
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Over 9000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:09 AM
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Valentine's Day is a test for me to see whether you care more about 'being cool' hating shitty commerce rather than caring about your relationship. I therefore always at least celebrate it on a small scale. I used to not care about Valentine's since I saw it as lovebombing, but now that I've seen pigs in the shape of men hate on it, I've decided to celebrate it out of spite for those people who'd rather ruin a relationship over it. Teddies and hearts still make me want to barf, however. I've onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:18 PM
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Can confirm. A lot of people tend to think toothpicks are all they need. I have removed a wet dog's worth of strench by flossing. If I floss thoroughly once every 4 days or more often, I have no morning breath. FLOSS. I DON'T CARE WHETHER YOU HATE THE WAY THINGS TASTE AFTER BRUSHING YOUR TEETH. YES, YOUR GUMS MIGHT BLEED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:27 PM
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Wow what fuck. Yeah, this is a big problem in modern humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:16 AM
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A lot of modern men won't even do THIS any more. It's nice to be an 'equal', but I'd rather be treated as a lover than a friend. It's all so odd and unwelcoming in the dating scene now that your date 'just wants to chill'. I'm not a big fan. I'm not your friend, sorry. I don't have a hard time making friends, so you're not the first in line. It's a harsh reality that a lot of redditors will never understand. What reddit calls a SIMP nowadays is RIDICULOUS. They'd rather go sigma and pretend to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:30 AM
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You dated someone with kids old enough to drive!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:04 AM
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I'm trying to spam the upvote button on this comment, but it isn't working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:00 AM
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Had to google which pipe dream shit subreddit this came off of. I'm glad at least SOME people are roasting him, but not nearly as much as I think he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:05 AM
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I don't know if I'll ever find another man as good in bed as my ex, sigh... If it weren't for FDS to keep me sane, I'd hop right back. It's not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:18 PM
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Subs like GC banned? What do you mean, and are you for or against that ban?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:04 AM
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I seem to have been on the opposite end of everyone here. My ex did not care about what kind of car he would get. That annoyed me to no end since I'm very much of a convenience and comfort person. My car should be my one true companion on the road. I don't have an obsession with luxury, but I wouldn't want to be seen in a Fiat Mulfipla dead or alive. He would let his parents (50+) decide what to buy for him and make an appointment. Surprise surprise, the car had problems. The heating did not wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:15 AM
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I got the wrong impression from you reading those messages. Thank you for elaborating on what you really meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:58 PM
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Reminds me of this week's 'AITA for telling my gf she didn't need her own closet'? 😢🤣 Edit, the title was: 'AITA for going to IKEA with my girlfriend and then refusing to pay half'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:12 PM
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That guy is a douche, but why did you have to go all out on showing your plans and thoughts to a man who you didn't really match with from message 1? Why else did you go all 'Oooh so you're a lawyyeeeeeer and you're in banking' if it weren't for hearing of his salary? Are you interested in those things? Even if you're after a rich man, that's not how to go about it. There's nothing wrong with being smart, but putting it on display all the time puts you at a disadvantage from the start. People wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:01 PM
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He was 'ugly' before the photo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:49 PM
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Honesty has never looked so ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:37 PM
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The ad worked... For the cheesestrings and banana bread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:05 PM
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Complaining about your ex is just telling on yourself in the end. What a selfish prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:19 PM
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NEST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:31 PM
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Imagine being so narc you dream about yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:31 PM
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Only an idiot can believe aging ISN'T something to be praised, aside from your health becoming more fragile. They're blind regardless of how much they can see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:05 PM
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My brain hurts reading this sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:47 AM
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I wouldn't say they always 'want' something to be okay. Often it happens just in the way OP described. They're like gamers trying all the chat options, even unethical ones. If everyone agrees, the fun is over for them. They just want more out of a conversation regardless of the cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:45 AM
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If they could have they would have! Yeet goes the incapable man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:48 AM
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Sis, why did you even give him a grain of attention?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:07 PM
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I wouldn't exactly say 'men aren't funny', but I swear to god that Reddit humour is dumb, vile and ignorant most of the times. It tires me endlessly to hear jokes at a person's expense ALL DAY LONG. Toxic fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:11 PM
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Preach. I'd like to add to this that women need to remember that the way we're treated is not always an indication of what we're worth. You can only ALLOW others to treat you a certain way, and frankly said, a lot of men haven't woken up to the elephant in the room that the 'equality plan' has turned out to be: men in backseat moderation determining when things are right and which things are. It drives me up the wall, especially after my recent break-up. I could see his struggle being a man, yet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:49 AM
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For non-subscribers: "But fuckbeingautobanned, how would you know that in less than a year or even half a year? Aren't you supposed to find out on your own - you know, and not push the idea of marriage until you've been together for a couple of years?" Nah, sis. Your time is valuable and life is simultaneously about screwing around and NOT screwing around. The balance is in not screwing around with things you could burn yourself out with emotionally over the span of months. Stop having more resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:09 AM
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Some people in the comments are bashing OP for bringing her 'post-wall' and that no-one will date her any more. What the fuck, how fucked up is society to think that? How freaking long did it take this son of a bitch leeching scrote to: A. Find out he didn't want to go on. B: Tell her. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:07 AM
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Did we date the same person? Edit: I did not look while typing this earlier. Fixed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:43 PM
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WELL SO ANYWAY, HAVE YOU CHECKED OUT THE LATEST NEWS ON "X AND Y"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:33 PM
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Or my ex: *SILENCE* No support, no sympathy. Just *SILENCE* and changing the subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:31 PM
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Yikes. Evading therapy when your wife wants you to go because you're a sack of shit in the house and all the other possibilities. Escaping, escaping. It's all that an LVM does. I'm surprised he's so comfortable with staying in the house. Most LVM can't wait to escape. His wife must treat him way too well for the attitude he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:36 PM
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I agree with all of the comments in here, but she doesn't sound like queen material either. A 'queen' wouldn't put herself in a situation like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:29 PM
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How would you like your babies, Josh? Scrambled, malnourished or a combination of both? Equality means NO babies, think about that. Let that sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 12:45 PM
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fire emoji. That's all I've got to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:18 AM
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... every time? Woah. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm sorry you had to go through that multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:21 AM
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When I was younger and scratched myself for the first time in self harm, I told my grandmother I got a burn mark from the radiator. It really didn't look like that at all. People are weird af and will make up the most ridiculous lies under pressure. I'm not assuming this is a fanfic right away because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:17 AM
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Thank god for those comments that recognise THE PROBLEM in taking all these situations at face value WITHOUT THE THOUGHT of other possible dangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:11 AM
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Oh, yeah. This piece! Worth every minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:51 PM
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Kick-ass username by the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:18 PM
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Apparently they think that if you post on FDS you agree with EVERY single post here, and that an HVM is a 6-6-6 guy who needs their rights infringed on by installing spy cams and apps that monitor them 24/7. Get mad. Sometimes I want them to just strike me up for a conversation instead of banning me or judging me for FDS, but then I remember they're all brainwashed by the idea that we've 'achieved equality'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:18 PM
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Pretty easy. You log out and create a new account. On mobile you can have two active accounts and switch between them in the sidebar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:03 PM
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Oh no, they really do ban anyone if they do a background check on you and find FDS. The comment that got me banned was one that explained that 'mansplaining and manspreading' aren't sexist terms. The irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:59 PM
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Just no, OP. You keep saying everyone's not that black and white and that good people can do shit things. No. I've been there before as the cheater. There's nothing glorious about it, and I was being a shit person. It didn't matter how shitty my partner was or how good the next one was. To make matters worse, apparently the partner of your romantic isn't that bad of a person. Cheating is cheating. It's the easy option for when you want to have it all and cower in fear of the consequences. Honest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:50 AM
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Wow, mad respect. You've done things I can only dream of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:02 PM
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Being pro sex work is the new virtue signalling. It's really sad that none of my recent comments explaining the harms of sex positivity and sex work are really taking on. These scrotes just can't let go of their madonna/whore complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:00 PM
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Nononono thank you. It's worse than I thought! OOF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:44 PM
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One of the comments below that ABSOLUTELY roasted her in hopes she'd have more self-respect. "This bloke disrespects you in such a disgusting manner and you clearly don’t have any self respect, which is incredibly frustrating to read. What’s the point in asking for advice if you’re going to ignore what people have said to you? If this doesn’t end in you dumping his ass then I don’t know what else to tell you." *AND* "Like who tf gets violated like this and their first thought is “better ask Redd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:44 PM
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"She didn't even give me a thank you." BRUH THE AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:38 PM
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It's hard to heed advice to be more emotional if you haven't set up pathways through experience to air it all in a healthy way. I've seen this in friends and exes of mine. They feel what they're feeling, but they can't connect it to words or some other problems arise. Plus, women can be perpetuators of the patriarchy as well. We see pickmes every day, and every "Man up!" can push someone who's late in their progress straight back down. What we really want to say with those words differs a whole …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:42 AM
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Yup. I honestly believe that the extreme selfishness of today is being exacerbated by a lack of parental figures (mostly dads) standing up to boys and young men. A lot of these people have only been shown tough love alongside a lack of raising them to think in ways that serve the greater good. I've been thinking a lot about writing a book on the subject, but I'm no psychologist. Our culture rewards selfishness to an unhealthy degree. For a lot of men the only escape out of a dead circle around t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:22 AM
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Perhaps, perhaps. I do think most of them are just chore-buying. The sooner it's over for them, the better. The joke's on you, Pandora man. I would have the same thought running through my head. THE SOONER THIS IS OVER, THE BETTER IT WILL BE! 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:00 AM
6

YIKES. Thought it was a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:47 AM
16

Please don't downvote me! I live in Europe, and all I see is the barf of a coffee date. Is it the tip, and if so, what is proper FDS etiquette? Can somebody explain why else this is a "Nah, sis?". Not disagreeing, I just wanna know precisely how bad this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:06 PM
105

Nearly an hour of driving! Uwuwuwu sob sob Husband needs to grow a pair. What pisses me of the most is people on this thread pretending guys deserve a cookie for 'working all day'. Like they justify bad behaviour after a bad work day and pretend he's been sweating all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:31 AM
30

I've had a guy back-pedalling and asking me he wished for more than an open relationship before I joined FDS 😂. I guess fear of commitment plays a big role along with them wanting it all. Needless to say, he himself wasn't good enough for me. Did I seek out someone else? Yes, but I broke up first like a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:05 PM
14

I wish I read electroloop and your words back when I was 15. It would've saved me so much emotional trauma. You're the best sisters an apprentice could ever wish for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:28 PM
6

Nah, sis. A guy who is into you will chase you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:51 AM
26

Aha myes, so according to this logic you can be a sex worker too, but only if you're single. Bad men don't only think with their dick, they're thinking with selfishness too now. YEET with the porn. Porn dooms us all into being undatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:35 PM
48

Godly work of you to write this out. This should become an article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 02:41 PM
79

What an incredible read. I had my suspicions of the culture inside a pornographic company, but I've been blown away by the sheer lack of respect for privacy and the law. What an insidious place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 02:29 PM
21

incomprehensible noises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:45 PM
3

Then make sure you stop limiting yourself! Withdraw from this situation, and find someone who you can air with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:59 PM
1

Oh. My bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:53 PM
0

It's from 2015. I believe she's single now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:08 AM
16

They seriously think 'it's their turn' and that feminism is useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:01 AM
38

Disrespect is a red flag for me, but I find relying on astrology a lot pretty silly myself. I could not run at hearing one of OP's statements from a guy because I wholeheartedly agree with some of them. Edit: then again I kind of did once, come to think of it. The dude started calling himself an apache attack helicopter. Now that's just offensive. I do suppose it's all about the reaction, yes - whether they disagree or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:10 AM
88

She looks amazing though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:14 PM
13

Sis... The fact he hasn't even OFFERED to make your life easier means you're BELOW the standard for behaviour he has for friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:03 AM
9

Last guy is a saint, indeed. Personally my height preference is around my height. (1.68m) I don't really want much taller, but I'm fine with other people's standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:49 PM
34

You've already said it yourself. She doesn't seem to have much going on for herself except these dates. She's dipping into the pool without levelling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:41 AM
147

Lol you triggered 4 automoderators at once. Wish I could report those ads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:28 AM
65

I hate this behaviour with all of my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:08 PM
285

Is this a speedrun to get rejected ASAP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:42 PM
145

Hot = alien! TOTALLY DIFFERENT LIFE EXPERIENCE! WOAAAAHH! What does a hot girl like you do behind that BORING paper 😳😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:14 PM
32

Girlfriend of 6 years... Lol I don't even need to read the rest of the post 😂😂😂 Edit: Everyone's The Asshole, but he's broke as well. They need to break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:47 PM
23

Get some more dates in. Video calling is a way you can still remotely vet/check for compatibility. Like the person before me stated: go on about your life as you usually would. I don't know if you have any hobbies, but they're great for sharing over video chat as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:56 AM
15

WOOF! I'm gonna remember this one. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 08:25 AM
24

Pornography is usually PAID, which means the EMPLOYER can ask whatever they want from the person willing to perform it, and to exacerbate those ridiculous standards you've got a target audience who have been desensitised to want MORE and MORE from a woman who just wants to make a decent living. If you can't see that as exploitation that goes WAYYYY further than expectations regular employers have, there is something wrong with you and you are clearly unable to put yourself into the actresses' po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:36 PM
188

What an insult. No words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:29 PM
73

Mario is not for children alone, and you must be at least 13 years old to join Reddit. Still pretty degenerate to bomb young teens with unsollicited pornography, however. Especially when you are not prompted an NSFW for the entire subreddit. The rules of reddit in general suck. See: female slavery subreddits. Fuck I'm embarrassed. Guy's post history tells he's doing this on purpose and KNOWS he's targeting children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:56 AM
20

The answer is always no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:18 AM
60

I advise against that. Plus, the commenters on the original thread have unanimously agreed that she's being financially abused and have been telling her about steps the could/should take. Deep down I hope this story is pure fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:10 AM
419

You just can't win, can you? 5 figures, taking care of the kids, husband stops working and decides to manage YOUR budget. I can't believe this is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:48 PM
60

A pickme has no designated age group. Even my own mother (57) showed herself as a total pickme by cherrypicking good moments off an abuser as an excuse to keep him around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:46 AM
76

Don't be like men. Wanting to be like men (read: being brainwashed) has lead us to our current position in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:40 AM
204

''Audience is deluded''''You'll hate men, you prolly already do''And then the incel comparison, oof. I have but one thing to say to these people: ''Hi! You're trying to get your dick wet and it won't matter to you who is going to suffer for it. We're not like you. We're trying to get our souls wet here." You're not helping your case by messaging women who are actively trying to get rid of you in a conversation, you know? Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:34 AM
214

She's rocking that fabulous FDS colour visually AND emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:40 PM
11

Perhaps. Let's hope for the best then. The best being that eitherway he shows his true colours, be them good or bad. I don't think paper rings are the best way to go about commitment. Perhaps she sees value his somewhat lackluster attempt, but I too pray to all that is holy that he's got more up his sleeve. I can't judge his efforts upon a handful of paper rings, myself however. I get it, though. It seems like a hell of an unhealthy way to avoid the elephant in the room, being actual on-paper co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:32 PM
37

I'm going to be downvoted into oblivion for this, but: Yes I hope he gets her a real ring. No, I don't think it's 'just a trash ring'. It doesn't deserve to be praised into heaven, but it certainly doesn't need to be put down like this. We don't have enough context for that. Questions are unanswered like: Is she hoping for a real one soon? How soon? Are there any valid reasons the real ring is not there yet? If he wanted to, he would - but maybe the relationship or their life isn't yet the way t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:27 AM
51

😂 Is this even a question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:18 AM
39

What in scrotenation is MPSH/MDC???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:43 AM
61

Pornography is not innocent, especially any kind beyond 'couples'-pornography. It's going to take a long time for society to undo the harm it has done to our outlook on infidelity and the normalisation of violence against participants in sex. I like to quote the paradox of tolerance when it comes to the consuming of this type of media. Times are changing, and they always have been. That doesn't mean we should casually forget the needs of half the planet and the needs of men who are waking up to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:43 PM
52

Could you please post the whole text for us? I can't remove the log-in wall on mobile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:27 PM
112

I couldn't stand 4 minutes of this. She starts off by shaming how her and other women's vaginas look, going along with the digusting 'beef curtain'-shaming. That shit don't fly with me. It should fly yeah, out of the fucking window. She then goes on about how 'she makes herself wet' for sex. Oh my fucking god have some standards and make sex a mutual experience that's more than just penetration. PICK ME, PICK ME! I LOWER THE BAR ACTIVELY UNTIL EVEN MEN WON'T FIND ME ATTRACTIVE ANY MORE! To top i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:14 PM
5

She posted an update, and GIRL is it sad. "Later on that day he called me and I was trying to act normal but he told me that I was acting weird and that he doesn’t understand what’s wrong. He then ended the call saying “bye” and I hung up without saying it back. He called a minute later to tell me that I should stop doing that and I told him I just hung up because he said “bye” and that I didn’t hang up in his face. He then told me that what I’m doing is not okay so I asked him “but hanging in m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:35 AM
20

'I even grope his butt!' lol... Never in my life have I considered such a pornsick WOMAN - AND a pornsick MAN. Together! Is this a dark comedy, or what? Edit: the post is likely fake. OP never even commented any questions and likes to call themselves Kuhwa (probably meaning whore).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:51 AM
17

Last sentence, all the way at the bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:41 AM
79

“Guys, don’t expect women to respect you if you don’t respect yourselves.” said no one ever according to the article. WELCOME TO FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:34 AM
161

I love this rendition, I love her voice. 'Blurred Lines' is what's wrong with people nowadays. If you're too shite at reading body language, ASK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:12 PM
17

WhatsApp is not a red flag, at least where I live. Texting is being phased out, and where I live you only get 120 credits total for either a minute of call or a text. Snapchat/kik definitely is though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:29 PM
40

Bourbon red and orange are so nice and he's just like: NOPE, can't do. Not gonna take care of myself. Not gonna level up. Bruh, I'm level 60! Gonna find me a person who is blind, so they won't see my barfy low self-esteem kept upright by a whole load of narcissism and entitlement. Reee I don't want to just fuck! Well, honestly his character is so terrible, I bet being useful for ANYTHING (let alone sex) in a relationship is completely out of the question. Then, to finish it off - he's got his LO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:04 AM
138

Declaring war would mean I'd have to put effort in to keep arguing. "No, I don't think I will." It's a nonsensical thing to keep on fighting once you realise you're arguing with a pigeon who will shit on your chessboard. I make my point, and people in general can build upon that. Or they could just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:05 PM
35

I simultaneously need to hear more of this and I very much don't. This would be the same as asking a nurse for a 'medical examination'. Quite a turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:43 AM
24

He's likely only 25-30. Valid point though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:26 AM
143

"Oh no, I'm asking for people to rate my boobs online - why won't anyone show intimacy to me?" ​ If you play open book to people to the degree that she's been, not everyone is going to be a saint about it. LVM will see you as a means to their twisted ends. Sissssss! In my deepest and regretted pickme phase I thought compliments about my body could replace that empty hole in my heart, but dear god it doesn't. And let me guess, they think you're slut-shaming her. SIGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:29 PM
6

Being submissive and trying to work things out with a psychopath is exactly what got her killed. Nonetheless, we should NEVER blame their victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:12 AM
40

Can I get ONE big cheer for all our queens in the TikTok chat? WOOO! Equality to the norm of a man is utter insanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:07 AM
86

"Pornography use can certainly affect a person’s ability to be truly intimate in a relationship, but your husband’s pornography use may rather be related to a struggle with feelings of performance pressure" BRUV, where does it state he's even trying? I can't even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:31 PM
18

Zaddy!? I'm fucking dying, someone take me to a hospital :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:38 PM
38

Oh my god I have had a similar thing happen to me. I was called overly sensitive for having a zero tolerance policy on bullying, BY A FELLOW WOMAN FROM HR. She told me I needed to know the difference between banter and bullying. Needless to say I left the company, and they've been struggling without me ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:37 AM
135

Comments are so mad haha. People still think that 'tightness' is a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:50 AM
45

That's some garbage steak for 90 dollars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:43 AM
158

I know right? I fucking hate it when people call themselves boring. They're just setting themselves up for failure from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:34 AM
2

Oh my god, are you me? Have you also been gaslit that their behaviour was okay while it was clearly not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:26 AM
227

The comments are incredibly disgusting. It's vile how you can want to watch this type of media and yet still dehumanize the people who've regretted serving it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:47 AM
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Welcome, everyone! I can't speak for our lovely mods, but please DO read the sidebar! It's not just being nice that earns you our support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:29 PM
44

What the hell makes you think strangers have the right to see you nearly nude? You say you want a dating app to work for you, but you're still stuck in the mindset of pleasing others. WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU SUBJECT YOURSELF TO THIS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:47 PM
6

They want men to return to being MaScULinE men how exactly? What are they gonna do? Grab their katanas and threaten to take over cities by raping women? Fucking hell, anyone who glorifies the classic ages is a complete buzzword moron. Source: I live in a country where classic-horny LVM made their own political party. 'Forum voor Democratie. '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:12 AM
51

I wish this were pinned. I had no idea what this was about at first. Now that I know, I'm embarassed. Guy is thirsting on a tiktok while in a relationship, shitty women defend him. "Oh hey look at me! I'm so modern for embracing the fact that my guy openly ogles other women! I'm just so much better than those INSECURE people amirite?"🤡 "But guys look at porn too, this is just so much healthier!"🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:20 AM
27

Keep Jen in your life. Don't let a man replace her or her role. Men are not replacements for your friends. Of course you're going to have a busier schedule, but never throw so much of your time into them that you'll abandon your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:04 PM
4

There is no chance in hell your relationship is ever going to go well if a guy has the audacity to EVEN ASK you to be his favourite porn star. (that's how I see nudes tbh) I've taken nudes before in my past under the guise of 'doing it for body positivity'🤮. What a 🤡 I was. If I really took nudes to love myself, I wouldn't have shown a goddamn soul. Now that I'm in a healthy relationship, I'd still not take them. Making love is just so much better than this half-assed manipulative behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:55 AM
17

OOOOFFF. Bigger burn than the AmITheAsshole of this week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:13 PM
3

50/50 is not as fair as you think it is and you should just do a lot of vetting while dating. Yeet a non-provider out of the window. A family can be two people. Edit: no HVM is going to expect you to compete with him. I'm in a relationship with one myself. No way we want kids (yet). Maybe never. He still makes me feel like I'm in heaven, without all the lovebombing shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:45 AM
1

I love the little shake at the end. This is what FDS feels like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:14 AM
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