I have gone a pretty long time, like a year and a half long, without dating or having sex whatsoever. I'm glad I took that time for myself but now after meeting a new guy just 2 short weeks ago and already seeing some flags I need some help with the block and delete portion of this. Basically just some reassurance that this is the best way to proceed. He is not the only guy I've been talking to but he has been putting in the most effort (aside from this past weekend) and is by far the one I'm most attracted to.

What happened was he said he was going to swing by and see me while I'm at work (I'm a bartender) last night and never showed up. He called me today to say hi and when I mentioned this to him he apologized claimed he was tired from work upon getting home and passed out, and "completely forgot." This was really annoying because I was expecting him and also how tf do you forget? He does have a lot going on at the moment but this is still not acceptable to me. He does smoke weed, something I don't do at all, which is not only a turn off but probably responsible for him forgetting. Who knows what other low value behavior awaits with a guy who is stoned every day...

He also out of absolutely nowhere (on the same phone call) mentioned that his ex gf is also a bartender at a place nearby. I asked what this had to do with anything and he just said he wanted me to know upfront in case I knew her since he didn't want it to be awkward. Idk, it just seemed so random and inappropriate timing wise to bring such a thing up.

TL, DR; guy I just started seeing "forgot" to drop by and see me at work then randomly brought his ex gf into the conversation. I need confirmation that this is red flag behavior worth blocking and deleting over.