| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3127 | Lost virginity from listening to seddit | Field Report | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 308 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2) | Field Report | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 66 | Just wanted to send a little thanks | Field Report | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 25 | Competing for a girl with another guy, I lost | Field Report | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 14 | First time without the help of alc | Field Report | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 05:44 AM |
| 5 | How do you wingman? | Conversation | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 2 | It don’t stop!! I’m going out with girls this weekend, what’s next? | Removed: Specific Situation | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Didn’t let me smash, but wants me to come over again | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand framing | Fundamentals | fuckdus | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 05:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Seriously how do you keep a turn an fwb into a friend?I’m a pretty solid storyteller and I got a lot of good stories. Made her laugh a lot, and I made sure to ignore her at some points when she’d talk to other guys, and I didn’t ever get jealous. | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Seriously how do you keep a turn an fwb into a friend?I mean she’s invited me over a few times since then, One time her roomate was home and the other time I just wanted my shorts back lol. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Seriously how do you keep a turn an fwb into a friend?I got with this girl who was in one of my friend groups, we went out drinking one night and ended up fucking, she stayed at my place for like three days and we fucked the whole time. She occasionally texts me to hang and out we haven’t fucked since. Weird as fuck, don’t know how it happened. Only thing I can say was when I was flirting with her I never called her pretty or shit like that, I just gave good eye contact and escalated my touching. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I word a personal ad to weed out the most weirdos possible?My apologies, when you said ad I just automatically assumed it was a paid for service. Didn’t mean to hit ya like that, that’s my bad. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I word a personal ad to weed out the most weirdos possible?I mean why not just use tinder? The thing is the type of people it sounds like you want to fuck around with are not gonna be willing to pay for shit like that. The only people who pay for sex or pics or shit like that are fucking weirdos | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Need adviceJust make sure ya don’t stop gaming, you don’t wanna come across as needy when you hit her up so ya Gatta live in abundance | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | MasturbationIt’s nice to be able to last long and make her cum, but like I said when I’m laying with them after we eventually give up she starts to ask if somethings wrong and I know it makes them feel like shit | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | MasturbationI was beating my meat too much and I couldn’t get a boner. Quit it, now I just can’t fucking finish and I feel bad about it cuz it makes the girl feel unattractive. Don’t know what to do | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | I’m on the verge of suicide because of this. It’s been a year straight of these guilty intrusive thoughts nothing helps. Did I commit a crimeLook you said yourself you’ve dealt with this for years, not sure if you’re expecting a single comment to whisk away the work you’ve done worrying yourself into a corner the past 5 years, but here’s what I’ll say. Ya fucked up and overstepped some boundaries, but overall no one was sexually assaulted and this shit happens to girls all the time. You probably are an afterthought in the back of their mind when they think of a dude who did something creepy one time and that’s it. This feels so minor… | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone ever just started rubbing their friends crotch or thigh just to get things started or feel things?Lately this sub has been people asking for overly specific advice, people asking “how do I do X” when there has been 20 posts about that subject already, and then shit like this. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 03:28 PM |
| 21 | How to accept rejection in daygame ?Tell them to have a good day, but mean it. It shows that your happiness was not contingent on their response. No one should define your self worth for you. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Man its so hard to get a relationship. I feel like I have alot of things going for me but not good enough I guessYou kind of answered your own question, you said you’ve had this player mindset where you don’t wanna spend money on them. Maybe try taking girls on an actual date, the implication on a date like a restaurant or a walk in the park are different than “let’s get drunk and hang out” | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 01:04 AM |
| 4 | I'm giving up weed and jerking offWent on a similar journey about a month ago, I’m 19 tho. Yeah quitting porn was a big help. I was helplessly addicted to it. Best of luck on your journey! | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I want to get good at seduction for the wrong reasonsFind something you are passionate about. For me I have a few things that are the first thing I think of when I wake up, and the last thing I think of when I go to sleep. Focus on your own happiness and ambitions and allow seduction to come second. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Pullin at partyI’m gonna remember that! Just make it seem unimportant. | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditShit test is a term coined by mystery, basically just a girl doing something to see how you react. In this case the girl was trying to see if I was jealous easily, and by not buying into it I “passed the test” If I were to act out and get desperate it wouldn’t have gone well. | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | FR - Lessons LearnedBy no means an expert, but I feel like you hit the nail on the head with the LMR shit. I think you made it too clear that you were gonna fuck her and if you just said “hey let’s go back to my place and drink” y’all would have fucked. Genius move on going to your apartment for a second to grab a coat too, need to find a way to replicate that for myself cuz I live nowhere near the bars in my town. Also I have brought my PS4 over to two girls houses now and I JUST REALIZED I should have been puttin… | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Had to let go of a girl who was becoming my weaknessIn a very similar situation myself, with the girl who took my V card. She keeps bouncing back and fourth between wanting to hang out and being really cold to me. Tells some of our friends she wants to keep me as a fuck buddy, and tells others that the three day bender we had was where she wants to leave it. I decided the best thing was just to focus on other shit for a while, giving her all this thought is not the way to get laid again. | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 05:13 AM |
| 6 | Competing for a girl with another guy, I lostHow would you suggest removing her from the situation? | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 07:28 AM |
| 0 | First approachBut good on you for actually going out and doing it, and not being like everyone else! Best of luck in the future and I’d love to chat sometime from one fledgling “PUA” to another | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 8 | First approachSo firstly, I’m new to cold approaches but here’s a few things I have been doing that maybe should help you. Give them a time constraint: Say something like “I have to get going soon, BUT”. This lets them know you won’t be trapping them in a conversation for super long Use assumptions: When you run out of shit to say, just come up with a random clever assumption. Something like “just looking at you I’m getting strong astrology vibes” and reguardless fo whether or not you’re right they’ll want to… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 0 | First approachYou can only improve! Be super proud of yourself! Describe your interaction in more detail if ya would. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditWrapped it | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you wingman?Yeah I need an example, help me understand! | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI had a gf in highschool for three weeks and she was my first kiss. Freshmen college year I could have slept with this girl, but she and I were way too drunk and I didn’t want to do that. So like basically a kissless Virgin | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)I feel like that’s against the rules, but that’s weird and I wouldn’t do it anyways | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI mean I know she had a boyfriend for like 2 years so pretty experienced | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)Yeah no I was stroking me ego with that. I agree it was a mistake. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)Thanks for letting me know that’s the way shit goes. I hate to hear that such a thing happened to ya. Yeah she came over after work and we played video games and she got all cuddled up to me again. I don’t think she knows what she wants lol. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)Start reading books, start cold approaching | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)19 | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 16 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)Oh I hear you, yeah definitely. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 14 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)She’s an orbiter? What does that mean? | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 7 | What book would you personally say has helped you the most and why?The Game by Neil Strauss was the best for me. Not because it laid out anything in detail or that it, but it let me know that this whole PUA world exists and that I don’t have to be this dude who gets no pussy. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 92 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)You know what you’re definitely right, that guy was trying to cockblock me and I just wanted to flex a little, but you’re definitely right. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI’m 19, got two roommates. I got into the bar with a fake. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI didn’t tell her, no. It took me a sec to find the right spot so she did have to help lol | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 07:04 AM |
| 5 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI said, let’s go back to my place. Didn’t ask. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:35 AM |
| 47 | Lost virginity from listening to seddit19 | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I find things to talk about which aren’t like reading off a chart?I like to say, for whatever reason that reminds me of And then a story typically involving my family or friends Usually she’ll respond with a story about her family or friends Conversation happen Sex? Perhaps then! | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Most impacting piece of advice?Still a fledgling on this seduction journey, been taking it seriously for two weeks. Biggest thing so far has been making sure I’m always having more fun than she is Like this past weekend I was talking to some Girls I knew from my class and when the convo died I just made sure I was laughing and having a good time, and then they came up and joined our circle cuz we had the “social proof” | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Don't Take Rejection Personally. Instead focus on "Why" you got rejected. Focus on the core reason.Looking forward to your post on having more engaging convos, any tips you could give me for now? Anything ya recommend I read? | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | The Truth About "Models" by Mark Manson. It's a counterproductive exercise in self-indulgent moral absolution.Appreciate it, anything else you’d recommend? Or any other books you consider pointless? | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand framingI gotcha, it’s about having your goals made clear and standing your ground, like not agreeing to a friendship when you want something more. Great! I have gone through a total paradigm shift lately from this subreddit and I’m trying to get all the information I can get to be better at social shit. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | 7 things you should never apologize for!Takes me to a site riddled with pop-ups. Not cool | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand framingThat example was actually really helpful! I guess my only question is where can I read more about bringing girls into my frame? | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About "Models" by Mark Manson. It's a counterproductive exercise in self-indulgent moral absolution.I just got models on audible, but I will keep your critique in mind, you talk about learning framing and DHV, what would you suggest I read to get more knowledgeable on these subjects? | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Most of your problems come from taking: Taking Vs Offering ValueDude this is awesome! I made a big shift in my thinking recently similar to this one and I got two girls numbers and made some new guy friends too! I like what ya said, gonna try your exercise | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 08:37 PM |
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