TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

fudirtbagjon Archive

View 2 posts and 51 comments by fudirtbagjon on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
387

#KickHimOut2020fudirtbagjon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:10 AM
130

BOOK REPORTfudirtbagjon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:04 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
100

The mask slipped after I signed the lease agreement. It fell completely off after a baby and house purchase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:24 PM
4

Can you please let us know what app you use? This is one of my biggest fears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:51 PM
35

It also gives them the excuse to get out of child care. Whereas moms are doing it all WITH the kids under foot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:20 PM
3

I know this is rare, I have one male friend who I've know since grade 7. He's like a brother, and has never made any inappropriate moves towards me. We set boundaries early on in our friendship dynamic and no lines are blurred. I trust him to give me honest perspective from a male mind, he's given trustworthy/ valuable advice, physical help, protection and respect. His wife and I get a long great, I treat her like a sister-in-law, making sure she's comfortable with me by showing her as much resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:38 PM
11

No problem, u/Platipus6 recommended it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:07 PM
191

I just finished Patricia Evans "Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You". I highly recommend, but it's a lot to process emotionally in one go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:55 PM
18

Wow, that kicked me right in the guts. This makes a shit ton of sense now. Thanks for the explanation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:55 AM
19

Can someone explain the SSRI's to me? I legit don't understand that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:55 PM
77

That's mind boggling and terrifying to think him as a Healthcare provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:43 AM
238

Piece. Of. Shit. I hope this turb of a human gets dumped, so she and her baby are free from this selfish bullshit/manshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:18 PM
203

Stay away from tech boys, they are scary as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:06 AM
64

Check ou the movie Good On Paper written by Iliza Shlesinger. Sums up the last decade of my life. Lessons learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:27 AM
11

You described my STBXH. That dude is so delusional and pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:26 PM
4

Wow, this was my childhood from grade 1. As a result I deep down despise and don't trust teachers, which is unfair...but this shit shapes your development and perspective of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:19 PM
33

I also dislike deep french for the same reason. I don't want other people's germs/fluids in my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:07 PM
128

Ditto, I hate it and I also hate receiving oral. For me it's a germ thing. I regret being pressured into giving oral by past boyfriends who sulked and made me feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:22 AM
3

I'm so glad we're back. This is theonly place I feel 100% safe to voice my opinions and feel like I'm not alone. Keep up the great work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:37 PM
28

My ex was all for me staying home with kids in the love bombing phase, then once the baby arrived he insisted I keep working full time shift hours. Classic baby trap, bait and switch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:19 PM
58

Same boat! It gets better, be strong, no contact, don't be hard on yourself. You don't always see the abuse until you're out of it. There's an army of queens at your back giving you strength and support. Stay strong sister ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:05 PM
1

How do you deactivate your account? I've been searching in profile settings and don't see an option...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:38 PM
5

I still have the nightmares, but it's getting better and my body is adjusting to the calm in my life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:08 AM
13

I really appreciated reading this. I'm so happy you broke free from that cage. The sky's the limit now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:23 AM
187

I think its mildewy towels. They dont properly dry or wash them regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:16 AM
3

So glad I'm not alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:54 PM
32

Jesus, my ex said that wallet bit when I told him that I didn't feel loved or treated like a person. I never asked him for anything and paid 50/50 everything making 30K less than him....good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:58 PM
22

Like 100% less UTI's and yeast infections. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:58 AM
23

I wish I had read this many years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:58 PM
11

Omg, I didn't know the flair scrolling was even a thing! I love learning new things, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:56 PM
33

I would love to get playlists from you ladies to expand my work-out jams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:36 PM
3

I definitely relate, I've been seeking out codependency recovery therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:08 PM
18

I made a post about this kind of thing in the loveafterporn sub about Fight the New Drug. I was asking if anyone thought is was a tool or smoke screen for abusers and addicts to better manipulation their partners with the movements verbiage. Needless to say, it wasn't received well and I left that sub permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:30 PM
7

...and heaven forbid you throw out an expired bottle of crusty hot sauce with only a drop left at the bottom. So many empty bottles and jars of expired crap cluttering the fridge door shelves and wasting space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:19 PM
31

My Mucin-ex (he literally looks like the cartoon booger) would want praise for only being able to cook frozen food from a box and pork chops without any sidedish. He thought I was super ungrateful for not being excited about his low effort meal once a week. Don't get me started on the mess I was expected to clean up in the kitchen "because he did the cooking and it was only fair".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:23 AM
2

Very true, I'm terrified he'll use this to gain control and custody of my child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:57 PM
26

This right here. My abuser pushed me to get on SSRI's because "I was emotionally unstable"....he just wanted the symptoms of his abuse to be numbed so he could continue to exploit and manipulate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:31 PM
67

Congrats! Life is going to get even better for you. Let that burning bridge light the path for others to get free from the toxic cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:22 AM
3

I've been looking at that one, I'll definitely give it a go! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:10 PM
4

That's a good one! I think I listened to that on the yourubes for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:54 PM
3

I've been watching a lot of Gail Dines on the youtubes. Thanks for the suggestions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:47 PM
6

Thanks, I think I'm at the stage of healing where I want to desperately understand what happened and why it happened and never do it again. LEARN ALL THE THINGS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:17 PM
2

Nice, it's in my queue! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:15 PM
11

Literally straight out of my STBXH mouth! Wow, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:52 PM
6

Truth! Keep on working towards your best self. I appreciate your advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:30 PM
4

Thanks, I'm adding it to my list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:26 PM
28

This was one of the very first red flags I ignored. I will never make this mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:05 AM
32

I couldn't even finish reading that bs. I'm super duper glad I walked out of my marriage 4 months ago, this dude could've been my husband...jfc whyd it take me 10 yrs to wise up?! The fuckeduppidness of this dynamic is criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:35 PM
38

OMFG, YES!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:12 PM
3

Thank you for the help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:01 PM
3

This is why I left loveafterporn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:18 PM
57

This gives me hope. But also makes me wonder how much of it is lovebombing. Keep vetting and give us updates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:10 PM
13

Happened to me, in the middle of seperation. Just stay single and love/live every day like it's your last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:13 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter