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full_package/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:49 PM
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full_package/r/TRPOffTopic04/06/14 06:23 PM
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Go back to school. All of them have ways to accept drop-outs. Go to gym with purpose, have a program. Find a hobby, something social and not geeky. Find some friends that motivate you (at either of above three places). Women will not make you accomplished. Women will come to you when you are. And you're adult, so stop blaming your poor fuck of a father. That shit fucks with your head and you continue being a victim, so the best thing you can do now is just forget it. You write your history now.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:45 PM
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If both of them are hot and you want to date both, then both. Figure out how close they are. If they are (so far it's true, judging by the fact that a profile pic had both of them), figure out their personalities: who's the leader of the pack. If they aren't close or they don't have a clear leader, keep them at a distance from each other and don't mention anything, unless questioned. In that case joke away, agree+amplify and switch topic. Gentlemen never tells. They will be competitive and event…
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:44 PM
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Hey, hat's off to you, you've been dealt a shit hand and from what you're saying handled it better than pretty much everyone who has their life on easier mode. As for side advice - I don't know the level of your impairment, but you might want to look into a rock-climbing gym. My gym has "adaptive" program where people with various disabilities (amputees, neurological disorders, mental, ...) show up and crush so hard that able-bodied go "I wanna be like you when I grow up". There's a ton of chick…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:40 PM
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Never going to fly, unless overpopulation (way more serious than ) becomes a problem. Young people move the economy, otherwise you end up with aging and shrinking population. And no government wants seniors with no children to take care of them.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 06:08 AM
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Whoa dude. My good friend accidentally got his girlfriend pregnant in first month of their relationship and both decided that it's too early for them to have such commitment, so they had an abortion. They are happily married now and working on having another child. I believe unconditionally forcing anything (abortion, sterilization or, for that matter, parenthood) on anyone is wrong. It's conditions that are up for a debate: max term for abortion or requirements to receive child support.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 06:02 AM
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Perhaps we have a different interpretation for closing. But yeah, when you have a cocky vibe it helps in all aspects of your life, not just getting laid.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:10 PM
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Look, I'm not a doctor. It might be low T or a bunch of other factors. You can try to self-medicate and even get some positive results, but you might end up treating a symptom instead of a cause. Something is wrong with you, so get a doctor involved. He'll ask you the right questions and you'll probably do a blood panel to see what else is wrong with you. Obligatory: take all internet advice with grain of salt, including mine.
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:43 PM
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Well, that's not normal. Go see a doc.
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:08 PM
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Are you trying to fuck someone not hot by your standards? Can you reasonably easy get it up while jerking off? Do you get morning wood one or more times a week? If you answered yes to any of these, your T levels are okay.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:13 PM
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My older brother kept growing till the ripe age of 21. I, on the other hand, grew 15cm between measurements on my 14th and 15th birthdays. My mom took off to another country few months before that and my diet went to zero. Haven't gained a cm since. Eat your carrots, kids.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:13 AM
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In OP's case not fucking her would show butthurt, not abundance. If she didn't show any enthusiasm for sex, only then not fucking her would show abundance/IDGAF. On a side note, she should want to suck your dick without asking.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:27 PM
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Yes these are all shit tests. And in social setting you must pass all shit tests whether you want anything to do with the tester or not. The fact that she teased you in front of HB7 was a big play in your favor.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:34 PM
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If you don't hate it, you'll get better. However, if it's not something you think you'll enjoy doing in the future, I'd keep my eyes open for other opportunities: this job often exposes you to chances of switching to QA, PM or business analyst positions.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:09 PM
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Ok, you missed my point completely, but maybe it's my fault at badly explaining it. Trust me, if this is your first date, you're not going to seduce her. You only have a remote chance of fucking her if she decided upon it beforehand. In this unlikely case, all you have to do is not to fail completely. So you might as well not even think about this case. Your best approach is IDGAF. If you think of possible score, you gonna behave as a needy beta. Go there with no expectations and try enjoy the n…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:22 PM
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Look chances are this is a scam. If not, you're not getting laid anyway. So relax, go there with no expectations. At least just so that next time you can say that this is not your first date. Also, stop stalking people's social accounts. You put her on a pedestal before you ever saw her.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:59 PM
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No need to confront her. Even if they don't meet, this whole story is a huge red flag enough to at least downgrade her to a plate. Your "no problem" reply was the right one, keep it light and laugh and mercilessly tease her about the ridiculousness of all of this. "How did your meetup with 50 year old pedophile creep went?" "You guys need a line on high grade Chinese Viagra? I can hook you up!", etc. Exclude her from all your activities. Only meet for sex.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:53 PM
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I disagree about Russia, but there's something about this in some people coming from Moscow. That city breeds ruthless competitiveness bordering with psychopathy. Anyway it's just one red flag among a whole bunch of others in this guy's case. It's clear that this girl was just a dumb traveling student who wanted to party and continue traveling and a marriage to a foreigner was just easy means of doing that.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 06:27 PM
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Look, TRP is a collection of knowledge that works. It's fluid, not set in stone. It's directed at practical use, so the question it answers first is "How" not "Why". We got pretty good at "How", because there are countless men that attest to its effectiveness here daily. Some "Why" explanations touch human evolution, but these attempts have little science behind them. Good luck doing a proper psychological research on TRP topic in today's college. As for echo chamber, of course. But again, we sh…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:28 AM
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What kind of help do you need? As far as you are concerned she doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:49 PM
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That's her insecurity and OP wants to figure out where it's coming from. Just like comfort tests, this is not the time to be extra alpha. Now if OP "gently" tells her he disagrees and she does it anyway, that's a big fucking red flag. But she has to make this decision herself.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 09:45 PM
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Have you ever expressed anything about her breasts? Have you told her that you disagree (with a note that its her body and ultimately her decision)? What was her reaction?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 09:21 PM
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Look at it this way. You're better off without her. You've fucked her for a year. Where would this relationship go? Marriage? Kids? You have dodged an enormous bullet here. She did you a favor. And you learned a lesson. You will feel like shit, that's a given. Direct the anger into self improvement. 99% of us don't win the genetic lottery. But by putting very reasonable effort into improving yourself, you can move a lot higher on SMV ladder.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:09 PM
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She didn't do 180, she did couple of 360ies and now she knows you're a great guy and will always be there for her. Until she finds the right guy. And maybe even after that.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:17 PM
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"Come here boy... I said COME HERE!"
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:07 PM
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So a fat chick complains about not having tingles for an even fatter dude. I'd be more surprised if she did. That would be abnormal. You can only lower your bar so much.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:22 PM
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"Hey I have this coupon at this place I wanted to go to. Let's go grab a bite there." It only becomes a problem if prior to this you were trying to convey an image of a wealthy person, which you shouldn't, because you aren't one since you ask this question here.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 11:09 PM
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Do this mental exercise: you are a chill dude and she's just someone you barely know by name. Imagining her as just another man helps. If she starts rolling her eyes and ignoring you, just say "whatever" and ignore her back. If she talks shit or disrespects you, say "whatever" and ignore her. Do not strike up a conversation with her. You validate her and give her a chance to put you down. Chat up everyone else and act normal. If she all of a sudden decides to talk to you, as if nothing has happe…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 04:35 PM
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You shouldn't ask us our opinions on this topic, this is not a group for this. Learn the facts (plenty info online), figure out what's bullshit and what's hype among this information. Then form an informed opinion on the topic. Then decide what you want to do about it. If you are asking what is the right decision for an alpha, you're doing it wrong. You have to reach one yourself. You can be alpha by building a long term investment strategy to make some cash based on this data. Or by joining an …
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:38 PM
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Trunks. I'm all about comfort though. If you want your enormous dick showing through, wear a pair of glowing tights.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:58 PM
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Get her out of your head.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:01 PM
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You made her sad. And she's not supposed to be the one to be sad.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 02:54 PM
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Conclusively this means nothing. She could have not recognized you definitively, confused you with someone, been in her own thoughts or maybe you left her speechless. Text back "Lol ok" and next time you see her laugh and say "Hi again!"
/r/askTRP13/10/16 09:06 PM
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plates that are Bi Talk to one you're closer to to get it on with another. She'll do it much better than you.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:03 PM
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That is true. But I got a feeling OP has no idea what's going on with house title and associated liabilities. That's what's concerning.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 09:49 PM
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Does this job give you a chance to travel with your laptop?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 09:03 PM
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If your dad owned a house, it's yours now. So will be the accumulated maintenance fees, property taxes, unpaid loans against it and a shit ton of other fees when she takes off after burning it down. Figure out ownership and everything else with your family lawyer now and don't be a fucking simpleton.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:57 PM
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In general, don't answer questions straight up. Play a game with yourself. Every answer you avoid by jokingly ridiculing her or her question, agree+amplify, joking around the question, redirecting it on her, you get a point. If you answer the question, subtract one. Try to keep yourself above zero. In this case: "Take a guess", then do some dumb primal roar, grab and throw her on bed.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:54 PM
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It's usually LTRs that count. One night stand with a Chad is usually "I was drunk and it happened". So doesn't count.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 05:33 PM
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I'd say apartment building (unless it's a large residential high rise) is off. But neighborhood is on.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:42 PM
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What difference does the amount of disrespect in her message make? I don't get it, do you want her to apologize to get her stuff? After she poured shit on you on facebook, lied and tried to get police involved? Pack her shit and get it over with. The sooner the better.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:48 PM
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It's okay to initiate 1/3 of the times.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:38 PM
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Happens to young dudes, even not virgins. Usually with new girlfriends that are a level above than what they were used to. After each date you float in your endorphins and subconsciously pedestalize her above sex (dirty sex will only spoil this). Well enjoy it while it lasts and let it develop organically. But one day you should bone her to move your relationship to the next level. And chances are she's looking forward to it more than you do even if she tells you no. Know one thing for certain t…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 04:15 PM
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When women do things they aren't supposed to they're just being women because that's their nature. Woman's nature is being reactive. If she's bitchy, overly shit-tests you, gets fat, ignores her appearance, that's a reflection of your actions on her.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:12 AM
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He already brought it up multiple times. She's unwilling to do anything about it and sticks her head into the sand "don't bring it up". If he makes ultimatum or pressures her to address it, she'll be doing it not because she wants to, but because she has no choice. And once they are marries sex will dwindle back to nothing.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:30 PM
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What a constructive argument.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:52 PM
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Alpha = high SMV Chad = asshole + IDGAF
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:19 PM
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I don't think you fucked up that badly. Send her link to that Natalie Portman's shaved pic and tell her you kinda thought back on her question and not sure if your dick will get up on her bald head. If she cares about being attractive to you, she won't proceed. And if she goes with it it's not like you are required to like it. It's ultimately her decision, but you're not obligated to be attracted to her afterwards. You might be okay with it or even like it, but most likely you'll find her ugly. …
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:15 PM
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There are plenty of DGAF Chads around, no need to trick them. Oh, and if her bb hubby is snipped, it's a happy little accident: all contraception methods have risks. And your son's dark skin from grampa, how would you even dare to ask this question?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:03 PM
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WTF this is almost literally the same (now deleted) question posted two days ago with the only difference "dick" instead of "douche".
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:05 PM
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Read here http://www.wikihow.com/Category:Gym Because your will power is at zero, skip the articles about home gym: it's harder to have structure and you won't keep it up.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:30 PM
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It's simple, she's bi and you aren't (unless you are).
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:22 PM
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Actually, unlike in other countries, in US there's no limits to photography in public places.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:20 PM
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You went passive-aggressive. No reason to ever do that. When in doubt be the chill dude. Nothing phases you and you don't need anyone to have a good time. "Cool, tuesday can't do though" that's it. As for what to do now: nothing. If it ever comes up you were busy.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:52 PM
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When do you think you'll feel different? After some time or when she meets some criteria? If you have romantic feelings towards her it's ok to tell her after a while. It's not like you gonna wake up one day and feel "yeah I'm in love today". And telling this doesn't make you less manly, stoic or alpha. Even if you're not exclusive with her (and she knows it) it's okay to tell a woman you love her. Sex God is pretty good about it. Get your girl to tell you she loves you when you are banging her a…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:55 PM
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If you have anything valuable at her place grab it under some pretense. Don't worry about small stuff. Figure out logistics of returning her stuff beforehand. Ideally do it at her place when you are alone. Or at least not at your place. Once you're done, you leave her with a bag of her shit from your place. When the moment comes, the less you say the better. "We became less and less compatible." What you say is unimportant, be as vague as possible. Specifics will let her latch on to you by findi…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:17 PM
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You can start light touches in the first 10 minutes, no need to spend hours chatting. Initial light touching should be extension of your conversation, e.g. touch her arm slightly when asking her a question or stand behind her and grab her shoulder when pointing to something. If her friends are present your kino (before you isolate her) just like your conversation shouldn't single her out. Be friendly and touchy with everyone. Read her signals. If she distances herself from you, it's probably a l…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:16 PM
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She claims she was so desperate for friends at the time, she basically did it to keep him around, not because she really wanted it. She wanted to branch swing away from her boring fiance. But the dude was smart enough to next a slut that is engaged and fucks on the side with no condoms. She realized that she's not getting a better man to commit and settled down with you. If you haven't decided that you forgive her, I'd suggest you finding the guy who cucked you and having a beer with him. He'd t…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:03 PM
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For fuck's sake dude, if you had a tiniest shred of self respect, you'd hard next her long time ago.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 02:55 AM
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"You must be a really nice person!"
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:46 PM
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If you blame your mental illness for your misfortunes, address that. I assume there are drugs. If you hate programming, change your major to something else. Unless you have a plan better than getting "a job at a bank", work on a degree. In this world you need a bachelor degree to make it anywhere in corp world. There are drop outs who make it on their own. But they had skills, talent, connections they got at uni, and a plan or at least a solid idea. And they dropped out to free up time to realiz…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 04:54 PM
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As an alternative, find a social pastime.
/r/seduction15/07/16 03:49 PM
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Put your index finger to her lips. Literally say "shut up". Then grab her chin and go in for a makeout session.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:47 PM
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Go, if you feel like it. But tell her that this is still a date. Have fun with new people and find a point in the evening to bounce away from the group.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:12 PM
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Wait, if she's your plate, what difference does it make? You should see each other mostly when you fuck, not on weekends with your families. If you go out, pay for yourselves or iterate. Be the skittles guy (search main sub for that). There's nothing wrong to tell anyone straight up that you can't afford something. She picked you for a set of reasons. Keep staying yourself and it'll stay that way.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:55 PM
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Yeah, if you had surgery, you need them. It's less about addiction than it is about them fucking up your head. And your dick.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:25 PM
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Yeah, just make sure you're done with all the tests in 20 minutes or less.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:44 PM
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Did you have a surgery? No? Get off painkillers now. If you had it, try to get off them as fast as possible. If you have a cheerful mood nothing should stop you from inviting them over.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 04:54 PM
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She's been working on a project and I'm helping her almost purely because I have this interest in her. Whoa dude, you're so deep in bitchsynchronous orbit, your periods are going to catch up to hers. Fucking that chick? rofl To say something useful: flirt lightly with all girls at work. Yeah, fatty from HR too, but keep it light and giggly. Don't single that girl out in any way. Don't shit there you eat, especially if you don't have the skills. Don't help anyone unless the favor is returned twic…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:56 PM
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As an insult. This only reiterates my point.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 12:19 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_F_Word_(South_Park)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 06:19 PM
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Faggot is profanity, gay is not is becoming a regular word. I wish instead of trying to be PC, we'd just move towards disassociating faggots from homos. Even, unlike blacks calling each other niggas, gays don't call each other faggots. Shift the definition of faggot to a rider of a Harley Davidson bike, like that South Park episode did. Those are real fags, not gays.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 06:12 PM
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Plates inevitably fall. Which frees up your hands to spin up others. Don't discourage them on their path of improvement. Some women tend to do that to each other and to their beta husbands. "Honey, I love you the way you are, don't worry about those love handles". Don't be like that. Use whatever influence and self-improvement techniques you find on sidebar to keep your other plate spinning. But if they fall be stoic and move on. Wish her luck and don't let it affect you.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 04:58 PM
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One of the top schools in urban environment can easily filter top 2% which is already 130 IQ. Looking at general population that mostly ignores education till child hits school, 140 child isn't genius, just a healthy kid that has a natural curiosity to learn and has well educated parents that got them a head start at reading, math, reasoning, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 05:20 PM
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Unless your profile looks like top 1% and you're bombarded by chicks just push for meetup.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:55 PM
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If any of this is making you angry, check yourself, mates. While slightly delusional about some topics, she's quite honest about the dates. If you're into online dating, her blog is a decent read into female brain.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 07:42 PM
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There are no bad taste jokes, it's all about delivery. Unless it's a really wrong moment, or you're badmouthing someone who's not present, you can deliver any disgusting stuff and laugh it off. Misogyny, racism, sex with dead aborted fetuses of animals all fly, if you land them properly. If you lack skill though, better omit it, or in your case nothing wrong about apologizing. Practice IDGAF attitude so, people know your jokes aren't serious and they'll roll off you like a water off goose's back…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:02 PM
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Continue being cheerful and friendly with everyone when you're distant. Also, when LTR says let's rest, my usual response is "I wasn't even planning anything", while at the same time I keep the heavy kino and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:49 PM
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Agree with not being handled badly. OP: If asking for a number again, now you need to have a specific activity in mind. "I have a guest pass for my rock climbing gym". Otherwise it'll sound needy while you need to appear friendly with no intent of making her your girlfriend (hopefully you don't plan to LTR a chick that picks you for a side option in the first place). Like others here said, tease her about her BF being control freak. If she bulks again, that's it. Nothing will happen. But you're …
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:52 PM
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You're one lucky bastard, now that she told you outright she's dumping you. Have a great fucking summer!
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:15 PM
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I've been looking into it for a new project (my first web project). And comparing to vomit of old code I saw with jquery+ajax, angular doesn't seem that bad. I didn't dive into serious coding yet though. Why does it suck and what should I look into instead?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 05:28 PM
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Gotta wonder how many alpha widows the guy created.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:12 AM
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That'd be about a year's worth of therapy, right there. Sounds like a behavior of an 18-year-old. Something tells me he'll be just fine.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 05:20 PM
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Alpha widow is someone who thinks she "dated" top tier SMV alpha. In general, that was positive experience for her and now she benchmarks all men according to the high bar set by that man. Sure, he dumped her ass after two weeks, but she will not refer to the whole thing as "bad experience". What probably happened with OP's chick is a bad ONS. Pump and dump does not reset her benchmark and does not make her an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:12 PM
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Alpha widow would not refer to her flick with alpha as "bad experience", as in this case.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:30 PM
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Pump and dump does not make an alpha widow. I dunno what others are talking here. Anyway, there's too much effort and little gain in either case.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:25 PM
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Whether bad experience was painful sex or pump and dump, the result is the same: you'll have to waste unreasonable amount of effort trying to get anywhere and chances are you'll waste your time. Be nice, wish her luck, back out slowly and GTFO. "How you gonna drive a car without buying it though?" Why so angry? It won't be logic behind this analogy, it'll be the you comparing her to a car that will stick with her. Don't burn bridges when soft-nexting people. You never know, since you work with h…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:18 PM
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Personally, I think that making sure that the woman is actually taking her pills is better for me. How? Or you mean you use it in addition to vasectomy?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:32 AM
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This is not just a meme. This belongs to infographics subreddit.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:27 PM
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If she has a shred of proof (texts from OP, doorman testimony, cum stain) she's going to the police with a rape accusation. She might still go without any, just to fuck with OP. In her mind she's already not a black-mailer, she's the one who was lied to and a rape victim.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:03 PM
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Facebook: have an account because everyone is on it and you might miss out occasional events and connections. Don't browse it though and don't install messenger app on your phone. Instagram: only if you're a professional athlete, artist or performer. Or you run a business. No one gives a shit how your dinner plate looks like today.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:04 PM
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"Alright, it's been great! But I gotta go: I need to return some videotapes... I want to see you again. Soon."... peck on her forehead "BuyBye!"... dissappear. "I want to see you" is enough to convey your interest.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:12 AM
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What is it with three years? Not the first time I'm seeing women straying off past around that time span.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 04:29 AM
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Another school of thought teaches to leave on the highest point of the evening. Once you reach it, find an excuse (the shittier the better, something ridiculous to keep her guessing), kiss on a cheek and fast take off. It'll leave her desiring more and looking forward to the next time.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:03 AM
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It's funny how despite everyone outside TRP hating on dread game, thanks to it this situation ended up being a Win-Win-Win.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:26 PM
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Goddamn it dude, stop making excuses. The guy in the video literally has burn marks from facial wart removal procedure.
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:50 PM
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Do you still fuck her? If yes, great, keep it at fwb level. If not, you have erected her a fucking pedestal. You're giving her what girls want from men: attention, being emotional tampon, etc. What are you getting in return? Engaging conversation? She might be brighter than other women in your surroundings, but that's only because your surroundings are limited. There are other girls out there who can match her on the qualities you like in her, but who can also love you back fully, not want you f…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:25 PM
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I'm in college right now focusing on my major and LTR is more convenient than spinning plates. It's always more convenient that way. Convenience and comfort are other words for laziness. I don't blame you because I am like that myself. Just as long as you don't fool yourself. If there's one time in life for plate spinning, it's college.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:05 PM
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So much dumb shit in the post, I want to say it's a troll.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:58 PM
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"I'm not having sex with you." "Who said anything about sex?.." Then proceed as usual completely ignoring that statement.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 09:26 PM
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Uhm, start by not calling them "platonic relationships"?..
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:16 PM
2

Been there. Absolutely not worth it. She will lead you on until you will not take it. Then she'll switch to next nice guy. Wtf do you think she is waiting for? She will not gradually fall in love with you more and more until some magic night. It will never happen. And you will resent her more and more for this. Sex is important part of any relationship (unless you're in middle school). It keeps the tingles going. In my opinion two adults cannot fall for each other (for more than couple of days) …
/r/askTRP04/02/16 09:21 PM
8

That's my problem with Patrice shows. Love them, but the content is rarely worth an hour of sitting on my ass. And the context jumps too much to half-listen while doing something else.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 09:01 PM
1

No. Sometimes after all the decisions, commitment to goals and hard work, you just deserve to enjoy the fruits. Good for you.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 02:52 PM
1

More like gloat. But why not, he deserves it!
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:12 PM
4

Always be friendly and upbeat guy. Game everyone, whether you're interested in them or not (e.g. a coworker, a landwhale, or even a dude). Few things are creepier than a dude who only talks to HB8+ and people he can directly benefit from and pissed of on the rest of the world. Why? It keeps your brain sharp, you're winding yourself up for more important interactions (RSDTyler always talks about this) and it opens unexpected opportunities for you. That dude might invite you to some epic event and…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 08:28 PM
3

While I agree that girls don't have much other than appearance to improve, this improvement can go long way. For 80% of 3s and 4s it's a matter of proper diet, hygiene, fixing teeth and light exercise to get her to 6 if her face is not too hideous. To 7 or 8 if her face is average. Boobs are a nice bonus but not a requirement and ass can be improved with exercise enough to satisfy most men.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 08:46 PM
2

Life, while by itself complex, is a significant consumer of energy and therefore boost to entropy. Capacity of intelligent life to invent and use complex tools is the next step above that. As for sex, most guys here have mostly normal desires that do not require excessive amount of risk to satisfy today. Even in case of ONS for some.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:12 PM
6

No contact does not mean you find a cave and hibernate. No contact means you continue to live a richly filled live, only none of your activities include her. Find stuff to do so that when you get home you're too exhausted for reddit, let alone thinking about her.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:02 AM
1

Wait, what? I thought you said they are old. Unless they can afford to retire themselves, they should work for at least 15 more years while you do whatever the fuck you want. Children are not investment. You have them (like pets, if you will) for your enjoyment, not expectation of support. If, when you're in your forties, you decide to settle down in some suburb, find them a place nearby (but not too close) to help you look after your kids. It's great for all three generations. Any other setup i…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:18 PM
2

How old are you and how old are your parents? How did you get into US? Student visa? How do they expect you to bring them here? You can apply for family reunion once you're a citizen, but it takes years to get parents over. Meanwhile, you just got your degree. You aren't ready to support two retirees who will not get any social security once they come to US. It's financially more reasonable for them to stay there, receive whatever pensions they have there in addition to your support remotely.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 11:47 PM
0

On the main sub search for "You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide."
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:06 PM
1

You got it all wrong. You get a hobby to have a good time. Becoming more interesting is a consequence. Sure a 7 won't organize a sailing trip. Nor you're likely to meet one sailing. But if you drop a few words about the sail you did last weekend, she'll be interested. And likely excited if you invite her to your next one. So go to yoga classes to do yoga. It's good for you. If you're there to pick up chicks, the see right through it and label you a creep. Dancing is somewhat different, since eve…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 09:44 PM
1

Your case is somewhat different than OP's. He had fortune of finding seduction and TRP community earlier in life than you. He's still early in his progress. And it's normal being virgin at that age. With you it's different. You sound like you had your opportunities, even though there weren't many of them. If you analyze those opportunities with your newly acquired knowledge, failures will become apparent and you'll know how you should have handled it better. I'd say, if you have resolve, keep at…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 09:05 PM
1

You want to jump to Z while you have a problem with an A. Putting dick in a girl is quite natural and while you might fumble once or twice before you get a decent lay it should be the least of your worries now. Work on your confidence approaching, chatting, setting up next dates, bouncing between places, keeping and sexualizing the conversation, isolating, escalating, kissing, kino, heading to either of your places, escalating more, getting around LMR, etc. Take it step by step. Be realistic at …
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:29 PM
1

I meant keep an eye out for other flags.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:34 PM
1

But it is usually based on something. She compares OP to her expectations from her fantasies, her girlfriends' carousel tales, a porn she saw. Or maybe a huge dick she got ravaged by or a passionate one nighter she experienced. And he's not winning in this comparison. To answer OP question, how to deal with this, is to look further.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:01 PM
7

She sounds like an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:57 PM
2

Santa?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:57 PM
2

Are you staying at a hotel? A lot of them have gyms. If they have free weights, knock yourself out. If all they got are treadmills and ellipticals, go for a run in fresh air. You'll feel better right away.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:55 PM
1

You screwed up something earlier. Two things actually: losing your frame with her that caused her to "need space" and becoming dependent on her by moving in.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:08 PM
3

a. sounds try-hard b. makes her continuously compare you to her ex. Since she still has feelings you lose
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:48 PM
1

I thought about it and it makes sense. At first I thought this idea was conflicting with occasional need to mix in some beta qualities for comfort tests in case of LTR. However, this squirt of beta is not the same as a frame loss. Your frame has to stand even when you show compassion. It has to happen on your terms with you wanting, not being forced to do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:21 PM
3

your investment ≤ your return your investment ≤ her investment You continuously reevaluate these inequalities and adjust accordingly. Bail if necessary. Short term exceptions are acceptable according to the level of your commitment, given appropriate excuse, e.g. she got sick. Important note: other than sex and house chores "your return" includes how the relationship is helping or hindering your goals. Otherwise inequalities are still satisfied, but you end up in a stale comfortable Netflix&chil…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:03 PM
5

Dread steps are used to attempt to repair relationship. He decided he didn't want to fix things with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 03:34 PM
8

I dunno WHERE, but definitely not on his dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 06:17 PM
1

Have a hard look at yourself. One of the below: You reek neediness, try too hard, care about consequences. Girls feel it. This is not easy to fix. Just try not to give a fuck. Remember your greatest moments at parties. Chances are you were in IDGAF state. Try to bring that mental state back. You are boring. Outside of these parties, work, college and gym you have no interests. Get a hobby or two, (not collecting post-stamps). Spend your weekends traveling, not sleeping before/after parties. You …
/r/askTRP08/12/15 09:09 PM
2

Your reward center has fucked up priorities. Fortunately it's reprogrammable. The main goal of fucking should be the process of fucking, not a check on your calendar. Motivationally it's also nice if you enjoy the game beforehand, but it only comes with experience, so don't worry about it. When you fuck next time, relax, throw your thoughts out, disregard her needs and concentrate only on your physical enjoyment (obviously don't do it every time, you want them to come back). Afterward force your…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:19 PM
4

If possible, change your environment and/or friends. But since it's likely hard in your age and not up to you... First of all stop volunteering yourself to be the butt of the jokes. Don't brag, but stop being humble and definitely don't self-depreciate. As for jokes directed at you, treat them as a shit test. Laugh at some harmless ones, agree and amplify others but with a twist that puts you in a better light. It takes skill, so if you miss an opportunity, think of a come back later on. This wi…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:05 PM
1

Thankfully women attracted to NFL players are unattractive to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:12 PM
3

Due to obsessiveness of the rest of reddit (and world) with political correctness TRP posts contain a lot of exaggerations, overblown misogyny and plain anger. I consider it as trying to tilt the balance into the opposite direction. Whenever you read something here, don't take it as unquestionable truth. Pass it through a filter and try to understand the concepts author wants to express. Do not nitpick at his choice of words. I hate it that everywhere else except TRP there's always some schmuck …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:06 PM
3

Inconclusive. Don't give a fuck and some dread is an appropriate behavior. Obviously don't go for drinks, otherwise that will validate her to no end. If she insists, tell her only if she gets him her friend for a double date. Whether her friend is fugly or not, flirt the fuck out of her and enjoy the lulz.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:40 PM
1

It's about leaving on high note, not scheduling the next date.
/r/seduction24/11/15 10:07 PM
13

You're just another source of validation for her. The moment you fuck up or do something she doesn't like, it'll be your texts she'll be sharing with her friends. Oh, and believe me, they'll validate her. How to react to her yapping about her betas: never validate it. Either ignore it, or jokingly defend her orbiters and expose her as heartless attention whore. "Sweaty, you're evil! A behavior like that breeds terrorists! If you don't pity-fuck Brian soon, he's gonna go postal and shoot up some …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 07:10 PM
3

If you can keep her at plate level. Be cocky, funny and aloof with her and everyone else in your building. The tone of your elevator conversations with her and others should not change once you start fucking her.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:22 PM
5

You got nothing to gain with her. Go jerk off it'll be more effective.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:14 PM
1

Don't feel bad. A rejection is a learning opportunity.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:08 PM
1

6 days/week in gym is quite a high standard. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy. While you are honing some of your facets, your other ones, i.e. social skills are deteriorating. I have no idea about field of your studies. If it's something like medicine, where you have to keep at it through the whole education process to continue being placed at best spots, then don't change anything. Some places though, like engineering schools are tough to get in, maybe tough to get through the first ye…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 01:28 AM
5

(facepalm)
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:57 PM
1

In the post you said that you got your goals and passions in order. Now you say you don't know what they are. Are your only passions studying and gym? While not failing in your college is important, do you think anyone will give a shit about your grades in couple of years? Is your fitness goal to achieve absolute perfection and maintain it for the rest of your life? Right now you're not achieving anything. You are simply floating in your life toward your degree and maybe some arbitrary lifting g…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:45 PM
3

Nah man, if you also tell us your dick is less than 7", you've got no chance.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:38 PM
1

Convo about nice guy is not a reason for next. Cut bullshit and ask her out directly. If not met with enthusiastic "yes" next her then.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:45 PM
1

OP takes her back, she learns she can get away with cuckolding him. Even if she regrets it now, this knowledge will stay with her and will amplify when they are apart or have an argument. Only this time, she won't tell him she's going to Vegas. And he'll never know for sure (unless there's positive evidence). Let's address the apparent hypocrisy with your case, that is, you returning to your ex. First of all, TRP is not a moral strategy, so it's not against being a hypocrite. Second, what did yo…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:29 AM
1

What do you get by studying with ex's friend? Unless she really wants your D (she doesn't), at best you gonna get poked and probed and results will be delivered to your ex ("he's still not seeing anyone and is still butthurting about you").
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:26 PM
1

If you'd have abundance mentality, I'd say sure go for it. Plate your ex and chat up her friend. Since you don't, avoid her. Text her friend "Change of plans, can't be there" and leave it at that. Don't reply to follow up questions and laugh it off if it ever comes up face to face. Like others said keep it brief when you do need to communicate with your ex. "Hi", then switch your attention to others in your group. Imagine her to be 300lbs landwhale that you ignore, but need to be polite around, …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:20 PM
1

If it feels like you're being smothered she's 'mate guarding'. My question might be unrelated to OP and might call for a separate post... What do you do when a girl (plate, LTR or someone you didn't hook up yet) interjects into your conversations and starts getting touchy with you (e.g. hugging you from behind) when you talk to someone? It's often inappropriate to the situation to the point of being cringy, but if you say her to get lost she'll be honestly hurt.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:58 PM
1

Alright, given these percentages which college do I apply for a free degree in ... ...fuck that, I'm not studying any of that useless garbage. Occupational therapy seems to have highest national median pay. What the fuck is occupational therapy?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:32 PM
7

Years of watching porn have decisively woken up a lesbian in me.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:27 PM
3

Anger phase occurs because men often discover TRP while recovering from recent breakup. If you didn't have a hard breakup or it wasn't a recent one, no anger phase. My anger phase was short simply because I did not have a breakup at a time. I was having some dates followed by flakes which seemed strange to me. The more the pill digested, the more things fell into place and the more I became thankful that those dates didn't lead to anything serious at the time. That said, anger is not bad, actual…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:27 AM
1

Don't be too hard on yourself about shit you can't control.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:27 PM
2

Sex god can't have smv=4 by definition. Look at Ron Jeremy. His looks are at 3, but his smv is higher than most in this sub. I'm not talking about sex technician, who read some forums and knows just the right angle to eat at vagina.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:47 PM
3

You're absolutely right, Chad doesn't. But his still-enough-alpha bud Brad does. He pulls her and pushes, negs and makes her laugh, then takes off to chat with Chad and other bitches, but comes back and plays on her emotions enough to get her panties wet. Tonight she will give herself to him. But not out out of necessity. That was my point. Brad has a game better than mine or 99% of this community. To get there, you gotta admit there was some attention showering involved. That was my point. EDIT…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:00 PM
6

Were you both naked when you delivered the news? I might be wrong, but my guess is it was your first date, conversation got into sexy topics, you mentioned it, it got awkward and died down. Or you just met, she led you both toward a quick shack up, then after learning you're a virgin she lost interest because she figured she's not going to get much out of you in terms of a quickie. My point is, OP was on couple of dates, they are both invested into each other enough. Timing of the delivery is ob…
/r/seduction08/10/15 05:58 PM
-1

Sluts put out for necessity Far from always. To her Chad's cock is a cherry on top of him showering her with attention all evening.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:34 PM
9

Chances are you're gonna mess up somehow during your first time. Since you'll be nervous you might not get it up or stay up. Or since your dick is not "calibrated" for piv sex, you might come immediately or not be able to for an hour. If you tell her it's your first time beforehand, she'll be more understanding, otherwise she might think something's wrong. And no girl will run away because you're a virgin. Go to your date and have fun. Set no expectations, but escalate as you should. I wouldn't …
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:12 PM
1

While they seem to be receptive to RP ideas, if you go there, don't use the lingo.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:15 PM
1

While I view reddit as a collection of circlejerks and a time sink in general (including RP subs), there's still some useful content if you clean up the default subs. Besides, I mostly read it to chill and unwind. Hence this alt.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:09 PM
1

Depending where you live, sailing, freediving. Skydiving. Get a pilot license. Get some free training and sign up for volunteer EMT. Get a used motorcycle and learn how to fix it. Cooking. Obstacle course racing. If rock climbing is not your thing, mountaineering might be.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:59 AM
1

Lift more. Set goals and achieve them. Get a hobby or two where you can meet cool people (rock climbing, not stamp collecting). Fight the desire to remain in your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:52 PM
1

Tell her you're seeing someone else. (Why aren't you?) Then cut all contact. But yeah, you gotta learn to say NO.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:54 PM
3

I disagree. Can this lead to negative things? Sure. If she's just a plate, who cares. If not, it's life and you deal with it as it comes according to your principles.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 09:39 PM
1

The problems appear when you have a team of four people, all talented ad contribute their share, but you need to keep the rotation. Or when the team leader sucks or is a scumbag.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:58 PM
14

Good place to go work for two years when you're out of college. You get some cred on your resume, meet cool people, see the scale of large projects and take a dip in dog-eats-dog politics of large enterprise. Two years, because if I see one year on your resume I assume you were discarded on your first review. But then you get the fuck out of there for all the reasons listed in OP's article, unless you're willing to stomp your way up on heads of your peers.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:35 PM
1

Agree with definition of a "10" there. Some people say 10 doesn't exist. But it's personal preference. Many people will agree on good part of the 9s on that picture, but the choice of 10s will probably differ.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:14 PM
6

"Don't let me stop ya"
/r/askTRP27/08/15 02:05 PM
2

Thanks for decrypting it. People tend not to turn their brains on for comments that deep into a post. I wanted to elaborate, but you did it perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 08:27 PM
1

But if you follow RP, this situation should only be a theoretical one.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 07:15 PM
14

You shouldn't be pissed, you should be disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:34 PM
52

You cry to your parents, you cry to your bestest bro, you cry alone into a pillow at night. Then the next day you make decision to improve, clench your fists and follow up on that shit. Even if a good woman supports you to a certain degree, crying to her won't win you points. Need an outlet, go punch a bag in a gym.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:17 PM
1

Been going out with a flatmate Big mistake. It makes it harder for you to do what I'll advise you regarding the rest of your post. Which is, Run! Run and don't look back.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:31 PM
1

You should have had some calm response. Just enough to let him know that he's just a blip on your radar. No response sounds like he left you speechless (at least that's what it sounds like from your description). Also, her saying that your swinging at him would make it 10x times worse for her is total BS. She'd love two dudes fighting over her. Obviously don't do that though.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:41 PM
3

In calm voice: "keep walking, fuckface". Then just say to your gf "don't get upset over every deuchebag". If he takes off great, if he continues to yell shit, ignore him. If he persists for a while: "hey asshole, weren't you in a hurry somewhere?"
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:22 PM
6

A while back I had similar experience. Served me a lesson. She enjoys your company, but you're not giving her the tingles enough to break through the threshold she constructed in her mind. This construct keeps her thinking that she's somehow different from her slut friends while she still rides the carousel (just not on her vag). It's a serious head case that will either grow deeper or will (hopefully for her) be broken by some drunken one-nighter with a Chad on a spring break. For you she won't…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:08 PM
8

Interrupt their complains mid-sentence, cheerfully call out their behavior in front of others and ask another person whatever you wanted from the sourpuss. "Hey B, A is still being angry about last week's nonsense, join me and let us have fun instead." Then, actively squeeze them out of the following conversation both speaking over their attempts to get back and turning your body away from them as if they are not there.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:59 PM
1

The answer is obvious yes, but I'll add a warning. If you plan to work hard on yourself to reap the benefits of living here, sure thing, go for it. But you gotta keep that SMV in a top percentile. Lots of single people works both ways. Every 6 can find herself an easy lay for the night with some barista above her level to satisfy her tingles once a month. And almost all attempts of some of my average-level buds result in flakes due to chicks getting their attention requirements satisfied by nume…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:52 PM
3

But OP analyzes the post, not the comments. Here's my thinking why I think it's a troll: if I wanted to troll anti-feminist side of reddit community, that would be very close to the post I'd make.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:59 PM
2

Why analyze something that appears to be a troll post?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:12 PM
2

Two words: coworking spaces. It's cheap, it's productive and it exposes you to a rotation of people, so your social skills do not derail.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:30 AM
1

That's always my problem. I reach the point when I need to stfu, but I roll on and continue yapping about myself.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 08:20 PM
5

...basically I dropped all beta friends. Unless they really weigh you down (I doubt it), first find better friends before dropping or distancing from existing ones. If they see a guy alone start hitting on them they'll probably think it's creepy to without social proof. If you make it creepy, they'll find it creepy. The only thing you can do to make it not creepy is fake it till you make it and practice.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 08:08 PM
-1

They have a final solution for us in form of quarantine. "No ad revenue is made, yet we let them brood alone, away from public eye". To be honest, I like this approach and this is what TRP needs. There's no need to attract unwanted attention. Whoever needs to find this sub will eventually stumble upon it one way or another. But if they ban us here, they won't win much. I'll delete this account and unsub my main from all but few very specialized subs related to my hobbies. Fuck, maybe I should do…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:41 PM
1

I went on and registered, but it's unlikely RP subs will be banned. Not anytime soon, anyway. If anything, this is what they make quarantining for. And if you ask me, they should quarantine us. Whoever needs to discover it eventually will do so, and it won't be via a post on front page. Other than that, the less attention we get, the better.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:18 PM
1

Do you really think I or anyone else here care enough to read your history? EDIT: if by "do you own research" you mean research about rape, not research about where you got experience (as I figured initially), doing that research doesn't count as experience, hence the hard time people give you here.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:45 PM
1

It can be a legit behavior. But if it's coming from the ex OP supposedly "plated", it only deserves a laugh.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:38 PM
2

Well from your description, she's not your ex, you only have been cuckolded. Only if you actively seek other women (and let her know that) will she realize her new "plate" role. Your best bet would be just nexting her. Since you'll ignore that advice and still call her "your plate", here's a question: if she's no longer your gf, what's the purpose of her coming over to your house if not to fuck? She wants you to beg her for sex, hence the LMR. But you had that pussy before, ain't no more magic f…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:29 PM
12

Saying "I'm RP" to a chick is lame as fuck. If asked directly, I'd go something like "some of the things they say make sense", then just switch topic.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:36 PM
1

So answer us then, how did you get "experience with many rape victims"? RP is reviled because it being straight up. So stop being pissed about being called on what sounds like a bullshit. Right now I think it's more likely you either confused "experience" with "read somewhere" or just plainly lied, than have real experience, e.g. as a therapist. I'll STFU if you give us some details. But I doubt it for some reason.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 07:24 PM
12

You've mentioned that she's your GF, not plate. You can still be RP and have an exclusive girlfriend or a wife. And your reaction to a rape should be obviously different that that of the same situation with a plate. That being said, the biggest red flag I see is "trickled out information". If it was real rape, it should have been gushing over the phone. An fb message? Really?
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:39 PM
1

Ahahaha, and there we go with advices to move to another city to start his life over. Thanks for the chuckle kiddo, you'll be just fine, keep being social and just laugh it off each time it gets mentioned. We all had our 30 seconds of glory.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:36 PM
0

Brain is an interesting thing. Consciously push thoughts of her away and remember her being a complete cunt to you. Being with her for a while during the time your brain is growing fucked up your pleasure and reward centers. The pedestal is strong with this one. The cure is being with other, cooler chicks. And time.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:14 PM
2

Did you give her keys or something? You have a phone to set things up. You are the one arranging your schedule, not anyone else. And if you're busy at any moment, you are just busy. No explanation needed. Whether you're with other women, jerking off or watching netflix, none of anyone else business. If she asks what were you doing, say you were grooming your guinea pig and that's it. However, let her know you're not exclusive with her. Without giving out any details.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:50 PM
2

Where would you draw a line? I had a two weeks trip planned last year before I met my GF at the time. Tickets purchased, hotel reserved, plans made. Cancelling was out of question, so was inviting her along, since it was men-only trip. Went, kept it in my pants, had every other kind of fun. Socialized a lot there and even dreaded her a bit with a few stories when I came back.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:25 PM
3

To me, it's easier that way. I know it breeds laziness and goes against "be the best you can be" RP approach, but it's something between the edges of MGTOW/plates/fiance triangle. Thinking about it I realize that her tingles will subside eventually, but I know I won't allow this relationship to become asymmetric from my perspective. I enjoy it more than being alone. I understand that being that way I'm keeping myself at "local maximum" and away from top potential, but I'm fucking lazy and I'd ra…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:15 PM
4

New plans should obviously include him. However, cancelling vacation that you planned several months in advance to pretty much do nothing, but occasionally hang with your new boyfriend in the evenings? Sorry, but, unless this was an outright trip to another boyfriend or some island where her plans mostly consisted of getting her vagina filled with local dick, this doesn't make sense.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:57 PM
5

If she comes back, maybe accept her. Absolutely not. She's leaving to fuck someone on the side. No other reason. If she comes back, she was pumped and dumped. No other reason. Next is the only acceptable move here. One last fuck would be acceptable, but not for OP: he'll get all feely. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:14 PM
0

I wouldn't call a trip planned before a relationship was started disrespectful. In fact cancelling it would be really a lame move on OP's part. Or, in most cases, taking her along and paying for her expenses. I don't have a good advice here. EDIT: Gents, looking at downvotes I'm missing something obvious. So how would you really reconcile a long-planned trip and a new relationship? Would you keep commitment low (plate-grade) until after the trip? I've had that happen to me before, can follow up …
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:41 PM
6

Wait, he just went for 4-week trip himself. Besides this journey might have been planned before they started.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:19 PM
2

Sorry, but no, I figured what it is from the first sentences. I wasn't fully certain, since it wasn't a word for word flip, but a man can't write bullshit like that.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:04 PM
1

Unless you're in between some points in your life where a better job is a hindrance, e.g. finished college and preparing for year-long voyage around South America, there's no reason not to be on a lookout for something more solid and career-oriented. What might be okay or even good in terms of paycheck to you right now will soon become crap while you're watching your friends starting decent career paths. However, it's all about your specific goals. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? How is yo…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:38 PM
2

porn
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:50 PM
7

You just can't take shit like that seriously. "I'd throw your meth-snorting bum ass to the curb", - Sly grin. "You'll look like my 2nd grade teacher I hated". "Awesome, I hope the next thing you'll tell me you're into chicks, and we're having a threesome".
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:21 PM
1

From my own experience and seeing my friends, we make our best improvements when we face rejection. Unless you're depressed. Then the change i still there but it might go in the opposite direction.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:36 PM
4

You're missing one more link in your train of thought. It was lack of attention from women that got you to get your shit together and attain the status you have now. Had you have a 7 in your apartment in the winter, chances are today you'd still be the mediocrity you were.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:34 PM
1

Volunteering at a hospital sounds interesting but I have a feeling it might end in tasks like cleaning old people's diapers. Nothing wrong with that job, but I'd rather leave that to appropriately compensated nurses. Does anyone have experience with this sort of thing?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:33 PM
3

Having a passion and exploring it to the fullest is great, but I realize that A - I will never be best, or even get into top 0.1% at it but I still enjoy (almost) every minute of it. And B - what others posted here a lot, I want to experience other facets of life. And yeah, in any city every restaurant, great or not, is "in the bottom of a fucking office building".
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:12 PM
0

A true beta is barred FOREVER from being a true alpha. Wrong. The idea of TRP is swallowing the pill and changing your view on things. Enlightenment often comes before the other gains you've mentioned and is the main motivation for them. I don't want to put words in your mouth, but in case you would still call a transformed man 'beta' because they weren't born natural alpha, makes this limited definition quite useless.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:50 PM
2

Use the time you got before grad to find a hobby. Ideally, something active, outdoorsy and social, where you can meet cool people. Martial arts is a great idea. Talk to the schools individually, they're likely to be okay with you taking off after 6 months. Rules are meant to be bent, especially at small gyms. Be friendly and ask to talk to the boss, if a guy at receptionist desk says he can't help you. Other alternatives: rock climbing, mountaineering, free-diving/scuba-diving, sailing, sky divi…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 09:25 PM
0

Sure, some of the traits you're saying are genetic, but a lot (I believe most) comes from your surrounding. If you have solid role models growing up, you learn it from them. If you don't, you're likely to grow up beta, but unlike in animal world, you have a chance to make a conscious decision to change and relearn.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 06:07 PM
0

You start by faking, but the more experience you have, the less fake you have to be. This is true for seddit, this is double true for trp. This is why TRP puts so much emphasis on frame. Understanding the concept helps you attain necessary qualities and build a better character around stoic ideas, not just cover up weak, nervous, self-doubting individual with some macho traits.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 06:00 PM
0

Why the fuck does she care how much you make?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:50 PM
1

Sign up for classes in gym. Doing it along with others when your instructor is yelling at you is a lot more motivating. Don't limit yourself to plain weight lifting. Sign up for martial arts or rock climbing. Both are athletic as fuck. If your mobility is not heavily affected (although there are double above-knee amputees doing it) look into obstacle races (Spartan, Tough Mudder, etc). They are fun, social and force you to prepare if you want to be good at them. All of those places have signific…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:26 PM
1

Socialize, hang with people who landed a job in your field and have a place and dorms. Opportunities will present themselves. Good for you being thrifty. Exploit your uni connections to find free or low wage internship or a project to build your cred and resume. Unskilled labor is for talentless people or school kids, since you have your folks supporting you, don't waste your time on it. Once you have some cred to show, paying skilled job will land itself easily. This is your first priority. The…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 05:46 PM
1

Meh, you were alright. I mean you fucked up that last part, but why are you so hard on yourself? It's a learning experience and conclusions you're making are very positive outcome. Less emotion, more aloofness, and if you have future interactions with her (not worth it) that go beyond "Hi!" just write off your weirdo text to "I've been friendzoned before, didn't want it to happen again" and leave it at that. Chicks concede to "traumatic" experiences like that.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:06 PM
2

Today it's easy to be self-sufficient. Not like you have to go out every day and hunt shit that wants you for breakfast just as bad. Sometimes I need a motivation to get my lazy ass up and do stuff. I know I love doing stuff, instead of watching third season of some dumb TV series. But I need something to drag me out of bed on a weekend, put me behind the wheel of my ride and get me going somewhere. It's not that my LTR is literally doing that, it's the commitment I made to her or my friends ear…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:09 PM
13

If you have an option to fuck her in bed, fuck her in bed. Put up some candles or some shit to make it special. It won't be.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:58 PM
1

Sometimes it's appropriate, but calling girl a bitch for a shit test she throws at you is an overkill.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 06:02 PM
2

By "working the numbers" I meant increasing number of approaches to play along with 90-100% flake odds. Not getting phone number and taking off. Although this is a valid strategy, I never did this. A phone number was never my goal. Rather numbers are exchanged at some point in conversation because girl is interested in seeing me later to do some cool stuff. It's usually not a date, it's often not even one-on-one event. Flakes are a lot less common this way and it gives you chance to get to know …
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:58 PM
1

Unless you're interesting enough to differentiate yourself from average club-going male, flakes will be 90-100% of your interactions. Either work the numbers, become more interesting or forget about clubs.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:18 PM
10

Absolutely! Males permeating with lust create culture that encourages such behavior in women.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:18 PM
-3

Why distribute your own naked self?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:52 PM
10

You're not progressive enough. Porn is exploitation of women. We're going for it next.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 05:12 PM
11

He's overdescribing it, but only to get the idea through. The concept is simple.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:35 PM
3

Reread your original question. Telling her that is okay, as long as you ignore that yourself and keep the usual game including escalation. Get her home, start making out, heavy kino, "we shouldn't be doing this" while ripping clothes off her.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:43 AM
4

"Sex God Method". Find PDF.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:03 AM
10

Escalation is your job. Unless you're pull-push expert, you're losing out by delaying. At some point it becomes unattractive/frustrating for the girl.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:01 AM
12

Frame should not be an external concept exposed at certain people. It should be something you always have inside even when you're alone.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 03:57 PM
3

Solid advice, I completely agree, but here's how I see it. OP doesn't have a row of prospective plates lined up and I don't think that's his priority. Unless he lies, he won't be able to plate her and keep spinning. I'd say he should go for it. If only for experience, personal value boost, and calibration of his standards that comes with dating of his current "10". But keep his investment in the relationship constrained by constant improvement both physically and socially independently of her.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:22 PM
8

she informed me she has a 5 date rule which applies to everyone after I made a few attempts to get her to come back to mine The proper response is "Who said anything about sex?" Then once you two are at your place and you start making out: "Girl, you turn me on so much, too bad we can't have sex on this date", while you're reaching down.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:53 PM
1

If your sex life is you plowing her missionary every time, you gotta change things up. Read up 'Sex God Method'. Read it. There are PDFs out there. I can talk about dominance, randomness of the moment, etc, but it's all in the Book. Besides that, shift your priorities to satisfy yourself first. Surprisingly, it'll benefit both of you.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:50 PM
1

I occasionally see these questions and responses usually point to the sidebar. While there's a lot of useful info there, I don't see anything specific about plate theory. Can someone point me to it?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 05:52 PM
2

when I ask her personal questions or when we should hang out Tell her time and activity you plan and invite her to join. "Let's go ice skating at 3pm this Sunday". If she declines, she's not interested. One invitation is absolutely enough. If for some legit reason she can't, but still is interested in you, she'll go out of her way to let you know. It's that simple. Girls skip, ignore or 'maybe' out of ambiguous propositions (your "when should we hang out?"). Do not shift any decision making onto…
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:54 AM
3

No, this sort of not giving a fuck is called abstinence.
/r/seduction09/01/15 06:44 PM
2

Here's some brocsience advice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTUW77ie8sE In reality, with exceptions of few events like that pool party, you don't. The good thing is that if you do manage to attract attention at them, chicks tend to hold on to that image like a teenager to accidental bikini failure in water park. With good-fitting clothes there's noticeable difference between well fit person and average chump. Besides, exercise affects your posture and body language. Women subconsciously pick …
/r/askTRP07/01/15 11:17 PM
4

I dunno. From your description it sounds like the decision to fuck you after a dry year or so was made before seeing you and all you needed to do was to not mess it up.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 09:46 PM
1

I agree with everything, but she's not his plate. One-itis is not downgradable.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:49 AM
1

Yup, that and the T-shirt a size too small.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:33 AM
1

She told you so or you assumed so? With apps like Skype today I'd definitely let my bro (we were apart for quite a bit too) know if I crossed paths with his friend, let alone fuck one. But if she told you so, she officially gave up her rights to complain about you not telling her you screwed her sister. Full speed ahead!
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:31 AM
1

What makes you think they wouldn't talk about him? "Hey, you remember I told you about sistersisterpenis? We went on a date last Friday!" And now you're "an asshole".
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:00 AM
3

This applies to work for obvious reasons, unless it's a temp job or you don't really care about keeping it. It applies to your gym, because when you put in your 30, 40 or 60 minutes, you want to put it all out, not endlessly chat. Besides, when it goes sour you don't want to have an excuse to skip days. It applies to your apartment building, since you want to avoid those awkward elevator rides when you bring your new date home. If you do end up breaking up with a girl from above places, make sur…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:10 PM
2

So ask this the next gay dude who approaches you. You should obviously be flattered, not offended.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:05 PM
3

You can phrase your opinions in friendlier fashion. Or instead of just unloading them on unsuspecting listeners, become a listener yourself. If you disagree with someone's opinion, ask questions why they think that. Try to see things from their point of view. Make it an exercise. Besides, improving yourself socially takes willingness to change. I'm hinting here at negativity that feels in your responses.
/r/seduction16/12/14 06:24 PM
2

Get a hobby that lets you meet people.
/r/seduction16/12/14 05:51 PM
3

If it's not a troll post, it'd be fun to set up a date and go "look, you aren't best breeding material either, you guys should just adopt."
/r/askTRP11/12/14 05:31 PM
2

You probably should edit your original post mentioning that.
/r/seduction11/12/14 04:56 PM
4

I don't understand it, what's the difference? However banally, it's appearance. Some guys girls see from afar and start melting within a second. Couple interactions like that early in your guy's life boosted his confidence and that helped him into self-perpetuating stream of pussy. As for your "magnetism", similar thing is happening. It's not nofap that changed you, it's your general decision to improve yourself. You stand a little taller holding straight back and neck with your chest out, hold …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:23 PM
1

When a real man loses money or breaks down he gets back the fuck up. Not for a woman, not for image in front of his buddies. For himself. Women flock to such men, but that's a side effect.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 05:28 PM
1

all the effort has to be done by the man just to make her happy Don't do it unless you enjoy it. However, sometimes you need to stretch your comfort zone. If at the end of the day while looking back at it you can say "it was worth it" then you're good. If you can't (and it's ok when it happens) consider it a lesson.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 05:21 PM
4

Most men want to have what you got. I'd say big part of TRP men (not all) strive to get there too. It looks like you, unlike most, actually looked into TRP and got burned by anger permeating through the crowd there. That was my first reaction. But it's simple really. You have to understand the state of mind the men who post there are in and read through the lines of their grief. Often men come there right after having their relationship crumbled. Anger is just one of the stages in long recovery …
/r/seduction07/11/14 06:50 AM
2

telling everyone she wishes the guy was you takes it too far imo. If she'd said that, I agree. But from OP I figured that's some other broad's post on her twitter.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 02:40 AM
2

"I miss you" from her is very generic. She felt the tingles, now you need to channel them. Tell her you miss fucking her. Sexual topic - good. Lack of subtlety - bad. That throws "he objectifies me" wrench into her tingles factory. You gotta come up with something cocky/funny (ey bb u want sum dik) or reference some quirky/awkward/funny that happened last time you hooked up (oh boy, I still gotta get the laundry done since that last time). That will set her mood right. Next, set the hookup for t…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 02:32 AM
1

Any tips on complementing actions? Especially the ones you yourself can actually do better? "Good job!" sounds dry and paternalistic.
/r/seduction13/10/14 11:36 PM
1

Would not give that advice anyone, perhaps, other than a 25yo virgin.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:16 PM
1

Ah, thanks, I thought that was another troll link. Any pointers for diet? What's the calorie intake for that program and what do u feed her? Other than red meat?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:04 PM
0

Um, can someone point me to a program I can get a my friend started with? Somehow I believe "Starting strength" with 6k/day calorie diet is more designed for 17yo dudes than her in her 30ies.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:40 PM
3

Experiences change you. Why would you want experience in manipulative relationships especially when she showed disrespect so explicitly?
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:57 AM
13

This friendly compliment and bash on herself is a fully conscious joke, not hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:33 PM
7

It seems you're more worried about what others think, be yourself and fuck whoever you're attracted to. Exactly. The rest is disgusting, but the idea is right: whatever works for you.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:25 PM
2

Get a solid hobby. Something manly and social like skydiving, rock climbing, sailing, racing... Try flying a goddamn airplane if that's your thing. If you don't live in the middle of nowhere all of this you can try at reasonable expense. If you're not into it, next it. Still, post that shit on facebook and your old "bros" will be talking behind your back about spear-fishing you did the other weekend, not the awkward oddball you were last Friday night. This also expands your social circle. Teamin…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:05 PM
3

directly, subtly and tastefully This is a thin line.
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:10 PM
2

Great. All their girlfriends are friends to a ton of single women. Be social, ideally try to organize events yourself and tell them to invite their friends (doesn't matter which gender). Do not pressure yourself into hooking up at an event like that, but try to have a brief conversation with everyone there.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:42 PM
2

Too much. "I told you I don't drink." Poker face, eye contact.
/r/seduction04/09/14 08:27 PM
5

Tell her that deal you made the other day is not working out for you. I'll be up to her if she wants to continue this. An asshole move, but if you want to increase your chances, set up next date, get her horny, then stop, tell her that you're not sure about two of you and about your deal. Then shut up and let her inertia do the work. Do not make it sound apologetic, do not explain what you mean by "not sure", avoid being any more specific or giving examples. If she decides to bail, not much you …
/r/askTRP22/08/14 08:13 PM
2

me: "I thought you were slimmer." (that one didn´t go to well...) It didn't work because of the delivery, not the content. You sounded butthurt while you should have slowly examined her all over, turn her around and than said that with a smirk on your face.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:48 PM
1

Well, good thing you couldn't have messed up more than one LTR during this time then. On more serious note, I did see mixing-in a wad of beta into relationship being mentioned here. Not just any beta qualities though: caring and emotional connection but not complaining or whining. Most guys have no problem with that, it's the lack of alpha and shitty beta qualities they have troubles with. Hence you don't see it mentioned often here, let alone upvoted.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:49 PM
1

OP is talking about LTR, not LDR.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 02:01 PM
1

Good lord! Texts are for setting up next activity. Not for flirting. "I wish you would to text me more." - "I don't want to text you, I want to see you." How hard is that? Two skipped events in a row mean she's not interested in seeing you. If she tries to text you after that, you can man up and tell her that directly. It's up to her to GTFO or try to restore the relationship.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 11:31 PM
9

Red pill is not about lack of empathy. Among other things, it's about not having more empathy in relationship than your SO. Overcommitment causes pedestalling.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:18 AM
9

When police shows up, first they will hear your sober coherent story. Simply because you're the one who will meet them outside of the bar. Since you sort of defused the situation by listening to the bouncer and leaving without serious confrontation, he'll be out of picture. Police will send him packing once they realize that he haven't witnessed the initial interaction. As a bonus he'll get in trouble with management (who likes cops showing up at their venue) and learn his lesson to be more judg…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 03:00 PM
6

It ain't dread game if your alternative to her is PS4. From your description it sounds like she settled on you for a little longer till she can find a better cock that will return her texts the next day. Oh, and she's actively in market for some, alright?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:30 PM
1

I'm reading this and cringing while recalling my past (even yesterday's) behavior.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 11:33 PM
-1

Reaction of commenters in r/twoX is not surprising. Since she came for help and support, they support her and blame him to make it easy on her. Why would you expect fairness in the replies? If you look at any post-break-up questions on asktrp, you'll see the same picture. Even when a guy makes standard mistakes, he gets support and gf (or women in general) are blamed. Sure there's more facts and rationality in trp stories, but that's expected.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:56 PM
3

Fair enough, I just wanted to reiterate this. Some guys here are angry and it's a normal reaction.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 06:06 PM
2

Most ppl here don't hate women. They accept them for what they are.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:46 PM
1

So meta, my hypocrisy meter exploded.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:54 PM
5

I agree with this. Even if you extend red pill beyond sexual strategy. It is not about letting "the truth" out into the world. It is about taking advantage of these facts by initiated individual. And acting upon the topics OP mentioned is not advantageous in your life. So what if IQ curves are shaped differently between races? (Btw, I don't think this is due to biological factors.) I'm not going to benefit from acting upon this. How can I apply it? Not date black chicks? It is a matter of person…
/r/askTRP25/04/14 01:33 PM
6

I'm a breast man. The bra thing is just killing me. Put one time some effort into foreplay, get her soaking then tease her some more. Then just rip the damn thing off her like a proper boob man that you are. If it's in pieces in the end, even better. Good luck with the weight thing. Keep up the good habits and continuously educate yourself, it'll get better.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 03:01 AM
1

Because single fact that she doesn't offer to pay is not enough to make qualifying decision. Sure, it's a good indicator. But not enough to say "she's using me". She often simply doesn't know any better. Maybe she read some dumb article like OP linked.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:10 PM
0

a bit of 'hatred' is justified. Anger will not do you any good. Neither externally (especially externally!) i.e. expressing it to her in any way. Nor internally, as motivational factor for any decision.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:44 PM
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