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| 16 | A friend who works at the linux foundation tells me 5.20 is gonna have the "man" system in linux phased out for "manual" because women are scared of the word "man" so their not using linux,ln -s usr/bin/man usr/bin/manual ...should be all you need | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | The BLM backlash is hereThey're build on the same foundation. BLM is just the current iteration of the feminist political movement. Must save the oppressed women, then lesbians, then trans, now blacks. And it gets more left/extreme/authoritarian with each cycle. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 10:25 AM |
| 6 | Is it only me who started to notice? More women are hired than men in Corporate World?The cubical is the new kitchen. | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | rage for an exIt's pretty normal, it will pass. Frog: Why did you sting me? Scorpion: It is my nature. | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I need of advices from entrepreneurs !Know your weaknesses. You may be extremely good at what you do but if you can't sell, you wont get anywhere. Or, if you can't keep your books straight, it can all fall apart. So be realistic about what you're capable of doing and outsource/hire where you're lacking. You'll probably have to do it all yourself to start so pay attention to what bogs you down. Then, as you grow, you can find other people to do those things which will give you more time to focus on your strengths. | /r/MGTOW | 13/07/20 10:34 AM |
| 28 | I always love hearing "who hurt you?"Who? Every woman I've opened my heart to. | /r/MGTOW | 10/07/20 08:52 AM |
| 4 | How do you unbrainwash a teenager?They have to change their own mind but you can plant seeds. And, reason, logic and explanations will get you nowhere. You have to do this by asking questions that forces them to confront conflicting ideas. eg: In the 70s, 2/3 graduates were male. do you agree that was a bad thing? So is it good that women now get 5 scholarships for every one male? Now in 2020, 2/3 of graduates are female. Do you agree that's a bad thing? How would you fix it? This might not be the best example depending on how m… | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Musichttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jj4asIbwmuw | /r/MGTOW | 05/07/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Do not go to conscience inclusion training if you don’t have to, avoid it at all costs.The thing they don't understand is that this kind of "training" can makes things worse. It's very hard for people to change. So, after being lectured to, some will really try. Then they walk around thinking they're doing better but haven't actually changed underneath. Problems ensue. I saw a study on it years ago so fuzzy on the details now | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys like to Boogie?Looks good. Mesa guy here. Never owned a duel rectifier though | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/20 10:55 AM |
| 8 | How do I snap out of being in "love"?Remember that who she is in your head is not the person she is in real life. You have to live with someone for a couple of years before you can really know them. And even then, you can never really know... Realize that all of your thoughts about her are just fantasy. | /r/MGTOW | 25/06/20 11:05 AM |
| 8 | How do you defend yourself in a corporate environment?Stay small, if you can. When I started working for myself, it was great. I could make my own schedule (within reason - clients), do my own books, kept a clean shop and vehicle, etc. When it got bigger with employees, accountants, lawyers and all, I grew to hate it. Eventually sold it. I thought bigger was better but the right thing for me was actually small and nimble. Also, I think laws around hiring only apply to larger businesses. | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Help a brotherHow to Make Money in Stocks - William O'Neil I don't know much about cryptocurrency. | /r/MGTOW | 08/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Made this to show to you gents. This can be seen under their term glossary. Fucking gold.Can provide, protect, is confident, mate guards, competes to prove he is the best... they want a patriarch. | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/20 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Context for life at 52I don't see the contradiction. I'm an old guy and I've traveled a lot and one thing I've noticed is that where ever you go, people are just people. Different cultures have different idea but underneath, it's just people doing what people do. I actually believe there are people who wont "screw you over," though they are rare, and there are also complete assholes but most people are somewhere in the middle. | /r/MGTOW | 24/03/20 09:56 AM |
| 22 | LOL... can't let the truth get out!For me, this is reason #1 to avoid relationships. Women start fights, men get blamed for them. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Let us share some songs that resonate with MGTOW mentality/r/mgtowmusic/ | /r/MGTOW | 09/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 12 | Amber Heard Claims she hit Johnny Depp in Sister's DefenseSo, she hit him but "it was for a good reason" fucking...... Amber Alert! | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 16 | SuitsThe difference is huge. I've lived as a scruffy, long haired, bearded musician and also as a clean cut, jacket and shirt type and the attention from women is night and day. I generally only do full suit and tie for events where everyone is dressed like that because it feels like it's too much in a more casual setting | /r/MGTOW | 06/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | "Emotionally available" = "Emotionally manipulatable"Anything you say can and will be used against you. | /r/MGTOW | 16/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 10 | The quarantine reenforces everything this sub is about."If you strike me down, I shall become more powerful than you can possibly imagine." | /r/MGTOW | 01/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 12 | Men are not allowed to be in a bad mood nowadays?This is the emotional labor men are expected to do for women. We can't be ourselves around them. We are expected to modify how we act and talk in the presence of a female. And never show any emotion, gotta keep that shit to yourself or they will turn on you. Especially in a relationship. Many of you know how hard it is to keep your cool through the monthly hysterics. | /r/MGTOW | 13/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | The force is female (yet another legendary franchise crumbles under female direction)I had basically the same experience... barely made it through force awakens so didn't bother watching the one after that. Sad | /r/MGTOW | 14/11/19 03:02 PM |
| 21 | Katie Hill scandal exposed the left’s #MeToo hypocrisy“Any man under 30 who is not a liberal has no heart, and any man over thirty who is not a conservative has no brains.” ...and some people just don't care about politics | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 11:43 AM |
| 22 | "Who hurt you?""When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her." -Guitry | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I am not relationship materialYa, I don't do the dominant/leader thing with women but then I've never done the betabux thing at all. So just all around not relationship material. | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I am not relationship materiallol I've had many long term relationships and, other than a couple of dry spells over the years, I've never had much trouble in that department. I could go there again if I wanted to. | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 12:02 PM |
| 27 | I am not relationship materialThe "progressive" women in my family made it very clear that I should treat women as equals. It took me years to figure out that the vast majority of women want a man that takes on the traditional male role. | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Circumcision is bullshitUncut here. I have a very faint memory of my dad teaching me to "pull the skin back when you go pee." I don't know if that's the reason but my foreskin moves freely so that there's no "hood" when I'm semi or fully erect. I dated this woman in the 90s. She was a mid 30s, tall, blond, hot, musician who had been around enough. This was before the internet was common and before smart phones. She once told me that in the beginning, she couldn't tell if I was circumcised or not. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Mental feminst on the cbcI remember CBC radio being on regularly when I was a kid in the 70's. It was always left leaning but had some balance and the news was pretty good. That all changed in 2016 after Ghomeshi. Now it's 95% feminist opinion radio. I would still flip to that station now and then but literally had to turn it off within a few minutes every time because they will start inserting feminist opinions. I call it the Ghomeshi Effect - And organization going full feminazi/sjw in response to one members sexual t… | /r/MGTOW | 07/10/19 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Why you always lying?? Women soccer team paid more in recent years!Molly Levinson, a spokeswoman for the players: "inappropriately include the NWSL salaries of the players" So..... the problem, according to her, is that they included the women's bonuses and their salary when calculating how much the women were paid. | /r/MGTOW | 30/07/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Amor fatiThe above quote is from the book: Everything is F*cked by Mark Manson ...if anyone cares | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Amor fatiLooks good. I'll check it out. Thanks | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/19 02:31 PM |
| 9 | Quora : Simp suggests women learn to defend themselves from sexual assault , women explodes at his shaming tactics.This is an example of one of the biggest things that feminist and SJWs get wrong. The belief in and pursuit of utopia. That it will all be perfect and peaceful if we just believe. The idea that you can change the fundamental nature of the world. You can't. Prepare the child for the road, not the road for the child. | /r/MGTOW | 03/07/19 02:22 PM |
| 6 | NeymarThis is the best response to "he should just keep it in his pants" that I've ever heard. | /r/MGTOW | 07/06/19 01:04 PM |
| 6 | There's no competition here because there are no womenThis. Well said. Others yet are just goofing off at the ladies expense, which... meh, bit low effort, but it's fine. Most of those topics get a brief grin from me. And I'm with you on this. Whether venting or goofing, we all have our own ways of coping with the world. | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/19 03:44 PM |
| 37 | There's no competition here because there are no womenYa, it always amazes me how guys from all over the world, of different race, politics and religion, are accepted here as brothers. Cheers. | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Mentioning feminism today is no different than bringing up religion and politicsYa, it is a political movement. It has also become mostly faith based. Sort of a reunification of religion and state. | /r/MGTOW | 02/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW Investors!How to make money in stocks - W. O'Neil The name seems too obvious and it pushes you to subscribe to their website. The web service might be useful to some people but I would recommend avoiding it. If you want to trade stocks, read that book and as much other info you can get. Then decide how much you're willing to lose. Think of this amount as the tuition for your education and use it to open a trading account. Trade until you've lost that money. If you don't lose it all, just keep going. If yo… | /r/MGTOW | 19/04/19 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Fem-fatigueThe way I see it is that there always has, and always will be, a small percentage asshole/psychopaths regardless of their gender. Historically, men and women had different sets of responsibilities/jobs/etc. and rarely worked side by side. So, when women did start entering male work spaces, they had little protection if they had to deal with an asshole who was male. That being said, I think women (who wanted to work) were better mentally prepared to deal with men than they are today. So now, even… | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/19 11:13 AM |
| 2 | The great divorceI doubt it has any real bearing on how the narrative and discourse changed Ya, it started to feel like a stretch as I was typing it out. look at divorces and how fast and how often they happen (by looking at stats) and then looking at the era's and see if there is a correlation The initial idea was based on stats I saw that estimated very few people marrying by 2030 if current trends continue. I wasn't really trying to make to make one-to-one correlation. More looking at the events that might … | /r/MGTOW | 11/04/19 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Red pill prevents me from hating women> society that prevents female nature from going out of control And it's women who set and uphold the social norms. Shame tactics, sex as incentive, etc. | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Beautiful thing about mgtow - DiversityHey... thanks for the response! My post was [Removed] right after I posted it. Don't know why or why it's back. I assumed that I hadn't made myself clear enough or crossed some line. Anyway, I think you understand what I was trying to get at and I really appreciate you expanding on it. A "fairer future" does sound nice. I've had similar thoughts but you may be a little more optimistic than I am. Nonetheless, it never hearts to lead by example. Cheers brother. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Life Pro Tip!Many (most?) feminists get triggered by something. Triggering happens because the mind hasn't/can't process a traumatic event. So, yes, I would say feminist (especially any who claims to get triggered) do need therapy. | /r/MGTOW | 11/03/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The Narrative vs. RealityI think this is where I saw it: https://ncfm.org/2018/11/news/discrimination-news/discrimination-against-men-news/ncfm-member-tim-patten-aggressive-females-and-masculinity/ I just tried to confirm that number but no luck. I'll edit the original post. Thanks EDIT: Should be "victims of intimate partner physical violence" not homicides. According to the CDC’s statistics — roughly 5,365,000 men had been victims of intimate partner physical violence in the previous 12 months, compared with 4,741… | /r/MGTOW | 05/02/19 10:42 AM |
| 2 | The Narrative vs. RealityAggrieved Entitlement Dennis Gouws: "how this concept might apply to women’s behavior. Women might express aggrieved entitlement when they experience what they perceive to be a humiliating loss of the gynocentric privilege to which gynocentric chivalry, gender feminism, and hegemonic gynarchy have entitled them. Self-righteous, angry expressions of personal offense and even violent acts might result from their perceived moral obligation to regain their sense of gynocentric privilege. A cursory… | /r/MGTOW | 04/02/19 12:43 PM |
| 5 | The Narrative vs. RealitySources: https://archive.is/Ik7z3 Some of the stats I posted were from years ago and from memory. Correct me if I'm wrong. | /r/MGTOW | 04/02/19 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Gamma BiasYa, I think it does specifically refer to that aspect. I see gynocentrism as more a part of human nature. In that it is beneficial in a healthy society where women spend a lot of time nurturing young children. In western societies today though, it has been taken too far. And the demand for ever more gynocentrism from the left has led to this gamma bias in the culture at large. | /r/MGTOW | 11/01/19 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Gamma BiasThis is a little different I think. Gynocentrism is pedestalizing women or putting women (and children) first. Gamma bias is downplaying the good things that men do and bad things that women do, while focusing on the good things women do and the bad things men do. | /r/MGTOW | 11/01/19 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Why does this seem to keep happening to loyal men?There was a little green globule on his drum seat | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/18 05:51 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW vs the mainstream - The ability to entertain another viewpointThis. But also, if you are debating in a public forum, you can influence the people watching/reading. If someone is sitting on the fence, a good argument can sway them. | /r/MGTOW | 18/11/18 12:35 PM |
| 18 | I've never met an oppressed womanShe was utterly convinced. When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. | /r/MGTOW | 18/11/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt meYou make a good point. But, when someone makes a false accusation, they rarely do it to your face. They'll go to the authorities or white nights. This is more about dealing with people directly... insults, same tactics, etc. | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/18 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Going my own way in Southern PatagoniaThe real Roberts has been retired fifteen years and living like a king in Patagonia. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt meANTIFA takes it even farther I believe. They advocate fighting fascism with fascism. But, most of the people they are fighting against are not fascist. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Hot vs. Beautiful - Thot ExperimentI haven't seen the whole episode so don't know about that part. This is where he talks about male mating strategies and how women present themselves will determine which strategy men will use. I just found it really interesting to see hot and beautiful as different aspects. When I was young, I chased "hot" mostly. This helped me make sense of those poor decisions. | /r/MGTOW | 08/10/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian Vs FeministYou aren't even equal compared to the you yesterday, how can two seperate individuals be equal? I think of it more as every life has equal value. You can argue that the life of a Nobel prize winner has more value to society than someone, say, mentally challenged, but comparing people like that has zero effect on my life. But, if you were on a sinking ship full of men and women and there aren't enough life boats... But I do not think people DESERVE equal rights, rights have to be earned. My stanc… | /r/MGTOW | 15/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian Vs FeministYou do life your way and I'll do it my way. If you're trying to tell me that there's something wrong with my choices, then it is you who are in the wrong sub. | /r/MGTOW | 14/09/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian Vs FeministThis was hard for me to accept when it came to my sister. Someone I thought I knew. | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian Vs FeministCompletely agree. I think I just like the idea of telling a feminist that I can't agree with her because I stand for equality. | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Egalitarian Vs FeministThat's an interesting point. It could be argued that letting women be firefighters is equality. But more importantly, as you point out, the person being rescued, who is paying taxes, deserves a firefighter who is the equal of the other firefighters. You got me thinking with this so I just look more into egalitarianism. It has a liberal/progressive side that I don't buy into. | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/18 03:21 PM |
| 11 | A message to my MGTOW brothersTo those going through it or who will, you eventually move past it. I speak from experience. After three 7+ year and some 3+ year relationships, I went through it every time. Almost didn't survive the first one. No Matter how devastating it feels in the moment, a day will come when it wont matter anymore and it will just be a memory. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Married and want out"I'm probably about a 3.75 on the attractiveness scale [...] 5,6 and bald in your 20's." I just want to point out that this has nothing to do with the situation you're in. You could Brad fucking Pitt and you'd still be dealing with the same shit. | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] In what generation did the classic woman disappear?I'd never though about the hormones directly changing their behavior. It makes sense. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 2 | sex drive - the drop"Hate leads to suffering" lol .....and, thanks man. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 05:34 PM |
| 6 | [discussion] In what generation did the classic woman disappear?I think birth control was the game changer. It changed the foundation underneath and allowed for new rules and new moves. Add in the rest of the advancements in medicine/science and I don't think there's any going back. Male birth control will probably change things a little when it happens. I've heard conservatism defined as attempting to preserve the values of a culture. So ironically, if the left ever achieved it's goal of "equality," they'd have to switch to conservatism in order to preserve… | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | sex drive - the dropYa, it's pretty bad. They hate men with "power." But, without the drive to get sex, they loose their power to manipulate. It's like my mgtow fucking super power --this is just a shower thought | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 04:09 PM |
| 3 | sex drive - the dropI'm in Canada and there's a lot of left/feminist/sjw hate for "old white men" | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | sex drive - the dropLiberating. That's a good way to put it. Sometimes I thing that's where the hate for "old [race] men" comes from. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 03:57 AM |
| 4 | sex drive - the dropI can't trust them anymore | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 03:14 AM |
| 5 | sex drive - the dropDon't fight it. That drive is the same drive that built empires. As a mghow, be aware of it and harness it. You will see things differently later in life. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 03:09 AM |
| 2 | sex drive - the droplol idk if that's a good thing or not but it would have saved me a lot of heartache if wasn't chasing pussy in my 30s | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 02:54 AM |
| 5 | sex drive - the dropCheers brother. Was hoping it was in jest but had to tread it like troll. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 02:42 AM |
| 11 | sex drive - the dropI seem to match with high sex drive women so I can't really relate to that. It was strange being with someone who wanted more sex than me but I can still keep up. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/18 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Lol. Looking though random and find this. Please ban be from you sad fags. Sad there is a woman hating Reddit. They annoy me as much as the next guy but you all are just bitter. Have fun jerking off all your life.Put you down? ..this is mgtow. You're free to do/think/say whatever you want here. Do life the way you want. Good luck! | /r/MGTOW | 22/04/18 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Complex Autobiographical False Memory - every act of transmission is an act of creation.Ya, you're right. It's not really common knowledge though. I've been dealing with a lot of "believe all women" where I live. I've tried to counter that with evidence and logic but that doesn't work at all on the people who just "believe" ...the only counter move I've found is to pit a woman against them. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Complex Autobiographical False Memory - every act of transmission is an act of creation.Hmm. I don't thing so. Where do you see the flaw in it? | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Complex Autobiographical False Memory - every act of transmission is an act of creation.I see it as a reason to not talk about your past... it's the past. And, don't trust people who are dwelling on the past. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Complex Autobiographical False Memory - every act of transmission is an act of creation.From the article: “Once we start to tell other people about our experiences, and they’re telling us their experiences, we’re absorbing pieces of their memories and they’re absorbing pieces of ours.” A kind of consensus group memory arises, one that probably had a powerful evolutionary impetus, Shaw believes, because group memory is good for group unity. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 02:05 PM |
| 10 | Feminists are also radical racists. Color me surprisedOh, I see, so the right to speak and reproduce should be dependent on the color of your skin. Great plan... /s | /r/MGTOW | 07/03/18 12:01 PM |
| 1 | IRON RULE: If you wouldn't be a MGHOW, if "the laws were different" then you were never MGHOW in the first place.I'm honestly not sure what you're trying to say... but I can tell you there are a lot of men who have grown up conditioned to let other people run their lives ...or have found themselves legally trapped in that situation. | /r/MGTOW | 02/01/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | IRON RULE: If you wouldn't be a MGHOW, if "the laws were different" then you were never MGHOW in the first place.I think you stopped reading too soon. How about this: MGTOW: The idea that "each individual man [can] decide what is best for them and their life." Not saying this IS the definition but it's better than the line you quoted. | /r/MGTOW | 15/12/17 03:19 PM |
| 4 | All truly beautiful and sad songs are written by men.Hallelujah was written by Leonard Cohen | /r/MGTOW | 25/11/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Why Men Can Thrive In SolitudeThats right, the opposite of reason is not stupidity but selfishness, since reason embraces the objective reality of life and selfishness embraces the opposite, the egoistic subjective reality of things. This is such an interesting perspective. So, trying to poke holes in it... Selflessness -> Objective -> Reason Egotistic -> Subjective -> [Opposite of reason] I really like the idea. Just trying to wrap my head around it. | /r/MGTOW | 25/09/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Codependency == Pair-bonding24 | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | It is getting about that time if yearIf a god exists, what function does it serve? If it didn't create all life and all matter and all energy, isn't it a worthless god? To answer this, we would first have to agree on what a god is. And then, we would have to agree on what it means to exist ...e.g. you could say pain exists yet it is not something you can actually touch or see. As for gods, some people believe in a 'man in the sky' type of thing which to me is on the same level as santa claus. For something more sophisticated, I wou… | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/17 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Codependency == Pair-bondingSorry for the late reply..... I don't think I scored that correctly. She didn't have any major issues. The worst being the things I mentioned in the post above. Though her teen pregnancy happened when she was fifteen, which was way more taboo back then. Maybe put clear instructions on the spreadsheet itself. | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/17 11:39 AM |
| 2 | The cost of female sexual liberationGood reply to a good post. Here's more food for thought... I heard it suggested that womens current attitude is only possible because of a biological change. And, that change was the pill. They used a computer analogy. Software will only run on the operating system it was written for, and the operating system was built to run on certain hardware. And, it is a one way street where the OS/software is limited by the capabilities of the hardware. The idea is that widespread feminist ideology (softwa… | /r/MGTOW | 23/08/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Codependency == Pair-bondingOops, I thought you also wanted the results for each line. Score: 233 Do you have enough data yet to know what the average is? ...or any other conclusions? | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Codependency == Pair-bondinglol Yes, that was my mistake. I was in my early 40s and decided it was time to settle down. I filled out a copy of that list if you want to let me know how I can get it to you. For anyone else who's wondering. She scored pretty low. She was mid 30s at the time and it started before we had smart phones. She was a single mother, teen pregnancy. Bad relationship with her father, parents divorced early. Heave pot smoker. Yoga instructor. FWIW, I took relationships pretty slow. It has always been my … | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Codependency == Pair-bondingI hear what you're saying. I've had many LTRs but this was the only one where I truly committed to the other person. Maybe over-committing is crossing into codependence. It was right at the end when she had already given up and I was doing everything (every wrong thing) to get her to stay. Maybe at that point I was relying on her for my self-worth ...but everything about your head if messed up when someones dumping you. Also, compared to my other partners, she showed very little codependency tra… | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 12:49 PM |
| 13 | Codependency == Pair-bondingI see you are learned in the way of the hamster. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Women do not know what real confidence is, and here is why.they judged people on the basis of their competence This. In male environments, men naturally form their own hierarchies where the competent/best rise to the top. Traditionally women could to watch the men compete and then they were able to choose from the top men. Top men being on top because other men put them there. Now that male spaces are shut down or diversified and every kid gets a trophy for just for participating, meritocracy is gone. And, women have to try to figure out for themselves … | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/17 10:14 AM |
| 3 | becoming a manMy experience with rich/powerful people is that they are looking out for themselves. They may collude with another to control people for their mutual gain but they are still competing with the rest at that level. I think it's the culmination of these players that gives the appearance of a "they." And, there are always new players entering the game... statistically, there are probably a few on this sub who will reach that level. | /r/MGTOW | 15/08/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | becoming a manI like your line of thinking. Mostly agree but I don't buy into the "invisible agent" (Shermer) ...that there is an elite "they" controlling things behind the curtain. | /r/MGTOW | 15/08/17 12:02 PM |
| 5 | "this place made me a feminist"Sneaky fucker strategy. Occasionally it works but you will not get respect by employing it. | /r/MGTOW | 28/07/17 10:14 AM |
| 4 | Canada law: Will send men to prison without evidenceBlackstone's ratio: "It is better that ten guilty persons escape than that one innocent suffer" | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/17 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Remember when I made a thread bout getting ghosted left and right in 2017Lvl 1 Achieved - Now, guard your assets and your baby juice closely. Your future depends on it. | /r/MGTOW | 08/07/17 12:08 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong in 2017? Getting ghosted left and right and depressed.Leave it. Always. Women are like buses, another one comes along every 15 minutes. Being a good looking guy, if you take care of yourself, you will only get better with age. And, with a little game under your belt, you will still be able to catch a twenty-something when you're forty ...if you want one. | /r/MGTOW | 07/07/17 01:00 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck is wrong in 2017? Getting ghosted left and right and depressed.Stop caring. You are trying too hard. I went through a similar experience and it wasn't until I stopped caring that my luck changed. I sort of stopped taking it all seriously and would just say whatever popped into my head. And always start with something a little wild. My best openings went something like this: Me: Have you been a bad girl? Her: No! I'm a good girl. Me: Well, at least Santa will be good to you. ....worked every time on the hottest ones and sets a sexual tone. Also, keep it sexu… | /r/MGTOW | 07/07/17 11:56 AM |
| 4 | After relationshits: Women go to therapy, Men Go Their Own Way.Ya, I have to agree with you. That happened to me in all of my serious relationships without fail. But, it's been a long time since I've dated anyone under 30 so my perspective might be skewed. Younger girls probably just talk to each other more. I was referring more to the difference in how we cope/deal shit. Maybe I could have worded it better. I appreciate the feedback. | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Quick to angerYou can argue the semantics but the outcome is the same. A lot of outright fighting all the time. I'm simply saying that I've had LTRs where that didn't exist. They used different methods of manipulation. | /r/MGTOW | 30/06/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a young MGTOW?I say go for it. But, guard your finances and your baby juice closely. Your future depends on it. And if/when you do go through a breakup remember that the pain will end eventually. | /r/MGTOW | 30/06/17 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Quick to angerFrom what I've heard/seen, things have changed a lot. But, fathering is also not what it used to be. Most of the women I've known would be around 50 now and I've had a few LTRs with women who generally did not automatically launch into angry bitch mode. The last one I was with would be 36 now... never once yelled. To be clear though, they used different methods to socially manipulate which could be even worse. But this is a post about the "angry type" | /r/MGTOW | 30/06/17 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Rape Culture - explanationHere's the discussion if anyone is interested. @1:21:30 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_HH7frNdN8 | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/17 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Rape Culture - explanationI have quite a lot of experience with this type of thing. Mostly BD side as I'm not into much SM. And, while I agree that most women do enjoy getting pretty rough, there wasn't much connection between that and rape fantasy as far as I could tell. There are probably very primal connections but many I know get turned off if it starts to go it a "rape" direction. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Rape Culture - explanationlol... ya, that's a better way to put it. And yes, I think there might be something to what you're saying. I didn't mean to discount it outright. It's been hard to make sense out of what I've been seeing so I appreciate your input. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/17 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Rape Culture - explanationIf the motive was rape fantasy and a girl claimed (regret) rape after casual sex, wouldn't she just be announcing her fantasy to the world? If she has regrets or negative feeling toward the guy I see it much more likely that she wants to punish him in some way. She also gets the fawning and support for being a victim. I've always thought that there had to be some purpose/understanding among women for this "culture" and that's why I'm leaning toward her explanation. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/17 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Advice on getting out of a slump1) Sober up - The biggest thing is controlling your environment. For most, it is not the substance itself but that it provides a means of escape. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rat_Park Over the years, when it got bad for me, I would use a "one or the other" type of approach. As in, only pot (or alcohol) for the next two days. Since I was often using both, it would help me get over the hump. I find psychedelics (prefer mushrooms) to be the best "last" drug when quiting. 2) Get healthy - Most of t… | /r/MGTOW | 03/03/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | "Female oppression" and society.Feminists project their in-group bias onto males. They don't understand what it feels like to be a man. To feel the need to provide and protect that is at intrinsic to the nature of most men. This instinct to provide and protect is what "patriarchy" actually is. And, feminism is killing that. Playing the victim of oppression gets you cash and prizes. | /r/MGTOW | 10/02/17 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Do unto othersHa. It feels good to be amongst brothers. | /r/MGTOW | 30/01/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | True vs RightI don't think it's quite that simple. Different cultures may abide by that principal but vary in how they treat each other. Circumcision for instance. The fact that they can't explain dark matter was my point. It doesn't change the fact that there is something causing that gravity to exist. And, that dark matter is what we are calling it for now. | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Autonomy is power.I really like this but can't quite put my finger on why. Self-control could still be considered autonomy (choosing not to do something) but it adds something that I can't describe. Maybe it's touching on that moral/spiritual part of our existence that is very hard to quantify scientifically. | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/17 10:19 AM |
| 2 | A mans power is about his ability to say "No"Autonomy is power. | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/17 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Know your patriarchy!Exactly, thanks guys. | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Unlearning Toxic MasculinityI agree that just learning health masculinity would be best. The problem is that some men/boys are being bombarded with the phrase "unlearn toxic masculinity" My goal here is to take the term and turn it into something that is mental positive for you. That way, every time you hear it, it reinforces what you want ..not what they want. Effectively negating their efforts. | /r/MGTOW | 19/01/17 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Unlearning Toxic MasculinityThis is great. I like to flip things to see what they look like on the other foot and struggled with a way to frame toxic femininity. | /r/MGTOW | 18/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Unlearning Toxic MasculinityThe point of the post was to Unlearn this idea of "toxic masculinity" that some people are forcing on others ...especially young boys. Define masculinity the way you want. Define yourself the way you want. | /r/MGTOW | 18/01/17 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Unlearning Toxic MasculinityThanks. My version of "play along" is declaring that I can define masculinity too. And that's an excellent point about emotions. I did notice though that I personally went through a change in my mid forties and I shifted to being less emotional. I don't know if others have experienced this but it occurred to me that it might be part of the whole "man up" thing. Sort of: Suppressing emotions doesn't make you a mature, emotions are suppressed when you mature. | /r/MGTOW | 18/01/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | /* Hello World */lol... I love that mythbusters quote. And, it's basically the point of this thread. I am rejecting feminist patriarchy theory and substituting my own. I completely get what you're saying about dissolution and resulting lower drive and I've been leaning towards behavioral sink as an explanation. Though I don't think it will lead to human extinction as it did in mouse utopia. The topic of female potentials is new to me. And, a quick google search didn't help. Can you elaborate? | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 02:47 PM |
| 2 | /* Hello World */Maybe I should have left out the part about not being able to identify as MGTOW as it's not the intended topic of this tread. But, since we're here... I kinda get what you're saying but I'm having trouble defining the core aspect you talk about. I would be interested to hear more thoughts on this. Things like "untapped potential" "what it could be" "We wish we could" to me, almost suggest pining for something... not a full acceptance of your reality.... is that some hope in there? GNU - a recurs… | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 12:49 PM |
| 3 | /* Hello World */I appreciate your input. The reason I chose MGTOW for this discussion is because most here truly know what it's like to go through the meat grinder. And, once the rage is over, and you don't any more f#(%$ to give, you can objectively see the world. | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 10:07 AM |
| 2 | /* Hello World */It's hard to describe this balance but it's something I keep coming back to... and sometimes it's a bit of a stretch. As in yin-yang... black balances white even though they're opposites. For me, the only appropriate (re)action in the west is to go monk. I've distanced myself from toxic females. | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 09:57 AM |
| 1 | /* Hello World */Thank you. You and I have as much right as anyone else to define the world the way we see it. | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 09:34 AM |
| 2 | /* Hello World */I agree with everything you've said. I have a little trouble with "male domination" because it implies malevolence when it is just human nature. You can't blame the scorpion for doing what he does. And your definition of MGTOW is why I can't call myself one. What you have written is true but it leaves out the part about how awesome it is to be a man. You are on the top of the food chain. It's not that bad. | /r/MGTOW | 17/01/17 09:32 AM |
| 1 | His reason to end itI would guess early to mid 30s. She seemed like the type who would spend a lot of time on her appearance so I could be off. | /r/MGTOW | 01/12/16 11:18 AM |
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