funkysupe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Is Pickup Dying?	Lifestyle	funkysupe	/r/seduction	25/09/25 02:54 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Date was going very well until I said one sentence Just grab her by the hand next time and say let’s get out of here. It never fails. The physically bring her to the next venue or somewhere quieter. Never ask her anything. Just do. She follows. Then after the next location have the uber ready to take you to your house. You just say “don’t get any ideas, your having 1 drink then I’m kicking you out” I’d rather see you escalate like you did on your own sofa and have the logistics advantage.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 07:38 PM
1	Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around. Why do you want to "sleep around?"--- I can guarentee you, I have slept with more women than you. It leaves you nothing but feeling used, shallow, validated but with nothing to show for it. The sex isn't even that great after awhile because its just for sport and going through the motions almost - when you dont care about the person. Wilt Chamberlain has probably slept with 100X more women than me. To Quote Wilt: "I'd rather have slept with 1 woman 10,000 times then 10,000 women 1 time" - Wilt C…	/r/seduction	19/11/25 06:00 AM
1	Responding to "not sure if you're my type" I’m not sure even how that comes up in your conversations. But steer away from stuff involving your looks or her look or anything involving that you don’t need to talk about it. Better response from you would be “ well I don’t really think you’re my type either” or you could display top level game and say that out the gate.. what’s wrong with telling a girl in the first 20 minutes that she’s not really your type? That would be you disqualifying her and maintaining your frame like you’re the priz…	/r/seduction	26/10/25 04:12 PM
3	Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them? Im afraid the answer is a little complicated. Basically, Ive had many women in my life seemingly be all over me when in person, flirty fun as you describe etc to also run into the same issue. I did a lot of research to reach my conclusion: You are the subject of attention there and then, but not once you part ways. So whats this mean?: You are likely dealing with someone who is a) not serious really with anyone b) has their attention sucked up else where c) a combination of the two. a) Not serio…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 02:51 AM
1	Is Pickup Dying? Your responses are total nonsense. This is how I know for sure you have no idea what you are talking about. “Divine spark”? What the hell is that? Anyone can become attractive, it’s a personality trait, not just a thing you get born with. You learn to attract women. Thats the whole point dude	/r/seduction	28/09/25 07:20 PM
1	Is Pickup Dying? What a weird comment. Well If you know people they haven’t worked for or possibly yourself, the problem isn’t the pickup material, the problem is the user lol. Basically, you’re doing it wrong then lol, cause they work for everyone who actually knows that they are doing…“Suppressed ability to attract women”?? No idea what that means. Those pickup methods, happen in every courtship regardless of the person knowing they do them or not. Pickup is more about understanding them and using them to your…	/r/seduction	27/09/25 02:48 PM
1	Is Pickup Dying? Thanks man. Not that I have any sort of personal fear or lack of a skill in day game or anything like that. Even texting too. Most of the problem with any sort of texting game is that you didn’t build up enough interest. I think the overarching problem is that women just aren’t doing anything anymore, don’t seem to want children nor men. Even day game won’t work when women can just Uber eats, bury their head into Instagram and travel a lot for girls trips.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 02:57 PM
1	Is Pickup Dying? I agree, but people are still people. Women are still women. Picking up girls, still hasn’t changed if they go out at least to me it hasn’t. Negs work wonders being cocky funny is great. Understanding how bounce locations work etc. My post was more about the sheer lack of people not going out. That is troublesome.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 02:46 PM
3	Is Pickup Dying? Oh, good luck in Seattle, heard it’s a lot like Portland. Might be kind of rough on the woman front.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 02:42 PM
8	Is Pickup Dying? Dude the APPS are TERRIBLE my man! Such a waste of time. But hey kudos to you	/r/seduction	25/09/25 05:36 AM
1	Is Pickup Dying? Well , so a small EDIT from my end would be - Cold approach DOES work for getting laid from clubs. Thats for sure. BUT, not well for actual dating I might add.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 04:00 AM
1	If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic option Take it from a guy who has had 100+ one night stands - I can attest to this. In fact, just the other night was my first night going out on awhile, so I was a little rusty. Was talking to a super cute latina girl and she said "make out with me". I said "I dont do that first night sweety, take my number and met up tomorrow" - which seemed to work at the time. BUT, I kinda forgot what the OP said, girls are out to have fun THAT NIGHT! And after, I was like, WTF was I thinking, I should have made ou…	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:53 AM
7	Is Pickup Dying? Interesting. I mean, I talk to girls all the time during the day at various places etc., but they are never hot and there are never many of them. What do you mean by day game? Also, what adaptations did you make to your night game? What do you mean by that?	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:41 AM
1	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in Got it. I don't know enough about the queens or how that situation was. I have friends living in Manhattan and Im from Boston originally myself - I never see this in Manhattan when i go with a buddy who's 5'9" white dude. He pulls a TON of girls and has no problem there. Also I guess we all have a different definition of what a "hot girl" is and I cant imagine girls in Westchester NY being the "hot" level i'm talkin' about. Like a Westchester 8 might be an LA 5 or whatnot lol. Usually a hot whit…	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:31 AM
1	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in Yeah but be honest with yourself - are these women ever hot ??? --- No lol. Are they usually plump, tatted, liberal, kinda nuts, colored hair, age 30+ with daddy issues, drug issues and long fingernails and usually kinda talk sorta ghetto already? YES! haha - ive seen it, but its never hots girls i guess i meant	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:15 AM
1	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in Hmmm... You really need to do 2 things simultaneously. Control the "controllables", and give yourself the best shot at the things that you dont control. Controllables: - Work hard and make good $ - Workout, Eat healthy and get in shape - Most important > Learn game. Learn how to talk to girls, not give a shit what they say, treat them like your bratty sister. Learn when NOT tot talk. Learn how to "lock in". Read the Mystery method. Learn social dynamics. You will start to get laid and get confid…	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:12 AM
1	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in Lol Ive literally never seen this. This is probably why you have 5 downvotes. Usually, blacks guys at bars just stand in the corner arms folded looking angry and trying to be "tough"... I don't see black guys pull a lot to be honest. Some of its personality, some of it is that they aren't fun or funny or entertaining etc.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:03 AM
1	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in Hmmm i disagree. I have seen short ugly guys pull hot girls right away from 6'5" chad no problem. Its all about her "mind" fellas - If you can entertain it, capture it, make her laugh and some boring tall chad i just sitting there, its game over.	/r/seduction	25/09/25 03:02 AM
1	How often do bar hookups happens? Good game, in my opinion, is just being able to go up and talk to a girl anywhere no problem with no expectation of outcome. When you stop caring, you get really good at game. Then being able to be fun, funny and dominant enough to lead her the rest of the way. Nice on the drinking, I don’t drink either :) Yes bars are loud, but you just gotta talk louder, it sucks. As for how it all goes down, it’s simpler than that - it’s just a combo of proximity and numbers. You just get good at talking to w…	/r/seduction	23/05/25 05:50 PM
3	How often do bar hookups happens? Yeah i got you. No my ratings aren't gassed, you just have to live somewhere with more hot girls than normal is all - Like Austin, Nashville, Dallas, NY, LA , Chicago etc... 8s are all over the place in those cities. Im 6'4", got game, and good looking so that helps. Id say most bars I go to I get the hottest girl there. Stunners aren't really out of reach for most guys either at all - I see (and personally know) many total dweebs of guys with girls WAY hotter than them (out of their league) - I…	/r/seduction	23/05/25 04:28 PM
1	How often do bar hookups happens? I’m very picky. I’d say none have ever been below 7.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 02:54 PM
0	Why Most Intelligent Guys Stay Stuck in Cold Approach (And What to Do Instead) This is my problem with seduction community. Want to know what women are seduced by? Men who couldn’t give a shit about them. So stop giving a shit about them. That’s the issue. Of course, do all the normal things to make yourself a better guy. Work out, make money, have some good meal grooming, and learn a little bit about fashion, talk normally to women don’t try and play games and bullshit. Less you care the more women will like you.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 06:39 AM
1	Response to common questions that women ask? What should you say to her? Say “No not all men cheat. But I think women enjoy trying to get men to cheat”… get her reaction.. if she says “yeah your probably right” or something like that, she’s probably into you, and you have a short window to dump your girl and get with this chick	/r/seduction	23/05/25 06:29 AM
0	How often do bar hookups happens? I’ve had about 100 personally. Very often. Even more often if you live near bars.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 06:25 AM
1	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating This take might be controversial and feel/sound doomer or black pill - but f*** it, here goes... There are unfortunate times in history for things. For example, being in Europe during the holocaust or living and starving during the great depression, would have been terrible. This is obvious in hindsight. This is the current situation, for dating and relationships in the western world as we speak. We have by result, driven a wedge straight through men and women's relationships with social media, …	/r/seduction	04/03/25 10:19 PM
0	HELP!!! I am obsessed with women I understand that you like women… What Guy doesn’t? But it is a problem if you put them first in your life… Women have a sense for this if you don’t have a passion and goal in life that supersedes women you will not get women, at least not easily. so find something that’s a passion of yours that is not women and chase that, and start looking at women as a great nice to have, and you’ll be much happier.	/r/seduction	09/02/25 09:01 AM
1	What site works for hookups lol for 80-90% of men? More like 99.9% of men. Basically, if you’re a dude you’re gonna be better off in real life. the apps are validation engines for women.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 07:18 AM
2	Extreme flakiness from girls on the apps Wait wait… so your post is about how you can’t message well on the apps, but have no trouble in person? And why aren’t you just doubling down on stuff in person again lol?	/r/seduction	04/01/25 03:54 AM
2	How to not get stressed around pretty girls Yes. Do exactly the same as the 6s you talk to. Stop caring. Trick your brain.	/r/seduction	16/12/24 06:41 AM