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I don’t judge people who genuinely wants the traditional life but it appears that the people who never left my small town was even given an option to choose, I feel sorry for these types of people. If they genuinely happy why do they give me crap for following my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:06 PM
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I wasn’t always self-actalize. When I was growing up I was fed into these ideas because of religious household. I took risks to not follow these rules and led to more fulfilling life. I could of follow the gender rules that was imposed on me like others. The people who stayed in that path likes to believe they are fulfilled but I can’t help feeling sorry for them because they don’t question things outside of their religious teachings. Sometimes these ideologies that are spread can reach impressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:20 PM
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So height is determinator now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:58 PM
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I absolutely agree. There are too many agressive guys on here who don’t want to engage a conversation and attack your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:33 PM
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I agree, it’s refreshing to see people who think differently on here. I feel like this sub had more red pill demographics than it claims there’s equal balance of red and blue pill. Some of people have extremely black and white views that I wonder if they have any experiences outside of their red pill circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:27 PM
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I am sorry you feel that way, a lot of hurt people are on this sub and you are prob one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:23 PM
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5”9
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:17 PM
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Well I think alpha and beta are silly categories. How do you define alpha and beta anyways. My boss was in a leadership role and has alpha man job but he was very empathetic and sensitive and his wife still out earns him does that make him a alpha or beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:10 PM
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Well are the nerdy guys looking for nerdy girls. I met plenty of nerdy girls love nerdy guys like in comic cons, whovian circles, gamers communities and not all of these guys that gfs have 6 pack and chisel jaws. When I was in Northern Europe, I noticed the men on average are more feminine and the women there don’t care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:07 PM
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Example 80% of men prefer blonde in location A but in Location B men prefer brunettes 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:48 PM
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Yeah unfortunately the height thing is somewhat universal but I have seen tall women dating short men. Another example is men who are macho and dominant is frown upon in egalitarian societies where dominant men is appreciated in more gendered culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:47 PM
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Vast majority can change too. What’s considered majority of people acting a certain way can changes if you are in different location/environment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:34 PM
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Plus a lot these brands are not as exclusive as they once more. Rich people are now investing things that are becoming less accessible to public which is privacy. Privacy will be the new luxury in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:46 PM
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Too many. If you search on your YouTube “guide to hypergamy” or “how to level up” or “why you should only date providers” or “how to get him to spent money on you” on YouTube. You will find plenty of channels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:43 PM
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They don’t flash their wealth, name drop, being rude to people who are below them (service staff), wear over the top clothing, accessories. They don’t necessarily have perfect table manners like the royal family and their speech isn’t perfect all the time. What people commonly associate with rich people is that they are either 1) stylish, snooty, have perfect manners, like the 1950s country club preps/European aristocracy or 2) they are flamboyant and glamorous like reality TV/IG influencers. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:38 PM
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I am not against plastic surgery but I do think it’s last resort. I think people should try other improvements first before going under knife. Never underestimate power of a good hairstyle and nice wardrobe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:15 AM
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That’s your choice and I never said married women can’t work. For me at least, if I feel like I have to look for partner that needs to financially benefit me, I feel like I would never be fulfilled because partially i am with that person based on what he can provide me and that’s not what I want. I want companion fulfills my soul and I am with him because I love that person so much that I don’t care for his financially status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:19 AM
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Well it could be same with traditional couples. I know plenty of women who end up in welfare after they got divorced, they lost everything since their husband was main provider. If your independent at least you can be on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:27 PM
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You could do both. Some women happens to fell in love with men that makes less money then them and these women makes enough money to to be Independent and decides to be with these men anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:23 PM
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Depends on the guy, some guy do care more about personality. You can marry for looks all you want but eventually even most beautiful women won’t stay like that forever, unless you want a replacement every 10 years your best bet is to look for someone with same values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:11 PM
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If that’s what they want/value, that’s fine. Some women don’t feel like they have to compromise for who they are to attract a certain type a men. I am sure there are provider men out there who don’t mind the women who are not traditional “feminine”. I would personally feel exhausting constantly putting on a facade/persona to make a guy wanting to provide for me but at the same like I am lucky enough that I can provide a lifestyle that I want for myself so I might look at things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:17 PM
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I don’t mind the self improvement parts. Having beauty transformation and trying to get ahead in terms of career and upgrading on your mannerism is all great concepts. But these things don’t guarantee you will be part of the elite circles. A lot of attractive, charming women that fit the description of HVW are not married to rich guy some just married average middle class men as well. Not all wealthy men are married to these types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:08 PM
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It works for some people but not others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:20 PM
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I wouldn’t let the small minority who have princess complex represents a whole generation. For every girl who had that mindset, there will always be a one who think and do it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:46 PM
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Thanks for insight but what does QTF means
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with grooming and beautifying. I do some of these things too but some women do go to extreme lengths like getting plastic surgery to attract these men and there’s no guarantee the men will even show Interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:25 PM
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It’s okay to to have standards based on values and morals but to compromise your values for other people can lead to self destruction. The demographic they are looking to date is a small selection and many of these women would prob comprise these men’s characters for status which can lead to train wreck later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:23 PM
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Nothing wrong is having standards, I think women should be taught that she can earn her standard of living instead of relying on a man. It may takes hard work and sacrifices but in the end she can actually date someone based on love and emotional connection instead of dating someone for conveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:20 PM
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They are all different groups and different subcultures but I can’t help that some of them share similar ideologies when it comes to gender. Many of them believe in traditional gender roles like women should be submissive, feminine to serve masculine men etc. Although their goals and intention is very different, some wants a traditional lifestyle others want to live glamorous lifestyle and others just want to follow biblical roles but at the end many of them believe the men is primarily breadwin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 03:19 PM
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This just reinforces my idea that there are plenty of high earning men don’t want Housewives. When I was in business school, the men on top of their classes had high potential income because they were interning for Wall Street. When they ask about their dating partner, many of these guys said a women not working or has no career ambition was huge red flag. They want to maximize their household income, because living in NYC was expensive and they have high standards for their lifestyles. When con…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 02:12 PM
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While first I am too old to be trophy wife because according to your community I am past my prime. If a guy is funding my lifestyle, I will have to dress, act and be a certain way based on what he wants. I wouldn’t able to be myself. If I was destitute and have no other options then yes I would submit to his own every needs and hopefully he will provide the life I want. But the thing is that I am not destitute and I can afford the lifestyle I want. It’s not luxuriously extravagant like Hollywood…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:43 AM
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Old rich men interested in teen girls is fucked up and gross. If you marry a person that’s had significant more money and status than you, there will always be imbalance of power in the relationship dynamics. Being a trophy wife also have consequences because since a man is funding you, you always have to be a certain way to fit his desires and submit to him and most people don’t want to deal with it. A women’s identity is more than who she marries. It appears that you think as long a woman is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:21 AM
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You have no control over what people do. The problem is picking the right guy will solve all of your problems is not true. And you never know if the guy you pick is forever going to be “right” becuase people change. Well if I am buying something and it’s going to be out from his money he probably would want to know what I am buying and depending on his financial status, he may/may not afford it. if he’s is one of thoese small percentage of guys who don’t have budgets because he’s filthy rich, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:35 PM
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Nothing wrong is budgeting, i am realistic about my spending habits however I feel like if I absolutely want something I will go out of way to earn it. That’s why I make money. I personally would hate it if my quality of life/standard of living is dependent on a man’s income.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:06 PM
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Picking the right guy doesn’t guarantee anything. Even if I was a perfect wife (which prob never exist for anyone), I have no control over his actions. If he decides to cheats on me or leave me I don’t feel that is my responsibility to change him or forced him to be with me. Even if I picked the “rightest” guy, I still wouldn’t feel comfortable depending him for my standard of living or quality of life. Even if he loves me unconditionally and have my interest at heart, everything I do that requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:29 PM
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I have to bring something up. I noticed people who are in traditional relationships where men works and women stays homes and takes care of home. I noticed like a lot of times the women don’t have much sayings on how the money is spent or make major decisions regarding about finances. If your lucky enough to have a spouse that’s earns a lot and is generous, there is still limitation and compromises. If you believe that your husband is smart and have family’s best interests at hearts by putting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:49 PM
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Thanks for the response I appreciate your insight. Life insurance can cover a lot but I still think financial dependent on someone is big risk. If he’s the one paying for insurance you might not get to choose which premium or plan so if he picked the cheap option the insurance may not be covered enough if bad events do happen. So i don’t all know the women were tradwives in the women shelter but some of these women were happily married at some point but for some reason their marriages went south…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:23 PM
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That’s why people should sign prenups before they get married unfortunately there are some naive gullible rich men like athletes and musicians get screwed over. Truly financially smart guys know how to protect their assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:08 PM
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Yes of courses. Married women can work too but to tell women not to work or get educated becuase sponsored by men is bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:56 PM
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Many of them stay home short term after kids since their employer gave them maternal leave. They prob worked before they had kids I highly doubt majority were all unemployed openly looking for a man to fund their lifestyle so the men just put a ring on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:49 PM
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I know, I meant the about a certain community that targets young women to become tradwives I wasn’t aware they are separated from the tradcon. That was my mistake but I can’t fix the title so I put disclamier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:47 PM
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Well I learned something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:36 PM
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Don’t both of them subscribed to the red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:33 PM
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I don’t personally but I am concern about the toxic message they have on young impressionable girls and yes there’s actually the red pill community for young women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:30 PM
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How do you explain the TRP women thread on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:29 PM
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I wouldn’t say increasing, I think depression have always exists and people are open open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:42 PM
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That is your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:49 PM
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The women on these sites aren’t necessary model beautiful either and since according to you if men only looks for beauty and youth, they could of join a dating sites only feature models since rich men have more options. But plenty of successful men join dating websites that feature successful women. What about rich women who married men that earn less. I know a woman who has high networth She fell in love with a average dude and now their married and has a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:23 PM
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How do you explain elite dating websites that caters towards successful people. To join these websites you have to make certain income and have certain job prestige and women are not exclude from these requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:07 PM
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That’s not all men how do you explain powerful men like George Clooney married successful lawyer Amal Clooney. Plenty of men are attracted to successful women as well in my personal experiences. There are men and women who don’t want kids and they are happy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:19 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:39 PM
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When you exclude people you don’t like based on values, I can understand and overlook. But exclude people based on things they have no control over like skin color or their parents is messed up. Not everyone from the lower social economic class acts “low class” either. Many of them are polite and pleasant people they just don’t have a lot of money to live a certain lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:16 PM
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I wonder how long that will lasts. Considering American youth are more woke and often acknowledge things like privileges and income inequalities and inclusiveness. The type of people only associated other people that belongs to certain social class is seen as extremely pretentious by the majority even among the by some rich people. There are plenty of rich people that remain discreet on purpose to avoid snooty people like that. Even country clubs are declining because less rich people esp younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:49 PM
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I also noticed in new generation, more men regardless of social class are marrying outside the circles that also means more old money men are marrying women that was once considered “unacceptable” in their circles. One example is Prince Harry And Megan Markle and the royals are seen as the epitome of old money high class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:21 PM
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That’s a huge generalization. Plenty of western women I know are not like that and plenty of non western women are not what you describe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:19 PM
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Interesting but there’s one thing I would like to add. It’s not only the low class rich men who has sugar babies. There are also “respectable” old money that do it as well but many of them are more discreet so they can maintain their reputation. These men basically live a double life where they pick the good girl as wifey and the bad girl as fooling around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:24 AM
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I would say sugar babies are contributing for their companionship and their time spent with their men maybe just not the same as tradwives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:39 AM
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I don’t think that’s necessary true. There are plenty of conventional beautiful women who have trouble maintaining relationships due to the fact their personalities are too much for the men they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:19 AM
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I know plenty of men did filed for divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:12 AM
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Some married women do a lot of housework and they may or may not go to work but there are also married women who hires nannies, maids and they don’t work nor help in the household. I am talking about the latter. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that nor being a sugar baby but I am confused why some tradwives degrade sugar baby when they don’t work nor contribute to household while both of their lifestyles are funded by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:11 AM
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Tradwives do it after marriage. Don’t tradwives sometimes pressure their husbands to buy a better car and upgrade to a nicer home
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:59 PM
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That’s true but husband cheats and file for divorce too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:54 PM
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Dating and sugaring sometimes becomes blurred in relationships if there’s is significant income differences between the couples. One rich partner will spoil you by taking you dining and buying expensive jewelry you can’t afford but he expects something in return and it’s almost always something sexual based on what I observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:50 PM
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Not all marriages last though, some people marry a person purely to get money or stay until they to get inheritance. I know plenty of mail order brides got married for conveniences or green cards, they leave after they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:45 PM
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Tradwives are permanent until husband filed for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:32 PM
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